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Question For WomenMoshiMoshi78/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 12:38 PM
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Meh guys here are boring tbf 🤣🤣🤣 and frustrated that we have fun and they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 03:30 PM
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Understood!!! Very very well put!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 07:37 PM
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Thanks haha 🥰🥰🥰 Club pilled for life!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 06:13 PM
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Lmao yeah it makes total sense. What if he's a dirty rat 👀..... 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 06:12 PM
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I'm so sorry you had to go through this. Fuck it sounds terrible just thinking about it....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 06:09 PM
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the obvious imbalance of power. In a relationship can you really feel that imbalance though? How can that manifest? I get the power imbalance in an age gap or with wildy different finances/salaries but I never thought about the the cop thingy 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 06:07 PM
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It makes a ton of sense tbh.... but holly fuck my conclusiom to this thread is that the US is a total shithole when it comes to the "feeling safe" aspect... It seems like a jungle!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 05:59 PM
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I wouldn’t want a guy with a dangerous job either or someone constantly stressed. In the US things are incredibly dangerous, especially compared to where I live. Valid take!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 05:53 PM
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I'm not from the US so no, I didn't. Jeeeeesus that's a lot! Fuck sake
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 05:46 PM
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Extremely valid response!!! I pity the poor fuckers who are decent or try to be who choose this profession.... the US population doesn't trust them at all... like fuck me, I think at this point gangsters have a better rep the policemen 🤣🤣 It's wild that Tony Soprano would get far more dates than an officer but you guys seem to be living wild times over there on the other side of the Atlantic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 05:46 PM
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Fair enough!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 05:43 PM
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I've never even thought about that! Can you detail a bit?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 05:43 PM
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Seems like in the US cops have an even shittier reputation than in Romania (where I'm from) lmao..... your law enforcement have managed to achieve the worst outcome imo: the general population is terrified of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 05:42 PM
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However, I am somewhat on the party scene so I am surrounded by petty law breaking quite regularly. And those laws I don't agree with. So it wouldn't work, tbh. Fair enough! I also love weed and partying and drugs so I get it🤣🤣🤣 Cops never do drugs though? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 05:40 PM
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Shit the US sounds like a wild west ngl.....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 05:38 PM
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Leaving that assumption of being controlling aside... if you ever met a compatible partner in every other way and he was a cop, would you say "nah next"? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 04:26 PM
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Fuck in your case that absolutely makes sense! Also, policemen tend to have higher cheating and abuse rates. Same goes with military men. I guess I have to wonder, hypothetically of course, if you didn't live in Russia, you were single and met a guy you vibed with and had chemistry and everything was good... would you still reject him based on being part of the police force?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 04:25 PM
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ACAB Lmao how come 🤣🤣🤣 like the rates of abuse are higher yes, but no all cops are complete dickheads I think. I'm also not from the US so maybe things are different here I wonder
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 04:21 PM
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Why do you think that it all failed? Couse he's not hot enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 04:14 PM
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Take his for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 10:21 AM
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I fuck I made a sex confession for nothing then 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Shiiiiit. I ain't deleting it though. they were still in my house and I wanted to have full control of the situation Definitely the "stress" got in the way. Sex is a combo of physical and mental and when you're not fully comfortable and chill you won't be able to let go and enjoy... even on acid. Maybe especially on acid couse fuck me, I can't imagine having a bad trip in the middle of fucking. Nightmare fuel right there
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 10:49 AM
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Ecstasy makes me super lovey dovey and cuddly but sex feels a bit numb, also it can make a guy not able to get it up I had the same experience! It just feels off in a way.. like I'm watching rather than participating. Acid sex was was freaking me out a bit, but probably because 5 of my friends were in my living room while we tried I think it's because of the people there. Especially if you feel awkward being watched. One time we had sex and a friend was in the same room, all of us were drunk as …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 09:47 AM
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What is a "higher value male"? What would a person like this look like in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 09:40 AM
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Thank God someone actually fount this retarded stat and debunked it. Like ffs, we didn't suddenly turned into lesbians or start dating men +10 our seniors.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 11:26 AM
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Perhaps, but they're choosing to live with partners rather than roommates or parents. Traditionally coupling rates fall when the economy gets bad though. I always thoght that would be inverted. To me it makes total sense why Gen Z settle down early compared to millenials... it's just way more logical to split rent and live with a partner rather than alone. As for why they prefer partners to roommates and parents I think that even easier to understand. Who doesn't want to be independent and who d…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 11:22 AM
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You're straight up hot what do you mean? 🤩 Seriously, this type of dress with the right size.... Olala ❤️‍🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:47 PM
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It always happens to me with dresses......
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:22 PM
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Honestly I think the problem is that it doesn't fit you well. The sizes are all wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 06:57 PM
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Jesus you're a creepy fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 06:50 PM
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Big congrats Badger!!!!! 💕💕💕💕
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 08:54 PM
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This post is actually next level insanity to me... literally who gives a fuck about the phone?!?!?!? 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 08:43 PM
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Young , you don't even need the whole package. Hot beach bum is fine for a fuck. No need to compromise. Then you start needing more. Then you start to compromise. The. You need the hottest guy you can find with a decent job.....but now youve given up something. There's also something to be said about the people who look for a ltr young. Like girls don't even have the beach bum as an option in the first place and kinda get taken off the market young!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 02:55 PM
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Essentially instead of this being due to some sort of instinctive strategy I mean, I can see this not being anything subconcious tbh. But what I do think is that "maturing" and "settling" are kinda separated by a thin line. And that many people kinda go one or the other as they age unfortunately.... like not all people get with the "best package".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 01:17 PM
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Which, in reality is more likely just maturation. Yoooo hii! Just found this thread and I wanted to chime in 🤣🤣 Maturation in what way. Like what do you mean here by that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 09:55 AM
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Why do you say that? It's not that bad. Maybe a little trolling sprinkled up in there as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 10:26 PM
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he has outlandish takes. Honestly I skimmed and it's nothing out of the ordinary. A bit of a troll I believe. Just joking around. His family takes it waaaaayyy too seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 09:54 PM
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Your family should not be calling you an incel, but they are right to not set you up with some unsuspecting woman while they know about your terrible views on women. They would be doing that girl a disservice by setting her up with you, based on your behavior they observe. The thing is OP is not that bad lol 🤣 Like I get your point, some total weirdos are out there but imo OP doesn't seem like one of them so his family kinda sounds... dickish tbh. Like calm down guys jeeeez
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 09:43 PM
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Yeah. And that's ok. It's just a preference, not an personal insult imo
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 08:56 PM
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Yep. My opinion is that having an N-count preference also isn't a sign of insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 08:55 PM
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I can see you're virginmaxxed as well 🥰 Virgins before hoes!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 10:50 AM
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He chadmaxxed but not gymmaxxed
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 10:46 AM
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I don't respond to myself like you though!!!! 🤣🤣🤣 What, the voices got too strong or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 10:38 AM
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Not me!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 10:14 AM
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Jeeeesus one Chadmaxxed guy is enough but 3? The masculinity is so strong it seeps through the screen, making me moist.... STOP IT FEARLESS 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 10:14 AM
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It was a fucking joke my dude. It's not like I give a fuck about the subject 🤣🤣 Also why you ask a question and respond as well? 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 10:11 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 09:51 AM
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At 30 we expire. Didn't you get the memo? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 09:48 AM
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It's about the vibes my guy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 09:48 AM
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You mofos age like wine huh? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 09:47 AM
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I reveal enough that she can understand that I’ve had both LTRs different flavors of casual sex (hookups, fwb, etc.). If she’s the type who’s not okay with casual sex, she has enough info to reject me. Well I think this is perfect tbh and exactly what I normally do, unless I get asked for more that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 03:51 PM
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❤️❤️❤️ Adore you Cauli!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 02:11 PM
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Usually 3 months but this time unfortunately his reliever had problems with his paper so his sign off got delayed... He's been gone for 4 months and a week at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:56 PM
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Yoi Hannah ❤️❤️❤️❤️ Best news I got in a while!!!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:55 PM
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Yo Dryyy!!!! ❤️❤️ Yup, that's what I intend to :) ps - still stay away from baltimore 😂 Lmao it's a long way away that city from me 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:54 PM
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Thanks a lot!!! 🥰🥰 It's been a long while so I'm just about bursting right now haha
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:53 PM
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I've also had a few negative experiences years ago when women flat out asked my n count and I was honest. I mean isn't this a good thing couse it revealed incompatibilities? Like not being accepted for who you are sucks ass... Make no mistake, you don't have to literally tell every single detail... but being honest sounds like the best option long term at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:38 PM
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Truth be told, older music has much more of a "soul" than the shit that's being released today. They're timeless and it shows
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:26 PM
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Hell fucking yeah!!! Pretty accurate lyrics btw couse a lot of dickheada take the liberity to talk shit. When the cat is away the mice play on the table... but when the cat comes back... o boy 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:22 PM
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I mean why keep it a secret though? I did that when I was a kid to a guy but I basically shot myself in the foot couse we were not compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:13 PM
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My bf is coming back next week!!! I'm feeling the fucking best there is!!! 🤣🥰🤩🤸‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:09 PM
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Them fucking step daddies not stepping up 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:06 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:03 PM
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Ehhh I went to a few and it was fun
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:02 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:49 PM
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So you’ll discount the threads that don’t concur and even then the best you got is “uhhh well some older people still do!” Bruh, I literally said they had a mixed reaction (meaning some people cared, some poeple didn't). I discounted them because on reddit there may be a bubble sometimes. So that's why I said IRL only, to give your opinion the benefit of the doubt. And still, I found it wrong. I was being generous and still, I found your generalization incorrect. You're welcome. Also, because I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 08:35 PM
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Pretty sure you’ll discover, the older you are the less people care about something most people have done. I already said I did ask, from people with a wide age range irl (I'm discounting the numerous reddit threads not from this sub where people of both genders also had a mixed reaction) . Some people care, some people don't. There is no "most".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 08:32 PM
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I didn't know people are a monolith. Some people care, some don't, some are hyprocrites, some are frustrated. There is no "most" from what I can see and read. There are also those who say "most people are/do/think etc etc etc" who are quite mentally obtuse and can't accept others have different opinions and perspectives and just assume everyone thinks like them. They also tend to look down on those that do think differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 08:21 PM
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At the same time when most people/agencies groups get to a certain point they just start assuming everyone at that age has probably had sex at some point anyways so it doesn’t even matter “how much”. It’s just a thing everyone’s done Nice. Some people want partners with simillar backgrounds and experiences. So yeah, for some people "how much" matters. I'm talking about both genders here couse I know multiple examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 08:05 PM
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The overarching point is that no one knows or will find out unless your're famous. Cool. But we're not in the 1800's anymore and we can record all kinds of dumb shit. Anyways The topic was sexual past and the opinions surrounding it. Is there a reason some people find it offensive that other people have a preference in this regard? Why is it bad/not accepted? And pls, I know you like to bring the point that only people who don't fuck care... but for some reason the high n count crowd always deci…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 08:03 PM
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And this is a problem because?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 06:39 PM
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Huh? So like what, only famous people have a past, the others don't exist? Pretty sure my past has actually happened, it's not a fragment of my imagination 🤣🤣🤣 And yeah, my partner also has a past before me. And I can either accept it and go forward with the LTR or reject it and tell him bye if, for whatever reason, I don't like what I hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 06:38 PM
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I'm equally curious why sexual past matters. Barring religious or moral reasons, some people just want a partner with a simillar past as them. A low N wanting a Low N is very much ok in my books and not insecure. For example if a someone doesn't want a virgin.. is he or he insecure? Or someone who doesn't want a high N partner. My point is, it's just a subjective preference. Bitching about it is pointless. And I say this as a high N count myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 06:19 PM
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Especially not sexual past. Why? I'm genuinely curious for the explanation
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 05:03 PM
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Or maybe they themselves have 3 and don't want a partner with 6. Like that seems fair tbh. I just can't jump on a person with 3 body count that wants the same or less. Sure, objectively 3 vs 6 is very simillar but I don't see a logical reason to call him/her insecure for desiring whatever he/she wants. And, at the end of day, is insecurity such a bad thing honestly? Like come on, who gives a fuck if someone wants a partner with less than 6 previous partners. Sure, 6 is an aribitrary number but w…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 04:57 PM
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Great point!!!! Reducing it to just "insecurity" is quite too simple imo
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 04:28 PM
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Past doesn't matter at all then? That's some wishful thinking tbh, to such an extent that I'm not comfortable applying to my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 04:21 PM
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I'm of the same opinion. Or a low n if you're low n yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 04:20 PM
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I mean 6 is literally double of 3 🤣 so yeah, it's quite a jump
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 04:19 PM
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Is having an n-count preference always a sign of insecurity? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 02:16 PM
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Have a link for the thread? I'm very much looking forward to reading it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 01:46 PM
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This thread is so insane to me.... look at the other comments.... It's literal delulu land. Sa mor eu de pricep oamenii astia...sunt efectiv siderata.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 10:31 PM
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My dude.... you're embarrassing yourself here
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 10:00 PM
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Mongo I fucking love you my dude 🤣🤣🤣 The responses you're getting are next level insanity imo. Literal brainrot.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 09:56 PM
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If you're 5 years deep worrying about who liked who most in the beginning, or whether you were the "first choice" back when you barely knew each other: your relationship probably sucks. If it didn't suck, you wouldn't care. That's actually very true. The time to worry about this shit is in the beginning... if you didn't, well, that's on you for staying for years in a relationship you're not happy in.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 07:38 PM
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Big ick. And I'm freaking small too
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 12:06 PM
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Are you mentally challenged? It's a serious question btw
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 09:22 AM
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Interesting perspective and valid! Not my personal approach but different people have different methods. This is what I fully don't get though: Like I used to get drunk every Friday when I was 18. I'm 30+ now. I'm not dating anyone who likes getting drunk every Friday anymore. Because that's not who I am any more. I want someone who does what I'm doing now not what I'm doing then Sure, people change but not that much. Like sure, maybe a party person will not go to a party every weekend when he's…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 11:47 AM
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Sure. Such a mindset is ok. Though I would argue from a purely personal opinion: how can you only want smth serious? Like in general? To me it kinda needs to in relation to another specific person. Like "I want smth serious with X". Not "I want smth serious".... Seems like the first random usefull option comes: across bang on that's the one. Or that you go through the shelf and you're like "this guy would make a good husband" 🤣🤣🤣 But bitching about how "unserious", "desperate" and "immature" men…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 09:19 AM
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Yoo yo calm down honey couse your vein will pop out 🤣🤣 Why is that you get so offended when I present a different view and resort to an attack like a little child instead of actually logically defending your view point in a polite, mature way? Seems like someone else is projecting based on their own bad relationship experiences.... hmmmm well would you look at that, making assumptions about random people :))) Anyway: Most women looking for a serious relationship have options. Not that many 🤣🤣🤣 W…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 02:11 PM
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I was moreso concerned with the judging of some people who actually did casual sex in the past and then looking down on the ones that are still open to that. And what even is "relationship material" lol 🤣🤣 A woman who is only looking for a serious relationship probably doesn't want to be #3 on his roster. It's not prude to look for a relationship and not a hook up. I agree with her but it's hypocritical to look down on the men that do, if they engaged in casual sex in the past
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 12:48 PM
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Not everyone is open minded, plenty of prudish stick-in-the-muds out there. Fuck ain't that the truth 🤣🤣🤣 And even if we aren't talking about prudish people, some people who may have engaged in casual sex might be looking for a serious relationship at this moment in time, so they'll pass on someone who is looking for something casual. Your wants and needs aren't the same at all times in your life. I mean, I can't say I get it couse all my ltrs started from fwb/casual first so I'm like... I don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 11:28 PM
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I mean, it's good we're all super open minded here when it's convenient. But it's funny the influx of people here who are so turned off by casual sex when they themselves have participated it in the past.... veeery convenient it wasn't immature then but it is now wouldn't you say?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 09:34 PM
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I meeean seems like a bunch of prudes tbb. And hypocrites as well? How many of this people had casual sex in their pasts? I would bet a large number 😅🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 06:29 PM
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Or he's open to all three and he's honest. Jesus Christ 🤣🤣🤣 You people never heard of people casually fucking and ending up in relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 06:16 PM
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Fuck yeah!!!!! ❤️❤️❤️ Good to see you too my dude 🥰🥰🥰 Hope you're allright too!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 07:25 PM
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Yes! And in your post you didn't say nothing about any commitment either 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 07:22 PM
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Uncut
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 07:04 PM
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I just say my name couse why not. And if he can't understand a rejection, then I tell him to fuck off
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:42 AM
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Maybe it also had something to do with the partner. Anytime I had FOMO, it was more strongly linked to the annoying/shitty/toxic behaviour of the person I was with. I wasn't a virgin when I met my boyfriend, far from it. But I don't think I would have regretted meeting him earlier and losing my virginity to him tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:38 AM
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Also, funny new user here that already knows the mods 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Hmmmmm I smell a finasteride user around here
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 12:51 AM
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Good, call them so they know to keep you on their radar baldy! Also make sure you go get your suit before the local funeral parlour closes. Steal if off the short corpse as well baldy! Make sure it fits
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 12:48 AM
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Apropo, avem un canal de discord, daca vrei sa intrii 🥰🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 07:51 PM
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Steakman fucking shit you don't need to divulge fucks sake 🤣🤣🤣 It was about monkey cocks btw 😊😇
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 07:42 PM
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Multumesc mult! Sa-mi vina si mie sufletul acasa 🤣🤣 Succes in tot ce faci! Apropo... tin eu minte ceva de-o lista.... e mai smecher decat ti-ai putut imagina asa-i 😂 Ca mi-am facut si eu o lista de genul candva siiiiiii.... sa-mi bag picioarele ca e muuuult mai misto decat toate balariile pe care le-am scris atunci 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 07:40 PM
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3 luni pe vapor, 3 luni acasa dar acum e de 4 luni pe mare deja.... Sa va tina btw!!!!! 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰 Sunt super fericita pt tineee!!!!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 07:32 PM
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Aaaa un car de ani in urma 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 07:09 PM
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Mor 🤣🤣🤣 ti-ai gasit iubit? 🤣🤣 Ca al meu inca nu s-a intors din voiaj... Inlocuitorul lui e un idiot de nu si-a facut actele 😡🤬
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 07:01 PM
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I missed the list as well fuck 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:53 PM
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What was the list again? 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:53 PM
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Ti-am dat si mesaj🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:46 PM
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Lmao 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:45 PM
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Yooo why you leaving? 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:42 PM
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I mean yeah sure, that would qualify as raw attraction to me as well. We can call it, the fuckable step 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:23 AM
