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ADVICEmorganKxoxo/r/RedPillWomen12/06/21 04:47 PM
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ADVICEmorganKxoxo/r/RedPillWives12/06/21 04:41 PM
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I think this man would be acting the same way regardless of how you looked. He sounds like he has a problem with alcohol. You look fine. This is a problem with this man, not you. Your responses indicate you aren’t very confident in yourself. I’d work on that. There’s nothing wrong with your appearance, you’re very pretty. You just chose a shitty guy
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/22 03:24 PM
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That happened to my husbands car when he was parked right outside of one of the nicest restaurants in town in the nicest zip code in the city. Your husband is looking for excuses. Car break in happens EVERYWHERE. You guys need to go to therapy and figure out the actual root of what’s going on. This is a very bad reason to stop loving someone and to be so hostile, you aren’t in the wrong here
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/22 02:31 PM
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Get a new doctor. That isn’t medical advice. He had no business saying any of that.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/22 06:57 PM
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Like someone else mentioned- looking through your posts, you need to seek a therapist not a husband. You’re so young, and you can’t be a good wife to anyone if you’re not secure in yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/22 12:20 AM
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I’m sorry but he doesn’t seem interested. Leave him alone. He will come to you if he’s interested, but work isn’t the best place to be looking to date someone.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/22 04:46 AM
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These are all wonderful steps you’re already taking. I’ve been with my husband for 10 years. I would highly suggest prioritizing learning about men, how they think and what they need and want. The book Love and Respect is great as well as Fascinating Womanhood. Men value peace and cooperation above almost all else. The way you treat your husband is vital and once I learned that and read those books and put it into practice, my marriage has flourished and we are both happier than we’ve ever been.…
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/22 03:04 PM
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You are right to be concerned about fertility with age. However at 30 you’re fine. So take a breath. Your fertility begins to decline at 35. But that doesn’t mean you’re doomed, many women have children after 35. I’m 28 and due with my 1st in July. My advice to you- start therapy NOW to deal with those fears you have. Order the book Taking Charge of your Fertility NOW and read it. The most healthy, young couples have a 20% of conceiving each cycle with perfect timing. It can take a healthy coupl…
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/22 03:51 AM
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I follow baby bumps and it’s pretty good. Although there’s usually a lot more ‘my stupid husband/partner’ posts than I care for.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/22 12:09 AM
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This is our 10th Valentine’s Day together and we’re married so we don’t do as much as more new couples. BUT, we are going out for a nice dinner tomorrow (we’ve learned our lesson to avoid going out on the actual day). And on Valentine’s Day I have a card for him, 2 shirts I bought for him, and he’ll come home to a nice dinner with the house cleaned, candles, music etc
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/22 12:58 AM
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You’re 17 and you want to be married next year? You’re setting yourself up to just marry the first guy who comes along and potentially set yourself up for a very bad future. It’s great to be marriage minded, but you need to be spending your time right now focusing on yourself. That means working through issues you have, reading books about healthy marriages, bettering yourself, developing life skills etc. how’s the time to be preparing to be a great wife NOT aggressively seeking a husband. You s…
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/22 05:42 PM
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Use that motivation to keep your eye on the prize. In order to have a baby, ideally you need to be comfortable financially. Babies are expensive. You also need a loving and supportive STABLE relationship ideally a marriage. I’m 28 and due with my first in July. I met my husband at 18, got married at 22. We’ve worked hard, bought a big house, and traveled all over the country and taken a luxury tropical trip every single anniversary. We now have enough money and a stable enough life that I get to…
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/21 10:30 PM
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My husband keeps changing his mind on where he keeps certain types of clothing and it’s very annoying. So I took his workout clothes out of the dryer and just tossed them on the bed for him to deal with and was gonna have a talk with him later about how he needs to be more organized so I can put things away. I had forgotten about it, then he came home from work, went upstairs and came back down and said “that was so nice of you to set my workout clothes out for me so I could just put them on and…
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/21 12:48 AM
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Basal body temperature! Sorry
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/21 03:07 AM
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Tracking bbt is the only way to be sure your ovulating. Opks track your LH surge and are positive when your LH is highest. But you can have a surge and not ovulate. So you need to be tracking your temp to confirm
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/21 02:18 AM
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Start tracking your cycles in depth. you should be tracking your cycles in the fertility friend app, and taking your bbt every morning. You will then have a chart of temperatures every cycle which will clearly show you when/if you ovulated and the length of your follicular and luteal phase. Like someone else mentioned- reading Taking Charge of you fertility is essential and a must read before you do anything else. Definitely get your hormones checked later, but arm yourself with data and charts …
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/21 02:16 AM
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I think it’s in the way you word it. Don’t call her crazy, and try not to bad mouth her. but him know you and her have a history and you feel like she is going out of her way to cause trouble and lie because she has a problem with you for other reasons.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/21 12:57 AM
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Wow this sounds eerily similar to a situation I was in a few years ago. Be honest with him, he may believe you, he may not, but give him the backstory you gave here and leave it be. I’m almost certain she is doing this because she was jealous of you and wants what you had. I ended up having the cut the girl I knew like this completely out of my life and block her on every platform because it was getting scary like this and she was messaging my exes too. Trust yourself and your character. She may…
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/21 11:46 PM
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Just leave. Why would you want to be with a man you don’t want or love? No one who really loves their partner is okay with them sleeping around just cause they don’t feel like having sex. Of course the idea makes him sad. He’s a person who’s been committed to you for 9 years. This isn’t just about sex. You’re telling him “I don’t care about our relationship. I am unwilling to try to fix it. And I care so little about you that I’d rather have you have sex with other woman than to have to have sex…
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/21 09:21 PM
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This is why. We see this sub as wholesome and a great community of women. The extreme feminist left sees us as misogynistic oppressors who are holding women back simply because we value traditional values
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/21 05:36 PM
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No. You’re a very healthy weight for your height
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/21 07:12 PM
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Taylor Swift is 5’11. She’s very feminine. ALL models are 5’9 or taller. I wouldn’t be concerned. Women care about men’s height more than men care about a womans
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/21 12:27 PM
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You aren’t even officially dating him? Absolutely do not test him asking what’s wrong if he isn’t even committed to you as a boyfriend
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/21 06:58 PM
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Boyfriend - absolutely not. Finance- possibly if the wedding is close I lived at home and my fiancé’s lease was up 1 month before our wedding, so we got a new place together and lived together 1 month before we got married. Honestly it was perfect because we had the chance to physically move and get the house settled before the wedding, but we were only living together for about 20 days before so it was still brand new once we got married.It’s been great ever since. 6 years now. But my husband i…
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/21 03:04 PM
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Church/ through friends. I worked at one church, he worked at another, all the musicians in town know each other so we eventually met through that group. I was 18, he was 22. This was 10 years ago
/r/RedPillWives30/07/21 03:23 AM
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This isn’t what you want to hear: but you shouldn’t have had sex with him. You gave him sex without requiring a commitment from him first in order to make sure he was the type of guy you wanted. He’s also 10 years older. you can talk with him about him this, but in the future this is exactly why most women here do not advocate having sex immediately
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/21 01:19 AM
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Age shouldn’t be your deciding factor. However, until you’re about 25, I’d be VERY wary of men more than like 6-7 years older than you. If a man is significantly older (like 26+ when you’re 18) there’s a reason they aren’t with a woman their age, and it’s never a good one, it’s a huge red flag.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/21 02:46 AM
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I love the matching sets from Amazon. I wear leggings with a matching crop top and it looks really cute while also being comfortable, while also being dressed
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/21 03:38 AM
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You should never take advice from someone who isn’t living the outcome you desire. I know it’s difficult to not let it hurt when it’s your mother, but trying to steer clear of the topics about traditional lifestyles may be necessary with her
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/21 03:43 PM
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Look at it this way- does your mother currently have the life/relationship you aspire to have? If you want your life to look different from hers, then don’t let her criticism get to you. If she doesn’t have the best history with marriage it’s easy for her to be cynical towards you. She is your mother and I firmly believe you need to find a way to maintain some sort of relationship, even if it is not a close one. But if her life doesn’t reflect what you want, then don’t listen to her
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/21 02:43 PM
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I don’t think anything like that is healthy. I saw this comment and think it’s very true: “well the easiest way to determine this is by reflecting on your social encounters: If you were bullied or insulted about your looks specifically on the regular, by various people, then chances are you are below average. If you are constantly complemented by both men and women, treated kindly by strangers (e.g. hold the door for you, free drinks at a cafe etc.) and hit on by many people, chances are that yo…
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/21 11:42 PM
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I’m not sure I understand your question. Have you never been in a relationship before? Do you mean the difficulties of meeting a quality partner and becoming exclusive? Or the difficulties of maintaining a healthy long term relationship?
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/21 04:16 PM
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Ahh good to know! Okay then those are all fantastic signs of his commitment. I was a terrible cook when I met my husband and he was already pretty talented at it. I found baking to be a bit easier for me since it’s so exact and started by making his favorite cookies or desserts and getting comfortable in the kitchen that way. Pastas are also an excellent thing to practice if you’re a vegetarian! There are so many great recipes on Pinterest and sauces are actually surprisingly easy to make from s…
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/21 09:06 PM
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There is nothing wrong with being a homemaker. I’m 28, and we are trying to start a family, I will be a sahm. However, I don’t think it’s smart to quit your job and just stay home until you are married. While yes you may be engaged and married soon; the reality in this moment is that you are not. I’m a big advocate of boyfriends do not get husband privileges. When he legally commits to you is the time to stay home, and let him provide while you care for the home, not before. I got married at 22,…
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/21 02:13 PM
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People have given good advice, but I wanted to focus on the birth control: you need to be on it for 1 full month BEFORE it is effective. You also have to take it perfectly. Meaning at the same time every single day. Missing 1 is enough to make the entire pack ineffective. You also should be using condoms in tandem especially if he hasn’t been tested
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/21 11:53 PM
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You can usually adjust any recipe you find online to accommodate 2 portions. I find this easiest with stuff like tacos, pastas, chicken, instant pot meals etc
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/21 03:29 PM
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I don’t think you’re asking for the unreasonable to want a man to pay for the first few dates. If your goal is to be with a man who can provide and allow you to be sahm, I think that’s great: however this probably isn’t the right man for you then
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/21 06:43 PM
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Ummmm most women in this sub are conservative
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/21 06:41 PM
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Unfortunately I don’t think there’s a good way to backtrack on this. You made the mistake of offering to split the first bill, which for a man who jumped at that opportunity, it’s gonna be REAL hard to get him to all of a sudden pay. If he wanted to he would. He would not have accepted your offer to split the first bill if this was something he valued. I by no means think the man needs to pay all expenses all the time, especially when you’re students, BUT I think the first few dates, until you a…
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/21 05:36 PM
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You can broach them topic with him and let him know your thoughts, but I would do only that. No convincing him and tell him you’re still fine with the agreed upon timeline unless he has changed his mind. You aren’t even married yet, personally I’m a huge advocate of having some time just you and your new husband. Since you’re still young, no matter how long you’ve been together, marriage is a big deal and has its new set of challenges. It’s important for you to learn with each other through this…
/r/RedPillWives15/06/21 08:12 PM
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You’re absolutely right. And that’s a great idea about just spending my extra time at home on a side hustle while I can. I think that would definitely make me feel better about turning it down. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/21 12:42 AM
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This is a great point. I didn’t factor in the money I’d now be spending on gas and those items
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/21 12:40 AM
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I’m a graphic designer. So marketing
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/21 06:11 PM
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Okay then you DO have allergies and that’s a real, legitimate medical issue. You shouldn’t feel bad or weak for that at all. Your original post made it seem like it was preference and solely for looking a certain way. but this is different. This is an obvious food allergy/sensitive. There’s nothing you should be ashamed of, just let your partner know and you both should be able to live without it interfering much, most men don’t care what you eat as long as you don’t dictate what they eat.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/21 09:58 PM
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If you don’t have legitimate food allergies this sounds like an eating disorder and I’d urge you to get help. You keep saying how you ‘need’ to eat this diet. Why? All restaurants serve salads. Your post sounds very similar to the way my anorexic sister thinks. Having an extremely restrictive diet that isn’t for medical reasons is not healthy. Plenty of beautiful, fit, high value women attract and keep men with no issue and they do not live by such restrictive standards. They just eat healthy fo…
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/21 05:46 PM
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The fact he has a child and his ex has serious problems is a lot more concerning to me. You are only 21, he is significantly older. You need to think long and hard if you want to become a mother figure to this 8 year old, this is a lot more serious than just an age gap, there’s a child involved and will make the relationship very different than if there was not. You have to weigh if that’s something you really want
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/21 01:53 PM
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I’m a woman, but there’s plenty of men who don’t want children. You just have to be honest and up front that you are looking for a man who is 100% sure he does not want children
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/21 06:09 PM
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You’re sabotaging yourself. Stop wasting your time with guy 1. Guy 2 is obviously the better choice. If he explicitly told you he wants the same things you do, WHY are you choosing the guy who has been unclear over him? Take a long hard look at what you really want. Because from an outside perspective this is a no brainer
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/21 08:05 PM
