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| 3 | Women on this sub?I had actually intended to finish my post by saying that I don’t think the effect of the language is at all intentional, I really don’t. And you’re right, I don’t spend nearly as much time on this sub to really know. The posts I’ve read and commented on were completely innocuous. It’s honestly been a valuable perspective that I never had before. | /r/seduction | 24/04/19 01:34 PM |
| 7 | Women on this sub?I stumbled upon this sub and assumed it was co-ed before realizing it was mostly men asking for dating advice. I see other women occasionally comment or post. I don’t think there are a lot of active women in this sub because a lot of the content is around being a ‘pick-up artist’. I think the language around that sort of thing tends to dehumanize women while all the alpha/beta shit isn’t really doing men any favors either. But that’s just my perspective | /r/seduction | 24/04/19 10:40 AM |
| 2 | when it is time to ask her home?I wouldn’t be fucking anyone after sitting on a couch at McDonald’s tbh | /r/seduction | 23/04/19 09:51 PM |
| 3 | when it is time to ask her home?Most women are operating under the assumption that a dude talking to them is trying to fuck them. You really don’t need to be so preoccupied by making that obvious. Sex jokes are kinda tacky and more likely to backfire. When you say cafe I’m thinking like a coffee/lunch date? Try dinner/drinks in the evening, that’s a little more natural. I’ve never thought a dude was too soft or indecisive they’re usually too pushy and desperate so try to go with the flow a little more and stop constantly plann… | /r/seduction | 23/04/19 09:13 PM |
| 8 | How do I make my intentions clear? Is it douchey to sleep with someone who has a crush on you?It isn’t douchey to sleep with someone if they have a crush on you and they’re older, rational and confident. But if she’s young enough to still be a virgin then you’re just going to hurt her feelings. And if you take her virginity that will always be her story and having sex with a short girl really shouldn’t be worth it. There are a lot of short girls in the world. | /r/seduction | 19/04/19 11:24 AM |
| 1 | What is that turns you on?I feel like I find men sexy for different reasons depending on the guy. As far as superficial things I think it’s sexy when a man takes care of himself. Gets a good haircut/shaved/has some sense of personal style/eats well/active/good posture Those are just things that would maybe attract me to someone right away but I’m not hanging around unless they’re confident (but NOT pushy or unkind to others) if they’re funny and have a good sense of humor about themselves, if they have an interest that t… | /r/seduction | 18/04/19 12:38 PM |
| 2 | Feel like a failureShe’s nervous too, don’t sweat it | /r/seduction | 18/04/19 05:37 AM |
| 8 | Feel like a failureYou feel like a failure because a girl asked for your number? You didn’t ask for her number because you weren’t confident and you’re bothered by her asking you because you’re insecure. Don’t let yourself be emasculated by something so petty. She’s confident and knows what she wants and that’s awesome. | /r/seduction | 18/04/19 05:29 AM |
| 0 | When is the age gap too big?TOO YOUNG. She should be hanging out with her 18 year old friends. Just barely graduating high school (still in high school?) maybe getting her first full time job or starting college. She’s barely an adult and probably doesn’t even pay her own bills yet. And it doesn’t matter how ‘mature’ she seems SHE ISN’T. I imagine you’re either finishing college or have been supporting yourself for awhile now. You’ve probably been in the world dating and hooking up. You should leave her to date and make mi… | /r/seduction | 18/04/19 04:44 AM |
| 4 | Starting to think about exclusivity. How do I handle this?Well by ‘not casual’ she means she’s looking for a relationship and commitment. However, three dates seems pretty quick to be committing. So, what do you want? If you want to keep seeing other people then tell her you don’t want a relationship and move on. If you want to keep seeing her, I think it’d be fair to tell her you’re interested in a relationship but would like to take things a little slower but eventually you’re gonna have to ‘shit or get off the pot’ | /r/seduction | 17/04/19 12:48 AM |
| 1 | How to have sex with a woman WITHOUT dating them even ONCE ! WORKINGNone of this is gonna hold up in court | /r/seduction | 16/04/19 04:42 PM |
