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I think “I’ve barely ever read anything like this from women online” is the key phrase to all of this. You’re looking in a very male-centric and very public environment, which is probably not where most women are choosing to vent their frustrations and deepest insecurities. There are plenty of women who feel unattractive and discuss their flaws, but they are likely not inviting you into those conversations due to the deeply personal and vulnerable nature of the subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 12:42 PM
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Looool I know the feeling 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 02:01 PM
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Yeah, it happens a little bit there depending on who I’m talking to. Not as much as it does in real life though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 01:59 PM
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That’s an interesting point, because even if I don’t always understand what women are talking about, I don’t usually feel excluded or like I shouldn’t participate in the conversation. It’s more just that I don’t know what to say lol. But it is more comfortable. And then with men, even if I have some opinions that might be relevant to the discussion, I hesitate more. Like I have to really weigh my points and make sure they’re worth bringing up, or make sure I could defend them if I needed to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 01:26 PM
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Like I said, it’s a big generalization so I can’t say this happens 100% of the time. And a lot of it may be the specific groups I deal with. But if I’m at a party or something, it’s pretty easy to find a group of male acquaintances who are talking about something I understand or am interested in - video games, certain sports, most of my male friends have jobs in tech so they’ll discuss specifics about that, etc. It’s stuff I have experience with and can form opinions on. But lots of men seem to …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 01:22 PM
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Sorry this is real autistic, but I was just thinking about how there’s a very gendered spin to the “I’m a normal human” mask I put on in conversations with NT people. I’m a woman, but with other women, I have to do a lot of lying to pretend like I understand the content of what they’re saying - their interests/experiences or whatever. But then it’s usually easy for me to match their tone and energy during the conversation. With men, it’s the other way around. I can understand/authentically conne…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 01:08 PM
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Yeah. As long as he's willing to listen to me ramble about nerdy shit, I don't see why that would be a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 07:40 PM
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100000000000% yay
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 11:47 PM
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Something about it is really soothing to me! I can’t explain it. But I also don’t live in an area that gets slammed with big broods often. I think we don’t have another one until 2025 or something…so check back in with me then, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 09:23 PM
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I actually like the noise a lot. But I don’t like them leaving their skins everywhere, that’s nasty
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 09:17 PM
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What does caring look like to you when it is genuine, versus when it is insincere?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 08:01 PM
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Lol no worries, I totally get that. 10 was my first one, so it’ll always beat the others for me. 12’s also on my list to try one day!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 03:42 AM
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Yeah, I always wonder if it’ll hold up now, or if I missed the boat. Time to find out! (I love 8 & 9 too, so I have pretty high hopes.)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 03:01 AM
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I’ve had VII for ages but I’ve never played it 🥲 I gotta make that happen soon. It’s my badge of shame, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 02:54 AM
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I feel you. Final Fantasy X is my favorite RPG of all time. I love that kind of depth, even if it’s very structured. Open worlds are impressive and shiny, but every interaction usually feels very surface level.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 02:48 AM
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All bitches do is chase Chad and refuse to green light open world RPGs
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:18 AM
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Yeah, idk anything about him outside of the picture, but he just looks like a regular guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 11:21 PM
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Seems like being a single male is harder for some. I’m a single female, but it‘s not too bad…it just feels like my life could be a little better with a guy, not like I’m really missing something.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 11:19 PM
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He’s not that ugly imo. He’s like a 5 for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 11:09 PM
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Y’all have some wild ideas in here
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:40 PM
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How do they have time to do that between posting thirst traps and riding the cock carousel?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:32 PM
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Maybe you are only attracted to/interested in the sorts of women who like those behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 07:50 PM
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Well, replicas/casts, really. But they’re still cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 07:11 PM
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try to keep up with me 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:55 PM
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Men who think women are boring just haven’t seen my collection of really cool rocks and fossils yet 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:53 PM
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Does NT-maxxing work on non-NT women? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:50 PM
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👀👀
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:55 PM
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I’m tryna find a man who spends hundreds of hours on side quests and never completes a single main story mission
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:49 PM
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Yeah, that’s my problem with the “government funded” approach (as such things are currently put into practice, at least). Facilities in low-income communities just won’t get the attention or resources they need.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:47 PM
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You’re talking to the wrong women, then. I love pedantic nerdy shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:31 PM
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Personally, my face cleans up to a 4, but my body’s probably a 1. Make what you will of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:28 PM
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Have you seen the kind of butts he posts?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:48 PM
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Would you live through the eventual death of the sun or the destruction of the universe? That would be cool to witness, but it seems like things might kind of suck afterwards
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:27 PM
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You’ve set an impossible standard none of us can live up to
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:16 PM
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🤷‍♀️ times are tough, pick yourself up and make do