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Midsommar, Eden Lake, The Loved Ones and The Invitation are probably my faves!
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/21 12:10 PM
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It doesn’t matter. Does your taste in that music affect how you live your life and treat others? Or is it just something you enjoy? I’m a massive horror/disturbing cinema fan. You’d never guess it by looking at me or my life. I don’t hide it. I let people know that’s what I’m into if it comes up. You shouldn’t be altering your interests to make people like you. If you genuinely love something who cares. My husband HATES horror. It bothers him. So I do not ask or expect him to watch with me, it’s…
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/21 03:22 AM
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Do everything you can so that he doesn’t have to lift a finger at home. All chores, all cooking, all errands, all laundry. That’s no small task and if you are doing those things you shouldn’t feel guilty at all. Besides, being a housekeeper IS a real job that people get paid for
/r/RedPillWives02/05/21 01:44 PM
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This! I put this on every day while I cook dinner.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/21 06:27 PM
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It isn’t really your place unfortunately. She’s going to have to learn the hard way. Any attempt you make to help her is probably going to feel like an attack to her. And you run the risk of her cutting you off in favor of her boyfriend and viewing you as ‘disapproving’ of their relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/21 03:04 PM
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Yes you should start off small. I’d start with a chunky heel on a sandal or boot, then get a kitten heel, then a midsize heel about 3 inches (chunky or thin) and then stilettos. I’ve been wearing 4 inch heels DAILY for 10 years and stilettos still aren’t something I’d feel comfortable in for any extended period of time. You also need to get COMFY heels. Like any shoe, they aren’t created equally. Between finding a comfortable shoe and adding a gel insert if needed, helps can be comfier than many…
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/21 01:27 PM
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You need to have your own space. If it all possible. My husband has an office/gaming room and he’ll go relax and play video games for a few hours and I’ll read a book or watch tv down stairs. It’s important to make sure you have physical space to spread out as well as emotionally/mentally set expectations around alone time. For us it came pretty naturally so I wouldn’t stress to much about it
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/21 10:21 PM
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I also really like southern living. Something about it is incredibly calming
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/21 12:54 PM
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I’ve been wearing a lot of leggings and sports bras. Comfy, easy, but still sexy. (I just have a husband. No kids) A step up from pajamas while still being comfy enough to not be ‘real clothes’
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/21 12:25 AM
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Lighting. Lighting in a home makes a huge difference. Make sure blinds are open in the day and let in a lot of sunlight. In the evening mood lighting is great. Having multiple lamps is great. We invested in Phillips Hue to dim and change the temperature of our lighting. It made our rental SO much cozier, and you can just take the bulbs with you when you move
/r/RedPillWives25/03/21 01:59 PM
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Live below your means and get serious about budgeting and managing your finances NOW. Listen to podcasts, read blogs, get budgeting apps. I got married at 22. I was an intern at a big company and my husband worked at a church, so needless to say we were NOT making much money at all. We saved as much as we could, and lived on a budget. We lived in a small apartment in a crappy part of town. 5 years later we both are in much better jobs, own a home, have no car payments and have a very cushy savin…
/r/RedPillWives23/03/21 02:02 AM
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I met my husband at 18, married at 22. We’ve been together 10 years and are happier than ever. I have a degree. I have a career, I have friends. I have a complete life and set of interests and hobbies that are completely unrelated to my husband. I absolutely did not ‘miss out on freedom’ I got the opportunity to do everything I wanted (travel, go to shows, etc) with my best friend. It’s totally fine if that’s not the life you want. But this sub isn’t the place for you.
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/21 05:48 PM
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So there’s a lot to unpack here. But it sounds like you have a pretty good grasp of your mental health and body image issues and recognizing they are dominating your life. I don’t have any advice other than you need to seek therapy and professional help. You are not worthless, you are not repulsive but you do need to work through these issues for yourself. Red pill ideals aside, you need to get yourself to a mentally healthy place before you can even begin to worry about marriage or a partner
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/21 02:54 AM
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I’ve made an effort to stay attractive and look good. I haven’t gained any weight since our wedding five years ago while I do wear comfy clothes at home more than I’d like to admit, I still make an effort to always do my hair and makeup when my husband is around
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/21 12:32 PM
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Move on. You have 0 commitment from this guy and he’s flat out telling you he WILL be in contact with his ex and he will drop you if you have a problem with it, not her
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/21 06:07 PM
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Yes you should accept gifts gracefully even if you don’t want them. By you not accepting it with grace and thankfulness it could easily come across as entitled, ungrateful or stuck up, even if that’s not your intention. Have you two taken the love languages quiz? Cause it sounds like gift giving is very meaningful to him while it isn’t to you. Doing this quiz and reading the book together could help you both understand each other’s way of showing love better. My dad shows affection by giving gif…
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/21 05:44 PM
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It’s older and it may not be as exciting, but Mr Rogers is the best IMO
/r/RedPillWives25/02/21 05:54 PM
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You are not a failure if you do not succeed in one of those fields. You will be a failure if you live a miserable,unhappy life just to do a job that makes other people happy. the most important thing is that YOU are living a life and working in a field that is meaningful and fulfilling to you. The rest of your life is a long time to dedicate to something only to impress others
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/21 11:06 PM
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No you shouldn’t say anything. Tbh you both are acting immature regarding such a minor situation. He shouldn’t be annoyed and you shouldn’t be offended. Take a step back and evaluate the actual important parts of this relationship. Are things good? Is he a great partner? This is SO minor and juvenile and what a 16 year old would be upset by. I would honestly let this one go and focus on more important things. Is this a symptom of a larger issue? Is his annoyance at your feelings common? If so th…
/r/RedPillWives18/02/21 12:55 AM
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Of course! Hookup culture wasn’t for me either. I absolutely don’t advocate for being 100% reliant on a partner, that’s not smart. I have a college degree in graphic design and marketing, and have been working full time since I graduated (I just got lucky that it’s a remote job). I don’t make crazy money, but I make enough that in an emergency and I had to be on my own I could definitely afford my own place and all expenses. And I’ve chosen to stay in a lower paying role so I can be home. In the…
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/21 02:16 PM
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I think you need to decide what you really want. Do you want to meet a guy, get engaged and get married? OR do you want to continue your studies and focus on a very demanding career? unfortunately having both of those things are pretty difficult and unlikely. You are obviously very dedicated to your education and career, and men probably see that. Obviously I don’t know you so I’m just guessing, but you may come off as too ‘smart’ or ‘too busy’ for guys and so they don’t pursue you because you’r…
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/21 03:25 AM
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I really liked Love & Respect. It gave me a really good understanding of what men and women each need in a healthy relationship. And Fascinating Womanhood is an excellent book as well. It isn’t primarily about marriage, but that book really grasps and expands on most of the values and beliefs of this sub
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/21 10:57 PM
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They will be appreciated by the right person! You are taking great steps to have the life you want! I was just like you and let my husband when I was 18. Married at 22, I’m 27 now and we have a fantastic marriage! I never engaged in partying or drinking or anything like that, but it was so worth it. Those weren’t things I valued, a husband and a loving family was. So I focused on that, and now I have it. Don’t let anyone make you feel bad or less than for not engaging in the typical culture for …
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/21 12:41 AM
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I’m seeing way more red flags from you than from him. You’re texting. A lot of men are bad at texting. Have you had phone/FaceTime conversations with him where he does this? In person? If he has only done this twice over text give him a damn break or just move on. He owes you nothing at this point and that’s a very bizarre thing to bring up as a ‘concern’ to him.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/21 11:17 PM
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It isn’t weird, and she won’t think it’s weird even though you’re married to her brother, I promise. BUT if you are opposed to lingerie as a gift, why don’t you get her a cute pajama set? There’s so many cute satin cami & shorts pj sets out there and I think that would be a great compromise without your gift looking out of the norm for this party
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/21 01:35 AM
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You left out the part about being a #bossbabe and running your own ‘business’ from your phone.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/21 07:09 PM
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If I’m home alone while my husband is at work? Usually no. But I try to always have at least a little makeup on when he’s around. It just makes me feel prettier
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/21 05:58 PM
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Yeah I think you’re sabotaging things before you even meet him. He asked you what you like to do, NOT to plan the date. He’s probably trying to gauge what you’re comfortable with due to the lockdowns. All you have to do is give a list ‘going on walks, getting coffee, going to the park, picnics, hiking, etc’ I see that as more of a get to know you and gauge the situation vs you planning. I think that gives him the perfect opportunity to then take charge
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/21 01:36 AM
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That’s awesome! Those kinds of things are going to be the most important :)
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/21 08:16 PM
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I don’t think it’s that important for you to work a 40 hour high paying job to attract men. BUT I do think it is a concern as to why. You mentioned your anxiety disorder and adhd prevent you from it. My concern is that those things don’t stop at work, but how do they overflow into your ability to handle a marriage, manage a home, manage children (if you want them) etc. men don’t care about the job but they will care about your ability in those other areas that are also affected. I wouldn’t worry…
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/21 07:48 PM
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Does he have a nice wallet? I got my husband a really nice, hand made leather wallet engraved with his initials and he loves it. I think the company was Southern Trapper
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/21 05:21 PM
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Yes, if you’re serious about him you should communicate how you feel. You should never have to question whether it’s normal for someone to forget your birthday
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/21 03:23 AM
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He’s 18. Despite you repeating how serious you two are, it’s obvious you are serious and he is not. He forgot your birthday. After you mentioned when it was multiple times. I wouldn’t fault him for not remembering a 6 month anniversary cause honestly that isn’t important. But he isn’t being mindful that it was important to you. But from your post it seems like you’re much more serious than he is. People make time for the things they prioritize. He isn’t prioritizing you. He sounds really immatur…
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/21 01:09 AM
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Because they have no real or legal commitment to you. They can up and leave at any moment leaving you with literally nothing. Marriage provides security and the safety of that not happening, if he does leave, in the case of a marriage she will not be left with nothing and has legal rights to assets and income.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/21 01:44 PM
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Personally, I wouldn’t until you are married. Doing this without any legal commitment is putting yourself in a bad situation if things go south
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/21 09:21 PM
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There’s a happy medium. Keep your boundaries up before he commits, but don’t be so hard to get that he gets frustrated and assumes you aren’t interested
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/21 11:55 PM
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You can do whatever makes you happy. Personally I wouldn’t. It seems tacky. That’s not something I feel the need to advertise to strangers and it seems immature to me Edit: I am a housewife
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/21 01:09 AM
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Nope. My husband is respectful and doesn’t refer to me as a bitch. He also isn’t an animal and we eat at the table
/r/RedPillWives21/01/21 07:03 PM
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I think there’s a healthy in between of saving sex for someone you really love and are committed to without waiting until marriage. But the only thing that matters is what do YOU think. That’s great your mom is so open about sex but you don’t have to do anything you don’t want to. And I personally agree with you that having sex with a bunch of guys isn’t the best path
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/21 01:58 PM
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I think the most important thing is just to be open. You seem to be very focused on statistics and the negatives. You may be right, but you also may find that one in a million guy, you never know. Don’t worry too much and just be open and optimistic on who you may meet
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/21 03:45 AM
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So first off, you seem to be setting yourself up for failure by thinking you will not meet your husband in college and you’re too young. You are not too young. I met my husband at 18, he was 22 (I’m 27 now, together 9 years married for 5). You can absolutely meet a serious life partner in college, you just have to date like minded men. You shouldn’t focus so much on those statistics as you might be sabotaging yourself. As far as your list goes, I don’t think that’s too picky at all BUT it’s equa…
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/21 03:59 AM
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Wrong sub for this. But yes she really means she doesn’t want to hook up with you and only wants to get to know you
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/21 03:13 AM
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Like anything else, it depends. Anime alone isn’t a red flag if it’s treated like any other interest is. Is it excessive? Does he have a problem with it? We need more info.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/21 08:08 PM
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Nope. This isn’t a sugar baby community. I’d say like 5 years older MAX until you’re like 30. After 30 I’d say 10 years older max Remember there’s a reason if a successful, attractive older man has no prospects his own age. And they aren’t good reasons
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/21 01:46 AM
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Of course! I hope it didn’t sound harsh. I’m 100% in support of this lifestyle and am married to a man that makes it possible. It’s just so important that while you’re so young you make sure you are taken care of until the time comes to get married. You might meet your husband next week, or in 10 years. So in the meantime take care of yourself and work on growing into the best woman you can be ❤️ And I know you said you aren’t interested in the prestigious school, but girl that’s is a GREAT plac…
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/21 06:28 PM
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Okay you need to take a step back and look at yourself and your life. you need to work on yourself, and make sure you can support yourself first. If there is no man currently in the picture then you have 0 reason to abandon your studies and a career, you’re also only 17. You need to move forward with your education and get a job or develop a skill, by no means does that imply you have to do that career forever but in the meantime you do. If you are so desperate to get married to WHOEVER comes al…
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/21 04:58 PM
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Sewing is great, take into consideration things you could learn that would improve the life of you and your husband. So things like cleaning, caring for your home, planning ahead, being organized etc are all things that are beneficial to you and your husband. I like to approach my days with “what can I do today to make my husbands life easier?” Those things will differ for every couple, buts it’s a good place to start!
/r/RedPillWives02/01/21 07:25 PM
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I agree with the other commenter about how he is stringing you along with no intention of actually committing to marriage. Your post reads as if you’re talking about a 6 year old, not a man who’s close to 40. This is not normal
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/20 07:24 PM
11

