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QUEEN SH*Tmotokos_ghost/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 07:40 PM
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seriously. @OP this man is trying to pimp you out! there is nothing to discuss here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/22 07:18 AM
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truth!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/22 07:06 PM
25

exactly. instead of just continuining to accept these pick me dates, they try to change OUR opinion on the matter because they KNOW girls who ask guys on dates are seen as easy pickings and desperate. they KNOW they don't want these women, yet they always try to bring the women who know better down. so tired of these LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/22 01:33 PM
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yeah, i've seen FDS come up on the cringe subs. the posts are edited to make FDS look completely irrational, just typical propaganda.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 04:32 PM
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exactly. love is a verb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 10:24 AM
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i was a stripper. guys didnt want to talk, they actively pursued me as if i actually wanted to date them. sex in the private rooms is def a thing. maybe not in all strip clubs but it is a thing, my friend who worked at another club as a cocktail waitress confirmed. one of the dancers was prostituting herself for 800$, after that she could just pay the percentage to the club and leave for the night. one thing i will say is that at my club, the dancers were welcoming to me, friendly, honest. there…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 04:24 PM
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my zvm ex's dad died 2 years into our relationship, he treated me like absolute shit while greiving. he ignored me for days while starting to follow new girls/sex workers on ig. when i told him what he was doing was hurting me, he basically told me " you know my dad just died right???" he broke up with me on messenger of all places and hopped on tinder immediately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 08:40 PM
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the comments on this youtube vid are just ridiculous. how are we as women ''winning'' with tinder? it's MEN that are using tinder as free prostitution services yet all the scrotes commenting on this vid are blaming women for this, that and the other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 06:32 PM
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i usually do a facetime to see if there's a natural flow of conversation. if its successfull then i do dinner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 08:23 PM
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this is so good 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 07:32 AM
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nice to see another FDS gamer 🙏🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 03:59 PM
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😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 12:52 PM
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it's always projection with them. he will never be loved by any woman that is not his mother and deep down he knows it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 07:38 PM
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i found it while browsing the dont contact your x sub. one of you amazing queens commented ''you should check out the ladies over at FDS''..and i did. my life has never been the same since..i'm in such a better place emotionally because of this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 01:38 PM
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you're right, thank you. i've learned about the situation i was in after the fact as well. im honestly relieved to be armed with the knowledge i have now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 10:40 PM
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it was such a mindfuck for me, the fact that he wanted me gone, would constantly sabotage the relationship, we would then break up. and then he'd come circling back! the final discard he broke up with me after i reacted to his abuse, i was a bit emotional (pick me in recovery back then), i continued to respond to his emails for about 2 months after the break up until i willed myself to block him on my socials. he was upset that i decided to block him. like HE was the one being wrong here. ugh, n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 03:43 PM
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i can tell he truely is a narc. he's got those dead eyes just like my narc ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 01:33 PM
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see...they know exactly what they're doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 12:06 PM
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that's a good suggestion thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 05:08 PM
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..this comment is honestly putting my meat and dairy consumption into question
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 11:45 AM
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no, you're right im not her doctor. but she's pretty vocal about her love of smoking weed..recreationally. that's fine but again, i just dont see that lifestyle meshing with motherhood in a positive way. we can disagree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 06:47 PM
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i just think she smokes too much weed is all, and its not conducive to a healthy family life, especially with a man like rocky. i dont see smoking it as medicinal either. but my comment is snarky, ill admit it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 06:43 PM
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💕💕💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 06:02 PM
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she smokes soo much weed, i can't imagine her really changing up her lifestyle after the baby is born..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 05:20 PM
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honestly..let them perish. those who want the truth will find their way here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 11:19 PM
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i know, but there is such a big misconception about iceland. it's been wrapped into this fantasy we all want to be true, but it isn't the case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 04:52 PM
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iceland is lib fem culture ground zero, and with dating culture, the expectation is sex before anything else. marriage is rare, most women are forever gf's and the pedo's are rampant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 12:20 PM