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The question is, do people sleep with others without raw attraction? I mean fuck sake apparently some people do but who am I to judge 🤣🤣🤣 Like imo the friends to lovers route is kinda like that and also smth I've never experienced for myself. Like I tried once to see if it grows but it just felt like a watered down version of what I felt for guys I actually wanted to bang 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:10 AM
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Eulen tbf, I actually think some women can experience attraction differently than others and one side is not more common than the other. Like there are a lot of women like you and a whole lot of women like me too. It's just that the experiences of these two groups are so wildly different we cannot relate and assume everyone is like us automatically
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:09 AM
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But you had raw attraction that grew stonger! By fucking as well 🤣 which is the best kind!!!! And I totally get it couse I know exactly what you're talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:02 AM
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Never experienced that though Girl but then you literally explained like perfectly what I also experienced 🤣🤣🤣 I've also fucked a few super hot guys that were shit in bed and I was like byeeeee 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 12:59 AM
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When you look at a guy and think: "fuck he's hot". You don't have to suck his dick on the spot though. You just have to be find him attractive/hot and know if you'd like to eventually end up in bed with him. Like passing the first check so to speak super easily which is physical attraction/looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 12:47 AM
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Or, hear me out. You can have raw attraction from the start that grows even stronger over time AND consistently mind blowing sex Now that's freaking wild
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 12:44 AM
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Fifty, you know, I'm not always on board with your opinions but God damn you explained my way of thinking like.... fuck... it's exactly how I myself operate lmao. Like to me this resonates on a super deep level: There are men who I would want to fuck based on looks alone. Those are really the only men I would ever consider dating. FUCK YES 🤣 I've done the "letting attraction grow" thing before and it just wasn't the same as men whom I had visceral lust for. It was far more fickle and contextual …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 12:41 AM
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Fucking shit this is hillarious 🤣 "And most women need the right context" lmao, like my bff who went out last night with a guy to his dorm room after speaking with him for 20 minutes suuuuure needed the right context right? 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 12:17 AM
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I mean both sides do this. Even here I got: "most women aren't going to feel that" bullshit 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 12:16 AM
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So raw attraction is possible. You can also have it at a beach, in a study hall etc so context is a non existent concept It's like you think women have a checklist for attraction the fuck 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 12:13 AM
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The context has to be correct for that woman at that time to contemplate sexual attraction. I've seen women fuck after a night in a club 🤣 fuck is that? Context? Also for plenty of women hotness = sexual attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 12:07 AM
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I mean sure, maybe you operate that way but what I'm trying to point out is that women who do not are not in the minority. Pretty fucking far from it actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 12:00 AM
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Fucking agreed YuYu 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 11:51 PM
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?!?! This is the easiest one to get dawg what are you talking about 🤣 And it absolutely matches reality lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 11:51 PM
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This is straight up untrue. I can't literally count how many times I've been out with the girls and just straight up admited a guy is hot lmao. What planet are you guys living on, thinking women don't notice hotness 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 11:50 PM
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? If you let the food in the open it goes bad regardless dawg. And who the fuck would want medium attraction lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 11:48 PM
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Think friends to lovers, most of these types of couples have great chemistry and crazy for each other but there might have been a time where they were just friends, but the more they know each other the harder they fell for each other so their raw attraction developed. Bleah 🤮 This shit is not as nice as you make it sound tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 11:46 PM
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Ehhh not that drastic but plenty of women look at a guy for the first time and say, even out loud in group: "goddamm he's gorgeous/hot/sexy/beautiful etc etc". For me it's more like an instant recognision of sexual attraction. You don't have to ask him to fuck you up the ass in an alleway though hahah
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 11:45 PM
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Pfff to me, when you see a person and think: "she/he is hot". Like you don't have to suck his dick the first 10 minutes 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 11:43 PM
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How does "raw attraction" develops over time? Sounds like a cope to me tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 11:32 PM
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Not wanting to be prick but goddamn you went in and did extactly like he said in the post lmao 🤣🤣🤣. And no, it's not irrational if it's true lol. Seems to me like you maybe trying to delude yourself a bit in this situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 09:47 PM
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People will always prioritize their self interests. The honesty is soul crushing..... LOVE the energy haha
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 05:04 PM
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Insecure - constant fear of any potential partner "settling" for them and thinking if a woman doesn't have sex immediately it must mean she thinks he's ugly, if she slept with a man in the past that must mean she likes him more than me!!!!!" That's not being insecure. That's not being an idiot. I would do the same thing in their position lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 05:02 PM
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Here's a very personal example. My wife has allowed exes to have anal with her before me. I literally do not care about anal. I find it disgusting. The idea that no matter how clean you are, no matter what you practice, you could still end up with literal shit on your penis...is disgusting to me. She has told me I could have anal if I wanted. I don't. We do lots of other stuff together, but not that. If - hypothetically - she had told me she tried it once and didn't like it, does it make sense f…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 05:29 PM
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Aaaaaaaaaaaa yeah I remember it 😂😂😂. I didn't lie fortunately so he didn't have to multiply. I wonder if he did in his mind though 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 05:12 PM
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And don't forget the "Rule of 3". Lol what's that? 😂 That's awesome! I am sure your prospective partners cant wait to have those conversations. I actually had those convos. Don't believe people aren't gullible enough to tell you everything if you present the right image and know how to ask
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 05:02 PM
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Within these spaces, "same or better" is generally interpreted as "same or better than she gave other men" which is often based on an incel's own misconceptions of what her sex with other men was like, and his own insecurities about "Chad" or whatever boogeyman he's created in his own mind to represent her previous partners. I mean, yeah it could very well be his mind playing tricks on him. But it's not always the case. This shit does happen. So what should a person do when he actually for sure …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 05:01 PM
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Not to worry about things that don't matter. To me it does matter for example Live your life looking at the future, and not the past. The past can give you a pretty good indication of the future Alas, at the end of the day it's an individual choice. Whatever bakes your noodle (aka: whatever works for you). 100% agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:56 PM
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they want to have it like everybody else appears to, so they craft a narrative of what everyone else's sex is like and demand 'same or better' so they're not made to feel 'less than' as an extension of their FOMO. Well why not demand "same or better"?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:52 PM
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So the "bury your head in the sand and sing la la la" is a better alternative?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:45 PM
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I broke my arm today fucks sakw
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 10:50 PM
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I know why people don't get about that "past behaviour with exes". They usually come out with the strawman: "that means you would stay in a bad LTR is he/she treated all her exes badly, lololol you have no standards etc etc" the usual crap What is not understood is the concept of "nice to haves". Things that are nice but not necessary. And when you find out your "nice to haves" have been given to someone else..... hell yeah I'd be pissed too! Even if I was happy before. And yeah, I would persona…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 10:16 PM
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The logical conclusion is that they are ok with a woman with very little sexual desire as long as she expressed very little desire with all other previous boyfriends. Not really. You don't have "nice to haves" like things that are the "cherry on top" but not exactly necessary? Personally, I would be pissed and end the relationship if my bf didn't do my "nice to haves" with me but did it with some other chick
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 10:10 PM
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It makes people feel “less than” another partner for any number of reasons, mostly their own insecurity but when discussing the fact that the feeling exists the reason almost doesn’t matter. It doesn't make them feel they are "less than". They actually are "less then". Any talks regarding "insecurity" is just a big ol cope imo
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 09:38 PM
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Who the fuck started the 10/10 trend lol 😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 09:29 PM
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Looks like he's written with creions lmao 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 05:31 PM
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Next year maybe you'll be in the winners club 😂😂😂 (joking, I don't really take MBTI that seriously)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 02:08 AM
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I pretty much get ENTP everytime
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 01:57 AM
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ENTP
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 01:56 AM
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I literally scratch my head trying to understand this. Like the first part, that's ok. Who likes a tyrant. But that submissive shit is the biggest turnoff for me. Who likes dating a little bitch?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 07:29 PM
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and yet every woman knows what I am talking about if I mention it. Not the theory per se, but if I describe that feeling like you did, they’ll relate to it all the same. Wtf are you talking about again? 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 07:25 PM
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😂😂😂😂 upsi
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 12:42 AM
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Jaded
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 12:39 AM
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Besides me 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 12:09 AM
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What, he got yeeted? 😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 12:04 AM
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I'm currently dating a former player. Life's rad lmao 🥰😂. I get to reap the rewards now muhaha
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 06:24 PM
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No no it's a heterosexual one. Other than that, you summarised my feelings perfectly
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:13 PM
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I did drop her, until maybe she sorts her shit out. And nope, it's heterosexual
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:12 PM
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This quote is actually so good! But unfortunafely it also perfectly fits this sitation....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:11 PM
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Ffs no 😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:10 PM
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After realising I put myself in danger for someone who clearly enjoys drama, I cut her off. You did amazing too. They both sound like pieces of shit honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:09 PM
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Nope, she's my age, 21
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:08 PM
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Yeah that's what I feel is her situation too. It's just baffling to me tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 02:39 PM
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I didn't use these exact same words but it was close to it. A bit more filtered obviously but the essence is as I've written it. From my perspective, if she doesn't want to help herself, at this point I can't do much more
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 02:38 PM
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That was my thinking as well actually. Like I may be a Marie irl but I ain't no Marie Magdalene ffs
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 02:31 PM
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It wasn't like phrased exactly like this 😂. But the gist of it is basically what I've written here. I'm still quite angry couse ffs, how the fuck do people like this exist? Like girl, you complain complain complain and the easiest solution is breaking up. It's way easier to not do a thing than to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 02:21 PM
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So a girlfriend of mine is in an abusive relationship and I did help her in the past (with a place to stay and whatnot) but she keeps coming back to him. Today he hit her again, and I basically told her to fuck off, to not ask for my help with regards to her relationship because is she likes his dick that much to whitstand an ocassional beating, temper tantrums and jealosy fits, than yeah, it's none of my concern. She lost her shit and called me a bitch. So PPD, have I been too harsh for refusin…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 02:11 PM
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And those drastically changed expectations and wishes of people, and those who were aligned in 2019, are no longer aligned today. Should they break up or divorce over that? Don’t think so. I mean sometimes people grow up in different directions and yeah, the break up is usually the sensible choice than trying to fit in a broken piece of a puzzle you know
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:37 AM
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"Whats I find lame is when guys who practice casual sex/hookups get their feelings hurt if woman doesnt bang them on the first date (and she did it before with other guys)." Lol why? They seem very consistent with me. Why wait when someone else didn't lmao? And I'm a woman btw and if I heard I waited while another girl didn't.... saionara 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 11:42 PM
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Yeah. You were right, now I'm venturing the fuck out of here 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 09:45 PM
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For real 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Gal just stop glazing your bitch ass man and answer the damn question lmao 😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 09:45 PM
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Both. Less on the daily but still, enough to annoy me to no end
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 09:29 PM
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Mi-am facut o iesire spectaculoasa 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 09:05 PM
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Thanks ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 08:53 PM
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Your last paragraph is why I think you should stay. Listen, I ain't no Mother Teresa, and I will never be a person like that. Yeah, I'm probably not painting myself as the best person around here (and I'm certainly not, quite the opposite actually), but hey, at least I'm not pretending to be anything that I am not: a good moral person. I am not that, never was that and never will be that. What annoys me most though are the obvious pretenders around here. And to them I say: fuck off, you're not f…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 08:49 PM
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Neah. Just an observation. In my experience, if you call them out they lose their shit and I have no time to deal with some gals shitty dating life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 08:46 PM
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Yeah, some of the taken ones are...... fuck my life
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 08:24 PM
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That fake concern is incredibly annoying and screams the fact that their boyfriend/wife or whatever is nothing to write home about most likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 08:15 PM
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Ehhh figuratively. Because if the boyfriend was that awesome she would do it literally and not post on here 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 08:12 PM
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Yeah it was one who constantly shat on her ex telling how awfull he was and how awesome her current guy is. Yeah right
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 08:11 PM
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Personally, I think if their bf was "sooooo amazing omg" they would be too busy inhaling their dicks to be here writting miles long pharagraphs about how "perfect he is".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 07:58 PM
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At least I understand why the incels are toxic I understand why the white knights and pick mees are the way they are. They are desperately trying to convince themselves that their perfect image of their partner/relationship as a whole is real and tangible. It most certainly isn't because if it were, you wouldn't be even fucking in here going on about how "happy" they are every goddamn minute and opportunity they find.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 07:55 PM
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Yeah it screams FAKE concern and I think being an "above it all" conceited assholes gives them a sense of power over the "poor mortals who cannot grasp what they have muhahah". And what they have most probably (I'm willing to bet my house) not even that great. Yeah, that's right, if those awesome and perfect relationships were actually soooo satisfying you wouldn't need to remind everyone all the damn time, writting fucking miles long comments prasing your bitch ass man or whatever fucking wife …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 07:52 PM
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Nah, not gonna name anyone couse they are gonna come up here and do their little innocent angel act trying to explain why I'm wrong, all the while guilt tripping me like they do with everyone who dissagress with their little fucking moral code. Fucking hubris if you ask me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 07:42 PM
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Thanks a lot. And I hope you will be fine too my dude. You are one of the good ones. And I'm sorry you have been struggling. It's not fair. And yeah, life isn't but shit, you are allowed to vent without some "officer friendly" coming up and preaching you the fucking gospel.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 07:40 PM
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Couse this place is filled either with virtue signalling little pricks who paint their relationships as perfect while preaching harder than Jesus Christ on the cross and, on the other side, angry men who are off the tails. Both groups are on the same level to me: fucking 6ft under. Truth is, and it will upset a lot of people but I ain't giving a fuck: you would not feel the need to deep throat you bf on an anonymous forum to a bunch of guys who you will never meet if he was so awesome. And anoth…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 07:38 PM
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Well thanks a lot my dude. Don't worry, Real is shit anyway this season so there's not much to talk about anyway, at least for me 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 07:32 PM
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Fuck right they are
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 07:31 PM
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Yep, too many people here are acting like the morality police, being massive pricks to the guys who struggle all in the guise of being "only interested on helping". Yeah right fuck off. And I'm actually in a very happy relationship too but I ain't sucking off my boyfriend in a fucking public forum ffs, like dangling a meal in front of a starving guy. The fuck is that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 07:30 PM
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A woman on Reddit (funnily enough), once told me the following, in regards to women's so-called "pickiness"...... "We women are the ones who make long lists of what we want in a man, and then throw the list away, as soon as there is good chemistry". Aaaand it's so true. Like so true. Truth is, a guy can be a massive asshole. If you like him you will fuck him, probably even marry him eventually. And this is totally gender neutral btw, I've seen both sides of the equation PLENTY.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 07:24 PM
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Yeah I'm turning to the light by politely exiting
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 07:23 PM
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The virtue signalling on this sub from certain users is getting fucking annoying so this will be my last post here. Yes white knights and pick me's, your just as toxic as the incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 07:18 PM
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I see nothing out of the ordinary
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 07:17 PM
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Yeah all that turn off talk is a massive bullshit btw. That's why I never personally ever get in any discussion regarding that. If you like a guy/gal, nothing is turn off anymore. And especially if it's a guy you have chemistry with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 07:13 PM
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About 15 Nope, I don't have a set time period of waiting. Rather I sleep with them when I feel comfortable enough to do so (or freaking way too horny to give a shit anymore), and so far it's always been within the first 3 dates. I follow the "3rd date rule" without even trying 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 01:56 PM
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It's just not a priority for most women. O yeah, I wasn't claiming it's the main factor. Just one of the many 🤣. And definitely not top 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 06:28 PM
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Some sexless scrooges Fucks sake 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 "shaming" works IMO it does work in the sense that it's a contributing factor as to why women generally engage less in casual sex than men. It's not the main factor but it does play a part imo. Plus, slut shaming is awfull in general, some people literally try to off themselves because of that IRL (for example a nude leaking in college/high school, things like that)..... but I just saw a movie last night regarding the topic so the issue is still fresh o…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 04:35 PM
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I couldn't agree more with you. You get to find out a different side to your partner, one that's usually hidden and it's a really good feeling knowing they trust you so much to reveal it to you. With the added benefit of the hotness of such convos as well 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 04:28 PM
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Honestly that's the most sensible approuch that most people should follow
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 03:57 PM
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Absolutely!!! In my case, we talked about those details after asking about his count. Like the n-count was the catalyst 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 03:55 PM
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Fuck them! 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Like seriously, they are not getting their dicks wet, they probably won't because they're too busy being on here so who gives a fuck about them anyway. Now, I will give them something: I think women's body counts being lower on average than men's is also partly caused by slutshaming. It's not nearly the only or even the defining factor that contributes to this reality, but it's still one of the issues that's bugging a young woman's life and yes, it does have an impact. Now, this …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 01:58 PM
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Question: why is everyone so triggered by this topic? Like this particular thread always has a different vibe from the rest. An angry vibe, from both genders, with high n-counts and low n-counts alike. Why do you care so much? The answer is pretty straight forward: some people care about n-count, some don't. No, a high n-count woman or man is not necessarily morally bankrupt. And no, the people that do care are not automatically evil virgins or insecure. Why are you so triggered by this? Someone…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 01:46 PM
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I was the one that asked my bf. I see no reason why we shouldn't talk about that 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 01:40 PM
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Well on anonymous surveys people have no reason to lie. And In my admitedly anectodal experience the number of partners per lifetime is around 3. And I'm willing to bet 90% of people are around that number.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 01:37 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 01:19 PM
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This fucking comment right here!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 06:56 PM
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Just get the dna yourself and send it in, you don’t need mom’s permission or acknowledgment. This is such an easy solution and yet people are still bitching about this subject. It's that simple! That eay the guy can solve his trust issues himself and the wife is none the wiser.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:22 PM
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You know you can just take a sample yourself and do it in secret right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:20 PM
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And most of the time the reason they won’t cheat is because they would struggle to find another woman who wants to sleep with them. The cynic in me thinks this is more common than we may want to believe as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 06:13 PM
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There's a spectrum here of "nice" and what that means. I'm sorry but if all you are is "nice" and nothing else then what am I supposed to be interested in? I suppose this goes for girls too but that's not what this smv is about. If my options are: "nice", "funny guy who is also nice" and "exciting guy who is also nice" guess who I'm not picking. Nice is baseline. But note that nice does not mean doormat. It does not mean simp and it does not mean "do whatever I want" Now let's look at the "bad b…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 06:04 PM
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Please stop!!!!!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 10:23 PM
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One of the best new young signings vs the worst new young signing....