Have you read Fascinating Womanhood? I’m half way through it now and see why it’s always recommended on this sub
/r/RedPillWives23/12/20 03:58 AM
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I have a pretty large chest, no butt though, but my husband isn’t a butt guy. and I’ve never been drastically different sizes so I can only speak from my experience for my body. I was also between 18-24 at my lowest weight so that also was probably the biggest factor in more attention.
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/20 07:04 PM
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I’ve never weighed over 130. But I feel like I got the most attention when I was slightly underweight. (110-115). I’m 122 now and feel way better at this weight and healthy for my height.
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/20 06:15 PM
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This is such a mess. You seem to have no grasp at all about what this sub is about because your actions are all out of whack. He isn’t committed to you after years???? He ‘needs’ a threesome? Girl open your eyes, HE DOESNT WANT TO COMMIT TO YOU. He is asking your permission to have sex with someone else since you aren’t good enough for him, and he’s probably been doing it behind your back but now doesn’t feel like hiding it and just wants you to let him have sex with other women. And you should …
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/20 03:40 AM
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I just started reading fascinating womanhood which is always recommended on this sub and I can see why. I definitely recommend it, you don’t have to take all the concepts from it but it’s a really good framework for marriage and just being responsible yourself and your own growth and how that will improve your marriage
/r/RedPillWives12/12/20 04:20 PM
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This is a massive red flag. Just cause you met him on this sub does not mean he gets a pass. This is SO minor and if he is this insecure about just showing you a photo, there are bound to be WAY bigger issues
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/20 01:21 AM
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Not the original commenter. But OP you sound very naiive about birth control. Please don’t have sex with anyone until you get a better grasp on different birth control methods and educate yourself on the effectiveness of each. Most people don’t use condoms while on the pill (IF IN A COMMITMENT RELATIONSHIP). It is possible to get pregnant while on the pill, the pill is 99% effective only when used correctly. That means if you miss a pill for any reason you are no longer protected for the rest of…
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/20 03:39 AM
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No this really isn’t the best option if you’re in college. Are you in the US? Many forms of birth control are covered under the ACA and are free to you. I highly recommend visiting a gynecologist and discussing your options. If money is the biggest issue, is there a planned parenthood in your area you could visit? They do provide affordable birth control even though I do not agree with most of their business practices. Or does your campus have a health center you could visit? They could point yo…
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/20 03:35 AM
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This is absolutely trust breaking and you are not crazy. The conversations he had with her are inappropriate when in a relationship, AND the fact that he KNEW you would be hurt if he hung out with her yet he did it anyway and hid it from you is very troubling
/r/RedPillWives27/11/20 07:09 PM
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Yes it was wrong to snoop, but this seems kind of suspicious. He’s shifting all the blame to you and making you feel like the one who did something wrong. But he has been talking with another woman, hanging out with her and talking about getting nudes from her? That isn’t okay. Is he taking responsibility for that and acknowledging he shouldn’t be engaging in stuff like that while in a relationship?
/r/RedPillWives27/11/20 06:36 PM
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I’ve been living in leggings and cozy sweaters. I look like I’m dressed but feel like I’m wearing pajamas. And definitely brush or do something cute with your hair and I never feel awake unless I have at least a little makeup on
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/20 08:50 PM
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Go to r/skincareaddiction You would use your normal moisturizer in the morning if it has spf. At night you should cleanse your face and apply the new anti aging cream and neck cream. You don’t need to use a moisturizer with spf at night, and you shouldn’t use a night cream during the day.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/20 03:33 AM
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RUN. This is not the kind of man you should be with. He’s almost twice your age and was willing to abandon his children and wife for a girl he’s been with for a few MONTHS. He sounds very manipulative and if you’re already recognizing that you aren’t financially stable and independent then he is 100% taking advantage of that. Please stay strong and move on, find someone of a higher character
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/20 12:59 PM
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Help create a relaxing place for him. You said you already cook and clean the house, that’s awesome. Does he enjoy playing video games? Maybe you could get him a new game for him to play and wind down. Does he like spa stuff? You could draw him a bath and turn off the lights, set out some candles and nice music and let him have a nice relaxing bath. Mainly just find out his love language and take action through those things to make his life easier. Also just try to be a safe place for him to ven…
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/20 05:30 PM
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Okay, DO NOT ENGAGE THEM. you need to ignore them. Do not feel about it. Men that will do that are the same men who will follow you and put you in a dangerous situation. Please please stop engaging with them. Pretend to be on the phone every time you walk by, anything. Best scenario is you just start taking a different route. It if not possible, IGNORE. You don’t owe them anything. You absolutely are not controlling the situation by engaging with them
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/20 11:50 PM
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It really depends on the person. My husbands entire friend group (of married, attractive, late 20’s, Christian, traditional men) ALL have tattoo sleeves. I think tattoos on men are very normal now and I definitely wouldn’t accept/reject a man just on that alone. Neck tattoos are getting up there with hand/face tattoos though and they may signal they’re a little less traditional. Any tattoo that can’t be covered by a dress shirt may mean they lean a bit more no traditional
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/20 03:28 AM
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I’ve been really into leggings and crop top sweatshirts with cute socks. I get to be cozy, but a form fitting legging with my shirt not covering my booty still keeps the outfit sexy while being really comfortable
/r/RedPillWives05/10/20 12:34 PM
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You’ve gotten a lot of good advice. Remember the women here are like minded, and trying to help you from a place of love and understanding. It’s awesome you like those things, those are great qualities and will be extremely beneficial once you are a wife and mother. HOWEVER, in the mean time you do need to work on yourself and how you can support yourself financially until you get there. You absolutely do not have to be a ‘career woman’, but you do need to work some sort of job you enjoy and dev…
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/20 01:31 PM
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Option 1 blouse with the pink short skirt looks best imo for a date when you’re 21. It’s classy, feminine but not stuffy.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/20 03:08 AM
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How did your boyfriend respond? And how old are you? It is a bit odd to be an adult and show people you really don’t know pictures of stuffed animals. Obviously you’re free to do whatever you want but i don’t really blame his friends. The important part is how your boyfriend responded to those comments and how he feels about it
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/20 04:07 PM
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I usually look at the people spreading that message and it’s pretty obvious I don’t want to be like them. They usually aren’t living the type of life I strive for so I don’t take it to heart. Traditional living isn’t for everyone, and that’s fine, but I just think it’s funny when so called feminists like to tell other women how they should live instead of letting them make their own choices. I also don’t really closely associate with women like that because our views just don’t align.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/20 02:15 AM
8