| 2 | How to have sex with a woman WITHOUT dating them even ONCE ! WORKINGAlso, I don’t know this guy so maybe that’s how he’s wording this kind of situation. But that situation seems innocent enough. Like I said, women are ALSO sexual beings JUST LIKE MEN. We get turned on by things. So understanding how to make an ordinary event be sexual is fine, that isn’t being manipulative. ‘This is how you become sexy to women’ ‘This is how you trick women against their better judgment to fuck you’ Two very different things. | /r/seduction | 16/04/19 02:40 PM |
| 2 | How to have sex with a woman WITHOUT dating them even ONCE ! WORKINGYikes Did you know that.. women are also people. Not walking vaginas. Not conquests. And that they’re also capable of orgasm? Because I’m sure you’ve never contributed to one | /r/seduction | 16/04/19 02:26 PM |
| 3 | How to have sex with a woman WITHOUT dating them even ONCE ! WORKINGI know English isn’t your first language but you’ve gotta stop saying shit like, ‘manipulated women into having sex’ Do you like being manipulated into doing things? Women also like sex, you don’t need to trick them into it. | /r/seduction | 16/04/19 02:17 PM |
| 6 | How to have sex with a woman WITHOUT dating them even ONCE ! WORKINGWell as a woman, I think it’s creepy af to lie and create a fake scenario to lure a woman who doesn’t know you to your home. Just invite her over for Netflix and chill so she knows the deal and you aren’t lying. I just think you’re asking for trouble with shit like this | /r/seduction | 16/04/19 02:13 PM |
| 2 | How to have sex with a woman WITHOUT dating them even ONCE ! WORKINGHahaha so true | /r/seduction | 16/04/19 02:04 PM |
| 6 | How to have sex with a woman WITHOUT dating them even ONCE ! WORKING‘Bait women to your home’ We aren’t animals. Ya know, a lot of women are happy with casual sex if someone makes an effort to actually get them off. You don’t need to work so hard to trick them into having sex with you. Kinda pathetic tbh | /r/seduction | 16/04/19 01:53 PM |
| 6 | One night stand adds me on Facebook, but doesn't reply, or read, my simple hello. Been a day. Did she add me just to show me she isn't interested? Or is she trying to be cool and game.She may not even have Facebook messenger on her phone. I don’t, so sometimes I go weeks without checking/responding to messages there. | /r/seduction | 15/04/19 02:51 PM |
| 19 | Rejected a girl and now I feel like an assholeI think if you dated her that you’d resent her and not let it go so I think you’re doing both of you a favor by accepting her apology, letting it go and moving on | /r/seduction | 14/04/19 08:55 PM |
| 0 | Rejected a girl and now I feel like an assholeAlso I know that this post really isn’t about this but I can’t let it go because I want you to feel differently about this— Who cares that she dated another woman? It’s allowed to be a secret, it’s her life. Sexuality is fluid and some people exist really far to either end and some people exist some where in the middle. It shouldn’t be a red flag and you’ll be a better person and partner if you aren’t distracted by that kinda thing. | /r/seduction | 14/04/19 08:34 PM |
| 31 | Rejected a girl and now I feel like an assholeI don’t think there was anything wrong with you telling her that. You only told her what she did and essentially how it made you feel. Did you feel like her apology was sincere? Are you interested in her or feel like her character has changed? | /r/seduction | 14/04/19 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Ladies of r/seductionGood posture, charisma, great sense of humor, eye contact, comfortable leading/guiding a date without dominating/controlling situations(being controlling is WEAK) being good at things, anything. Maybe liking books/reading, motorcycles, cars, music, drawing/painting/photography, cooking, carpentry, traveling, knitting! Whatever! having something you’re good at that you can talk about and relate to others creates and shows confidence which is sexy af. A man is confident when he doesn’t take himsel… | /r/seduction | 13/04/19 03:39 AM |
| 2 | Ladies of r/seductionI don’t know tho maybe that guy got laid all the time anyways hahaha I guess if you think looks are everything than you’re tryna hook up with the hottest people you see. And that’s cool if that’s what you want out of sex. But I think my way has been more rewarding. Especially because sex with male 10’s very rarely ever care about how to get a girl off. | /r/seduction | 13/04/19 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Ladies of r/seductionIf I were to go to a bar and there were a couple conventionally hot dudes I would definitely notice them but if they’re with a friend who’s making me laugh, confident, maybe buying drinks without being cheap about it, that’s the guy I’m going home with 100% of the time. Not the guy that’s puffing his chest out tryna be an alpha but can’t even hold a real conversation. There are exceptions to everything and I really understand that but women want someone who is kind and makes eye contact and asks… | /r/seduction | 13/04/19 01:27 AM |
