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| 3 | What's your opinion on vtubers?All parasocial relationships are weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 12:45 PM |
| 3 | On Double Standards and the Problem of Male Sluts at the GymI have never once in my life complained or objected to a woman wearing more revealing clothing or matching my libido. Even the hypersexual women you simply cannot keep up with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 05:28 PM |
| 4 | On Double Standards and the Problem of Male Sluts at the GymIf some guys slut or fat shame you but you notice some guys dress like male sluts in the gym...do those specific guys give you shit? I don't think I've ever once complained that a woman wore clothing too revealing. If any of my guy friends did, I'd be the first to take it too far in questioning their sexuality. Yeah I know 2 wrongs don't make a right. Don't care. I'm a male slut. I'm tall and fit and show it off. I hook up with random women under my league, out of my league and try to get in 3so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 09:07 AM |
| 4 | Women who choose to remain single are viewed as empowered, men are notYeah, but the look on their face when they finally make the connection feels good to me. I know there's a definite male loneliness crisis out there. But with an older more experienced mentor, most of them seem to do fine once given some confidence and shown how oblivious they are. The absolute worst was one of my best fighters. A female friend had invited him to a wedding. She said "We'd be sharing a bed but we don't have to have sex or anything." He took this as if she wasn't into him. I wanted… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 11:47 AM |
| 3 | Women who choose to remain single are viewed as empowered, men are notI agree with most of what you said, but I don't think dating is unreasonable for the average man. I'm married now, but I could easily take home many women I was interested in. Yes, I got shut down a lot. Maybe 50/50, but as soon as I found someone else, I completely forgot about striking out. I see men who are normal, good looking, educated, have a good career who are just so fucking socially awkward among women. I don't know if it's from so much of their formulative years being spent in isolati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 11:29 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men Should Stop Taking Social Advice from Women, Especially on Social Media>Cool, thanks for responding, honestly thought it was just a bunch of alpha male fantasy (still kind of do but hey, internet be the internet, not gonna take lifestories at face value without any doubt). Hey man, believe what you want.. Youre entitled to your opinion. I'm not bothered because I know everything I said has helped me and if I told you my body count you wouldn't believe me. I can see why you think is some alpha male fantasy. I am not alpha. I'm the medic on an FBI team -- I take orde… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/25 02:59 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men Should Stop Taking Social Advice from Women, Especially on Social MediaThe first thing I taught the bois is after an MMA class we went to a wawa. A 6/10 was waiting on line and I had 5-6 students. I said watch. I just went up and talked to her and first 3 topics no dice. 4th topic (mountaineering we were both into) and we just started chatting. We spoke for 10-15 mins after our subs were done, I got her number and walked back to the guys. I wanted to show them how simple it can be. Now remember: I also made it clear....this was a success. There are times where she … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/25 11:28 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men Should Stop Taking Social Advice from Women, Especially on Social MediaI have a lot to say. Would you give me time to respond, I am away from my office? I will get back to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/25 11:11 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men Should Stop Taking Social Advice from Women, Especially on Social MediaBecause if I got my foot in the door and hook up, they almost always called me back compared to their previous fucks. Before that, I had a lot of 1 night stands, once the MILF who taught me let me go, suddenly 1 night stands always found a way to run into me or straight up ask to get coffee leading to fuck... ...or the drunk yet hot trainwrecks who'd text "WYD?" at 3 am on a weekend because they're horny and know I have amazing foreplay, stamina, know how to talk dirty, skilled ropeplay for thos… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/25 11:11 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Men Should Stop Taking Social Advice from Women, Especially on Social MediaI've been good with women since 2nd year of college when I met a milf at my MMA class and she really taught me to fuck. I had the body but not the knowledge. Since then, I don't think I even pay attention when women give dating advice. They can spot when someone is a clear outlier and gonna fail. But they have no idea how different the entire process is and is something they will never experience. I have a beautiful woman at home who I wouldn't trade for the world, but before that, I was basical… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Reddit is misandrist to an absurd degree.It's true. I politely tell those people to fuck off. None of them are the type who would be in any way assertive like that in person. You're rkghy...but fuck it. Ignore them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/24 01:21 PM |
| 4 | Attending a rap concert was a humbling experience as an average guy.Why do women act so surprised and disgusted about being hit on? Why do you care? I'm not a chad or anything, but I just move on to the next. There's always another. Or another DM on OKC. It's easy. I remember one time leaving my favorite bar and asking some woman to come home with me after drinks, a little dancing and some talking, she told me off...harshly. I said, "ok, whatever slut" since she tore me a new asshole verbally. She followed me to the parking lot annoyed at how casually I just wal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 12:57 AM |
| 12 | Attending a rap concert was a humbling experience as an average guy.Basically a magnet for crazy. Every break up with a woman, than wake up 3 months later with a broken window in your office and her laying in bed with you as if nothing was out of the ordinary? I do miss those days though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 12:53 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Luck is everything. Some men are just by default undesirable and there is no underlyting reason whyBullshit. I'm an older dude. Cage fighting is one of my major hobbies. I've started training the next gen as it becomes time for me to hangup the gloves. I have kids 18, 19, 20, etc up to about 24 say stuff like this or various pills. I've trained them, built them up physically and mentally and brought them to a bar with women my age and theirs and have managed to get them all at least laid a few girlfriends. More than a few were scrawny nerds and now have cute GFs. I even let one of the kids wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 04:05 AM |
| 3 | For men - things you can't control are what is most attractive whereas things you can control are of minor valueYeah, I've seen shitposts, but this is one of the worst I've seen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 04:06 AM |
| -1 | For men - things you can't control are what is most attractive whereas things you can control are of minor valueHahahahahaahahahaha. How old are you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Women today are the ones slut shaming men and trying to control men's bodies.Where did I make the comment? I don't remember you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 02:19 AM |
| 3 | Women today are the ones slut shaming men and trying to control men's bodies.It's a pretty natural flow in logic if you've worked in any competitive corporate or medical setting. Once you've seen how common it is. What's shocked me the most is women will try this with other women pretty damn close to how often they try it with men -- it's just less successful and easier to defend so it tends to get dismissed quicker. There's always someone like you to come out of the woodwork when this topic is mentioned. Your sex fights differently in competitive work environments, and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Women today are the ones slut shaming men and trying to control men's bodies.Implying you don't know the answer to that. It makes her accusation even more ridiculous than it already was. The woman was disgusting in both hygiene and appearance. I had a young, attractive fiancee. Compare that to an old, disgusting and morbidly obese person. You can pretend this doesn't matter...but it does. 400+ lbs on a 5'1-5'2 frame is disgusting to me and not someone I can even view in a sexual manner in any way, any situation or with any amount of alcohol. Yeah yeah, I get it's not a s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 11:00 PM |
| 2 | Women today are the ones slut shaming men and trying to control men's bodies.What in the fuck are you talking about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 10:58 PM |
| 13 | Women today are the ones slut shaming men and trying to control men's bodies.Your jump from “they’re uncomfortable -> they’ll try to ruin his career” I always laugh when I hear this line. I'm not a passport bro, I have no interest or reason to be, but the amount of women I've seen try to destroy other's careers -- men, women, men again, etc -- is astronomical compared to men who just come in to work and mind their business for the most part. Acting like this is such a huge jump when us guys have seen it so many times is adorable to me. It's sort of like me speaking about… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 12:58 PM |
| -1 | Who has more sexual options: An average looking woman? Or a male celebrity?Are you fucking kidding me? Just how clueless with women are you? I have either 1 gf or 3 steady friends with benefits and I am no chad. Imagine what ANY male celeb has. Yeah, dating and asking women sucked when I was 19 or 20....but it's so fucking easy. I get women in the 26-34 range with my eyes closed and I am nothing special. But to think an average women has an advantage or is in any way comparable with a male celeb is insane. Did you grow up terminally online and simply have no way to tal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 07:20 PM |
| 9 | The entire “if a girl is really into you, you’ll know and there is nothing that can dissuade her” narrative really needs to die already. This is completely false, and is misleading generations of men.Gentlemen, especially the younger folks here, remember: always pay attention to what women DO, less so to what they say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Men are seen as more creepy doing the same actions as women. Let's debate10-4 princess. I know 45 seconds of reading must be rough on your brain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 08:40 AM |
| 1 | Men are seen as more creepy doing the same actions as women. Let's debateYeah, that and a lot more. I have younger friends and trainees afraid of talking to women, but I've never had an issue with this. Maybe when I was a teen, but those days are just a blur I barely remember at this age :/ My biggest fear is the pregnancy trap. But there are more serious ones as the guy below pointed, personally I don't care and am not afraid of them. Had a woman bash a bottle of wine over the back of my head once and punch/elbow me 40ish times. She admitted it in court and they gav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Men are seen as more creepy doing the same actions as women. Let's debate> This is a glib and no offense short-sighted line None taken. Everyone should be able to express their opinion, even if it paints someone in a negative light. Yeah, I'm well aware. I don't care. I take enough precautions to avoid them,especially since my current partner agreed to get a full panel STD test (along with me) as long as I paid and also has an IUD. That string doesn't lie. So I'm not worried about being pregnancy trapped. Half the young guys I meet (I train at an MMA gym part time an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Men are seen as more creepy doing the same actions as women. Let's debateThere's a lot I could've mentioned if I wanted to brag. I certainly wouldn't mention I've been rejected an absurd amount of times, but I am persistent. Besides the height -- which is something important to mention because some women will naturally be uncomfortable around larger guys at first due to size disparity -- what exactly did I brag about? I find people in here weird. As if the thought of a guy getting laid easily is anathema to them or impossible. You should've seen when I went to Vegas … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 04:40 AM |
| 1 | Men are seen as more creepy doing the same actions as women. Let's debateYou're welcome. I have a few chats of guys calling me an asshole. I'm not quite sure why. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 04:38 AM |
| 1 | Men are seen as more creepy doing the same actions as women. Let's debateNo. It's me saying I'm older than the average poster here, experienced and had I listened to half the dating rules I've seen people post on reddit, I wouldn't have met some amazing women and friends. And that people should learn to read women, but also know when to respectfully move on and give her privacy. Which part is bragging? The height? I only mentioned that because I'm a large guy due to MMA, so larger guys need to be aware that you should fuck off sooner if you make her uncomfortable bec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 04:37 AM |
| 1 | I would rather be single than settle for a man.I'm a dude and I'm the same minus the man part. I'm happier single and being a fuckboy than settling for a woman who isn't right for me or isn't attractive enough. I make my intentions clear though. No, I don't say "you're not cute enough" or anything, I just politely say I'm not interested. And as for friends with benefits who catch feelings (1 side almost always does), I make it clear from the beginning if you're looking for longterm commitment, a husband and moving in together, I am not the m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 04:25 AM |
| 4 | Men are seen as more creepy doing the same actions as women. Let's debateYeah. Life is unfair. It always has been. I have a longterm partner I'm probably going to marry right now. But if I told you the amount of women I've fucked you wouldn't believe me. If I told you the amount of times I've been rejected is an even higher number, you would. I don't listen to people making rules on when you can approach. If a woman's at the gym with ear phones in, leave her the fuck alone. If she has a "dont talk to, I'm not in the mood" look don't even try. And even if it's somewhe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/24 01:20 AM |
| – | “Don’t bother a woman at [location]. She’s just there to [do activity].”Cheers bro. I train at an MMA gym and am on the older end of fighting range. I'm at fight 58. So I have been training the next gen for 5 years now. I have met many incels. And the ones who have had a positive attitude, been willing to listen and aren't total cunts to be around, I've helped at least 5 get laid or find a GF. Pretty much all of them said it was impossible, but I just took them out with myself and the boys and started a convo with a group of women (I obviously wasn't interested, but… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 07:31 AM |
| 7 | “Don’t bother a woman at [location]. She’s just there to [do activity].”I don't fucking care. If a woman is interesting and looks open (not wearing headphones, working out on her own, looks annoyed, etc) sometimes I'll talk to her. Like at the gym, I'll go up and strike a convo. I can tell immediately if she isn't feeling it, will back off and make a note that she is not interested in me. But I've met plenty of women at gyms, grocery shopping, etc other places I'm "not supposed to approach" women. But the fact is, as guys, we're expected to make the move. If you fol… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 04:18 AM |
| 2 | Penetration is essential to most women's complete sexual satisfaction.Taken, but appreciate the offer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 05:07 PM |
| 14 | Make up and womenI don't. I've been around the block and then some. Never once had a woman mention anything about paying the cost of her getting ready. Ditto for tons of friends/colleagues. I don't know where OP is getting this from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 08:27 AM |
| 2 | Penetration is essential to most women's complete sexual satisfaction.I figured that out at like 21. If she says "right there, right there, keep going" I do exactly what I was doing. I don't start jack hammering if fucking. I don't change up my tongue/finger work if going down on her. And it's usually pretty easy to read women's body language and see what's working or not. Still, I don't doubt women are better at going down on other women. I've seen it first hand, since my last GF was extremely bi and we did a lot of FFM. I would say Alyssa was able to go down on/… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 03:08 AM |
| 0 | Penetration is essential to most women's complete sexual satisfaction.Men lie. Have you been upfront about this to them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 03:03 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of the study showing 71% of men have been sexually victimized by a woman?Thanks for your sympathy. Most of my female friends were polite like you. A few of the neighbors were very threatening until I showed them the court papers showing her as the aggressor. Apparently, she had told them I attacked her. Hard to keep a lie like that up when you're the defendant charged with assault/battery. She didn't have a single charge stick. Just 4 hours anger mgmt and 33$ court costs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/23 12:27 AM |
| 2 | What do you think of the study showing 71% of men have been sexually victimized by a woman?Absolutely not. I've never had issues getting laid. And I've fucked hotter than her, it's just I thought she was hot AND dating material. I had no idea about the 3 restraining orders and she covered up her violent side for 1.5 years. Mostly it was her getting ME into street fights and me having to cover my ass because she talked shit and then I'd have to step in. When I was finally done with her, I figured she was good because she looked so calm. No, my brain is stronger. I wouldn't have made it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/23 12:20 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of the study showing 71% of men have been sexually victimized by a woman?Yes, she was charged with assault. I went to the station to document it to cover my ass, and the cop I was talking to said "No offense, but go in the bathroom and look at your face. I will be asking a judge for a warrant for her arrest." It was a holiday weekend, so she spent 3 days in jail. I didn't realize my face was so fucked up. I had to later get 12 stitches and had a knocked out tooth. Along with some of my old injuries from MMA popped open bleeding everywhere. She was upset that between … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/23 12:18 AM |