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:12 PM
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I thought that’s what fleshlights were for
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:07 PM
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Y’all truly underestimate how ugly some of us women are
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:51 PM
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If they aren’t on track to get married, then how do you reconcile that with your earlier comment about “every woman’s ultimate goal?”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:48 PM
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Why isn’t there a point to him being there anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:46 PM
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I’d remove social security and life insurance as well. Life insurance isn’t a ubiquitous benefit, and social security likely won’t be around in its current form much longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:44 PM
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Everybody loses with me 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:41 PM
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Do pensions still exist
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 02:19 PM
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I’m sorry 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 02:17 PM
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Plain pewter, or I really like wooden ones. Men’s wedding bands look a lot better than most women’s imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 02:13 PM
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If a guy is excited about a subject and has a lot to say about it, I don’t see any reason to shut him up. I wanna hear all about it. And I know if I ever date a guy, he’ll get plenty of weird autistic rambles from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 02:37 AM
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I never understand complaints about double texting. Send me 29 texts in a row if you’ve got that much to say. I love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 02:20 AM
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I’ve had a lot of trouble getting into 4 for some reason. Maybe I should check it out again. I’ve spent hundreds of hours in 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 02:15 AM
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Lol neither. Bottle shit up and carry it to the grave 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 01:24 AM
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Never, too fat
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 12:26 AM
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She just looks very average to me, but I’m a bad judge.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 08:32 PM
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Not really. There are a lot of men who meet my standards, they just don’t tend to notice me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 08:17 PM
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I’ve only had one relationship, and it was a very difficult one because the person came out as trans in the middle of it. So I don’t know if it’s a good litmus test.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 08:09 PM
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How are you supposed to know if your relationship standards are realistic or not? Is it just based on your pattern of success vs. rejection?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 08:00 PM
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Is she considered ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:49 PM
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I can’t imagine most women go through that level of photo manipulation for OLD. But I also can’t imagine thinking the one on the right is fat, so my perspective isn’t particularly helpful here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:46 PM
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What makes a sexual conversation high quality?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:15 PM
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Mr. Big Shot Sex-Haver over here 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:06 PM
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I cannot speak for all women, but I really do not want to talk about sex with somebody I don’t know well. Doesn’t matter if they’re male or female.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:03 PM
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🤨 u got a thing for ducks?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:47 PM
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I did not tell anyone to give anyone a chance. I am asking a question about a social dynamic I do not understand. As an autistic individual, these things are not always clear to me, and I appreciate learning more about the quirks of heterosexual dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:27 PM
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Yes, that does make sense. Thank you for framing it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:23 PM
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Why do you think I would never say that to a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:22 PM
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Is there a preferable angle that isn’t considered deceitful by men?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:20 PM
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Then wouldn’t it be simpler to only pursue women who include clear pictures of their torso?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:19 PM
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Why is discovering that an individual is unattractive more of a waste of time than discovering they are boring, obnoxious, rude, any other dealbreaker that may become apparent when you meet in person?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:18 PM
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In that case, is it preferable that women not take flattering photos for online dating, in order to present their most realistic self?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:13 PM
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I will repeat my questions for you: First, can you not rely on context clues like facial structure, clothing style, etc. to make an informed guess? And second, if the only thing that would be a potential dealbreaker is the woman being overweight, why is it not worth meeting in person to assess that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:12 PM
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Two questions. First, can you not rely on context clues like facial structure, clothing style, etc. to make an informed guess? And second, if the only thing that would be a potential dealbreaker is the woman being overweight, why is it not worth meeting in person to assess that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:12 PM
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That’s always been my assumption. I do not understand why someone would ever need to ask a woman “are you actually fat?”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:10 PM
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Genuine question: why are men unable to tell whether or not a woman has their desired body type from photographs?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:05 PM
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What percentage of women would not desire monogamy?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 05:44 PM
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I do not see why my response necessitated a rude or sarcastic reply. Did I say something to offend you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 05:38 PM
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There is absolutely no benefit to being a member of a harem. Why would anyone want that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 05:34 PM
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I imagine men in positions of power simply wanted to best manage their property, including their wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 05:30 PM
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Straight 0s baybeeee 😎🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 05:14 PM