I use flowerbomb and absolutely love it. But I always got the most compliments on Coco Chanel Mademoiselle
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/20 02:06 PM
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That’s a very kind gesture. Don’t overthink it, send her the flowers
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/20 08:39 PM
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Okay so you and your mom are both right and both wrong. Absolutely nothing wrong with wanting a more traditional life WHEN THE TIME COMES. You are only 18, and you need to take care of yourself first. You may marry this man, you may not. You may get married at 20, you may be single at 30. You can not know. What you can control is your life. You NEED a career and a way to support yourself until the time comes when you are able to be a stay at home mom/wife. The most foolish thing you could possib…
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/20 02:40 PM
3

There’s different segments! I’m a graphic designer, for a national brand you would definitely recognize, so my role is to work alongside a marketing coordinator to create the design assets for their campaigns (such as emails, flyers, landing pages etc). most mid - large companies will have their own dedicated marketing department. The marketing coordinators get together all of the information and content they need to get the word out about the campaign. They review my designs, approve them and t…
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/20 12:31 AM
3

Have you considered marketing? There’s a lot of options out there for marketing coordinators and such with pretty good pay. I’m a graphic designer (with a degree in Design as well as Marketing) and work for a national company with a slew of young women who are marketing coordinators or managers. You just need a bachelors degree and it’s all pretty self explanatory I’ll add that the hours and work like balance will usually be pretty good too. My job is super low stress, pays well, benefits, and I…
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/20 11:48 PM
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He sounds great so far! It’s just a first date though so you don’t really know him yet. As far as what you should do: keep getting to know him! Go on more dates! Learn more about him, spend more time together!
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/20 08:41 PM
4

