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| 1 | I get zero action on dating appsGood looking Is a powerful pair of words nowadays, times have changed, if you see the new generations the average guy Is good looking, the average girl is also good looking. On dating apps you need to be in the top 10% to get chances with decent girls, maybe top 5% for good looking ones, that's just how the market is, tinder and all the apps dont attract as many girls as men, they are viewed as hookup apps. The ratios are much better on dating sites where people are looking for "love". I tried c… | /r/seduction | 17/09/24 07:36 PM |
| 3 | How do you be more dominant?I think it's something that comes from inside, unintentional, when intentional it looks creepy and unnatural. Like some skinny guy with anxiety trying to act dominant towards a big ass guy hyper comfortable in every situation, it's just not going to happen. Dominance it has to do with size, with testosterone, with low level of cortisol, with energy, with confidence. There is a correlation with everyone of these variables. If you naturally get healthy, lower your stress levels, get bigger, become… | /r/seduction | 16/09/24 11:09 PM |
| 25 | As men, we are blessedLet's say that you're a solid 2/10 Take a shower boom 5/10 Change underwear boom 8/10 almost a male model Wash teeth booooooooooooooom 11/10 international male model | /r/seduction | 13/07/21 05:45 AM |
| 3 | How much does genetics have an impact on your success with woman?They matter a good deal, but there are a lot of factors that you can work with. | /r/seduction | 12/07/21 03:00 PM |
| 2 | What are some ways to increase attractiveness?Decreasing body fat --> less inflamation and a healtier look ---> also more testosterone for men(adiposity increases aromataze activity which is the enzyme that turns androgens into estrogens) exercising ---> beside a better body composition it decreases oxidative stress, inflammation and also aid the removal of damaged proteins, better blood circulation. eating vegetables ---> antooxidants and other phytochemicals that aid health and complexion Eating a diet that has some protein in it ---> aid… | /r/seduction | 12/07/21 01:23 PM |
| -3 | I [27M] got a good paying job and suddenly have women show me interest … how to avoid gold diggers?What do you want? You can always lie about your job if you want to avoid gold diggers. If you want sex you can try to use your job status to get sex but i advise to avoid those women later. I know your feels, this is the world we live in, make the best out of your cards. | /r/seduction | 09/07/21 07:09 PM |
| 2 | The (true) story of JennyI'm not a woman, i'm not triggered, i only find it weird that someone is loving and caring for years and years and gets transformed by a Jenny.I think long term marriage is hard even for normal mentally healthy people, because it does get a little boring with time but the change your ex wife took doesn't sound that virtuous, it seems her mind was fertile and ready for a Jenny. Sometimes i question my own values and morality, if i could really pull off a marriage, that's why i won't marry.I read … | /r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre | 09/07/21 06:27 PM |
| 2 | The (true) story of JennyI think there's a little copium in your story, yes, Jennies are everywhere, but your wife was not an angel, you can blame a Jenny when she tries to manipulate a mentally disabled person, but your wife had her intellect, she could make her own choices, she could understand the world if she wanted to, she could keep valuing a relationship built on time and she could have kept those words when she married you. I'm sure that there were some red flags that you didn't want to see in her personality, b… | /r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre | 09/07/21 12:04 PM |
| 7 | My type of man? Blue eyes, blonde hair, athletic asshole with tattoos, a stable job, and no previous kids... but perfect is unattainable and my therapist told me to LOWER my standards, so I'm trying to talk myself into wanting a Nice Guy. What's wrong with them, after all? 😰To be fair, those suckers that get with her are basically like how she was with Chad, delusional. Many men just don't want to open their eyes. It's hard to be happy with such a man, so they both won't be happy, but at least she will be luckier because she will be cheating on him with chads. That's the weird world we live in. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/06/21 11:51 AM |
| 1 | TinderDepends how you look, not if your photos are decent or interesting, if you look good decent pictures are a plus, if you don't look good decent pictures are useless. | /r/seduction | 19/06/21 11:44 AM |
| 56 | Her (33) longest relationship was 1 year long but now she has gone numb from "rejection"... this "rejection" takes the form of being asked to leave men's flats at 2 AM in the morningShe was thrown out at 2am because her personality is sassy , she's too independent for men, eats sarcasm for breakfast and knows her worth. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 11/06/21 07:48 PM |
| 2 | 40+F Doesn't need a man, but wants a butler, chauffeur, nurse maid, and babysitter. She knows her value and refuses to settle. Form an orderly line, gentlemen.It must be infuriating for women that are truly victims of violence, i would be very angry with all these bimbos going around saying that they were raped or victims of domestic violence for petty reasons. Some victims are not even taken seriously, but instead of blaming "patriarchy" they should take a better look at who is causing all this mistrust. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 11/06/21 04:13 PM |