| 36 | What do you think of the study showing 71% of men have been sexually victimized by a woman?My last gf broke a wine bottle over my head and punched/elbowed me over 40 times. She got 4 hours anger management. She admitted to every detail and we both met at a boxing gym, so the girl knew how to throw a punch. And people wonder why we don't even bother reporting it. It's a waste of time. In court, the judge acted like I was the asshole. I'm a clean cut MD, she worked 10 hrs/week at a store selling mini blinds for slightly above min wage and had 3 previous restraining orders. I didn't know… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 02:20 AM |
| – | Discussion: If the guys here aren’t cold approaching or giving women attention where is all there attention this forum claims they are getting coming from?They can't terminate me unless I commit some major form of malpractice. We've been searching for more endocrinologists and endocrinurologists for 5 years now with no luck. I do what I want and maybe 1 guy micro-manages me, but he is my mentor and I go to him when a patient is throwing major redflags (Munchausen's, M by proxy, symptoms not alighting right, etc.) Anyway, I'm 6'3 semi-decent good looking, good job and have unlimited confidence. I will flirt with women in the office. The only except… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/23 06:47 AM |
| 1 | The real wall is the fertility wallWhat do you recommend? I meet a new hookup every 2 weeks or so. Then they realize I have 0 intentions of committing and leave me...even though I make this clear from the start. Guess they think they can change me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/23 06:33 AM |
| 2 | The real wall is the fertility wallYeah, but it's treated as a big circus. A woman with 12 years of boxing, whose drunk, trained and already hit you in the back of the head with a wine bottle attacks you and the judge (as long as they're female, the lawyer will just delay til they get a woman) will think it was some slap fight or something. I didn't want to go to court. I documented it to cover my ass in case she tried anything in the future. The cop I was talking to said something like go in the bathroom and look at your face. H… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 11:08 PM |
| 1 | The real wall is the fertility wallWell I have 15+ years of fighting am 6'3 and a heavyweight. It's just I was raised not to hit women so I sat there as her punching bag. It's very easy to attack someone when they don't hit back and adhere to old rules of chivalry. I could've choked her unconscious 8 seconds in...but I couldn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 11:06 PM |
| 19 | The real wall is the fertility wallWhat you said is so true. It's fucking ridiculous. My last GF and I compared ourselves on OkCupid. I had like 12 DMs and 70 likes. She had 2500+ likes and over 600 DMs. Lookswise she wasn't what I normally go for, but her personality and just natural chemistry made me say fuck, let's do it. It was so incredibly mindblowing how easy it was for her. She got lazy when she realized what I make. And just stayed home all day watching netflix since I covered both of us. And got really shitty overall. C… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 08:39 AM |
| 3 | Discussion: If the guys here aren’t cold approaching or giving women attention where is all there attention this forum claims they are getting coming from?Just what exactly is creepy and dangerous about it? I'd say I'm genuinely curious, but I am not. I have cold approached so many women and it's worked out. I've been shutdown plenty of times too, but I wished them a good day and fucked off. I've cold approached guys too to compliment a band shirt or just discuss things. Hell I cold approached a woman who had a 46er shirt the other day. I mentioned I climbed the 46 too. We spoke for a few minutes and went our separate ways. Was that also disgustin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Discussion: If the guys here aren’t cold approaching or giving women attention where is all there attention this forum claims they are getting coming from?I cold approach women. Sometimes it works. Sometimes it doesn't. It's normal social interaction. If you say you're not interested, I say have a good one and walk away. But let's be real: you're not supposed to generalize and stereotype, but you can take one look at me and tell I'm white collar/non-threatening. I think that's a large part of why I get away with it. It's only online that I hear people complaining about this. Yeah, if some girl has her headbuds in and is lifting? Leave her alone. B… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Why are there so many of you still struggling even though you make good money and have a successful career ?I don't know. It became disgustingly easy once I finished college, got a good stable career, decent place and got my shit together. I also lift 3 times a week and am in shape. OkCupid is like shooting fish in a barrel. I'm not the top 10% of looks or whatever people say. But I've fucked more than 10 girls this year. I explain my opinions, where their OBVIOUS negativity is the thing that is shutting them down, they dismiss everything and say it's just because I'm 6'3. This sub is one of the most … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 02:35 AM |
| 1 | It’s wrong to treat women and men the sameIf you think men and women are treated equally, I have news for you. I learned a long time ago how different they are and in fact what they say they want and what brings someone shorter and warmer home with you are very different. I'm not complaining, that's the game. You have to deal with it. I broke up with my ex. She conked me over the head with a wine bottle. She struck me 40ish times. Almost all chin, jaw, nose. Bad places. Her attorney delayed the case a few times. I noticed each time was … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 01:31 AM |
| 2 | Most women respect men with larger penises more than men with smaller ones, even if they do not prefer larger penises in a sexual contexthowdoiw0rkthisthing You know what? Re-reading my statement, I retract what I said in the last sentence. You are correct. I was hit by a drunk driver a few days ago and I've been experiencing the worst brain fog/concussion. I agree because I've seen guys first hand get rejected and get very nasty with women. If that's in public, I can't imagine how much worse it would be when private. Attacks to weight or looks are usually the first thing, well besides insults starting with b, c or s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 04:54 AM |
| 2 | Most women respect men with larger penises more than men with smaller ones, even if they do not prefer larger penises in a sexual contextI've noticed a clear correlation between my size while dating compared to my size when I break up with a woman. Suddenly being 6'3 and above average is small when you break up. I always find it funny. I've noted the size of women's sex toys I've dated. There is a very obvious trend :) It's just one of many insults women leverage on men, whereas we don't make fun of y'all til you REALLY let yourself go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 12:59 PM |
| 2 | Men's standards are almost always perceived as misogynistic and judgmental?Don't know. Don't care. I just pay attention to what women do. Not what they say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 07:10 AM |
| 1 | Why is asking for a paternity test a relationship ender?Because women (and men too, we might be worse) cheat far more often than you think. In my small social circle, I'm the single guy while they're all married and I think I've fucked every wife except the 2 I don't find attractive. I would turn it down, but I'm not friends with and don't respect the guys they married. Same thing with vacation. I've met so many women on vacation where we fucked like rabbits, but everything was no pics, no social media, no last names, wedding ring tan lines, etc. My … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 06:50 AM |
| 2 | CMV : A lot of very attractive girls I’ve noticed just have very one dimensional tall tattooed bearded boyfriendsThey might be one dimensional around you because they don't know what to say around you, but they could be the most interesting people in the world in private or around...other interesting people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 03:18 AM |
| 1 | What is the main reason men are single 2023She doesn't want any labels. She just wants to stay friends with benefits. I also make vastly more and she didn't like my prenup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 02:30 PM |
| 1 | What is the main reason men are single 2023I did once, but extremely lucky. Thanks for the advice though. Do you trust IUDs? Because I have long fingers and can distinctly feel the string of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 06:30 AM |
| 1 | What is the main reason men are single 2023Thank you. Yeah women definitely like height. A few of my female friends say they don't care, then I think about how none of them have dated a guy under 5'10 for the last 10 years since college. Height did nothing for me until I truly found confidence. And not that "fake it til you make it" confidence. Really believing in myself. My best friend is 5'4 and he's had more women than me. If I told you how many women I've fucked, you would not believe me. And I'm not some Chad. He definitely is thoug… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 06:19 AM |
| 1 | What is the main reason men are single 2023I appreciate the advice. I've had women try this on me. One was extremely close, but fate intervened on my side. I am not counting on that happening again so I take precautions. My 3rd car is an old civic I use to meet women from online dating that I take seriously. The ones I am just trying to fuck, I meetup with my nicest one. But the old, generic civic is my gold digger screen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 04:39 AM |
| 1 | What is the main reason men are single 2023That's never been an issue for me since around 21. From 16-21, I was really awkward around women, but after I did a year of MMA/boxing, it gave me so much confidence and physicality. I'm 6'3, but I went from a thin/lanky 6'3 to muscular and very v-shaped. Also after stepping into a cage with a grown man twice my age trying to take my head off, I found I no longer feared rejection or others' opinions of me, which GREATLY improved my dating and ability to find sex. I got shut down plenty, but I al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 04:36 AM |
| 0 | What is the main reason men are single 2023I had a really close call with one chick, but she miscarried at week 10. She was in tears looking for support and I kicked her out of my house, told her never to contact me again and blocked her. She had told me she didn't want kids, was 100% pro-choice, then as soon as she gets pregnant, "I think you'd make a great father, think of how awesome our kid would be, I can't go through with this, I'll be having the kid with or without you, but I'd like you to stay." You don't understand the relief I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 12:32 AM |
| 1 | What is the main reason men are single 2023I'm not sure. I can't put it into words. Always have had a magnetic attraction to her and she admits to the same. She's brilliant, fun to hang out with, can talk to her about anything, very humble, I think she's just been hurt too many times and is a female version of WGTOW. So I guess that's what she's doing. Her abusive ex after me changed her a lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 12:29 AM |
| 1 | What is the main reason men are single 2023I can live with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 12:28 AM |
| 1 | What is the main reason men are single 2023We have sex. No feelings. We've been doing it before I got out of school. We dated seriously when I was younger. Since then, we've been on and off for almost 10 years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 12:27 AM |
| 1 | What is the main reason men are single 2023She has an IUD. I can feel the string with my fingers and I always check for it. We've done this dance on and off for over a decade. So for example, I dated a girl for 4 years, so we stopped hooking up. When I broke up with her, she was there waiting. Next, she dated some guy from the marines or whatever. When he ended up being a control freak, she messaged me. I could keep going, but you get the idea. On/off again for over 12 years now. She has a kid and a large part of this happened while I wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 12:27 AM |
| 10 | What is the main reason men are single 2023So what's your opinion on this? I'm similar to the guy that keeps trying despite being rejected, except for a large difference. We dated when I was young and were still in college. I blew her off to go drinking with the boys, see the UFC fight, etc. I did not treat her how she deserved and she never forgave me for "breaking her heart." Years later, I've finished school, residency, etc and have my shit together and have just broken up with a new gf. We go back to fucking 3-5 times a week whenever… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 11:19 AM |
| 0 | What is the main reason men are single 2023Not having their shit together as well as they think they do or having excessive expectations. Also negative attitudes towards dating and fear or rejection. I guarantee I've been shut down more than any male in this thread. I also guarantee I've fucked more females than any male in this thread. Hell I once got shut down 10 times in a night. They were irrelevant because #11 went home with me. Dating as a guy can be difficult. It takes time to really find yourself and settle into a career/lifestyl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 11:14 AM |
| 1 | Dating in your 30s for a guy is way easier as long as you have your shit together.No argument at all. I've met such better women in my 30s. In my 20s, I met some manic, pseudo-intellectual meathead, a chick super into Christianity, and one who was decent but I should've treated better. In my 30s, it's like shooting fish in a barrel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 07:50 AM |
| 1 | Most modern women have a problem with orbiters and it is one of the single worst issues in modern datingMy woman gets this at the gym. She's sort of a fitness influencer. I love to walk by, slap her ass and keep walking just to upset the little orbiters who are talking to her. It's funny because of how little respect she has for them. She's just an enormous blackhole that requires unlimited attention and they provide that. Saves me some time. If I was younger, I would've been jealous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 04:49 AM |
| – | Telling women that looks fade isn't much of a "threat".Of course it is. All of us are concerned with the passage of time and loss of youth. Some men weather it better than others, ditto with women. But it seems to be rougher on women who are more youth obsessed. This is sort of like saying guys who are short or have a small dick don't see it as a threat. Yeah, they can be fine otherwise, but you better believe they're going to see it as a threat or at least something very unpleasant. Talk to a women mid30s. Especially one who is childish...then tell… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 10:22 AM |
| 5 | sex toysBecause men's sex toys are boring. And if I'm bored or strike out, I can just slightly lower my standards for that weekend. Between OkCupid and Plenty of Fish I can get a new girl every week. Occasionally one worth keeping around that I'd maybe be willing to date. Women take a lot more work to orgasm. You ever sit there hands and mouth and really really try to make a women cum? It's a lot more work than her just blowing you. So if she wants some crazy vibrating rabbit thing that sounds like a je… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 04:18 AM |
| 1 | The only men who truly benefit from modern dating culture are the tip top percentile of menI'm not the tip top of men. I'm not a Chad. Yet I can get a new woman every week on OkCupid easily. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 06:11 AM |
| 1 | CMV: a girl would hook up with you on a first date if she’s attracted to youOk, so we're in totally different professions. You obviously know more about the subject, but I've banged my share of divorced women who never shut the fuck up about their husbands high blood pressure, how "controlling" he was -- I swear every ex was controlling when he found out she was a cheater and left. And stuff like that. I usually only half listen. Where I'm going with this is I immediately put these women mentally into my do not date file. Sex only. What % of women initiate divorce? Is i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 05:18 AM |
| 2 | CMV: a girl would hook up with you on a first date if she’s attracted to you> But yeah, I’d they have a guy in a week, that guy was already there Agreed, that was my point. Like I said I've fucked enough girls in relationships to know just how quick and easily they'll cheat. And they always have the lamest justification even though he's probably a good guy and they've never mentioned any of this to him. Men just cheat and that's it. No bs excuses or rationalization. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 04:10 AM |
| 2 | CMV: a girl would hook up with you on a first date if she’s attracted to youI know, that's why I brought it up. All the ones in relationships said the same thing. Like they were using it to justify obvious cheating. Me, I'm just thinking I'm 500 miles from home, never going to see this woman again and might as well have some fun. I've never cheated in a relationship, but I've lost count of the number of women I've slept with who were in relationships. And I've noticed when I break up with women, they sure do seem to have a new guy ready the same week. As for guy friends… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 01:09 AM |
| 1 | CMV: a girl would hook up with you on a first date if she’s attracted to youYeah, both genders cheat. But I've lost count of the amount of women in relationships I've fucked on vacation. I noticed plenty of guy friends do it while in relationships. It seems like some are wired to cheat, others wouldn't cheat no matter what. As for women, they almost always bitch about how their bf neglects their needs or some bs, I don't really pay attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 10:21 PM |