Blonde is is a sure fire way to make you look absolutely awful if your natural skin tone and features don’t suit it. That’s terrible advice. I have long blonde hair, I get highlights BUT I WAS BORN BLONDE. I have extremely cool toned fair skin and my hair was white as a child so light blonde hair suits me. But if you have a darker skin tone, or are warm toned, blonde could look extremely bad on you. Blonde hair is absolutely not a factor in attractiveness. You need to find what suits YOU and you…
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/20 06:29 PM
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My parents lived separate lives since I was about 12. I maintained a relationship with both although I am closer to my dad. I didn’t find it had any effect on relationships at all. I met my husband at 18, married at 21. He came from a great family, parents happily married, so he came in with an idea of what TO do and I came in knowing what I WOULDNT do and what to be aware of. Ultimately you are not responsible for your parents and you just have to take ownership of you and work on yourself to b…
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/20 11:10 PM
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We were always on the same page so that made it really easy to handle that! And not really for us, we had been dating 3 years so we were pretty used to each other. I got really lucky and were so similar that there really was no stress accommodating to living together in terms of anything negative. Really the biggest thing I encountered was managing time now that you’re living together. When you’re dating, you spend time together then go home and have time to yourself. It was challenging to reali…
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/20 10:39 PM
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You don’t need an argument. Don’t let your friends pressure you. All that matters is that you the man are on the same page, screw what other people think. A lot of people simple won’t be able to understand why you are choosing to wait, and it’s your job to make them understand. I didn’t move in with my husband u til we were engaged (actually 3 weeks before the wedding). I was 21 at the time, we’ve been married 5 years and things are great. We never had any trouble adjusting to living together an…
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/20 08:24 PM
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Only on dates with my husband. I have a pretty large chest and I never wear anything too low cut, but I’ll throw on something on the sexier side if we’re going on a nice date. Otherwise I wear pretty high neck stuff 99% of the time I’m out in public
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/20 02:39 PM
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I LOVE 90 DAYS!! Michael is sweet but they’re both in the wrong. Angela should not treat him the way she does, but she KNOWS he’s from a very different culture and chooses to still act as if he’s american. And Michael could very easily be done with her disrespectful attitude and find a nice Nigerian woman, but he stays....for some reason.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/20 11:24 PM
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This makes absolutely no sense. He has never had a job. Has no intention of getting a job. And wants you to be a stay at home mom? Does he know money will not fall into his lap? It’s one thing if he was also 20, but this man is almost 30 and has shown NO drive or ambition and has no ability to provide for you and a future family. Unless his family is filthy rich and he has an exorbitant trust trust, this is a huge red flag, absolutely do not settle down with this CHILD. And DO NOT try to convinc…
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/20 02:02 PM
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Did he give any reason as to why he rejected him? I do think it’s important to respect your parents BUT, if you two want to get married and have a solid relationship I think you should because you have children together. Ultimately what’s best for your children should dictate this decision more so than your father.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/20 05:20 PM
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That’s a great perspective. For me it really was the cliche ‘everything is amplified in marriage’, stuff that wasn’t a big deal in dating became a big deal in marriage due to our expectations and the shift in the relationship. Small things like how much time we spent away from each other with friends, expectations around sex, managing joint finances, and just living with someone. So I do think if we dated a while longer, then got married we would have faced the same challenges adjusting to marri…
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/20 12:40 PM
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I met my husband at 18 and got married at 22. So we had been dating for 4 years. I’m 27 now. I love my husband with all my heart and would marry him all over again BUT my only regret is that I did get married too young. I absolutely don’t wish I had more partners or had more ‘fun’ or any of that. I just wish we had dated longer and got married around 24-25. It’s absolutely insane how much you and your brain are still developing at your age. Our first few years of marriage were hard. I did everyt…
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/20 12:58 AM
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I love Marshall’s / TJ max for in store shopping. But I’ve had amazing success on SHEIN. Some stuff is obviously better than others so make sure to check the reviews/ratings. But I’ve gotten some really cute stuff for dirt cheap. Plus that have an amazon return policy and you can return anything for free
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/20 01:27 AM
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Yup!!! Just pair with a cute hairstyle, makeup and some feminine shoes!
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/20 11:05 PM
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That’s great. But this probably isn’t the sub for you. Do whatever makes you happy. Some women simply don’t want to have sex with men they aren’t in a committed relationship with. Live whatever lifestyle fulfills you, but not everyone is the same and some people value different things. Some women want to live more traditionally, and some dont. This sub is for those who want to, there are plenty of subs for women who don’t.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/20 06:46 PM
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There are VERY few things that objectively make someone unable to be attractive. Unless you have some sort of facial deformity, you need to focus on what you can control and work to improve your confidence. It sounds like you have major self esteem issues with your looks when you probably shouldn’t. Focus on improving your skin, learning makeup techniques that flatter your features and work on what you can control. No one cares if your face is symmetrical if you’re taking care of yourself and ra…
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/20 12:07 AM
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Weekend routines pretty much nonexist, but on purpose. My husband works a pretty stressful job, and I work from home. So during the week I’m able to cook, clean, take care of the house, do the shopping etc. so when weekends come, there are no errands or chores to do so my husband is able to really unwind and relax. We don’t have kids yet so that makes it easier, but yeah weekend routines involve sleeping in, cooking breakfast, relaxing, and then cooking dinner together to going on a date
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/20 08:59 PM
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If he has any feelings for her at this point it’s because of you. You won’t let it go and are forcing him to constantly talk about it. I’d be way less concerned about her and far more concerned about how you’re pushing him away. There is NOTHING suspicious about his comment, he was just telling you the facts, they were young and it didn’t work out due to that, that’s the reason, that doesn’t imply he still loves her. Do you know how EASY it is to get in touch with someone from your past now? He …
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/20 01:49 PM
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Stop idolizing these people. Focus on yourself. You never know the full story. They may appear perfect but you have no idea what their home life is like behind closed doors, what mental struggles they face etc. you can be the most beautiful person in the world and be deeply depressed and insecure inside. If they’re bullying you they aren’t ‘awesome people’.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/20 11:57 PM
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I don’t see it as false advertising. But personally I can’t recall a time I ever thought a woman looked better after getting that stuff done. If you’re under 35 I really see no point in messing with your face. I LOVE makeup and experimenting with it, but fillers and more permanent stuff isn’t for me. I’ll get Botox as I get older, but I see no need for it yet
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/20 01:46 PM
7

I’m a huge fan of extreme horror. Really throws people off because I fit the rest of the rpw to a T
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/20 03:21 PM
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So I see way more issues with your behavior than your choice of clothing. Making out with men at a club will always attract the wrong kind of person, regardless of what you’re wearing, that’s not a great scenario to be in. Tinder isnt exactly the best place to meet men looking for something serious. It is NOT hard to find modest clothing. Just take a quick look through HM, Uniqlo, SHEIN etc and yes there are immodest trends, there are MANY modest options as well. Modest doesn’t mean frumpy.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/20 03:36 AM
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You’ve been dating 7 months and expect a 2k gift? And not JUST a 2k gift but one that meets your ‘standards’. This post is full of red flags to me and I’d be running for the hills if I was this man. it’s great he’s well off and that your family has provided you with a great life, but you are expecting a lot out of a very new relationship
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/20 01:06 AM
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I don’t think you need to worry about going to college. It sounds like you have a good job right now, but I do think it would be wise to maybe start teaching yourself an employable skill to have in your back pocket for the future. There are plenty of things you can learn the basics of yourself online for free or get certified in. I work in marketing and there a ton of jobs that really don’t require a formal education and you could easily be qualified just by learning some basics online or doing …
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/20 12:51 AM
4

How about a cheese and fruit board? Some nice crackers, assortment of cheeses, grapes, berries etc
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/20 07:23 PM
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I can’t think of an instance where they would look classy. But maybe I just haven’t seen them styled properly?
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/20 07:34 PM
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You are correct a lot of men are there mostly for sex. It’s by far better to meet someone organically or through friends. I’ve never used a dating app, but my best friend has and I’ve heard nothing but bad things over the past few years about her experiences with it (and she’s used them all)
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/20 11:18 PM
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Completely understandable! Like with everything I think it’s just important to read your audience. If someone asks I say I like horror movies but then I read their reactions and determine whether we are gonna keep the conversation at a ‘oh yeah paranormal activity is was so scary’ level or if we can discuss the complexities of Martyrs. It’s all about gauging who you are talking to
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/20 01:41 AM
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You can have interests that don’t match your outer aesthetic, you just have to know how to manage and show them. I LOVE horror and true crime. I am very involved in the extreme cinema genre and am very interested in very disturbing material both real and fictional. However, you would never know it by looking at me. I am your stereotypical rpw. Long blonde hair, always done up, loves dresses, loves cooking for my husband, loves skincare and makeup, no tattoos. extremely feminine etc. I look like …
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/20 12:53 AM
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Nope, everyone has preferences! But it’s hard for me to believe that ALL high quality men OP has met only like blondes and ignore all other women.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/20 07:27 PM
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I live in a major city in the south and while I am blonde, the high quality men around me are married to women with an array of (natural) hair colors. You need to have whatever color hair flatters you and skin tone, blonde looks really really bad on people who’s tones don’t naturally lean that way. I’ve always been blonde, no trouble getting attention, but I actually dyed my hair dark brunette for a year, and that’s when I met my husband. I ended up dying it back to my natural light blonde becau…
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/20 12:45 PM
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Just because someone is a ‘catch’ doesn’t mean they are the person you’re meant to be with. It’s very alarming that he insisted on having your rapist at the wedding, I would think any sane partner would beat that guy to a pup if he ever got near you again. Not willingly invite him to your wedding. And that is NOT a conversation you just forget. Marriage should not be taken lightly and it shouldn’t be given up frivolously BUT it sounds like you knew all along this wasn’t the right decision and we…
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/20 03:10 AM
1