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 10:21 PM
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He’s paid very well to miss that shot. Nah. Like if he only miss the penalties but played like CR7 it wouldn't be an issue.... but the guy is a shell of his former self. It's fucking depressing seeing him this.... mediocre....
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 10:02 PM
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O my therapist too if she actually knew I post here 🤣🤣🤣🤣 nono, I was thinking of switching accounts to a new one 😂 it didn't cross my mind to actually leave Yesss You're one of ussssss!!! Don't let the voices win!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 10:00 PM
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Noooooo don't leave the cult!!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 09:49 PM
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No it's not I can still see it🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 09:46 PM
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It's terrible!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 09:41 PM
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Mbappe misses another penalty..... this is brutal to watch
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 09:39 PM
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A lot of people assume "excitment and spontaneity" is the very definition of an emotional rollercoaster. It really isn't. An emotional rollercoaster is when there's a shit ton of drama in a relationship. Excitement does not mean drama. It's shit like spontaneous roadtrips, going to parties, going swimming in random waterholes. All of which can be done without drama in a relationship. I admit to having a thing for the bad boy aesthetic with tattoos and all that jazz. Most of my friends just went …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 05:12 PM
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Well would you look at that! I'm not the only one fantasizing about this! Good plan, good plan!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:32 PM
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Good point! I just need to balance giving the people what they want and keeping my grip on power by deliberate shows of strength and careful political maneuvering. A fine balance between authority and kindness (or rather the appearence of kindness). Hard stuff indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:30 PM
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One of the two most wholesome answers I've received so far! Yup, you sound like the best kind of dictator ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:27 PM
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I just imagined some neckbeard going over the plank and I find it funny as shit 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:24 PM
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Fuck that sounds like a plan! I'm glad I'm not the only fucked up person here 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:19 PM
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I’m Moral Orel That cartoon always was fascinating to me. I would rather people loved me than feared me ✌️ Based take and toally valid! Ngl, in my fantasies I always choose the later 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:18 PM
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You know what, the honesty is refreshing and I kinda relate to that as well. I've always been quite cunning and I don't really think of myself as the best person around either 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:15 PM
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Holly fucking shit I didn't expect that haha. But o well, sacrifices have to be made for the good of all 😂. Now seriously, I hope the fine people of PPD would be spared of your wrath right? Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:13 PM
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That's actually quite ideal when it comes to totalitarian regimes. I think I'd do the same, as I find great satisfaction in achievement and bettering my country would be a huge one. But I'd also try to carve something up for myself and loved ones if I'm being honest, a comfortable life let's just say 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:09 PM
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Pffff if you're trying to use morality to make me feel bad.... boy you picked the wrong gal 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:05 PM
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Lmao that's funny but fair 😂😂😂😂 Everyting comes full circle to money and bitches haha
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:04 PM
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Fair enough! I assume you would oversee the administration though, to make sure the people you appointed don't fuck it up
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:00 PM
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I'm also aware I'm a corruptible person who's quite selfish so I know I have no place near a position of power. That counts as well, as I won't ever put myself in a place where that would become possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 09:59 PM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 you know what? Fair point!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 09:56 PM
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Moral question: if you suddenly became the leader of a country/empire whatever. Do you think you'd be corrupted and become a totalitarian ruler or keep your moral values intact and rule justly. For me, after some serious soul searching.... I think I would become a dictator 😂. Totally would fuck up other countries and expand my territory. Maybe even form a cult of personality. Empress Moshi has a nice ring to it as well!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 09:52 PM
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I think rock as genre has dipped in popularity in favour of rap/trap. So maybe that's why.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 09:45 PM
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I'm happy that several of the posters in the main thread don't come in here often 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 09:41 PM
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Simillar here, 90 masc and 135 fem
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 09:13 PM
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Can't be the Chad for all or even most women. Yup! But the good thing is, you don't even have to!!!! You just need to be the Chad for one woman! That's it! One!!!!! Like for example look at Connor McGregor. Accused of SA but his wife is still with him, supporting him during the worst time of his life. Sure, you might say that she stays for he hundreds of millions. But she was there since he had nothing, working two jobs to help him in his fight carrer when he didn't make a penny. And she could l…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 11:21 PM
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I would upvote you 10000 times if I could ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 10:04 PM
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You can! And you can also figure it out without asking. Only marry a woman who thinks your Chad, dont marry any woman who doesn't worship your beauty otherwise dead bedroom is inevitable imo. But, at the end of the day, this advice is gender neutral. It works vice versa and I'd give it to all women as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:48 PM
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I think its most tbh I can't say exact percentages but I do think it certainly happens. I get that. If more women thought this way there would be way less couples lol. I think they do a lot of settling lookswise. The male body doesnt seem to be attractive to most of them unless it hits certain standards which most men are nowhere near. Yup but the relationships would be way more satisfying. It's a risk versus reward thing and I'll always choose to risk it 🤣. FWIW I do think the current trend doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:27 PM
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Yeah...go fuck yourselves. Yeah I'm not gonna respond to someone who cannot even formulate a logical agument before resorting to insults. Good day to you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:42 PM
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“if I’m just gonna take a risk for a hookup with a stranger it better be worth it.” VS. “this is someone I want to do way more with (including in the bedroom) even if they aren’t a male model” Yeah exactly. Like the sentiment I'm trying to convey is that not all women find their LTRs subpar sexually compared to their past hookups. And that generalizations are harmful. Yeah, the supposed beta buxx does happen but it's not a majority. Or maybe I'm just an idealist.... But you aren’t going to convi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:29 PM
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Listen, I do agree the Disney fantasy of ever lasting, non conditional love that's happily ever after with no regards to overall compatibility is bullshit and it usually doesn't pan out. Lose is not enough. But, this guy only stated that for him, it takes a longer time to develop feelings for someone and ideally, his relationship would develop from friendship. I'm not one to prefer this approach either, but hey, this thing does happen a lot in real life! A lot of relationships start from friends…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:22 PM
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I'm trying to explain that too but the essence of the message is not exactly that. OP thinks ALL women settle sexually (or in terms of sexual attraction) with their LTRs and that they see their hookups as "more arousing/hotter etc etc". Yes, some women do that. But a very good number of them don't. And quite a few of the comments kinda confirm that fear... which is unusual for a thread like this. Maybe the usual commentors haven't arrived yet or ignored this thread because the overall theme has …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:56 PM
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Exacrly! Like people have different perspectives and trying to put every woman in a bucket is plain wrong. Some women do exactly what OP said in his post. Many more don't. Ithe solution is pretty simple: look for and date the ones from the latter category. Ffs it's not that hard 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:51 PM
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But you can insist on some fairytale true love with someone who you’ve never even watched take a shit, or just be lonely forever. Your choice. It’s not going to get easier and the world isn’t changing because you are stunted That's a bit harsh. You can accept he has a different view of love than you without resorting to insult. Like I know, it's hard to accept your views are not univeral but make an effort. Jesus
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:48 PM
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For some that's absolutely the case. You see, a lot of people cannot compute the thought of being alone and not having a LTR they settle with what they can get. That's their business and it doen't mean their relationships are "bad". If they are ok with it, all the more power to them. Now, for me, that kind of though process is alien and it won't work AT ALL. I want everything: aka a family with a guy I find hot who fullfills all my superficial and non-superficial desires. Luckily, I found such a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:39 PM
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I won't talk in the name of others as some people really do have those "higher physical standards" for hookups compared to LTRs. IMO they shoot themselves in the foot long term but hey, no skin of my bones. For me at least, I won't have sex with a man if I don't find him hot, regardless of context. What differs is our compatibility for a relationship. I would even say my sexual standards are much higher for a relationship, especially since I'm expected to only have sex with him for the rest of m…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:25 PM
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So far the women around here kinda confirm their biases I'm afraid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:18 PM
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They are also wildly hypocritical on hookups vs relationship material. They bleat madly that women insult them when they are told that they are viewed as long term partners not ONS, but when asked the same question, they also put women down by saying they aren’t good enough for long term, only hookups, so they themselves don’t view hookups as anything special. I think what they are trying to say is that we are more sexually attracted to our hookups compared to our boyfriend. And that "hookup mat…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:09 PM
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Listen, I also take reported happiness in LTRs with a massive grain of salt, but here we aren't that many women and we seem to be genuine. At least on the daily thread that is. On the main sub I can't state anything as I'm not a regular there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:25 PM
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I can't wait to have my man's babies 🥰🥰🥰🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:06 PM
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Well please do comment more as maybe you guys can offer some additional perspective and give hope to discontented men around here
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:01 PM
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favorite historical period ? 🤔 It's a battle between Ancient Rome and The Renaissance. But like a really close battle haha i totally relate to your rabbit holing, i’ve become obsessed w wicked, it’s quite embarrassing I've also seen it yesterday and I'm IN LOVE!!!!! Ngl, I haven't read anything related to the Wizzard of Oz before this but last night and this morning I've toally went hardcore into the history of talking animals in Oz lmao 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:59 PM
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Honestly it's a funny little combo here: one one side we who are mostly taken and in satisfying LTRs with 10/10 (for us) men. On the other side, angry, bitter, single men who are mad at half the population and are venting online. It's like adding chocolate ice cream to a chili soup 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:51 PM
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MMA, UFC, football, swimming, jogging, going to the gym, and hiking. I'm also a movie buff, especially pre 2010 era where imo the cinema industry was superior in quality, I sometimes play video games to unwind, read fantasy novels, comic books and regularly play DnD with my friends. I'm like super invested in a wide variety of fandoms and once I find something that interests me I become obsessed with it 🤣. I adore researching about history and politics, especially the former as it was my absolut…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:39 PM
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Yeah I was yo error 404🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:32 PM
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Bro that's straight up Pedophilia..... why are you jealous of them though?!?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:31 PM
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Exactly!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣 plus he's a try hard weirdo, just look at his post history jeeeeezus 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:52 AM
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Congrats?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:13 AM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 01:48 AM
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Don’t blame random men because the men YOU chose abused you. I wasn't refering to abusive relationship though. I was strictly talking about the average dating app experience as a woman. Personally, I used it for a week and it was freaking shit. Only a couple of my friends have found relationships on tinder but they all said that it's like finding a diamond in a coal mine. Too much thirst, too many dick picks, not enough actual conversation. It's like men forgot to read the "looking for serious r…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 08:52 PM
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My advice: learn to pursue women outside the internet, like men have always done. Young women have LEFT the online dating environment, because they were disrespected and abused. Speaking of men (and women make mistakes on the apps as well, don't get me wrong) I think they create their own problems when it comes to online dating, by driving the women out, and by swiping right on every woman, thereby upping their competition on every woman, by 1000 times over. Truth is, a lot of men and women crap…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 06:46 PM
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Lmao she trully sounds wild!!! I already love her haha
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:56 PM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 "you're way too skinny darling, a man wants something to grab a hold on" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 ffs babushkas let me LIVE in peace!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:13 PM
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Why do PPD hates clubbing that much..... I just wanna dance!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:05 PM
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That's actually a pretty wild fact ngl!!!! Sorry they divorced though but hey, that marriage has a legacy that will remain forever 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:04 PM
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Yeah and If I don't eat everything at Christmas dinner she says: "wHy DoN't YoU EaT mY dEaR".... I'm like:
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:03 PM
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Back in my hometown after a long time and the first thing my mom tells me is that I got fatter. Thanks mom!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 01:45 PM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 12:31 PM
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WHO LET THE DOGS OUT?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 11:44 AM
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Wasn't Destiny a cuck? 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 10:33 AM
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Voice reveal where? 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 10:30 AM
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My father is both a genius and wealthy lolol 🤣🤣!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 10:28 AM
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Yup but I wasn't talking about all men, but rather a subset of men that has trouble dating. I think a man getting rejected again and again or struggling because of social anxiety can find some sort of solace and comfort in porn and that makes giving up way easier. A lot of men don't have a problem finding a partner and watching porn. But the ones that do have difficulties in this area may watch a lot more porn to alleviate their sexual frustration and in turn, this makes them numb, pliable and c…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 01:30 AM
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This is literally you 😂😂😂 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 01:06 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 01:02 AM
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O yeah, I agree, reddit is really exagerated when it comes to hating porn in general. And a lot of kink shaming going on around here as well. They think if you have kinks for sure it's because you are addicted to porn, it's honestly hillarious. In saying that, I wasn't talking about addiction. I just stated that watching more porn is usually tied to unsuccessful dating, which makes checking out more comfortable. Not that porn addiction is the main cause of giving up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:58 AM
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I personally think the reason they struggle is social anxiety and the reason they're checking out is porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:49 AM
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She has amazing taste in cinema haha 🥰🥰🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:42 AM
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most people just have poor social skills which makes perma interaction with another person hard Sure! And since they can't get sex the hard way, they turn to porn. It's not as good as the real thing, but it gets the job done for those guys. bs sex and snuggling are so much better, Did I refute that in my OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:42 AM
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the guy whose photo you included isn't average in any way. He's below average. Where's the uggo?🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:39 AM
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YOU sound like an insecure mess tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:35 AM
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Thanks you hot blooded male (referring to your avatar 🤣)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:31 AM
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Asexual 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:27 AM
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Porn. Facts are, it's way too conveniant, easily accesible and comfy compared to actually putting yourself out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:24 AM
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Only Alpha Fucks Beta Buxx 🤣🤣🤣 so 1/6.... ffs