| 6 | 40+F Doesn't need a man, but wants a butler, chauffeur, nurse maid, and babysitter. She knows her value and refuses to settle. Form an orderly line, gentlemen.What a totally miserable human being | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 11/06/21 09:07 AM |
| 8 | Being called husband material is insulting to me. I don't want to be the boring guy you settle down with, I want to be the fun guy you screw around with. Guys who have changed themselves to this type, what advice can you give me?No one said that you are bad looking, no need to explain that. It's just that to be the first choice or the raw sexual energy beast you need much more than being cute and a small stature doesn't help at all in this. | /r/seduction | 11/06/21 02:17 AM |
| 46 | Being called husband material is insulting to me. I don't want to be the boring guy you settle down with, I want to be the fun guy you screw around with. Guys who have changed themselves to this type, what advice can you give me?You said that it's about yout ego in the other comment, a big ego is expensive for your happiness if you have no awesome talents. The fact that you're not the first choice has not anything to do with your personality, it has to do with your looks, voice, all the things that you have little control. Having a good personality is a plus, but our primal brains don't care about personality when thinking about sex. You are young, work with the things you can control. | /r/seduction | 10/06/21 11:03 PM |
| 8 | I hate pretty wymyns! I hate that I need to offer value to a man! Where are all the men who will accept my lame ass and love me UNCONDITIONALLY forever and ever, amen!!! 😠😤😡🤬😥You have big balls dude, i wouldn't have the courage to have all that in front of me. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/06/21 10:11 PM |
| 60 | I hate pretty wymyns! I hate that I need to offer value to a man! Where are all the men who will accept my lame ass and love me UNCONDITIONALLY forever and ever, amen!!! 😠😤😡🤬😥And she's right, there's no strategy, if we aren't hot ourselves it's very hard if not impossible to land a hot partner, what we can do is to make ourselves more flexible to reality, by either improving ourselves, or by lowering our expectations, reality can be hard to digest. Many of those women will never digest that even though they can fuck hot guys while being average looking they won't ever get taken seriously, after all why would a hot guy be moved by them when they are only being driven … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/06/21 04:58 PM |
| 16 | 23 with 4 kids and needs something serious!Ever wonder why women mostly vote left lmao. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/06/21 09:54 AM |
| 6 | Oof. Severely damaged, chain smoking single mother spent her youth dating all the wrong men but now wants to take it slow. Run far, far away from this one, lads.Woah does she have literally every single unattractive trait? Fat and ugly, single mother, fucked a lot of men, was discared by a lot of men, is psychologically damaged | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/06/21 02:45 PM |
| 2 | "Bigger" women is tired of getting pump zoned by Chads, as she keeps punching above her weight.I think that beside the food it's also the mentality that "it's okay to be fat". To be honest it's possible to be thin even eating junk food all day. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/06/21 02:53 PM |
| 4 | "Bigger" women is tired of getting pump zoned by Chads, as she keeps punching above her weight.If only it was that simple, like being healthy until your sudden death. Instead living that way hastens your decline and dramatically increases the probabilty of getting something very nasty that will make your life a nightmare, like for example getting cancer. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/06/21 02:49 PM |
| 2 | What's your unpopular seduction opinion? Something you secretly think, but would otherwise be down voted to all hell on this subI think that there's no seduction, you just need to be rich or attractive and that's what basically happens in real life, if it wasn't for monogamy women would date mostly extremely attractive guys which is basically how tinder works. The fact that there's a limited supply of attractive people is the only reason that less attractive people can get a date. For less attractive people it's just a numbers game and that's why most men don't get success with women, not because they are beta or unconfi… | /r/seduction | 27/04/21 11:01 AM |
| 56 | What in gods good name did I just readApparently, she's the one that has dodged a bullet, the guy is lucky to have found out so soon about her past, well the tells are always there from the first time you meet someone like her. But better finding out at 8 months than after 3 years. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/01/21 01:36 PM |
| 1 | Serial dater finally gets a good guy, but she just can't bond with him like a normal person. Obviously, she didn't get the memo that - hyr pyst is hyr pyst and N-count doesn't matter 🤣I know that even average and above average men can struggle, that's obvious, if most women are attracted and go for the same dudes that fuck multiple women, it's obvious that there will be not space for average guys until the realization of women that they are getting used only for sex and can't get more(obviously, because at the end of the day there are not enough hot attractive and rich men for every woman). Yes, i'm aware that under some circumstances(mainly OLD), using nice guy behavior can … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/01/21 11:21 AM |
