mr_frob Archive

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12	Blue pillers, what positives do you see in the existence of red pill? Giving people some form of... comfort, and maybe helping them to increase their confidence, that aint inherently bad. I think that is even a positive. On the provisio that once they have gained this comfort and confidence they leave TRP and return to normal society. Plus it is good, right now, at cataloguing instances of pure insanity and biotruths. If I ever wanted to write a sociology essay on fringe sciences, I would stop off at TRP first.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/14 04:28 PM
6	Take 2. More TRP for you! I'm saying that they shouldn't realistically expect both. And if a woman wants children, she should make them a priority over her career. This is the kind of thinking that causes irritation among some. Why should a woman prioritise having a family over her career any more than a man? Men and women should have an equal role in bringing up children, it is not womans work any more than it is mans work. They aren't getting married as much anymore. They are waiting longer. That does not, in of itself…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/14 04:06 AM
5	Is preparation/learning about relationships only bad when it comes to sex? Firstly, women are not objects, nor are they possessions. Secondly, You are incorrect. Hell, there was even an AMA on the front fucking page recently about people who orgasm during sexual assaults, including children. So no. Your mind doesn't have to be open to the idea. It certainly helps though. And yes. Humans can eroticise any part of their body. They can eroticise anything. People end up with weird fetishes, everyone has their own erogenous zones. All of that aside, I do not think you are w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/14 02:22 PM
6	Is preparation/learning about relationships only bad when it comes to sex? Have you ever had sex? And I mean that honestly. Because if you think technique is irrelevant I have some bad news for you man. A lot of people in your life, if you have actually ever touched a vagina, have been faking. And faking a lot. I would point out that quite a lot of woman cannot actually orgasm purely through PIV. I would point out that everyone is different and wired in different ways (Some people fucking love nipple play, some people don't) but that is all sex blog stuff and not reall…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/14 01:49 PM
2	Do you accept that other people will differ? I guess I'm just wondering why that's relevant. Sorry if the subtleties escape me. I feel you are getting at something but I'm just not sure what. TRP bad, school good? I guess to a degree, Yes. Right now its just bored ranting as I try and distract myself from work. However I think I am getting at the fact that if academics are not really one for TRP then most people shouldn't be. Maybe it is because I intend to become an academic and my social circle revolves around academia. But I think if TR…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/14 12:41 PM
6	Western Bias? You are forgetting the slightly odd idolisation of eastern women. See the whole "What would you do with a million dollars" question, the "I am thinking of going to Asia, what can TRP tell me" question and other similar things. TRP is unique to western men. Mayhaps other cultures are still... regressive enough to be in the stage TRP wishes?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/14 12:31 PM
3	Do you accept that other people will differ? As for TRP being compatible with university life, why does it matter? Compatibility with prevailing norms should not be the measure of a thought system's worth, or we may as well shut down the fucking universities, pardon my french. Oh, I was not saying that matters whatsoever. There are plenty of issues with University life, primarily the idea that these once proud academic institutions are now merely factories preparing the elite for the world of work. I was merely making a statement as to why…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/14 12:00 PM
2	Do you accept that other people will differ? As much as it is decried on reddit, academia is liberal in nature. I simply do not think that TRP is compatible with an academic outlook, at least an academic outlook when engaged in any of the social sciences. There are the occasional professors who push right wing dialogues within political spheres, but that is a liberal right wing dialogue (Free markets and the like) not the reactionary outlook pushed by TRP. In short, there might be a few RP in and around campus. But I highly doubt it. I jus…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/14 11:29 AM
2	Do you accept that other people will differ? I need to get back to my work. But I will address one point first. That is unfortunate, as you seem fairly reasonable. My point though, is that given RPers are welcome, why are there not more tales from RPers who saw the error of their ways and the destructiveness of TRP philosophy? There certainly are plenty of irate former bluepillers in TRP's ranks. Its rather simplistic. It takes a certain mindset to fall into TRP in the first place. Considering the Matrix analogy used here, the base rule is…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/14 08:52 AM
5	Do you accept that other people will differ? Some of it is, some of it isn't. Sorry if I came across as angry, Its my field of study and I live with physics students all of which will poke fun at my degree when bored. Its a tired stereotype. notices Wait, aint you a mod? Ain't mods on a debating forum supposed to be far more neutral then that? This sub is a neutral space, this subreddit is to better understand the other side, so if you're here to make snarky, mocking comments and be rude to other users, you'd better head home. will be bann…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/14 06:53 AM