| 2 | CMV: a girl would hook up with you on a first date if she’s attracted to youIn a 5 year period, I met about 25-30 women on plenty of fish and okcupid. I had no interest in dating. I struck out on tinder hard and I'm not sure why, but POF and OKC were gold. I think 20 or so put out on our first night. At least half of them had something in their bio saying they don't do that. It's just our natural urges, both men and women have it so I don't see anything shameful about it. The best is on vacation though. I went to Lake Placid after breaking up with some girl I dated 7 ye… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 09:55 PM |
| 2 | "Everyone's entitled to their own preferences" only became a thing when women's superficial standards for men became undeniable and widely known. And today, people still judge men more harshly for having standards.Of course. It's a reality of dating. That's why as a man, the best thing to do is improve yourself to become the best person you can be. And yes, men face double-standards. It sucks, but that's reality and something you have to learn to work around. There's still plenty of great women out there if you're at least decently put together. We can't change the system or how dating works....so learn to adapt or just end up with your dick dry. I once struck out 10 times in a row at my favorite bar. I d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 09:25 PM |
| 1 | CMV : If you’re the guy she had to lower her “unrealistic” standards for the you’re forever on thin iceYes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 05:29 PM |
| 1 | CMV : If you’re the guy she had to lower her “unrealistic” standards for the you’re forever on thin iceYeah, I'm a dude and when I read that, I kind of sat back confused for a sec. I'm thinking whatever dating problems he has have nothing to do with "unrealistic standards." I'm not some simp or chad, but that's like advertising you're not a good catch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 05:28 PM |
| 0 | Why should a man not date younger women given the opportunity?Yeah ran into one who was into me. I ended up explaining to her I just figured out what 'bet' and 'drip' mean a week ago and we had nothing in common. Even a quick hookup felt wrong so I skipped that. Trying to set her up with one of my boxing students who's super good looking but TERRIBLE with women. Poor kids 6'5 built and handsome and he can't talk to a gal without stuttering. But he has no problem going punch for punch with me in the ring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 11:12 AM |
| 5 | Why should a man not date younger women given the opportunity?Have yet to find a good reason. Date whatever age appeals to you as long as it's legal. At the same time, I'm not dating a 19 year old because they're just too young for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 03:56 AM |
| 1 | What would you say are the chances of being falsely accused of sexual harassment by a woman?Thank you. It was the least I could do. They ended up firing my accuser within a month. Nobody wins in these situations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 11:01 PM |
| 4 | What would you say are the chances of being falsely accused of sexual harassment by a woman?Part of what I did was illegal, I will not mention that part. But one responsibility I had was annual inspections for numerous medical/property issues. I was in charge of this and had always delivered. I don't think anyone else was qualified or knowledgeable at the time for our annual re-certification. The company had to makeup tons of last minute documents, correct issues that would make us look bad to inspectors and generally prepare for re-cert. I pretended to do it, but actually kept the hon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 10:30 PM |
| 2 | What would you say are the chances of being falsely accused of sexual harassment by a woman?My door never closes unless I'm alone or talking with a fellow supervisor I've known for years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 11:34 AM |
| 18 | What would you say are the chances of being falsely accused of sexual harassment by a woman?Had it happen to me once. I'm closer to 40 than 30. Around month 6, she just dropped everything and admitted she lied. That was it. No consequences. I kept my job by a hair, then quit in the most disruptive way at the most disruptive time. You will become a pariah. Even if people know you are innocent, everyone -- HR included -- will do everything they can to do not be involved with you or defend you. You will be completely alone with no help from anywhere. Be smart in your professional life wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 05:12 AM |
| 2 | Most men would be resentful and disgusted by their partners if they were given a written or visual history of their past sexual experiences. CMV.I'm not. I know she was a complete slut and don't care. She's my slut right now. Or for now. We'll see what happens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 08:19 AM |
| 2 | How do you feel about society making men "obligated" to lead a relationship (asking a girl out, initiating the first kiss, proposing, etc)?It's a social norm and I don't mind. Besides, women often make a move in a way if you're paying attention. They will put themselves in a position to be asked by you. They'll be flirty or more friendly. This is just the basics, but you get the idea. I don't mind being the one to ask. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 05:59 AM |
| 0 | Young, attractive women don't completely hate the attention they get. If they hated it there wouldn't be a billion dollar industry focusing on making them look as young as possibleI don't blame you. I have two 7 or 8 out of 10s ready whenever and it's a huge ego boost to me. I doubt I'm the only guy in their stable. How high would you rate your men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 03:18 AM |
| 3 | Young, attractive women don't completely hate the attention they get. If they hated it there wouldn't be a billion dollar industry focusing on making them look as young as possiblePay attention to what women do. Not what they say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 03:13 AM |
| 6 | Young, attractive women don't completely hate the attention they get. If they hated it there wouldn't be a billion dollar industry focusing on making them look as young as possibleYeah, that's why you pay attention to what women do, not what they say when it comes to certain things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 03:10 AM |
| 1 | The truth is that majority of men won’t even approach/talk to women, yet they keep blaming them for the their lack of success.Yeah, that's why I kept moving places. To see if she was following me. It worked out. I've done MMA/boxed for 15 years now, so I'm ridiculously confident and am good at putting Chads in their place. Verbally or physically. I am definitely not a Chad though, just a regular guy who is successful more often than he strikes out. Can I ask you something? I mentioned the boxing earlier. Why is it when I bring a woman to one of my fights and I absolutely bust the other guys face up for a win I get the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 04:48 PM |
| 1 | The truth is that majority of men won’t even approach/talk to women, yet they keep blaming them for the their lack of success.I disagree with those men. I approach women a lot. I get shut down plenty. But I am successful plenty. And I've had women come home with me who I was 100% sure would shut me down and were DEFINITELY out of my league. Gentlemen, I'm not going to pretend dating rules are fair. They aren't -- for either sex. But one thing you need to do unfortunately is learn to handle rejection and the nervousness of cold approaching a woman. A lot of times women make it easy for you. I'll give an example: I was a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 01:41 PM |
| 2 | 2000-2010 was the best decade for men, women and relationshipsAgreed. I had a lot of Asian friends in my social circle -- and still do -- it felt much harder for them to cold meet women. Like approaching them at bars, the gym, etc. For whatever reason, Asian women love me and I'm just a generic fit/tall white boy. I do amazing with Asian women, great with white women, poor with Hispanic women and terrible with black women. No matter how much I try, black women almost never are into me :/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 07:07 PM |
| 1 | 2000-2010 was the best decade for men, women and relationshipsIt was the same then as it is now, just with less of a focus on online dating. I'd actually argue it was harder because you often had to cold approach women at bars, stores, the gym, etc. Or run into them while pursuing your passions, for me at least: mountaineering, hiking, MMA, jiu jitsu, etc is where I organically met most women. And for every woman I was interested in, I often avoided anything because if I see a woman with head phones in just chilling, I assume she isn't interested and don't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 07:02 PM |
| 0 | When women learn men of all ages are attracted to teens, women can no longer look at men the same way.> Murder is biological, natural and normal. Woah. Murder is normal? I think this says more about you than anything in this thread. I figured you were a little off from the original post, but this is just completely unhinged. I'd recommend a book called on killing. It's what lead to different military training revolving around a lot of indoctrination and dehumanizing of opponents. They found that out of a group of x soldiers, almost all killing was done by a very small %, whereas the rest would d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 04:39 PM |
| 0 | When women learn men of all ages are attracted to teens, women can no longer look at men the same way.Yet another women who has it all figured out and isn't even out of college age. Give me a fucking break. There's guys like you described...but there's just as many, if not more who have no interest in that age group. I can't even stand women in their early 20s, late 20s/early 30s are my go to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 04:27 PM |
| – | Why is almost everything that criticizes transgenderism censored?That's fucking ridiculous. If you told me 10 years ago things like that would not only happen, but be prevalent on social media, I would've called you a crackhead. I'm a trainer at an MMA gym. We have M->F fighting among women (well, we used to) who have linebacker shoulders and are 6 ft+ going against women 5'1 and 5'2. We got a lot of backlash when we made them fight with men, but they hold their own fine and it comes down to skill. The other way was like watching a male heavyweight fight agai… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 07:44 AM |
| 3 | Q4M: Has a woman ever helped you get laid?Yes. Not through advice, their advice is always terrible, but just from us hanging out together and approaching chicks. A lot of women are at ease immediately if you're there with a female friend, even if she's a lesbian. I find the hardest part is getting your foot in the door, from there it's usually a lot easier -- and some women have their guard so fucking high at bars and what not that it's often not even worth the effort. Female wingmen are good, especially lesbos. But one important thing … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 04:13 AM |
| 1 | How to avoid being 'boring' to ladies?First off accept that no matter what, sometimes you will be boring to some women. Sometimes the vibe simply isn't right. Anyway, you need to have passions. Hobbies. Things you do besides watching netflix. For example, I love climbing, BJJ, MMA and boxing. This has lead to me meeting so many women who shared the same interest. However to a mostly sedentary girl I met, this was not so interesting. Likewise, I found her interests boring and told her. She said the same about me politely, we had a qu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 07:40 AM |
| -2 | Why do so many women expect us to understand women during their mood swings when they have their periods? Aren’t they admitting upfront that they are more emotional due to their biology?You're the male equivalent of the "not all girls" type of woman who acts like she's one of the guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 08:47 AM |
| 1 | In your experience, do platonic opposite-sex friendships often involve a lot of "giving" by men without reciprocity?If she is using you, yes. I am friends with my best friend's wife. She is an amazing wingman. We'll go to a bar together (he doesn't drink) and just have a good time and people will approach us. We make it clear that she's wearing a wedding ring and I'm not so people get the idea. Many women will approach her first, I'll join in and then they end up coming home with me. Something about having another woman there makes them more comfortable around you. I find that won't ask me directly -- rather … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 08:04 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever seen or experienced a relationship that broke multiple TRP rules and still managed to be fulfilling and sexual ?Correct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 07:42 AM |
| 1 | Would you rather have sex with a fat 20yr old or a fit 50 yr old?It's pretty close, but the last one really sealed the deal: the 50 year old. But 20 year olds to me are basically children. I can't offer them anything but sex. Hell I remember one time some chick texted me "bet" when I asked if she wanted to come over. No idea what it meant, so I showered and put on cologne and sure enough there she was an hour later. So I learned bet means yes -- or something. But when I say we have nothing in common besides fucking, I mean it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 05:31 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever seen or experienced a relationship that broke multiple TRP rules and still managed to be fulfilling and sexual ?Definitely. It was not a positive change, but one was from a buddy dying in Iraq. So that couldn't be helped. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 05:09 AM |
| – | Race has an effect on finding a partnerWink wink. I sort of sit back and let them rant if I'm just looking for a night of company while also mentally assigning them to the "do not call back list." I also recall dating a girl who was 5'1 and a table of girls saying "why do all the short guys have to date tall guys?" These women were tall like none under 5'8, a couple pushing 5'11-6 ft. I dated a 6 ft tall woman once. Do you intimidate some guys? Because she did. I never cared. She asked my permission to wear some heels she liked (I fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 09:25 AM |
| – | Race has an effect on finding a partnerI'd say the more intellectual looking or college type. I don't recall going for the baddie type or the girls who are super dancey because frankly I suck at dancing. I like the smarter women. ....but I've struck out with every type of black woman. Meanwhile Asian women love me and white women are extremely easy. What kind of hair are you talking about? I'm not the best with women's hair, makeup and all that stuffs, I just ask out women I find interesting/attractive and see if it works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 09:22 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever seen or experienced a relationship that broke multiple TRP rules and still managed to be fulfilling and sexual ?Yeah, I've done it a few times. The biggest thing I take away from TRP is I stay an emotional rock early on. If I had a bad day at work. If I had to fire an employee I like because HR fucked up again, etc. I won't share this with her until she's already very emotionally invested. I fight MMA, so if I have a fight coming up where my camp (the 2-3 mo before a fight) isn't going well, I won't invite her. If the other guy's style is bad vs mine and I'm having a good camp (no injuries, feeling flowy,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 09:12 AM |
| 2 | Race has an effect on finding a partnerI agree with most of what you said. One of my best friend's is 5'4. He's now married, but when we were in our random bar hookup phase, he did incredibly well. He's not necessarily handsome, but his confidence is like mine, completely unshakable. Meanwhile my 2 other friends were also over 6 ft and nothing special. Not only did we have more luck, I felt the shorter guys needed to have better game to even out the playing field. I'm not saying short guys can't get laid as I've seen short guys pull … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 11:10 AM |
| 3 | Race has an effect on finding a partnerYeah man, it's a great aphrodisiac. Maybe women just like seeing guys physically dominate other guys. It probably is some relic from the days before humanity became mostly civilized or something. What's your theory? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 11:06 AM |
| 2 | Race has an effect on finding a partnerFair enough. Everyone's entitled to their own preference imo. I'll still keep trying, but I don't expect much from black women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 11:03 AM |
| – | Race has an effect on finding a partnerI am definitely not top 20%. I've fucked dozens of women from dating apps. I am however very tall, fit, have unshakable confidence and a lot of passions to talk about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 10:42 AM |
| 2 | Race has an effect on finding a partnerI don't know man. I'm a white guy who is an Asian woman magnet, yet I strike out with black women left and right. I think different cultures tend to have different preferences. And remember, the US differs so much state to state, so some areas are going to be rough as a black male, whereas others white women will be all over you. Preferences are interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 10:39 AM |
| 2 | Race has an effect on finding a partnerGuys just take whatever they can get. I've passed up dozens of women. I am not a Chad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 10:35 AM |
| 2 | Race has an effect on finding a partnerI'm 6'3. You wouldn't believe how many gfs/dates I've had who ripped on short guys to me. They'll say jokes like "who let him out to the club this late?" or whatever. Height is a huge advantage, and I love when I see a reddit thread where women pretend height isn't a big deal in dating. You can overcome it if short, but it makes dating much harder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 10:34 AM |
| 1 | Race has an effect on finding a partnerI'm a tall white guy. For whatever reason, I am an absolute magnet for Asian women. It's been that way since I was 16 when I lost my virginity. I have no idea why. Conversely, I strike out with every black female I speak to, for whatever reason they simply are not into me. White women I do quite well with, but not to the extent of Asian women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 10:33 AM |