| 2 | The “genuine” guys that want to be last in line, after her dogs, will hit it off with this single mum of 48. Can you also make her laugh?Honestly it's one thing to mention kids, it's another thing to mention that they are her world and YOU will come after them, it's just nasty, it means that she can't keep her trash mouth shut. A sane man knows that kids are the most important thing for a mother, it's like telling a fat woman that you never met that she's obese. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/01/21 04:01 AM |
| 103 | Any tall black men interested in raising what I can presume to be 2 other tall black men's kids?Dude, she is studying, studying = intelligence, reading books = intelligence, watching netflix and drinking coffee = personality + being smart | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/01/21 03:48 AM |
| 2 | Serial dater finally gets a good guy, but she just can't bond with him like a normal person. Obviously, she didn't get the memo that - hyr pyst is hyr pyst and N-count doesn't matter 🤣I agree with most of what you said, one thing that i don't agree with and it's used a lot on this board, is about the claim that these women like bad boys for their behavior. I think that bad boy behavior is just a correlation of their attractiveness, a woman likes a bad boy just like a man is attracted sexually to women that look "slutty". It's not uncommon for these categories to be selfish and not LTR oriented. I dare an ugly nerdy skinny guy to behave like those guys and get the same results… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/01/21 03:36 AM |
| 5 | Leftover woman jealous of her own friendsChances are that her friend is top 20% attractive to land a catch like that long term. One of the things these women don't understand is that they are average looking and they should go for average looking dudes, it shouldn't be hard to accept reality. When a woman dates in her league suddently 90% of the ghosting/ mistreatements/cheating, magically disappear. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/01/21 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Step right up, kings. This single momma is looking for one of YOU to support her! Don't worry, she'll be making high dollar money as a singer...someday. Real men ONLY!Is this real life? Does she really exist? Lmaooo | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/12/20 07:43 PM |
| 13 | 25 year old single mom looking for a bailout! Don’t be boring !!It always makes me smile when they say "modeling", single mommy is gonna be a "model" at 25, onlyfans? Imagine being that poor child of her. Poor creature, seems the perfect case to grow up and become an alcoholic, drug abuser and take his/her own life due to shitty upbringing and not being able to function normally. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/12/20 07:37 PM |
| 6 | Uh oh. How do I square this round peg. The men to whom I'm sexually attracted are asshats. I finally found a kind, gentle soul and he has a lower libido. Cysturhood responds by blaming porn, obviously 🤣I thought the same thing, once per month must be because she's fat and repulsive. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/12/20 05:07 PM |
| 35 | Single mum, at 34 looking for the unicorn manly man, muscular groomed and rugged. But really an old school gent. Ah and 6ft+.Her value for serious relationships is rock bottom, a woman's sex market value won't ever be rock bottom. I'm not joking that even fat hairy women with a pig face can get casual sex with decent looking dudes, even amputees, cripples, 80 years old women. I swear, i'm not joking. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/12/20 12:01 PM |
| 12 | Beta Orbiter Signal at Full Power! Shower me with attention!!!Wow, she has the courage to call men shallow when all most women care about are good looks, height, money and social status. Then after those requirements are met they can finally focus on personality trait. But of course when you do your female manipulation and translate money and status in the word "ambition", it's all good. A pity though that if you are poor and ambitious you won't get picked. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/12/20 11:54 AM |
| 126 | Beta Orbiter Signal at Full Power! Shower me with attention!!!Once they taste chad's semen they become corrupted, once you taste the best, multiple times, you will never appreciate what else is out there. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/12/20 03:28 PM |
| 12 | 35y old single mom is done with "dramas" after "nice times" (if you know what she means) and is now looking for "mr lover man" who should know how to "treat her right"I'm the same way, i look for those same things but i also need a woman that had a lot of sex with different people to be safe in a relationship where she will love me with all her heart and won't ever cheat on me, because after all those men i know that now she knows what she truly wants. And oh god all the drama with the kids, their dad/s and past fuckboys contacting her, just a dream coming true. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/12/20 01:56 AM |
| 4 | Women Willingly Decide To Sleep Around and Then Ask Themselves "WAATGM?": Science Concludes It's Men's FaultChads won't commit, poor babbby is confused. :' (( It's really surprising how long it takes for them to understand how things work, hell some will never understand it in their whole lives. The dating market will get worse every year for this poor babbby. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/12/20 01:42 AM |