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:24 AM
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Mine is Maria :)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:20 AM
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you motherfuckers in the daily chat
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 11:54 PM
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For my health, my amazing boyfriend and hopefully future husband, for my parents who spoiled me growing up, for my grandpa who helped raise me, for my grandma who died when I was little but who's memory still remains in my heart even today, for my pets who I consider my family, for my friends, for the fact that I'm on top of college and can manage my education.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 11:48 PM
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Well, to be fair if a guy has zero income then he would probably live with his parents.... so I think you might find it a dealbreaker really 😂 Not judging btw, I'm the same way haha
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 11:06 PM
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Fuck sake finally a sane take around here 😂😂. Like for real, all my LTR's started as hookups. But not all of my hookups/FWB's turned into LTR's. I thought that's the normal way to date ffs. Like from my social circle, the women who make guys wait typically never have casual sex in general. And the ones that do, we fuck a guy withing 3 dates anyway, usually faster. Ffs I may be living in a bubble.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:14 PM
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I guess they feel weird about that whole thing that some women have: "of sleeping with casual guys right away but making the relationship guy wait" But in my experience that's kinda rare. Like my friends who make men wait don't have casual sex at all. And the rest of us more sexually open sleep with the guys we like right away.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:10 PM
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All my relationships started as hookups so...... win win 😂 And the guys I only wanted to hookup with were incompatible to me in some ways. Nothing more to that really. And nope, I didn't "make anyone wait" and the guys I had LTR's with were super hot. I only ever have sex with super hot guys (or rather guys I find super hot). I would even say that, from a purely sexual perspective, my standards are way higher for a LTR. After all, if I'm expecting to only have sex with that person for the rest o…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:00 PM
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Gosh that would be wild!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 08:31 PM
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Yo why haven't Liverpool renewed Salah's contract yet?!?!.... 🤬🤬🤬
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:41 PM
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That kid must be so stoked lmao 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:38 PM
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Uhmm.... if he's happy then 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:38 PM
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I have the cutest image in my head now thanks to you 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:37 PM
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Thanks a lot 🥰🥰🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 05:21 PM
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Not major no, It was a routine check up and the doc found two cavities, but luckily she cought them early. I had some fillings done for them and everything is fine now!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 04:36 PM
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Yep! 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 02:57 PM
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I'm super happy you had a good time! 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 02:40 PM
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Just wrapped things up and my teeth are fire right now 🔥🔥🔥🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 02:32 PM
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Yeah it depends also on water retention. Some days you may eat more salty and your normal water intake may be "retained" more thus you having more kgs on the scales or conversely may not be enough to compensate therefore you appear to lose weight. Thus a 1-2 kg difference between each day. There's nothing to worry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 12:27 PM
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Some men just think it's common sense that a high body count isn't that big of a deal. I agree! And some men will think you're a whore 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 03:37 PM
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Huh...seems like this is a guy with some level of experience who doesn't care about your N count. Kind of helps support OP's suggestion. There are also plenty of men with some level of experience that do care about n-count and will happily leave a woman because of her body count, even if that woman is a good match for him. My guy is not a monolith for all men, and I'm not idealistic enough to believe this. Look at this sub for evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 03:35 PM
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Sure, I'm just pointing out that thinking in generalities is not always a good idea so I presented a different case. In my opinion there isn't a majority for any opinion regarding body counts. Many men care, but there are also many that don't care. I will say though, of the ones that do care, many will not say it outright to the woman they want to sleep with but their views are exemplified in the slut shaming that's still going on or in the "locker room talks with the boys" or even in anonymous …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 03:34 PM
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Exactly! Sorry for being a bit aggresive but my faith in people has been quite shattered lately by everything that's been happening, both in your country and mine, yesterday...... I would love to say that all people are good and non judgemental and open minded. But fuck me the evidence for that is running thin you know..... and I'm not talking about men here! I'm talking about poeple in general. Sorry for my cynicism. It's just what I feel right now
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 03:09 PM
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Most don’t even think about it. Men don't say they think about it because that would be social suicide and no woman will ever have sex with them. Should I remind you that you may be living in a bubble, especially if you live in the US? Trump won after all. And fuck me, even here in Romania, the partial elections have been won (not the full presidency, that's in two weeks time) by a far right nutjob. And yeah, it may seem far fetched to link sex with politics but is it? Like really, think about i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 02:54 PM
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Correction: you never met a guy that said he cared about n-count out lout. I know plenty that do but do not ever say it because they're not retarded and they still get laid a ton 🤣 It's common sense at this point: you say anything about body count and no pussy for you. Men have learned lol, just like they did when they found out it's easier to lie about wanting a relationship in order to get laid. Same shit, different flavour.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 02:52 PM
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Well that can also be explained: he never asked me my body count, and in fact I was the one who asked him and initiated the convo. Turns out his number is double of mine 🤣. He's a very attractive, confident guy so def not a lack of options thing. I'm sure he wouldn't enjoy hearing the detailed breakdown but I doubt it keeps him up at night after all this time! So that probably helps. Also, he knows he's the best I've ever had and it's vice versa, so his ego is very much intact. Couple that with …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 02:15 PM
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You follow the Connor McGregor case too?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 01:38 PM
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Are you in Europe? I've always wondered if there's a noticeable difference between circumcised and uncircumcised
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 08:08 PM
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True. I've never seen an uncircumcised penis in my life lol. And I doubt I'll ever see one. I find that fascination of Americans bizzare to say the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 08:05 PM
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That's actually a good point.....
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 06:01 PM
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The sinners are usually the ones who have the most fun so I'm afraid I've already fallen.... upsiii 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 06:01 PM
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Perhaps! And yet the fantasy is so good I think I'm gonna live it a little while longer 🤭 And fuck me (and fuck me he does indeed the best 🥰) the reality is sweeter than the fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 05:45 PM
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Yeah I can notice. I'm gonna ignore him in this thread🤣.... or just roll with it and make him seethe instead 😈 Decisions decisions :))))
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 05:37 PM
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You'rw this guy? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 05:37 PM
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That revenge fantasy rarely pans out but thanks a lot!!! See you in a few years :)))
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 05:27 PM
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Ha! I was totally in camp just fuck buddies with my boyfriend because I was not looking for a relationship and somehow he just wormed his way into my heart - that asshole 😂 So he was very much a player. That's how he got me in his bed. The difference was he also commited to me 😊😇
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 05:20 PM
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The corruption is next level yes....
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 05:11 PM
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The party never stops!!! (*laughing with my equally slutty boyfriend muhahah)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 05:10 PM
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Aa got it! But from what I know, Romania is apparantely one of the main ways drugs get into Europe, especially now that Ukrain is in a war. On the eastern side, we are the best way in
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 05:08 PM
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Lmao the way everyone ever gets weed 🤣🤣🤣 Eastern Europe is not that backwards you guys!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 04:58 PM
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I'mma smoke some weed tonight 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 04:56 PM
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I agree. That’s why I like expressing my opinion because I know it triggers women and the men trying to argue with me. So you're a troll? 🤣 Couse if you are, you are doing a fine job and I tip ky hat to you. I also don’t need to find a LTR to be happy. I want to, but don’t need to. That's actually a pretty based take that unironically increases your chances of actually getting into a trully satisfying LTR without the need to settle. Now, like I told you, your standards does shrink your dating po…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 03:55 PM
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I didn't outrigjr dissagree, I just thought that's a way higher discrepancy than what I originally thought you had. From my perspective you are allowed to want anyone you desire and have any standards you want. The people trying to change you mind are butthurt and triggered that's all. You need to understand that after a certain age, the amount of virgin women available decreases significantly so you will shrink your pool massively. Unless you want to date younger that is. Again, none of my conc…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 03:34 PM
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In my experience, most men wish they had higher counts than they do. Their perspective is informed by lack and frustration. Couldn't agree more. And they don't ask themselves questions about why they feel the way they do either. They just react. Badly. Most men who actually are fairly sexually successful are also the least likely to care about n counts in women. They are also, in general, the most attractive (thus their success). I personally think this is 50/50. Fact is, few men are succesful w…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 03:29 PM
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And I love your observations!!! Also I can notice you are not actually trying to bash red pill men or insult them, but logically pick apart their mindset and seeing what work and doesn't without outright insulting them. A vast difference between people on the main threads and reddit in general. I just posted on the n-count thread on the main and you can just feel the anger coming from everyone in there. Of both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 02:44 PM
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Absolutely agree with your take!!!!! The ones that get so verbal about “not wanting it” (especially online) are the ones that are being rejected from being another notch on high-n ladies scorecards. Well I would also add that maybe some of the guys that are against it online might not be so forthcoming IRL so they could trick their way into a woman's bed. Of course, not all of them, there's no shortage of uninteresting, uncharismatic dweebs but still, it's anonymous! So some people from your fir…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 01:43 PM
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Pretty based take. You dude have a healthy mindset tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 01:35 PM
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I'm actually of the opinion that most men don't like high body count, they just don't say it aloud because they get destroyed for it. Before someone tells me that men with some level of experience don't care and aren't fucking hypocrites I will remind you that reddit or your friend group is a bubble. And since most of reddit is from the US ir Europw I'm just gonna state this: your country voted for fucking Trump and Europe is experiencing a wave of far right sympathy. If after all that you don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 01:28 PM
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The guy has a bodycount over 35 btw 🤣🤣🤣 I swear you can't make this shit up
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 01:17 PM
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Nope really
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 01:15 PM
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And you want a virgin? Bro I would have understood if you had like one or two before, not fucking over 35!?!?! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 01:15 PM
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Honestly I was expecting that coming from you 🤣 You really do have that reformed partyboy vibe going for you. Hurrah dude!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 01:07 PM
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21, about 15 (can't remember exactly). Pff fuck knows why 🤣, I think I'm just not picky when it comes to casual put super picky when it comes to relationships 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 01:06 PM
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Sorry this is actually too funny 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 12:31 PM
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Exactly, pardon my french but I can be treated like a slut in the bedroom and be cuddled and respected outside of it pretty easily. And in fact I prefer thaf type of dynamic. I love egalitarian relationships (with a slight edge to it in that the man is assertive, confident and can take charge and lead when the need arises) but all of that egalitarian shit has no business in the bedroom. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:03 AM
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Same here. I need that type of passion expressed in banter, arguments (not fights), teasing, jokes.... it would be too predictable and thus boring otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:00 AM
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Yeah I didn't want to sound like a total cunt but reading that OP made me cringe 🤣🤣 Like dude doesn't know that bedroom stuff doesn't have to blees into your everyday life. And yeah, he sounded like whinny, pouty and frankly really weak 😅. I may be terrible but I'll hold on tho my view.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 01:58 AM
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Yeah, unfortunately the main PPD nowadays is not a debate sub, it's a straight up arguing cesspoll. They have such am aggresive vibe it's honestly too off putting for me to even skim through them. I usually just rush for the daily as soon as I arrive 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 11:20 PM
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Bro you want to get 1mil downvotes? 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 11:17 PM
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So I'm not the only pervert around here haha 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 11:16 PM
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Why did you get banned? 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 11:15 PM
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Hopefully not a buttplug tail 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 11:08 PM
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That's fucking hillarious 🤣. The state you live in seems to have a fury problem lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 11:08 PM
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That's so true! That list I had of my ideal man went out the windows the moment I felt chemistry with a certain dude 🤣 There's this quote I saved from a woman I argued with on reddit when I was a teenager: "We women are the ones who make long lists of what we want in a man, and then throw the list away, as soon as there is good chemistry". At the time, I wanted it to be false, that my list that I so carefully written would be enforced. Aaaaand she was goddamn right 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 11:03 PM
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Go on r/feminism and say that Trump isn't an actual Nazi 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 10:59 PM
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They are toxic as hell so I'm not even bothering checking them out anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 10:57 PM
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Honestly, fair point. Anyone can draw that from any mental state they desire. Anger has also served as fuel for me, just not in relation to my friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:05 PM
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Girl... I thought you had shoulder length! This is actually my goal lmao 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:01 PM
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If it's a thing I want I only become more motivated to get it for myself, by my own forces. Jealousy when it comes to my friends was never a "bad" feeling, moreso a source of inspiratation. And frankly also happiness! I feel like I became a better person thanks to the poeple in my life and I couldn't be happier for their success. It drives me to improve as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:00 PM
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Yup, it's perpetuates generational trauma which is heartbreaking. The only thing we can do is not follow the same path AND teach our daughters/relatives to not do it either. Hopefully they'll listen and if they don't, well, at least our conscience is clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:37 PM
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Don't be sorry. I know I made a generalization and I wanted to make sure I was clear that my personal experience doesn't necessarily reflect reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:36 PM
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I've said that from my limited experience in seeing finance bros in the wild (and dating one myself). Of course, not all finance bros are the same everywhere in the world, that's ridiculous. I've only stated what I've personally encountered and I admit, my views on this are entirely subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:27 PM
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Wow I was never able to cut my own hair!!!!!! I'm lowkey jealous you have that skill and you bet I would love to practice it regularly kn myself too. But maybe you can experiment with a different style, especially if you have a need for a change. And if you're not satisfied you can always just rectify it yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:24 PM
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Honestly hard agree. Every finance bro I've ever met seemed to have never left his college/high school days behind 🤣 It's like they encapsulate the stereotypical fuckboy to a T.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:12 PM
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Well, I'm not gonna say all SAHM are like that but a good number of them are and have shitty husbands to boot. So sadly they may be just following the examples they see......