| 1 | Greetings Everyone - I need some clarityWhat a nice fucking message. You are exactly the kind of guy women want to date and spend time with. | /r/seduction | 12/04/19 05:48 PM |
| 2 | Greetings Everyone - I need some clarityNo way! It doesn’t mean don’t ever do anything that doesn’t get someone off, it means that it’s helpful to know the winning formula. Doesn’t mean you cant experiment, try new stuff together, watch porn together and get ideas whatever. But through all that, you’re still gonna check in with your partner. | /r/seduction | 12/04/19 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Greetings Everyone - I need some clarityI whole heartedly agree. But as someone who has admittedly faked before when I first started having sex. It’s because I was with someone who wasn’t a good listener and was insistent when I knew it wasn’t going to happen. It’s a terrible habit that should be abolished for a lot of reasons. Also when I was much younger I didn’t have the confidence or even real experience with myself to know! When I was growing up my guy friends were like, ‘this girl didn’t want to have sex with me what a prude!’ O… | /r/seduction | 12/04/19 04:48 PM |
| 2 | Greetings Everyone - I need some clarityPlease know that I’m speaking generally and everyone is different. So GENERALLY getting off for women is really a mental thing. So even if everything is going right sometimes it just won’t happen and I’ve had guys get a little insistent because they really want it to happen. Which I understand but at a certain point you’re feeling pressure and then it’s really never gonna happen so she might say that and if she does than move on to have sex or whatever and try again next time. | /r/seduction | 12/04/19 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Greetings Everyone - I need some claritylol and when he says ‘twice’ I’m sure they faked | /r/seduction | 12/04/19 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Greetings Everyone - I need some clarityOh my god no. This is where all this alpha shit kills you guys. I’m all for a guy being confident and having a dominant personality but getting off is often far more personal and unique for women than men. So you have to ask! When a man asks me and really listens that is far greater evidence to their confidence. No dude has ever been successful with me without asking and maybe watching a demonstration | /r/seduction | 12/04/19 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Greetings Everyone - I need some clarityThe answer to that question will be different for every woman you’re with. Slut shaming has stunted a lot of women’s relationships with their own sexuality so sometimes even they don’t know! My advice is to just ask. Make sure she’s comfortable and feels safe to say no. I cannot speak for every woman but generally, don’t be a jack hammer unless she tells you she likes that. That is the most common and biggest rookie porn move ever. Experiment with alternating rhythm and tempo. And the clitoris i… | /r/seduction | 12/04/19 04:15 PM |
| 4 | Greetings Everyone - I need some clarityAs a woman, we don’t care. I have never known a woman to care. I’ve been with guys who I’d assumed were super experienced but sucked in bed. Had no concept of female anatomy or even cared to create a mutually pleasurable experience. Pretty much just replicating what they’d seen in porn which doesn’t work for like 95% of women. And I’ve experienced the inverse. Experience doesn’t necessarily matter. Just ask what she likes. | /r/seduction | 12/04/19 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Bad reputation at school, known as a weird kid and basically am wondering what the hell I should doHonestly just be yourself. High school is rough af but it’ll be over soon and even people who seem like they have it together really don’t. Be active, take care of your body, eat well, be genuine, have hobbies/interests and everything else will fall into place. College or full time job after high school is gonna put you into a new environment with new people who were also probably weird in high school and are also hoping to move on. | /r/seduction | 12/04/19 12:25 PM |