| 10 | 34y old tattoed mum wants to add YOU to her two kids and four cats.I thought that if i was a jacked handsome NAVY seal i would get better looking women without children that don't smell like cat piss?????? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/12/20 04:47 PM |
| 17 | At 48, but feeling 38, not into players any more because she has been taken advantage off too much. The chosen one will be lucky.Seems like a lot of old women make her same "mistake" of putting the wrong age, but "curiously" it's always 10 years younger and never 10 years older. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/12/20 10:08 AM |
| 5 | " yes size matters, no 6" isn't big haha", per this 23 year old busted pillsbury biscuit can.I thought about the same thing, she certainly isn't one of the brightest minds on this planet. Imagine not being aware of the fact that being nasty or writing a huge list of requirements to meet makes you look rotten and superficial and make the guys think that you are good just for casual sex, when you could be just as picky without writing all those things. Thank god for women like her, redpilling even the naivest men. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/12/20 10:01 AM |
| 2 | " yes size matters, no 6" isn't big haha", per this 23 year old busted pillsbury biscuit can.Is it photoshopped, a granma body under a young girl face? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/12/20 09:52 AM |
| 2 | Thot doesn't want future boyfriends to find out about her porn pastand dead inside, but kept it as cool a 100?!? Just wow.... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/12/20 02:51 PM |
| 14 | Cheats on guy she’s deeply connected with and relationship lasts 1.5 years. Stays with a married womaniser for 5 years. Now can’t find anyone at all.The problem with psychology is that there are no standards. It's mostly theory, beliefs, little to no real contact with life and results. Psychology draws women for the same reasons astrology does, with a little bit more science. It's a magic esoteric world, they want to understand the deeeeppps of the human mind or truly understand themselves. Imagine going to a psychologist and being offered pragmatic solutions like "lose weight" "lower your standards" , "stop thinking about it". Please don't … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/12/20 03:14 PM |
| 13 | Show me you're different!She models for onlyfans or things like that. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/12/20 02:22 PM |
| 10 | Show me you're different!Wow, a risk taker that likes to live life to the fullest, shows "sexy" profile picture and has a high body count now ready to settle down. I bet every attractive intelligent stable male that look at her profile can't believe themselves how lucky they are to have found her, their soulmate, the complete package, finally. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/12/20 02:21 PM |
| 33 | Cheats on guy she’s deeply connected with and relationship lasts 1.5 years. Stays with a married womaniser for 5 years. Now can’t find anyone at all.No woman is unable to find a man, this woman right here is unable to find a better man than herself. She's old and yet she refuses to accept that men have 2 dating categories, one for casual sex(where male standards are much much lower) and one for long term relationships.She probably always pick men more attractive than her which obviously ghost her when they are done with her to pick a girl more similar in attractiveness to themselves for LTR or a new fresh fuck. She deserves everything that h… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/12/20 02:06 PM |
| 23 | Cheats on guy she’s deeply connected with and relationship lasts 1.5 years. Stays with a married womaniser for 5 years. Now can’t find anyone at all.Therapists are a joke too, mostly women that do her same lifestyle. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/12/20 02:03 PM |
| 0 | You're doing yourself a great disservice if you're not lifting.Is this a penis in vagina story or one of the stories that you think that the world is going according to your view? Sorry for my bad sense of humour, but please understand that your thread is not giving out as much value as you think, even though you are sure that you are right in your view this looks like one of those delusional stories going around on the internet. By the way i think lifting is one of those things that help a big time the dating game if you have a decent face. | /r/seduction | 13/06/20 12:08 PM |
| 11 | This is the last post on Female Attraction you'll ever needA normal person with an average intelligence understands at 15 years old that women are attracted to good looks, height, chiselled features, money and also to social status.It's so damn obvious that you see it everywhere and when you hear women talk among themselves their are always talking about some hot dude, not Bill Gates giving them social security nor some weird pick up artist. | /r/seduction | 09/06/20 10:47 AM |
| 1 | [Rant] Tired of being told I’m not hook up materialHandsome? Are you chiselled? I also have a fairly good looking face, but girls for casual sex seek mostly very good looking guys, expecially on dating apps or clubs. And usually the girls are the ones being ghosted by these kind of guys, not the other way around, that's why they settle down for less. | /r/seduction | 18/05/20 04:12 PM |
| 1 | [Rant] Tired of being told I’m not hook up materialI'm also not hook up material, that just means that we have suboptimal attractiveness. | /r/seduction | 18/05/20 12:19 PM |