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i was being narc abused and falling for the hoovering cycle. took him back twice and each time was worst then the last.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 07:01 PM
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im not mad at you, she's here because of you. it's obv you hold no ill will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 10:27 PM
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there is just no way to really know that. it seems they are playing the media and just want the limelight for their careers but i guess we'll know soon enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 11:33 AM
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super noteworthy! i went on a date a few years ago and i was over at his place, this was around date 3 (and i shouldve never went over in the first place imo) and he treated his alexa like shit! called her stupid, and was literally yelling at the AI, shouting just a whole bunch of nonsense. he was also really pissed off i wouldnt make out with him and just totally ready to steamroll all my boundaries. i got caught up because he was a tech bro and lived in a really nice flat, but yeah..total abus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 08:46 PM
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he wears those weird pedo glasses too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 11:03 PM
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can't wait for the day some loser tries some PUA shit on me, it'll be the most satisfying block ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 10:52 PM
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it was so disturbing to see the recruitment in the wild. this man was looking for genuine advice and wanting to find a serious relationship and here comes the MRA/PUA guy. thankfully more women are aware of these tactics but shit..OLD and dating in general is such a minefield because of these psychos. they're lurking everywhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 10:50 PM
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i was on another sub reading a thread concerning a man looking for advice on how to navigate OLD and one of the commenters actually suggested a redpill youtuber and he linked a bunch of weird PUA shit. i couldn't believe it..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 07:02 PM
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she's the only reason i watch that movie. i love her slideshow 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 12:47 PM
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🎯🎯🎯 incredible post, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 06:52 PM
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wow, my ex was operating on the same playbook! i went through that too. the longest period was 3 weeks of being ignored. 🤡 never again, that's for sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 09:14 AM
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i've had the same experience. after my narc zvm got a cold, i went straight home after work to make him chicken noodle soup. i put alot of love into it and it took me awhile to make it. mind you i started around 10pm. so when he came over the next night i decided to treat him with the soup, and he barely touched it. didnt even accept my offer to take some with him back home, he just straight up didnt give a fuck. what he DID do though was find some ig model and like a pic of her soup. he also co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 12:01 AM
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i'm on the same wavelength! this made me smile, thanks for posting!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 09:43 PM
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Remember-- if it was HIM leaving YOU, he would not hesitate, and would probably be singing Christmas carols as he walks out the door. this is so true 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 06:55 PM
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ooof, this video series is amazing. thank you for posting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 02:33 PM
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i have one male friend, i've known him for about 12 years. i think the reason our relationship works is because we're not attracted to each other. we aren't each others type and there are boundaries in place we have never crossed. he also grew up mormon, (he isn't anymore) so he isn't porn addicted and has a generally HV look on life. we don't act super close, give each other gifts, or confide in each other on deep topics. we do complain about our crazy parents and banter though. that's it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 03:12 PM
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hmm, i just had a lightbulb moment. i've never really thought of it this way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 07:32 AM
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he's got those dead eyes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 06:53 PM
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you're right. but why post this if you havent read the handbook? the age gap alone is enough to know you're in a fucked up dynamic. we've discussed this issue, multiple times, there have been so many informative posts and then these type of threads pop up where it seems the OP has done NONE of the work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 09:11 PM
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can we stop with these posts that are obv red flags and need no further clarification? idk, i just feel we're better than this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 07:56 PM
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thanks for the post, i love tudor history, especially mary I and her life and dynamic with elizabeth. lots of alison weir on my bookshelf! <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 11:53 AM
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yeah i clocked that. if i was given perfume on a first date i'd def be baffled by the gesture.. but @OP i'm glad your FDS sense is making things better to navigate !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 01:43 PM
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i.e all the scrotes that have a problem with bri larson and captain marvel
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 12:23 PM
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what she is saying is just facts. i enjoy taking my daughter out, buying her things, going to places we can have fun etc. it brings me joy to bring her joy. this is what a man who is serious about you will want to do as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 12:18 PM
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Men can pretend to be good friends or good guys in general when they're not dating you and then become totally different people when we're in a relationship with them. this is critical information. 🎯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 07:11 AM
