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And raping male students
/r/MensRights13/05/25 07:36 PM
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Not just that, but they ask why don’t men come forward about abuse. Those responses make it pretty clear why.
/r/MensRights10/05/25 06:10 PM
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They just want to appear good to others and probably karma. Car enthusiasts speed pretty often, but if you go to a car subreddit you’d think all car enthusiasts drive like grannies. It doesn’t reflect real life at all.
/r/MensRights06/05/25 10:24 PM
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They clearly wrote ‘some of them are behind…’
/r/MensRights23/04/25 05:45 PM
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I don’t agree with the draft but if it’s there then it should be equal. The draft will never be seen as an issue until it begins affecting women so maybe it’s the only way to bring some light to it. When it comes to earning, yes absolutely. It’s not fair to expect men to be traditional and modern at the same time. Why should the man spend all his income whilst his wife/gf accumulates wealth or spends it only on herself? It makes no sense.
/r/MensRights01/04/25 04:35 PM
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My response would be ‘why are you advertising me to other women’ 😂
/r/MensRights01/04/25 04:25 PM
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You don’t need to get married at all. Just make sure at birth registry if you have kids.
/r/MensRights29/03/25 06:49 PM
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Yeah exactly. If you’re going to promote marrying unemployed women, you should also warn of the potential risk of losing your shit in a divorce. Also they do fuck all most of the day when the kids go to school and become self sufficient.
/r/MensRights29/03/25 02:53 PM
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The word manosphere shouldn’t be taken seriously. It’s a term that is used to lump men’s activists under the same umbrella as people such as Tate and Eliot Rogers, in order to discredit the movement.
/r/MensRights29/03/25 01:43 PM
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It’s kinda funny how they see each other as enemies but they align on some things because at the end of the day, they’re both gynocentric.
/r/MensRights20/03/25 01:47 AM
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I don’t think I’ve ever seen female full frontal in a mainstream movie or tv show, like ever. Even the old stuff. Women’s genitals are for the most part, aren’t* visible when they’re standing up and that’s not even mentioning the fanny wig thing they usually wear.
/r/MensRights20/03/25 01:38 AM
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Okay, let’s for the sake of the argument accept what you’re saying is true. How does it help anyone to blame men who no longer exist when society (men and women) are still perpetuating the issue?
/r/MensRights17/03/25 12:26 AM
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What you are describing is simply misandry or internalised misandry. Men receive negative responses from others which teaches them to keep things to themselves. It’s not because they are afraid of being seen as victims, it’s because people refuse to see them as victims. It’s also not because they are afraid to be seen as feminine. In fact, the idea that men don’t seek help has been proven wrong by studies on men who have committed suicide. This idea of positive and toxic masculinity is just an a…
/r/MensRights16/03/25 01:15 PM
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Kinda. The problem that they describe may exist but they’re not due to toxic masculinity i.e. rooted from misogyny. It’s just misandry.
/r/MensRights16/03/25 01:02 PM
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I agree, although it’s misandry not toxic masculinity. To expand, toxic masculinity is the idea that men’s issue stem from misogyny. It’s a denial of misandry.
/r/MensRights16/03/25 12:53 PM
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Some of them have their self-worth tied to women’s opinion of them. They think it makes them one of the ‘cool’ guys lol.
/r/MensRights11/03/25 04:44 PM
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Doesn’t help that it’s now widely recognised as toxic masculinity, the idea that men are afraid to be seen as feminine rather than the real reasons you’ve mentioned.
/r/MensRights08/03/25 01:33 AM
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You know it’s complete bs when they always justify sexism that benefits women (two tier justice system in the UK for example). Also, using victimising language for women (misogyny) and victim-blaming language for men (toxic masculinity).
/r/MensRights08/03/25 01:25 AM
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Feminists said they wanted to abolish gender roles, what they meant is gender roles for women. So we now live in a gynocentric society where women are free to choose their lifestyle, but men are expected to be traditional. They might say they want to get rid of gender roles for men too, but it’s just a surface level statement. When you give specific examples of ‘masculine’ things you don’t want to do, they say you’re jaded, an incel or some other bullshit. Don’t let another person define masculi…
/r/MensRights28/02/25 02:40 PM
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Yeah… These lot only scrutinise studies if it paints women in a bad light
/r/MensRights20/02/25 11:05 PM
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The problem is that they often genuinely think the person isn’t getting laid.
/r/MensRights20/02/25 08:32 PM
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But ‘women are financially worse off than men after divorce’ and ‘Men win custody when they ask for it’. lol
/r/MensRights20/02/25 01:19 PM
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Not just women, there’s plenty of toxic simps dying for a molecule of muff.
/r/MensRights01/02/25 10:14 PM
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I think because they aren’t subscribed
/r/MensRights26/01/25 04:15 PM
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Another downside is marriage, since it’s part of traditional relationships. You’re practically asking to get fucked over if you divorce. There’s also no way to know whether she is actually into you either.