| 3 | Race has an effect on finding a partnerI strike out with every black girl I try. I have tons of success with Asian/White girls, mediocre with Spanish and do well with Arabs. But black girls simply don't want me. I'm tall, fit, good career, have my own house, but something about me just turns them off. I guess everyone has their preference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 10:29 AM |
| 2 | Race has an effect on finding a partnerAgreed. I'm 6'3 athlete, so fit and very conservative. I've fucked 2-3 conservative women max. The amount of extremely liberal women I've fucked is so high, you wouldn't believe me if I said it. They're willing to forget the politics for you if you're their type. Also I fight MMA and I often invite women to my fights. If you lose, she's watching you get your ass kicked, but for whatever reason, when I completely bust a guy's face in with my fists or choke him out and drop him on the canvas like … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 10:27 AM |
| 2 | I think people have unrealistic expectations of what a first date should beI'm not going to go into detail to cover this guy's entire post, but I will say one thing. I used to not get laid much. I finished college, started lifting weights and went from skinnyfat to an athlete mode. At first, I did 5 days/week, now I only do 3 just to maintain. My shoulders are much broader and I know have that nice v-shape going from shoulder to hip at 6'3 215, and while I thought I had a weak jaw, I actually have a solid line with the fat gone. The amount of women into me and the succ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 09:36 AM |
| 1 | I think people have unrealistic expectations of what a first date should beI hate when people use debunk or "source? source? source?" in lieu of any actual debate, argument or counterpoint. It just reeks of being an intellectual lightweight. Try to counter his points. Mention where the poster is wrong. Bring in your links that run contrary to his claims. But simply saying debunked is about as reliable as those "fact checkers" you see on social media that label false anything that makes a corporation or a politician not on their side look bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 09:33 AM |
| – | Say No coffee dates!!!!! have standardsYeah, I've been fooled by that before. Met on gal who must've known how to use angles because what I saw on the webcam didn't remotely resemble what I saw in person. I also met a woman who was beautiful, 8/10 minimum, extremely intelligent and made almost as much as me. The thing is we had no chemistry and when I told her that, she got a look of relief and said, "I feel the same way." She was glad she didn't say it. So we both wasted some time, but got coffee, said a polite goodbye and each move… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 07:04 AM |
| 3 | Say No coffee dates!!!!! have standardsYeah...that's what the fucking coffee date is for. We can both vet each other in a public location, make sure both were honest with pics, description, etc and see if there's enough interest to ask them out for a 2nd and more serious date. I'm 6'3 and keep myself lean. I am ok if a woman has some extra weight on her, but if she's 50+ lbs heavier than her pics I've seen before we meetup, I'm not going to want a 2nd date as she obviously wouldn't be compatible with my lifestyle, nor would I be attr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 04:01 AM |
| 3 | Say No coffee dates!!!!! have standardsWhat if I meet a woman on a dating app and all my pics + stats are honest. She shows up clearly 10 years older than the pics and 50 lbs heavier than you thought. What if she's flawless, but we simply don't have chemistry? In either case, why would I waste my time fine dining on the first date? I see the first meetup as kind of a vetting process. If it goes well, I'll put some thought and cover a nice second date, but I love the quick coffee meetups just to make sure everything is good and it's w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 03:56 AM |
| 2 | Say No coffee dates!!!!! have standardsShe said coffee dates are bad...for her. This doesn't apply to all women. I'm sure plenty would disagree with her. I'm also sure a decent amount would agree. But with how casual dating is nowadays, sometimes you don't want to start with fine dining if you can tell within the first 10 mins the vibe isn't right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Say No coffee dates!!!!! have standardsI always pay for the first few dates, but expect her to put at least some $$$ in once we're steady. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 03:47 AM |
| 4 | I often hear women say "I have attractive male friends with awesome personalities, but I don't like them that way." If they're attractive, why aren't they attracted to them?You can't force a relationship. If the vibe isn't right or there's no common interests, why would she want to be with you if all you bring is looks? That's my position now, but it's sort of a complicated one spanning about 10 years now. I know this is for women, but from a guy formerly in this situation where we dated a while, realized it wasn't going to work out then became friends with benefits only. She and I clicked but I couldn't get through to her kid and she felt I didn't take care/spend … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 05:50 PM |
| 2 | Why do conventionally attractive woman almost always date high status men?The answer to your question is obvious. And the answer to your last sentence is very simple: as a man in the dating world, pay attention to what women DO, not what they say. For example, I saw a thread on reddit asking if height mattered that much and roughly 75% of women posted they would date a short guy or it didnt matter. We all know they were either picturing 5'6 version of Jason Momoa or straight up not being honest, and what was funny is pretty much every gal who listed their bf's height … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 05:49 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women are incredibly entitled and take male providers for grantedI did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 08:51 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Women are incredibly entitled and take male providers for grantedYeah, I think a lot of it is just talk. I've made more than every woman I've dated after college and those who lived with me never once had a problem doing more of the chores if I picked up the bills. At the same time, I'm not sitting there doing nothing. I'll do like a 40:60 split and regular house maintenance, which I think is fair. I'll give you one bit of advice if you haven't figured this out yet: pay attention to what women do, not what they say. I once saw a thread on here where roughly 7… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 08:42 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Women are incredibly entitled and take male providers for grantedYou've never seen a trophy wife? You've never met a gold digger? I'm sure you or some of your friends have met a fuckboy who dangles the prospect of a relationship in front of you just for sex when he will never commit. Our equivalent is the gold digger who treats us like an ATM. When I upgraded from a normal Toyota to something flashy and exotic, somehow the amount of women into me doubled. I literally had one gal who I asked out and was shut down quite hard DM me asking if I was still interest… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 08:36 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Women are incredibly entitled and take male providers for grantedI'm with you brother. I'm really shocked at how different the responses from women here are compared to real life. I also think any man who makes significantly more but does 50/50 is either incredibly nice or a doormat. If I'm paying more, I'm doing less chores. That doesn't mean zero, but I'll do 40% and the biggest pain in the ass: home repairs which never seem to be considered here for some reason. I think my so doesn't even know how to use a drill. And of course, if it's beyond my skill leve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 08:29 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Women are incredibly entitled and take male providers for grantedI honestly don't know the answer to your question. That is definitely a unique situation. What does he do for a living if you don't mind me asking? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 08:21 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Women are incredibly entitled and take male providers for grantedI'm considering it. I'm worried about theft though and the idea of non-family in the house constantly makes me a bit uncomfortable. Do you tip maids if they do a good job? We have no problem with the chore split as of right now. I do the floors, repair everything that needs to be fixed, we each do our own laundry, and I do the garbage/recycling. I also relocate spiders outside because she hates them. It's not an even split but I don't think 40:60 is unfair when I provide financial security, pay … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 08:18 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Women are incredibly entitled and take male providers for grantedYou had me at the beginning, but that end was pretty rough. I feel for you with the social worker part, you guys have one tough job. Note I never said getting out of chores at any point. I take out the garbage. I do my laundry. I repair all household issues and when it's beyond my mechanical skill, I pay for the professional. And I'll split sweeping/mopping floors. It's less than she does, but we have like a 40/60 split. I don't see that as selfish. Why do you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 08:06 AM |
| – | CMV: Women are incredibly entitled and take male providers for grantedWhat makes it irrelevant? I was in school til 28 then had 2 years of residency. That amount of work and your life put in is time you're not getting back, but also the reason for a higher salary. There's no "I'm better than you." There's no standoff. We simply discuss what works best and go from there. I respect anyone who works equally -- from people who wipe toilets for a living all the way to the c-suite execs. But if I'm working a job that took 10 years~ of school, earns more than double and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 09:04 PM |
| – | CMV: Women are incredibly entitled and take male providers for grantedWhy? I worked my ass off to get a higher degree and higher paying job. I didn't go 100k in debt to be scrubbing dishes. If I'm dating a woman who works the same hours as me but makes 40-50k+ less, there's no way in hell I'm splitting the housework. I'll do 35-40% max and we'll discuss who prefers to do what and sort it out, but 50/50 if I'm paying 1800/mo and she's paying 650 is simply not going to happen. Most women seem completely fine with this arrangement because it offers tons of financial … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 08:21 PM |
| 1 | CMV Men are way more honest in a discussion about dating/dating strategy then Women which is sad because if Women would be honest they could elevate those discussions to a new level.To the younger men here, when women give dating advice, don't pay much attention to what they say. Watch what they DO. I'll give you an example: I remember a discussion on height in men, and every other woman was like, "well it doesn't matter for the right guy." Then you ask what height their bf is, and they're all like 6'1-6'3. But they're totally ok dating a 5'4 guy, it just so happens that every guy they date is 5'10+. So disregard what they say and watch what they do. Women also will make th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 05:44 AM |
| – | I feel like people are becoming more and more fickleI feel you. I'm not a super attractive guy, but I have 6 potentials on OkCupid all ready to meet or hookup. I have a steady FWB locally I met in person, but I've been on so many first dates where the vibe wasn't there. The worst ones are when the woman has her guard high, is like a brick of ice and just won't open up no matter what. I usually just say, "hey, this isn't working I'm not feeling it" and you get a varying range of emotions. Usually an insult, Any here''s my point: I'm a regular dude… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 01:50 PM |
| – | Sex = Bargaining Chip for Women | Women Enjoy but Don’t *Value* SexOh please. I still get "come fuck me" messages from a girl I haven't dated for 4 years. Every time we're both single, I come over, we have a session (gets a little kinky), we fuck like crazy and as soon as I'm done she tells me to go home so I don't wake her kid. 3 weeks later, I get the same message. I invite her to hiking, even with other parents and kids going, nope shut down. I invite her out to nice bars/restaurants -- shut down again. But that "Come fuck me" message will be there at least … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 01:19 PM |
| 7 | Women are Tired of Men Sharing Their FeelingsOf course they are. How fucking old are you people? You don't share feelings like that with women at least until they're very emotionally invested. Women are not into whiny or emotional guys unless they're insanely good looking. Do you have a brain? Look at the guys attractive women date. Keep these feelings inside or share with your bros. With women, 100% confidence all the time. You wouldn't believe how much it works. Best thing I can say to you is ignore what women say when giving advice to m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 08:14 AM |
| 0 | If you struggle with dating, you are BELOW averageYet I still manage to get women to come over or out for some quick food. I won't pretend my success rate is good, but it's enough that I get more than I need. I'm not amazingly handsome, but I am 6'3 and educated while also having hobbies that lead to you being more fit than average. Mountaineering and MMA. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 07:44 AM |
| – | I do not wish to date anymoreShe wasn't into you and didn't have the strength or honesty to admit it. Yeah her story is bs. But women are like that sometimes. Disgustingly indirect, but you don't have to read between the lines to see she wasn't vibing with you. Don't take it personally. I've been shut down by more women than you can imagine. I've also fucked more than you'd expect. Rejection is a part of the game and sometimes there's just no rhyme or reason to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 07:25 AM |
| 2 | Women just want an excuse to lecture men about sexismI agree this subreddit sucks. I found it one day and gave some college kid basic advice on getting laid and explained why certain things he was doing were stupid. I ended up staying and some of these guys clearly haven't even talked to a woman in a fucking month. I see posts like guys using video game data to explain why women are X. For x, insert negative trait here. You wouldn't believe the stupid things I've seen here. I think my best advice is "talk to her like she's anyone else or just a gu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 06:54 AM |
| 13 | Women just want an excuse to lecture men about sexismIt's because so many people will compliment them, talk about how amazing and special they are, how they're such a genius just to get laid. Serious, going through texts with my current FWB and it's INSANE how much positive shit people say. In bars, I've heard so much of this. The shit people will say to get laid is incredible. And women love compliments, even if they know it's bullshit. Tell a fat chick she looks great in that dress (even though she looks like shit but you're being nice) and she'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 06:51 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever had a close, heterosexual female platonic friend before?Yes. Many, but my best friend's wife is the biggest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 06:31 AM |
| 1 | Jonah Hills situation is proof why men cant win. He was insecure, they broke up due to his insecurity and somehow he still needs t be condemnedGuys, listen. Older fuck here, yet I pull women easily. We all feel insecure sometimes. Any guy who says he doesn't is full of shit. Here's the thing: women fuck hate seeing us as weak. They're drawn to strength and someone competent and confident in who he is and what he does. They'll tell you all day that they're there for you discussing mental problems (this one will usually be them bitching about their anxiety followed by female coworkers they dont like), but if you actually tell how you wer… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 04:58 PM |
| 1 | What places are acceptable to approach women for a date?Oh please if someone like Chris Hemsworth went and hit on women who just wanted to be alone, he'd have so much success. Meanwhile, if the average poster here did, they'd get shut down pretty hard. And they'd deserve it. The way I see it is if she is focusing super hard on something and has her ear buds in, it's best to fuck off and leave her alone. But I broke that rule for one girl who seemed special (don't know why, she just did and I took the chance) and it worked out. I don't think there's a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 07:27 PM |
| – | Alot of guys don’t actually find women attractive. They like cosmetics.Seriously. Saying men don't want women because people complained about a videogame? Isn't the entire point of this fucking sub and red pill to get women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 03:21 AM |
| 0 | Alot of guys don’t actually find women attractive. They like cosmetics.How bad was it? Assuming on a 1-10, this post is a 1.5 or 2. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 03:21 AM |
| 2 | CMV : As a man the best strategy to achieve success in dating is to approach it as one big jokeIf you let only 10 rejections affect your mental state you are ill and need to see a therapist. You're definitely projecting here. If you don't know what it means, look up psychological projection. My entire argument was mostly we all get rejected. As men, unfortunately it's just a part of the game and if you want to be successful with women, it helps to be able to shrug it off. 10 times in 1 night is pretty rough for most guys and it didn't bother me at all. I'd go for more, but that's the wors… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 02:17 AM |
| 30 | Alot of guys don’t actually find women attractive. They like cosmetics.Why did I ever join this sub? It came up one day and I gave some kid basic advice on how to pickup women. Like standard college stuff. Now I'm reading shit like this. "A lot of guys don't find women attractive." Lol go send a bunch of women to a bar with no makeup, I bet every single one of them will find a guy. Repeat your experiment on online dating. Each one will find 25-30 guys. This is a fucking video game with an ugly character where some fringe outlier is complaining because their lead ch… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 01:23 AM |
