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OP I think you haven’t been in the right relationships. The older you get the greater your circle becomes. At some point it becomes impossible to remove exes from your life entirely. Most often through parenting but often due to shared friendships or work connections. In a healthy relationship your partner has mentally closed the door and blocked their past partners even if they’re still connected on LinkedIn or shared kids or friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 01:37 AM
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Agreed. I don’t think it’s common in healthy relationships. Maybe at the end stages peoples attention starts to wander but not in a happy relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 01:33 AM
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You have a lot of information on women It’s always refreshing to me when men mansplain women. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:28 PM
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The guy I responded to thinks late 30’s!!! If we keep going they might say people like dating in their own age group!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 04:08 PM
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The wall is 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:32 PM
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Excuses aren’t supposed to make sense. The only purpose of an excuse is to absolve yourself from doing anything to improve the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:52 PM
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I thought the old ones hit a wall, how can they be landing sugar daddies?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:49 PM
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Tv and movie writers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 07:52 PM
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A former landlord of mine had moved away to Asia to find a wife. He sold the building we rented an apartment in, we moved into his unit. The very long term tenants had kept in touch with him. Turns out the woman and her family robbed him and he got stranded there.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 04:21 AM
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They don’t do it for other victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 02:23 AM
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Humans are supposed to be domesticated animals. Are you saying men are gorillas?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 02:05 AM
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Not true. Rape victims choices are litigated. Sometimes the attackers even say she’s too ugly to rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 02:04 AM
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Because dogs are better at controlling themselves than people
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 01:44 AM
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Not the same. Being mugged is the result of being in the wrong place at the right time. That is not what people think about rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 01:43 AM
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If the imbalance really favors the men they wouldn’t need to be hooking up with less attractive women, they should be able to find ones that are greater or equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 04:20 PM
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Just like every dad tells his teenage daughter, I know what they’re thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 05:09 AM
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Women are insulted about the size and shape of their anatomy. Little girls hear those jokes. Women are assaulted and then people say she was asking for it. Little girls hear those comments, too. Women get promoted and men say she slept her way to the top. Women sex workers are dirty gross sluts who are pariahs. Their male customers are just behaving like men. All girls are taught to not give it up too easily so people don’t think she’s a slut. Grow up immersed in a society with these views of se…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 10:05 PM
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I prefer to not be approached at clubs or really loud places. I hate barely hearing what a stranger is saying and hate yelling at them. At a place where people can talk I’m fine if someone just makes small talk about whatever is convenient. Could be what is happening at that place, in the world, the weather etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 02:41 AM
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Same and I agree on all points.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 04:49 PM
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He also wants her to “don’t talk”.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:52 PM
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I started laughing at that point and had to stop reading, she’s clearly attracted to older men like me!!! lol I couldn’t take anything else seriously!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 11:12 AM
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I guess in both of OPs options a person who wants a life partner loses.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:36 AM
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Yes, it’s a commercial obligation but a nice reminder to be extra kind to your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 09:08 PM
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The OP even plans to go overseas to find someone and bring her back here. This woman is supposed to give up her family, friends and everything she has ever known to go to a place where they don’t speak her native language and they don’t have the same foods or customs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 03:47 PM
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They could just not support the policies of their country but are tied to their family and social circles so they haven’t emigrated elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 01:00 PM
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Don’t date people whose profiles come across as rude to you. If you don’t think a list of don’ts is rude then swipe right.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 04:52 PM
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The simple answer is if a woman is rude in her profile don’t swipe right. Men and women can both make the same mistake on their profiles.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 04:51 PM
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People don’t stay together if the best thing they have is “decent parent/ companion”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:00 PM
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These men all seem to think that women, especially older women, have to settle for a man because their heroes the Alpha Chads aren’t interested in old, washed up old women so the women settle for the betas.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 11:04 PM
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At first they generally are all kind, thoughtful and attentive until they get what they want. Some of them cease to be any of those things are soon as they get laid. Some of them stop after a couple of weeks. Some remain kind, thoughtful and attentive for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 03:04 PM
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It’s not coping. It’s hormones and brain chemicals impacting your judgement.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 03:13 AM
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For me, when a man likes me and is attentive, attracted to me, kind/ thoughtful of me, my attraction to him increases. Often times after I’ve dated someone and those things are gone I wonder why I ever found him so attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 01:45 AM
