mpbarry37 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Why do redpillers separate people in low and high quality? They’re both about male improvement 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 02:29 AM
1	Where exactly are women "being blamed" for having negative interactions with men, and why is the solution to "treat all men as potential ______?" What is the point here - that political correctness exists? Of course it does. The question is - do we want the same sensitivity to our feelings to extend to men in general or do we want women to continue being honest with us, because we can handle the truth? The behaviour wouldn’t change either way	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/21 10:33 AM
1	Where exactly are women "being blamed" for having negative interactions with men, and why is the solution to "treat all men as potential ______?" Deluded or..?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/21 10:09 AM
7	Where exactly are women "being blamed" for having negative interactions with men, and why is the solution to "treat all men as potential ______?" The prejudice only extends to safety decisions though. It’s a tactical worst case assumption for safety, not a tactical worst case assumption to put men down. Consider earthquakes in some areas - sure they’re statistically unlikely to be a big one to cause life threatening damage, but let’s assume there will be one next year and fortify our buildings to be able to withstand it anyway	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/21 10:06 AM
1	CMV. The Bar for men is not set low for relationships or sex, despite what women tell you. Yeah I’m sure they’re capable of figuring that one out. Assuming a chad is just an attractive womanising guy ? If it’s just someone who is attractive and on that basis has a lot of female interest, I don’t know why you’d want women not to go for that if they’re interested, just like I would never discourage you from going for an attractive woman just because other men are interested. I hear this quite often with those very low match numbers and honestly in my experience there is a lot of things …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/21 07:57 AM
1	CMV. The Bar for men is not set low for relationships or sex, despite what women tell you. As in women have more options for sex than men, because almost all men want sex all of the time, but they don't, as a whole, have more options for relationships than men Yes men who only want to have sex with you and not a relationship with you don't want a relationship with you. Just as women who only want to have sex with you and not a relationship with you don't want a relationship with you. Some women do have unrealistic hopes not grounded in reality, but also some men lead a woman on and hi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/21 07:10 AM
3	CMV. The Bar for men is not set low for relationships or sex, despite what women tell you. I’m curious as to what kind of men the toxic female dating strategy types like you ever get with I bet their success rates for landing the “HVM” they covet are near zero and they’re years away from figuring out why	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/21 05:53 AM
1	CMV. The Bar for men is not set low for relationships or sex, despite what women tell you. Behaviourly it’s pretty low and yeah it’s more about just not fucking it up (for casual things) Though it varies - some have super high standards. Physically I wouldn’t know as I only have my experiences	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/21 05:47 AM
0	CMV. The Bar for men is not set low for relationships or sex, despite what women tell you. More options for sex, sure. Not more options for relationships	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/21 05:45 AM
1	Does the advice of “just be confident bro” work for unattractive women? Thank you for saying that - same to you actually I think we’ve covered a good amount of relevant ideas	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/21 04:14 AM
1	Does the advice of “just be confident bro” work for unattractive women? A lot of this is good but there's more to some claims here. Though your response is now going to dilute the more useful things I was going to bring up.. So be it It is true that uncertainty is often a new stressor and a natural cause of some anxiety It is also true that levels of confidence and the levels of anxiety felt there greatly vary across people in the same or similar level of unfamiliarity. There is more at play. A confident person would probably notice the nerves and increased energy a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/21 07:27 PM
3	Does the advice of “just be confident bro” work for unattractive women? Important to distinguish dominant from domineering here - a domineering personality is associated with anxiety and insecurity - the opposite of confidence	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/21 10:05 AM
3	Does the advice of “just be confident bro” work for unattractive women? There are certainly ways to become more confident, which can be quite complex, especially if anxiety or deep insecurities are involved	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/21 10:00 AM