/r/MensRights25/01/25 08:34 PM
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Damage is done either way. I haven’t followed any of this so I don’t have an opinion on whether he is actually guilty or not. But many will just say ‘courts don’t prove innocence’ and imply he’s probably guilty.
/r/MensRights25/01/25 01:05 PM
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This is how many women isolate men. You can’t even be too close to your family otherwise you’re a ‘mommas boy’ or some shit. Yet they only recognise it as abuse when men do it, as usual.
/r/MensRights25/01/25 12:52 PM
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It’s because the intention behind the justice system was only to punish men. They think it’s wrong to treat women similarly. To me it says that punishment for certain crimes (non-violent) are too excessive or unnecessary.
/r/MensRights23/01/25 11:17 AM
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Can only speak in regards to the UK but yes. As long as she isn’t married and the father isn’t registered on the birth certificate, she can walk away. You hear people say to men that they must pay child support (as a minimum) because a child now exists, but they never apply this argument to women who give unilaterally give their child up for adoption.
/r/MensRights23/01/25 07:33 AM
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Exactly. In fact, the entire sexual offences act was designed only to punish male offenders. Which is why women frequently get away with suspended sentences. People simply do not care when women commit sexual offences.
/r/MensRights06/01/25 11:09 PM
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So that women’s organisations can claim 99% of rapists are men in order to secure more funding for themselves and have harsher sentences for men only.
/r/MensRights04/01/25 07:09 PM
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Though I believe they can be convicted of statutory rape (under age) It’s ‘sexual activity with a child under the age of 13’ or something along those lines but still not legally recognised as rape.
/r/MensRights04/01/25 07:07 PM
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Don’t forget, when they can’t side with the woman, the post becomes ‘rage bait’ designed to rile up ‘incels’.
/r/MensRights04/01/25 01:01 PM
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Another issue is that a lot of countries don’t define it as rape. Therefore, if they’re doing statistics on rape, male victims of female perpetrated rape aren’t included in those stats. They’re usually not upfront about it either.
/r/MensRights30/12/24 03:51 PM
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Status objects and workhorses that should cater to them without any reciprocation
/r/MensRights30/12/24 02:38 PM
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An unmarried woman in the UK can unilaterally give her child up for adoption as long as she doesn’t list the father on the birth certificate. In the US there are safe haven laws. When a woman walks out on her child, it’s in the best interest of the child. A man who does the same is a deadbeat.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/12/24 01:05 PM
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Same technique they use with ‘toxic masculinity’.
/r/MensRights23/12/24 10:34 PM
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The biggest incel forum has around 20k users (last I checked) but the feminists make it sound rampant. Meanwhile you have 14.5k users liking a comment promoting genital mutilation and sexual assault against a man, not a peep from them.
/r/MensRights23/12/24 10:26 PM
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‘He wasn’t raped, he got lucky’.
/r/MensRights23/12/24 10:20 PM
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https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S1090513824000710?via%3Dihub This article about why women cheat and dual mating strategy theory kind of back it up. Women find a small number of men to be physically attractive, according to online surveys so there’s not enough to go around.
/r/MensRights22/12/24 04:59 PM
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She always deletes her comments after making dumb arguments
/r/MensRights21/12/24 03:27 AM
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Yes, has to weasel herself into men’s space there is only to femsplain everything whilst pretending that she sympathises. She seems way to obsessed.
/r/MensRights21/12/24 03:26 AM
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The ones who find you attractive will put in the effort without being prompted. Looks like your wife falls into that category.
/r/MensRights20/12/24 07:31 PM
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If you’re asking what I personally think, then based on my experience it appears to be very common. Men often don’t recognise when they are being abused. They only taught to not abuse others, not recognise when it’s happening to themselves.
/r/MensRights20/12/24 07:27 PM
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I wonder how much of that 'domineering personality' is just normalized abuse that people are blind to because it's a man being mistreated by a woman. This is very true but usually people will think you’ve been reading too much ‘incel fan-fiction’ online and try to dismiss it. Women disrespecting their man is pretty much a daily occurrence for me.
/r/MensRights20/12/24 04:04 PM
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It’s because some women place themselves up on a pedestal. They expect stuff such as money, emotional support, romance and whatnot, with no intention to reciprocate. Many women expect to be provided for even if they’re working, they will use you as an emotional punching bag but will weasel their way out if you try to vent to them, they find doing romantic acts for men to be degrading. These type of women just see men as a resource to be used and discarded when they can’t extract anything from th…
/r/MensRights20/12/24 03:56 PM
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The closest equivalent is Mankind but they do not receive government funding like Women’s Aid. Women’s organisations made sure of that.
/r/MensRights14/12/24 11:15 PM
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Oh I see, I can agree with that.
/r/MensRights14/12/24 11:12 PM
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Abuse isn’t really a tiny thing but men being taught to not burden others is true. In the context of my comment, I was making the point that when men do bring up abuse, they get blamed for it so it feels pointless to even mention it.
/r/MensRights14/12/24 10:58 PM
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Women’s Aid should have no place here. They literally claimed women only abuse as a result of being abused themselves, i.e. abusive women are the real victims.