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:10 PM
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I'm currently in the process of growing mine out. I was in the same place and decided to say "fuck it" and see how it looks longer haha
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:09 PM
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Lmao exactly the same here!!!! 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:20 PM
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If you're afraid of risk in life you might as well never do anthing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:29 PM
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It's more of a problem of compatibility here tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:27 PM
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They also always assume casual sex guys are horrible assholes by default. And that relationships never start from casual sex arrangements?!?!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:32 PM
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Well my boyfriend started as a hookup so.... win win? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:21 PM
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u/New-Parfait-1286 just as I promised 🤣 Spoilers Saw it Gladiator 2. I'd say better than expected because after the past few movies my expectations of Ridley were at zero. Some dodgy CGI in certain parts like the monkey fight, not too bad in others. Visuals nice, costumes also good. Nostalgia thrown around at every opportunity. Definitely short of the first especially it lacked depth compared to the first. The first worked because the story was simple and clear, this one jumps from villain to vi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 09:14 PM
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Who wants to be normal anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 08:52 PM
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Nobody ever asked me but I would have been honest if they did 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 02:01 PM
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We're pretty apolitical tbh and the climate in Romania is very different than the US: here all parties are shit, they are corrupt and frankly do not give a shit about us, normal people. I haven't voted since I turned 18 because it's literally irrelevant to me. Me and my bf has simillar views and have talked extensively about how we are gonna raise our children. We are very much alligned. Tbh me and my bf did start as "go with the flow" but we have to the conclusion that we are definitely getting…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:00 AM
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In Romania all political parties are shit really with no ideology... so I guess we're kinds apolitical? I certainly wouldn't have broken up with him if he voted for Trump for example
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:57 AM
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To be fair neither me nor my bf have ever discussed our political alignments 🤣 I think it's a US thing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:19 AM
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So I'm a Taurus and my rising sun is Cancer. It's pretty accurate for me!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 10:17 PM
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I guess my branch swing definition is different than the one commonly used in TRP. For me it meant never being single, checking out emotionally of one relationship and then waiting until I had a viable option lined up to leave. And yeah I guess it all just depends on who you know! My boyfriend is hot AF (what can I say, I noticed his body before I noticed his brain), sexy, sarcastic, he makes me laugh and very happy in the bedroom. He is crazy smart and a talented musician, handy around the hous…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 12:43 AM
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You're absolutely right, and I feel like this isn’t a new idea—just something many people aren’t willing to say out loud. I’m in my early 20s, and even when I was a teenager, the common complaint among my friends was, 'Why don’t I like the guys who like me back? And why don’t the guys I like feel the same?' The reality is that young men who aren’t physically or socially above average don’t tend to inspire attraction in their female peers and often have to put in extra effort to earn it, even wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 12:28 AM
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Lighter fluid without a spark does not start a fire at all. A match without accelerant will quickly burn out before it ignites the kindling. Again, great analogy. We also need to take individuality into account, which is why identifying a general trend can be difficult. Personally, I prefer a slight edge toward alpha traits. Others may be drawn to someone who leans a bit more toward the beta side. Ultimately, it depends on the specific woman and her desires. What I do think we can conclude, howe…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:43 PM
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I understand the logic of your post (and also the insightful comments from u/TopShelfSnipes), but I’d like to offer an additional perspective: there is a significant difference between attraction and arousal. While some ‘beta’ traits may be seen as attractive, they are not necessarily arousing. Using the excellent analogies you provided, I'll make my case: I think a man who is 60% ‘alpha’ and 40% ‘beta’ would be considered ideal. Such a man would be arousing enough that genuine desire is the pri…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:57 PM
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Lmao I don't think so. And fumblings in dating are part of life haha. Women aren't all that great at pulling dudes either. Honestly thinking of the shit I did in my teenage years makes me cringe slightly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 08:01 PM
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The weirdos usually have the loudest voices. So they drown out the normal takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:57 PM
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Your're like the Gandalf of reddit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:56 PM
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Yeah it's such a big dicrepancy between the vibes here and the vibes on the main. Here it's kinda wholesome while the main threads are full of unhinged people of both genders
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:55 PM
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Ngl I was extremely in shape during the pandemic 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:53 PM
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It's gonna be awesome. Be chill, cool and collected, go with the flow and just enjoy the vibe ❤️. You got this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:50 PM
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Reported. You weirdo
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:49 PM
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Well it takes a while to figure out what you want in general. And I sometimes found that what I wanted wasn't necessarily good/what I trully needed. I guess the best advice I can muster is just give it a shot. With anything in life, just give it a shot and see what pans out. Couse who knows what unexpected wonder might come your merry way ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:45 PM
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Ou not at all... there are people divorcing over this shit no cap 😂 Check out any dating advice sub... I swear you can't make any of this up
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:23 PM
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Your right God dammit.... I have a feeling reddit is gonna be so annoying this next 4 years.... Gosh but just Imagine if JD Vance wins in 2028 🤣🤣. I'm gonna delete this app for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:22 PM
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r/pics was the epithone of cringe on the election and early voting days... the virtue signalling was off the charts lmao. Fuckers I'm there for panoramic nature photos not that political posturing nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:20 PM
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You encapsulated everything I personally think regarding this whole debacle... For the first two days I understood them even If I found their opinions lacking critical thinking, tied way too strongly to their speciffic echo chambers. But at this point, stop whining ffs. And the "winning side" are also cringy <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:14 PM
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I understand that for people that actually live there it would be a hot topic for a bit... but come ooon just stop with all this bs
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:08 PM
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Apparently I do 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:50 PM
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I don't even find the guy annoying at this point.... but the people who constatly bitch and whine because the democratic process didn't have the result they wanted is fucking cringe. Just get a life mofos and let all that ideological bullshit go already 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:46 PM
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Yeah and you have me who doesn't give a shit about all the left vs right crap. Like I did watch the election because it was genuinely entertaining (ours are depressive as fuck) and analysed it for shit and giggles but I'm in no way invested in it. I'm like cool, some women online are losing their shit and I laugh at them but other than that? I have college to worry about, a life to live lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:43 PM
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Yes but in a case like this they are not his kids... so why would he need to "step up" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:27 PM
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The only horrible person I see in a situation like this is the mother
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:25 PM
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I took a break from PPD because of the elections and still people here are talking about it.... fuck me....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:24 PM
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He shoots his shots at one of us and if we find him ok/not a creep we might direct him at a friend of ours who is available. Conversely, if we know that nobody wants to hookup that given night, we just tell them we're all taken 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 10:09 PM
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Exactly, there are endless opportunities to cheat everyday, and if he/she does it than that person just showed you who he/she was.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 10:02 PM
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I went to the club without my boyfriend this past weekend. Didn't even think about any kind of cheating so don't say anything regarding that guys 😂😂😂 We were 5 girls, only one was lowkey open to find a guy but she never got approached so we just danced the night away like we always do. It was so fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 09:24 PM
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Yeah, it's just that sometimes even if the convos are had and both people involved do everything right, you might still end up incompatible down the line by virtue of changing as people..... and maaan that's some Nickelodeon bullshit right there that's honestly so annyoing 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 02:47 AM
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Younger people have higher libido, more free time and they less often cohabitate. You have to be realistic in your expectations. If you've seen my main comment under your pose - I was talking about it there. And still, there's been an influx of women on r/deadbedroom who mostly kept their high libidos that they had when younger (even after childbirth, years cohabitating etc) while their husbands didn't. And they feel so sexually frustrated it's palpable. So, having "sane" expectations means diff…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 02:10 AM
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I can also relate what you said to the RP concept of "Monkey Branching". I branched quite a bit when I was younger. But then I stopped when I met my boyfriens over 2 years ago. Because I had swung up to the top of the tree - he's the best. It's possible that there might be someone out there who is as good (I don't believe in soulmates but I'd be pretty hard pressed to invent a better match.) but why would I risk a sure thing that is amazing for the potential of something that is a best equivalen…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 09:00 PM
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Your comments on this topic are straight up gold. For real!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 08:55 PM
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"You check all my boxes, I'm good with that, let's live the life we both intend to...together...and let's give up the search for better because honestly the odds are extremely low I'll find all the things I have with you in another human I'm physically attracted to." Well, honestly this seems to be quite optimal though. Like basically you don't look outside for "better" because you already believe you have "the best" in a way. Sorry for coming on this thread sooo late, but I just found it fascin…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 08:25 PM
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Sorry for commeting so late on this post but this whole convo left me so confused lol 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 08:08 PM
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Yeah I understand. Also agreed, 11 is way above average from what I know irl
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 09:31 PM
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The n-count graph I don't get. So the average number of partners are 4 for women and 2 for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 08:56 PM
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It trully does feel like a blessing ;). Like I'm not usually someone who believes in soulmates or stuff like that.... but I will lie if I didn't admit that my life is so much better with him by my side.... it's like he was the missing piece of a puzzle.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:58 PM
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Yeah exactly! Like we didn't go detailing every little second of our past but we do share funny stories and whatnot and nobody gets insecure or anything like that. We know we're the best fit for each other :)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:14 PM
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He knows the broad strokes as do I with him, but no we have never given each other a full and detailed account of our sexual histories. I guess your follow-up would be, he would care / be mad if he found out my n count. I really don't think so honestly. I can only take him by his actions - if he cared to know, he would know.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 03:17 PM
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Well me and him started as a hookup and I though he was beyond hot (like seriously, he is HOT🤣), found out we are super sexually compatible and kept hooking up a lot, spend more and more time together and I fell for him hard and vice versa. Turns out we are very compatible as people too and make a pretty awesome team. So for me, it really wasn't a hard decision to commit to him. He's the best sex I've ever had and the best relationship I've ever been in. So yeah, pretty straight forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 03:13 PM
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He was very promiscuous himself so he doesn't have any problem with it (and yes, he's aware of my past as I am aware of his, we have talked about our histories in general terms).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:58 PM
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Eh I was on my phone 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:56 PM
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6 months? Well we've been together for 2 years now so it's all good 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:45 PM
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Damn thanks a lot for the heads up 😂😂😂😂 Appreciate it! ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:44 PM
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Rejecting and being rejected are both normal parts of dating Not even just dating, but part of life itself! It's such a normal human experience it's wild more people don't get it without explaining it to them. It's like they've never been rejected at a job interview or rejected a job offer themselves. Or a friendship, or an offer/business deal or literally anything at all. Fact is, people make choices and live with their decisions. Nothing more nothing less. And being bitter than sometimes you d…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 08:11 PM
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I do understand the main point, I see it on reddit a lot of the time as well, this notion that the best sex is the guy that's a loser etc etc. And I've certainly slept with some guys like that, it's just that my experience has been so vastly different across the board that I haven't been able to notice a patern in the quality of the sex/the passion. It was so random for me. The only common theme in my life has been that older guys (just a few years older btw, never had a super high age gap) were…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 08:04 PM
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I've actually been thinking about this a bit lately. I think the issue is at the end of the day, women are attracted to men they have chemistry with. A lot of that has to do with looks, but it's not all about looks. We want to be with a guy who makes you feel excited, like you're the only person in a crowded room, that makes you feel the weight of the air between you. And yes, ideally this guy will also be like, a good person with a job. But chemistry comes first. And the guys that are really, r…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 07:59 PM
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Yes I have heard and I throughly dissagree with the notion that drama in any way shape or form gives passion to an encounter. As for my experiences: I dated a man who was a "bad boy". Tatoos, fast cars, weed smoking, piercings. You get my drift But he was also...not an ass hole. At least he was never really unkind. I liked him because he was attractive and vibrant and exciting. We'd go on road trips and out of the blue and spontaneously do stuff it was great. But he also he made me brownies for …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 07:52 PM
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Yeah it was really good and described my experience to a T 🤣🤣🤣. Like I can seriously say that all the sex I've ever had, casual or not, has been with guys that best embody what you've just written. I also think I got a little lucky as the men in my life have been genuinely great!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 07:33 PM
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Listen, I've read you thread, even commented in it but with this I just cannot agree with. Couse you're basically confirming their AF/BB bullshit you know 🤣🤣. Like yeah, the casual sex I've had were with guys that I was incompatible with for a relationship. But they were still awesome people, not a "loser" in the least. But the sex I've had in LTRs? O La la 🤣🤣🤣. Now that's the best sex across the board haha
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 07:30 PM
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You've summarised everything in such a succint way that I simply cannot add anything to your analysis. Other than: "Spot on!" 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 07:17 PM
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Absolutely. Like I've never been personally "pumped and dumped" because it would imply that, at some point in my life, I've had sex that I didn't want to have. Which is completely false. Sure, I've certainly had short-term relationships that didn't end with commitment for multiple reasons, sometimes on his side, sometimes on my side, sometimes mutual... but isn't that just life and dating? In the few cases where the guy wasn't serious about me and I wanted more, while unfortunate, it doesn't mea…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 07:04 PM
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Makes a lot of sense then. The anglophine sphere is much more lax on hookup culture from what I've read/seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 05:07 PM
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The country also plays a part in this. In in East Europe so casual sex here, while it certainly exists, it's not as common as more westernised places.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:30 PM
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Also a loud minority skews everyone's perspective. On casual sex most girls i know have tried it one or twice and never again. Lots of girls I know never tried it at all. And yet I know two or three who do it ALL THE TIME. If you're someone who decides to base the female experience on those few high n girls, you've missed or ignored the rest who don't partake into it. Or just assume that they're all lying because that loud minority has become representative to you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:31 PM
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You raise a pretty good point. Attraction is definitely subjective between people and the "attraction level" that we perceive can be influenced by our gender. In saying that, I don't think the differences are THAT drastic. Like I trully believe that if we both were to rate a guy or a woman we would both come up with pretty simillar conclusions. Not the same obviously but generally close.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 02:58 PM
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Yup, you explained in much fewer words the essence of what I was trying to say haha. It's also accurate to my experience and what I've generally seen happening around me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 02:47 PM
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Makes a ton of sense. Tbh I'm not sure about that "friends first" thing though. Let me explain. I think it can can be done, but I've never seen good friends or like close friends ending up together. And women generally don't like it when that happens because it feels like (though not always) that that guy faked the friendship to get the relationship. Worse of you were unavailable at the time and they stuck around only to make a move once you were free. It fells pretty shady. On saying that what …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 02:37 PM
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Friends first i can definately believe. Especially at university where its easier to get to know people at relatively similar lifestyles and life stages. Though in saying that I definately didn't know anyone who got into a relationship after 2 years if they weren't already... Something else before hand. Most people I know were friends like a max of 5 or 6 months. But hey who am I to argue with science. Though this bodes the question, what happens after tertiary education?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 02:23 PM
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Yeah I tried to think about myself and my friends and I don’t know most girls are feeling devastated if they sleep with Chad and he doesn’t get in a relationship with her. The hot guys wanting casual sex that I’ve slept with were honest about sex being casual and it was what I wanted at the time, if it was good sex I’d sleep with them again, I never thought there was a relationship, and never felt “dumped”… actually any that weren’t one night stands from the get go I slept with multiple times if…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 02:19 PM
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Happy cake day!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:24 PM
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Yeah in the week I've been on here I've seen that mentioned numerous times actually 😂. Always wondered why. I promise I won't reference that ever from now on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:23 PM
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Yes you are good sir! How's that lab of yours going? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 12:55 PM
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Fuck yeah, especially when you behave like a monkey, pick it up and throw it around at other people. Like said guy did
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 12:54 PM
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Still, weird fucking interaction. I only caught the start of it last night before going to bed but I thought he would let it go quickly. He didn't lol. And he was way off the mark too. Always fascinating when you see someone completely wrong doubling down. Makes then seem extra..... I don't want to use the word but it starts with "S" and ends with "D" 😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 12:53 PM
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Yeah, fucking weird shit
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 12:46 PM
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Yeah but it was still something that disrupted the peace 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 12:46 PM
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That bald virgin guy accused sheila of flirting with steak and in fact kinda accused all of us of flirting with him. Or him with us. Fuck knows
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 12:45 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 12:40 PM
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I swear to god it's always like this with me 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Evert time something happens I miss it, in real life and on here too 😂😂😂😂 Fuuuuuuck
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 12:33 PM
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Ok what freaking drama has been happening here? I miss for like 10 hours and shit hit the fan ffs 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 12:25 PM
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The PPD panty dropper 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 12:12 PM
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Fight, fight, fight!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 12:12 PM
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I actually agree with you. Speaking your mind and encouraging your SO to dress up for you, what you find sexy etc etc should be the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 12:11 PM
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Considering not every woman agreed I wouldn't say it proves anything. Just that size does matter in the sense that different women have different preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:36 PM
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It depends. Like for me I wouldn't want him to indulge me if he doesn't like doing that himself or. Especially if he finds that kink repulsive/actively hates it. But, thinking about me, I've definitely indulged in some kinks I wouldn't have normally done, out of a desire to please him and derived great pleasure from seeing how much he liked it. Basically I'm turned on by his pleasure and if he had a simillar mindset, I would accept it as well. Caveat being, those kinks I tried weren't dealbreake…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 10:29 AM
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Noo Rick!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 10:13 AM
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What does weird kinks mean though?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 06:16 PM
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I'm super sorry that happened....
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 10:37 AM
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My favorite outfit on a guy is the Addidas/Puma tracksuit so no, I really don't give a shit. Now I admit to having a thing for the bad boy aesthetic with tattoos, leather jackets and all that jazz, so a mix of both of these is ideal for me 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 09:54 PM
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My dude, I'm a really optimistic go lucky person in life. EVEN I cannit dispute the fact that attractive people have an easier time in dating. Because they obviously do. I'm like, not blind lmao 🤣🤣🤣. Yeah, being attractive has to do with charm as well, but let's be honest, looks are what gets you through the door in most cases. And super good looking guys don’t even need to be very charming, they can just be attractive and not offputting. It helps to be charming but it’s not a requirement. Also,…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 08:57 PM
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I love this answer and I'm personally super happy for you!!!! Congratulations on an awesome marriage with an anwesome guy!!!! Sounds like the dream haha ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 11:07 PM
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What might change is that women will do more sexually with committed romantic partners as opposed to a hookup, but that is more about safety and trust than how hot that man is. This might be the most important fact mentioned so far. Absolutely the kinkiest, most adventurous sex I've had have been in relationships with people I deeply trusted and with whom I was the most secually compatible with. The BDSM scene is rife with fatties and uggos and they do all that stuff with each other. Funny anecd…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 10:57 PM
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Yeah and why would you do kinky shit with somone bad in bed? Hell he wouldn't even get the second round.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 10:54 PM
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Simply put. Chemistry rules man! It's not about how you look (though there is a threshold) but what you can awaken inside them based on how you make them feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 10:49 PM
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Neah dog. I like what I like and If a guy doesn't do the things I want to do than out the door I go. Sexual compatibility has nothing to do with looks and being attractive/hot doesn't automatically makes you the best sex I've ever had. Chemistry is key and that, well, while it can be cultivated and built upon, it can't be manufacured from scratch. It's there or it's not, irrespective of the hottness of the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 10:45 PM
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Ngl, I do love me a good butt on a man 🤣🤣🤣 It just inspires me to think about some stuff 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 10:42 PM
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Absolutely agree! Everyone should know that looks get you through the door and personality keeps you in.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 10:35 AM
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Don't think I was questioning your choice in any way. I wasn't!!! And I hope you had a good time!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 04:23 PM
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Yeah exactly haha. Like I put myself in both of you shoes and I would rather not do that irl you know what I mean 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 03:39 PM
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Lmao I would never get over that personally, it would feel like I'm the second option, but I'm glad you have a different experience. I'm always fascinated about the various ways people feel attraction/love and how they come to have this feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:34 PM
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Girl, you gorgeous!!! 🥰🥰🥰🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 10:11 AM
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Well some are a bit taller but they're all badasses I assure you!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 10:02 AM
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Thanks! I'm looking forward to being a part of this community too :) It seems very welcoming so I'm glad for that 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:30 AM
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This is a pretty incredible perspective actually. At first I was thinking I wouldn't break up over it but then I though more about it and yeah... I don't think I'd personally be able to get over it. Plus, while sex is not everything it is kinda the defining feature in a relationship... after all, I'm not fucking my friends nor people I'm not deeply attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:29 AM
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It would definitely sting a little. Like I wouldn't break up over it but yeah, it would suck ass for a bit knowing that....