Just quicker. You can make the same meal but in half the time or less.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/20 01:57 AM
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I was like this is my early teens. It was the early 2000’s and I was the classic ‘punk’ girl who hated the ‘preps’ I only hung out with guys and ridiculed all things ‘girly’. Yet sure enough, when I started just being true to myself and realizing it was okay to like horror movies AND makeup and dresses, I started having a lot more success with men AND women friendships. Embracing my femininity alongside more masculine interests has been far more beneficial not only romantically but relationally …
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/20 01:43 AM
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Umm no guys don’t do that as a joke. And the guy was telling him to stop, sounds more like rape. This is really sketchy and it sounds like you don’t have a lot of other positive things to say about him. You’re so young you may want to move on and find a better quality man
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/20 01:01 AM
1

High neck a line dresses. Modest, feminine, and make you look dolled up with no effort
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/20 05:11 AM
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Him having lunches with her and talking with her on the phone is not acceptable behavior. He’s showing he doesn’t respect or prioritize you and is leaving a window open for his relationship with her. I would leave and find someone who isn’t so brazen about insisting on continuing a relationship with their ex Edit. This isn’t something you should have had to ask him to stop. A mature man wouldn’t be doing it in the first place
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/20 11:41 PM
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Awesome that you’re wanting to learn more. Birth control must be used correctly 100% of the time to be effective. That means if you’re on the pill, you HAVE to take it every single day around the same time. You can’t forget a day or 2 and expect nothing to happen. I’ve been on the pill for years with no pregnancies because I take it very seriously. I would just keep researching your options and success rates and be acutely aware what correct usage actually means
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/20 05:06 PM
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Do you have a tjmaxx or Marshall’s near you? I’ve gotten loads of cute dresses there for like $15 a piece
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/20 03:10 AM
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I’m 100% in support of cosmetic procedures, BUT only when taken extremely seriously and done for the right reasons in a modest amount. I think ANYTHING on your face before like 45 is a really bad idea, it’s so easy to overdo and never looks good once it’s noticeable. Like others have said, I’m not seeing any good examples so I’d just wait until the technology is better at least. I’m all for natural looking results and investing in yourself, but I do believe things like fillers and other facial p…
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/20 12:36 AM
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I’m no expert in the surgery, it may have no affect, but it is something to research! But ultimately this for you and whatever would improve your quality of life! Personally, if it was me, I’d go ahead and do it unless I was planning on having kids in the next 1-2 years.
/r/RedPillWives13/05/20 01:47 PM
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There’s a lot wrong with what you said. You should seek therapy or mental health counseling
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/20 11:28 PM
8

You really think men in the west stop being attracted to women after 18? you absolutely should NOT be looking to move somewhere and marry young, that is a horrible idea. I’m 27, and married but I can assure you there is absolutely no shortage of high quality men who would jump at the chance of me being single. Take care of yourself. Keep in shape, and TAKE CARE OF YOUR SKIN, I can’t stress that enough. You have at least until 30-35 to be in your prime attractiveness and find a great partner who’…
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/20 11:24 PM
3

If it causes you pain and discomfort I would absolutely go for it. My only consideration would be if you are planning to have children in the near future as it may have an impact on breastfeeding. Also if you’re planning on having children soon you may just want to wait until after you’re done breastfeeding and your boobs have changed which they inevitably will.
/r/RedPillWives12/05/20 08:11 PM
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Just look up ‘easy’ recipes on Pinterest. Like literally just type the word easy before recipes and follow them to a T. Pasta sauces are really easy, there’s plenty of great one pan meals, just start small, find a recipe that looks manageable to you and try it
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/20 09:19 PM
3

Uhhh absolutely not. Why aren’t YOU going on this road trip???? I would never be okay with this and it’s extremely sketchy.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/20 02:59 PM
27

You can believe whatever you want, but the age gap is a big deal and it’s very sketchy. You are barely legal, he is absolutely a predator. There’s a reason he isn’t with a woman his own age, and it has to do with him, not you. You shouldn’t try to save this relationship. You should get out now while you’re young and meet a high quality man that you can share a life with.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/20 08:38 PM
20

Yeah that’s not normal at all. You need to be around different men
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/20 01:39 PM
57

Learn practical skills! Cooking obviously, but also things like time management and prioritizing things. I really like the YouTube channel Mrs Midwest for videos on femininity. I’m 27 now and am a very different person than I was at 21. I got married at 22, and my advice would be to really take a hard look at yourself and start improving. For me, and most people at 21, immaturity is huge, so just learning to handle my emotions, and reactions, and mental state with a more mature mindset would hav…
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/20 09:58 PM
5

He seems very interested in how the house looks. Have you asked him what he likes I in terms of style? I know you said French coastal country, but is there a tanglible example he can show you that he loves? From there I’d literally just copy a room and then find things that match. Work smarter not harder, you don’t have to reinvent the wheel, replicate pictures of Pinterest rooms you two love that all fit together. I love the California desert chic look and am obsessed with cohesion in our home.…
/r/RedPillWives14/04/20 04:01 AM
1

If you’re religious, college clubs or church is a good place. I met my now husband online when I was 18 through mutual friends we had at the same church.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/20 04:04 AM
31

How old are you? You sound very young. No grown man is looking for an ‘e girl’ to marry just based on that. Those are all great hobbies and the important thing is that YOU enjoy them and they add value to your life. Your hobbies aren’t supposed to impress men and high quality men know that. My hobbies are very different from my husbands, and that’s a good thing. You should have common interests but hobbies aren’t about impressing men.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/20 02:12 PM
2

If you keep watching it will become very clear why everyone (but Lauren and Kelly imo) are single. Especially Jessica.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/20 09:39 PM
11

Make yourself a 10. There’s SO much you can do to become more attractive both inside and out! Don’t downgrade the men you’re interested in, elevate yourself!
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/20 02:16 AM
10

I used to be the same way. I still LOVE makeup and enjoy the process of putting it on. It makes me feel more confident and productive and put together and I still wear makeup daily. But it used to be a safety net where it isn’t anymore. What helped me love my bare face was to get into skincare. By learning to take care of my skin and listen to what it needed I began to appreciate it. Because I put so much care into taking care of my skin, I’m actually proud of my bare face and have a new appreci…
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/20 12:22 AM
7

Ahh makes sense! Lucky!!! I’m very fair with blond hair so my eyelashes disappear without mascara haha. Other than that, I agree with everyone about owning it and working on feeling sexy! You’re probably in reality sexier than you think, we always tend to downplay ourself and be our worst critics!
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/20 04:19 AM
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Really basic, but you mentioned you only wear bb cream and lipstick. What about adding mascara? I think mascara makes the biggest difference in most women’s makeup and really gives you a feminine look that can distinguish you from ‘cute’ to ‘pretty/sexy’ because eyelashes are very very feminine
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/20 04:12 AM
3

You need to see his results, not just take his word for it. It’s possible you got a false positive. But it’s extremely unlikely you both will, if his comes back negative you should get retested, but if his is positive - I think you know this isn’t the kind of man you should put up with
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/20 02:05 AM
4

Have you expressed your feelings to him? I personally feel like there’s a big difference in watching random porn and following specific Instagram models. It seems more personal and I would feel uneasy about that as well. I would hope that if you’ve expressed feeling hurt by that he would understand and make changes, but if he doesn’t care, then you may be right to reevaluate the relationship and if you’re okay with his actions
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/20 08:16 PM
8

Start wearing sunscreen every day. Also check out r/skincareaddiction it’s amazing
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/20 10:28 PM
29

I personally believe your education is important, especially if it’s something YOU value. Would you have considered dropping out and finding a new path on your own? If not then I think it’s worth pursuing your option of reaching out to those places in Belgium about continuing your education there. Your boyfriends sounds very supportive of you either way, have you considered maybe dating for a while longer and then having a long engagement? That way you wouldn’t have to feel like your spending yo…
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/20 08:42 PM
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You’re only 19. I would move on and find someone who will value and cherish you. Huge red flags that he’s talking about fucking other women and justifying cheating. You should be concerned and hurt, that isn’t something you should tolerate.
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/20 04:55 AM
1