1	Does the advice of “just be confident bro” work for unattractive women? The pattern I’ve seen is insecure guys seeking out insecure women	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/21 09:56 AM
3	Does the advice of “just be confident bro” work for unattractive women? Absolutely, yes Confidence itself might receive less of a premium than for men, but I really wouldn’t put it much lower. The opposite- insecurity- is almost always a negative and completely detrimental and destructive to dating sooner or later If you’re confident in yourself you’re more likely to be able to be your best self I’ve seen physically unattractive but socially competent, confident, intelligent and funny women with game do extremely well with men I’ve seen unattractive women bag the gu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/21 09:45 AM
2	What to say when talking to a woman Definitely agree. We're all human, have wants and dreams, goals. Power dynamics probs more complex	/r/seduction	26/03/20 08:55 PM
1	What do you find most difficult about feeling calm and just being OK with where you are now? Thoughts about the pressures of the things that need to be done!	/r/seduction	23/03/20 06:08 AM
7	How do I stop being a nice guy? That's great advice for the long term for sure and has come from years of experience It's more geared towards finding and settling down with the right long-term partner. Which is no small thing in life, indeed should be one of the most important things. But it seems like you just want a bit more game and to be honest to have more regular sexual encounters with women. Less laudable of an idea but certainly nothing wrong with it. Though being genuine and authentic is an excellent way to develop th…	/r/seduction	23/03/20 04:23 AM
11	How do I stop being a nice guy? Please don’t go that route The bad "nice guy" stereotype is someone who isn't the things you've described. They're entitled, needy and flip out as soon as they don't get what they want from a girl and subsequently develop a chip on their shoulder about it The things you've described are positive qualities, well sought out by women. There's likely other issues going on here and I'd have to see your profile and conversations to know for sure. I was a late bloomer with one long term relationship an…	/r/seduction	23/03/20 04:10 AM
1	Why You Should Be Rejecting Attractive Women (infield compilation) Those definitions clearly imply a proposal, request, want or expectation None of these were present in the video He didn't reject anyone weirdo	/r/seduction	23/03/20 01:39 AM
1	Why You Should Be Rejecting Attractive Women (infield compilation) So if you approach a girl indirectly and she tells you to fuck off, she didn't reject you. If you've approached them with the intention or expectation of getting something from her, even if that something is a casual conversation or her time of day and her actions or words deny that possibility, she has rejected that request. If you wanted to pursue her romantically and there was a mutual understanding of this, yes, she has rejected you. These definitions make it pretty clear: Oxford: the dismis…	/r/seduction	23/03/20 01:29 AM
1	Why You Should Be Rejecting Attractive Women (infield compilation) They never gave him anything to reject	/r/seduction	23/03/20 01:23 AM
3	How to successfully approach groups of girls Really like this post. Rare on this subreddit Address the whole group and don’t ignore anyone. Be cool, confident, not even slightly arrogant, and don’t take yourself too seriously. Give the group more fun with you than they had before you arrived. Be grounded and self assured within yourself. This was particularly interesting and actually advanced You’re far more likely to be accepted by the group if the leader likes you.	/r/seduction	22/03/20 09:41 PM
28	What to say when talking to a woman 8/10 “Hey you look fucking hot” A lot of girls do genuinely hate that. It's not about it being creepy, it's not creepy. It's about it being bland, vain, uninteresting. Some girls will like it but it's an unnecessary gambit. You could just say "Hey, looking good" then transition into something more emotive or be more specific "makeup is on point" etc. Or just make them laugh, don't be lazy Stay away from subjects that could be interpreted as creepy – if you are interested in famous rapists or ser…	/r/seduction	22/03/20 09:25 PM
2	How to make the girl feel as though she's being taken on an 'adventure'? Ha Raise the age by 20 years	/r/seduction	22/03/20 08:31 PM
-2	5 Golden Rules To A Successful Tinder Profile (+STEAL MY PROFILE!) U2 👌	/r/seduction	22/03/20 07:31 AM
1	5 Golden Rules To A Successful Tinder Profile (+STEAL MY PROFILE!) Photofeeler.com is a great tool	/r/seduction	22/03/20 07:27 AM
4	Why You Should Be Rejecting Attractive Women (infield compilation) This video has got to be a fucking joke right. He’s just having casual conversations with people who are busy on their way to something. The “rejection” of him not asking them out is all in his head That said what you’ve written here is correct. If there isn’t chemistry there isn’t chemistry. Just don’t go around striking up awkwardly polite conversations just to “not ask them out” and assume you’ve rejected anything And if you’re starting with hey I thought you were cute that’s perfectly fine a…	/r/seduction	22/03/20 07:19 AM
