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motivatedstogs/r/askTRP31/10/18 07:00 PM
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motivatedstogs/r/askTRP18/03/18 06:14 AM
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motivatedstogs/r/askTRP03/05/18 12:46 PM
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motivatedstogs/r/askTRP27/06/19 11:36 PM
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Can’t help but think you still don’t got this figured out kid.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/21 11:12 AM
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I just recently quit my 6 year addiction 6 months ago, it was awful in the beginning, and it gets better. You will still always have the itch to do it, a little voice in the back of your head, but ignore as you would assume. Don’t replace it with sugary/tasty food, you’ll put on pounds stuffing a nicotine urge like you wouldn’t believe. I kmow from personal experience. So happy to hear this btw.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 08:26 AM
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The pets thing about your father is odd. My father passed away when I was 12. And my mother raised me until today. The biggest things I noticed is that she will give you ideas about love based on her experiences. You can only take those with a grain of salt, because they are a female experience, which is different from ours. She will encourage or not call out a feminine behavior (depends on the mother). I feel I was robbed of the male experience, so I had a tendency to be a bitch. Make mistakes …
/r/askTRP14/01/20 06:30 PM
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Message meant a lot. I’m in the service right now I work with IT stuff pretty much. I have a couple certsbin my first year with fiber optics installation, Cna, and other fancy stuff. Plan on taking college classes next year during the day after work so when I get out of the service I have a year or two done of college. And I can just finish off the rest when I’m out. I’ll take the advice and get after it a lil bit more, been very lax with my gym habits.
/r/askTRP26/07/19 01:52 PM
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Passed away when I was 12.
/r/askTRP26/07/19 01:42 PM
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Already asked my buddy and he said he doesn’t care.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 12:09 AM
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Good perspective, appreciate that.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 11:54 PM
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Fucking this 6 would be easy for me. Little to no effort. Will this make me not enjoy it? Never fucked below me honestly.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 11:49 PM
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Just talk to her. Women are people too. A simple “I like your shirt.”
/r/askTRP27/06/19 11:41 PM
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As other comments suggest, value her actions over words. Women half the time are spitting out what you want to hear. Notice some red flags, for example (hiding her phone, going missing for hours without explanation, being distant, etc.) I will note that these are explained sometimes by events, but if it’s out of the blue or you feel something is going on, find out. Don’t ask her about shit like this though, you lose your confidence in her eyes and look weak.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 11:40 PM
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In my experience, rather, you can always guesstimate who she’s fooling around with. Men she talks about hanging out with or who’s page she’s liking or commenting on. Asking that man would lead to better results quickly, they usually are upfront in my experience. Once you have your answer, you can leave. Leave a message or not, you need to get the hell out of that.
/r/askTRP16/06/19 03:54 PM
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I think what he’s trying to convey is that you shouldn’t be outcome dependent. Simply enjoy the moment for what it is, play around with them, enjoy yourself.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/19 04:43 PM
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You already know to hard next. Shouldn’t of said goodnight or asked for a text when she got back. You only say that to your wife and women you plan on marrying.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/19 04:50 PM
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It is well known, but when a woman says her ex cheated, he’s really shitty, a lot of guys fucked her over, etc. Its almost always a red flag that she is just handing it over left and right.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/19 05:50 AM
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I really have no time for women, nor do I consider myself Alpha. My schedule is consistent and I’m at the moment obsessed with self improvement. Involving meditating, reading (currently 48 laws of power), lifting, running, etc. Once I finish work these habits fill the time, I have no need for a girlfriend. Just a simple question, brushing up on thoughts I had regarding reading my last book The Rational Male Positive Masculinity.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 05:41 AM
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I can say from personal experience, we wear uniforms on certain occasions where the medal of how well you shot is worn. Almost all men wear expert, the best medal one can get, with a few in between who shot sharpshooter, the second best. It’s rare to see a women shoot expert, you see more sharpshooters and marksmans (the worst medal) aka pizza box. I know women in platoons where the average expert number was 2-3 out of around 70-80. The rest were marksman or sharpshooter.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/19 03:30 PM
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Hey OP, post questions in /r/asktrp for future reference.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/19 01:31 PM
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I quit playing video games about 6-7 months ago. Someone who is not very productive like myself, I was often forced to be productive once video games were out of the equation. I found myself often preparing for the next day, making notes of small goals, reading more, and joking new physical activities like wrestling and jiu jitsu which I previously had no interest in. I also noticed an increase in my sociability. I talked to more people, developed a larger friend group, and overall had better ti…
/r/askTRP15/02/19 07:57 PM
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Girl sounds like an emotional basket case. Soft next.
