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See I tended to think like you do, that not all women will just drop everything and branch swing, and I took contention with this portion of RP, though never voiced it. What I have come to believe, is that RP is in fact right, that AWALT but the difference is in the time it takes for them to revert to it. Some, for whatever reason be it, moral, religious, or just plain loyalty, will stay with a beta man for a longer length of time than others. But EVERYONE's got a breaking point. Some will hold …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/15 06:37 PM
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Exactly! Saying the right thing is best, saying nothing is second best, and saying the wrong thing is the worst.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/15 12:50 PM
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About two months solid. I have almost no body fat so every single gram of muscle shows. I rip up very very quick. I have worked out on and off throughout my adult life, and after a period of slacking off, one trip to the gym will show results for me. Probably wont work that way for everyone though. Two months for me is enough to start making the wife want it. I'm trying to gain ten pounds right now and I will be where I want to be.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/15 12:49 PM
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As a side note, it was about five o'clock when we got home, not bed time yet.She went to the bed in the guest room, because ours squeaks. We only ever use that bed for sex. We did take a good nap afterwords. My intentions were exactly as you said, to reinforce that closeness comes from sex. Bluepillprofessor's words stuck with me....she's only your wife when she's fucking you...It just hit home. The difference between a wife and your bro is the fact that you have sex. No sex, and she's essential…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/15 12:47 PM
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This is the truth. And it is funny. What I've come to realize on this particular thread, is I know my situation infinitely better than anyone on here does, and I know better how to handle it. I'm wasting my time, and so I will check out. My wife is not cheating on me as people on here suggest. Call me a poor blue pill schmuck who's gonna flush his marriage down the drain. Go ahead. I'm checking out, and I'm going to go handle my shit better than any one here can. If I remember the password to my…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/15 02:28 PM
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Fair enough. What would you suggest?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/15 01:38 PM
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My takeaway so far: Talking=bad Action=good. I will say, because everyone is mentioning this, that she fell asleep IMMEDIATELY after I came to bed, I mean immediately. The "cordial exchange" was literally two sentences, then she was out. The reason I emphasize this is because I know it is hard to fall asleep without your spouse, if you have been sleeping in the same bed for a while, and even if I am dead tired I can stare at the ceiling for two hours awake if I am in bed alone. THIS IS JUST LOOK…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/15 12:58 PM
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This is a good view point, and what I am looking for. I know the standard advice, dread, withdraw attention, more dread, etc etc. But this is a different view point that I hadn't quite thought about. Actually she has gotten naked for some BJ's, but is ABSOLUTELY opposed to me going down on her. When we first got married, I would do it alot, I enjoy it, but now there's no way in hell. In fact, a while ago, before things started getting better she hopped in bed naked one day after a week dry spell…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/15 12:46 PM
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I am acutely aware of that...more so said that for the sake of being concise. It's a big problem, hence why I am asking strangers on the internet for advice.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/15 12:38 PM
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You're right. This is what I needed to hear. OI has been really good so far, but it will be harder when I start trying harder, and I will. I can't really pinpoint the exact time I went beta, but probably some time during pregnancy. I've caught myself at a pretty good time and though almost completely sent the marriage into a tailspin, have reemerged and set the new dynamic with me as the leader I should be. All the changes with pregnancy and a new kid really are a good time to start fresh, eithe…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/15 06:13 PM
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So this is for future reference. As a side note, I have gotten a few BJ's, and could probably get them more often if I asked for them, if not for my sort-of fast. This reinforces my thoughts that it is a "I don't want to use my body as a vending machine" sort of thing, and a good plan might be to actually give my wife a break and not demand much of her right now. And yeah, looking back I really screwed up during the pregnancy. I'd give anything to have her that horny again.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/15 05:46 PM
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Well, its kind of weird. Its been about five months, baby is just now starting to eat real food. Recently she acts alot more turned on. I am wondering if there is a correlation between breast feeding less and her sex drive coming back. She makes comments every now and then about how bad she wants it, but always at impossible times, like in the car on the way to the grocery store with the baby wide awake and needing attention. Because of my sort-of fast, I haven't really pushed it when I get shut…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/15 05:37 PM
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I didn't make that connection...I knew oxytocin was post coital and that it was released during nursing, but for whatever reason didn't connect those dots. It makes sense.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/15 04:36 PM
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