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| – | Real talk, why is RP so obsessed with women’s age?While I agree that there are many men who don’t hate women, there is only one man I have met in my entire life who actually treats men and women the same. Every other man sees you as a woman first, human being second. That subtle difference is enough to let the subconscious societally learned misogyny to kick in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/23 02:09 PM |
| 2 | Is your current partner the best sex of your life?No, but he’s inexperienced and we’re just starting to figure things out. No, I do not fantasize about my ex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 10:33 AM |
| 2 | Do you personally think we should all avoid bleaching as much as possible, especially for us dark haired ladies? Is the color change ever worth the damage?My natural hair color is black and I’ve had my hair bleached for a long time before and just keeping it bleached and colored was very expensive and time consuming. Keeping it healthy was even more complicated. To me the effort was not worth it especially because my partner always preferred my hair to be long, natural and healthy over anything else but that’s just my experience. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/06/21 01:02 AM |
| 9 | Which current beauty/makeup/hair/fashion trends do you love and hate and why?I absolutely love cottagecore and the long floral dresses that it brought and I also love the sunkissed blush placement. I’m really not into overlining the cupid’s bow, I just know everyone will regret that in a few years. The overall silhouette of the current fashion is just very unappealing to me, I don’t like the tiny cropped cardigans and I hate those damned Dior saddle bags. I also really don’t get why v shaped bikini bottoms are so trendy right now, so many girls are pulling their bottoms … | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/06/21 12:47 AM |
| 2 | I feel like I do not emit that “feminine energy” that men are attracted to. Will I have trouble finding a partner?Hi! I also have a kind of masculine personality but once I met my current partner I naturally became more feminine to contrast his masculine energy. So while that feminine energy attracts a lot of men it isn’t absolutely necessary in finding a partner. Also in my experience I’ve noticed that men find positive happy women very attractive, so there’s that too. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/06/21 12:25 AM |
| 2 | AWALT is a feature, not a bug.Well yeah, I forgot to include “feel protected”. Typically feminine women are attracted to men with masculine features (that instinctively get registered as an ability to protect) and those men are less likely to be good at expressing love in a way women understand, in my experience. Idk about “I am independent and as strong as a man” women though.. They might be more attracted to feminine men as long as they’re not lying to themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 01:02 PM |
| 1 | For a woman, it's way more profitable to be dumb and hot than nice and kind.Well looks are very important for men but if you only have looks it’s much easier for those men to dump you and move on to the next hot girl. It kind of depends on your goal. If you want a long lasting relationship you have to balance attractiveness with something else, like at least be obedient or something | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 08:45 AM |
| 2 | AWALT is a feature, not a bug.This is always so funny and frustrating to me as a woman. It’s simple (in my mind), women want to feel loved, valued and appreciated and they will do all sorts of stuff to get that feeling. Problem is women also don’t understand the way men typically show love and appreciation and it’s all this big dumb lack of understanding between the sexes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 08:17 AM |
| 2 | Dating social skills are rarely factored in when talking about the "average man", and that's a problemYes!! Thank you! It’s so hard to explain this in a way that men in this sub can understand | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 07:58 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Online dating (OLD) is the most 'Honest' and 'Truthful' way to find out how attractive you are as a man.Are we talking about physical attractiveness or what? The mf wouldn’t be so famous if the entire community of tumblr girls didn’t thirst over him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/21 02:05 AM |
| -1 | CMV: Online dating (OLD) is the most 'Honest' and 'Truthful' way to find out how attractive you are as a man.Are you going to tell me straight to my face that Benedict Cumberbatch is good looking? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/21 01:59 AM |
| -1 | CMV: Online dating (OLD) is the most 'Honest' and 'Truthful' way to find out how attractive you are as a man.If you mean physically attractive, not really. Have you heard of the ugly hot vs hot ugly thing? A lot of women have a thing for kind of ugly men. Looks don’t really matter as much as height, dominance and satisfying mental crap. If you mean attractive overall then yeah lol you find someone attractive because you vibe with them ig | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/21 01:55 AM |
| -2 | CMV: Online dating (OLD) is the most 'Honest' and 'Truthful' way to find out how attractive you are as a man.Physical attractiveness, yeah, maybe, if the man knows how to dress and take pictures of himself (and most men don’t), but overall attractiveness? Definitely not. Physical attractiveness isn’t really the most important thing a woman looks for in a partner, it’s about how strong and healthy he seems to her and how protected she feels+ whatever traits can match the mental issues she might have. There are a ton of men who seem a lot more attractive to women irl than on tinder. I personally know a f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/21 01:36 AM |
| 2 | Do women underestimate the strength of smaller men?Yes. Unless they see it for themselves most women will think a man shorter than them will be weaker. However knowing shorter men are still physically stronger probably won’t change their preference to taller men. Women feel. If a woman FEELS like the man is strong it’s fine. If she feels like he’s weak he’s not an option. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/21 12:12 AM |
| 17 | Modern women appear to be lost. Many are seeking external validation and media messages do not help. Should we try to help our fellow sister or is it every woman for themselves?You cannot help someone who doesn’t want to be helped and it is not in our right to decide whether or not we should change someone. Personally, I give my advice whenever they ask for it and they listen if they want to (they usually say it’s too hard to do what I tell them and don’t listen lol) | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/03/21 04:59 PM |
| 2 | [Q4All] Do women in general actually enjoy being smaller and weaker than men?Than men in general? Mehh. Than the men they’re in a relationship with? Yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/21 04:55 PM |
