mothowaway Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
19	How do I fix subconscious retreat in social interaction?		mothowaway	/r/seduction	13/03/20 10:13 AM
3	Near a busy city, but not close enough to feel comfortable drinking	Removed: Specific Situation / post on r/askseddit	mothowaway	/r/seduction	30/05/21 01:37 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	How to make girls fall in love and chase you? I’m by no means admitting defeat and am more so declaring war.	/r/seduction	28/08/21 12:13 PM
1	How to make girls fall in love and chase you? M24 and needing help with the sex thing (3ish weeks together so far, Ive been out of the pond for a while). We're passionate and my foreplay with her is on point, but I cant get her to orgasm. She says it's just her; maybe it's my self-destructive self-conscious, but I'm afraid that if I cant succeed she'll get bored soon.	/r/seduction	27/08/21 04:20 PM
1	I WILL BE YOUR WINGMAN FOR A DAY IN NYC (FOR FREE) If anyone wants to wing in STL area, hmu	/r/seduction	21/07/21 05:38 PM
1	Anyone else lose interest in a woman when she shows lots of interest in you? Bingo	/r/seduction	10/07/21 04:29 PM
4	Anyone else lose interest in a woman when she shows lots of interest in you? Bingo	/r/seduction	10/07/21 04:28 PM
2	At the most fundamental level Game boils down to two components - Being Interesting & Being Cool. “Stimulating conversation topics” is the hard one for me. My interests and knowledge are specific and fairly niche, so the convo tends to die because it doesn’t stimulate. Exercise/anatomy, food, craft beer/coffee, foreign language and travel (specifically Taiwan), and some smaller things that aren’t coming to me atm	/r/seduction	09/07/21 01:04 PM
1	Sexiest thing a woman can say During or after intimate eye-contact, wrap your arms around the back of his neck and pull him in as you lean back into the bed/couch Idea: you take initiative to start the interaction, then you pass the control to him.	/r/seduction	05/07/21 12:31 AM
2	Going out tonight for July 4th. How do I pull on the dance floor. Do I just approach and start dancing, ask for a dance? Women are generally pretty cringe/s so it works out. When dancing, you play yourself off as fun/quirky or sexy/stylish. If you fail, improve or change your method and move on. If you really want to dance with someone, there’s no harm in taking some classes.	/r/seduction	05/07/21 12:27 AM
2	Going out tonight for July 4th. How do I pull on the dance floor. Do I just approach and start dancing, ask for a dance? If you don’t know how to get interpretive dance but enjoy having a “funny guy” vibe, just do an over exaggerated Macarena to the beat of any song	/r/seduction	05/07/21 12:07 AM
2	Does men and boys drawing penises everywhere show a secret attraction or obsession with them? And that they are more obsessed with penises than vaginas? Penis is funny and very pareidolic. Also, why do we say “cocksucker” and not “vaglicker”, or something? Penis funny. 8==>~~	/r/seduction	22/06/21 12:17 AM
1	Need help approaching men Same thing then. If you look nice, interjecting into a conversation or cold approaching will be received better	/r/seduction	14/06/21 02:26 PM
6	Need help approaching men Go out more. Dress up, go to coffee shops, picnics, museums, etc. guys will take notice, and the ballsy ones will approach	/r/seduction	14/06/21 01:32 PM
1	Any podcasts on cold approaching ? Broaden your knowledge so that you have more things to talk about and more conversations that you can include yourself in	/r/seduction	09/06/21 12:00 PM
3	Getting stuck in the snapchat loop I also dislike sc, but it's commonly one of the first things to be traded. Is there a specific reason that sc is so low investment/potential?	/r/seduction	07/06/21 05:47 PM
2	What are ways to display power ? To masturbate on the earth is to masturbate on the Earth	/r/seduction	06/06/21 03:33 PM
1	Model-looking guy, fit, highly intelligent (140iq) but antisocial and awkward. What to do? Make a Facebook (either for real or a throw account) and look for events in your area. Music, parties, fairs, whatever. Go to whatever sounds fun that you have time for with the intention of enjoying yourself — instead of focusing on meeting people. People will gravitate towards you if they see you enjoying yourself. It might take an hour of dancing alone and/or asking people what their favorite drink is, but goddamnit, someone will notice you.	/r/seduction	26/05/21 07:33 PM
1	Places to meet women as a college dropout? Make a dummy social media account and look for events in the area that are pro-meeting people.	/r/seduction	06/05/21 09:57 PM
1	Something I noticed while doing field work. A hot idiot 🥵	/r/seduction	03/05/21 04:26 PM
3	Something I noticed while doing field work. Wink both eyes simultaneously for maximum effect	/r/seduction	03/05/21 01:06 PM
2	Something I noticed while doing field work. What is ”lost”?	/r/seduction	03/05/21 01:05 PM
5	Different take on meeting people at the gym. I get where you’re coming from, but remember that women don’t have nuts. If I didn’t have nut comfort or leg hair to accommodate for, I would 100% wear something tighter fit out of comfort.	/r/seduction	03/05/21 01:46 AM
2	Everytime i see a hot women it feels like something in my heart brakes or dies. Does anyone else have that? Nah, I 100% feel that. The thing is, I feel like there’s a good chunk of the time where when you feel that, there’s a potential for a spark there. Story: There was a girl I thought the same thing with, and we ran into each other over a summer. I was a student, she was a coffee shop manager that often worked the register. Apparently she thought I was cute because I made a quip that I don’t even remember.	/r/seduction	26/04/21 11:59 PM
