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| 1 | Even the term "male loneliness epidemic" is bigoted...My man--sad for you! Good luck in your obvious threat-response. Hope you can learn to rejoin the humans in real life. | /r/MensRights | 13/04/26 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Even the term "male loneliness epidemic" is bigoted...Not really true about all men being blamed for the bad ones--because good men recognize women have a right to be cautious: it is based on real experiences (their mothers, grandmothers, sisters, cousins, friends). The stakes are high: femicide by partners is terrifying and more common than it should be. Now, I think the chronic attempts to say WOMEN ARE THIS, MEN ARE THAT is actually a distractor. Sociopaths (of any gender) are the problem. Anybody trying to make blanket statements about women, m… | /r/MensRights | 10/04/26 11:15 AM |
| 1 | 🧔 She spent a year living as a man.Meh. There are also short and submissive men deeply loved by their partners. The fact is, and I used to not understand this: you need to love yourself. That means your inner talk validates what you want, then you persue that and risk, but know that if you don't succeed every time, or even alot of times, that you are worthy and will find the way. All this negative chatter is self-fulfilling. These are oldies but goodies: can't never could. there's somebody for everybody. | /r/MensRights | 09/04/26 09:10 PM |
| 0 | 🧔 She spent a year living as a man.Ah, for you, also anger management. | /r/MensRights | 09/04/26 03:27 PM |
| 0 | I'm terrified of how easily a false accusation can destroy a man's life.Basic is definitely the word. | /r/MensRights | 09/04/26 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Even the term "male loneliness epidemic" is bigoted...So start one--you know that is why womens' spaces exist, right? Because women started them? | /r/MensRights | 07/04/26 11:26 AM |
| 1 | Even the term "male loneliness epidemic" is bigoted...There are still mens' spaces. If you need it, invite buddies for a camping trip or a fishing day. Or just a walk down the rivers' edge, skip some stones or a fave of mine: play penny can or a trash cleanup. You can go to men's retreats or go to a men's meditation retreat if you have time and figure out saving for that. Focus on healthy people. Really, good men and women exist in the same proportion as shitty ones. Remember to tailor who you surround yourself with: there are sociopaths---and sain… | /r/MensRights | 07/04/26 07:01 AM |
| 0 | Hating men is a productMen and Women are awful in equal amounts. Put your focus on healthy people, move away from the unhealthy ones. Build supportive community and friendships--with women and men. Move slow into sexual relationships. Practice complete communication. Don't freak out if you're rejected. It happens. Your brain processes it like it is physical injury--BUT IT ISN'T. Learn to distinguish that and move on. | /r/MensRights | 07/04/26 05:18 AM |
| 1 | 🧔 She spent a year living as a man.You'll be okay. Focus on connecting with kind and healthy people in real life. Volunteering is a great way to connect with caring people. | /r/MensRights | 07/04/26 05:11 AM |
| 0 | 🧔 She spent a year living as a man.So start building real community. Accepting other men as they are. Support each other. Become reliable and non-judgemental for other men. | /r/MensRights | 07/04/26 05:10 AM |
| 1 | 🧔 She spent a year living as a man.this comment is pretty anathema to the sub: men who are short and submissive are good men, too. men can have the freedom to be themselves, if they cut off toxic, judgmental people. there are plenty of short and/or submissive men living healthy, happy, loved lives. stop labling them as shitty. | /r/MensRights | 07/04/26 05:07 AM |
| 0 | 🧔 She spent a year living as a man.I mean...it seems pretty clear she wasn't super mentally healthy, anyway. Should have spent the time building healthy, honest community. Living a lie isn't gonna give good data. | /r/MensRights | 07/04/26 05:03 AM |
| 2 | I'm terrified of how easily a false accusation can destroy a man's life.Hey, I'm sorry that happened. In this life, shit happens. You can move on. It does go away. Remember you can move on, get therapy if you can't figure out how. If you're ruminating and having this disempowered internal dialogue, you need to call on re-enforcements. There ARE genuinely sociopathic people out there. We all bump up against them in some way. The key is remembering there are genuinely people at the other end of the spectrum. Don't let a bad experience steal your joy or future love. | /r/MensRights | 07/04/26 04:54 AM |
| 1 | I'm terrified of how easily a false accusation can destroy a man's life.bad bot | /r/MensRights | 07/04/26 04:50 AM |
| 1 | I'm terrified of how easily a false accusation can destroy a man's life.This is the lesson: don't stay with red flags like this. Leave. Respect yourself. There are just as many rotten men as women---so learn to ally yourself with healthy ones. Avoid the rest. Take care of yourself, man. | /r/MensRights | 07/04/26 04:49 AM |
| 1 | I'm terrified of how easily a false accusation can destroy a man's life.I'd argue the percentage of men and women that are twats is same. Focus your energy on healthy people. | /r/MensRights | 07/04/26 04:45 AM |
| 1 | I'm terrified of how easily a false accusation can destroy a man's life.But also, learn to spot good women. You can build friendships with them and, just like Not All Men---Not All Women. Go slow, get to know people. Ya, 50% of populations probably fall on the mean/callous/self-serving side, but you can volunteer, build friendships with healthy people and join in the other half. Good luck, brother. | /r/MensRights | 07/04/26 04:43 AM |
| 1 | I'm terrified of how easily a false accusation can destroy a man's life.Good work for getting therapy, man. This is the skill-up men need. It is okay to leave bad relationships. It is wise to do so. Sunk-cost fallacy is something everyone needs to understand. It's ok to start over. Glad you're growing. | /r/MensRights | 07/04/26 04:38 AM |
