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Fundamentalsmotivated_user21/r/seduction17/06/21 06:39 PM
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Fundamentalsmotivated_user21/r/seduction29/01/22 08:20 PM
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Inner Game motivated_user21/r/seduction28/02/22 12:16 AM
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Develop the qualities mentioned above. Girls can’t tell how you are in bed just by looking at you so you might have to fake the confidence in order to get it. And if I’m being honest, in my case at least if she really likes you she’ll be willing to work with you in bed. She’ll be patient with you while you figure it out. It’s really not as important as you might think, id say the other stuff is way more important.
/r/seduction28/02/22 01:20 AM
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I was terrible in bed up until like 3 months ago. Lots of bad experiences. Like I legit used to bust in 10 seconds. Couple things that really help. Consistent partner and consistent sex. When you get to learn your partner and drop the bad habits it gets wayyyyy better
/r/seduction28/02/22 01:09 AM
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If you’re smart, you’re smart enough to figure out how to acquire the other stuff. Keep small promises to yourself and rack up small wins everyday. If you say you’re gonna go workout 3x a week. Go workout 3x a week. Read some books. Get some experiences.
/r/seduction28/02/22 01:05 AM
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Completely agree. College gives you a taste but your most likely broke and still living at home. Once you move out, work full time and fund your own life, my world has expanded in ways I couldn’t believe. Because now all the college girls want you. They don’t want other broke college dudes. They want the older guys who have a bit more money and experience.
/r/seduction28/02/22 12:53 AM
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There’s nothing wrong with honesty dude, but no do not say that.
/r/seduction26/02/22 01:46 AM
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Also forgot to mention, she’s in college so when I visit her we’ll go out to the college bar so when I say her friends, they’re also roomates
/r/seduction30/01/22 04:47 PM
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Haha idk I think the dynamic you’re picturing is different than what it is. I like partying with them
/r/seduction30/01/22 04:43 PM
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Haha I’ll try.
/r/seduction30/01/22 01:47 PM
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Can you explain why that’s weird? I’m actually curious. But other than that I agree with everything you said
/r/seduction30/01/22 01:45 PM
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Haha I don’t think I’m unlocking the secrets of the universe I’m just saying It was a unexpected consequence of having a gf, I’m not doing anything with the looks.
/r/seduction30/01/22 12:58 PM
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Haha even if that’s true, it doesn’t matter cause I know know who I’m leaving with! And I’m curious why people think it’s so weird to go out with my gf and her friends?
/r/seduction30/01/22 12:56 PM
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It’s completely normal, and actually better than normal because most people aren’t even trying.
/r/seduction04/01/22 12:58 AM
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Haha right wanting to smash and working on social skills are not competing ideas lol.
/r/seduction19/06/21 01:41 AM
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This. It’s about finding someone who fits your personality as well. If you won’t settle for anyone less than 10/10 without being a 10/10 yourself than you’re not going to be very happy. Just find your type.
/r/seduction18/06/21 04:50 PM
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Ya believe me I know I haven’t discovered anything groundbreaking this is just stuff that I heard that helped me, so I’m just passing it along hoping I can help someone learn.
/r/seduction18/06/21 01:56 PM
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I’m not the best guy to ask about like the PUA stuff. I didn’t approach girls with the goal of getting numbers I really just wanted the social skills. But if you approach and feel a connection fuckin go for it.
/r/seduction17/06/21 10:30 PM
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For real. I used to be kind of shy, but you get over the shyness pretty fast when you’re forced to talk to people every day. All about that “rapport building” lol
/r/seduction17/06/21 10:28 PM
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It doesn’t go away lol. I still wanted to smash within 20 minutes of talking. It’s just realizing that what you feel in a day of talking to her will take her like a month to feel for you. Women are a dial on a stove. Men are an on/off switch. Just work on turning the dial on her a little bit every time you talk.
/r/seduction17/06/21 10:23 PM
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Dating apps, bars, grocery stores, etc. I just started talking to everybody. It doesn’t have to be some 10 minute conversation. Flirt with the 50yo lady that works at Starbucks. Just practice on everybody. It takes the pressure off and raises your confidence. I’d ask them a question, give them a compliment, etc and move on with my day. I wouldn’t be nervous about approaching. I bet a lot of 23 yo girls want older guys. Just be yourself, talk to people, use apps and let it flow.
/r/seduction17/06/21 10:00 PM
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