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| 1 | Man im in a dark space againYour not alone brother, so many of us have been exactly where you are. I've learned the 5 stages of grief are real and that's likley what your experiencing, but you have to keep working toward acceptance, there is light and happiness on the other side of that. It's not a linear process, some days you'll crush it, other days you won't want to get out bed. The important thing is to keep moving forward and give yourself grace, your moving through what is likley one of the hardest times in your life… | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/01/26 12:54 AM |
| 6 | Feeling extremely lonelyYour not alone brother, so many of us have been exactly where you are. If you don't have to get a new job right away, don't, and take some time for yourself to rest and heal. I've learned the 5 stages of grief are real and that's likley what your experiencing, but you have to keep working toward acceptance, there is light and happiness on the other side of that. It's not a linear process, some days you'll crush it, other days you won't want to get out bed. The important thing is to keep moving f… | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/12/25 03:03 AM |
| 1 | One Month Post-Affair Divorce and Feeling Lost. What Helped You?First, I'm sorry you're having to go through this, but you're doing a lot of things right! For me, it helped immensely to get comfortable doing things on my own and taking up new hobbies I was never "allowed" to do. Get out and engage with life, and you will naturally meet new friends. Also, reach out to old friends and family you lost touch with, you'll be surprised how many will be happy to hear from you. Smash the fearful thinking that you're going to be alone forever you won't be unless you … | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/08/25 03:43 AM |
| 1 | I know it's over but I still can't let goWhat helped me the most was learning to let the thought of her pass, don't let the "thought" turn into "thinking" because that is what causes the suffering, have to mentally smash that. Also, cutting off all physical and verbal communication while detaching from her is very helpful, stick to just text or email communication related to Co-Parenting and nothing more. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/08/25 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Id like to run a marital asset strategy by everyoneThe credit card debt you paid post separation does not matter now and won't be considered in asset/debt division. Your primary goal should be to get 50/50 custody of your kids with no child support or alimony payments to her, those two items will kill your finances in the long run. Ideally, you can get a 50/50 split on the assets keeping your retirement accounts in tact even if that means giving up some of the equity in the home. Also, if you do end up owning her an equalization payment, structu… | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/07/25 10:03 PM |
| 1 | CustodyAbsolutely not. Tell her you want 50/50 and will spend every dime you have fighting to make sure that happens. Do not accept anything less. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/07/25 09:13 PM |
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