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Basic Questionmotivatedrp/r/askMRP23/09/24 09:47 PM
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motivatedrp/r/askMRP29/10/24 05:37 PM
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Basic Questionmotivatedrp/r/askMRP09/02/25 10:46 PM
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Basic Questionmotivatedrp/r/askMRP08/01/25 09:27 AM
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She's drawing you into her Frame everytime you break from being playful and get serious like she is. If she rejects you or says you only want her for sex, then you're back into the AM/A&A loop. So I should I keep making dumb jokes when she asked 4 times already and it's not fun or funny anymore? Is it really my frame if instead of saying what I want to say after I laughed it off a bit, I keep trying to amuse myself when it's clearly not funny anymore? Sometimes I just want to tell her reassuring…
/r/askMRP10/02/25 09:05 AM
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It is, and I already had plates before and decided to have an exclusive LTR, that's just how I roll. Also this seems like not solving the problem, just putting a band-aid.
/r/askMRP13/01/25 10:32 AM
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She is very much into me when we meet though. It's hot passion all day when we're together, so I'm not sure how this adds up.
/r/askMRP09/01/25 07:45 AM
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I get your point. I am talking to women, also am focusing on myself, I barely give my gf a few minutes of a phone call at night. What I did notice is that if I take away attention further, the result is just either crying or angry rants about me not caring (which I fog and then hang up), so I don't really see the endgame here. It is the best course of action regardless of results though so I'm keeping at it.
/r/askMRP08/01/25 02:32 PM
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to back off until she starts putting in the effort you want...If she is into you, she make the effort Sure, but that helps only in case both partners have the same expectations and needs. I'm already very backed off, but let's say I'll get from her the effort to see me - it will be according to her needs. She's satisfied and has no problem, while I expect to see my woman twice as much and stay unsatisfied while acting like nothing happened. When is the last time a conversation did anything to co…
/r/askMRP08/01/25 12:28 PM
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Any reading material on this? Developing a more dominant side and dominant frame?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/24 09:18 AM
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Taking this even further, OP do you think instead of the nuke you could've used "Are you going to have fun with me or keep being a little brat all day?", or even a simple boundary setting "If you don't stop acting this way we'll have to go home", without using anger?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/24 09:13 AM
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Love this advice - would definitely adopt this mindset. I love talking to hot chicks - no reason not to do this with her around.
/r/askMRP10/11/24 06:06 AM
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I like this way of thinking. Maybe I'm too caught up in my teenage days, and still see having the biggest experiences and wildest adventures as some sort of goals. The LTR does help me with focusing on career goals, but I probably need to find other ways to find meaning and excitement besides my career.
/r/askMRP30/10/24 11:43 AM
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I appreciate the response but I don't see why it's bothering you that I stated I enjoy my relationship. I never meant to impress you, but to seek advice from more experienced men.
/r/askMRP30/10/24 09:23 AM
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I never said anything about cheating
/r/askMRP29/10/24 07:34 PM
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He does want the dog. He doesn't want her making decisions like that without him. Same approach though - boundary setting and enforcement. I'm guessing he asks how to enforce this and whether he has to get rid of the dog (which he doesn't want to do) to enforce the boundary
/r/askMRP26/10/24 05:23 PM
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I like how this is framed, makes a lot of sense to me. Appreciate it.
/r/askMRP24/09/24 07:20 AM
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Endgame. I don't have sexual problems in the relationship so phases 4-6 aren't relevant, and my SMV might be higher - I'm getting more and more attention from women to the point where sometimes it feels too easy. My problems are all internal, my confidence and frame are just not stable - most of the time it's great but other times I get put "on the spot" or something gets said and old ways of thinking kick in. I even get stressed in certain scenarios and feel lost.
/r/askMRP24/09/24 07:17 AM
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Thank you, I think this might be the missing piece. Will definitely implement it next time.
/r/askMRP24/09/24 07:02 AM
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I don't like making it too easy for her and reaching out every day. Making myself less available sometimes is good, even if I do have some free time.
/r/askMRP24/09/24 07:00 AM
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So basically just keep with the AM broken record until someone's had enough and is leaving the interaction? Sounds fun. Or just call her sometimes She needs to earn comfort like this. Sometimes I will, but other times I won't
/r/askMRP24/09/24 12:33 AM
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You think you owe her an explanation. Well, not giving an explanation is what this question is about - I feel it just builds resentment or anger so I wonder if I'm using the tools right. Plus, you have zero sense of humor, and you feel guilty. I do find myself losing my usual confidence when being "on the spot" and someone is waiting for my answer or is acting like I owe them an explanation. How much sidebar have you gone through? Way more than what would make my question and difficulty embarras…
/r/askMRP24/09/24 12:30 AM
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