| 1 | CMV : As a man the best strategy to achieve success in dating is to approach it as one big jokeI know this sounds stupid, but stop caring. I'm a little older than most people here, but take this for example. I was at my local favorite karaokee bar and I engaged with a lot of women. I struck out 9 or 10 times in a row. The 11th was completely down. Do you think I was thinking about the first 10 while fucking her? They're irrelevant, and with online dating, you have such a larger pool than back when you had to chatup a girl in a bar. Honestly don't get attached too early, treat it very casu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 08:23 PM |
| 6 | CMV : As a man the best strategy to achieve success in dating is to approach it as one big jokeThat's the 3 month mark. People try a little harder and put on a sort of persona early on. By 3 months, you know who they are, they know who you are and if it's taken a significant dip, it's time to move on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 08:20 PM |
| 10 | The best dating advice for a man can only come from women he has slept with beforeNa, women give horrible dating advice to men usually. Especially if they are trying to spare your ego. They might give great dating advice for dating...her. Just not other women. The best advice I ever got when I was younger was, "Pay attention to what women do, not what they say." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 08:32 AM |
| 1 | What is an advantage that single men have that taken men don’t ?Money, free time and space. Not having to deal with the occasional bullshit argument where they get mad over something and you have to gradually coax it out of them. Being able to have 1 night stands with random girls who have no intentions or ability to stay together longterm. Easy sex on vacation. A lot of these are different if you cheat, but I don't cheat in committed relationships. I did recently fuck a girl who lied to me about having a bf. He keyed my 392 challenger down the entire passen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 09:55 PM |
| 0 | When men say they don't want a career woman, it's not that they don't want a woman who has a career, they just don't want a "boss babe".Meh boss babes never bothered me. I mean the real ones -- not the penniless victims in MLMs. They can be commanding like me and we'll argue for sure, but (I've only dated 2, so anecdotal only) during sex it's a different dynamic than fucking a submissive gal. They want you to take over and will often sort of test you. This can range from being bratty to downright acting like a manager. When I figured out how to play that game and use my superior strength and height to pin her down and go to town… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 06:37 PM |
| 0 | What role do you think socioeconomic status plays in dating?It's a huge deal. It determines which women/men you pickup. An 8/10 woman making 70k/year will want a guy making at least 100k at 6-7+. When I went from making 40k/year to real money, the amount of female interest I got tripled. Nothing about me changed besides the numbers on my w4. I think women are hard-wired to feel comfortable with a provider who can take care of them, and these days, that means proper socioeconomic class and a good job. Also being 6'3 helps. If I had one bit of advice, it w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/23 04:48 AM |
| 1 | "Madonna/Whore" and "Beta/Chad" are the same phenomenon.Your first paragraph read like a college 101 writing student trying to be as verbose as possible. You did nothing to address my point about how many guys on here run into a woman with obvious cluster b, then extrapolate that to all women. These are the women who will fall for my second paragraph. You drive the cheaper car to weed these women out and find the ones interested in you. It's not like it made me go from 50/50 to some stud -- think of it more like 60/40. For most women, it still came d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 11:36 PM |
| 4 | "Madonna/Whore" and "Beta/Chad" are the same phenomenon.Ok, sounds like we're on the same page then, bro. I might've mixed up your message. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 11:01 PM |
| 6 | "Madonna/Whore" and "Beta/Chad" are the same phenomenon.I swear half the complaints I see describing all women on here apply only to those with cluster b personality disorders. Like you're extrapolating that small but easy population to all women. There's no secret to women. They're not as different as you think. Just go and fucking talk to them. Sometimes you strike out, sometimes you don't. I'm no Chad, but it's about 50/50. I've struck out 10 times before I found a 7+ willing to go home with me. Did the previous 10 matter? No. I do way better if w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 10:45 PM |
| 1 | CMV: It's possible for a man to get used for sex by a woman.Of course it is. I had an on again off again who would hit me asking what I was doing. I'd come over, we'd fuck and maybe half the time I'd spend the night. Her kid crawled into bed with us once, that was pretty awkward. Anyway, every time I hit her up to hangout or do anything as I wanted a relationship, she simply wasn't interested even though her daughter wanted to go. Made excuses constantly but strung me along. But for a few years, 2-4 times a week I got the "what are you doing?" or "come f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 09:15 AM |
| 2 | Would you date an Onlyfans model or a woman in the Sex work industry?No. I went and got a PhD. I acknowledge that a select few of these gals make more than me, but under no circumstances would I consider any of them an equal in any way. Had they done it in the past and moved on to something more white color? Sure no problem. Actively involved in sex work? Not for me. I'm taken anyway so my opinion is irrelevant. But if I got divorced, that's where I'd stand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Ladies who are well endowed, if men had to spend a month or two with large boobs, what do you think they would learn from the experience?Yeah women complain a lot, but it seems like they have some pretty fucking valid reasons when some women literally need reduction surgery to live a normal life. Humble brags aside, I don't get why so many guys on this sub come across as so hostile. Yes women are gonna complain a lot, it's what they do but just roll with it brother. Much easier to get laid this way and life would be pretty fucking boring without women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Confidence doesn't help physically unattractive menFucking bullshit. If we took these negative whiners in this thread and hit up a bar where we both somehow magically transplanted into identical bodies, the more confident, normal people would pull sooooooo much more than folks in PPD despite an even playing field. It absolutely is not an empty term in the context of dating. Also note, women find confident, assertive guys attractive in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 12:26 AM |
| 5 | Confidence doesn't help physically unattractive menYou're so fucking negative. You don't need a chiseled 10/10 jawline to pick up women, and for most men, lifting will reduce enough fat to improve your jaw line significantly. Simply being lean with a bit of muscle makes most of us at least semi-attractive, although some gents are just fuck. And eye shape? What in the fuck are you talking about? I don't remember why I joined this forum, but I've seen so much bs info and such hostile/negative people. I usually show my gf the guys who call me a vir… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 12:18 AM |
| 1 | There are no "intimidated" men.I bet this sounds great in your head and others have made some good points here, but the only result of your little LARPing at the end would result in nothing more than you being laughed at. I've been rejected a thousand times. I've been more laid more than a few, but I strike out more often than not. I don't care. Tangent aside, there's nothing intimidating about 3 women laughing at me. I don't care. It probably wouldn't even be a group of beauty queens, but regular basic dumpy folks. Now if th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Red Pillers: how much experience have you had with actual women?16: lost v card. Nothing til around 21. Mostly dry early to mid 20s. 25-30: 1 woman relationship. 30-35: 25+ women. I also began making large amounts of money and working out when I started becoming more successful. But between 25-30, I had many opportunities that were turned down due to committed relationship. 20-25, I struck out at least 6-7 times for every woman into me. It was not fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 05:25 AM |
| 9 | Why don’t straight women like bisexual men?TIL having a sexual preference is homophobia. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/21 08:16 PM |
| 1 | The same way men were lied to about women, women were lied to about men.I'll agree with you on that one. That's the age range I am mostly picking up now because women who were usually a bit out of my range are now working out. But it's also a huge risk because that's also the age where they start feeling old and wanting kids if they don't have em. They'll lie about the pill or an IUD and you're fucked. I dodged a bullet when my ex fwb miscarried. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 10:09 AM |
| 0 | The same way men were lied to about women, women were lied to about men.You have no idea who I am besides 2 small sentences I've wrote on a subreddit, yet you feel confident enough to say for certain that I have only seen 1 guy do this? I admire your confidence, but of all things to call bullshit on, this is fairly mundane, common and frankly says more about you than me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 05:35 AM |
| 7 | The same way men were lied to about women, women were lied to about men.I've watched all kinds of normal short guys pull extremely attractive women. Do they have it rougher than tall guys? Absolutely. They will have to be more charismatic. More interesting. Have great character. More confident. Great looks and an amazing career don't hurt. But it's not impossible and happens far more than you would think. Height is important, but it isn't the end of the world. Then again I'm well over 6 ft, so I'm biased here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/21 08:33 AM |
| – | How should a guy handle a crush from a much younger girl without crushing her feelings or being either a creep or an a-hole to her?I had a 20 year old intern at work into me. I just tell her politely, "I'm far too old and boring for you" and remain civil. I like to mention my dated taste in music and how I'm sometimes in bed super early on the weekends. I think she got the message. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/21 04:58 AM |
| 2 | Crux of young men’s anger towards dating market and women comes from different prices of admissions for sex for different men and the disinformation women put out about what they are attracted to.I'm not sugar coating it. I've acknowledged how difficult is it. I don't care, because even if I strike out 5 times, I will get what I am after the 6th. Other guys don't have to go through this, but once again life isn't and never has been fair. Bitterness is not a good way to attract women, nor is a username like cuntreaper lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/21 06:56 PM |
| 6 | Crux of young men’s anger towards dating market and women comes from different prices of admissions for sex for different men and the disinformation women put out about what they are attracted to.Of course women put out disinfo about what they're attracted to. Pay attention to what women do, not what they say. It makes things a lot easier. And yes, some guys have it easier than others. That's life and you'll find the same true in school, the workplace, life, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/21 04:53 PM |
| 3 | What are some signs a woman is 'settling' for a man?Yeah some guys go crazy over the slightest bit of pussy and let women walk all over them. I'd rather never get laid again than be like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 09:07 PM |
| 2 | What are some signs a woman is 'settling' for a man?Yes. He deserves better, but you can't get through to him. He denies it, then gets mad when she's snuggling next to another guy on the couch, but ultimately lets it go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 10:59 AM |
| 6 | What are some signs a woman is 'settling' for a man?You can just see it in their actions. The lack of interest is almost palpable. I can think of a good example, my buddy's wife. She is always so bored of him. So annoyed when he wants a little thing. When we're over and drunk, she will use every excuse possible to touch other guys. This got me in trouble more than a few times with my woman, but they stay together because she has kids and needs his money. But it should be obvious, especially from the outside looking in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 07:11 AM |
| 1 | Women's Physical Requirements in Men Go UP as They Get OlderYeah exactly. Their standards definitely go down as they age. Much of this sub is what happens when you have people writing opinions on stuff they have no experience with besides second hand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/21 11:04 PM |
| 0 | Women's Physical Requirements in Men Go UP as They Get OlderBullshit. Women in their late 20s to early 40s and everything in between are so much easier to pick up than early to mid 20s women. Their standards drop off significantly, and women who would turn me down 10 years ago are completely into it, even with my looks declining slightly. Early to mid 30s, especially forget it -- something makes them super baby crazy and horny in this phase. Best to be very careful here, I've had a few close calls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/21 11:03 PM |
| – | What are Your Physical Deal Breakers in Guys ?Thank you. I can see why women would be adverse to that. I feel the same way when I see women with wide, masculine shoulders or thin hips. Something about it just simply isn't aesthetic. I'm lucky to have a broad upperbody, but when I used to kickbox/hike and not work upperbody, I could've risked having this build -- so I make sure to bench and row a ton and keep that nice v taper. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 04:05 AM |
| – | What are Your Physical Deal Breakers in Guys ?Can you give me an example of feminine hips? Is it just wide hips, or does it happen to go with narrow shoulders? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/21 06:37 PM |
| – | What are Your Physical Deal Breakers in Guys ?Would you recommend the guy waxes/shaves? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/21 06:36 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Men need to embrace “toxic masculinity” if they wish to be successful in life.You're spot on. You don't need to be so masculine that it becomes a caricature, but 9 times out of 10, you're better off not crying, shutting up and getting things done. Women when they finally eliminate toxic masculinity: 'omg why is my bf such a blubbery pussy?' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 12:55 AM |
| 1 | The ultimate last resort plan for men to defeat the big guy (women) again (similar to holding the line for gamestop).I hear you. I haven't been with a 9 or 10 in years so I can't say from experience. My luck runs out 8/10 and above. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/21 06:13 AM |
| 2 | The ultimate last resort plan for men to defeat the big guy (women) again (similar to holding the line for gamestop).I don't know. I didn't go through the matches. You might be onto something | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/21 08:24 AM |
| 4 | The ultimate last resort plan for men to defeat the big guy (women) again (similar to holding the line for gamestop).Yeah men are horny fucks for sure, but still 2500+ really shocked me. She was a 7/10 at best, I can't even imagine what 9s/10s get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/21 07:27 AM |
| 6 | The ultimate last resort plan for men to defeat the big guy (women) again (similar to holding the line for gamestop).Who the fuck cares if it's even or not? I took home a girl from OkCupid the other day. She was nothing special and asked about my online dating, I showed her maybe 5 messages and 70~ likes. When she showed me hers, she had over 2500. It blew my mind. Here's the thing: I don't care and don't let it get me down because I always get laid anyway. It doesn't matter if I get shutdown a few times (or a lot sometimes), I always end up with what I want. Yes, it takes more time and effort than women put i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/21 06:47 AM |
| 0 | Sex dollsI doubt women care. The guys buying sex dolls are not men most would be interested in any way. Consider it a net gain for both parties. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/21 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Dating as a short guy is really easy, just follow these 7 simple stepsYup you too. Agree to disagree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 08:15 AM |
| 2 | Dating as a short guy is really easy, just follow these 7 simple stepsYou gotta get out there and just do it. It's the only way. It's our lot as men to do the chasing and risk rejection. But if 4 women turn you down and 1 doesn't...you're ending the night all the same anyway. Your bed won't be empty. Fuck what the other women think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 08:08 AM |
| 2 | Dating as a short guy is really easy, just follow these 7 simple stepsI used to have that problem in my early 20s. I have struck out with more women than you could ever imagine. I just kept asking and asking. Striking out and striking out. I don't know if something just clicked because eventually I started getting some attention. Then a moderate amount. And before you know it, a ton and I'm rarely striking out. I think it's something you really have to practice extensively. It comes quicker to some of us, I know I'm a slow learner. It sucks ad guys we have to get … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 07:04 AM |
| 1 | Dating as a short guy is really easy, just follow these 7 simple stepsMy best friend is 5'3 or 5'4. His face is not handsome. He gets so many women. More than any of us. I wish I could copy his game into my body because I'd have a new woman every day of the week lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 06:58 AM |