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This is blatantly false.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 05:12 PM
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Honestly that’s the case for people in general. At least in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:11 AM
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Why is the death of thousands upon thousands of human beings a “shrug” for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 12:54 AM
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It allows u to absorb the sun’s power more efficiently
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 12:00 AM
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How do condoms prevent your orgasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 11:47 PM
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I’ll give the water guys benefit of the doubt sometimes, but you fire people are too much
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 10:34 PM
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It really depends on the topics and what is informing their views. If we have significantly different core values, it won’t work at all, no matter how they act/talk about it. But if there’s still a connection in our underlying values, and they’ve just landed on different solutions, it would be easier to navigate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 09:06 PM
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I don’t think there is enough of a clear regional split for anything other than a “cold” civil war with pockets of conflict. Think about how purple (and even red) states are structured: highly populated urban areas are largely liberal, while smaller rural areas are more conservative. Conflict would likely have to occur between cities/counties, but infrastructure and division of resources would make that impossible to sustain, imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 08:50 PM
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Okay fine, there’s one exception
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 08:14 PM
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Men who don’t pick grass types as their Pokémon starters 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 08:10 PM
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Yeah probably
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 07:02 PM
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This is interesting bc I think half of my comments are pretty coherent/eloquently written, and half of them are shitposts with no punctuation. But which one is ✨the real me✨
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 06:57 PM
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So do you see low empathy disorders like antisocial personality disorder/narcissistic personality disorder as a neurological defect when it occurs in men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 06:54 PM
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Are shorts generally made of digestible fabric?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 06:51 PM
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I do not see where she is claiming it as a rule. Perhaps we are interpreting the contents of her post differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 04:52 PM
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Why is it a lie if it’s the reality of someone’s relationship? Would you rather have women in relationships with this dynamic obscure the truth/lie in the opposite direction to make you more comfortable?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 04:48 PM
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Why are women responsible for the decisions of men they do not know?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 04:35 PM
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That is true, but also very different from entire marketing teams trying to hack human psychology.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:36 PM
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I think it’s also worth mentioning that (thanks to social media) many of those 100 people we see every hour are at least partially constructed/obscuring reality. I don’t imagine that was something our ancestors had to deal with regularly, if ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:34 PM
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The problem, in my opinion, is the exploitation of those insecurities by companies seeking profits. Having insecurities and seeking to better ourselves is fundamentally human. Being surrounded by ads pushing products/methods to “help” us is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:25 PM
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Our ancestors weren’t bombarded with constant advertisements directly addressing their insecurities, weren’t encouraged to compare themselves to so many humans outside of their immediate circles, and weren’t so terribly isolated and disconnected from their local communities. They had it figured out, imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:17 PM
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Maybe✨✨🌸✨💕🌸🌸✨
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 02:36 PM
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Mine is a nice shade of lilac with bits of silver glitter in it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 02:33 PM
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But what if you need a minister during the work week, and all of them are working the full time jobs they need to support themselves? And do we ask a minister to attend seminary, then get a separate degree for another job, since being a minister will not pay? How should we expect them to pay off two degrees? What about other duties like grief and marriage counseling sessions, weddings/funerals, visits to members of the congregation, arranging charity work in the community, outreach, meetings wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 02:06 PM
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☹️😖 oopsie
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 01:53 PM
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I’d be fine with it. When I imagine my ideal, red hair doesn’t come up, but if I met a man with red hair, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 01:51 PM
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ew no he’s blond Edit: who downvoted me for saying Homelander is ugly??? you know I’m right
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 01:49 PM
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Unfortunate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 01:37 PM
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I am speaking hypothetically. Some depressed and anxious people will have internet, yes. Some will not. What do you recommend for the ones who do not?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 01:26 PM
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Then how should ministers pay for food, shelter, etc.?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 01:26 PM
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I’m a vaguely religious woman living in the west. But I’d say physical disability has been more of a hurdle to losing my virginity than religion has.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 01:25 PM
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I would still have sex with a partner who wanted to have sex with me. And I still find men very attractive. I just have no sex drive myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 01:24 PM
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Well, that’s bad news for me I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 01:23 PM
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Idk about that. I’m a 33 year old virgin and I’ve never been in a position to reject a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 01:17 PM
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But what if she’s actually a virgin…? Is she supposed to not tell a guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 01:11 PM
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You don’t think ministers should earn a living for the services they provide?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 01:01 PM
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So what do you do if you’re too depressed or anxious to go to your public library?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 12:59 PM
