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| 14 | 7 Things “Nice Guys” Don’t Understand About WomenThe teasing and talking about sections would literally send every woman I know running in the opposite direction. Every woman I know hates being negged ( every woman over 21 knows exactly what this is) and women explicitly have slept with me because I listen as opposed to talking about myself. There are some good pieces of advice here like the social proof section, but the two sections listed above are literally poison unless you are only interest in insecure women under 21 | /r/seduction | 15/12/18 01:13 AM |
| 1 | My experience with Tinder dating and creating an engaging bio.haven't been on a few months. Hence " (made you?)" | /r/seduction | 05/11/18 04:00 PM |
| 6 | My experience with Tinder dating and creating an engaging bio.same here. Oddly I never had this problem on OkCupid ( where I actually did really well). I think it is because you have more information on OkCupid so you can make messages more engaging and personalized. Hard to do on Tinder where you have one sentence or two at the most to work on. Some girls don't even write anything knowing full well they will get flooded with messages just from the pics. Okcupid makes you ( made you?) answer 25 questions before you were able to search or be searched, and y… | /r/seduction | 04/11/18 01:40 PM |
| -7 | Guys older than myself, What are some things you wish you had known about women when you were 20?Do you know how I can spot broken people? They keep telling people not to marry. | /r/seduction | 27/09/15 11:46 PM |
| 1 | If you had to give someone the best tips for pick-up using a maximum of 5 bullet points, which tips would you give them?Make yourself laugh (self-amusement). If you're not having a good time, you'll put out a weird energy. Every time. For those wondering, this is what is meant by the term " be outcome independent". The single best thing you can do in any seduction interaction is, first, Make sure you are having fun. everything else follows and flows from this. | /r/seduction | 12/11/13 07:21 PM |
| 5 | Overcoming a sticking point: Making the conversation a SEXUAL conversation! Some pointers on how to do it.The "questions game" helps a lot here. I have never done it face to face upon first meeting a girl... but on OKCupid( where i do most of my prowling) it is basically a hundred percent guaranteed way to turn your first chat sexual. Basically you say : " lets play an Ice breaker game, its called questions.. a very original title. 2. Rules rule 1. anything one party asks another must be answered hoestly and in detail rule 2. anything you ask CAN NOT be asked back to you , ever. This means if you do… | /r/seduction | 08/06/13 12:38 AM |
| 9 | Woman who works at College Admissions Rejects Students for "Dripping with White Male Privilege"she is NOT REAL. edit: downvote me all you want but she gets basic facts on the admission process wrong ( I have never ever heard of any selective school were only one person reads an application and casts a decision. There is always at least 2 people usually at least 3 involved) and unless she works at an all-engineering school that practices affirmative action ( most all-engineering schools do not) there is absolutely no fucking way she would be able to give the biggest affirmative action " bu… | /r/MensRights | 18/04/13 07:45 PM |
| 5 | Useful seduction facts.ahhh but how many people who read that thread and would never set foot in here or read up on seduction now have those six words bouncing around their head cause i sledgehammered them in there? | /r/seduction | 29/01/13 02:49 AM |
| 2 | By request: how to get laidthank you for this post. the day i realized WOMAN WANT GUYS OTHER WOMEN WANT.. ... well that was THE breakthrough day game wise for me. finally i had in one concise but coherent sentence.. an understanding of what women are attracted to, and a framework that allowed me to understand seduction theory. once those 6 words become the lens through which you view seduction... you have achieved an innate understanding of the field. | /r/seduction | 18/01/13 08:08 AM |
| 1 | By request: how to get laidany girl who thinks you are attractive and is on an online dating site is down to fuck. Not that I did not say " on the first date" though if you have good enough game you can have that happen as well. But if a girl messages you, that is a clear message she is sexually attracted to her. | /r/seduction | 17/01/13 02:28 PM |
| 3 | By request: how to get laidthey are more outgoing! But if they are messaging guys on okcupid they are messaging those they find attractive. remember the second golden rule : ALWAYS ASSUME ATTRACTION in the real world the worst that could happen is that they clarify that they are not attracted to you. But on OKCupid they are being outspoken and proactive about messaging guys they like. No one on okcupid, no one, no matter what they say, is there just for friends. | /r/seduction | 17/01/13 02:10 PM |
| 15 | By request: how to get laidremember the golden rule guys : WOMEN WANT GUYS OTHER WOMEN WANT when you are gimmicky you are basically shouting " no women wants me so i am now desperately resorting to this gimmick" This reminds me... you would be stunned how many men whine about women on Okcupid! " im always friendzoned" " my girlfriend dumped me" " im a nice guy, so why dont women like me" SHUT UP SHUT UP!! You are telling women that other women do not find you attractive THIS IS THE KISS OF DEATH. Never badmouth women or t… | /r/seduction | 17/01/13 02:58 AM |
| 3 | By request: how to get laidwomen are seduced by the sense of touch just as men are by the sense of sight. And yes as crass as this sounds it works. | /r/seduction | 16/01/13 10:16 PM |
| 14 | By request: how to get laidi cant find it here right now but i remember somewhere ( it has to be an OKCupid blog) that people who end with a question DOUBLE their response rate. When i started OKCupid, i created a fake hot girl account which i maintained for several weeks and received over a thousand messages. I read these messages and saw the guys profiles in order to scope out the competition. Here is the problem most guys have with asking questions. They are either too formulaic or too weird or unnatural. The too formu… | /r/seduction | 16/01/13 09:48 PM |
| 36 | By request: how to get laida couple of quick comments on your OkCupid game . Listen i hate Drunkenness and drunk people, therefore the overwhelming majority of sex comes to me through my OKcupid game. I think i am good ( though not great) at it, and in the four years i have been doing it have had sex with about 35 girls off OkCupid. I agree with much of what you say ( particularly about the importance of making girls smile when they read your Ok Cupid profile) but i have to make 2 quick comments. "random, short messages b… | /r/seduction | 16/01/13 08:00 PM |
| 11 | Reading the "what hints flew over your head" thread got me thinking... Escalating has NEVER lead to a negative consequencechiming in this thread to make a point: For many of us there was a period of time when we attempted to escalate and got terrible awful, no good results... it was called " high school". Now of course we were all terrible noobs at the time and we could not calibrate worth a damn. so that was part of the problem. But remember that the social dynamics of high school are far different than at other times in our lives. Popular opinion and reputation matter much more in high school, combine that with t… | /r/seduction | 20/12/12 12:04 AM |
| 1 | FYI-There is a strong dichotomy between what seddit and woman think is attractive."the way a man approaches a seduction gives signals to the woman about what kind of relationship she should expect." I think this is the key to understanding the problem you speak off in your post. women who are 27 ish are thinking long and hard about marriage and very long term prospects. Men who are " too smooth" are signalling that they are very good at sleeping with women and thus likely to stray/cheat etc. In other words they are done in by their won success. But again, most people on here … | /r/seduction | 03/06/12 04:08 PM |
| 3 | Movies like "The Notebook" have brainwashed men, ruining our success with women. Look at this example.agreed 100% | /r/seduction | 13/04/12 10:28 AM |
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