| 1 | As a teen, is wearing smarter looking girls to teen parties or club nights too much or is that attractive to women?As a woman- I think it’s always better to be over dressed than under dressed. Plus I just think that sounds like a dope outfit. Women love a guy with fashion sense and who wears something other than the predictable. Trousers are awesome | /r/seduction | 12/04/19 12:14 AM |
| 7 | This is why I hate womenYour fake stories from throwaway accounts are getting boring | /r/seduction | 11/04/19 07:25 PM |
| 3 | Ladies of r/seductionThe men I’ve dated have all been different physical ‘types’. but what is usually attractive immediately is having a good sense of humor, confidence and kindness. Someone that takes care of themself, goal oriented and has hobbies. It doesn’t matter how physically attractive a guy is if he has a shitty sense of humor, can’t laugh at himself, treats others like crap and has no confidence. | /r/seduction | 11/04/19 01:08 PM |
| 4 | How to make a man turned on by the idea that I’m young?The title of your post is terrifying. | /r/seduction | 11/04/19 02:57 AM |
| 4 | I'm still really fucking angry after what happened SundayTry not to be so entitled. It’s a real shitty way to be | /r/seduction | 09/04/19 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Should I ask this girl out? Or move on.Exactly. If she passes on dinner just be polite and don’t behave any differently towards her and it won’t be awkward | /r/seduction | 08/04/19 03:10 AM |
| 0 | Should I ask this girl out? Or move on.You should ask her out because you’re into her and she laughs at your jokes so she might be into you too. She may kinda be dating someone else but they’re obviously not in a relationship so it’s whatever. | /r/seduction | 08/04/19 03:07 AM |
| 3 | Should I ask this girl out? Or move on.Absolutely ask her out | /r/seduction | 08/04/19 02:17 AM |
| 1 | Pulled this one from the first date...Maybe a physical relationship is all that she is interested in. Is that all that you’re interested in? Be honest and ask her if you want to know | /r/seduction | 05/04/19 10:35 PM |
| 2 | I fucking hate womenWhat you’re doing isn’t working for you. How long before you try something different. | /r/seduction | 05/04/19 01:08 PM |
| 8 | I fucking hate womenWomen are allowed to not be interested in you. And honestly it sounds like a few of these women gave you a lot more time and attention despite not being interested than they should have. I hope it isn’t a mystery to the men in this sub why women are often nervous around unfamiliar men. We’re afraid of desperate men like this who obviously hate and resent women with aggression bubbling just under the surface. | /r/seduction | 05/04/19 12:43 PM |
| 8 | I hate that I can't reach the cervixAs a woman, I have literally never heard another woman ever mention anything like that for any reason. They’re more like to mention if a guy never goes down on them or is even aware of the clitoris because that’s how the average woman gets off. Not by having their cervix stabbed. | /r/seduction | 04/04/19 01:23 AM |
| 2 | Is it cheating if you are not yet official?How would you feel if she was sleeping/texting/hanging out with other hot guys? That’s your answer If you want to hook up with other people than that’s cool, just be honest about it. | /r/seduction | 02/04/19 12:32 AM |
| 1 | I really fucking hate all women who reject meYou posted this yesterday. WOMEN DON’T OWE YOU ANYTHING. You are entitled to nothing from them. They are allowed to not want to fuck you if they are not interested. If a woman behaved that way it would be desperate and a turn off. Move on | /r/seduction | 01/04/19 12:33 PM |
| 3 | just fucked a friend of a woman who rejected meWut | /r/seduction | 01/04/19 12:51 AM |
| 1 | How do I become the guy women chase after?Men that are not confident/desperate tend to linger far too long when women are unmistakably sending out the ‘I’m not interested’ vibe. Don’t be the guy that lingers. People generally, regardless of sex are attracted to confidence, kindness, intelligence, patience, charisma and humor. Take care of your body, build your businesses, don’t take yourself too seriously | /r/seduction | 30/03/19 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Is this a lost cause?Oh good!!!! | /r/seduction | 29/03/19 06:55 PM |