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I mean, stressing out about it is kind of weird. Just having a preference isn’t, but what good is the stress doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 12:55 PM
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I’ve quit this sub like 5 times. It’s useless
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 04:14 AM
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(drum sting)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 04:12 AM
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Commit a heist together
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 04:00 AM
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I fall into the camp of being asexual but really wanting a romantic relationship. I think the disgust factor really varies from person to person - personally, I have no desire, but also no disgust. Sex is a very neutral thing to me. But some asexual people can also be very sex-repulsed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 02:20 AM
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There’s not much to explain. You just don’t think about sex that much. Or at all. For me personally, I maybe feel aroused once every couple of months.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 02:08 AM
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Lookin for that low testosterone 🤌
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 01:24 AM
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No. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 01:00 AM
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Yeah, I’ve met a few people who feel the same way as me, but I think most don’t like the thought of a gap that significant.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 12:59 AM
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My ideal is a guy 10-20 years older than me. If I met someone my age I’d be fine with it, but it’s not my preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 12:54 AM
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I am legitimately asexual but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 12:41 AM
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I imagine it’s the same as any taboo body part suddenly being on display. People will stare.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 12:33 AM
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In a detached way. Like “wow, I can’t believe it’s that obvious. That’s interesting.” I don’t ever feel any kind of sexual desire about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 12:07 AM
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If you don’t want people to pay that much attention to your penis, maybe you shouldn’t use bold font
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 12:02 AM
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Oh. Still no. Of my 4 closest female friends, two married their first boyfriends, and two have never dated.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:40 PM
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Lol no. No one I’m friends with has even had sexual/romantic contact with an “alpha male” as far as I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:37 PM
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3 without, 4 with
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:25 PM
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Nope. I never understood it. (Boba Fett is the most attractive man in Star Wars, cmv)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 09:12 PM
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The second one. I never want my best days behind me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 09:08 PM
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FIRST 😡😡🤬🤬🤬🔥💥🌋
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 07:43 PM
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97% of my thoughts are inane bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 07:40 PM
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Oh god this is gonna be one of my deathbed confessions. “One time I single-handedly ruined a man’s future on the PPD daily thread…”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 07:15 PM
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F-first? 🥺👉👈
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 07:01 PM
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One time I got reported for a comment saying men were not their own separate species, and Reddit told me it was hate speech
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 06:53 PM
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This answer feels so wholesome 🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 06:39 PM
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I personally can’t see a single benefit to casual sex, but if it works for other people, that’s good.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 06:32 PM
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Do you have any substantial points to add to this conversation? You put forth this topic for debate, but have yet to say anything of intellectual rigor in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 05:50 PM
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The comment did not need fixing. It is an established literary/storytelling trope.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 05:23 PM
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I would be very interested to know how often this actually happened to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 04:42 PM
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That is a particularly interesting topic for me, because as an autistic woman, my interests seem to differ greatly from stereotypical female interests/hobbies. Things like space, paleontology, technology, niche history, etc. But I don’t know if autism contributes to that or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 04:14 PM
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Lol, that’s extra bad news for us women who already give ourselves low ratings.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 04:02 PM
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Neurally diverse meaning more deviations between males? Or neurally diverse meaning war is a complex/nuanced subject, capable of capturing more “layers” of interest for males?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 03:39 PM
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I have a degenerative spine problem, and my hip joints are fucked up. I use a walker/wheelchair.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 03:30 PM
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Lmao I’m 33 and I have one on a guy right now. It’s embarrassing. It started because my friend mentioned wanting to set me up with him, but that keeps getting delayed since he’s in the middle of moving…so now I just gotta sit here and build this entire fantasy life in my head until he finally turns me down or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 02:03 PM
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My legs don’t work, and it makes exercise kinda tricky
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:53 PM
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Got it. At least my creative writing degree is good for one thing in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 02:18 AM
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Have I used it incorrectly before? I have like one functional brain cell so don’t judge me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 02:15 AM
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My main question is why does the bathroom have to be dirty
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 02:13 AM
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Without this sub, I honestly wouldn’t have known IG thots or tiktok thots were even a thing. Y’all exist on algorithms lightyears away from mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 02:11 AM
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That’s a shame. I hope that if you are ever in a difficult or dangerous situation in your lifetime, strangers show you unconditional compassion.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 11:55 PM
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You’re welcome! It’s a very nuanced and often misunderstood subject. If you would ever like to re-examine your opinions and learn more about the dynamics of violently abusive relationships, I would be happy to point you towards resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 11:52 PM
0