| 1 | Dating as a short guy is really easy, just follow these 7 simple stepsThat really sucks. How tall are you? And for the record most guys lie about their height. I've seen guys shorter than me claim an inch or 2 taller. It's very common. At my boxing gym, the numbers guys claim never line up with the prefight measurements taken by docs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 06:55 AM |
| 1 | Dating as a short guy is really easy, just follow these 7 simple stepsYeah I hear you man. Ever tried OkCupid? I've been having a lot of luck there recently. I keep striking out on tinder and plenty of fish for some reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 06:52 AM |
| 0 | Dating as a short guy is really easy, just follow these 7 simple stepsI wish you could hit the gym then go out with us. We'd get you pulling 6/7s left and right in a month. I've done it before and with guys that nobody in their right mind would call top 1%. Normal, average 6/10 short guys have no issues getting laid. I see it all the time. Where do you normally try to meet women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 06:46 AM |
| 1 | Dating as a short guy is really easy, just follow these 7 simple stepsI wish there was a way we could try this. I'm genuinely curious. It would be a fun challenge to see what I can pull without the height. Maybe you're right. I don't think so but it would be good to settle things. I watch so many short guys pull women left and right. What is their secret? Not rich guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 06:44 AM |
| 0 | Dating as a short guy is really easy, just follow these 7 simple stepsNo offense taken. I'm not gonna pretend to know what it's like to be your height because that would be a lie. But I go out extensively and have been around the block many times. I have a way with women and they love talking with me. I tend to pay attention to what women do, not what they say, but I've heard the same story 100 times. Some guy was short and bitter about it, and of course they weren't into him. Then another guy is short and acts like he's king of the fucking world and his height do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 06:40 AM |
| 1 | Do you agree with the observation that FDS women buying themselves an engagement ring is the equivalent of an incel buying himself a sex doll?I genuinely feel bad for you. I've offered proof multiple times and you don't want to acknowledge it because you know it would prove you wrong. Knowing when to throw in the towel is a good skill to have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 06:36 AM |
| 2 | Dating as a short guy is really easy, just follow these 7 simple stepsHe's older than that. And if anything, as both sexes age, women settle more and more. Their standards drop a bit. I have women out of my league into me now who wouldn't show me the time of day mid 20s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 06:33 AM |
| 1 | Dating as a short guy is really easy, just follow these 7 simple stepsI could hop into your body and pull attractive women all day. You could hop into mine and strike out. Yes, women love height but it's not the entire equation and tons of short guys have no issues getting laid. You'll notice none have an attitude even remotely close to yours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 06:33 AM |
| 3 | Dating as a short guy is really easy, just follow these 7 simple stepsSame. The short guys who don't have this shitty overcompensating attitude get laid just fine. The ones who are bitter about their height don't. So many don't realize it's their shitty attitude cock blocking them and nothing else. I know fixing that is easier said than done, but still. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 06:32 AM |
| 2 | Dating as a short guy is really easy, just follow these 7 simple stepsI'm over 6 ft. I dated a woman who was 6ft and some change. In heels she was taller than me. This was an issue for her in every relationship except ours, know why? Because I didn't care. At all. If the guy doesn't give a fuck, women pick up on that and are ok. And even if you're short, there's always women out there shorter than you. Some will consider height a deal breaker. Most won't. But usually shirt guys have issues not because of their height, but the attitude that comes with not handling … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 06:29 AM |
| 2 | Dating as a short guy is really easy, just follow these 7 simple stepsAgreed. Op thinks his height is the deal breaker when really it's his personality. Attacking a guy just offering mild disagreement with sophomoric insults? It's no wonder women aren't lining up around the block for him. Work on the shitty attitude, then come back and whine about height if it doesn't work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 06:27 AM |
| 3 | Dating as a short guy is really easy, just follow these 7 simple stepsPeople here act like getting laid is some impossible task. They act like only 'Chad' is getting any and has his own personal harem of girls. Well to be fair, he does have that, but there's no reason regular, short dudes can't get laid. Yes it'll be more difficult. And yes not being tall is a disadvantage, but there's so much more to the equation that women look at. There's so many ways to improve yourself. My best friend is short and nothing special but he gets more women than any of us because … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 06:25 AM |
| 1 | Do you agree with the observation that FDS women buying themselves an engagement ring is the equivalent of an incel buying himself a sex doll?They got better for me. I'm still in my prime fortunately, but we'll see how long that lasts. Time catches up to all of us. And don't take this the wrong way, but you're in no place to be giving anyone advice. You clearly have no idea what you're doing and just post to shit on other, more successful men. It won't work because criticism from someone on your level means less than nothing. If you think what I posted is a fantasy, you should see what 9/10 men can pull. Your head would explode. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 12:15 AM |
| -1 | Do you agree with the observation that FDS women buying themselves an engagement ring is the equivalent of an incel buying himself a sex doll?Every woman I've seen use the term mansplain has always been unable to come up with a coherent counter argument. You have nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Do you agree with the observation that FDS women buying themselves an engagement ring is the equivalent of an incel buying himself a sex doll?That was the best insult you could come up with? And no, I won't stop with the condescension. You've been nasty and offered nothing but incorrect assumptions so far. I've shown you more respect than you deserve. More than you've earned. You've called me a loser for making a very humble claim that thousands of men can do effortlessly. Fucking 2-3 women a month is not super impressive or that difficult. You acting like it's an impossibility is quite sad. If you're almost 30, the odds should be mor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Do you agree with the observation that FDS women buying themselves an engagement ring is the equivalent of an incel buying himself a sex doll?Sounds like you're mad because you're losing an internet argument. It's not that serious. You're way too young to be this bitter. I offered multiple ways to confirm it and at this point you just want talk trash. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Do you agree with the observation that FDS women buying themselves an engagement ring is the equivalent of an incel buying himself a sex doll?I actually don't know why I'm still on PPD. It came up on my /r/all and I figured I'd post dating advice for the younger guys here. I was young and sucked with women once too so I understand. But once you figure out what you're doing, it's like fish in a barrel. But everything I post on here gets shit on. So many people are bitter and negative. It's no wonder women dont want to fuck people like that. Everything I've said is true. I can link screenshots of different chicks that agreed to fuck all… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Do you agree with the observation that FDS women buying themselves an engagement ring is the equivalent of an incel buying himself a sex doll?I am nothing special. I can post screen shots if you'd like. It's surprisingly easy. I put almost no effort in. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't -- usually it does. I also have absolutely no fear of rejection so it I get shutdown 2 in a row but the 3rd comes over, I'm happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 08:49 PM |
| -1 | Do you agree with the observation that FDS women buying themselves an engagement ring is the equivalent of an incel buying himself a sex doll?Women are vicious. Women tear each other apart over the smallest things, especially in the corporate world. This fds all women unite attitude on reddit isn't common and certainly isn't representative of the world. Most normal women would consider someone buying themselves an engagement ring sad. If you disagree with me, you are wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Do you agree with the observation that FDS women buying themselves an engagement ring is the equivalent of an incel buying himself a sex doll?I never claimed to be chad. I am not chad. I am however a normal guy who fucks 2-3 different women a month thanks to online dating. I can get sex whenever I want, so imagine what a chad could get. Any reason you're so bitter? Attitude adjustment might do wonders for you if you're trying to get laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Do you agree with the observation that FDS women buying themselves an engagement ring is the equivalent of an incel buying himself a sex doll?True, but buying yourself an engagement ring specifically is just sad. I see it on the same level, and I'd imagine most women in real life who pretend to be supportive of a woman buying herself an engagement ring would be laughing mercilessly behind her back. Male incels are definitely dipshits though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 03:04 PM |
| 2 | Do you agree with the observation that FDS women buying themselves an engagement ring is the equivalent of an incel buying himself a sex doll?Bullshit. I get calls back from a woman who I am terrible to. We do nothing but fuck once a week for an hour. Lots of guys/gals have a setup like this. They want sex, just not with you. I can load up tinder and OkCupid and have a girl come over within a day or two. And I outright put in my bio 'I am not mr right, but I will fuck you better than him. Not looking for anything serious.' And it works. Because women want sex just as much as us. They want it with guys they're attracted to though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 03:03 PM |
| 2 | Do you agree with the observation that FDS women buying themselves an engagement ring is the equivalent of an incel buying himself a sex doll?It's a crude comparison but it works. I read those fds posts and just feel bad for them. I never thought I'd see a world where women are happy buying themselves engagement rings. To be fair, I still don't think I have -- it's all an act. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Most normal attractive young women in the US who are single and sexually active have a high N countYup. Here's the thing with a woman's n count...whatever number she's giving you, triple it. That is far closer to accurate. Women want sex just as much as us and they can get it easily. My fwb is a 7/10 at the absolute best. She has over 2k likes and 300 messages on OkCupid. Had I not met her in person, I'd probably be generic unanswered dm #47474 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 03:04 AM |
| 2 | Purge week proves that RP is incelAgreed. Whenever I post something about relationships, dating or women, a bunch of folks come out of the woodwork to argue and it's obvious from their posts they've never touched a woman. People seem very bitter on this sub and for every bit of good advice, there's 4 people posting absolute garbage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 03:00 AM |
| 3 | CMV-- N count for Women is a decent PROXY for LTR fitness traits. Not the ultimate factor.This theory is projection of your personal concerns, not necessarily men in general. The more I browse this sub, the more I see people who are conventionally very intelligent but have almost no understanding of the opposite sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 11:02 AM |
| 0 | What do men define as "Gold Diggers"?A very personal example of mine is a woman I asked out shortly after college while I worked an average job with lots of debt. She turned me down. Rudely. We met up a few years later when I was well off and she saw my expensive new car. 'Whats that?' she said and was gushing about it. Started hitting me up and asking me out. Constantly DMing me. When I was broke, she had 0 interest. Suddenly she's interested in a guy she never wanted when showing signs of wealth? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 06:09 AM |
| 1 | Men of PPD, are you single and a virgin? If so, why?Cool good luck bro. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/20 12:01 PM |
| 2 | Men of PPD, are you single and a virgin? If so, why?Yeah it's super important to remember. Even if all you want is sex never talk sex too early. Every time I introduce it too soon I strike out. But once you got em over, they almost all put out on the first date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/20 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Men of PPD, are you single and a virgin? If so, why?Don't get sexual too early. It scares them away. Mention it if it comes up. You gotta get them interested non-sexually first cause women need a connection besides looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/20 12:56 PM |
| 2 | Men of PPD, are you single and a virgin? If so, why?Good. We are of similar builds. I have a few lbs but women love this size. You should include this early on to catch their eyes. I like to start with something like: 'Hey Alyssa. I'm InsertNameHere. How are you? I'm 33, 6'3 and fit. I went to school for ____ and work in the field. My favorite things in life are: _______. I love on my own in Town here and can see from your profile we have a lot in common.(Lie here if you have to). Hit me up if you're interested.' That's a really lazy template but… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/20 10:11 PM |
| 2 | Men of PPD, are you single and a virgin? If so, why?Yes. I'm fairly tall and decently fit. My facial aesthetics aren't the best but I take care of my body and women like that. I am nothing special. I also have unlimited confidence and do not get upset at all when rejected. This has turned a few nos into a yes before. Not sure how. My likes are about 140 right now. I have 30 matches, but more than a few are under my league or fatter than expected. I also look up profiles and cold message them. If you respond to something in her profile that means … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/20 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Men of PPD, are you single and a virgin? If so, why?I've never paid but it's worth the $$ imo. I look for women who are a good fit for me. Hard to put it into words but I know it when I see it. Lots of asians and white girls into me, I strike out with the Hispanics, blacks and latinas. I like the profiles I'm interested in then start talking. Some never respond, most do. I try to make them laugh early even if it's a stupid joke then get them talking about themselves. Women love to do this, then I'll invite them over. Some like to meet in public f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/20 06:57 PM |
| 2 | Men of PPD, are you single and a virgin? If so, why?I've used others but I strike out on them. On Okcupid my track record is very good. Plenty of fish the women have all been lower class trashy druggies. Match nobody seems interested in me except cougars. On bumble, women were too political and we're annoying. I prefer to chase instead of being chased anuway. OkCupid is the sweet spot. It's like fish in a barrel but every guy is different. Tinder has worked a bit but it's just quick one night stands. OKC gets you the repeat fuck buddies. Never tr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/20 06:21 PM |
| 4 | Men of PPD, are you single and a virgin? If so, why?Not a virgin but I am single. I got out of a long relationship 2 years ago and was only with one woman for 7 years so I have been playing the field. I teach a children's martial arts class, and it seems women are super into you when you're being paternal with their kids. It's like shooting fish in a barrel, of course they're all single moms unfortunately. Am also having tons of luck with OkCupid, but just for sex not relationships. Been with more women in 2 years than the 10 before that. Will se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/20 11:01 AM |
| 1 | Dating Advice for a Very Short (4'11) Guy Starting at UniPay attention to what women do, not what they say. It will be an uphill battle and he will be shut down many times, but there is a woman out there for him who will be ok with his height. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/20 06:24 PM |
| 4 | Dating Advice for a Very Short (4'11) Guy Starting at UniYour height will be a disadvantage for sure. For many women it'll be a deal breaker. Some won't mind. I recommend using dating apps, OkCupid most of all. Look for fun size women: I've had more than a few profiles message me that were under 5 ft. A woman that height won't have the same issues as a woman who's 5'8. Filter to women around 5'2 and under. Lots of chicks out there under 5 ft. You'll find one so keep your head up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/20 10:41 AM |
| 1 | Why do so some men on here believe that women not wanting to date or have sex with them means they hate them?No idea. I've been shut down by many women. Never bothered me because for every woman who's not interested, there's another who is. Sometimes she just isn't that into you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/20 04:13 AM |
| 2 | Very unattractive' women are more likely to be married than other womenI am genuinely curious. He's welcome to not answer if he has a problem with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/20 02:03 AM |