5	Do you accept that other people will differ? The very fact that you acknowledge that differing gender norms exist and are an issue means you acknowledge that traits can and do vary between genders. No. Since I come from the opinion that gender is fluid and any traits applied to gender are applied by society, I do not acknowledge that traits vary between genders. I acknowledge that genders are given traits which are inherently damaging though. Gender differences being entirely social in origin strikes me as just as radical a proposition as …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/14 06:45 AM
11	Do you accept that other people will differ? Come up with idea not supported by science. Discount science that disproves idea. ???? PROFIT! Seriously. You may decry Sociology as "Too soft", but to discount it because ti does not meet the standards of rigorous science that are not expected of those scientists that support your own ideology is stupid beyond belief. Durkheimian sociologists obsess over social fact and base their research in purely positivist/empiricist research. And still find examples of systemic sexism and patriarchy. But I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/14 06:20 AM
16	Do you accept that other people will differ? I have seen many criticisms of TRP centered around this issue. The mere act of acknowledging that there are common female traits, which differ from common male traits, puts many people on the defensive. Because this fact cannot be proved. Or disproved. Its a matter of faith. Your faith dictates that it is so, my faith dictates that it is not. Furthermore, us feminists view TRP as extrapolating from gender norms and coming to the conclusion that those norms are inhereted biological traits when we…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/14 10:33 PM
2	Benjamin Disraeli Quote.. How do you define a man? I am saying, in general, society views men who cry as weak. Within the UK we have the term "Stiff upper lip", we are not expected to cry. Are there exceptions? Yes. Would I describe a man who cries as weak? No. Is this "Rule" universal? No. It used to be considered manly to cry, for a man who is crying is not afraid of his emotions and is strong enough to show them without fear. However, society changed. Much like men used to wear pink and girls blue, values have changed and will continue to cha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/14 04:51 PM
2	Benjamin Disraeli Quote.. How do you define a man? Well, it is hard to disagree with the statement. Life is too short to not live it to the fullest, one should express themselves as much as one can. However, it does get interesting when you consider how people view men. Men are not supposed to "Feel deeply", we are supposed to be stoic in the face of danger, we are supposed to "Man up" and deal with our issues. We are seen as weak when we cry. So whilst I broadly agree with Disraeli, I do not think that TRP agrees with him. Although as others ha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/14 02:43 PM
2	Words to live by? "My Boner Is My Master" Don't make important decisions whilst frustrated at all. Hell, if you are trying to be a logical individual, you should be able to rise above any of your base urges. Don't go food shopping whilst hungry, you will come home with more food (And more useless food) then you need. Its fair enough logic. However, I would not idolize my penis and make any decisions for its sake. I am much more then my penis. I care about far more then getting laid. This is one of the major problems I have with TRP. Wit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/14 02:40 PM
1	Study: Men and Women Happier with Chivalry Men and Women are happier if people are polite. That is all. With regards to paying for dates, I agree that means that in current society men are more likely when a relationship starts to pay for things. But once things get into swing it will be split far more equally. Personal example? My ex and I would take it in turns to buy takeout. People should just be polite. I open doors for people, I help people carry shit, if I have more money than someone I cover dinner or drinks. That is just how thi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/14 02:36 PM
3	In regards to women who cut their hair short I do like long hair, but I also like short hair. I guess it has never really bothered me. However, importantly, if you are making a change to your physical appearance I think you should discuss it with your partner. I toyed with growing a beard in my last relationship. My ex hated how I felt when she kissed me when I grew it. So I stopped growing my beard and remained clean shaven. Other then that kind of specific example? Beauty is more than skin deep. I do not think that short hair on a girl i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/14 02:33 PM
8	Do you think society is being feminized? No. I believe that society is being made to be more equal with gender-stereotypes being broken down. However, some people (Like men) might see this as society being more feminised as traditionally male traits are being given progressively less weight.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/14 02:28 PM
9	How can someone have high self-respect, and choose to be/like being submissive at the same time? Isn't subordinacy the default coping strategy of the weak? Sometimes if you are a rather domineering person (Something I am working on) it is nice to be submissive. In politics I am domineering, with regards to my degree I am domineering. Its nice to have someone make choices about films, food, dates and sex. Its nice to not have to make choices in general sometimes, or not be controlling something. It doesn't make me weak to be submissive with my partner. If anything I have learnt over the years it takes strength to be submissive. Its hard to trust som…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/14 02:27 PM