For sharing what?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 11:49 PM
2

As someone who worked with victims of domestic violence for a living, I would argue the whole thing was unnecessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 11:35 PM
2

This is an incredibly bizarre perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 11:25 PM
5

Yeah sex is cool but when’s the last time y’all ate pop rocks
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 11:01 PM
1

🥰 dream come true
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 10:53 PM
2

I’ll happily date AI if it tells me I’m pretty and smart and so cool
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 10:50 PM
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Not everyone’s brain works the same way, so it was worth a shot imo. If you’re ever in a position to consider other therapeutic approaches, you might want to try them - if you’ve only done CBT, for example, and you find you don’t respond to that, there are other methods that may click for you (unsure how willing Medicaid is to work with you there - that’s a nasty hurdle). But whatever you end up doing, I hope it gets better for you. It’s a shit headspace to be stuck in.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 10:35 PM
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Don’t let that kind of shit get to you. It’s absolutely a good thing to recognize where you need help. Even better that you’re willing to actually get it done.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 10:31 PM
1

I had to google every part of that joke
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 10:29 PM
2

Lmao I wanted one of those so bad when I was a teenager. Glad I never got the chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 10:24 PM
1

Not a book rec, but have you tried gritting your teeth and saying/doing the opposite of what you’re feeling? We tend to assume behavior must follow feelings, but it’s often the other way around - our feelings will respond to our actions, given enough time/persistence. So when you are presented with a friend’s success, say “I’m happy for you.” Even if you don’t feel happy. Even if you want to throw up. Even if it’s the biggest lie you’ve ever told. Just say it, don’t worry about whether or not it…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 10:22 PM
2

If they’re ugly ones yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 10:17 PM
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Sry for ruining American society 😖
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 09:15 PM
1

Guitar is a yellow flag for me tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 09:13 PM
2

Can he play Hot Cross Buns
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 09:11 PM
1

Is that bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 09:09 PM
2

No joke I would marry a man who played one of those
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 08:57 PM
1

Tubas
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 08:40 PM
2

Prolly transmuter but I would never lie uwu
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 08:19 PM
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I wouldn’t prioritize my ideal over an actual living, breathing person who I was dating, if that’s what you mean. I’d be attracted to whoever I was with. But when I’m imagining a hypothetical boyfriend, then yeah, I imagine my favorite body type.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 08:15 PM
2

