mostlyidontcare Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
93	What are your must-reads?		mostlyidontcare	/r/seduction	21/05/15 03:38 PM
5	For all those asking: 'What's the percentage of numbers you get from girls you approach.' - It doesn't matter!		mostlyidontcare	/r/seduction	27/12/14 12:22 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
12	Any tips to get into 'best-self' mode? Do a "Power Pose", like that TED talk told us to and good luck man!	/r/seduction	01/06/15 07:23 PM
2	Just 3 months ago I was scared to even look at a girl, today I've realized how far I've come. You're my hero... Always wanted to cold shower but never can!	/r/seduction	27/05/15 05:57 AM
6	[FR] First approach ever: "Music or me." Well done man, the only thing I think you could have done a little better is ask her for the number sooner. The way you did it it seemed like kind of an end-goal, but it's not that big of a deal and for the first ever approach amazing.	/r/seduction	25/05/15 05:00 PM
3	Hard to get or not interested? I think you may be putting too much thought into it. Just like the "wait 3 days to call" rule. Just do it whenever its convenient for you. Just ask him, if he says he can't I'd give him one more chance, if not then he's probably not interested. Also with the chase: In my opinion it's not supposed to be a "game". If you two like each other, would get along well and have similar interest then what's the point in pretending to not be interested?	/r/seduction	24/05/15 05:53 PM
2	Opener talking to people? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fguimgmGLvU	/r/seduction	23/05/15 06:37 AM
2	Opener talking to people? You should try coming up with a fitting opener for every individual person, however if you can't come up with one while walking over, which will happen a lot of times, just use a generic one: 'Hey, I just saw you and thought you were cute so I wanted to come say hi, my name's ObeseNerdGasms" (Nice name!) or "Hey, I really like your style and want to get to know you" or the really simple one: "Hey, my name is ...." Openers are way less important than most people think they are. In the book "Model…	/r/seduction	22/05/15 07:38 PM
10	HOLY COW day game is easy! Terrifying... but easy! I'd never open in the gym. I personally always get annoyed when somebody is talking to me and I'm thinking to myself: "60s break is over, on to the next set but no this guy is still talking", and if it doesn't work out might be awkward seeing her again, but oh well, good job nevertheless!	/r/seduction	15/05/15 07:05 PM
1	Have any of you ever roomed with a female? That can't be your attitude though. I mean, it's your decision, but then I guess you could have also started off with never having sex - can't miss what you haven't had, right? Or what about money (and I am not saying money makes you happy - but poverty certainly doesn't), not gonna try earn any because allowance worked out well and you can't miss what you haven't had, right? Never have a kid because -..... and so on and on... Again, that's your choice, but I personally don't think that such an …	/r/seduction	15/05/15 02:16 PM
2	Have any of you ever roomed with a female? To sum up this thread/the comments: Female roommates can be amazing and horrible. It depends on the person. Also a common consent seems to be that if she has a boyfriend(or a girlfriend, if male), you shouldn't move in because it will most likely be boring	/r/seduction	15/05/15 05:06 AM
10	[FR] Approached a girl at a club, kissed her and got her number in under 2 minutes. In Germany you need to be 16 for wine and beer and 18 for harder stuff. Also some clubs allow 16 year old people but they get thrown out at midnight.	/r/seduction	03/05/15 05:35 AM
1	How I view looks and seduction You shouldn't care if your looks happen. Be clean, dress well, and stand up straight. If you don't approach a woman on the street because you think you're not good looking, than you won't even get a chance to meet her. So you shouldn't care really.	/r/seduction	12/04/15 05:09 AM
1	3 girls, 24 hours, 5 euro Well we're quite proud of our beer, but I haven't tasted american yet, but a lot of people say it tastes too close to water. Also the german beer purity law is the oldest food law as far as I know. Oh well, we love our beer!	/r/seduction	07/04/15 08:18 PM
2	3 girls, 24 hours, 5 euro As somebody living in Germany - 50ct is too cheap for a beer, you probably got one of the not so good ones (there's also really cheap ones for 25-33ct). It probably still tastes better than american beer but you should go for the ones close to 1 euro. Nevertheless, well done!	/r/seduction	07/04/15 04:28 PM
7	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 4/6/15 I believe Mark Manson wrote about it in "Models" (definitely give it a read if you have the time...). Vulnerability means that you open yourself up, you show the girl how you feel (without being needy which he stresses a lot). It also means that you put yourself in a sort of spot where it's risky. By doing that you show confidence. EDIT: So e.g when you approach a girl you're basically being vulnerable because there's the risk of being rejected. At the same time though, because there's that poss…	/r/seduction	06/04/15 03:28 PM
6	A simple but incredibly effective tip HAHAHA yes, just like that. Dude you'll get smart within seconds! Your IQ just jumps up!	/r/seduction	30/03/15 07:37 PM
3	A simple but incredibly effective tip Um well not like that, if the pen is turned by 90 degrees. Kinda hard to explain.	/r/seduction	30/03/15 07:32 PM
13	A simple but incredibly effective tip Well you should definitely smile more often. Just the state of your cheeks being contracted makes you more happy. Additionally studies have shown that when you learn with a pen in your mouth (like smiling) you learn quicker. There's only positive things about smiling. Even if you're not the kind of guy, just try and smile more every day!	/r/seduction	30/03/15 06:53 PM