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The point being made is sorority chicks like frat boys. Metal girls like metal boys. And men who are posers in any crowd don’t get women. But go ahead try and convince any woman that is into something that you are, too, so you could date her. You’ll be mocked for being a poser. Maybe try and be a Swiftie. Lots of women like her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 06:48 PM
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Did you not read the OP, the thread and all of the comments? Metal was the example brought up long ago. No one wants to date a poser. Don’t do stuff you don’t like because you think it will get you a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:36 PM
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Do not get into something to find women. Leave the metal girls to the metal boys. Go do the thing you like to find the girls who do that thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 06:30 PM
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They’re always in here complaining and bashing women. Yet, most men I know aren’t single. They don’t have the problems or come across all of the evil women the men in this sub thinks the world is full of.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 10:59 PM
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The topic was decreased sex drives and dead to low sex bedrooms. A potential cause put forth was stress. I don’t know how you got to falling onto dicks. In every interaction in this thread you’ve been a dick but some how I don’t believe vaginas ever fall onto you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:09 PM
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If only people could just tell their bodies to not chemically react to stimulus after millions of years of evolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 12:05 PM
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I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 01:27 AM
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Wow, you’re totally right. Modern humans have zero stress.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 10:29 AM
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I think that the entire internet has an overwhelming amount of people with issues due to anonymity and lack of consequences for terrible behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 08:44 AM
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Most of the posts seem to be made by angry men who blame women for everything. Most people I’ve met in real life are not like this I think this sub represents a minority of the real public.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 08:39 AM
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“ I have multiple partners” okay buddy!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 07:29 PM
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We gave you rights….. You have a statement like that at the top of your head AND claim to not be a misogynist!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 05:03 PM
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It is only appropriate when a kiss is eminent: you are close to each other, touching or practically touching, facing each other. Don’t say it in other situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:55 PM
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If a woman is willing to give you a very detailed explanation of a woman’s perspective in these situations and you choose to explain all of the ways she is wrong you will never get far with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:19 PM
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If everything thing is aligned and it seems that a kiss is eminent there is nothing hotter than a man being direct and saying I’m going to kiss you or I want to kiss you. I think a few women have said this. It’s gross if a guy sitting in the drivers seat facing forward says it because it is not the right situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:16 PM
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All people ideally want attractive partners. Yes, some people may be willing to fuck anyone but they don’t want those people for relationships. Both genders want attractive in shape partners for relationships. Some people realize that they can not find that partner and have a relationship with with someone who doesn’t meet those qualifications but appeals to them in other ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:09 PM
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Gen X here
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:04 PM
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Why buy a pig when you can get a little sausage for free?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 12:42 PM
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Just because women aren’t sleeping with you does not mean they’re only sleeping with the “hot” guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 10:01 AM
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Some people wear make up and clothes to enhance their appearance. If you don’t like it don’t be with those people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 01:39 PM
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The amount of men who keep responding-decent means top 5% is shocking. Those guys might get some action if they weren’t so bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 01:53 AM
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By decent I mean isn’t an addict, has morals and is faithful.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:38 PM
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There must be something terribly wrong with me. I go out to places, I initiate conversations with men, I’m in good shape, friendly and social. I can’t find a decent man to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 02:33 AM
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Non-Sequitur. We are on the internet you can keep scrolling. You say women wouldn’t say this shit in public except the whole post is devoted to the fact that many women would rather take their chances in the woods with a bear than with a man. You can keep scrolling. You don’t need to interact with the woman you called a fly. For me personally, I have hundreds of pictures of bears that I have been in close proximity with. (I live in the woods) I’ve deleted the pictures and messages of men who rap…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 02:34 AM
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Except this is the internet and you can just keep scrolling
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:57 PM
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Touch grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 11:33 AM
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No. The men who are in a tizzy over this are the men you need to be aware of. I bartend. Every night men are bitching about this and calling the ones who say bear bitches. All over the internet and right here on this thread y’all are outing yourselves. Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 03:57 PM
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I think the question did what was intended. Years ago when my oldest daughter was about to go to a bar for the first time I told her to be careful because drunk men are the most evil creatures on Earth. Back then you couldn’t tell who had the potential to be dangerous. Now if you ask a man bear or man he will let you know if he has the potential to be dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:46 AM
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Scroll to the top for one example. Continue scrolling for supporting examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 01:16 PM
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I constantly see men complaining and rarely see women. This sub in particular is just men complaining that women don’t pick them because women are too picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 01:09 PM
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Then they wonder why will no women date me???