/r/MensRights14/12/24 10:37 PM
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Man abuses woman: he needs to be beaten up and arrested Woman abuses man: he needs to get her help for depression, PMS, blah blah blah. What did he do to make her behave that way? Meanwhile, why don’t men open up about these things?
/r/MensRights14/12/24 10:26 PM
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It’s okay for a woman because there’s no child if she aborts. A man cannot because a child now exists which he is responsible for. You won’t see that logic being applied when women dump their babies like this or give them up for adoption. Just goes to show that the order of priority is women > girls > boys > men
/r/MensRights14/12/24 11:24 AM
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The reason we don't have male birth control is that most men wouldn't take it. Source?
/r/MensRights03/12/24 08:39 PM
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Well from a quick glance, the 4b and wgtow subreddit posts/comments are centred around men, or ‘manoids’ as they call them. Edit: As usual, tinyhermione presents her opinions as facts, then deletes her comments when confronted with reality lol.
/r/MensRights03/12/24 05:06 PM
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There’s no way to quantify that lol
/r/MensRights03/12/24 04:56 PM
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So not all so different yet you painted the women’s equivalent in a more favourable light.
/r/MensRights03/12/24 04:55 PM
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As if the female variants of MGTOW don’t go on bitter rants about men. They just never get criticised.
/r/MensRights03/12/24 03:06 PM
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It’s different for me since cohabitation laws don’t exist where I live. Marriage would make it harder for me to leave, whilst giving her an incentive to leave. The only thing I would have to do is add my name to the birth certificate to ensure I have parental responsibility/rights.
/r/MensRights21/11/24 08:56 PM
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You could do that without getting married though
/r/MensRights21/11/24 05:16 PM
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Another factor that compounds this, is that straight men are seen as losers for not falling in line with traditional male gender roles, to the point where some people assume you’re a misogynist or ‘incel’. I never gave a fuck but most men, especially the younger ones, aren’t going to want to be seen under that light.
/r/MensRights21/11/24 05:11 PM
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My theory is that it’s because they’re either lazy in bed, have settled for a guy that they’re not sexually attracted to, or they just watch super weird porn and think it’s the norm. By saying men’s desires are unrealistic due to porn, it justifies them being starfishes in bed and places the blame back on men (as usual). As you said though, when it comes to a woman’s needs, wants and desires, nothing is unrealistic to them.
/r/MensRights20/11/24 01:27 AM
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Seeing American politics in every unrelated sub was super annoying. They all disappeared as soon as it was over.
/r/MensRights06/11/24 07:27 PM
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On the men’s side you have men who are happy single amongst men who struggle with dating. It’s much easier for average and above women when it comes to dating. Naturally, it makes sense that women adjust better to single life since most of those women are choosing to do so. Also, single women are praised whereas single men are seen as losers and more recently, incels. What’s confusing is that feminists keep saying there’s a ‘lonely women epidemic too’ but this suggests that single women are happ…
/r/MensRights04/11/24 10:13 PM
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I’ve heard that this is already the case in the UK
/r/MensRights25/09/24 08:21 PM
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We all know that employers never do a background check on employees to see if they have prior convictions
/r/MensRights25/09/24 08:20 PM
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I’ve been saying this for years. Some doctors chose their field because of the status it brings or as you said, they were pressured. A lot of them aren’t passionate about their jobs and don’t care about helping people. Also the keyword is feel. Some women feel like their health is taken less seriously than men’s. So whilst it might be true that women aren’t taken seriously by health professionals, it does not mean that men have it better.
/r/MensRights22/09/24 03:18 PM
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It's a byproduct of society never holding women accountable. It enables women to claim that they don't feel supported or fulfilled (after all cheaters are trustworthy aren't they?), even though the reality is that they cheat for the same reason that men do. Cheating men would probably say the same shit if they could get away with it. https://www.psypost.org/why-do-women-cheat-new-study-reveals-complex-motivations-behind-female-infidelity/
/r/MensRights21/09/24 01:13 AM
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Women who cheat, find their affair partners more attractive than their primary partners, even though they might CLAIM that they feel neglected by the latter. Consistent with a dual mating strategy, women experienced stronger physical attraction to their affair partners and stronger parental attraction to their primary partners. Contrary to the mate-switching hypothesis, women did not prefer their affair partners overall, parentally, or personally. In other words, they prefer their primary partne…
/r/MensRights21/09/24 01:06 AM
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What an unfortunate name for her lol I remember her from the Depp trial. She believes that a woman’s word trumps everything else.
/r/MensRights20/09/24 09:04 PM
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Saying that the 'patriarchy' is responsible for everything even though feminists have power when it comes to law making, as well as strong influence over education and media. For example, feminists say that men made the decision to keep the sexual offences act (UK) gendered even though women and women's groups were involved in the decision making process.
/r/MensRights19/09/24 09:56 PM
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Seems to be a prerequisite to join one of those organisations
/r/MensRights19/09/24 09:48 PM
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These charities are full of misandrist assholes. Refuge kicked out and threatened one of its founders for suggesting men can be victims of female abuse. Reddit users who announce that they work for DV organisations have trouble hiding their misandry too (there's one on relationship advice who's somewhat of a celebrity on that subreddit).