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i remember that storyline, yeah. broken clock etc. it wasn't the worst show out there but there was still something about it that rubbed me the wrong way, especially with the last season. (don't want to spoil it by getting too detailed) considering the time, i know women were limited but seeing as there were soo many female characters on that show and they were mostly written to be so dumb while the men were written to be soo wise just seemed a missed opportunity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 05:21 PM
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there are very few shows that pass the FDS test. i was recently watching ''scream queens'' and they were seriously trying to normalize the most degrading porn. (not even sure i can type out which kind it was here.) disturbing to think a bunch of 40 year old men writing out the parts for 20 year old women. ( it's all projection.) just finished F is for Family and the female characters are written pretty much the way you'd expect an LVM to write women. the women are written as bumbling idiots, or …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 01:48 PM
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i actually avoided this show because of the title. thanks for clarifying! i'll check it out now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 01:37 PM
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why am i not surprised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 12:46 PM
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its essentially their "free pass" to do whatever they can to hurt you. the worst part about it was realizing that i would never treat him this way, yet it was so SO easy for him to treat me like garbage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 11:05 AM
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no you didnt overreact. my narc zvm ex's father died while we were on one of our many "breaks". he reached out to me ( it was a hover) and pulled me back in. we were dating again etc, he was promising he would change. anyways, we had sex and then thats when the switch came. he was literally ignoring me for DAYS blaming it on the death of his father and how he was grieving etc. mind you he was still hella active on IG and FB of course. he just wanted to ignore me, i was completely singled out for…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 09:47 AM
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we love the addams family at our house, my fav being "addams family values" because i will never get over joan cusack's performance as debbie 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 09:09 AM
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love your username btw ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 03:30 PM
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same. before FDS i was telling off some scrote (wasting waayy too much energy) and he replied stating that he ''liked i was telling him this''. he liked it when i told him off. any attention, be it positive or negative satisfies them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 10:11 AM
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you are absolutely correct ma'am.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 02:41 PM
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thanks for posting, i'm always looking for more content like this on youtube. i subbbed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 08:02 PM
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2 minutes lol. accurate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 07:54 PM
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hugs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 07:50 AM
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my best friend and i were 9 years old when a man was trying to ''talk'' to us. he was licking his lips and everything. these men are everywhere and lurking all around us. let us continue to teach our daughters to stay vigilent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 03:05 PM
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what's it going to take to get her as a guest on the podcast?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 07:21 PM
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your post had me screaming. thank you for writing this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 03:16 PM
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i love relaxing with a beer on every other weekend!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 11:56 AM
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she nailed my nvm ex to a T ''the water torturer''.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 11:53 AM
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i don't want to state where i am specifically but i live in a nordic country and its very lib fem, hook up culture persistant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 05:16 PM
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which is exactly why i've started listening to jazz, jazzhop, instrumental hip hop and thoroughly enjoying it 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 03:38 PM
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start mourning and get that bag girl lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 12:21 PM
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🎯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 12:14 PM
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i mean..even that photo with chris pratt and his wife.. it's weird. the way she's looking up to him like he's some kind of god amongst men. just a really strange relationship all around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 12:11 PM
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😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 09:33 PM
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in the "pineapple express" film with noted abuser james franco, seth rogan's character is a full grown man literally dating a high school girl and still framing himself as the misunderstood good guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 09:32 PM
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adam sandler is the emperor of nvm's.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 04:40 PM
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''Men are only capable of loving other men.'' i said this to myself as a shower thought just the other day. totally agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 07:38 PM
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ive been watching stephen colbert for nearly half of my life (since strangers with candy) and ive always admired this side of him. he genuinely loves his wife and it always just oozes out of him. its really sweet and..in a way comforting to me. i enjoy seeing real love irl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 07:18 AM
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i mean..da fuck 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 04:25 PM
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thanks for your comment, i am there. its taken awhile and im still really angry about my narc abuse but its over and ive come a long way 🌈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 09:16 PM