You don’t believe that (current health events aside) life expectancy has increased over the decades?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 07:45 PM
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As a woman, I have had similar things happen, and I do understand the frustration. There is a significant difference, yes, and everyone’s tolerance will vary.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 06:42 PM
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Is vulnerability really something that can be demanded, though? I have always considered it something to be earned/offered. I am not so sure that it is true “vulnerability” if it is not freely given.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 06:35 PM
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Why did it ruin the day? You shouldn’t let interactions with strangers control how much you enjoy your days.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 06:32 PM
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I would argue that this is a human problem, not a gender problem. People in general struggle to compassionately and respectfully handle emotions from other individuals if those emotions do not “fit” their expectations. It takes work to offer empathy when someone is not reacting the way we “think” they should - when their emotions are particularly difficult, messy, or about a subject we would rather not discuss. Emotions should never be considered attractive or unattractive - they simply exist, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 06:27 PM
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But why do their choices constitute a mistake beyond smokers, drinkers, drug users, anyone consuming carcinogenic products, anyone living a high-risk lifestyle? What about obesity specifically invites this sort of commentary, and the need to point out that it is a fuck up?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 06:17 PM
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Why is someone being obese considered “fumbling a ball?” You could simply not date obese individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 06:08 PM
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Lmao the fuck is menstrual leave
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 06:03 PM
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What do you mean “fuck it up?” What is being fucked up?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 06:02 PM
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Huh, I had no idea that was a thing. The more you know 💫✨
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:33 PM
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I’m a woman, and this would be my threshold for men. 0-2 is my ideal. 3-5, I would start to have questions about our compatibility and whether or not we truly share values, but I wouldn’t call it a personal red flag yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:18 PM
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Yeah. I’m immunocompromised so at this point, I’m expecting to remain a hermit indefinitely.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 03:37 PM
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Reddit and tumblr are the only social media I use. Imma keep it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 03:34 PM
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Who’s out here actively trying to change preferences?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 03:32 PM
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Lol, on the other hand, family’s 4th of July thing was cancelled because half the people who were coming got COVID this week.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 03:30 PM
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I don’t think anybody is implying that being pudgy/bald doesn’t negatively impact your chances with most people, are they?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 03:14 PM
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I’m down to psychoanalyze my attraction all day if somebody wants to, but I doubt there’s a single reliable explanation. I’m sure self-esteem informs it, as does individual biology/neurology, and childhood experiences, and exposure/conditioning throughout my life, and on and on… It’s fun to think about, but at the end of the day, it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 03:10 PM
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I don’t do this with regrets as much as general anxiety. I’ll be having a great day, and then suddenly remember that I’m mortal and will inevitably perish.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 03:01 PM
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I know it’s a joke about money, but I like imagining that you’re censoring those words because you think they’re foul language
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 02:23 PM
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Y’all couldn’t read anything before you were 10…?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 02:14 PM
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😭 wtf that’s so nice
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 02:06 PM
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Oh trust, my dislike for my body goes a lot deeper than just the feet. There’s no part of it I actively like (but I’m workin on that. Slowly but surely.)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 01:40 PM
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I just found out clitoral atrophy is a thing, and it unlocked a whole new level of fear for me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 01:26 PM
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Lol I think they’re gross. Don’t get me wrong, if I had a partner, I’d be fine with his and give him foot massages or whatever. But if he tried to do anything with mine I’d start gagging. I can’t deal with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 01:23 PM
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Nah, athletic/fit men have never been attractive to me. But then I was bullied by athletic/fit people in school, so they have always made me uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 01:07 PM
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I’m attracted to both overweight men and bald men, so I’m not sure how useful my opinion is here. But in general I do think baldness is the more attractive of the two qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 07:23 AM
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I’m disabled and my wheelchair scares them away 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 07:20 AM
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It’s not so much that the world is lacking the kind of men that I want to date, but the world is lacking the kind of men who are willing to date me period. It feels just as hopeless though, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 07:18 AM
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Janitorial’s an unusual one to single out, but whatever works for you. I wouldn’t say no to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 07:06 AM
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Nothing wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 07:05 AM
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Not really, but your comments make me laugh a lot so I can make an exception
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:27 AM
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Several. I have untreated ADHD and no organizational skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 03:14 AM
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You could almost buy a whole video game w that kind of money
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 02:28 AM
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Okay fine. But only if you compliment everything I cook bc I’m real sensitive
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 02:26 AM
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I’m too ugly for the last one. It’s gonna have to be $50 unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 01:57 AM
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I certainly don’t think the hypothetical dog deserves it, nor do I think the hypothetical man is a criminal. But it is very frightening to have someone larger and stronger than you lose their temper in a way that appears uncontrolled, even if it isn’t directed at you, and even if you trust them otherwise. I imagine this also informs women’s perspectives - I know it informs mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 01:50 AM
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Was martial arts the best thing that happened to you because it was a physical expression of anger, or because it taught you discipline and the value of structure? And while I would not argue that one violent action makes someone a violent person, I would argue that it is a flag indicating they have something they need to work on when it comes to emotional regulation. But of course my own experiences and perspectives color that opinion. I grew up in a particularly violent home. I would not subje…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 01:27 AM
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Oh I understand it’s not you, I mean more general “you.” But in my opinion, no, violence is never a good release of anger. I think a punching bag is a good release of general energy, sure. Same as any exercise. But someone training their brain in a pattern of “anger -> violent action -> relief” is never a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 01:07 AM
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IMO in a moment like that, giving into the anger is the worst thing you can do - it reinforces the behavior as a viable pattern, so the next time you are angry, your brain will be more likely to say “we need to hit things.” I think it’s much better to do the opposite of what your emotions are asking. If they are asking you to scream and punch things, sit quietly and breathe deeply. It sounds cliche, but repeating a mantra or some scripture (if you are religious) helps. Counting, recitation, mult…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 12:57 AM