/r/MensRights19/09/24 05:43 PM
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That’s what I’ve never understood. They act like the men go out for an stress-free, lads night whilst leaving the women at home to do ‘unpaid’ housework. They just take the efforts of men for granted. I’d rather be at home.
/r/MensRights16/09/24 06:55 PM
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Narcissistic women are usually the vulnerable or covert type. They use female victimhood to their advantage. As a result, they’re misdiagnosed with BPD, a disorder that people are sympathetic towards.
/r/MensRights14/09/24 12:42 PM
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Lack of empathy. Seeing gender related issues as a zero sum game - money and focus being bought to men’s issues should instead go to women’s issues. Wanting to maintain status quo - family courts favour women, abusive women aren’t taken seriously, etc., some aren’t willing to give up their privileges.
/r/MensRights13/09/24 02:05 PM
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I get where you're coming from but there's nothing wrong with feminism focusing on issues that directly affect women. The issue with feminism is that some claim it's a solution for men's issues when it is not (an honest feminist will even tell you that it isn't). The inverse is not true with men's rights. This subreddit is simply a space for people to focus on men's issues. Not everyone here labels themselves an mra either, I personally prefer egalitarian. I focus on issues that directly affect …
/r/MensRights06/09/24 11:52 PM
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I’ve seen some even say that menslib is too misogynistic lol. They don’t want any discussion on men’s issues.
/r/MensRights06/09/24 03:55 PM
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It's funny because they justify the indian women who prevented gender neutral rape laws coming into effect, because men supposedly would make false counter claims of rape.
/r/MensRights05/09/24 03:40 PM
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A core part of feminism is the belief in the patriarchy theory. Individual feminists like yourself may be fine but influencial feminists who have power, are not. 'The movement has since struggled to address women as perpetrators. It has historically deployed a "strategy of containment" to respond to women as perpetrators.' (In regards to domestic abuse) 'Where men are victim-survivors, they are less likely to experience a pattern of abuse, it is more likely to be a one-off incident. Some men and…
/r/MensRights03/09/24 10:09 PM
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their traditional roles have nearly vanished Mainly when it comes to authority. When it comes to stuff that benefits women, male traditions are still expected.
/r/MensRights03/09/24 09:57 PM
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Feminists want the idea of the patriarchy to be real (in people’s minds*) so that women can be viewed as perpetual victims. Being seen as victims comes with power. Also, if men control everything then women cannot be held accountable for anything.
/r/MensRights03/09/24 10:00 AM
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I agree. Left wing on paper is supposed to be progressive, that should mean that they care about the welfare of men. However, we don’t see that in reality. Feminists are progressive when it comes to women and trans people, but they’re conservative when it comes to men.
/r/MensRights02/09/24 08:21 PM
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That is the likely end result of mastering point 6
/r/MensRights02/09/24 10:35 AM
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Why not just go ahead and legalise crimes where the defendant may make counterclaims?
/r/MensRights02/09/24 10:26 AM
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We should not pick a gender to focus on in regards to child sexual abuse. I was asking about whether it is common or not (as per the original comment 'Why is this happening so commonly?') rather than compare gender. In spite of that, thank you for the sources. I'll give the longer sources you've posted a read after work. Something I'm noticing from the shorter ones is that it relies on crime data, i.e. perpetrators who have been found guilty. This article cites a study says that 1 in 9 offenders…
/r/MensRights02/09/24 09:29 AM
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There’s a few of her as it was big news, but not all of them are of just one woman. If you have statistics for how common it is then please do post them.
/r/MensRights02/09/24 02:04 AM
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When are they going to start teaching them not to rape boys?
/r/MensRights01/09/24 04:37 PM
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I just Google searched 'teacher sex student uk' within the past year, private window/incognito. The vast majority of news articles are showing female predators.
/r/MensRights01/09/24 04:34 PM
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We don't need to let them. They're completely free to do so if they wanted to and yet they don't.
/r/MensRights01/09/24 04:23 PM
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Yeah, makeup does a lot of the heavy lifting for many lol.
/r/MensRights31/08/24 11:04 AM
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The irony is typically always lost on them. It’s like someone writing satire.
/r/MensRights31/08/24 10:34 AM
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If you don’t have cohabiting laws in your country or state, then don’t marry at all.
/r/MensRights31/08/24 10:29 AM
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The justice system was only designed to punish criminal men. Which is why they are typically hesitant to give women harsher sentences or sentence them at all. Nuance comes into the equation when women are the perpetrators. Suddenly, things like killing your children whilst still tragic, becomes not so bad.