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*I use social media very infrequently and actually have never been romantically attracted to a man that uses it more than I do. For some reason being into social media regardless of activity on it is a big turnoff for me. Just a personal boundary! same here. social media usage is one of the first things i'll gauge once i start dating again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 08:56 AM
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i know my ex derived pleasure from my insecurity in the relationship due to his narc harem and "girl friends". he'd purposefully fuck with my mind. he would post things on FB clearly aimed at specific girls to get them to comment, things that only they would really have the answer to, knowing i would see..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 08:50 AM
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😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 09:05 AM
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nope. my narc ex had mostly female "friends"..but turns out it was all girls he dated previously, already fucked, was trying to fuck etc. not falling for that one again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 08:53 AM
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i was one of those sad girls reading the relationship threads on reddit trying to justify someone that i actually cared about and would never want to hurt like this treating me this way. through that i found this sub because deep down, i KNEW it wasnt right..but i was gaslit to death to think it was. seriously, fds changed my life for the better in more ways then i can count.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 09:01 PM
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my nvm ex did this and whenever i'd try to cOMMUNICaTE my feelings, he straight up did not care, my post history outlines the issue, i've commented more then once about it. he literally chose ig fantasy girls over me. towards the end of our relationshit he was following sex workers, on top of the local girls he was trying fuck.. ..and i know he was trying to fuck them because i caught his comments when he thought i wasnt following what he was doing on ig. ive noticed men who follow these account…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 08:07 PM
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you engage waayy to much with this loser. just block and delete sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 02:49 PM
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i mean how predatory can you get right..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 01:12 PM
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these types of plots are just..everywhere in tv and film! it's just amazing how blind i was and now i can't stop catching these LVM moments. i was watching scream queens the other day trying to get into some kind of halloween spirit and alot of the dialogue and situations are so clearly written by a man it was so cringe. one of the characters, the president of the national chapter of a sorority asks one of the younger sorority girls dad out..on a..yeah you guessed it..coffee date in his truck, a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 09:32 AM
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i watched it for the first time, just finished the last episode a few days ago. i gagged immediately when they started dating..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 09:25 AM
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i feel you there!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 09:55 AM
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thanks for your reply. sometimes i just feel caught between two places. i dont want to be ashamed of my body, or my breasts. im a woman and they're there but i dont want the "hey look at my tits while i duckface" image either. but you're right, im definitely not in this category of thirst trapping. the last thing id want to be is collected into some NVM's online harem. fuck that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 02:58 PM
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i need an honest answer from you ladies. im not sure if this is the last remnant of my former pickmeishaism or if i'm over thinking it. i don't post thirst traps on socials, and i barely post, BUT about 3 of my photos are me in a low cut top..cleavage out. am i objectifying myself? should i delete them? ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 02:39 PM
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exactly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 03:55 PM
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i've warned my daughter about media consumption and detailed how it's mostly men writing these cartoons, youtube shows and movies. i've told her how most of the women and girls you see are written by men and given really unrealistic character traits to be made unlikeable, or to pit girls against each other. ..as you've stated '' media reflects male mindsets pretty accurately'', and i really want her to internalize that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 03:46 PM
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maybe this applies to some, but my ex was a full blown narc to the highest degree and loved animals, loved his cat. treated his cat much better then he treated me actually. i'm not entirely on board with this idea, but you know what they say about a broken clock.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 01:02 PM
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women are called the N word too, it's not limited to black men. you're attacking men and women with that word..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 01:16 PM
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your LVM ex putting his kids on social media and in his music videos is a great example of how men use their kids as props to make them seem as loving and caring fathers. my ex did this too, he'd parade his son with autism on social media to lure women in with the assumption that he was caring and responsible but he was none of that. behind closed doors he'd be chatting up girls on IG whenever his son was around - he was just glued to his phone. most of the time when it comes to special needs ch…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 09:54 AM
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ugh thank god.i'm just relieved to be back with all you ladies 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 03:37 PM
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"i daresay madam hyere hyere" lool
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 10:38 PM
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just another scrote speaking like its the fucking 18th century 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 04:58 PM
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Objectification and commodification of women’s bodies has literally happened al throughout history, when did it apparently become advantageous for women?! this right here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 08:38 AM