33	Look Into My Eyes Baby Quite sure looking her in the eyes also makes you seem more confident. Conclusion: Always look in the eyes!	/r/seduction	29/03/15 03:30 PM
3	Were these IOI's? Should I have gone for it? Well just go for it. The indicators are hardly gonna get more obvious.	/r/seduction	28/03/15 04:38 PM
25	[FR] Asked out that cute girl I had on Facebook for years but never talked to. Alpha as fuck!	/r/seduction	24/03/15 05:32 PM
51	[FR] Asked out that cute girl I had on Facebook for years but never talked to. So she came 40 minutes late and you were talking that entire time to 2 other girls? God damn genius! Also, you actually know all the mistakes you made, so just try again and again and you'll get a lot better! Good luck!	/r/seduction	24/03/15 05:14 PM
1	Approached the hottest girl at the gym today That's true. An old man actually talked to me for half an hour, and even though he gave me advice, I kind of wanted to get my workout done, and OP only talked to her for a couple of seconds. Nothing wrong there, really, good job OP!	/r/seduction	13/01/15 06:03 AM
50	Approached the hottest girl at the gym today She may have smiled, but innerly she thought: 'You're distracting me from my sets, go away already' But jokes aside, good job!	/r/seduction	12/01/15 08:03 PM
2	I think my voice is shit. I really like the saying: Change what you can, accept what you can't. If you're talking about your voice not being deep enough, don't worry. However, if there's any way to train your tonality - there is - then do so, search on youtube, google, learn, exercise, improve, profit.	/r/seduction	26/12/14 06:49 PM
5	How do I go from good friend to next boyfriend? There's 2 ways to get out of the friendzone: 1: You don't. 2: Stop contact, talk to her in 2-3 months.	/r/seduction	07/12/14 11:02 AM
5	[FR] Convinced myself to go out, ended up making out with a girl and getting her number The goal should always be to have fun. Do not aim at: I'm gonna make out with this girl. So good job man, keep going!	/r/seduction	07/12/14 10:05 AM
29	Confidence. What has helped me.(Lowest beginner level) It always helps me to listen to one of these songs, just gets me in the mood, but good post!	/r/seduction	26/11/14 03:43 PM
3	Which post have you saved ? Didn't save it but I saw a very good list of kino routines, if anybody remembers, please tell me, I think it will help alot of people (including myself)! Also thanks everyone for sharing all these cool threads with us.	/r/seduction	25/11/14 06:22 PM
1	No clue what to do... Yeah, it's always weird, but you got nothing to lose... (Random irrelevant question, only one o right?) No risk, no reward, being in a good state helps! (-->Listen to happy songs, think about funny moments and so on)...	/r/seduction	24/11/14 08:54 PM
3	No clue what to do... Plus on top of that I feel like they aren't really interested in males from America. Never assume girls aren't attraced to you. I've seen videos where pua say 'Assume every girl is interested in you, and attracted to you, unless they explicitly told you otherwise'. How to strike up conversations? Are you asking for an opener? If so, they are not all that important, the essential thing is that you talk to them, your opener can be on a scale from 0-10 a 2 and still work, depending on the mood/situ…	/r/seduction	24/11/14 08:39 PM
4	Why I hate clubs It's always a bad idea to generalize. With that attitude you're not gonna have any luck, try go in assume everyone is into you until they tell you otherwise. And don't buy them free drinks, if they want some then say 'well you pay the first round I'll take care of the second'...	/r/seduction	19/11/14 02:36 PM
4	How to behave after her non responding You seem mad/angry. Never be mad/angry or needy, never! You gotta be in a happy mind state, and when she said hi then she probably doesn't hate you. Ask her out the next time you're available, if she doesn't respond - delete number and make room for new ones!	/r/seduction	17/11/14 07:00 PM
21	How to behave after her non responding I think you're putting too much thought into it. A girl doesn't respond? Keep it at the one text, there are several scenarios why she did not respond that do not involve her rejecting you (e.g I always read my texts but harldy ever respond to them instantly, and sometimes I forget to). Eventually she will see your text and text you back and the next time you can use that to break the ice again (When on Day 2 there's the setback from the first conversation no matter how good you got along with). …	/r/seduction	17/11/14 01:43 PM
13	What are some good open-ended questions to ask a girl you've just met? I find that you shouldn't be trying to make everything as robotic as people tend to do. In my opinion it's the same with openers, you should have some defaults, and when you walk up to a girl you either improvise and you come up with something original and new (while you're walking over to her), and if you cannot come up with anything go back to your default. When you talk to her, just listen to her, if she likes you the conversation will keep going on its own, if not, well just move on and meet…	/r/seduction	16/11/14 04:21 PM
2	I need to let go of my earthly tether. Why is there such a huge social pressure to kiss or fuck people? I thought that myself, I was needy as well, but you know what? Just have fun, do what you enjoy the most, and roll with it. Girls can kind of sense when you're having fun, and I find your chances of success are higher when just having fun rather than appearing needy. Just have fun!	/r/seduction	16/11/14 08:47 AM
1	The art and science of great conversation (not just with women) You're not being a dick, thanks! I'm from Germany, so I actually like people correcting my grammar! Also, happy cake day!	/r/seduction	13/11/14 05:35 PM
1	The art and science of great conversation (not just with women) Thanks alot, got a question though, I signed in and everything, I don't have to pay for it in future though right? Again, thank you alot! Will definitly leave a review!	/r/seduction	13/11/14 01:13 PM