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 11:45 AM
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I think he doesn’t understand biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 12:31 AM
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I think women find young in shape dudes attractive. But thinking someone is attractive is not the same as being attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 12:30 AM
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I recently had a man tell me in regards to an over 40 dating post that he is looking for fit, feminine, fertile women. It doesn’t work like that buddy!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 12:27 AM
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Isn’t this basically the only topic on this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 06:12 PM
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I know, maybe I should get outta this sub!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:22 PM
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Isn’t there a common belief among men that sex with a crazy woman is the best sex but you don’t marry the crazy woman? No one is marrying or committing to someone they feel is terrible in bed. People commit to people who are the most compatible overall. Sex is just one of the factors. Additionally sex can be improved through communication and practice. Someone’s morals and values are less likely to be improved through communication and practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:17 PM
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I think if people are into other people they should just show it at first and then say it once it seems to be reciprocal
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 03:02 AM
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Is money or citizenship of a first world country the only desirable traits you possess?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 01:09 PM
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Bro is here tryna mansplain girl code. Wtf. That’s how it works. She’s afraid to let you know she’s not interested so she secretly signals her friend to save her. Bars have code word shots so random bartenders can save women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 07:25 PM
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This reads to me like OP is a woman, everybody up in here saying OP is wrong. Has low stats, should just take a rejection and move into mom’s basement. Everyone is looking for one person. That automatically means 99/100 people won’t work out for a myriad of reasons. 99% fail rate when you’re looking for your 1% is normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 04:10 AM
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I didn’t go to college until my 30s. The women I was friends with didn’t date “old men”. We hated when old guys hit on us or approached us. We all dated men who were within 5 or so years of our ages. I dated 2 younger men, one was 2 years younger and the other 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 02:05 PM
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The irony
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 03:25 AM
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Where are blue pillers repeating what?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:27 PM
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Everyone does have preferences and that is ok. Peoples bodies are all made differently which is perfect because people prefer different things. Women can prefer big dicks, small dicks or in between. Men can prefer big lips, little lips or in between. If someone doesn’t have the body type someone prefers and can not overcome that with a great personality or attitude or sense of humor then those people won’t date. In general overweight people aren’t the preferred body type and have a harder time d…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:24 PM
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You just got my click! You go creator!!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:09 PM
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There are companies that are making non revealing children’s clothing but small companies are more expensive than the mass produced stuff. Next time you’re in a large store look and see if there are alternative similarly priced options. People buy what is available.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 09:30 PM
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Go to any store and look at the clothes for little girls. Mini skirts, short shorts, leggings, shoes with heels, etc.. Society conditions and expects women to dress this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 10:14 AM
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I’m currently single. If I were to live with someone again, and we lived in my house, I would like to use my income for paying all of the bills. I could use what I spend on vacations, savings and entertainment to cover his car, car insurance and phone. Then I would like for his income to be shared, we could have an account for us to do things like vacations, concerts, dates with. The rest of the money we could split. We could use the money for whatever we each want and individual savings.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:33 PM
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Pretty privilege is real. I don’t think that attractive people are more week equipped to survive but I do think they’re more likely to have an easier path through life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 03:30 PM
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He’s not thinking cheating and destroying my family Will emotionally scar my son or the effects of a broken home are likely to negatively impact my sons life. He’s worried he will be judged.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 08:19 PM
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He chose her because she was the only one who would have him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 02:15 PM
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The only one. You literally said it yourself. She was your only option
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 02:13 PM
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Yet. Your words here make it seem like you don’t love her, just that she was the only one available to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 12:58 PM
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You should evaluate why breaking your wife’s trust and destroying the life you’ve created together isn’t your number one reason for not cheating. Instead you don’t want to be judged by your son.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 12:55 PM
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I thought 20% of men were the only ones having sex with all the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:37 AM
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Only for her. His collection is ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:33 PM