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:15 AM
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I'm sure you will and I can't wait for your next progress pic 🥰 I'm 157 cm so 5'2", just calculated it haha (we're using the metric system over here)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:13 AM
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Well I was genuine in my assesment and I trully think people around here are beautiful. Now, if you want to know, I do think you were the fittest :)) or rather my prefered body type but that doesn't mean all the others weren't attractive, they were 100% But I like how you’re a hypegirl for everyone here. What even brought you to this sub? You seem really sweet and not jaded I wanted to see whatsupp and understand the way of thinking of the men and women around here. Idk, it's just interesting to…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:11 AM
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Eastern Europe, Romania to be precise. So yeah, makes a ton of sense, I was actually gonna ask you if you were Dutch/Norwegian/Sweedish etc
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 01:33 AM
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Lmao thar fucker 🤣🤣. Hoped you changed barbers after that haha Unfortunalety Halloween is not big in my part of the world but if it was I would have loved to go as Harley Quinn. Like this: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 01:31 AM
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My dude have you seen the people posting here?!?!?! They are hot!!! And even the ones who are not yet Chad, they will be in a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 01:26 AM
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Well, there are plently of us here lol. Personally I have my grandma's hair :). So it runs in the family. But then again, it runs in many other families so it's nothing special 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 01:25 AM
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That's such an awesome idea for a costume!! Have tons of fun 🥰 Also fair enough on the short hair, I also tried cutting mine when I was a kid Cleopatra style and let me tell you: I ain't turning a scissor (in my hand at least 🤣) in my hair's direction either 😂😂. Suffice to say, I fucked it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 01:09 AM
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Haha thanks a lot YuYu!!!!! But yeah, the cardio helps with this but also idk, I always burned callories fast and my bones are defintitely on the small side. Like I said, I envision that in a few months you're gonna be built like a linebacker, and to me that's also super duper hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 01:07 AM
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Maan you are handsome as hell so any style might suit you! Like short hair, fade, slicked back, all can suit you I think. Not sure about broccoli but thar's too common nowadays anyway so you wouldn't lose anything. Dreads can also work! And even if you aren't happy with it you can just grow it back to this bomb ass style :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 01:03 AM
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Natural :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 01:00 AM
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White
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:35 AM
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The afro!!!! The style!!! Love it!!!! 🤩
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:32 AM
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Haha thanks! It's one of my favorites as well :))
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:30 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:30 AM
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Haha I saw yours too! She's good a Chad in her hands my dude! 😎🤩
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:28 AM
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Thank youuu ❤️❤️❤️ This compliment (and all of PPD) made my night ngl 🥰🥰🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:25 AM
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Seriously thanks so much!!!! 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:22 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:06 AM
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Did you look in the mirror lately!?!? YOU and Sarai are stunning lmao!!!!!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:05 AM
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Haha thanks so much!❤️❤️❤️ well one is a butterfly, the other is a tiki statue (i got this one when I was drunk btw 🤣🤣🤣🤣)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:04 AM
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You know what, fuck it guys 🤣🤣🤣 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:58 PM
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Yeah and if a guy might ask me in the future and not like the answer..... well he can leave lol, the past already happened. And we should end it because of the sexual incompatiblity. He's allowed to have his standards and I'm allowed to not give a fuck and just leave (and I won't insult him on them either, he can have any worldview he wants).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 08:33 PM
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Fuck yes I literally can't decide lmao 🤣🤣🤣. I'm also with Bivol only because Beterbiev is 39 and had a few injuries these past few years. But even with that, I'm only like 51 percent on that. It's that close!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 07:29 PM
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Yeah like, I'm high N-count for example, especially for my age. I wouldn't be offended if a guy disqualified me for a LTR based on that. It's just means we don't have compatible views on sexuality, or he just can't get over my past. Which is ok, the best thing to do is breaking up and both going on our own merry ways. Never happened to me but if it did who gives a fuck 🤣🤣🤣🤣. That's life, things don't always go according to plan and people are allowed to believe what they want to believe and live…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 07:18 PM
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Also this is my first N-Count thread yayyyy 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 07:14 PM
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I wrote 100 by mistake man!!!! Anyway who gives a fuck, It's Bivol vs Beterbiev for undisputed light heavyweight championship!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 07:11 PM
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Why both men, women, and white knights get so butthurt in these threads jeeezus 🤣🤣🤣. Just date whoaver you want and that's it. It's not that complicated my dudes, dudettes. And if someone doesn't like your standards or you aren't to their liking, well who gives a shit. Just don't date each other 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 07:09 PM
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1! (I think) 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 07:04 PM
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There’s guys who automatically pass the looks threshold, and guys who automatically fail the looks threshold. But there’s a fairly decent rung in between of men who are in the middle who can up their game with personality and comparability.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 12:41 PM
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I am not asking that. I don't believe anyone's worthy of love and sex. It's not a constitutional right. It's not a constitutional right yes, but genuinely good people are definitely worthy of love. And most do find it. I am saying that it's futile to tell avg men to get a better haircut when when the chad is what most women are biologically programmed to genuinely be sexually attracted to. As an avg man, the best course of action is being able to secure commitment from a woman when you and she i…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:51 AM
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If what you’re asking is “so then are average men not worthy of love and women just pretend to like them?” The answer is no. But they have to make more of an effort to win over affections. More attractive men will always have an easier time with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:29 AM
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In 5 minutes I know If I'm sexually attracted to someone and open to fucking them. "Open" doesn't mean I jump into bed right away. It means I'm open to considering doing that 🤣 Chemistry I think you can feel fast yes, but not 5 minutes. By the end of the first date though... you know. The spark is there from the start, and is subjective between the people involved. BUT, that doesn't mean the chemistry doesn't get better over time. It most surely does. And when chemistry improves, attraction and …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:05 AM
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Yeah most of the answers here are people who think one leads into two 🤣🤣🤣. Like yeah, in real life those two options are not mutually exclusive but in this scenario, they are. And people seem to not quite get that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 10:24 AM
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A lot of the reason why men don't get 2 is because they don't hit the gym, they eat like shit, they drink alcohol and do other drugs, they sleep like 3-6 hours per night, they dress like dorks, their haircut is whack, they don't take care of their skin, etc. Basically, lots of men aren't lusted after because they don't looksmax at all, in any capacity, whatsoever My guy, your comment should be pinned to the sidebar!!!!! So many "average men" could become super yummi if they just spent a yota of …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 10:16 AM
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Ageed, especially with the N-count, men are mad at the number of hookups rather than looking deeper at the relationships. That's really where the most and best sex happens generally. Being the best she ever had depends I guess. Its different because it might imply there is something youre simply lacking. And depending on what that is you may genuinely think youre not good enough. Listen, I didn't give OP much shit for that because I myself have that desire, to be the best for my guy. The differe…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 10:09 AM
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I also love the clasic brown ones and I'm looking forward to buy one pair. I have an outift in mind and they would be the finishing touch haha
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:06 PM
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Nice! I also have some pink uggs from my mom that I just adore and wear them any chance I get. Last year I got a PS5 from her couse I took perfect scores in some big exams 🤣. Makes me feel like I'm still in middle school getting rewarded for good grades but I loved that feeling then and I still love it now in my early twenties haha
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 08:39 PM
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That's fair. Funnily enough people in that "league" don't want anything to do with each other funnily enough 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 08:34 PM
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Haha sounds awesome! What I adored about mine was also his confidence and ability to talk your ears off and draw connections betweej so many different many subjects and areas of knowledge. Like the way his brain worked was so fascinating to me. Like one time we were dozing off and I jokingly asked him to tell me a goodnight story. I thought he would laugh at me and fall asleep but nooo. My guy, without second thought takes out a book (to this day, I don't know from where he materialised that so …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 08:32 PM
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Well maybe, but it would be from overly desperate guys.... so yeah it's attention but shit attention you know
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 08:22 PM
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Yeah... still, knowing me if I had the funds I totally would splurge on a thing like this for myself 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 08:20 PM
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He also reminded me of a guy I casually dated while in junior year of high school. One of the most hillarious, chill and happy go lucky guys I've ever known.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 08:19 PM
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Yeah, if she's super socially awkard, doesn't take care of herseld and unnatractive.... same as the guys really.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 08:05 PM
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I LOVE IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 08:04 PM
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Agreed lol, he's much more more my taste than the above guy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 08:00 PM
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It's good she's an ex!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 07:21 PM
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Happy Cake day!!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 07:16 PM
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Being entitled to it is so fucked up. If he wanted choking and spaking he should break up and find a woman... who wants to be spanked and chocked lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 04:43 PM
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Read this thread and you won't be so sure anymore 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Also I understand, I guess different people have different experiences so that's totally valid. Glad your current guy is your best though!!!! ❤️🥰 That's really special!!!! I relate in the sense that I too have definitely had awesome sex with people I would never date. It's just that that I wouldn't consider them "bad" I guess 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 04:10 PM
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Don't forget Manuel Ferrara ❤️❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 02:57 PM
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Never heard this irl or had it happen to me... but yeah I guess it's possible though I would say improbable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 01:53 PM
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Well I wouldn't say it's like specifically on my list but I do value sexual compatibility super highly. And with that in mind I don't think It's really possible that my future husband won't eventually be my best sex partner. Like I said, my standards for sex are really important because sex is really important to me.... With that in mind, I literally can't compute choosing someone who's not my best, or who will not become my best down the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 01:51 PM
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She is outright gorgeous!!! And those eyes really make her look so special!!!! I adore her 🥰🥰🥰 I fully get you but I would urge being more... idk not so direct. Like OP has a post on sucide watch so I'm like..... yeah better talk in a chill manner.....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 01:46 PM
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Firstly spot on with all your comments in this thread. Second of all... Jesus Christ I love your cat haha ❤️❤️❤️❤️ She's so cute and adorable and those eyes!!!!! 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 01:25 PM
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Umm that's not entirely correct I feel like. And I wouldn't say this to OP who seems to be an extremely gullible man who might actually become a dickhead in order to be "the best".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 01:00 PM
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Thant that's a shitty person and I wouldn't fault anyone for leaving in this case. I know I would.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:43 AM
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As I said in all fairness, guys ask stupid question, promise to not get mad, then get mad anyway. Its a catch-22 you really should answer truthfully but the guy cant handle the truth. Yeah that's understandable. But I also think that no good can come up by any answer other than yes. Like I'm gonna admit, even I would be hurt if he straight up told me: "nope, you're not the best but I'm with you for for all the X,Y, Z reasons you bring me". That's like a consolation prize no joke. Or the other st…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:33 AM
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Yeah true I suppose... it's just an incredibly dumb thing to just air out you know. Like even if he wasn't the best, who in their right mind would actually say it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:01 AM
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And they were actually honest with you?!? The fuck, even if he wasn't the best I would take it to my grave lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:39 AM
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This scenario always fascinated me. I only see it around reddit of course (irl I have no idea who my friends best sexual partners are) but I'm like how do you find this shit out?!?!? Like who the fuck tells their boyfriend: "Hey, Adonis was a stud you know, best sex I've ever had!!!" And, even if a guy directly asked..... who will tell him "No honey, you're not... but Adonis and his horse cock.... fuuuuck" 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:32 AM
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I'm seriously thinking men who come to places like this are traumatised by toxic shitheads like the woman above.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:26 AM
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Not to mention the “best sex” is usually with dysfunctional men. Reminds me of the quote from the movie Trainwreck: “ You don't want best-sex-that-you've-ever-had-guy. That's a creepy guy. Best-sex-that-you've-ever-had-guy is in jail.” I’d rather have consistently good hot intimate sex than crazy mindblowing sex with a toxic mess. Now now look at what you've done. OP is gonna look into some Ted Bundy shit now thanks to this info 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Jokes asside I see this narrative is quite popular but I ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:22 AM
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https://youtu.be/pM76LtznNrc?si=CCVAJWcaeSlhBnuK I hear voices in my head They council me, they understand They talk to me!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:14 AM
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Yeah like how would he even know this info?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:00 AM
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Firstly if he wasn't the best I woudn't be with him in the first place. Secondly, I would never tell a soul anyway. Gossiping about that would be extremely dissrespectfull and I wouldn't blame anyone for leaving in that situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:40 AM
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What is funny is the logic this guys employ. Like take for example kinky sex. A guy loves kinky sex. His gf doesn't want to do it. Using his logic, he will break up with her if she did have kinky sex in the past, but keep dating her if she hasn't..... Like where is his autonomy here, his standards? It all depends on what she did or didn't do before. So freaking stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 03:55 PM
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How can you not let her considering she didn't know you existed at the time? 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 03:50 PM
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Didn't you read my flair? Already owned buddy! I have my collar and contract and everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:59 PM
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Why should I dickride a sigma when I can dickride an Alpha who's also a Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:54 PM
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You're new here? Once we go Chad we never go Beta! Plus I'm in my early 20's so the era were we get our backs blown up by Alphas... the time to settle is much much later 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:40 PM
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Lmao I do hope you are troll. But it's just that this topic has been beaten to death mate. Like eviscerated Jack the Ripper style 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:38 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:36 PM
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Pretty much this! Past matters, but not in the way frames it. And I would moreso look at the present with the attitude: "am I 100% satisfyed? Sexually. Emotionally. Personally?". If so, who cares about his past in that way. If I'm happy with the way he treats me and my needs are met than what's the big deal?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:12 PM
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Ah shit here we go again.....