/r/askTRP12/01/19 05:29 PM
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OP, never go back to an ex. When you go back it displays scarcity. The strongest tool you have here is indifference. Simply continue on spinning plates, she will fuck all that shit up. Things are never the same when you go back. Every reason you listed of going back was basically all buffers. Don’t go back. Personal experience, it is a fucking train wreck to go back to an ex.
/r/askTRP12/01/19 05:12 PM
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Cock carousel.
/r/askTRP12/01/19 05:05 PM
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Perfect.
/r/askTRP12/01/19 05:02 PM
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The writing portion of taking notes is much more helpful in my opinion. The act of writing letters it seems etches it into the brain a little better then texting. I can remember much more concepts by this way.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/19 11:58 PM
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I had the exact same issue. At first I only let people ask me, but then I realized that simply saying “Aye bro you’re pretty cool, what’s your snap” works wonders. No one is not gonna give it.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 01:27 PM
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You’re so deep in scarcity. You need to read the sidebar now. Reading posts is one thing, but you need to absorb this material. You reek of neediness when you “see if something is there”. She’ll hear it in your voice or feel it though text. Easy next.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 08:10 AM
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I got back with my ex toxic GF time and time again only to find out some shit she was lying about and withdrew from me every time. Same situation though, I got my fucking fix of good sex. She was freaky as fuck, and she would do whatever I said. But a terrible person. As much as I want to be mad at her for doing a plethora of shitty stuff, my rational side knows it’s my fault. I kept coming back like a sad puppy, I have no one to be mad at but myself. Thankfully, were separated and I won’t make …
/r/TheRedPill20/12/18 02:39 AM
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I understand holidays coming up and I was returning soon to come home and also see her. She said she got gifts for me, but she’ll figure it out. Instead, I just set up a little city adventure with another girl right now when I return. The rational male, I just finished, is fresh in my mind so I’m going to do what’s best for me. I have a big future ahead of me where I’m making 6 figures after the military. I don’t need this bullshit.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 05:28 PM
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Very difficult with my schedule.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 05:24 PM
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She treats me like a fucking king and that is gratifying.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 03:02 AM
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Got to be ripped as fuck
/r/askTRP20/11/18 02:37 AM
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What makes you say that. Not defending her, just want the reason with explanation.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 02:19 AM
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See if she’s wife worthy. I she isn’t Ill toss her like hot shit I don’t care.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 02:17 AM
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Live videos on Instagram where they stream together.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 02:13 AM
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I already told her exactly that.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 08:24 AM
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Same here. I said that to her and if she does I won’t be distraught.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 07:58 AM
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As people, random dudes in a band. Skateboarders.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 07:56 AM
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Before
/r/askTRP06/11/18 07:54 AM
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Puts things into perspective I appreciate it.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 04:05 AM
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By telling her that if she did it again I would leave, does that show abundance or it did not even matter at that point?
/r/askTRP06/11/18 04:02 AM
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Then monk mode this one out. Lift religiously, learn to eat healthy, and even take up stoicism.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 10:18 PM
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What I would recommend is not finding a group of party people, but respectable group of guys who lift and can get laid. Party people just bounce from drug to drug with no real direction typically. Go out to the bar with some good guys who are charismatic and genuine, and learn from them. College will open new doors to social groups.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 08:08 PM
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Mobile. App.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 07:57 PM
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Pretty much in the same position I just detached and broke up. Focusing on myself and my goals, and I don’t text her at all now even when she tries to dangle the carrot. Better off learning how to not check a phone then continuously doing it and controlling her.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 12:42 AM
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Put on asktrp
/r/TheRedPill27/05/18 10:08 PM
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We’ve hung out and it’s extremely obvious she’s a virgin. Extremely bad at kissing, anything, you name it.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 03:47 AM
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Last night, I was hanging with this girl and she tried to see how long I could make a straight face. She basically made ugly faces while I kept a straight face and I was an immovable rock. Not sure if shit test or this girl is bat shit haha...
/r/TheRedPill19/05/18 05:08 PM
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I’ll mark that as done.