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They need to just keep the dna of everyone on file. This way they can always prove who the parents are. It’s the only way to save these men from the consequences of their accusations. We also need all the women’s dna, gotta prove she’s the mom!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:06 PM
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Her point is most people date in their own social class. If everyone you know makes 50k the 80k or 100k earner is impressive. But if you live in an expensive area and everyone you know makes 100k making 100k isn’t impressive. 180k or 200k become impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:20 AM
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Patriarchy. Bad men aren’t at fault. Women making poor choices no matter what factors drive those choices are at fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 08:06 AM
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Charismatic toxic person seems to be what I most often see.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 08:04 AM
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These guys all seem to being going after you. I agree with you, once you’ve seen behind peoples masks and their true selves if what you find is a terrible person there is no way to go back. Sending 15 texts in a row because you got stood up looks unhinged to me it doesn’t matter if a man or a woman is doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:47 PM
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Thank you. I do know most men and most people are not like this. I was sharing my experiences as a way to illustrate that although women target the adult and teen/preteen dynamic I believe it is only because those are the instances that are most traumatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:18 PM
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I’ve was regularly hit on at bars by creepy old men while in my 20s. I was waitressing in my 30s and was alone in the bathroom hallway with a retired police officer who was the father of the current police chief he took it as an opportunity to grab and kiss me. Just this summer at a golf course bar an elderly man (I’m now 47) told me he wants to fulfill old man fantasies for me. He wouldn’t stop, I was afraid he would follow me out of there. There have been tons of others but after it happens hu…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:56 AM
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The ones I’ve seen have a small box to check that says exclude obese. It was in the height section.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 03:07 AM
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I know plenty with some extra weight on them. I just think the delusion calculators are bunk. I’ve played around with the one for women and for men, there are some glaring issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 01:29 AM
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You are the one with poor reading skills. The calculator does not give an option for overweight only obese. Yes, most Americans are overweight but 70% are not obese. Probably only 35/40% are technically obese. The stats on my results increase by the amount of overweight and obese people not just the amount of obese people. The delusion calculator for men does have overweight and obese as options. The one for women, as I have written several times, only has obese but uses an inaccurate number.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:55 PM
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You believe 70% of men are obese?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:43 PM
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But the calculator says to exclude obese. Which means they have 70% of men categorized as obese which is not representative of the general public. Overweight, yes, but 70% obese is not accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:52 PM
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I think the delusion calculator has all men categorized as fat. I’ve left all the parameters the exact same but my odds change from 4% to 40% when I don’t select “not obese”.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:30 PM
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Some men need beards to appear attractive. Some women need make up to appear attractive. Hiding bad teeth, weak jawline and double chin under a beard is just as “deceptive” as wearing makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 01:19 AM
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Beards. For some men they thin their faces, give them a jawline, hide double chins, cover bad teeth, and highlight cheek bones.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:35 PM
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OP said herself men were not raised to be able to deal with their loneliness. Men need to step up for themselves and fix what they need to fix.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:36 PM
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This is exactly how to do it. Read the body language or what is commonly referred to as “reading the room”. Follow this guy’s advice!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:24 AM
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Giselle was an international cover model before Brady was drafted. ETA: I’m a pats season ticket holder. I watched Mo Lewis take out Bledsoe. I knew who she was back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 12:07 AM
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Well said!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 11:53 PM
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They want someone who has a similar story and background. Another person who has worked hard to get into the position they are both in understands the dedication, effort and sacrifice required. They want someone who shares a similar life experience. A partner who also has paparazzi following them, someone who is criticized or judged for everything they do, someone who just understands what that type of life is like. They want to be certain their partner actually likes and wants to be with them n…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 11:52 PM
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It’s probably just a connection thing. I’ve met people that for whatever reason we just immediately became like old friends. Some people take weeks. Some people take months. Some people take years. Some people never get to that level. I’d guess that’s why people who are asexual can sometimes quickly get to a sexual relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:08 AM
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Except the men then decide to body count shame. Sleep with one quickly then his true colors show and he turns out to be a jerk. Now you’ve got another notch in your belt. Wait to be sure he’s not a jerk then you’re frigid because no modern man should have to wait that long. There is no way for women to win! Which is a part of why women opt out of dating. Do what they want, you lose. Do what you want, you lose. Better to make your own happy life and buzz one out as necessary