| 2 | Very unattractive' women are more likely to be married than other womenIt's hit or miss. There's some 5/10s out there who think they're gods gift to the world, while there's more attractive yet still average women who are humble. You have to play it by ear on an individual basis, there's exceptions to every rule. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/20 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What’s your side of the story with the “women love assholes” thing?Yeah as an older guy I do what I can to teach this lesson to younger men. I've seen that mistake all too frequently. A lot of the guys in this sub are super toxic though and lack the self-awareness to improve their game. Not sure what the deal is, but I feel most of the men here have very poor understandings of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/20 03:43 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: What’s your side of the story with the “women love assholes” thing?No. Because if said hypothetical asshole who is confident and exciting had these same traits but was magically converted into being nice, women would be into him even more. It certainly wouldn't make them lose attraction, with the possible exceptions of a few damaged women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/20 07:02 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: What’s your side of the story with the “women love assholes” thing?There are exceptions to every rule. I addressed this in more detail in this comment chain if you'd like to read it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/20 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What’s your side of the story with the “women love assholes” thing?Those same exciting men would be every bit as successful with women if they were nice as well. Probably better than when rude/cruel. The people going around clinging to only niceness are boring and don't have much else going for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/20 05:13 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: What’s your side of the story with the “women love assholes” thing?The charm. It's something incredible. If you were to combine that with niceness, they'd have the same success. Charm goes a long way in making up for a lack of niceness and social etiquette. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/20 05:11 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: What’s your side of the story with the “women love assholes” thing?Those who shit on everyone around them tend to get theirs in return. Of course you can get through life while being a total dbag but usually those people already had a significant jump start and advantages over others. The truly ruthless who do well tend to have that charm that lets you work around this and mask your shiftiness. But take those successful assholes -- if they functioned the same only they won people over and were a bit nicer, I don't think it would do anything but aid them. Celebs… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/20 05:10 PM |
| 64 | Q4W: What’s your side of the story with the “women love assholes” thing?I think if a woman is attracted to an asshole instead of you, you are boring and ugly. Women don't inherently like assholes, they like exciting, good looking, confident, fun, etc. Nice isn't a personality trait, it's the bare minimum to function in society and if that's all someone brings to the table, of course women will prefer an exciting confident asshole over them. If you could get all the positives from said asshole but magically improve his attitude, most women would find him even more at… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/20 10:20 AM |
| 1 | Are you willing to happily sacrifice your career in order to support your more successful wife?Nothing surprises me anymore. I've seen my share of fair 50/50 divorces, times are definitely getting more equal. Around here at least I still see guys screwed over and if the woman wants to make it hell, she easily can. Maybe the guys can too? Not really sure on the last part. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/20 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Are you willing to happily sacrifice your career in order to support your more successful wife?That's ridiculous. No husband deserves that much. I'm hoping madonna was wealthy enough to eat the loss, but still that seems completely out of line. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/20 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Are you willing to happily sacrifice your career in order to support your more successful wife?How badly did she get hosed? I don't know the story or keep up with madonna at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/20 05:30 PM |
| 9 | Are you willing to happily sacrifice your career in order to support your more successful wife?Do you honestly think that courts are not biased towards the woman in these situations? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/20 03:47 AM |
| 12 | Are you willing to happily sacrifice your career in order to support your more successful wife?Of course not. If there is a split, the courts will not be on my side. However if a couple where the man is more successful splits, she will clean the man out. Women have better protections under the law and as far as court sympathy is concerned. At the same time, I don't fault women who share the same view as me. It's their choice if they want to support him or not and I don't judge either way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/20 03:26 AM |
| 2 | Men should really stop complaining about women who have "high" standards.I'm not. Makes it feel even better when I eventually get it in. And to be fair, so many men these days don't care of themselves, don't workout, and aren't the most interesting so I don't blame women having higher standards than they did in previous generations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/20 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Girl dropped while sparring with guy.Maybe I misread them, but I did not get the impression they were bragging. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 11/09/20 04:15 AM |
| 1 | Girl dropped while sparring with guy.I fight at light heavyweight and am well over 6 ft. Roughly 1/3 of my fights are at heavyweight. I do not have a single fight vs an opponent down a weight class. I am not bragging about fighting women. I am saying I train with them because weaker men refuse to because they can be hurt by the women. I can take their shots without getting injured and I do not swing back in a way that hurts them. So they swing away at me, get some good training out of it whereas they might hurt the smaller men -- e… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 11/09/20 03:43 AM |
| 1 | Girl dropped while sparring with guy.She was throwing half-ass winger punches into his closed guard. Nothing was landing. So he responded with a full force overhand right? Little unnecessary in my mind. The people in the video seem kind of cool with it, but at any of the gyms I've trained at, this kind of action would get you kicked out fast. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 10/09/20 05:40 AM |
| 3 | Girl dropped while sparring with guy.The guys willing to box the girls are actually stronger than the guys who don't. It's usually the large/big guys who let the girls hit them without firing back cause they won't get hurt and are confident in their masculinity who do it. All the little/weaker or unskilled guys are the ones afraid to box the girls because they would be embarrassed if they looked bad. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 10/09/20 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Have you ever actually been asked your N-count, and if so, was the relationship worth it?Yes. Mine is nothing crazy but higher than average. Some women have a problem with it. Others don't. The ones who had an issue clearly were not compatible so it was in our best interest to get it out of the way early. My current gf does not care, and she admitted to having a rather high n-count as well so maybe that will work well for us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/20 08:00 AM |
| 14 | Do you lose friends when they get into serious relationships?When in my mid 20s, yes. People at this age tend to get obsessive with relationships and spend a lot of time together. In late 20s, 30s, I noticed this a lot less. Basically as you get older and more mature, people tend to balance friends and partners more evenly. Kids can change this though: when your friends start popping out kids, expect many to fall off the radar and be less fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/20 08:53 PM |
| 1 | What are some dealbreakers you’ve acquired with life experience?I'm with you on black sheep of the family. Ever time I've taken a chance on one, I ended up getting burned and figuring out why they were the black sheep. I don't have trust issues with them, I have "I've seen this before and I know how it ends" issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/20 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Women constantly talk about how immoral men can be in regards to their sexuality. Are women generally any better, or are they even worse?It's possible we are, I just don't see it. I respect liberals just as much as conservatives. The way I see it, we're all the same and want what is best for the nation, but we have different theories on what is the best way to go about doing this. The door does not swing both ways here: she has nothing but disdain for conservatives and considers them dirt under her boots. Opinions that I express and she tolerates or makes flimsy excuses for are the worst thing ever when uttered by other guys. It'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/20 05:55 PM |
| 0 | Women constantly talk about how immoral men can be in regards to their sexuality. Are women generally any better, or are they even worse?Nope because I don't care about my significant other's political stance. I respect all political stances, whereas she has a vehement dislike of righties. I have issues with the left, but I see them as equals all the same. She definitely does not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/20 05:20 PM |
| 2 | Women constantly talk about how immoral men can be in regards to their sexuality. Are women generally any better, or are they even worse?My girlfriend is very feminist and hates Trump and the entire rightwing. I am very right wing and have been openly so since the beginning of our relationship. She will complain about things other guys say while finding it cute in me. Women are more than willing to compromise like this and tolerate things they normally dislike for the right guy. It does not impact our relationship at all, and I've managed to make our disagreements playful and a good way of leading into angry sex. Pay attention to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/20 08:50 AM |
| 0 | Men should pay for dates not because it's the manly thing to do but because women are more expensive. They try to blame women wanting to put massive amounts of make up on men because "they are trying to look good in front of us and they bring up other bs like the wage gap and it's honestly sadI don't hate women, I love women. I just point out hypocrisy when I see it. Us guys have more than our share of hypocrisy too, that's just how life is. Thanks for the concern, but it's hard to be lonely when you're living with a woman. Stay angry, you sour bitch | /r/PussyPassDenied | 15/08/20 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Men should pay for dates not because it's the manly thing to do but because women are more expensive. They try to blame women wanting to put massive amounts of make up on men because "they are trying to look good in front of us and they bring up other bs like the wage gap and it's honestly sadAnything that even slightly criticizes women or doesn't bow down and immediately worship them is now incel territory. How about instead of shitty insults, explain where the person went wrong? I'm not sure I agree with 1k/month, but the general idea is fairly correct: most men don't seem to care for makeup and that unnatural look to the extent women do. I'll be sure to tell my woman I'm an incel if you'd like. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 15/08/20 03:42 PM |
| 2 | The fact that men care about n-count at all shows that men are instinctively repulsed by committing mongamously to non-virgins; if they weren't, there would be no discussion about "what degree of past sexual activity" is tolerable. It would just be "past is past"Why isn't there much confidence here? I'm fairly new to this sub and enjoy posting here, but I get some serious negative responses sometimes. Civility like yours is not that common it seems. She won't know how bad at pleasing a woman they are. Hey, maybe it'll be the best 45s of her life! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/20 04:35 PM |
| 9 | The fact that men care about n-count at all shows that men are instinctively repulsed by committing mongamously to non-virgins; if they weren't, there would be no discussion about "what degree of past sexual activity" is tolerable. It would just be "past is past"Please. I've never once cared what is considered misogynistic by society because frankly people go way overboard with what is considered sexist or not. I make up my own mind on that. I've just never cared if a woman has fucked other men because as I've said, all that matters is she's made the right choice and is with me now. The rest of them are irrelevant. I am probably closer to the center than you are on this: your theory is simply not correct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/20 04:52 PM |
| 2 | The fact that men care about n-count at all shows that men are instinctively repulsed by committing mongamously to non-virgins; if they weren't, there would be no discussion about "what degree of past sexual activity" is tolerable. It would just be "past is past"Awesome. I had a similar arrangement for a bit, except it was girlfriend and sidegirlfriend... but the entire thing imploded on me because they kept getting jealous of each other. How do you manage to make it work? Because I failed miserably | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/20 04:31 PM |
| 4 | The fact that men care about n-count at all shows that men are instinctively repulsed by committing mongamously to non-virgins; if they weren't, there would be no discussion about "what degree of past sexual activity" is tolerable. It would just be "past is past"I agree completely. Many of these guys have such a ridiculous attitude towards sex. I've been with virgins and it's always garbage sex: poor head with teeth, bad technique and almost no suction while being out of breath every 5s. Whereas experienced women just let you gag them with your cock. Then it takes forever to get it in before it stops hurting her and finally she just lays there like a pillow princess while you do your thing. I don't get the appeal, I'd rather a woman who knows what she's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/20 04:29 PM |
| 20 | The fact that men care about n-count at all shows that men are instinctively repulsed by committing mongamously to non-virgins; if they weren't, there would be no discussion about "what degree of past sexual activity" is tolerable. It would just be "past is past"Speaking for myself and other guy friends, I don't see anyone repulsed by committing to non-virgins. Yes, if a woman hoes it up or she gets with me while she has a BF, I know she will probably cheat on me too thus she isn't worth committing to. But if she was wild in her early 20s and slept around but has calmed down for a few years now and is stable, then fuck it. No problem committing. I did the same thing and fucked every woman above a 5/10 possible for a good 7-8 years and some women hate th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/20 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Being a "real woman" is a right, being a "real man" is an achievementI agree with most of your point, except the last part. While I believe all women should be treated as real women, I also think this is up to women and us men have no say in the issue. The door swings both ways though, and frankly I don't give a single fuck what women consider a real man or not -- it's up to us men. With that said, I don't think all men should be considered men. I think we should be held to a certain standard and if you don't meet that standard, the pressure from other men should… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/20 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Attractive men have always had it easierI see it all the time. I'm not delusional, you're just inexperienced and talking about something you're not very good at. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/20 08:05 PM |
| 2 | Attractive men have always had it easierStupidest thing ever written. I have a very hard time believing you've never read something dumber. Surely this is only the stupidest thing you've seen today? > Women don't talk to or allow unattractive guys to open any form of communication with them. You know how I know you don't leave the house much? There are unattractive guys talking to women all the time. Yeah it doesn't always work out and they get shut down more than the good looking guys, but eventually it does. Just have to work harder… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/20 08:54 AM |
| 13 | Attractive men have always had it easierOf course attractive men have it easier. Attractive people of any gender/sex have it easier. That's life, deal with it. Here's the thing: ugly, fat, unattractive people can do just fine. 99% of people I see fail to get laid have the shittiest attitudes you've ever seen and if someone with the slightest modicum of confidence, positivity and personality teleported into their body they would pull women left and right. > The truth is women will only have sex with a man generally only under these cir… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/20 07:56 AM |
| 2 | No average man should be with a woman that doesn't have a jobHmm because I love her and want her to raise my kids? I make enough that this is not an issue, and I'd rather not have a child raised by TV/Internet and various daycares as we've seen seen just how poorly that worked out for the last generation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/20 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Both Sexes are EqualGlad to see you're doing well. Jokes on them, guessing they're stuck in the same place they were while you're on to bigger and better things. You definitely go for the male-dominated fields eh? How bad is IT comparatively? I've heard it's a boys club too, but it seems more of a soft, white collar one compared to the bullshit you see in the trades. I did a bit of construction in college so I at least know a bit -- those guys were something else. > Our depot was brought-out by a misogynist who did… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/20 01:57 PM |
| 2 | Both Sexes are EqualCool. Well you're young so that's good. I'm not gonna give you some generic "waaah don't kill yourself you got so much to live for speech" but I will recommend you try more than once and at least wait til you're in your prime. As men we don't grow into our own until later. It's a women's game early 20s. In a few years it evens out, around mid/late 30s it becomes a men's game because you're in your physical and mental prime, more established, finally have the confidence and experience you need, e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/20 01:11 PM |