/r/askTRP19/05/18 05:02 PM
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I think all boys in western civilization today should go into the armed forces. It’s seems very needed for a world taught on how feelings are important, and the feminine imperative taking over and making men weak. Teaches them how to become men. There’s countless red pill examples in the armed forces with any branch really. They teach you bearing, or frame, of how to keep a calm face and walk, talk, and act like a leader even when these manifestations are not present.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 06:31 PM
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Golden. Follow up on this idea.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 06:28 PM
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She’s a virgin, we just met, and I leave for U.S. Marines boot camp in 2 months. I want to bang and leave.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 07:30 PM
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Won’t this lead to her asking about the other one besides her if we already fucked.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 03:31 PM
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What would be the way of sayin it when she asks how many girls I’ve been with?
/r/askTRP03/05/18 12:48 PM
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If I broke up with the girl, because I realized I was a beta billy and wanted to start fresh. Still keep no contact?
/r/TheRedPill16/04/18 01:30 PM
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I get 100+ girls wanting to fuck my brains out when I post a victory royale on Snapchat. While you’re lifting, being occupied, your girl is sliding in my DM’s kid.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/18 04:23 AM
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When she asks about if you saw the message, just say you didn’t get around to seeing it. You’ll turn into a beta provider. Let her get some other schmuck to do that.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 05:46 AM
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Ghost her tbh. Reward some good behavior in the future, ignore her for a bit and continue your life. Keep lifting.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 03:31 AM
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Had a girlfriend back when I was a beta who loved punk rock and drawing. I knew she had past friends who were into it. Beta me didn’t even put the two together she probably fucked one of them and just warped into Chads interests haha.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 01:36 AM
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Don’t reward bad behavior. Because it will continue.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 01:33 AM
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Girls want the player subconsciously. They’re shit testing you. They don’t want the fucking beta boy who doesn’t show masculinity and isn’t a leader. Have abundance. You don’t need her, you (should) have more options. Hard next that bitch, and go throw around the weights and keep focusing on your goal.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 01:31 AM
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I think you make a point with the poster and an SMV boost.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 04:10 AM
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No poster? No anything?
/r/askTRP23/03/18 03:28 AM
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She has the BPD, I wasn’t saying you did.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 04:00 PM
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If you have had a BPD plate/gf, this is a huge red flag that is obvious very early on. They are head over heels at first, but once you fail one shit test and she feels she has power, she will capitalize on it and ruin your life. Enjoy the sex while you can, but keep on the lookout and be ready to get out.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 06:57 PM
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I had trouble swallowing it as well. Around the time I was smoking weed. Shortly after discovering TRP I enlisted into the Marines. They had a zero tolerance on pot so I quit it. I found after quitting the pot, swallowing it became easier and I had less moments of weakness. Drop the pot. It helps you feel more mentally clear, and gives you more time to lift and read. My opinion on all this.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 07:08 PM
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Fill your time in between messages with lifting, reading, and other hobbies. Ever had that moment at the gym where your banging out some sets on the bench and realized you got a message 20mins ago. Keep it like that. Always fill your time with positive habits.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 03:50 AM
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I don’t know which decision to make obviously. I know there are down sides but could there be positives say I do go back?
/r/askTRP18/03/18 06:32 AM
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If I LTR would it be feasible to say she’d pull the same shit and just make me regress as a man?
/r/askTRP18/03/18 06:27 AM
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Interest can be applied in non needy ways. My go to one is “let’s get married, rob a bank and run away to Mexico.” I imply I like her subtly by saying let’s get married, and when I bring up Mexico they are either like oooooo or they go why Mexico? Then you can call them needy and it leads to more tease. I’m in high school so I use this with multiple women so they all meet me throughout the day and say what’s up husband.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 06:22 AM
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I think a better first impression can be made in person.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 12:05 AM
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I’m 18 and still use most texting for logistics. I use my experience in person at school for the most fun, but when it comes to a new girl texting me or asking my Snapchat, I stick to logistics with a little bit of side convo because a lot of girls my age just like to bullshit. Still works pretty well at this age in my opinion.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 12:02 AM
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Texting is for logistics.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 11:56 PM
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Facts.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 04:06 PM
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I really anticipated a plate after my past relationship. Finally have one, alright in looks. But we had sex the other night and idk I just wasn’t that into it. I am wondering if I should drop the plate and find a better one, or keep spinning the plate until I have another better looking one.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 04:24 AM
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She’s really flexible with me. Always says she’s available and home alone, and I always make her work around my schedule. Ex. “I’m working out I’ll be there later.”
/r/askTRP05/03/18 04:22 AM
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I’m greek as well, my mother is Greek and my father is not. Greek women are tough to find, good luck. Go live in Greece, where I recently visited, and you’ll find a plethora of Greek women. Although they’re not as great as they seem in my opinion, all very whiny and like to run the household. Your choice.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 04:13 AM
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Belongs in /r/asktrp
/r/TheRedPill02/03/18 11:53 PM
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Maybe to avoid LTR’s, it’s good to have a high n-count before going into a LTR.
