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| 7 | CMV: FDS women will never be as happy as red pillers. RP'ers work towards being the ideal mate, while FDS primes women to be a nightmare partner.For a couple making around half a mil a year, why on EARTH are you not hiring a housekeeper twice a week and whatever other domestic help you need? Why on earth are you trying to do it all? Your time is worth more RESTING so you can be strong for your income generating time. My goodness, I was triggered right there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 03:42 AM |
| 17 | How is this even a question??!!Most of these guys have already borrowed money for stuff they can't afford and have loans to pay. They want to look like they have status before they actually do. As a mid-40s woman, I'm not thinking about the $4 for long. I'm looking at the bigger picture. How much debt does he have. How long does he expect me to stay on the hamster wheel of work/save to pay off his debt? Does he plan to work into his late 70s to pay it all off? What kind of guy keeps borrowing money for things he obviously can… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 01:53 PM |
| 6 | Yes, the economy is bad. That doesn't mean you have to be a free prostitute.Pulitzer shit right here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 07:44 PM |
| 9 | Y’all be safehttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YY2-mrsXgMM Exactly. worth a watch who are unfamiliar. Saw her live in chicago years and years ago. The SCREAMS from the audience during this song....the energy. All of us women knew. we knew. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 07:22 PM |
| 18 | Whatever it looks like & feels like - it is. DO NOT DOUBT YOURSELVES.i just printed this screenshot on sticker paper. Makes it 10x more powerful. Try it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 05:34 AM |
| 7 | Men who demand a 50/50 split on the dinner bill never apply this to the housework divide!!Thank you for bringing the knowledge. Please type everything you learned for us. This is great. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 02:25 AM |
| 73 | Go build me a table!Todd. That's correct. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 03:09 AM |
| 11 | I feel this haha. Being poor and being broke are not the same thing.It gets even worse as successful women get older. I did NOT work for decades and bank a small fortune to fund some guy's retirement. We were never on the same page, so why would we be now? Now if i had obscene amounts of wealth i would have a half dozen "artist" or "misunderstood" boyfriends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 03:45 PM |
| 27 | My abusive ex would regularly get mad at me for talking to my friends, suspecting it was always about him and ‘lies’ about what he was like. His reactions pushed me into deeper cycles of isolation and abuse. Nothing that hurts you is sacred. Run the very first time he does anything like this.This is my favorite answer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 02:25 PM |
| 12 | Man child throws fit when GF doesn’t want him to move in with herAt the very least I hope she would never do that to her cat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 04:40 AM |
| 5 | Facts 💅I'm with you but I've advanced my fantasy to where I buy the house next door and he lives there. We can even put a little gate in the fence for him to come calling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 02:08 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/31/2020Your workplace is where you seek out other women to network with and find ways to work together to raise each other up. I actively seek out women to mentor when they join my company, bring them under my wing and favor them for new projects, new opportunities and access to other senior leaders. I'm NOT looking to hook up at work. Not ever. Men are "intimidated" by me (whatever that means) and I like it that way. I'm a leader. I'm the boss. One day you won't be the new girl - you will be the boss … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 06:20 AM |
| 17 | This is your average male on purple pill debate. Why argue with them or give a shit about what they write? 🙄Arch game: Usually referring to a woman in the doggystyle position's ability to arch her back. Must also be willing to fake orgasms. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 03:11 AM |
| 7 | What do you guys do when you break off a long relationship with a LVM but still miss the good times?Two things work for me. First, I allow myself to mourn, even cry if i am feeling blue, but only for a limited time. 10 minutes - then i get moving on a chore on my list, or read a few chapters in my book, get on reddit, whatever. I just make it a habit of giving my sorrow a good workout for a few minutes and then switch my physical/mental state. I feel better honoring how i really feel and then feel even better about my ability to leave it behind after a few minutes. I always tell myself i can h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 02:36 PM |
| 7 | The Case of Avoiding Dating vs. GrowingI'm in a similar spot. Mid-40's, sweet life, literally have/do whatever i want, so a man is going to have to add something to my life and make it easier/better. Unfortunately, the net result is often a loss to me - most single men in my demo are woefully inadequate. Not intellectually, not socially, not financially, not domestically. So why complicate my life with that nonsense? Yet I feel like i should not be "alone".... and my parents worry about me. Lately I've been imagining what menopause m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 05:08 AM |
| 7 | Are you a kinky young lady with a secret "age gap attraction" ?!?!?!?! WELL.....Ah, the old "leaning against a random boat" like we're gonna believe that's your boat. Get outta here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 05:19 AM |
| 6 | Quarantine & LVMThis is the kind of straight talk I like to hear. Thanks for not mincing words. If the house is on fire you yell FIRE GTFO! You don't lollygag around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 08:52 PM |
| 25 | Most LVMs want to date their mother.Thanks for writing this all down. Someone needs to take these long-form essays and publish on medium. This is a really shrewd commentary on culture and society of the generations. This was the dynamic in my family (my dad is now totally reformed, but that's another story). I feel like i can do anything, meanwhile men in my age-range are so narrowly focused in their capabilities. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 08:24 PM |
| 20 | Don’t explain why you’re leaving. Just leave. He doesn’t care and it gasses him up to know he upset you. Literally ghost him from your life for maximum damage potential and move the fuck on.I feel the same way about relationship therapy that goes beyond a few sessions. It's not that hard to explain how I feel, not that hard to listen, not that hard to not be a man-baby. Such a waste of money and more importantly time. My sister had been in marriage counseling for 2 years - over 100 sessions and she's being gaslit by her husband and therapist that she still needs to explain herself better. That there's more "work" to be done. What a scam. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 08:10 PM |
| 2 | nOMy dad does this with my mom all the while telling the rest of us around the table that mom's cooking is better than a restaurant, she's the smartest person in the family (she kinda is) and she's beautiful. They are married for 45 years | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 02:46 PM |
| 2 | LVM I dated for 4 months kept all contact info of all women he datedWhen i was circular dating I had 4 Steves at some point. They got nicknames in my phone (also used to keep girlfriends up to date) like Steve Hockey, Steve White Car, Steve Poet, Steve Dad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 03:52 PM |
| 17 | Their stupidity knows no boundaries. He says he will take me somewhere nice, but then offers disgustingly low-effort drinks. I knew he was LVM when he asked me what I'm doing tbh, but was curious if my gut feeling is right. It always is. Next!This is LVM handbook-type shit. AI engineers would get fired for building this dumb of a bot. Seriously. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 03:20 PM |
| 3 | is it pickmesha behavior to admit to having interest in a man?Is flirting appropriate? And what kind of flirting do classy ladies like us partake in that is a skosh above "friendly"? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 02:51 PM |
| 14 | LVM I dated for 4 months kept all contact info of all women he datedMy situation is surely different but, I've got guys in my phone I've dated in the past. Some are still friends, some are business associates, some are just interesting people that didn't work out with me but are worth knowing. I think part of dating is networking, not every guy you meet is going to be your lover. Sometimes you find better roles for them in your life. I, for one, am glad that i can date someone, realize we aren't on the same path and both of us move on knowing that our paths may … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 02:46 PM |
| 5 | How are you celebrating you Galentines or Valentines day?I just bought myself a beautiful piece of art and will be spending time at the framing studio choosing my frame and matting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 06:25 PM |
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