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:05 AM
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I looked 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:58 AM
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I’ve known a couple of househusbands. And a few men who worked from home so they were in charge of the house. Maybe you don’t know enough people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:36 PM
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Idk men’s traps, shoulders and arms are pretty amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 11:51 PM
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The OP came to a source if this type of statement to learn more about the thought process and reasons for it. This type if idea is posted here regularly. This is the perfect spot to learn about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 11:31 PM
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A significant amount of men post those thoughts here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 08:40 PM
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I think rape has more to do with power and control and possibly revenge upon all women and very little to do with attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 08:38 PM
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You haven’t read the comments made here by the men who wish they were getting sex from those women, or any woman? Promiscuous women are shamed and hated regularly. Red pill trad men aren’t elderly church ladies. They constantly shame and insult promiscuous liberal women for destroying their culture and going against their world view.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 09:56 PM
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I swooped in and pretended to be the girlfriend of friends who wanted gross drunk women to leave them alone. I’ve also done this for women to get gross drunk men to leave them alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 09:49 PM
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Women regularly step in to protect other women, even strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:40 AM
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People use celebrities as examples because they’re well known. My grandma didn’t leave my grandpa doesn’t have the same weight. But it is true. Women stay with and care for ill/ disabled partners at much higher rates. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19645027/
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 11:40 AM
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Teachers are so lucky they get to do that ALL day!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:00 PM
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No, consoling people after their loved one dies is nowhere near as draining as getting the bugs out of a new app! /s unless it’s a male nurse and a female software developer.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:22 AM
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So frustrating how the men on this sub say men would do anything for pussy even as they call it “average pussy” and they complain that women won’t do anything to get dick, especially not average dicks like theirs. Until some one says men place a high value on sex, higher than women place and then they all say: that’s not true! This sub makes me feel sad for all the single women out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:19 AM
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There is an insane amount of alcoholic and drug addicted parents. There's tons of mentally ill parents, too. There are many neglectful parents. And there are far too many physically and emotionally abusive parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:41 AM
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There are a lot of horrific parents put there of both genders. There are many situation where children would be better off without their biological parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:37 AM
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Alphas have unlimited resources. He’s got enough for the men and women. The hell hound is pregnant, too. Just from proximity an immaculate conception of the alpha chad hound to lead the other hounds to redemption.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 09:47 PM
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They have to have their guard up in order to be safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 09:36 PM
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I can say that internet searches are frustrating. Take the how to pick the ripe melon as an example. You search, then look at the results, you need to read through a life story about how the authors family really likes melons blah, blah, blah the advice they give on that site is different than on the next one, which is actually right? Restaurant reviews are rough, too, a solid amount of restaurant reviews are just the unhappy people because they’re the only ones motivated enough to post a review…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 05:00 AM
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In order to avoid a dead bedroom both partners must make the relationship a priority and actively love their partner. The way the people look is not a factor. They got together because they found something attractive about the other. If he’s not a good looking man there was something else that he did to make her attracted to him, maybe he makes her laugh, maybe he is generous, maybe he eases her fears if that stops on either partner’s end the sex ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 11:58 PM
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Not just sexual pleasure but prioritize the relationship as a whole. Many partners fall out of love and become more like roommates living separately together.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 11:54 PM
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I think the first 2 are icks the second 2 are red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 08:56 PM
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I’m not a man but this list reads to me like a poorly adjusted person. There’s an expression that’s says something like if everywhere you go people are assholes then you’re the asshole. Sounds to me like he’s an asshole who can only find assholes to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:46 AM
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Ginger. They either love it or hate it. There doesn’t seem to be a middle ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 12:46 AM
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Which is why many people who are happy with their life don’t waste all that time on the apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:41 PM