/r/askTRP28/02/18 07:46 PM
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Best comment here.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 06:16 AM
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Hard next.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 06:10 AM
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I’ve been there. Now you go lift and read. Improve yourself.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 02:50 PM
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Keep us posted.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 04:39 AM
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You’re literally explaining my last LTR before discovering red pill and leaving that girl. This is all so true. She approached me, I was an attractive introvert, and she was charismatic. But when it came time to fuck, she brought hand cuffs and asked me to choke her.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 04:24 AM
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I would say to let the plate get upset. Focus on yourself, going hard in the gym and still continue healthy habits and improving yourself will yield a better sense of reward than screwing this plate and feeling good after. Listen to the rational side of your brain, how do you benefit most from this situation? By continuing your lifestyle and continuing to improve yourself, or chase a plate. We all know how that ends.
/r/askTRP17/02/18 08:17 PM
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How do you suggest I go about this then?
/r/askTRP12/02/18 07:14 PM
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So from now until that night, I should just do my thing. Escalate the night of, and slay. Texting is for logistics I understand.
/r/askTRP12/02/18 06:20 AM
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I may be a little late but don’t be fixated on outcome, ever. Focus on having a good time, act nonchalant.
/r/askTRP12/02/18 05:22 AM
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I’m from Illinois, and I’m joining the marines as well as enlisted. Going in after college is absolutely fucking great, enlisted gets respect, but officers get the real money and benefits. I love the marine core values and beliefs.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 09:27 PM
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Do you have any advice? If not this comment is useless.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 09:21 PM
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I’m reading The Rational Male right now, and I’m gonna read No More Mr. Nice Guy after. But I will take the advice, I appreciate the help.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 09:19 PM
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Hey bro, Greek boy here. Good to see a Greek guy on the red pill!
/r/TheRedPill28/01/18 07:16 AM
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Tupac said in an interview in prison, before he produced thug life that growing up in the streets was his way of becoming a man. He was speaking about how black boys and people growing up in the streets had a different story of becoming a man compared to rich white boys who went to military academy’s or the military to become a man. Maybe you are in your phase of becoming a man, and discovering your passion. My advice is to find your passion. What are you good at? Are you good at organizing arra…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 05:04 AM
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Appreciate the response. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/18 09:05 PM
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Can I get a definition of hypergamy please? I’m a lurker for a few months and don’t understand the term. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/18 04:18 AM
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He had a heart attack. But I wouldn’t doubt that would be involved, he had trouble making ends meet because my mother sucked him dry from the divorce.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/18 06:19 AM
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I have the portion of doing this for myself down completely. I’ve always wanted to do something as mentally and physically challenging as the Marine Corps boot camp, now I’m pursuing it. Heard all the stories about the gas chamber from marines in my DEP, can’t wait to sneeze and spit my guts out and then go for a nice hike!
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 01:55 AM
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Thanks for the feedback, will consider it for sure.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 01:48 AM
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Give me a quick definition of monk mode. I’m already kinda there, dropped my crazy gf after I enlisted, and just trying to spin plates right now before my next gf. Which won’t be for a while.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 01:19 AM
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I have a similar situation myself. I grew up with both of my parents, and they divorced when I was in the 1st grade. The divorce happened very suddenly, and it was violent arguing and siding for 2 years. Fast forward when I’m in 6th grade, my father passes. I go from school to school during 6th to 8th grade, without a father, and an alcohol abusing mother who had a very shaky and uninvolved presence in my life. She paid the bills and didn’t care where I went or did. She went from bf to bf. This …
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 11:51 PM
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If I was in that dick shit test, I would’ve crumbled lol. Good post.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 05:36 AM
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I read this yesterday and I took from this post quite quickly. One of my co workers was near the entrance to our shop in the mall. They were many customers behind him and in line. He just got off work and was trying to make plans with another co worker of mine. He was explaining how they should smoke weed together at his place, and the term let’s smoke was said a plethora of times. So to retain the identify of my store because I’m an assistant manager, and to not have a bad image to these people…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/17 04:55 PM
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I love the way he handles it very politely and with finesse. Stresses TRP ideas and is shamed, but still insists how it’s his taste. I love this guy, good for him for getting that Moscow lady, it’s his taste, and that’s how it should be.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 04:17 AM
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