| 1 | I'm terrified of how easily a false accusation can destroy a man's life.Soooo. Ya. Don't stay in toxic situations. If you feel this way, leave. | /r/MensRights | 07/04/26 04:32 AM |
| 1 | I'm terrified of how easily a false accusation can destroy a man's life.I mean, can we acknowledge if that is the culture/people that workplace has--you don't want to be there? It sucks, but jesus! Lucky never to go back there. | /r/MensRights | 07/04/26 04:30 AM |
| 1 | I'm terrified of how easily a false accusation can destroy a man's life.We can't seriously fail to see Not All Men and not realize Not All Women, right? It is really the same proportion of everyone. This forum should focus on building solidarity and community. Leave when there are red flags. By having a supportive network of healthy people, you will meet healthy, stable women. Go slow, don't rush into things. Deal with your past shit--get a therapist if you are fixating on anger, fear and blame. | /r/MensRights | 07/04/26 04:27 AM |
| 1 | I'm terrified of how easily a false accusation can destroy a man's life.Dropped I mean, that sounds terrible, but you should have left a long time before. Men can own ignoring red flags when shit goes sideways. Yes, sometimes it is blindsiding--but this sounds like you stayed when you shouldn't have. No worries---you can move on and learn to recognize red flags. Just like Not All Men, Not All Women. Keep your head up. | /r/MensRights | 07/04/26 04:16 AM |
| 2 | I'm terrified of how easily a false accusation can destroy a man's life.Alot of toxic people everywhere. So what. Focus your energy on building alliances with good people, taking care of yourself and don't ignore red flags. | /r/MensRights | 07/04/26 04:14 AM |
| 1 | I'm terrified of how easily a false accusation can destroy a man's life.Meh---ya, alot of people do. But seriously? So much of this entire sub and this post is talking about men being victims. This sub should be a generator of how men can support each other, instead most of it is pointing fingers at women. Such hypocrisy, such irony. Build solid friendships, networks. Learn how to move slow with women, and stop overlooking red flags because you want to smash. Learn to be friends first, to know more of their character. The demonization of a whole gender based on the … | /r/MensRights | 07/04/26 04:11 AM |
| 5 | What 1,700 Studies on Domestic Violence Actually FoundMeh--no--I've seen a couple of men in the ER injured by women (throwing dishes and pushing into glass door)...but I've seen ALOT of women injured really badly in myriad ways. Anyone turning to violence is in the wrong, no cap. The reality is men (and women) need to skill up: anger management, socializing and good communication techniques. DV goes up with intoxication--so ya, avoid that, too. Learn to enjoy music, friendship, drinkin water and jokin. Ladies love a fun, connected, open dude. | /r/MensRights | 07/04/26 04:01 AM |
| 0 | Even the term "male loneliness epidemic" is bigoted...I think women who worry about the men that are rapists is sensible. It is hard to tell who is doing that, so ya, I think women have pretty good reason to be are on guard. You think cases coming out like Gisele Pelicot make women more confident? Epstein shit? Harvey Weinstein? Men need to learn to move slower, learn how to be friends with each other and with women. Building trust takes time, and women have wised up to men just trying to smash and then trash them as hoes. | /r/MensRights | 07/04/26 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Even the term "male loneliness epidemic" is bigoted...I see fear of being perceived as effeminate or gay as undermining men in the US building friendships. C'mon guys: skill up. It's okay to ask men to shoot some hoops in the park or, shit, play penny can or Dude Perfect type-stuff in the living room and drink water, if you're broke. Networks make men more successful, too. It's ok to talk about your troubles, too. Other men have input and support. If they don't, they're the problem. | /r/MensRights | 07/04/26 03:43 AM |
| 0 | Even the term "male loneliness epidemic" is bigoted...You have some good points, but I am baffled why men argue for mens' disempowerment. Blaming this on women is nuts. Men need to skill up: build friendships (hiking/walks, football, cooking/bbqing dinner together, all low cost ways of socializing). Hate to say it, but blaming economics is wrong, too--I can't help but notice the comraderie of Mexican, Guatemalan, etc. men on worksites. They have comparatively little, but lots of friendship and fun. | /r/MensRights | 07/04/26 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Even the term "male loneliness epidemic" is bigoted...Actually, after 40, men contribute genetic anomalies at equal rates (Down Syndrome, etc). Women pushed for independence because men weren't reliable partners or providers, and often physically injured them, or brought home syphillis from cheating. Men can take responsibility for this and become partners women want to rely on, that make them actually safer. Is it a surprise women didn't like the risk of not being able to leave while watching these men beat or molest her kids? Or of ending up with… | /r/MensRights | 07/04/26 03:31 AM |
| -1 | Even the term "male loneliness epidemic" is bigoted...Women aren't as lonely because they turn to female friendship for care, support and connection. Men need to learn to do the same together. Women are rightfully afraid of social outcasts, who want to rely only on them for their emotional processing. Men need to get stablized with friendship. This is a skill you practice. Ya, you'll get rejected sometimes, but keep going. Shootin the shit and playin penny can is a good way to get to know new friends on a budget. | /r/MensRights | 07/04/26 03:23 AM |
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