3	Everytime i see a hot women it feels like something in my heart brakes or dies. Does anyone else have that? “Hey, can you help me pick something out? I’m making [FOOD ITEM]” Or “hey, I was thinking of getting that too. Is it good? What do you use it for?” Most guys don’t usually assume that they’re getting hit on, so we don’t have a guard up all the time. Ez	/r/seduction	26/04/21 11:51 PM
1	Where would you go if you were a 35m who has never been in a relationship, has no close datable friends, and suffers from crippling approach anxiety? What is eye fucked? I think I know it from experience, but it shares few wires with when I was teased by girls as a kid.	/r/seduction	26/04/21 11:45 PM
3	Is being too horny a bad thing? How do I tell a guy I want to fuck without being forthright... Pro tip (from a dense idiot): Hand on leg, or hand on a front facing part of our body (arm, chest, stomach). Just make sure you do it multiple times and/or for a long time (15-30+ seconds). Note: side arm and shoulder are not exclusively intimate I can flirt and have fun with the best of them, but it the other party doesn’t show any intimacy, I’m going to pass flirting off as buzzed fun. Alternatively, pull them aside after flirting …	/r/seduction	22/04/21 09:43 PM
2	Should I approach girls I'm not attracted to when there are no hot girls around? Approach because you want company and/or conversation, not because you’re trying to game a situation — it’s not like you NEED to exchange numbers or anything. If she pushes too far into your comfort zone, just be real and politely establish boundaries.	/r/seduction	22/04/21 09:24 PM
3	Masturbation I think that it’s normal, but because it’s frowned upon and we hide it from say parents, we learn to get sneaky with it in the same way that our ancestors would have be alert for threats/predators. My hypothesis: I think porn sets an environment where we feel safe, because we fully immerse ourselves with sounds and headphones, sights, etc. When we’re thrown into a real scenario, we perceive anything that we aren’t used as a treat . This can include fear of making sound, uncomfortable/unfamiliar …	/r/seduction	28/03/20 04:38 AM
8	You guys need to stop putting women and sex above your values, self respect and goals. I’m a guy, I completely agree. Women who are confident and able to express content with themselves are also attractive. Unfortunately I have the problem of being hard on myself, always looking too hard for ways to improve and the like. The last gal I dated was great, but I would always peg for constructive criticism. What I believe was one of our undoings was an incorrect assumption that a strive to improve was innate. For example: When cooking, I don’t care if it’s good or not — I want to know …	/r/seduction	24/03/20 04:13 PM
1	Got ghosted online dating constantly? Do you have any tips handy for optimizing time and gain, while minimizing “dancing”?	/r/seduction	23/03/20 11:08 PM
2	Why does it seem like the guys you aren't attracted to always hit on you but the guys you'd actually want don't? I don’t think that they want to, but they unconsciously default to it.	/r/seduction	16/03/20 01:28 PM
1	Ladies, Let’s get something straight. When you want to seduce a guy, make it a little more obvious. Trust me, I’m a guy I’ve fucked this up myself several times, what are we supposed to do in those situations where we need to keep it going? Roll the conversation dice and cross your fingers?	/r/seduction	14/03/20 04:58 PM
1	How do I fix subconscious retreat in social interaction? Have a single best title for me?	/r/seduction	13/03/20 10:14 PM
1	How do I fix subconscious retreat in social interaction? It just logically doesn’t make sense to me. How do you attain happiness without seeking happiness? I don’t subscribe to mindsets. I follow one until I find better suited alternative, then I change and adapt accordingly.	/r/seduction	13/03/20 07:40 PM
1	How do I fix subconscious retreat in social interaction? I understand your point, but natural rights are defined to be life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. Notice that the “pursuit of happiness” is a right, but not “happiness” itself because that could potentially compromise the natural rights of another human being. Happiness is pursued and earned through one means or another, if it’s found, it is deserved.	/r/seduction	13/03/20 05:06 PM
1	How do I fix subconscious retreat in social interaction? I dislike the word deserve, and only believe in earning success — if something goes wrong, I made a mistake somewhere because the very least I could have done was notice the problem. I think that my self-esteem probably averages on the lower end, yet I like myself and am my own best-friend.	/r/seduction	13/03/20 04:37 PM
3	How do I fix subconscious retreat in social interaction? Chillout Haus, I’m asking here because I’m clearly actively trying to improve myself and am seeking advice from people who know more about game and charisma than I do. Feel free to be a jackass, but the very least you could do is be constructive about it. Otherwise, just leave a downvote and go on with your day.	/r/seduction	13/03/20 04:02 PM
1	How do I fix subconscious retreat in social interaction? I’ve thought about the autism and ptsd a lot, especially after knowing now that my pediatrician/uncle/birth attendant green lighted a lot of health issues I had (long story). I’m now wondering is there weren’t any mental illnesses I had that also got waved off.	/r/seduction	13/03/20 12:56 PM
1	How do I fix subconscious retreat in social interaction? I do initiate — I’m always trying to push out of my comfort zone, but the lock up happens as soon as my approach gets reciprocated.	/r/seduction	13/03/20 11:20 AM