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truth truth truth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 11:32 AM
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i've noticed alot of ultra-LVM seem to gravitate towards "the big lebowski".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 01:35 PM
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no, you are NOT alone. i've never been in a good relationship, i've only been emotionally abused and treated like shit by men who i thought loved me. i know i'm beautiful, smart and never deserved any of it. my only fault was how naive i was, how i was under the impression that i was approaching the relationship in the same honest way as my partner. the problem is not you, it is them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 12:13 PM
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'' I am pleased to have the highest honour of being the biggest bitch he has ever encountered in his life, given how all the other women he has met have let him slip and slide harder than a water park ride.'' this is the BEST quote ever. <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 11:19 AM
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😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 05:09 PM
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i agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 05:07 PM
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she's unbearable. when i watched her on stage for the first time, it was part of a show with other comedians and she had a particularly bizarre set that went on for far too long about dog seks and how great that would be. it was..weird to say the least. she is the ultimate text book case of a cool girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 01:55 PM
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i feel you, i had to leave one of my fav subreddits as well. there was a thread asking ''which scent or scent/combo gives you the most compliments from men'' and i knew it was going to be a shitshow but i clicked anyways, and the libfem pickme comments were so extreme, i just knew i couldn't enjoy the sub anymore 😑 i don't want any pickme energy in my life, in anyway. i'm officially done with that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 11:26 AM
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these scotes will use their children as props on social media as well, it's sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 11:20 AM
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if FDS was in existence when i was first dating..my life would've taken a whole different trajectory.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 11:18 AM
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i caught that too 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 05:55 PM
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there were so many weird things.. he triangulated me with his previous ex alot and i basically played therapist, so he had admitted to essentially seeing his ex as a replacement for his mother. in which i just nodded my head and pretended to ''understand.'' another bizarre ''quip'' i can immediately recall was when he also admitted to me that he had stalked me and looked up my address before we were dating. he would watch me walk home from work and to the bus stop (he lived near my work). being …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 06:46 PM
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saving this post to read every morning!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 09:28 AM
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that's how i feel. the facetiming eliminates the need for the coffee date. if we have a good facetime convo, then he needs to proceed to ask me out to dinner, or a well thought out date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 11:51 AM
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''No one else around them is allowed to express any emotion but agreeableness and neutrality.'' this really resonated with me. it's so true. anytime i deviated away from agreeableness and neutrality with my narc zvm, any time i wanted to express my thoughts, emotions, how i felt ..whatever - he was either checked out, or according to him, having to''walk on eggshells'' around me. my only options in the relationship as far as communication went was just..to go along with everything. every opinion…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 10:10 AM
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strangely enough the only thing that really made FDS sink in was feeling the peace in my soul and home life after an extremely emotionally abusive relationship with a zvm. i'm not sure i really would've been able to snap out of my pickme ways without that horrible experience. i had to learn the hard way i guess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 09:28 PM
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they think all social media is their free personal sex site
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 05:07 PM
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my last relationshit 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 01:07 PM
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he treated selena like trash, so its likely he treats his wife like trash. LVM don't change. obv it's speculation, but the chances of this being true is highly plausible imo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 11:54 PM
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amazing comment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 02:41 PM
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i've been offered dinner dates, so its a thing here. most men go for drink/coffee dates but a few men have asked for dinner dates if they really want to put the effort in. all the guys that asked me for drink/coffee dates were the ultimate players. the dinner date guys were still pathetic but 1 step above..so NVM to LVM 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 08:46 AM
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that's exactly how he pulled me in - the lovebombing. i wasnt familiar with the tactic at the time so i fell for it completely. i know better now. 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 08:12 PM
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my ex used his "aspergers" as an excuse to completely abandon and abuse me emotionally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 09:28 AM
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wow, thank you. i really enjoyed reading this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:56 PM
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also, notice how he said hes nailing his friend, who is likely a FWB and he's not even in the moment with her. he's fanticizing about raping his daughter and using his "friend" as a human fleshlight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 10:27 AM
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it was the ''we like big dicks and refuse to lie episode''. pretty much at the beginning
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 11:17 AM
22