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Men always date down? Not in most of the couples I see. I match with every man I swipe right on. Therefore I need to sort and sift through and spend my time to finding an actual match. If men didn’t indiscriminately like women the whole process would be smoother. As a result I never last more than a day on apps. Years ago tinder would go up to 1499+ likes, now it just says 99+. I would have the 1499 likes in a day. It’s overwhelming. I enjoy my life and freedom I find men to date through my soci…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:12 AM
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700 minutes is over 10 hours a week. The sorting is like a part time job. Why don’t more men spend the 2 minutes per profile instead of mindlessly right swiping?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:43 AM
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”it's tiring sifting through dirt to find someone who is a good match for you.” 50 matches per day equals 350 in a week. That’s a lot to go through. On dating apps I will get 100 likes in less than an hour. Most of those men have not read my bio, don’t care about age differences or our distance from each other. They leave it up to me to sift through all of them to find ones that are worth matching with. That’s tiresome, especially if you are content with the current state of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:02 AM
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I’m not sure that work is the right term. I prefer thinking of it as actively choosing to love a partner. In long term relationships it can be very easy to slip into the mundane tasks of everyday life and forget to actively choose to love your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 01:48 AM
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Where does this stat come from?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:04 AM
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I think online has so many options it’s easy to filter out by small things. IRL I’ve dated men who are my height or a little shorter but online I look for men who are taller than me. But, I’ve recently met someone IRL through work acquaintances who is probably 2 inches shorter than I am and I find him attractive due to other less measurable qualities. (He’s funny and smart.)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 04:50 PM
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https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8654051/ Rates are decreasing in the US. The most common reasons for circumcision are health concerns and their father’s opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 12:11 AM
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https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8654051/ Rates are decreasing in the US. The most common reasons for circumcision are health concerns and their father’s opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 12:10 AM
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Pretty common in this sub. If you prove him wrong he will just find another reason to be angry at women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 12:03 AM
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They fell in love?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:36 AM
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I think it’s important for people to have their own money out of “our money”. It let’s each partner have freedom with purchases. For example if someone has a hobby they’re able to find their hobby with their portion of “our money” without having to talk to the other partner about the purchase.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 02:46 PM
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Don’t forget it made her physically sick!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:52 AM
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Even if he stopped screaming at her, demanding sex and “consensually raping” someone guaranteed that he destroyed any positive feelings she had for him. She said sex with him was so horrible it made her feel sick. There is no going back from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:58 PM
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I imagine a beach boardwalk that he probably was local to. Lots of people walking around enjoying the sights, ocean breeze and the stuff to do on the boardwalk.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:10 PM
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Online dating is bullshit. People think because they’ve openly admitted that they want a partner magic is supposed to happen. I think that the expectations that admitting you want a partner then seeking a partner in a forum with other people wanting a partner makes everyone crazy. People future jump. It’s most likely there is no huge immediate spark for people looking for a real relationship and not a hook up. I think people get confused and automatically assume that if we are both looking for p…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:25 AM
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My ex owes me over 20k. He doesn’t pay for shit and he never fixed shit. I do hire people to do work for me when I don’t have the skills or time required to do it. This summer, I’ve built and installed a mailbox, installed a dishwasher, rewired a clothes dryer, changed outlets and switches in my house and have been digging out areas in my yard to put gravel borders. I did hire a mechanic to replace my ball joints, he did a great job. I also needed a dentist for a crown, she did a great job. I co…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:28 PM
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The problem is that the ones who are gonna dip out act just like the ones who are gonna stick around. I personally don’t have a time frame rule and I just let it happen when it happens. It is really disappointing when someone makes you believe they’re looking for a relationship dips out after getting laid. I could understand in cases where the sex is horrible but in my experiences that has not been the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 04:49 PM
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It’s not a woman thing but the movie is from that perspective. Everyone has expectations forced upon them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 03:41 AM
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A common excuse for rape is she was asking for it. This is used by men defending the act and by women defending a man. This is the pretty part, pretty enough that they don’t insult you and post your pictures online as a person of Walmart or uggo fatty at the gym but not so pretty that men won’t be able to control themselves because then that will be your fault just ask the women who defend him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 07:00 PM
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A actual feminist doesn't really exist anymore it's all third wave feminism now and femanazis Which is it? All of them or a minority? Seems like you are just trying to validate your misogyny.
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