> I work to (sic) much to message first I’ve never understood that. Ladies, if you want to talk, you should probably message first. Don’t play stupid games.
> make the first move I’m sorry but all my life I’ve been told to respect whamen and to not bother them unless they want to want something of me. I can’t talk to them at the gym, in class, in the store, on the sidewalk, none of it. So I don’t chase women. Hell, I don’t even attempt. Congrats ladies.
Hey OP how about trying to self improve? Sure you’ve got some faults but you can make up for those in other areas. Ever consider going to church? Lots of girls looking for men there.
Oh no she wants my dick n shit. She told me about how she was kind of an alcoholic and a party girl in HS and that she only sucked a dick or two and three up while doing so. Said she was in a dark place or some shit.
Gotta admit for me it was a mix of cluelessness and being brought up in schools to respect whamen. Somehow that evolved into don’t make any advances, don’t bother them, etc. Bc of this I more or less don’t make any advances and am completely oblivious aside from the most apparent attempts.
