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| 1 | Never become a "Step Father"“Exceptions are the situations outside of the average, not always extreme outliers.” I don’t entirely agree with that if a succesful or disfunctional minority is 30%, 40% or nearly a half, etc. So I will use that specific language you proposed: outside of average vs outlier/extreme, or substantial minority vs outlier/extreme. I still think that being outside of an average is not the same as being an outlier. The probability of good and bad outcomes is not the same in “outside of average” situati… | /r/MensRights | 30/06/26 05:04 PM |
| 2 | Never become a "Step Father"Thanks for your comment! Here is what I think: “The exceptions don’t make the rule,” When I think about an exception, I think about millionaires, criminals, politicians, Nobel Prize winners, celebrities, high and low IQ people, etc. It is so likely that most people will never be millionaires (that’s the rule at least in the current economic system, and the system is the important context; not necessarily every context would prevent people from wealth –which deserves another conversation–, but in… | /r/MensRights | 30/06/26 03:27 PM |
| 2 | Never become a "Step Father"I'm not sure I understood what you meant, so I thought about some points (sorry if I overthink or explain too much, I don't do it to annoy people). Perhaps the central part of your comment is: "When something is unlikely to work out, probably you shouldn't do it". At first, it is true... however, I think it's more complicated. Likelihoods are not the only measure of outcomes and correctness of decision-making, we have to put them in a context (that's what I will talk about): ▪️︎ Several positive… | /r/MensRights | 25/06/26 03:05 AM |
| 11 | Never become a "Step Father"This is like saying "do not marry at all" or "do not have relationships", and is a trend I see in men and women equally on the Internet: they fear each other because of bad experiences and stories. I decided to stay single (having myself a wonderful stepfather, who is my real father), but still I'm hesitant to give advice based on my fears and risk aversion (many women do the same to other women, and I don't believe most men would like being generalized as disrespectful or deceitful only because… | /r/MensRights | 24/06/26 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Never become a "Step Father"The data is true, and at the same time it doesn't necessarily mean that "the majority of step-parents are abusers" just because cases of abuse are highlighted in certain contexts. Would someone say with certainty that staying with my biological father would have been more beneficial and less abusive to me? I seriously doubt it. I know my biological father personally, and most of my memories of him are bad (the earliest and the most recent as well): he is generally "kind" in mundane conversation,… | /r/MensRights | 24/06/26 11:59 AM |
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