/r/MensRights31/08/24 10:27 AM
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A lot of women simply cannot handle rejection. Notice when men choose to stay single, it pisses them of too because they feel rejected. If dating app data is anything to go by, women only find 10-20% of the men on those apps, attractive. That means the vast majority of men are either neutral or unattractive to them. They effectively see most men as choosing beggars who aren’t worthy to have any preferences because they are above your level. Add in the fact that with stuff like body count, they w…
/r/MensRights31/08/24 10:17 AM
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I don't even have an issue with prevention in regards to both genders. The thing is, if they have an issue with stuff like men bringing up MGM when it comes to FGM, they should abide by their own rules and not do the same thing when it comes to men's issues. As you said, they use it as ammunition to be dismissive and they frequently derail other men's issues in a similar manner.
/r/MensRights30/08/24 11:43 PM
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Some women just can’t help themselves. They brigade malementalhealth sub to act as ‘incel’ police.
/r/MensRights30/08/24 10:02 PM
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You see, men have ego not feelings.
/r/MensRights30/08/24 09:57 PM
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Most likely. The most common rebuttals are based on assumptions rather than what evidence actually points out. Men are more likely to have access to guns - not true in all or most of Europe Women use less harmful methods - men are more likely to succeed even with the same method
/r/MensRights30/08/24 01:16 PM
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In the UK. Literally heard two Muslim mums talking casually about how they had their sons mutilated and were annoyed about the boys complaining about the pain and being scared. They were annoyed because women go through periods and give birth. Bunch of psychopaths.
/r/MensRights30/08/24 01:08 PM
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It's similar with narcissism. Narcissism manifests in women as the covert or vulnerable type. They use female victimhood as they know that is their strength, since people tend to believe and empathise with women more. https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s11199-024-01471-4 Abstract: Research has only recently begun to explore narcissism in women using gender-inclusive assessments that move beyond traditional male-centric frameworks associated with grandiosity. Such work indicates gender dif…
/r/MensRights30/08/24 12:58 PM
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Another factor may be that given the risk-averse nature of women, men are much more likely to volunteer as lab rats compared to women.
/r/MensRights30/08/24 12:52 PM
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They fought for the right to rape men without any legal repercussions. Source
/r/MensRights29/08/24 01:25 PM
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They can’t go against Reddit’s content policy, otherwise the mods end up getting banned. When that happens, admins will close the sub for being ‘unmoderated’. Especially on a larger subreddit like this as there are more people who will report stuff.
/r/MensRights29/08/24 12:27 PM
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Unless something has changed, there’s no such thing as admin of a subreddit. Mods generally control subreddits but admins are a level above them.
/r/MensRights29/08/24 11:59 AM
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Who knows, but you said it yourself, ‘removed by administrator’. Admins work for Reddit.
/r/MensRights29/08/24 10:26 AM
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Admin would mean it’s a higher up. With all the political shit on mainstream, non-political subs, it’s pretty obvious Reddit is trying to push a certain candidate.
/r/MensRights29/08/24 09:15 AM
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What makes it worse is that it's not uncommon for people to sympathise with mothers who kill their children. They become nuanced when it's a woman doing the bad thing.
/r/MensRights28/08/24 10:40 AM
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Thinking that giving women money equals masculinity is utter stupidity. For some men, it's the only reason they're 'attractive' to women.
/r/MensRights28/08/24 10:37 AM
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It's a rather unfortunate side effect. People see misandry in the left and assume the right is better, when they are more or less the same when it comes to men's issues. Right wingers also use the opportunity to rectruit men.
/r/MensRights27/08/24 12:55 PM
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Of course women are allowed to answer in regards to men’s experiences. You can’t make this shit up lmao.
/r/MensRights21/08/24 12:56 PM
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Depends on which role model tbh. But in general, they don’t want men questioning stuff that they’re expected to do because others benefit from it. It’s not just women who benefit from men either.
/r/MensRights18/08/24 12:38 PM
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With the decline in marriage, I have a feeling they will bring in cohabiting laws to the UK as well.
/r/MensRights18/08/24 11:58 AM
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Wouldn't bother me if they had the same energy when the shoes on the other foot but they always find excuses to justify it instead. 'DO NOT LET AN UNEMPLOYED WOMAN MOVE INTO YOUR HOME.' would just be seen as misogyny.
/r/MensRights17/08/24 11:26 PM
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It's not just internet feminists who say this either. Large feminist corporations like Women's Aid in the UK employ DARVO to downplay male victims. I guess because they have incentive to do so (government funding). Where men are victim-survivors, they are less likely to experience a pattern of abuse, it is more likely to be a one-off incident. Some men and boys report that when they have been a victim-survivor of abuse it does not have the same impact and cause the same sense of fear. A large pr…
/r/MensRights15/08/24 02:27 PM
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Masculinity is giving women money /s
/r/MensRights15/08/24 02:20 PM
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Most men have been raised with the idea that it's his responsibility to provide and that the woman can contribute financially if she wants to, but it is not her responsibility.
/r/MensRights15/08/24 02:19 PM
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The women who say 'I'm not his mum' don't see the irony when they want to be provided for like a little girl, lol.