3	Why You Should Be Rejecting Attractive Women (infield compilation) Jesus	/r/seduction	22/03/20 07:18 AM
1	How to make the girl feel as though she's being taken on an 'adventure'? Think of an adventure Take them on it	/r/seduction	22/03/20 01:28 AM
2	About 'stockpiling' rejections Fuck me I’d be terrified of asking someone out who I knew from a group setting Why not go the easy option with tinder / relative strangers. No awkwardness of dealing with the post rejection interactions 😂 plus the app sorts out the people who are actually interested in you / you them for you Good on you for going for it but you definitely jumped into the deep end	/r/seduction	21/03/20 06:24 AM
8	The most important thing when texting a girl is you should utilize the phone as a tool to set a date not texting back and forth. If you text a girl back and forth it kills the mystery and it kills the fun of getting to know each other in person. ( also showed text break down in the video ) Ehh. Don’t be scared of text conversation. Not does it dry up the process of getting to know the person. If anything it can be used to build rapport trust and interest. But yes to quickly making a move for a date in person. That’s why you succeeded, because you confidently escalated to the thing you actually need to do lol	/r/seduction	21/03/20 06:22 AM
4	Weird breakthrough on rejection It's something that needs to be cultivated I think just thinking it through is the best way to do that. Knowing that there are countless options available. Knowing it doesn't reflect on you as a person. Accepting that not every match will lead to a flowing conversation (indeed the majority of them won't) and this is universal no matter how good looking one is	/r/seduction	20/03/20 11:01 PM
4	Weird breakthrough on rejection Yaaah. There's no losing really, you just learn something so you can win/succeed the next time Like any game really	/r/seduction	20/03/20 10:57 PM
3	What’s do you say or do to a girl that puts herself down? Don't over think it but you can be a bit cheeky and deny the compliment fish I used to laugh at her and say "are you fishing for compliments now?" with the fishing rod emoji or something similar. Keep it lighthearted You could definitely say "I know or well at least you have a cute (x)" but make it clear you're joking if you do want to go the backhanded compliment / push pull route. You're always funnier when you don't give (too much of) a fuck. If it doesn't work just learn from the experience …	/r/seduction	20/03/20 03:07 AM
1	I’m trying to get a girlfriend but I have no idea what to do Tinder, practice makes perfect, poke fun, tease without being mean or cruel, turn things slightly sexual or allude to sexuality without being overly sexual (things that naturally come up in conversation, no need to force it) Exercise helps with verbal recall if you're struggling to turn the right phrase Imo everyone here should be exercising regularly, the edge it gives is too strong. Confidence, anxiety reduction, intelligence, verbal recall, testosterone, cognitive control over behaviour and e…	/r/seduction	19/03/20 11:17 PM
4	I had a phase in my life where I had no female friends and only use cold approach to meet girls, and I did badly. Then I built a social circle with girls in it, and got into salsa dancing where I met girls. Then when I did cold approach again, I found I did a lot better at cold approach than before. The last people you should listen to are PU gurus	/r/seduction	19/03/20 11:06 PM
1	Today the start of something good Well done. Cooling it often times can be more of an internal than an external thing Very welcome good luck may come with a tough day or two but you made the right call and will barely think about it in a week or less	/r/seduction	19/03/20 09:44 AM
2	Today the start of something good You let your emotions get the better of you. But went for the better option of blocking them and moving on rather than continuing to obsess and be needy, which is good. Neediness sends a pretty clear signal that you’re placing them out of your league and it’s hard to stay attracted to someone who does that. Match their level of attachment / engagement. Be bold and confident. Escalate to asking them on a date and if they decline move on. Be talking to multiple women at first so you’re not overly …	/r/seduction	19/03/20 09:27 AM
-1	Here is the ONLY Thing You Can Do To Get Better Results With Girls Ohio sucks	/r/seduction	19/03/20 01:25 AM
2	Here is the ONLY Thing You Can Do To Get Better Results With Girls Yeah it can definitely work in the short term. It's never worked for me in the long-term. I just think we can be better people than people who do that. Also chances are if it worked LT the people probably attracted the girl based on who they are, not who they're pretending to be, but pretending to be someone else gave them the confidence to try	/r/seduction	18/03/20 11:25 PM
0	Here is the ONLY Thing You Can Do To Get Better Results With Girls Think the point is to focus on self improvement over selling yourself as something that you're not to get laid	/r/seduction	18/03/20 11:23 PM
1	Here is the ONLY Thing You Can Do To Get Better Results With Girls Dumb comment written and upvoted by idiots. People are there selling tricks about how to "appear high value" to get laid. This is a corrective post	/r/seduction	18/03/20 11:21 PM