| 1 | The girl I’m dating wants to feel small, but I am “soft”You need to stop generalizing about what you are supposed to be, she seems to like you, enjoy life, you need only 1 advice, which is: "Stop thinking about it" | /r/seduction | 15/04/20 04:47 PM |
| 2 | Remember this post for when the subject of "dating" comes up (especially with the hottest girls!) and they will feel like you understand their world better than any other guyThere's no paradox, people are looking for physically attractive partners but they say that they are looking for other things first, they are just lying to themselves/others or both. | /r/seduction | 04/03/20 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Why can't I get any woman interested?Not good looking enough | /r/seduction | 03/03/20 12:02 PM |
| 1 | What makes James Bond so charismatic to women?Very good looking actors and it's scripted that way. | /r/seduction | 01/03/20 02:49 PM |
| 70 | Intimidatingly attractiveTry tinder, an 8 or 9 should get 20 matches a day at least, if you don't get many matches you are not good looking as you think. | /r/seduction | 23/02/20 12:54 AM |
| 2 | Dating is a contact sport.Well if someone is very attractive he doesn't have to overcome many things, the information in the OP is only partial in my opinion, There are a minority of guys that are getting all the goods with no effort, they are the ones doing the rejecting, ghosting, cheating on the girls. The market isn't fair, in my opition what you said is very important, yes, it's about enduring all those things, but what else is very important is to understand why you have to overcome those things and what you can do… | /r/seduction | 20/02/20 07:45 PM |
| 8 | Dating is a contact sport.In life most of the things are outside our control, our contribution to most things is tiny, that's why in most things you can measure your success only in the long term.What's your age? Women in their 20s are completely dominating the dating market but their value goes down with age compared to their male counterpart, men value also goes down with age obviously but relatively to their age-matched counterpart it goes up.You can't do much to fight the market, you can only improve your looks, mone… | /r/seduction | 20/02/20 07:22 PM |
| 6 | I'm absolute shitIt's a number game dude, the trick is not sweating about it, it shouldn't be the main focus, if you feel shit about it you better take a pause to recover your sanity, you have to not care, not because you'll get more attractive by not caring because you wont, but because you'll live better. | /r/seduction | 22/12/19 12:46 PM |
| 16 | Rewatched this gem for third time. Always leaves me with new knowledge and cockyness that last for weeks.Definitely worth watching. | /r/seduction | 22/12/19 02:39 AM |
| 2 | How do I go about rebranding myself completely, in hopes of becoming a more successful man in relationships and life?I feel like when someone asks on how to be seductive he/she' is asking for magical powers, the more times go on, the more mature i become, the more i understand how those little genes that nature gave you when you were born are very important, how you look like and the "aura" that you give to people around you have 80% to do on how you look and how your chemistry works, you can train the remaining 20% by working on forceful things like body posture, intonation and what you say and many times tho… | /r/seduction | 26/10/19 11:32 AM |
| -2 | You Attract Girls With Emotions!Sometimes i sit at home and wank, sometimes i fuck my humble average looking girlfriend, which turns magically into a 9/10 on reddit. | /r/seduction | 07/08/19 07:16 AM |
| 3 | You Attract Girls With Emotions!All the 9/10 girls are your girlfriends apparently | /r/seduction | 07/08/19 07:11 AM |
| -7 | You Attract Girls With Emotions!You dated a 9 a girl that looks like a Vcitoria's Secret model! Wow, seems believable | /r/seduction | 07/08/19 07:03 AM |
| 1 | I just realized that my entire outlook on women and dating was wayyy out of touch.I understand what you mean, i didn't want to be negative, i said in my post to be realistic, i don't like pessimism nor optimism neither are optimal to reach your goals. You as some point in your life understood that the state you were in wasn't optimal to reach your goals and took action, maybe those books gave you the motivation and energy to start, or maybe those were your transition from nothing to something, a small step forwards, but the next real step that you took was being out there and… | /r/seduction | 06/08/19 02:35 PM |
| 2 | I just realized that my entire outlook on women and dating was wayyy out of touch.You should stop reading books about seduction, no one can teach you how to be seductive, also remember that people want to make money and to make money you can't be real 100% as people want hope, so a lot of things written in seduction books are bullshit. Also everyone is different, there are different kind of personalities, even thought processes vary between people. If you want to improve your seductive abilities you should work on yourself, something tangible, like going to the gym, losing fa… | /r/seduction | 06/08/19 11:53 AM |
| 10 | I feel basically all success can be defined under neediness vs non-neediness.All success is basically defined by how beautiful, rich, famous you are. Attractive people usually are not needy Not needy people are not attractive. If you are unattractive and not needy, you could easily end up as a virgin in your 50s. Neediness is a consequence. Also. Attractive needy people = caring, loving Unattractive needy people = creepy, stalkeris, "needy". | /r/seduction | 28/07/19 12:13 PM |
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