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I don’t understand the question. If you mean how should he regulate his emotions: the same way the rest of the world does. Put the work in. Question every last cognitive process. Don’t let your emotions dictate your actions, recognize anger as a temporary state of activation, acknowledge and work through the actual painful emotions that the anger is masking. It’s not easy, but it’s important work for self-growth and maturity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 12:48 AM
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I generally don’t care much about a dude’s height, anything 5’0” or up isn’t gonna make me hesitate. But I love burly guys. More fat than muscle, stocky proportions. Bald men are a thousand times hotter than men with hair, and I love heavy facial hair. Not sure why…it’s just a good look. Makes me think they could lift a car up or some shit like that, but they also look cuddly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 12:45 AM
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Nah, what’s the female equivalent of beta bucking? That’s what this offer is I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 12:35 AM
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I would see it as a red flag. I understand that he’s upset, but if he can’t control himself enough to avoid possibly damaging property/himself, it’s a bad sign. He needs to figure out how to regulate his emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 12:31 AM
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I’ll give somebody $50 if they pair bond with me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 11:29 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 09:51 PM
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Height: 432,450 miles Weight: 1.989 × 10<sup>30</sup> kg
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 09:25 PM
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It’s far too nuanced to say. Certain cultures prioritize multigenerational households, and it is never seen as inappropriate. A person with a disability may live with their parents their whole life, and it is never inappropriate. A person’s parents maybe develop Alzheimer’s, health issues, etc. requiring that their child move back home to take care of them late in life, and it would not be inappropriate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 09:22 PM
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6 inches tall and you weigh 1 oz
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 08:51 PM
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They have the highest SMV by far. Especially if they paint all the figurines themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 08:47 PM
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I hope that one day you realize that’s a very harmful perspective that effectively dehumanizes disabled individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 08:14 PM
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So per your argument, blind/disabled people are incapable of forming genuine attachments and connections?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 08:09 PM
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But what makes you think that extends to the person they are in a relationship with? They form attachments and romantic feelings the same as anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 08:07 PM
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Men who are into model trains are the true alpha males
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 08:04 PM
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But how do you know that it’s what people want? How do you know that any given blind person, disabled person, etc. does not like their partner? How are you able to state that as an objective fact with absolutely no measurable evidence of that sentiment?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 07:57 PM
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I don’t see how that works. If penetration is painful, so you date a person with a small dick, and have a fulfilling sex life, and authentically work on your relationship for years, and build a life alongside them…you probably aren’t going to secretly be wishing you could date someone with a big dick the entire time. And with the point about being blind - I am not blind myself, but I am disabled. And while I may wish I did not have that disability, I am not going to resent the good parts of my l…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 07:49 PM
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Not really. I have a handful of good friends, and we share a few similar interests, but there isn’t a lot of overlap.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 07:33 PM
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That is a ridiculous assumption to make about another person’s intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 07:31 PM
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It’ll be different for everyone. I’m an autistic woman and I have 4 good friends. We don’t see each other in person often, but they feel like enough to keep me fulfilled and connected. I don’t have a vibrant friend group outside of that, no real “friends of friends” that I have contact with, but it doesn’t take much for me to feel sufficiently socialized. I also never really go out, except maybe to dinner once or twice a month. But I know that’s probably different from what most people would con…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 07:30 PM
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Baking, reading, writing, video games, crochet, fucking around on discord, fucking around on Reddit…whatever sounds fun. I don’t go out much at all. I’m into the stuff I listed above, so lots of video game subs, some specific subs for movies/shows. I’m also into astronomy, paleontology, poetry, psychology, sociology…I’ll join a sub for pretty much anything that catches my interests, idk. Anything, as long as he’s passionate about it. I got really into WWE/AEW because a guy I liked was into it. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 07:22 PM
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I do not see why it matters if a blind person is dating an ugly person, or if a woman is dating someone with a small dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 07:17 PM
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You conveniently ignored the “if it is important to you” sentiment. But I’m sorry you got upset about my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 07:11 PM
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Right, but we have a way of inflating our perception, and assuming our very narrow experiences apply to all men/all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 06:41 PM
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Your loss, pal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 05:47 PM
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Maybe he has a cloaca.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 05:45 PM
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It’s also largely urban, middle/upper class individuals, first world citizens, and mostly younger as well. Many of the problems addressed here only apply to a very narrow subset of people, but some members of this sub are reluctant to acknowledge that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 05:26 PM
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In my case, it’s very hard to go on a run because my legs literally don’t work. Exercise is tricky under those circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 05:22 PM
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Dude on the left is a solid 7 for me, dude on the right is a 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 05:11 PM
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Myself 🥰 I’m 33.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 05:07 PM
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Women are also clearly okay with it, as they continue to do it. I am not sure what your point is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 05:05 PM
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What makes you say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:33 PM
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Hopefully the reenforcement of sodomy laws doesn’t come to light, or ends up being too difficult for states to manage.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:55 PM
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And you’ll just hope she doesn’t get pregnant? I imagine that would cause some headaches for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:54 PM
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I hope you’re correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:48 PM
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I love a practical man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:47 PM
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I am a member of that “rare exception” insofar as I cannot physically perform oral sex due to a cervical and lumbar spinal disorder, and I would like to know how you view this inability in light of your “greater good” argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:45 PM
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I can’t wait to see all your little lullls running around PPD in the next couple of decades 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:19 PM
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Okay fine. I think you’re all big dumb-dumbs 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:17 PM
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🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:15 PM
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What would you say to someone who is physically unable to perform said sexual activity due to disability or other limitations?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:14 PM
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I am interested to see how a state like Texas would handle that. I want to be optimistic, but I’ve learned not to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:54 PM
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I assume around 15% actively do so, but I assume a significantly higher proportion would like the opportunity to do so - and that opportunity would be greatly hindered by contraception bans.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:52 PM