Yes I was referring to the regular subreddit. I don’t really know much about the history of it, but I 100% agree with THIS sub and 100% disagree with the male red pill sub and would never be with a man who participated in it. I really feel like they shouldn’t share a name since they are not at all the same beliefs in my opinion
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/20 08:29 PM
6

Idk about anyone else here, but I personally feel like the rpm sub doesn’t actually have anything at all to do with this sub and mindset. Thought they share a name I don’t think they could be more unrelated in belief and values.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/20 08:01 PM
6

You have to find what works for YOU or you’ll never stick to it. My husband did keto for about a year and loved it. I did it for 3 days and felt like I was dying. I’ve been doing OMAD for about 6 months and LOVE it. I restrict no foods. Nothing is off limits, I enjoy everything I want to just in a specific time frame. I hate breakfast anyway so that’s a non issue, and I just skip lunch and eat a big dinner around 5. Nothing crazy, but I average about 1200 a day. I’ve dropped almost 10lbs (but I’…
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/20 01:55 AM
3

I’ve been loving the look of turtlenecks this winter. Cozy, warm and very classy.
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/19 03:39 AM
4

Can you get him tickets to an experience or event? A concert, a sporting event, etc, that he’d enjoy? is there something cool in your town you guys could go do together? I’m a big fan of experience gifts vs material ones
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/19 09:58 PM
6

You are 100% missing the point everyone is trying to get across to you. It’s the same thing as showing up to a funeral in clubbing attire- wrong place for the outfit. Doesn’t mean the clubbing outfit is ‘bad’, it would be perfectly acceptable for a club, but a funeral isn’t the place for it. It’s inappropriate given the situation. Same thing applies here.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/19 10:42 PM
15

That isn’t true at all. It’s about the timing. It’s inappropriate to give someone you NEVER MET BEFORE and don’t have a relationship with AND you’re in a brand new relationship with her son. It makes you look bad, not her. If I were her I’d be very wary of my son dating a woman who throws money around so flippantly and seems so obsessed with making a status statement. Honestly I really don’t think this is the sub for you.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/19 08:54 PM
6

And that’s great that you’re such a thoughtful gift giver. That isn’t the problem. It’s that this wasn’t the appropriate time to give that gift.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/19 08:51 PM
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It’s the timing that weird. Dating for 2 years and you guys are close? That’s a great gift! But you’ve been dating her son for 2 months and never met her before? It seems a bit strange and definitely not ‘normal’
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/19 08:49 PM
5

Just start small and lean how to make basic things! Pasta dishes, tacos, chicken etc. Pinterest is a great tool to easy recipes. Also BUY A DIGITAL MEAT THERMOMETER. They are dirt cheap and it has literally saved me in the kitchen. You don’t need to guess if something is under or overcooked.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/19 11:29 PM
5

I love Masterchef and the great British baking show. I watch them for fun though, not as tutorials but they definitely do inspire me to bake and cook new things and give me ideas!
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/19 02:51 AM
10

Pinterest is a fantastic resource. You can even look up recipes for 1. Just take it 1 dish at a time. Look up a recipe for a dish you enjoy and cook it, In addition, I love watching cooking shows just for fun, there you’ll pick up on general techniques and stuff that will help you later. Like with anything in life, it requires practice! Don’t get discouraged if you mess up, just keep trying!
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/19 11:28 PM
20

You’re only 15, don’t be too hard on yourself. Teen boys will make anyone feel bad about their looks. Even if you’re a 10/10 some teen boy is gonna have something ugly to say. Focus on loving yourself and improving the things you can control, get into a good skincare routine, learn to cook, focus on your health and fitness, expand your hobbies and skills, get involved in volunteer work, etc. you have plenty of time to find someone who will love you for you. Being a teenager is rough, it will get…
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/19 11:04 PM
8

He could be lying, or he could just be a workaholic. We don’t know him, I’d give him some more time, get to know him more and then have an honest conversation with him about expectations if you don’t see any red flags
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/19 08:16 PM
40

There is no right or wrong answer. It all depends on what is too busy for YOU. If you’re okay with his hectic life, that’s amazing. But if not, you’re only going to grow to resent him. He needs a partner who can be patient with him and be okay with probably living a very lonely life at times while he deals with the demands of his work. If you don’t see yourself being okay with that, that’s 100% okay. you are no better or worse for being able or not being able to tolerate that level of commitment…
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/19 07:54 PM
9

Probably not the best way. But I spend about 5 minutes looking at home decor on Pinterest and instantly feel bad about my house and it makes me want to clean.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/19 02:16 PM
63

Nope. Huge red flag. You’re worth more than that and I’d get out and find a man who isn’t so easily ‘bored’
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/19 10:06 PM
2

If you are religious get involved in a local church or campus ministry.
/r/RedPillWives20/09/19 06:50 PM
48

He’s not your boyfriend and he hasn’t contacted you in a week? You don’t owe him anything. If it would make you feel better you can let him know you enjoyed spending time with him but aren’t interested in pursuing anything further, but honestly I wouldn’t bother.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/19 11:34 PM
4

I’m sorry but this is terrible advice. There are plenty of high quality, high value men who are NOT the frat type. you should be looking for motivated men with clear goals and confidence in who he is, not some affiliation with a frat. I’m glad you found a great relationship OP but that isn’t the only type of man in college who is worth pursuing. Most of the high value men I knew in college, or that my friends are now married to, were serious about their goals, they pursued difficult majors in th…
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/19 12:04 AM
2

I think it highly depends on what exactly you are changing. Are you changing something fundamental to your identity like a life goal, or a hobby you love or certain family/ female relationships? Or are you changing things what will make you both better? I have learned to cook. I used to be a terrible cook but now I really enjoy cooking for my husband and I. I used to be very lazy and messy, but I’ve worked on forcing myself to get into a habit of tidying up more regularly. I also have worked to …
/r/RedPillWives02/09/19 11:59 PM
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Make sure you they are very involved in homeschool groups and other activities with other children, especially when they are that young. My husband was homeschooled his entire life and is extremely social and can become quick friends with anyone. I was homeschooled through middle school and went to public school in high school and realized I was very far behind. So just make sure whatever curriculum you use is up to par with the grade level. From my own experience, I hated being homeschooled. Bu…
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/19 02:33 PM
13

Not everyone is supposed to be blonde. If it doesnt suit your skin tone it’s going to look very very bad. I believe everyone looks best with a variation of their natural hair color. I am naturally blonde, I had white hair as a baby and it darkened to an ashy dirty blonde as an adult. I dye my hair a white platinum because I am very fair and it matches the hair I had as a child and it suits my natural undertones. I went brunette for a year and it just didn’t look good. Even though I’m very pale a…
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/19 05:00 AM
5

I wouldn’t worry at all about inexperience. I’d focus on making yourself the best version of you and that will attract men. Take care of your body and get in shape, that’s a HUGE part of being attractive. Work on your self esteem, you are valuable and you need to treat yourself as such. Work on loving yourself and taking care of yourself. Wear clothes that flatter you, maybe try a new hair style. But don’t beat yourself up over inexperience, that’s the last thing I’d be worried about, men aren’t…
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/19 02:57 PM
18

You have to be an adult and address it. Giving him the cold shoulder and sleeping on the couch is only going to make things worse and make him irritated with you. I’d approach him calmly and try my hardest to give him the benefit of the doubt: “honey, I know you think it’s silly and you may not even realize, but it makes me feel really uncomfortable to watch you be so affectionate and complimentary towards another woman”. My husband is a touchy person and I had to talk with him about how it made…
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/19 12:20 AM
8

It’s good for him to be concerned with money management. However, you are not married and you aren’t using any of his money, therefore it’s yours to do whatever you want with. If he’s showing controlling aspects in other areas as well it may be a pretty big red flag
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/19 06:15 PM
2

I have never had a problem getting attractive men to like me. I’ve been with my husband for 8 years and he was and still is very very attractive, in good shape, takes care of himself, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/19 04:11 AM
4

My mother, my aunt, and my other 2 aunts on my dads side, and my grandmother are all thin. There’s nothing that makes you unable to stay thin after you have children. Like this poster said, many mothers most likely just stop putting themselves first. But with dedication to fitness and watching what eat there’s no reason you can’t be thin. Sure a baby changes your body, but that doesn’t mean you are destined to be fat
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/19 12:43 PM
8

I wouldn’t stay with a man who treats animals that way. There are plenty of shelters that take unwanted animals. Take this as a lesson about how easily he’s willing to abandon a difficult situation. I’d get out now and go find the pet
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/19 09:34 PM
16

