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| 5 | Nervous meeting her in person for the first time? The moment you see her, give her the biggest smile possible | mr18above | /r/seduction | 01/03/16 03:21 PM |
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| 5 | Needy people: Understand anxious attachment style!OP, I wanted to thank you for writing this out. The way you analyze and deal with this is very similar to myself. So I relate strongly with all you've written. I used to think I'm not anxious, but maybe I am. It's hard sometimes for me to tell because my current partner is neurodivergent and most likely avoidant. Many times, I can't tell if I'm being needy vs asking for bare minimum that a "normal" relationship needs (I've come to realize that normal is very subjective. My normal is probably clo… | /r/seduction | 18/08/24 11:42 PM |
| 5 | I’ve lost more girls to inaction than to overpursuingIn the exact same boat as you buddy. Acted cool and chased hard for the same reason, emotional quicksand as you put it. I know there’s no silver bullet. But overthinking makes me want to optimize. And sometimes I need to remind myself to take a step back and just chill. | /r/seduction | 11/08/23 08:51 PM |
| 1 | how do i talk to this girl i like at work?Eye contact is a very good sign. If she notices you whenever you're around her, well that's more than enough of a reason to go: You should be able to get away with the stupidest things you say to her. I am going through the same thing as you....this girl in office...we eye fuck each other a lot. I was in the lift lobby with her (I had to plan it, I confess)....we got on the same lift...and I built up the courage to speak to her. Talked for 10-15min and it went quite well. She even smiled at me t… | /r/seduction | 27/05/15 07:02 PM |
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