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:09 PM
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I don't really think generalizations like this are necessarily accurate. It depends on the individuals forming the relationship and their "baggage", personalities, current lifesyles etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:09 PM
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I guess I never had this issue, even with an absolute Chad I had as an FWB once, I know for a fact he had other women too but he seemed to always be able to fit me in somewhere... He was excellent in bed and also taught me many things about how to be better in bed myself and even how to get more enjoyment. For me it was worth it to experience that at that time, I think some of what I learned (including about myself) back then has contributed to my current sex life being so good.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:04 PM
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My dude you are spitting facts lately! ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 12:15 PM
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Pff, course we didn't see them while we were getting our backs blown up by The Bad Boy Chad..... because that's what we really wanted! 3 minutes of Alpha is better than 3 decades of beta! It is known! <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 09:20 AM
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You in this thread 🤣🤣🤣 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 09:09 AM
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Yeah like wtf is he even talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 12:13 AM
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We are also in talks for a MMF threesome. Thing is, in my case he has a guy he used to do this sort of thing with so I would basically get the ideal: two hot guys comfortable with one another and who will give me a good time. Bonus points I also know the dude and yeah, he is as hot as my man 🤣🤣. But I'm taking it slow and researching and talking about it. I really really don't want to fuck it up and ruin the best relationship I've ever been in. With a FWB? I would have gone through with it ages …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 07:09 PM
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Absolutely! I'm one of the commentors who agreed with this point, as I personally do require way more convos and reasearch and general time to decide for an MMF threesome with my partner. Because I care about him and I don't want to implode our relationship. Not because I don't find him hot enough to "give" him that experience. I wouldn't have this kind of drawn out thought process for a FWB though. I wouldn't care nearly enough about him to consider him leaving. I would be like... well ok. And …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 06:22 PM
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Yeah this is one of the common scenarios that annoy me to no end. Like no, I'm not comfortable with my bf just casually chatting up with his ex, cozying up together etc etc. And not, I really don't care that someone out there is mr security pants super sure of himself and making a big fuss about it. Who cares my dude/dudette. The most common insult around here is "insecure". You show even a hint of human emotions wabam, the insecure label is stamped on your forehead. Stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 05:37 PM
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So happy for you! And that your boy got your back! Brother from another mother that guy ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 05:05 PM
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And it's kinda annoying that Reddit is so against insecurity of any kind. It's like their 100 complete human beings after reading 2-3 shitty self improvement books and copy pasting that advice en masse. Here we have two posters and the reddit community for example: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 05:03 PM
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Reddit in general is very anti tradition in general so I wouldn't assume this platform accuratetly represents society as whole. There are plenty of people with unpopular opinions for Reddit who just go away and find their own spaces. Some even on other subs on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:49 PM
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Well since AITA, by your own graphs, is largely populated by women, of course they're gonna have a bias. Duh And since most women are left leaning of course the spaces inhabitaed by women are left leaning and biased. Because duh. Also, don't take AITA seriously, those are writting projects and most posts are fake. Flame wars are very popular on that sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:46 PM
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There's no shortage of women dating older men though...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:38 PM
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Well I attributed those qualities with improvement because I trully believe if I didn't conciously work on myself to go out there and socialize, I would have remained a shy, friendless geek. Maturity would not have magically make me have the friends I have now. I did that. Keep in mind I'm not talking about RP here, but life in general. Their views are.. werid to say the least but one aspect I always endorsed is self improvement. Because I did the same and it worked! Also, while objectively I kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:34 PM
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So you think genetics is all that matters? Really? Couse I went from being an introverted geek in middle school to quite a social butterfly in high school to right now, having a tight knit social circle. I also went from being shy to actually liking public speaking and being quite good at it too. Life is not only dependent on your genetics and you can work to improve. I know I did. And I see it with some people around me as well. So no, I seriously don't agree at all with you on this one. You ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 11:51 AM
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I'm not sure I agree with you chief. Your saying the advice is useless but when going to the gym, losing weight, improve your profesional and social life became bad practice? By your logic everyone should stay how they are, without improving at all which is plain wrong. Also you are saying self improvement is wrong cause if everyone is doing it than a new average would emerge. Again, plain wrong as I can surely tell you, only a small fraction of people actually give a shit about putting in the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 11:29 AM
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My dude you just found my theme song!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Holly molly this is LIT!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 10:48 AM
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You can look but you can't touch!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 10:44 AM
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Who watched the first two episoded of "The Penguin" and loved it? I found myself pleasantly surprised and I can't wait for Monday nights now haha
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 10:39 AM
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OP should just fuck the other guy! You know, for fairness sake 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 10:12 AM
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Sidenote to the discussion: and somehow I landed the only guy who wants to DP me with his friend lmao 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 09:51 AM
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Yeah I knew the guys better actually as they were a part of my friend group at the time. I mean from the outside they were ok and the girls never really said anything bad about them. It's just that they had this weird dissonance going on in their minds regarding sex and sexual acts. Like I know for a fact one of the girls told me she loved rough sex but wouldn't do it with my friend because it wasn't "proper" to do it with someone you love. The other one just believed that sex with no feelings a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 09:38 AM
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The thing that gets me is this annoying idea that all the attractive guys are absolute abusive assholes and the average/bellow average men are somehow automatically good guys who treat women amazingly but we just don't give a shit about them because we're too busy riding Chads dick or something. Or like this thread suggests, letting this mythical Chad fuck us up our asses and going to orgies with him lmao. What kind of cuck fantasy is this shit?!?!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 11:03 PM
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To be fair, I did hear sometimes (not a regular occurance at all btw) from a few girls that they are not as kinky with their boyfriends compared to their past FWB's because they are afraid of judgement, they are more free to be kinky couse they don't have feelings for the guy so they can be more "dirty and wild", or that "they don't do that in a commited relationship". Even though they likes said acts. And yeah, I was quite flabbergasted and weirded out by this explanation. BUT, before red pille…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 10:35 PM
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Yeah, that what spark means lol. Right place, right time, right chemistry and boom, relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 07:49 PM
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Yeah I mean it's pretty clear the girl was a dog lover and nothing more and OP just went into LaLa Land with the assumptions. If he actually channeled his creative mind into other endeavours maybe he would be more succesful. And not only with women, but in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:41 PM
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Imagine getting a dog, tattoos, and shaving your hair thinking you're magically gonna get laid 🤣🤣🤣. I swear you can't make this shit up!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:37 PM
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It only works if you actually internalize that shit. The way you're talking here any person with half a brain would realize you're just a poser. And that, my friend, would be even worse than just being who you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:34 PM
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And women who fuck and get into relationships with attractive guys are usually not great catches and full of baggage themselved so you should thank your lucky stars those are "taken". And I assure you, not all good people are in relationships. Especially when young and growing and learning about life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:23 PM
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Holly fucking shit. Like I've read a little bit about this guy and I though his wife was a little younger than him not older...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:48 PM
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What's even more funny is the idea that's implied in the post: that hot guys are always assholes, manipulative and abusive while average and bellow average guys are innocent little angels who are looking from the stands while we get fucked and beat up by the devilish jocks lmao 🤣🤣🤣🤣. What world are they talking about?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:29 PM
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Yeah and also when did this thing hat hot guys are automatically assholes and abusers lol?!?!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:25 PM
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Sugar babies are not attracted to the guy. They are attracted to his money. Biiiiig difference!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:29 PM
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Yeah I mean her ex could be a fat gremlin looking mofo 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Like who the fuck knows if the guy is a Chad or not
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:10 PM
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You are right in the sense that you cannot logically reason yourself into a woman's bed. That fact shouldn't even be mentioned. But what you fail to realize is that attraction can develop from a multitude of simultaneous factors, including looks. Charm, personality, being socially adept, confident, playfull, knowing how to create sexual tension etc etc all help. An average-looking guy who has a magnetic personality can create a spark. And sometimes it’s just subjective and how two people click. …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:08 PM
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Hey I actually liked and saved your comment for future reference in this sub lol 🤣🤣🤣🤣 It's nice seeing it written in a more detailed post! Keep it up, I'm sure someone out there will use it and have success with it. It's very good and accurate!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 01:30 PM
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Also, another super important aspect that's been a recurring theme in your thread and this one: finding your niche of people who find your particular quirks attractive/arousing and maximising your qualities for that group. That way, you flirty and romantically/sexually interact with people who are 100% into you and compatible with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 01:03 PM
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I am of the same opinion. And one of the benefits of doing that (besided obviously having a more fun life in general) is improving your social skills! That's a massive massive advantage. A guy can be objectively gorgeous but dull as rocks. A woman may still want to bone him due to good looks but will move on once she finds a man who produces the spark. Spark also includes charisma and charm. If an average looking guys has a magnetic personality, it will produce sparks with women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:54 PM
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Well I don't consider a former FWB as an "ex". I label only my former boyfriends (as in people I have had a commited serious relationship with) as "exes". And I never said I'm completely against the idea with my "husband". Just that we would need to have very serious convos regarding the subject. The reason being: I actually give a shit if I implode my relationship with my boyfriend if it all goes bad. While with the FWB who cares about that as I'm not emotionally connected to that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:46 PM
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The only thing that comes to mind is group sex of any kind: like threesome or gangangs or orgies and such. And that's just because of the risks associated with them in regards to the relationship. Fact is, most people who have group sex in a commited relationship end up destroying said relationship and breaking up because of jelousy etc etc. I'm not willing to risk that without some serious discussion at least beforehand.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:18 PM
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I trully don't understand this narrative and I find it quite strange and unlike my experience (or my friends for that matter) with dating/casual sex. I'm way more comfortable being sexually adventurous in an LTR/FWB than some random sex with some random guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 11:56 AM
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Absolutely! A good social circle will innevitably lead to meeting new people which may or may not be also be compatible for a relationship. Sort of like a pozitive feedback loop that attractive guys have.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 11:45 AM
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Lol now I got curious 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 10:55 AM
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Nope, and besided the reasons listed in the answers here I can't come up with reasons as of why a woman would be more kinky with casual partners then with serious ones. Other than some weird fucked up views of their sexuality and I wouldn't recommend pursuing such women anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 10:54 AM
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Who gives a shit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 10:38 AM
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Best casual: I had a slightly older/way more experienced FWB when I was a sophomore in high school. He wasn't my first, but he was definitely the first to make me orgasm (with a vibrator or his fingers, not during PIV), and the one who introduced me to kinkier things I realized I really enjoyed such as bondage and being slapped around a bit. Neutral Casual: Another FWB, where the sex was good but nothing mind-blowing or special. It was ok, got the job done whenever I wanted it. Bad casual: Reser…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:19 PM
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Thanks 🥰❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 10:39 AM
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Personally, I don't "withhold" sex because 1) I don't believe that sex is something that a woman gives to a man, b) I'm only having sex when I actually want it anyway, and c) a man, wo thinks I may have sex too fast and judges me for it, wouldn't be a man I wanted to be in a relationship anyway. But there are insecure women, who don't want to be judged by the men they actually want to be in a relationship with and who think the man will think she's not relationship material if she "gives it up" …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 10:39 AM
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Pretty much the same experience here. I value sexual compatibility highly in a partner so delaying that makes no sense to me. Plus, If I were to wait and become emotionally attached but then found out the sex is shit then it would be harder to break things off.... the connection would already be there so I would hurt like a mofo 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 03:27 PM
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Very simple, I don't delay sex. I have it when I feel comfortable, usually early. I'm not a believer in the FDS rule of "making guys wait". It sounds good in theory. But in my experience that just tends to result in getting in a relationship with a guy who doesn’t have sex as a priority at all, which for me it is, so we wouldn’t be compatible. Nothing like falling for a guy and building up what you thought was sexual tension, then the time comes and you have sex and he has zero interest in doing…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 03:17 PM
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Haha I wonder why 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 09:35 AM
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Happy birthday girl!!!! ❤️❤️❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 03:47 PM
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Absolutely! Friendship and emotional connections do transcend this gender issues, I agree. I was more talking in general terms, like this sub for example. People here are strangers and I find advices are kinda pointless as on an individual level we don't give a shit about each other 🤣🤣🤣. So of course we don't care if anyone here actually follows through or is sexless or whatever. But with a friend? Yeah we do care. I also find that being a wingwoman for my male friends is super rewarding. But I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:47 PM
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To be fair neither gender should follow each others advice on the matter as both are usually ooking for their own self interest in dating. Men don't hold women's best interests at heart and neither do we for that matter. Both genders are looking after ourselves to the detriment of the other. So yeah, men shouldn't follow women's advice. It's simply not advantageous for them to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:31 PM
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Yup, my comment was agreeing with everything you just said. And even now we are in agreement mostly, just not fully on your last paragraph. The bad boys I know have a mix of the two, both good looks and charm various spectrums. Ultimately I will say this: men who are successful with women don’t need to be extremely charming, they just need to be attractive and not offputting. It helps to be really charming of course but it’s not a requirement. Also, some people are just naturally charming / char…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:22 PM
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Thanks a ton!!!! 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 02:36 PM
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Preferences are all mitigatable, changeable, can be revised or worked around. My standards cannot (non-negotiables) but it's the man's ballpark to pose a good offer. If he has a good offer and pitch, I will either revise my own to match his or take the risk on what he is pitching if likes what I answer with because I want to keep him. You then enter a monogamous deal that exists on a series of promises to be met through healthy compromise. Men with bad offers are always deal breakers because the…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 02:20 PM
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Well people tend to pair off with other people of similar attraction levels. Hot people tend to couple with other hot people and average people with average people. And even if objectively the woman is prettier than her partner, she may not perceive it as such. Individual perception is such an important aspect that's so overlooked in dating. For example, we all have that girlfriend that seems to be obsessed with a guy that.... frankly is not such a big deal, is neither attractive or charming or …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 01:37 PM
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So, point by point as I'm on mobile so I don't know how to use quotations: Yes, if the feedback is not good you make little tweaks until the feedback is good. Never heard of the concept of improvement? Red Pill is full of it and I quite agree with it myself I know it because it's common sense. If you don't leave the house you will not have as many instances of interacting with women therefore lower chances. How do you find a girlfriend/casual hookup if you don't speak with them, be it using tind…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 01:15 PM
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Yeah he will couse it's a numbers game. And people tend to get better with practice in regards to a lot of things, flirting included. So his chances are much much higher compared to a guy who doesn't leave his house or doesn't shoot his shot often. Truth is, a man who is able to cultivate spark, who knows how to socialize and who puts himself out there is always at an advantage compared to someone who doesn't do all of this as often. You can't fuck unless you try to fuck, is what it all boils do…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:52 PM
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Haha well I've been a lurker on this sub since the pandemic (my god I was literally in high school than, time really flies) and let me give you my appreciation: I love your comments ❤️❤️❤️. They are so cool and really helped me in my dating experience with finding what I was looking for. So I can trully say that with your help, dear interner stranger I never had a toxic relationship or been "pumped and dumped". I know, super weird coming on here on all places for dating advice but you and some o…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 10:47 AM
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Well it's also the fact that, on average a charming confident and extroverted man is out there shooting his shot more often than his reserved counterpart. So if a man is constantly flirting etc etc he is bound to find someone for casual sex or a relationship, as he artificially increases his chances. And of course no one is dicarding looks here. Yes, looks matter. I know a user here once described it as a traffic light system. If your attractiveness is an amber light or a 5/10 than your personal…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 10:29 AM
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I think it was used in the sense: "women make themselves wait until she's comfortable" in this case.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 06:18 PM
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Aha got it! For me personally I all my relationships started from hookups so I haven't ever really waited ya know 😂😂. That's why I didn't get your reasoning right away. Also agreed, I've never been pumped and dumped either and I think that's downright awfull behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 06:15 PM
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Haha seems pretty fair 😂😂😂😂. So the difference is in their stated intent. Like if a guy says he wants casual sex and he's attractive you go for it right away. But if that same guy says he wants a relationship then you prefer to wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 06:09 PM
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On that yeah, we agree and I totally understand. It's just that I don't get the waiting for relationship vs no waiting for casual. Like what's the difference between those guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 06:05 PM
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As a woman, that's a strange outlook actually and I don't quite get it. Like what's the reasoning behind the dissonance?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 05:57 PM
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Haha I'm 21 and I get super turned on when my bf does manly shit around the house (fixing stuff, hauling big weights around like their nothing) or works with his hands. I saw him fix and tinker with his motorcycle a few daya ago and I was literally drenched 🤣🤣🤣. He's also recently taken up Archery as a hobby and OMG...... I never though I would swoon over a sexy man holding a bow like that lol. My teenage self would have been mortified I actually like stuff like this now.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 12:24 PM
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Plus your literal first paragraph spells it out for them: hottest and the best sex. W.T.F. And you're totally right. I had my first bf at like 13-14. I was totally attracted to him at the time. But my God now I'm in my 20's........ I would have serious issues if I found 13-14 year old boys attractive for fucks sake.....