I don’t think you need to trash your whole look, maybe you could just experiment with adding more feminine touches. Wear heels with skinny jeans and a leather coat. Maybe wear a more form fitting top under a coat or opt for a skirt instead of pants. I think you can keep your style, just incorporate more ‘girly’ elements to it.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/19 01:31 PM
5

Follow r/muaonthecheap for great deals on beauty Elf is a great drugstore brand, essence, milani, nyx, but it really depends on the product. you can do some research over at r/makeup addiction and search for best drugstore foundation, mascara etc.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/19 01:59 PM
4

Ben Shapiros podcast is my favorite for politics
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/19 01:29 AM
20

If he won’t let you pay on a date find another way to treat him. Bring him coffee, or cook for him or pick up dinner from his favorite place. Men like to lead and pay for dates but they also like to know they aren’t being taken for granted and that you are thinking of doing nice things for them too
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/19 12:04 PM
21

I wear a full face everyday and have never had ANY men be deterred. My husband loves that I look flawless and done up when we go out but can just relax with him bare faced at home. Men aren’t that dumb to not know women look different without makeup
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/19 01:58 AM
5

I believe 90% of women can look absolutely stunning the the effort and right products put in. You say you take care of your weight which is great, a good body instantly makes you attractive. If you don’t like your face, make sure you find a good skincare routine to get yourself a good base, and start watching makeup tutorials on YouTube and learning about different products and techniques. You don’t have to use a ton to learn simple tricks to really improve your looks.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/19 01:57 AM
21

This is reconstructive surgery and I think you should absolutely do it if it will make you feel better about yourself. I don’t see this as shallow AT ALL
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/19 10:38 PM
7

I’ve been blessed with good skin, so I don’t know, but you may find some good info on r/skincareaddiction it’s a fantastic resource and everyone ever there is very knowledgeable. A good skincare routine can help with your problem spots and boost your confidence
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/19 02:41 AM
1

Definitely! Mine are all nude shades but some are glosses, some are matte, some are liquid, but they are all shades that flatter my skin tone and I personally like the variety
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/19 08:22 PM
2

How ever many you like and look good on you. I have about 30
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/19 05:44 PM
2

Mainly I watch my diet. I only have coffee for breakfast, and I skip lunch and I eat a regular dinner and sometimes dessert. As long as I stay under my 1300 calories a day I’m good and I still get to enjoy food I love. I’ve been lazy this month but usually I got to the gym 3 times a week and speed walk on a high incline for 30 minutes during my lunch break.
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/18 11:23 PM
7

6:30- wake up, do my skincare, makeup and hair (I shower at night) 7:45- talk with my husband while he gets up and gets ready for work 8:00 tidy up the house and feed our cat before i leave for work. Husband does IF as well Keto and likes to make his own lunches since they’re usually just snacks he keeps at work. 8:30 arrive at work and have a coffee, text husband that I love him 12:00 I don’t eat lunch so I go to the gym over my lunch break most days or do our grocery shopping 1:15- work more 5…
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/18 02:34 AM
2

Gym - $150 per year Hair trim and color - $150 every 8 weeks Hair products - $50 a year Makeup- $500-700 a year Skincare - $200 a year I never really actually keep a budget for that stuff, but that’s a safe estimate.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/18 12:05 AM
6

Clubs are not where you’re gonna find a quality long term partner. Other people have mentioned better options. Hang out in a cafe or coffee shop and read a book in a nice part of town instead. Or participate in local events where there are people your age. From a red pill perspective; the club is the last place you should be looking
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/18 08:11 PM
3

Join a book club, or an exercise class, or volunteer somewhere. Find a way to get out of the house and around other women who stay home. It will give you something to do and help you meet new people
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/18 09:41 PM
10

I agree! This sounds gorgeous and classy!
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/18 12:44 AM
1

Unfortunately not in my case, I’d love to not take the hormones, but without them I’m doubled over in pain for 2 days, and can’t function. This had all been happening since I was 13, at 18 I started birth control to treat them and they went away. I went off it for 2 months to see what my body would do and the cramps came back just as bad. I’m one of the unlucky ones :/
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/18 03:52 AM
1

Yes, I take birth control pills for 2 reasons. 1. I started taking them before I was sexually active/met my husband because my period cramps were causing me to miss school. And 2. My husband and I want to wait to have a baby and enjoy our life together not worrying about pregnancy yet and just enjoying each other.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/18 01:47 AM
2

Depends on your lifestyle. Do you eat well and work out? If so then 112 may be fine, but if you aren’t very active and don’t have the best diet I’d focus on a lifestyle change to drop maybe 5 lbs and just be healthier.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/18 03:26 PM
3

I wake up and do my skincare: the Ordinary caffeine serum, drink elephant vitamin c serum, moisturizer, a little rosehip oil under eyes. I do my hair while that sinks in. Then I do my makeup, full face: primer, concealer, foundation, setting powder, bronzer, contour, eyebrows, eyeshadow, eyeliner, mascara, blush, highlighter, setting spray. Lipstick Same routine every day. Takes 45 minutes
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/18 10:41 PM
3

This is a great suggestion! For going lighter try to find a salon that uses Olaplex, it will protect your hair from damage while being bleached. I have platinum/white hair almost down to my butt with no damage.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/18 10:54 PM
2

I would go lighter, not darker. I have dirty blonde hair naturally (and my skin. Sounds similar to yours) I went brown and the upkeep was a nightmare, the roots are so much worse if they are lighter than the rest of your hair. Maybe you could try a nice ash blonde balayage or baby lights? I have white/ashy blonde hair now and constantly get compliments on it, and it’s easy to upkeep (8-10 weeks between touch ups) because my natural color compliments it.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/18 10:52 PM
7

First off, every single thing you listed is either temporary or can be fixed! The acne and braces will be a waiting game, but only a few months, and then that’s a HUGE improvement right there that will boost your confidence. Just keep practicing with hair and makeup by spending time on YouTube watching videos and then just practicing and replicating what you watched. It’s a lot of trial and error but eventually you will get the hang of what looks best on you. As far as being awkward, I’m a VERY …
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/18 10:49 PM
9

This is good advice. If he does have an eating disorder you cooking for him and forcing food on him will not go well. Notice, talk to him because you care and are concerned, be there for him
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/18 10:17 PM
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House. You don’t need an expensive wedding for it to be special
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/18 06:16 PM
5

You can wear jeans and a T-shirt, just wear a cute shirt, or tie it up for some interest, wear shorts and a cute flannel, just still make sure your hair and makeup look nice.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/18 11:09 AM
4

Since you seem pretty good at eating well when you plan for it, why not make plans for splurges? Maybe say you’ll get pizza with you’re SO Friday night, so you say no to the treats at work cause you want to enjoy the pizza? And definitely share your struggles with your SO, let him know your goal and that you want to look the best for him and for him to help keep you accountable to eating well. He will appreciate that
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/18 11:25 PM
2

What the hell are you talking about?
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/18 02:33 PM
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THIS. You sound really immature and definitely had unrealistic expectations. You chose to have kids with her, it’s no surprise that changes a woman’s body. But what are YOU doing to be a good husband? How are you taking care of yourself and leading? You sound like you have no interest or care for her outside of her body and I’m sure she can sense that. It probably makes her resent you and treat you poorly if she senses you have no respect for her outside of her looks. If you only care about how …
/r/TheRedPill01/09/18 06:13 PM
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Not expecting him to do things for you, but constantly look for ways to serve him. My husband pointed out how I’m always asking him to turn off the fan, bring me water, throw this away, etc. tiny things that I didn’t notice, but he felt like o was ordering him around since I did t enough, so I make an effort to do those things for myself and ask him what he needs and I’m return he is now looking for ways to serve me since he isn’t being nagged about it
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/18 09:31 PM
10

Definitely, although I translate ‘submissive’ into wanting to serve my husband and put him first. In turn it makes him want to serve me and we have a win win situation where we are both looking out for each other and practicing being less selfish for the sake of the other person.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/18 09:43 PM
3

My husband and I love going to an all inclusive resort in Cancun/ the Caribbean. it's relaxing and SO easy. You literally have to worry about nothing when you're there, it's a perfect way to reconnect while having nothing to do or worry about except spending time together, relaxing on a beach and eating and drinking whatever you want.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/18 01:38 AM
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Followed it after watching the red pill, didn't realize it was a different thing, never unsubscribed, this post showed up on my front page this morning.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 08:17 PM
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This is the problem with all my female friends. It's why I'm the only married one. My goal was to be a good wife. To take care of my appearance and body and never let myself go, respect my husband and his leadership and learn to take care of the house and cook. Granted he helps because I work full time too, but i had an attitude of how I can serve him. And lo and behold, those girls made fun of me for not going out and partying with them, meanwhile guess who's married to a great guy and guess wh…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 02:43 PM
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