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Perhaps. But the Supreme Court doesn’t act on a system of popular vote, so the American opinion is essentially worthless to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:50 PM
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The Supreme Court has expressed their intention to revisit sodomy as one of their upcoming rulings. That means anal and oral sex could be criminalized as well, so saying you will only have non-PIV sex may become difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:48 PM
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Tracking is semi-viable method but does leave quite a bit of room for error, particularly with women who have unpredictable cycles or wide ovulation windows. How would you handle a sexual relationship with such a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:45 PM
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Humans are hypocritical by nature. It is not worth expending energy on. And I don’t view the hypocrisy as a problem when it can be easily avoided in one’s personal life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:43 PM
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Q4M: I’m sure this has been asked before, but how would you navigate casual sex (or really any sex) if oral contraception and IUDs were banned in most states? Even if you are not sexually actively presently, but were in a position to do so later, how do you assume you would navigate that? Would a condom provide enough peace of mind for you? Do you foresee yourself getting a vasectomy under those circumstances?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:37 PM
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I don’t think anyone should be particularly shocked. They’ve been very blatant about their intentions for quite a while. This is, however, why I am confused by men who don’t seem bothered by RvW. I imagine men will be marginally more upset when casual sex becomes impossible, or is made illegal in and of itself. Sodomy may be criminalized as well, regardless of gender. But RvW is the potential catalyst for all of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:29 PM
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Some women do not prefer bigger dicks because of pain and discomfort.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:04 PM
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Why should anyone be “pushed” to do a sexual act that they do not want to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:00 PM
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Likewise if you receive no pleasure from sex, you are not eager to engage in it or to be sexually giving.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:57 PM
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If it’s off topic, a mod can remove it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:56 PM
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Women are also often deprived of air while giving oral. That’s just how oral works. If you don’t want to be uncomfortable, don’t date someone who wants it. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:54 PM
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So learn to navigate the hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:50 PM
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I never said it was the OP’s personal problem. But if the comment is off topic, a mod is free to delete it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:50 PM
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Sounds painful.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:13 AM
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If you are dating someone who tells you that a specific sexual activity is important to them, but you do not want to do it, break up with them. You are sexually incompatible. If you are dating someone who does not want to do a specific sexual activity, but it is important to you, break up with them. You are sexually incompatible. Some of these problems are astonishing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:00 AM
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“A thousand times more SMV” seems like an exaggeration. As a low SMV woman, I really don’t believe I am far removed from the experience of the average man, from the way men talk about things here. Men do not approach me, I have never been in a position to reject a man, I am not seen as a sexually viable or attractive partner. I do not get attention from men. In what way is my SMV still drastically higher than the average man? (I am not arguing that this isn’t the case - I am just highly skeptica…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:58 AM
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How many girls do you DM on instagram?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:28 AM
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Hmm. Okay. I will take this point into consideration.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 12:44 AM
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Yawn
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 12:43 AM
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Hummus is the best food
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 12:36 AM
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Maybe one day you will learn to appreciate the mean woman right in front of you, instead of always chasing the next one…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 12:07 AM
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I mean, if you follow very conservative religious thought processes, any sexual activity that isn’t entirely conducive to procreation between a married couple is considered disordered. So non-PIV sex, masturbation (probably extending to sex toys), sexual activity outside of marriage, etc. would all logically follow, if we want to assume the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 11:27 PM
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😢
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 11:23 PM
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Protein 💪
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 07:16 PM
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Assuming you’re still attracted to your partner, would it have to impact your current relationship at all? I understand wanting to come out and make it part of your identity - in which case, just talk to your partner about it - but I personally see no reason to actually act on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 07:12 PM
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I get confused about this as a woman as well. I have heard that being overly nice to a man I’m interested in makes me seem needy/too easy, that I shouldn’t do “relationship shit” before I’m in a relationship. But it’s completely counterintuitive to the way I’m wired. When I like someone, I want to make them feel special and pampered. I want to go above and beyond for them, and make their life happier, even if it’s just a crush. I don’t really know how to navigate that. But it’s very frustrating,…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 06:21 PM
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Mine was one of the earliest comments on the thread. I haven’t been back to read the others yet. Sorry I didn’t comment in a manner that preemptively addressed such evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 06:14 PM
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I’m a slut when it comes to my cooking but not my bjs
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 05:14 PM
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I mean, I would, but I’m female. Thank you for asking tho
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 04:32 PM
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I mean, yeah, I get it. But I just wanna pack a nice lunch for somebody and write a lil note in it, is that too much to ask :(
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 04:30 PM
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Really 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 04:25 PM
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I’m a girl so I’m not tryna betabux or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 04:25 PM
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Being single sucks bc all I wanna do is cook for somebody. I’m about to make a tinder profile like “you don’t have to date me, just let me feed you”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 04:22 PM
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In the present year, is HOH tax filing status a reliable indicator of whether or not individual family systems are structured patriarchally?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 03:55 PM
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Is this a specific demographic of women, though? In terms of cultural background, current lifestyle, age, so on. Even using social media in and of itself sets them apart from a significant number of women all around the word. Any of those factors might impact an individual’s maturity, self-awareness, expectations re: communication, etc. (and yes, gender may be one of those factors - but I am curious why it is the only factor being examined in this situation.)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 03:45 PM
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What’s the sample size you’re using to determine this pattern? What are the ages and backgrounds of the individuals? Is gender really the only determining factor here?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 03:37 PM
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Bloat lord is what I’m personally most attracted to, but I’m probably in the minority. Overweight is good, fat is also good. Obese is where I start to say no. Built fat is okay, but anything more cut than that is a no.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 03:34 PM
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How far does it go? Do you think a religious/conservative virgin who is waiting until marriage will fuck a dude in the bathroom stall on the first date if he’s hot and charming?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 01:59 PM
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