/r/MensRights15/08/24 02:15 PM
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For the lack of better terms, whiteknights and simps definitely contribute to aspects of misandry. I don't think loneliness is one of them. A lot of men don't feel safe to open up to their own wives because of how she or other women have responded in the past. You would expect emotional support as a basic thing from your partner. When you're in that situation, you feel like a tool that is exploited to provide and not really loved as a person which can make men feel lonely. The type of men that a…
/r/MensRights14/08/24 09:46 AM
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So women believe they get to decide what is misogynistic, but also don't believe that misandry exists? Even worse, they claim our problems are the result of misogyny (toxic masculinity).
/r/MensRights14/08/24 01:19 AM
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I think they're also taught to see men as lesser human beings than themselves too, which is why some of them get offended when men demand the same things from women, that women do from men.
/r/MensRights14/08/24 01:01 AM
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The gynocentric lens is so prevalent that even some men repeat it. Man assaults woman - poor woman, she went through a terrible ordeal. Woman assaults man - what did he do to cause her to do that? she might be suffering from mental or hormonal issues. Man complains of dead bedroom - are you doing chores around the house? taking her out on date nights? Woman complains of dead bedroom - he's a porn addict, he's cheating on you. Husband vents his feelings - trauma dumping, she's not your therapist.…
/r/MensRights14/08/24 12:58 AM
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Whilst there examples of men write women badly, it’s usually in books people don’t really read. The annoying part is that they like to claim bad writing when a woman is portrayed negatively. Like a nagging wife is a badly written woman because they apparently don’t exist. You kind of see the same thing on AITA or relationship subs, they call it fake.
/r/MensRights12/08/24 03:12 PM
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The more appropriate term is misandry or internalised misandry. Feminists only use ‘toxic masculinity’ because misandry does not fit with their concept of patriarchy.
/r/MensRights12/08/24 01:26 PM
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Any time you hear people talking about suffering of minorities or helping them, it's usually just minority women they're talking about.
/r/MensRights12/08/24 07:54 AM
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Huffinton Post thought a team of all white women was diverse
/r/MensRights12/08/24 07:50 AM
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She just has to make herself the victim, what a disgusting, self-centred person. All the stuff they say to men such as whataboutism, victim blaming, etc., all goes out the window when they want to display their misandry.
/r/MensRights12/08/24 07:42 AM
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They don’t realise that, that line originated from an MRA lol
/r/MensRights11/08/24 04:35 PM
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Akshually, the fact that women are seen as weak, is misogyny.
/r/MensRights11/08/24 07:11 AM
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‘Men only bring up their issues to minimise women’s issues’ ‘Equality feels like oppression when you’re accustomed to privilege’ They have so many lines that are more applicable to themselves.
/r/MensRights11/08/24 07:01 AM
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I can't really blame guys who've realised this and opt out
/r/MensRights09/08/24 04:45 PM
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I don’t think I will ever get rid of it lol. One of the few cars where the intake sounds better than the exhaust, especially if you put a carbon intake on it.
/r/MensRights09/08/24 04:05 PM
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Yeah bro
/r/MensRights09/08/24 01:31 PM
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I’m also a car/bike guy, mainly older stuff though lol. I would have random girls smiling at me sometimes when I took my Laguna seca blue M3 into uni, most didn’t realise it’s old and I bought mine when they were relatively cheap. A car is defo one of those things that makes a first impression in regards to wealth.
/r/MensRights09/08/24 12:52 PM
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Men fall under two categories for a lot of women, the man she feels physically attracted to and the one she sees as husband material. It’s not always possible to get both in one man, so they will settle for the latter. The most obvious sign is a dead bedroom shortly after marriage or when she’s done having kids (I don’t mean the recovery period after giving birth). I’ve always been okay being single so I’ve never had the urge to ask a woman out. Every relationship I’ve been in, involved a woman …
/r/MensRights09/08/24 11:07 AM
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That doesn’t mean they desire their partners sexually
/r/MensRights08/08/24 02:34 PM
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Well it’s a lot harder to use a guy who knows he’s attractive.
/r/MensRights08/08/24 01:27 PM
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Women who do this know, they just usually hope he doesn’t find out. Some men are ‘husband material’ for a reason and it’s not because they’re physically attracted to those men.
/r/MensRights08/08/24 01:25 PM
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‘Alpha fucks, beta bucks’. This happens quite often, most men are just unaware. If you look at when women cheat, you’ll find this: Consistent with a dual mating strategy, women experienced stronger physical attraction to their affair partners and stronger parental attraction to their primary partners. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S1090513824000710?via%3Dihub
/r/MensRights08/08/24 01:17 PM
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This is why rape laws should be gender neutral. Sentencing guidelines suggest suspended sentences when possible for the female equivalent crime of rape.
/r/MensRights08/08/24 10:31 AM
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British sentences are lenient in general but rape is the only type of sexual assault that has a minimum custodial term of 4 years and sentences cannot be suspended in England and Wales. The only problem is that it’s not gender neutral and applies to male perps only.
/r/MensRights08/08/24 10:27 AM
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Choice of words are important. Given that feminists push that term because they deny misandry exists, as a result of the 'patriarchy'. They believe what they recognise as toxic masculinity, stems from misogyny. So whilst the phenomena are real, such as your example, there is no reason to adopt the feminist label. The word misandry is more applicable.