i'm also finding it sadly coincidental that the FDS podcast was discussing her bf, and some lyric about how she would skip matches for him..and now here we are. she's citing mental health reasons and that's her decision but it just interesting how FDS called it. maybe there's more to the story, but for now i guess everyone just needs to leave her be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 12:15 PM
43

i was a tomboy growing up. i think the issue for me was that i was so expected to like these things. i wanted to be seen as an individual with her own opinions and preferences. i wanted to be respected even though i wasnt a "girly girl". i just felt so boxed in, with the pink and the dresses and stockings, with the sappy storylines. theres more to girls and women and i just felt it wasnt being shown at the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 03:39 PM
11

same. he never complimented me as beautiful, only ''strong''.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 02:46 PM
29

its likely the scrote is trying to chat them up as well, its never "just looking".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 10:55 AM
10

i live in a nordic country, and one thing is for sure, the coffee date rule still applies. if a man wants to put in effort to take you out, he will go for the restaurant. there's still alot of similarities between american men and the men here though. they're still trash but maybe not as..objectifying i suppose?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 10:38 AM
15

im just not understanding why youre (perhaps not you specifically but other comments as well) are dissecting the statement to this degree? its just a statement, she was making a point, one im sure alot of women on here get the gist of and can relate to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 10:28 PM
74

exactly. and not only that, she was geld down by a pickme and sexuality abused. as you say, she knew the dangers of men and was wise to stay single. minus dudley of course ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 09:35 PM
22

the point imo is that it is always better to be with your own independence rather than under the subjugation of a man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 09:26 PM
31

pretty insincere? 😂 considering she never married, i'd be pretty sure to say she meant this 100%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 09:13 PM
6

my ex was on the spectrum, had mild aspergers. it was the worst relationship of my life. i don't recommend anyone get into relationships with men on the spectrum, its been my biggest regret.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 06:03 PM
2

thanks 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 07:53 AM
13

Thanks for this post. I had a random cry last night just feeling utterly ashamed of the emotional abuse I accepted. I'm in a better place now, just had to let the emotions go through me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 06:45 PM
2

thanks so much! =)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 06:43 PM
25

can you recommend your favorite j-drama's? i'm really looking to get into it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 12:43 PM
1

trruuuthh!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 10:54 AM
1

🎯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:42 PM
9

i like to look good as well. im busty and prefer a fitted t shirt and its def an LVM magnet, but thing is, i feel it makes my life easier because these loser LVM give me what i want. i went to the mechanic and he fixed my tire for free, i need a little help with this and that and theyre there to serve. am i wrong for this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 01:45 PM
9

my nvm ex used his fathers death as an excuse to treat me (no one else) like absolute garbage. he wasn't close too close to his dad but i understand his death from cancer to be a devastating thing. i was there for him to the best of my ability, aways checking up on him while he'd be short and ignore me for days. (not anyone else though, nothing for love and respect for his ''friends''). i mean i was having this internal monologue with myself, asking myself am i wrong here? i know death can be co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 02:17 PM
50

i cant upvote this enough
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 08:21 PM
59

the sad part is that she doesn't even realize that even anal won't be enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 04:38 PM
11

My lvm narc ex never took any interests in anything I did. He never congratulated me on my accomplishments, and was just jealous when I bought a new car and moved into a brand new flat. He always checked out of the convo whenever I wanted to talk about the things I was interested in and never even bothered to ask anything about them. Everything was all about him. We watched what he wanted to watch, we had to do the things he wanted to do. I stayed with this person for 2 years. =/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 09:20 AM
19