| 0 | Why aren’t we having sex?Translation: I have more respect for women who has sex on my terms even if she is compromising her own. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being more attracted to women that have a similar attitude towards sex as you but it is repugnant to have such a piss poor attitude towards women that aren’t. | /r/seduction | 29/03/19 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Why aren’t we having sex?You sounds like the kinda guy that calls a girl a tease/prude when she doesn’t wanna fuck and a slut when she does | /r/seduction | 29/03/19 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Why aren’t we having sex?Wow. | /r/seduction | 29/03/19 06:17 PM |
| 5 | Why aren’t we having sex?I know I’m a woman lurking and slinging advice in this male dominated sub and maybe that’s weird but Anyways, I have barely read any good advice so far and it’s really really simple. 1st you did really good at not pressuring her any further when she pumped the breaks. No one should be ‘tricking’ or finding ways to manipulate the situation in their favor. Women are people! Having sex with a guy for the first time can honestly be really scary. You’re afraid you smell weird, taste weird, your nippl… | /r/seduction | 29/03/19 06:12 PM |
| 2 | Girl told me that my muscles were too big for her, and she didn’t wanna bang because of it. Has anyone else ever had this happen?Definitely sounds like an excuse | /r/seduction | 29/03/19 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Is this a lost cause?Well man or woman, we do all like the chase I suppose. But treat others how you’d like to be treated and don’t string anyone along you aren’t interested in just because you like that feeling of the chase | /r/seduction | 29/03/19 05:46 PM |
| 3 | Is this a lost cause?Well it’s not ‘SoOoOo long for girls’ it’s just that it’s all a game when it doesn’t need to be. If I were to hook up with someone and had a good time and hope it happens again, I will be looking forward to hearing from them. And when I don’t I’ll be disappointed and move on. If you start snapping her and she isn’t snapping back or sending snaps that perpetuate the conversation or asks questions than she isn’t into you and move on. You said, ‘I am a little interested’ and it sounds like that’s t… | /r/seduction | 29/03/19 02:47 AM |
| 2 | Is this a lost cause?I don’t think it’s necessarily a lost cause but she probably felt like crap when you didn’t talk to her for 5 days. I’d apologize and see if her attitude becomes more engaged and then don’t ghost someone after hooking up again unless you’re truly not interested. | /r/seduction | 28/03/19 11:44 PM |
| 1 | how to stop being a puss?Oh just ask her then! That’s the only option | /r/seduction | 28/03/19 01:41 PM |
| 1 | how to stop being a puss?Do you get along with others that you work with? Like are you guys all friends of similar age? You could try and organize something like bowling? Dinner? Movie? Arcade? Party? Creating a casual social environment you could get to know her better and develop a little flirtation and determine her interest. If none of that is possible, maybe ask for her number if you aren’t ready to ask her on a date. Create some kind of excuse. ‘Oh I saw this funny video I’ll text you the link!’ Then chat casually… | /r/seduction | 28/03/19 01:45 AM |
| 4 | A simple trick to get more comfortable talking to girls.hahaha | /r/seduction | 28/03/19 12:54 AM |
| 5 | A simple trick to get more comfortable talking to girls.You are setting yourself up for failure if you believe that women who are not interested in your advances can go to hell. It is a reflection of entitlement and no one owes you anything. Most of the time people aren't interested, men or women. Let it go, be kind and move on | /r/seduction | 28/03/19 12:54 AM |
| 1 | FR: First date with friend/acquaintance that left me confusedNo it isn’t weird at all, there’s no need to rush it. I don’t think she’d be letting her legs brush against yours if she wasn’t attracted and if she was eager to leave the date she wouldn’t have asked you to drive her to her car across the street. I think her asking to be in your car with you at the end of the date shows that she was comfortable being alone with you. Based on what you described I think she likes you, unless she’s stated before that she wasn’t or something like that. I say go get… | /r/seduction | 28/03/19 12:18 AM |
| 1 | FR: First date with friend/acquaintance that left me confusedShe is definitely into you. Ask to get drinks and if you’re still feeling the flirty vibe, ask if it’s okay to kiss her! Also I never expect a guy to pay for me, I’m always prepared to pay for myself but I do think buying dinner or just one drink when you guys go out defines your interest in her as more than a friend. But don’t feel pressured to do so, just an idea | /r/seduction | 27/03/19 11:16 PM |
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