/r/MensRights06/08/24 11:10 AM
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They know shaming language works on most men. A real man does this..., incel mindset, short man syndrome, etc. When you learn to ignore them, they lose power over you.
/r/MensRights06/08/24 10:46 AM
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Yeah, they only care when it starts affecting them negatively.
/r/MensRights06/08/24 10:40 AM
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They are very petty so they will paint those type of men as losers eitherway. Man doesn't want to date? It's because he can't get laid. It's childish, kind of like saying 'You don't want us? We don't want you anyway'. They absolutely hate rejection and therefore, are always looking to externalise blame. The only time they are okay with men not wanting to date is if he solely blames himself for it. For example, I am not in a position to be dating, I am not good relationship material.
/r/MensRights01/08/24 10:39 AM
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What I've learnt from the school of feminism Misandry? Misogyny Racism? Misogyny Homophobia? Misogyny Classism? Misogyny Ableism? Misogyny Ageism? Misogyny Xenophobia? Misogyny
/r/MensRights30/07/24 06:37 PM
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Yeah, it’s fake. If you know that and are okay with it then cool but for me? I’m good.
/r/MensRights30/07/24 02:30 PM
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Some passport bros are in denial lol. Is she going to stay around if the money stops coming in? Fuck no.
/r/MensRights30/07/24 01:49 PM
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Yes, if you are using money to ‘attract’ someone, it’s going to attract a certain type of woman. Having money doesn’t increase physical or sexual attraction, but to some you will be seen as a resource to be used. This study on why women cheat, somewhat reinforces that idea. I’m not a red piller, but their ‘alpha fucks, beta sucks’ idea is a real phenomenon. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S1090513824000710 My parents were born in a third world country, most of the women there a…
/r/MensRights30/07/24 01:39 PM
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The crazy part is that DARVO also applies on societal level towards men. Men complain about said thing, people deny it and claim it’s women who have it worse.
/r/MensRights29/07/24 12:40 PM
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Lol or Neo like reflexes
/r/MensRights28/07/24 05:07 PM
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Everything I've posted here gets downvoted instantly. I think it's the resident feminist lurkers.
/r/MensRights28/07/24 04:21 PM
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I believe that the fact that you can beat up or kill women is why they hate games like GTA and RDR. I'm interested to know what direction Take-Two/Rockstar go because it seems like every company is pandering to feminists.
/r/MensRights28/07/24 04:14 PM
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Yeah, it's like bad women don't exist. If I were to write a script featuring a negative interaction I've had with a woman (emphasis on singular), it would probably end up on menwritingwomen, even though it's based on lived experience. They get happy when a writer paints all men as evil though lol.
/r/MensRights28/07/24 04:11 PM
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Lol, it's being review bombed too. I feel sorry for any lads birthed by these self-centred hypocrites. Oh and change.com petitions are usually useless, hopefull that will be the case here too.
/r/MensRights28/07/24 02:15 PM
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Previously Muslim, some things I’ve heard from muslim women in the uk: ‘My money is mine, his money is mine. It says so in the Quran’ ‘Princess treatment is our right as women, men wanting to be pampered are feminine so it’s haram’ They are the epitome of ‘equality’ for me, gender roles for you.
/r/MensRights28/07/24 10:59 AM
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There's likely mutliple reasons but I think one reason for this group mentality, comes from living vicariously through other women. They invent their own facts to justify why it's always the man's fault. When they can't the video must be staged or the post is fake. I think another possibility is that they're also guilty of doing the same thing. So it's in their best interest to minimise the issue in order to not be held accountable.
/r/MensRights27/07/24 11:53 AM
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I think the difference is they don't select men for LTR's or marriage based on their sex drive. They look for someone who will provide for them or go for the 'safe' option, then end up in a dead bedroom. Edit: A study was just posted that confirms my thoughts. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S1090513824000710?via%3Dihub
/r/MensRights27/07/24 12:13 AM
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Who are you arguing with? I never claimed it to be biological. You are quoting the word ‘base’ but it’s not in my comment at all.
/r/MensRights26/07/24 11:03 AM
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Some women will happily marry a a financially stable guy (rich would be a bonus), that they aren't physically attracted to at all. It shouldn't come as a surprise when they cheat.
/r/MensRights25/07/24 10:28 PM
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Another reason as to why a woman’s career doesn’t matter too much (unless she’s broke) is that women often see it as her money and our money, even when they’re the breadwinners.
/r/MensRights25/07/24 10:03 PM
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I agree with the points mentioned but want to add something. Low Sex Drive in Women: Socialization rewards women for low sex drive, as it allows them to posture and extract resources from men. Studies show that women's sexual behaviors are influenced by social rewards and punishments, leading to strategic withholding of sex [9]. I think the low sex drive is because when they're ready for marriage, some women will settle for men that they can exploit rather than someone they are actually sexually…
/r/MensRights25/07/24 12:30 PM
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Wait till you realise that there aren't any major political sides that care for men.