| 3 | Both Sexes are EqualHey bro I have to go on rounds. I will be on later, I have some ideas for you. Wanna talk then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/20 11:39 AM |
| 3 | Both Sexes are EqualThanks. You're one of about 3 people who has been welcoming here :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/20 11:30 AM |
| 2 | Both Sexes are EqualI'm sorry to hear that, that is really fucked up. Part of me wishes karma were real just so those men have something nasty coming their way. I can't speak much on the trades as I'm in the medical field, but I don't doubt there's lots of sexism there still. Although this is definitely a step above sexism -- my brother is in that field and the guys there are quite often the bottom of the barrel. What career are you in now, did you leave the trades? But not all men are complete assholes. Those guys… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/20 11:24 AM |
| 3 | Both Sexes are EqualYou could start by not calling yourself trash. How old are you and why do you think that? What is your profile like? How are you in the picture, did you put some effort in? Nice angle, good lighting, decent clothes, smile on your face, doing something social or are you just holding your phone in front of your mirror with a blank look? What do you say in there, is it something that will catch a woman's interest? Some guys have to put in more effort than others. The dudes who are 8/9s can just pos… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/20 10:59 AM |
| 2 | Both Sexes are EqualHmm it's not showing up on mobile for me, got a link? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/20 10:48 AM |
| 3 | Both Sexes are EqualYou're making huge assumptions bro. You think I would be posting on a sub like this if I didn't at one point struggle to get laid or form relationships? I see some of the ugliest fucks get laid no problem. I see guys who are 5'3 bums get laid. I also see guys who are normal, in great shape with good jobs and lots to offer strike out because their attitude is shit and they have no confidence. > WE DO NOT GET MATCHES even some who fucking gym daily do not get matches I promise you it's their attit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/20 10:46 AM |
| 2 | Both Sexes are EqualThanks for the explanation man, that clears up a lot. I know what the red pill is, I've read up on it. I used some of those techniques when I wasn't good at picking up women, but overall it's a bit too negative for me and I don't agree with all of it. > Oh man. You need to leave here as quick as you can. Run before you get sucked into the madness mate. Sounds like a good time to me, anything to make the shifts at work go by faster. I don't think I'm the target demographic here, but I enjoy shit … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/20 10:33 AM |
| 6 | Pessimistic thought of the day: People say they prefer to have sex with someone they feel attached to, but what happens is that they feel attached to any sexy person in their surroundingsSounds fun, I'm looking forward to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/20 09:33 AM |
| 2 | Both Sexes are EqualI'm not sure if I'm normal, I'm just a guy posting dating/relationship advice. Even if I won't change her mind, I'm curious as to why she thinks that way. What's the deal with this sub? I've made a few posts and people seem to be very hostile here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/20 09:23 AM |
| 5 | Both Sexes are EqualOk, who cares? Seems like its a good discussion that people are enjoying. Respond to his points brought up or don't bother if the best you can do is "b-b-b-but this is the wrong sub." So pedantic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/20 09:20 AM |
| 11 | Both Sexes are EqualYou' attempt to speak for all women, when in reality you are only speaking for yourself. Being unable to enjoy existence because you live in constant fear of the opposite sex simply is not normal. You need to seek professional help for this and I mean absolutely no offense when I say that. If you'd like to talk, I'm around. Life is too short to live in fear :) Have you ever considered a self-defense class? Brazilian jiu-jitsu (BJJ) is really good when there's a size differential. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/20 09:19 AM |
| 9 | Both Sexes are EqualYou're marginalizing their struggles because they find more matches than you on a dating app? Here's a bit of advice man. I don't get hundreds of matches on dating apps. I'm not the best looking guy either, but guess what? I almost always get laid or a date because I am not afraid of the hunt or getting rejected. When talking to women, I could strike out 4 times in a row. I could also score on the first try... and guess what? I don't care because at the end of the night, no matter how much I get… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/20 09:15 AM |
| 6 | Both Sexes are EqualI'm going to guess at some point in your life, a man did something horrible to you. I'm sorry for that, but you can't judge all men based on the actions of a few. I've met some horrid women out there who have done things that left me speechless. Do I continue go ahead and hate all women because of that and believe they have it coming their way, thus deserve no sympathy? Of course not because I know that despite encountering a few horrid women, most are good people and deserve sympathy. Men are l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/20 09:09 AM |
| 15 | Pessimistic thought of the day: People say they prefer to have sex with someone they feel attached to, but what happens is that they feel attached to any sexy person in their surroundingsThis is one of those things that varies so widely by individuals. You're painting with an awfully wide brush here. Take me for example: I love my spouse, but I absolutely enjoy having sex with others even if there is no connection. My most steady hookup (before the relationship) is honestly not the best person. I'd rather give a hobo a handjob than spend time with her with clothes on, yet we do incredibly nasty things to each other... then she leaves. No matter how good the sex is, the bond simp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/20 09:03 AM |
| 2 | FDS isn’t good dating adviceHah yup. Such blatant gold digging behavior. It's a shame, I honestly feel bad for them -- and any guy who falls for that. Fortunately I think the guys they're looking for have too much pride to be used like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/20 05:49 AM |
| 1 | FDS isn’t good dating adviceSpot on. They're searching for a mate that doesn't exist and are setting themselves up for disappointment. Where they should be getting support, advice and being told to try to work things out like rational adults, they're being told "na queen you deserve better, ditch that loser" before even trying anything out. It's sad because despite how much they say "I'd rather be alone than settle for anything less than 100%" it's a transparent lie. Would you agree on the last part? I honestly feel bad fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/20 05:48 AM |
| 6 | FDS isn’t good dating advice> I know what you wanna say but the argument falls short. Oh, does it now? Feel free to explain why, I'm all ears. Great post. You sure changed my mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/20 08:06 AM |
| 105 | FDS isn’t good dating adviceThere's some decent advice there, but like many echo chambers, it's gotten pretty extreme over time. The don't be a pickme, have pride in yourself, lessons are all great, but the constant obsession with LVM vs HVM is just absurd. My spouse and I browse it for a good laugh now and then, it's pretty amazing at times: "Hey FDS, my bf (6'6 250 lbs lean, 6 figures, treats me amazing, 14 inch dick, 4 cars, owns a house) just accidentally forgot to put the cap back on a pen he was using and simply put … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/20 06:58 AM |
| 2 | FDS agreeing they all look like Peter Griffin in a wig.That post really struck a nerve with you, didn't it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/20 05:14 PM |
| 3 | FDS agreeing they all look like Peter Griffin in a wig.Not every single person there is obese or nasty, but it's pretty obvious from the posts that more than a few are. Just like when guys who are obvious virgins with the username Studman69 post about impregnating an entire bus of underwear models, it's blatantly obvious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/20 05:13 PM |
| 6 | Woman goes crazy when father gets awarded joint custodyYou can just dismiss this by saying "b-b-b-but I'm just trolling, it's not serious," but we both know that ironic or not you are pathetic and just trying to get the lowest form of attention because it's the best you can do. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 12/05/20 05:11 AM |
| 4 | Is the quarantine affecting women more than men?Thanks. If that guy thinks I'm feminine or a woman in any way, I really don't wanna see the chicks he hangs around with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/20 01:58 AM |
| 10 | Is the quarantine affecting women more than men?Yeah bud you figured me out, I'm a woman. Come suck my feminine dick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/20 01:56 AM |
| 13 | Is the quarantine affecting women more than men?Yeah this is garbage. This guy isn't thinking about men in general, he's thinking about himself. I'm at home going nuts when I'm not working, and I'm lonely too since I work at a hospital and nobody wants to meet up with someone on the fucking covid response team. This guy seems bitter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/20 12:42 AM |
| 2 | The Hemline Indicator & Post Corona Economic BluesA regular scrub like me will be booked for a month. Chad will be backed up for years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/20 04:55 AM |
| 5 | who pay money onlyfans, camgirls, premium snapchats, or even for porn...why?You seem to have put some thought into this. What's stopping you? I will never pay for sex or female attention as long as it's given out free, but I don't judge anyone who does or anyone who makes a living off that. Those guys are lonely and want something we all enjoy. You'd be providing a service to them, nothing more. I don't get the stigma behind it. If my woman wanted to do that, I also wouldn't care as long as nobody is physically fucking her. The economy is fucked and isn't coming back an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/20 02:30 AM |
| 0 | If a guy can’t commit/be faithful to a girl, it doesn’t mean he’s out of her league; it means he’s a man with options that he wants to explore.It can mean a million things. I am seeing two women right now -- it was three, but my third found a guy she preferred over me and broke things off. In my case though it means I am doing it because I can. It's really that simple, there's nothing complex to it. I was in a long relationship of almost 8 years, it did not work out and now I'm playing the field. What is the incentive to commit? I have a good time, they have a good time and the entire thing is transparent: I make my intentions clear an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/20 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do your standards/requirements for looks become more flexible as you get older and do you think average/below average looking men should be happy about this?I don't know why you're downvoted for expressing your view. It clearly works for you and that's great. Wouldn't work for me and many others but I respect it. Isn't it amazing how people downvote simply for giving an opinion? Props for improving a homeless person. I'd like to think I've helped all of my women better themselves. My ex fiancee especially, I did some bad to her in the end, but I hope the good times I've been there for her made up for it. But I couldn't do that for a homeless woman, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/20 10:25 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill was a response to an unbalanced dating market in favor of women. R/ Female Dating Strategy serves to swing it back in their favorNo, that sub is just a bunch of bitter fatties. Reading some of their posts just makes me feel sad. Not angry, just pure pity. Don't think most women are like this or it's some massive sweeping trend. Just recognize it for what it is and if you see a woman like that, do both of yourselves a favor and call things off. > What are your thoughts on Female Dating Strategy compared to TRP? It seems it only serves to unbalance the dating market even more than it already is. I don't personally care eith… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/20 06:43 AM |
| 1 | Is the Red Pill just a repackaging of traditional macho culture?It's happened several times, independently, that talking or associating with feminists has felt like undergoing some kind of gay conversion therapy, except for heterosexual men. I know exactly what you're talking about. Do NOT date these women. Ever. But if you really want easy sex, just be a complete dick about this. Completely unapologetic, hold your ground against her bullshit and be classically masculine and they love it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/20 06:32 AM |
| 1 | Are men just not that attractive?Chubby works better on women than men. Men are meant to be lean and angular, women are meant to have curves and some flab. Nowadays life is hectic, people have shit diets, good food is expensive and time consuming, which tends to impact male aesthetics more than females in smaller amounts. Women also take care of themselves far better than men, and lastly there's simply an innate portion to it as evidenced by: > Many are short which even being muscular doesn’t help. Comments like this just confi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/20 06:18 AM |
| 2 | CMV Low value women hate porn because it lessens their bargaining power> normalisation of violence against women. I fully agree with your point, yet I can't help but notice how frequently women who think likewise ask you to choke them half to death in bed or have rape fetishes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/20 06:07 AM |
| 2 | Marriage has become completely obsolete for MenThe typical woman will admit to having nonmonogamous sex that many times. Hooking up with women in relationships is easier than single women if you're simply looking to get laid. I'm not going to pretend guys are saints as we're a bunch of dogs too, but if you truly think women only want commitment, I have a bridge to sell you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/20 05:50 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do your standards/requirements for looks become more flexible as you get older and do you think average/below average looking men should be happy about this?Investing? Are you shitting me? I'm not here to invest in a partner. I'm not here to put someone back together or build them up. I'm just here to live my life with a woman I love and that's it. Go to a fucking shrink or your social circle if you want someone to invest in you. And if the shoe is on the other foot and people don't want to invest in you... do yourself a favor and invest in yourself like this commenter. She noticed her problems and fixed them. She invested in herself instead of wait… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/20 05:47 AM |
| 1 | From homophobia to homohysteria: How men stopped being afectional with each other because that made them less attractive to womenMost straight women are simply just disgusted with their partner being gay/bi. Don't listen to the various excuses/justifications they give. They simply just are, but don't care to admit it. It's a quick visceral disgust as you mentioned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/20 05:39 AM |
| 0 | From homophobia to homohysteria: How men stopped being afectional with each other because that made them less attractive to womenJoin the club. I tried to understand this mindset a while ago and it never makes sense. I think it's safe to see neither of us will understand the female mindset. Posts like this make it clear they don't understand the male mindset either, so I guess the door swings both ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/20 05:20 AM |
| 1 | From homophobia to homohysteria: How men stopped being afectional with each other because that made them less attractive to womenYes. Those women act like they're just looking for their equal or what they 'deserve,' but here's the hint: no such man exists. Had he not asked for half the bill, she probably would've found another reason to push him away. Some people are like that, and the internet gives them echochambers to encourage the behavior. Sounds like she did the guy a favor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/20 05:13 AM |
| 3 | Oldie but goodie. I haven't seen this in a while and wanted to share. Hope it isn't a recent repost.That's not the issue. People change, people grow apart. These things happen. With a divorce rate hovering close to 50/50, it's hubris to think that it won't happen to you because you're certain the relationship is great and she's not a cunt. I've seen first hand some of the best women I respect more than I can put into words turn into absolute nutjobs during divorce and screw men out of everything. Likewise, I've seen the same -- if not worse -- from men. People get incredibly spiteful during an… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 01/10/19 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Pussy pass denied literally... did that sound better in your head or something? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 16/07/19 07:18 AM |
| 10 | Pussy pass denied literallyAh it wouldn't be reddit without at least one "wHo hUrT yOu?" comment. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 15/07/19 02:35 AM |
| 15 | Pussy pass denied literallyNo need to apologize, but admitting you're a pussy would be sufficient. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 15/07/19 02:33 AM |
| 3 | Murdered by wordsNo. Spacesuits are incredibly difficult to make, extremely bulky, and take time to configure. Every single speck of space on the ISS is considered whether for storage or use and they don't have room for extra 12 million dollar spacesuits they have no intention of using. If there was a breech where all astronauts needed to evacuate, the spacesuits would be irrelevant and they'd already be dead. Simply getting items to the ISS requires extraordinary amount of money, so while obviously many items a… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 26/03/19 10:11 PM |
| 3 | Murdered by wordsBecause their work is more important than mindless virtue signalling. Would be better having 1 woman 1 man pulling off the walk than 0 women, 0 men. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 26/03/19 10:03 PM |
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