| 3 | What is a superficially unattractive man from your point of view?A posture that gives away lack of confidence destroys any good looking man. I don’t want a cute man, I want a man I can rely on. Fat and bad hygiene are also big dealbreakers and so is obsession with appearance (men who wax their eyebrows, know way too much about fashion, take instagram-worthy selfies, etc.). In terms of hight, I used to think I only want the tallest men but turns out a shorter, confident man is way hotter than a tall and awkward one. I’d still limit myself to men taller than me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/21 10:38 AM |
| 7 | Boyfriend liking girls picturesThis is absolutely not okay and you deserve better than that. Why even is this such a common problem lately? | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/03/21 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Is your current boyfriend in the top 20% of men looks wise?He’s a really good looking man when he puts in a crumb of effort but by PPD standards I’d say no just because he’s not that tall. What makes him insanely attractive to me though is his masculine attitude that ironically also prevents him from putting in much effort into his appearance lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/21 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Girls who want kids? Do you ever look at the downsides to liking certain physical characteristics for your future children?No, both me and my partner look fine. I worry about my children’s education and health | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/21 02:08 PM |
| 2 | Why RP women traditionalists?Agree except for the mgtow part. I feel like mgtows are just men who were only hurt and never felt the benefits a woman can bring | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/21 01:49 PM |
| 8 | Why RP women traditionalists?Traditional women want traditional men. It’s not like RP women want to date RP men. Both groups are looking for different things. My partner isn’t “red pilled”, he’s a traditional man. Personally, I don’t mind my partner having some experience (quite the opposite actually, I prefer somewhat experienced men because I consider that men need to grow and figure things out once they reach a certain age), but I definitely don’t consider an extremely promiscuous man to be able to settle down and be com… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/21 01:31 PM |
| 6 | Why RP women traditionalists?From my understanding RP women are traditionalists because if men want sex, women want commitment and traditionalism would be the way to get it. I don’t believe women are naturally the way the red pill describes them to be and I’m sure a lot of other traditional women feel the same way, therefore RPW can’t really match normal RP. I joined RPW because I’m a traditional woman, not because of the red pill although I’m familiar with it. It’s hard to find a community of traditional women without them… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/21 09:35 AM |
| 2 | Encouraging boyfriends masculinityThis is not exactly a solution to OP’s problem but I think a lot of people here forget that you need to compromise in a relationship. If my man doesn’t want me fat I’ll do my best to stay thin, if he wants more meat on my bones I’ll try to gain weight. He likes me in skirts and dresses, I try to wear them more. It’s something I can change and I have no problem with because I love him and I want to make him happy. Similarly if I’m worried that he’s starting to lose too much weight he will try to … | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/03/21 01:13 PM |
| 19 | How do you stay strong?My mother taught me that a man gets his energy from his wife. She is the one who motivates him and gives him the power to do anything. If you have negative energy, he will recieve negative energy and things will work against him, if you radiate positive energy, he will have more power to get past the problems he faces and things will work in his favor. The first time I heard this I felt like this is unfair, how am I supposed to always be positive when I also have my own troubles? I was mad at it… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/02/21 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Is passing your genes and having kids that important ?I think for most people it’s just a natural instinct. Making more of them is the reason any species does anything they do after all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/20 01:39 AM |
| 2 | Happy long-lasting LTRs generally only work if you're really good friends with each otherI’m amazed at that amount of couples that are like this but being in a relationship with someone because you have some small interest like music or a favorite movie in common seems pretty risky to me. I’m not saying you can’t meet someone who you could spend the rest of your life with through having something in common but if all you talk about is that shared interest you might want to get ready for the relationship to end once one of you eventually loses that interest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/20 01:06 AM |
| 2 | Study finds marriage is in decline mainly due to a lack of "economically attractive" menThe whole point of a man is for him to make more money. Feminists claim to want equality but it’s natural for any woman to be attracted to a provider. It’s hardwired in their brains | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/20 12:42 AM |
| 1 | What’re you girls doing for Halloween?I’m hoping I can move in with my boyfriend until then and bake some pumpkin pie. We don’t celebrate Halloween in my home country so usually it’s just a normal day but I get all excited when I see someone wearing a costume | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/09/20 12:26 AM |
| 4 | Do y’all like women?They feel as they can’t depend on men, and understandably so. You can’t raise a child with a useless low quality man. Frustration builds up, child is taught that men are bad, angry single mothers create more angry single mothers and/or self hating low quality men, and so the vicious cycle is formed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/20 04:21 AM |
| 2 | Who has benefitted more from women's sexual liberation: women, men, or some subset?No one. Especially not women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/20 01:50 AM |
| 2 | Do you lose friends when they get into serious relationships?My friends lost me when I got into a serious relationship. Wasn’t really much of a honeymoon phase either. The main reason is that my friends and I used to drink and go shopping every weekend but I’m tight on money right now and I never have the time for hangovers anymore because I’m trying to get somewhere with my life. Friends took this as a sign of me distancing myself from them so it kind of ended there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/20 01:14 AM |
| 3 | [Q4Women] Among those of you who have kids (or want some in the future), would you object to your son regularly visiting/dating prostitutes?I definitely wouldn’t let him and his dad would probably give him a beating and man him up enough to get a proper relationship with a girl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/20 08:29 AM |
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