FDS gave me x-ray vision. i totally see through men and all their bullshit now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 12:07 PM
2

yes! i'm so looking forward to hearing the new episode!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 10:27 AM
25

i'd like to add that it's useful to use a character name as well. it's so general and floods the search results with information about the character rather then your reddit posts and other activities etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 10:18 AM
56

it's always them scrotes popping off about a ''special connection'' isn't it? jeez, ive heard it so many times. same lines for every woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 07:01 PM
3

this comment is gospel! you're so right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 12:33 PM
1

i listen to alot of 60s, girl groups, garage bands, beat, doo wop. i usually skip over the pick me songs and those with themes that are really dated. but there's some true gems out there. ladies , i'd like you all to listen to my favorite song, it's basically my anthem. karen verros - you just gotta know my mind (1965)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 11:09 AM
47

the sense and sensibility film with kate winslet is one my favorite movies. ive never actually read the book but i just might. ive always enjoyed austen film and bbc renditions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 10:19 AM
54

i'd focus SO much on his pleasure, always giving giving giving..he still choose IG girls over me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 07:24 PM
45

frosted window film works nicely if you're looking for that clean no curtain look. still lets the light in as well. there's a lot of good advice here for this serious situation, so i thought i'd contribute some practical advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 05:10 PM
6

''i dont remember that''
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 01:40 PM
3

oh my god, this is so spot on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 01:37 PM
2

I do the same for my daughter. The look on her face when I picked her up from school on her 4th birthday, I'll never forget. I bought some large colorful gerbera's and handed it over to her when she came out of the classroom. She felt like such a princess. I always want her to know that she's valued, appreciated and treasured. I want her to know that feeling and when there's an absence of it. (If you know what i mean.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 08:58 AM
9

you are radiant!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 11:59 PM
39

i've decided to wear stilts and dress in an abnormally long trench coat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 07:26 PM
28

and ...there's a prime example of married life to an LVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 02:50 PM
9

the accuracy of your post. this is it right here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 01:02 PM
10

my narc ex had dead eyes and a strange smirk in all his pics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 10:03 AM
25

I'm really enjoying this video, thanks for posting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 07:25 PM
1

great comment, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 10:52 AM
8

I'm not religious but it sure does seem that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 10:44 AM
18

Great advice, thank you =)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 02:26 PM
153

This is the reality of the situation, and mostly why my life is so stress free these days. I've accepted this and am now trying to cultivate deeper and meaningful friendships with women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 11:04 AM
4

This is precisely why FDS was so life changing to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 04:23 AM
30

Same. Though not obsessed, I do like anime. I'm only interested in strong female characters though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 05:15 PM
6

It's just baffling how they are literally all the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 09:19 AM
5

...the accuracy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 06:57 PM
58

damn 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 01:48 PM
10

I swear most men are just interested in collecting women on their social media.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 09:24 AM
14

I dated a classic narc for two years, still trying to heal from the trauma, but now feeling better then ever. I honestly don't even know where to begin. He lovebombed me, and I didn't know the signs then so I fell for it. Once he saw that he had me, the abuse was constant and unrelenting. He would always deny flirting with girls behind my back online. (I had screenshots.) He would always ruin my birthday's and pick fights with me about how I was upset that he didn't get me any gifts. (He never o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 09:04 AM
5

That's why I always label the gifts ''From: Mommy'' EXCLUSIVELY! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 01:57 PM
10

No, all men do not do that, only the loser scrotes who see women as disposable do. You were right to leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 11:11 PM
2

I'm really traumatized from my ex's porn usage, and I've been repeating "Let him drown in it" in my head as a sort of mantra whenever he enters my thoughts. As bizarre as that sounds, it's been rather healing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 03:23 PM
8

What a jerk. Sending a hug your way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 09:23 AM
6

You're so right, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 09:18 AM
16

Mine too, I guarantee he was expecting something else 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 09:15 AM
3

FFS, that's exactly how it was for me. Ugh, sometimes I get so embarrassed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 09:12 AM
7

That's what I believe too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 07:09 AM
3