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 11:49 AM
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Jesus Christ you said the sex is the best you've ever had and you are the most attracted to your husband and STILL it's not enough for these guys lmao 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 11:38 AM
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Well I'm from Eastern Europe and even here we don't live like the 1800's where courting was a thing. I'm not in a Jane Austin novel and I would like to know if my future husband could deliver the goods before marriage thank you very much 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 11:27 AM
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Well, I would wager none of us settled haha. And that's the problem with AWALT. Sure, some women do settle, but not everyone does. The fear of AF/BB is real and valid. So what can you do you ask? You look for signs she isn't settling. Trust me, you will know if your partner has genuine desire for you. She will literally be all over you haha 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 10:14 AM
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Being there at the right time, in the right place and meeting someone you're compatible with is in part being lucky. I will not dispute that. But I would also argue that "putting yourself out there" serves as a way to increase your chances. Like if you sit all day playing single-player games in your house for example, you chances drop to 0. But if you go out and do stuff, or play multy-player games, your chances of finding your lucky break suddenly exponentially increase. And if your hygiene, so…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:29 AM
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Don't know if I'm the target audience since I'm young but here we go. Yes, I've had a very promiscuous past, had lots of casual sex/ONS/FWB, all with super hot men. My body count for my age is very high, 20+. Yes, my boyfriend is the best sex I've ever had by far, the hottest out of the whole I've been with and we actually started out as FWB, with sex on the same night we met. So I was pretty consistent lmao 🤣🤣🤣 He was supposed to be a ONS but that night was mind-blowing so I wanted too see him …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 08:08 AM
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Yeah this is alien territory for me and for my friends. NONE of us made anyone wait lmao. If the sex was bad there would be no relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 07:59 AM
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Which is why you should not be the guy who waits! Like if that's how you feel about it, it's totally ok and valid to not want to wait. Also, as a personal anecdote, in my circle of friends it's super rare that anyone made their partner wait. Most relationships contain sex from very early on and I find that "waiting for sex so the other guy doesn't see me as easy" to be complete and utter crap. If a guy would lose respect for me because I slept with him early then that's not the guy I want anyway…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 08:06 PM
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Well. Out of the Red Pill, the concept of AF/BB is one that I definitely think exists. Maybe not as prelevant as PPD makes it out to be, but 100% it's a posibility for anyone if they're not carefull when they commit to someone. And it's super valid! Everyone wants to feel desired. Men especially since they default value in the world is directly linked to "what they do" rather than "what they are". So my take is: be careful in vetting for genuine desire from a potential partner. Have standards of…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:59 PM
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It is insecurity though, a valid one at that. Everyone has insecurities to some extent, even the ones who pretend not to. And I agree, the word is thrown a lot nowadays whenever someone has an unpopular opinion. But the concept of "insecurity" is very real. Just as real as "anxiety", "fear" etc. It's a human feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:53 PM
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Honestly super understandable and fair. I always felt that this insecurity actually comes from a very valid place.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:47 PM
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The whole point is that this doesn't feel like "effort". It's just natural behaviour that signals you are into someone and it comes easily when you actually desire that person. It's not "hard work" rather a blissfull transition born out of love/lust. And these are the signs that show them. Again, read my comment, I said this works for both men and women. So naturally yes, I do feel like this signs point to a man being into me and I speciffically look for them when entering into a relationship. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:36 PM
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Well thank you, I actually consider myself lucky too, as I have an amazing man by my side who I genuinely adore. Also fuck that! Date women who are actually worthy of your commitment/love/support. And who are freaking capable of taking care of themselves Jeezus. Being able to cook an ok meal for yourself is basic adulting. Those women seem to be overgrown childrem and I wouldn't want to date a person like that. Also, be wary of weak-willed people, as they are incredibly draining and too much of …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:20 PM
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That list was made in haste as I was waiting for my friends for a coffe. Anyway, I assume this is coming from a place of genuine curiosity and for the purposes of vetting out bad prospects, so I will answer it with that in mind. If this is to tap into some resentment or anger though, you will find no support from me for those sentiments. I will also asume that, like most men on here, the biggest fear you have is being settled for/betaxud. I'm gonna cut to the chase. So then, what are the early s…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:13 PM
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While I do agree that men have been unfavorably treated in recent times, I simply can't agree with the concept of "AWALT", not when I have personal examples in my life countering this viewpoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:48 PM
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Cook for him, emotionally support him, do my fair share of the chores, surprise him with gifts, make him feel sexually desirable, take an interest in his hobbies and partake in them even if they're not my personal choice. Listen to him, tell him how much I appreciate him, build him up when he feels down, etc etc. There are a lot of ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:46 PM
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Exactly! Just because we show affection in different ways that doesn't mean one is better than the other. And men don't actually want to be pampered the way we want to be pampered anyways. Men and women aren't the same after all, we have our differences and that's why we work so well together, because we are complements to one another (on the caveat you have the right partner by your side, of course).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 01:04 PM
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Well since women are people, you should know that some are entitled assholes just as some men are entitled assholes. The key word is "some". Generalizations always makes things murky and doesn't allow you to see the forrest through the threes. In my circle of friends we all love to show our gratitude and love and pamper our boyfriends and things are vice versa thankfully. We are also young so not everyone has a relationship but I really do think my single friends will manage to find awesome men.…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:15 PM
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Yeah. I'm not really keen on The Handmaidens Tale ya know what I mean? 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:37 AM
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You can promote marriage/having children without being a dick about it 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:33 AM
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You can bend the rules but nor fundamentally change them in my opinion. Like for example, a few years ago in women's basketball they tried to lower the nets so that women could score easier points. Obviously that was stupid so they didn't do that. Another example is males competing in womens sports! We can all agree, that's like such a pussy move. So no, while you can "cheat", and bend the rules and be creative in solving your problem, no, in dating you can't fundamentally change the rules. Beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:25 AM
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Honestly, that's why I'm party amused by the argmuents that take place here couse not many people get this fact: women's sexual strategy do not have mens best interest as the focus and men should do the same. You see, for example all the women who had a bunch of casual sex and than made guys wait? They acted in their own interesrs and got what they wanted. And of course many people act butthurt when you point this out... because you reveal the game and nobody wants to admit this out loud. So jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:17 AM
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Lmao they're teeling me the same thing haha I think both sexes have advantages and disadvantages but I were to believe this guys here, being a man sounds like trench warefare in 1914 🤣🤣. For some reason I'm not yet prepared to believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 11:55 PM
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My cousin? Lots actually, but he's part of the party environment with drugs, alcohool and the like. He's not doing bad at all actually! And he's like one of the most confident with women guys I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 11:45 PM
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Just did mine too haha. I must say, not bad! 🤣🤣🤣. I think I certainly could have one or two or three hookups haha
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 11:41 PM
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Listeeen! Despite my absolutely mind-bending ability to reject reality and unparalleled optimism, I know that more attractive men have an advantage in the dating worlds. To refute that would mean I'm straight up stupid. I just think I could have a hook up or two, not unlike the average girl experience.... like most of my girlfriends don't even engage in regular hookups, maybe one or two max. And the ones that did more than that, have not surpassed the others by that much. Like nobody is riding t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 11:38 PM
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Hey! One guy told me that on average men are at lest 5 inches taller so I would be 5'5"!!!!!!! Come on man, odds are improving!!!! 🤣🤣🤣. Couple that with a college party environment? I think I could manage it if I go "in pedal to the metal style fuck the consequences Imma do this shit" type of confidence. You know, that dgaf attidude? Yeah, girls like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 11:23 PM
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So 5'5"... could definitely work with that!!!! Yup, if this is the case I think I could pull quite a few, but again, I'm that type of person that if things don't go my way at first, I reject reality and odds and just bulldoze through with a stupid kind of confidence 🤣🤣🤣. One of my cousins who's this height is actually a manwhore lmao. But he's also super extroverted party goer and alcohool is the biggest aspect of hookup culture that so many people here miss.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 11:19 PM
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I think male Moshi could have a few hookups! Just not a new gal every week haha 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 11:12 PM
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Well, I'm five feet flat so If I was born a male I would hope to be a little taller than that Goddammit 🤣🤣. Listen, I'm all up for self improvement and motivating average guys to go up there and engage in casual sex. I trully belive most of guys are capable of it and I think this would trully solve most issues men are having on this sub. But, I was a five feet tall man, basically an Imp.... fuck that would be really hard ngl. Couse a five feet tall man is definitely not average. And no, even if …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 11:08 PM
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True, that's a good point. Alltough I would add that many women, if they really like you and are super attracted to you, will naturally become more interested in your hobbies and take up some of your interests. Look for signs of genuine desire, this is one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:59 PM
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Exactly! But unfortunately many people judge how you life your life anyway you decide: on one hand we have people who think marriage and children are the only way and if you don't want that then you're trash. On the other there are plenty who vilify the concept of monogamy and think that marriages are for losers. My solution: do what the fuck you want 🤣🤣. And, in your case, some people would take a hollier than thou attiude and "pity" (🤮🤮) you for not being able to fullfill your "purpose as a wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:47 PM
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I know Japan has a problem in that regard but I knew it's more a problem of fertility. Like it's not a choice for them to become childfree so to speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 09:00 PM
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I understand your logic and yes, you raise a good point: if too many people become childfree, any given civilization is screwed big time. But, I also find that people who don't want children are a minority anyway, so why treat them badly? Like I know some stories of women who are childfree and have been treated with way more contempt than they deserve. And I find that very off putting.... I agree, people shouldn't be raised with the idea that marriage and children are bad. But neither is reinfor…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:40 PM
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Well, I would equate doing hard drugs to not wanting to have children. One is damaging to your health, the other is a personal choice. And, I would argue that going against that personal choice will not only damage your life, but also your childs' life. Like I said: they will know they're not really wanted. Also, it sounds quite manipulative, trying to steer them into a certain direction just so they can fullfill your own viewpoint. Like your ambition to have grandchildren seems to be the main d…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:29 PM
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And no matter how well they think they can hide it, the child will see and know this..... and the long term consequences will be so hard on him/her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:18 PM
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Exactly! Like you shouldn't want to change the rules of the game to accomodate for your deficiencies. You should know yourself, your strengths and weaknesses and plan accordingly: lead with your natural strong points and reinforce your weak points. Or, play the game in a different way!!! Example: dating apps are shit? Try bars or clubs! Or are you a nerd? Go for other nerds! The rules can be bent to your liking if you are smart enough and you can "go around them". But it's still playing the same…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:17 PM
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Let me give you an example of what I was trying to say. I really don't agree with you on this one. In my personal opinion, people who don't want children are perfectly entitled to their desires and don't have a mental disorder. I will actually congratulate them on their resilience to societal pressure and their contribution to it: by not raising children that are not wanted and traumatising them. But I will accept you have a different view on this and not try to change your mind. You do you and …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:08 PM
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Honestly this advice is trully solid!!! Like strive to improve god dammit and don't cry so much about your circumstances. This whole thing about looks and bla bla bla are just people who want to change the rules of the game instead of becoming better players.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:00 PM
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The thing is, on some level I quite agree with your feelings on the matter regarding what a child can bring to someones life. What we differ in thinking though is this: people can have different viewpoints and perspectives and this doesn't mean they're broken or "lesser than". They're just different and that's it. Their life is theirs, mine is mine and as long we don't insult each other, that's cool! We all get to live how we desire. And that's the beauty of life, the individuality and the many …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:49 PM
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Yeah but this is not about being a cat lady. This is about having children. And I think it's an even worse idea to pressuee women who don't want kids to have them regardless.... no matter how good you are at hiding your true feeling, a child will sense that he/she is not wanted and that may lead to huge problems in his/her future development.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:40 PM
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I agree. Putting pressure on women to find a guy before a certain age is actually leading to the thing that most men on PPD (and the whole world probably) fear the most: settling. And this is on top of what that pressure is doing to women in general. I find it incredibly hurtful that childfree women are treated as second class citisens most of the time, and that so many people think these women will eventually change their mind once they find the "right man". They may or may not, that's not the …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:29 PM
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Many women do marry their best sexual partners though. It's like an even split from what I can tell, and many womem on this very sub are married to their best sexual partner actually haha. So it can happen. I think it's a problematic view to say that only "assholes" are good in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:08 PM
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Or or or, he is just a charming guy that passes the looks thresold for the majority of women. I can certainly say he does pass it in my case.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:09 PM
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Honestly this is one if the topics in which "logic" doesn't apply. You see, people who employ different behaviours with some people and not others are not incentivised to listen to any arguments regarding theie views and actions. They are just doing what's in their selfish best interest. It's very hard for men to grasp this but it's highly important that you understand this: the advice given by women to other women will never hold men's best interest as the focus. Why are you expecting women to …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:06 PM
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Haha bine zis ca tot Reddit-ul cand vine vorba de relatii/sex mi se pare un dezastru efectiv. Eu ma mir ca oamenii astia au casnicii sau relatii de lunga durata. E halucinant uneori dar eh, ar trebui sa nu mai consum energie mentala pe asta. Dar uneori n-am ce face 😂😂. Buna explicatie legata de diferenta dintre Familia Nucleara si cea Traditionala. Nu stiam dar e foarte utila. Eu mai mult ma gandeam la faptul ca in zilele noastre este foarte comun ca un copil sa creasca intr-o familie monoparent…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:11 AM
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Si in cazul prietenelor mele, toate la facultate fiind, trebuie sa recunosc: comparativ cu mine sunt cam "pudice" (ma rog, cuvantul e cam exagerat dar se potriveste). Comentariul meu intitial era mai mult o hiperbola caci pe acest sub sunt multe persoane (si barbati si femei sa fiu sincera) cu o viziune foarte dubioasa asupra sexualitatii. Nu stiu neaparar sex negative cat mai degraba concentrate pe o viziune mai clasica a relatiilor. Adica cu accentul pus pe "the nuclear family". Are mult sens …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:01 AM
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Nu m-am gandit sa vorbesc despre BDSM la sat dar daca stau sa ma gandesc la oamenii de acolo... mdea e prea posibil sa se uite la mine ca la extraterestrii 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:25 PM
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Well maybe not BDSM, but sex on the rougher side is one of the most common kinks there is. So experimenting with lighter forms of D/s is quite common actually. On the fact that women, in general prefer a more experienced man, I fully agree. I'm one of those women as well actually. Also. Ce mai faci haha! Nu ma gandeam sa dau de un roman pe aici! 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:25 PM
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I agree. I wasn't exactly talking about all women, just that in general low n-count people, in my experience, aren't necessarily the most sexually liberated folks around and tend to also have normal or lower libidos. In general, having a strong desire for sex does lead you to seek it out more often, either through casual sex or monogamous relationships or both.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:23 PM
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Honestly, I do agree with you generally. A woman who is super attracted to you might wait one or two dates before sleeping with you, but not more than that. At least that's what I've seen generally. Most healthy relationships contain sex from very early on. Maybe not first night lay, but by the third date I think sex will happen if attraction is there.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 07:50 PM
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Yup. You bring a really good point and I should have said that not all people who have sex later in life are like this. But, truth be told 20 is not what I would consider a late bloomer haha. More like mid twenties. I always believed sexual drive does influence sexual conduct in a way, not in the kinks you have necessarily but in the need to pursue it. Like if you want sex very much (sexual drive) might lead you to seek it more (sexual conduct). At least that's what I found to be true irl. As fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 07:42 PM
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I'm not saying late bloomers don't exist, just that generally there's a reason they are that way. And many times that reason is low interest in sex. It's just facts. Also, couse we're on the topic of n-count. Do you think a low n-count woman prefers a hign n-count man? Please.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 07:03 PM
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I KNOW!! 😂😂. Mine was actually one of my better partners haha so double whammy haha
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 06:59 PM
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It's an uphill battle girl.... we are gonna lose at one point or the other and let our lizard brain be swept away by our magnetic attraction to gigachads that are muscular, ALPHA, rich, handsome with big cocks and big biceps. Because we all now that's what we are trully attracted to, that's what we trully want. It's inevitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 06:13 PM
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I wasn't referring to my comment. I was referring to what you said: that you don't mind less adventurous sex if she didn't have that before (even if you like it). Your opinion is not the norm considering the fact that many men on here bitch about previous sex acts so much. Edit: now that I think of it, it's kind of weird that your sexual interests are dependent on your gf's sexual history. Like what, if you like oral sex would you be ok with a girl not giving it just because she didn't give them…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:55 PM
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Not all virgins are like that 😂😂. I should have put the NAVALT tag in my original post haha. It's not impossible but let's be honest, it's unlikely a mid twenties virgin is gonna behave like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:49 PM
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And yet the discussions about: "OMG she did anal/bdsm/whatever sex act with her sex but not me!!!! She's thinks I'm a beta bux nooooo" are a never ending on here. I remember the pandemic when I was just a lurker... they were freaking daily 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:40 PM
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They literally don't know what they're getting into. Like I remember being a virgin and let me tell you, as someone who is quite kink friendl, I was not a total dynamite in the sack at all. Like I'm aware that I'm 1000% not the best sex of my first bf's life 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:23 PM
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Yeah, these guys think that by reading a book and watching a few youtube videos they automatically become Sauron, able to convince a nation to self destruct solely on the basis of their immesurable charm, rock solid abs, and 20 inch guns 😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:11 PM
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Lmao 😂😂😂 I didn't mean to offend by any means btw and I am aware of the women (and men) on this platform that have super high libidos and are super kinky but don't pursue sex outside of commited relationships. They exist and it's nothing wrong with them. But, they are quite rare though ngl. Like the only people I know who are like this are on reddit haha. I guess the correct term is demisexuals but I'm not aware of all this labels 😂😂. So, If I said something out of order, I apologise.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:09 PM
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I see this narrative around here but I'm not 100% on board with it. Let me explain: very rarely will a woman get into a long-term commitment with a guy she's repulsed by. That's not gonna happen. BUT, and I will give you this: if she is willing to wait a long time with you but had sex super early before with other men, she is just LESS attracted to you than those other guys. Less is not 0 attraction though. It's just a sacrifice that some women (and men) are willing to make for other important q…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:56 PM
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I'm gonna be a little rude to all of you lovely PPD men but I will say this: if you want a low n-count woman be prepared to face the possible consequences: aka, low libido and not much adventurous sex. Of course, not all low n-count women are like that, but I have a feeling we have a different opinion on what "low" means. If you want a mid twenties virgin it's possible she is that way because of religious reasons or just little interest in sex in general. It's quite rare you're gonna get a BDSM,…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:45 PM
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Look, I get where they're coming from: the whole "I want to see if he's serious and wants more than sex etc etc". But in all honesty all these rules make dating such a drag. Like you don't have to fuck on the first date if you don't want to.... but if you do want to why the hell not? Just fuck when you both feel like it lol, there's no point in waiting for a long time only to find out the sex is shit. And about the emotional/compatibility part: that shit you only find out months into a relations…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 03:50 PM
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In my case I was ok since I was doing the same thing. Me and my Bf were dating non-exclusively (dating doesn't necessarily mean fucking with everyone we were seeing btw) and we just gradually stopped exloring other options because we considered each other the best and we wanted each other the most. So we stopped seeing other people pretty fast and that was that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 03:02 PM
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Honestly agreed. Like I found it odd that dating non-exclusively is so looked down upon these days. It's literally dating like adults, exploring options and seeing which one you fit best with. And of course the people you're dating are doing the same thing. Also, another importan fact: dating non-exclusively doesn't mean you have to fuck everyone you're seeing lmao. You don't have to fuck everything on two legs 😂😂😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:59 PM
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You too girl!!!! 20 years already 😍😍😍. It's like the dream haha
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:55 PM
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We're coming up on 2 years in november :)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:58 PM
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Have the exact same age gap and I hope we'll also last haha. So happy for you!❤️❤️❤️❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:17 PM
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Personally I'm very confused by the whole "making a guy wait" thing that many people in the US seems to have. Like it seems kinda illogical. It's also even more baffling when the casual sex guys aren't made to wait... like it makes no sense to me to have different set of rules for certain kinds of people. The way I see it: you fuck when you want to fuck, it makes no difference if it's first date or third date, just go with the flow. Like if a guy disqualiffies me because I slept with him "too ea…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:57 PM
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