Exactly, can't trust a NVM. Thank you, I definitely will 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 11:13 PM
6

thank you 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 11:00 PM
8

I'm worried what he would do to me if I ever outed him. He hasn't shown himself to be violent, but he could be hiding that side to him. If he was some rando on the internet, it would be so much easier to just spill the beans, block and delete. Maybe that's their strategy all along..🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 10:58 PM
47

100% edit. : "interchangeable gf role" hit me hard. Ugh, I'm so glad it's over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 09:52 PM
107

the most intimate act you can do with someone..lib fems: "iTz NoT tHAT deEP" 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 09:39 PM
8

I need to work up the courage to do that. I'm finding it hard to navigate these things when it's likely I'd see him out and about. My plan right now is to just not respond. (I shouldn't have answered his IPA message, it was a mistake, but I've learned from it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 09:34 PM
11

I live abroad, we're the same nationality and frequent alot of the same areas. We also have the same acquaintances. 😑( I live in a small country.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 08:13 PM
45

I had to deal with it too, and I was so relieved I found this sub. I was linked here through someone commenting to "check out the ladies at FDS" from the exnocontact reddit. I knew I wasn't crazy for NOT wanting my "bf" to follow/comment on local girls/pornstars IG profiles and I knew I wasn't crazy for being upset about being triangulated with cam girls. I knew I wasn't crazy for wanting BASIC fucking respect in my relationship, and this sub confirmed everything for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 07:46 PM
52

There's an LVM pestering me from time to time that has a GF. He messaged me on IG, sending me a picture of a fancy IPA. I can't really block this guy atm, so I just respond to his communication requests blandly. Anyways, I ask him how he managed to get this expensive IPA, and he states "my GF made me an advent calendar with various beers". I just thought to myself, "Wow. She put in so much effort to please this man and here he is messaging me trying to get in my pants." I was disgusted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 07:36 PM
5

😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 11:01 AM
14

😂 that had me rolling 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 09:10 AM
103

Sorry New Yorker, I don't live in a fucking dumpster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 01:38 PM
21

This is the kind of internet content that convinces me to stay single. I feel SO stress free knowing I don't have to deal with any scrotes secretly comparing me to this, or wacking off to this as soon as I'm out the door. During the final stages of my recently ended relationship, my ex began following a really provocative pole dancer on IG that would post softcore porn basically and comment shit like "dance like you fuck", and "there's some whores in this house" and I just didn't understand why …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 07:42 PM
47

You remember that scene in The Lion King after Simba experiences the vision of his father, and once the clouds and dust settled Rafiki just busts out ''..what was DAT??"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 09:15 AM
2

I'm going to internalize this message. Thank you for posting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 10:07 PM
4

Yeah, he definitely wrote it. This crowd is really bottom of the barrel obviously. He's got alot of followers and they're all laughing at him. He's a joke, a pathetic one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 05:53 PM
5

yes ma'am, he is indeed. 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 01:36 PM
5

he's had around 3 new girls since, it usually only lasts a few days..no seriously. a few days and that's it. I know this because he's an oversharer on FB 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 08:10 AM
11

I'm familiar with who this is and this man is heavily into drugs, so are the women he pursues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 06:51 PM
6

This, all the way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 10:02 AM
11

My ex said the same thing! He felt like he was "walking on eggshells" because he couldnt stop following new girls to wank off to on IG! 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 07:23 AM
16

Ah huh. My NVM ex broke up with me abruptly after I asked him why he kept ignoring, and being short with me. Everytime I challenged him on ANYTHING aka figure out his bullshit and call him out he'd have a grown man meltdown.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 01:08 PM
70

oh didn't you know? this is eMpOwErIng.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 05:10 PM
9

My ex did this. I had a gut feeling some shady shit was happening over at IG so I decided to take a look at who he was following, and good god, it mostly softcore porn actresses or normal girls that were extremely busty. I decided to CoMuNiCaTe with him about it and he started crying, saying his comments on their profile were just ''jokes''. i was such a desperate pickmeisha at the time, it was ME who ended up comforting HIM. 🤡 Did this behavior stop? No, every single time I talked to him about …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 09:14 AM
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