/r/MensRights25/07/24 12:21 PM
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The article doesn't even give the extent of 'misogyny' in schools. The education industry is pretty much ran by women, and girls have doing way better than boys for several decades.
/r/MensRights25/07/24 12:12 PM
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They do acknowledge some minor parts of misandry. The problem is instead of recognising it specifically as hatred towards men, they victim blame by saying it's toxic masculinity. This is done intentionally so that they don't have to tackle it. 'Men do it to themselves, so it's men who need to change'.
/r/MensRights25/07/24 12:05 PM
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Rape involves penile penetration. Abuse victims are victims of violence against women and girls. Wow, all rapists somehow just happen to be men and look at the rampant violence against women and girls.
/r/MensRights25/07/24 11:56 AM
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It is hypocritical but at the same time, if you're both okay with it then it doesn't really matter.
/r/MensRights24/07/24 11:42 PM
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I know, I was talking in regards to the common perspective.
/r/MensRights24/07/24 06:07 PM
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I would be okay with them bringing her back but only if they imprison her for life. I don’t see them doing that though, they will likely try to push some sympathetic story for her and let her go free.
/r/MensRights24/07/24 12:02 PM
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This always happens. When it comes to atrocities, such as slavery, the media portrays women as innocent victims of their husbands with no free will. With ISIS, women are brainwashed by men into doing those things but men are just born that way apparently.
/r/MensRights24/07/24 11:58 AM
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Yes, it’s the same experience I had when I used to debate my Muslim family members about Islam. It’s impossible to win an argument with them because they always convince themselves that they’re correct.
/r/MensRights24/07/24 10:16 AM
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Just a play on the word misogyny, the opposite of miss ogyny, Mr ogyny (which is actually misandry).
/r/MensRights23/07/24 07:48 PM
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I think their hatred for men is so extreme that their choice of words and actions are intentionally antagonistic which is why they will have a fit if you try holding a mirror back to them. They know terms like toxic masculinity are victim-blamey which why they refuse to accept toxic femininity as a term.
/r/MensRights23/07/24 11:08 AM
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They should also give courses to female teachers to not rape boys.
/r/MensRights23/07/24 10:58 AM
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Yes, it's projection on their behalf. Ever heard a feminist say 'men only bring up their issues in order to minimise or dismiss women's issues'. They're explaining their thought process when they derail men's issues.
/r/MensRights23/07/24 10:55 AM
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I recognise that but there is a difference. Feminists will use that argument after being called out for labelling all men as problematic. 'Men leave their sick wives', 'men are rapists', etc.
/r/MensRights21/07/24 07:28 PM
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They also never consider whether those attempts include mutliple by the same individual. A person who failed can list that they've tried 7 times, a person who's succeeded may have tried numerous times but they're no longer here to answer that question.
/r/MensRights21/07/24 02:18 PM
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Most of us know that it's not all women, there happens to be too many though. The problem occurs when discussing specific issues. Make a post about why male genital mutilation should be banned without relating it to FGM at all. I guarantee that there will be someone saying you're trying to compare it to FGM, in an attempt to stifle the conversation. Or see if they can discuss male suicide without bringing up 'women attempt more'. Level headed women get drowned out or are too afraid to speak when…
/r/MensRights21/07/24 01:56 PM
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I’ve seen smegma in labia folds before, they thought that part was self cleaning too.
/r/MensRights21/07/24 10:19 AM
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I don't know, a lot of Indian women who've migrated to the west are super entitled, knowitalls.
/r/MensRights19/07/24 04:39 PM
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I’ve been saying it for a while. Women say doctors don’t take their health concerns seriously, I believe them. However, I don’t know why they believe it’s uniquely affecting them. Doctors are people and a lot of people simply don’t give a shit about others.
/r/MensRights17/07/24 10:14 AM
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Well, women also had support from men. The average man is empathetic towards women, even if the leaders of the country are not. There was an article regarding the Iranian protests where 700 were arrested, around 640 of those protesters being men. With men's issues, it's not just women who oppose you but other men, perhaps the vast majority, as well.
/r/MensRights16/07/24 02:25 PM
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Yikes! Those guys (being posted) are pathetic. Anything for a molecule of minge I guess.
/r/MensRights16/07/24 02:14 PM
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This has been studied and found to be true. Further basic evidence for the dark-ego-vehicle principle: Higher pathological narcissism is associated with greater involvement in feminist activism. Feminists don't even deny it, they downplay it with 'it is not unique to feminism'. Take a look at the narcissist's prayer: That didn't happen. And if it did, it wasn't that bad. And if it was, that's not a big deal. And if it is, that's not my fault. And if it was, I didn't mean it. And if I did, you de…
/r/MensRights16/07/24 12:59 PM
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It's often the same people, including male pick me's, who spout 'yes all men', that take offense to 'yes all women'. They're all hypocrites.
/r/MensRights16/07/24 12:35 PM
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Exactly, the left being full of misandrists doesn't mean the right are our friend.
/r/MensRights16/07/24 12:30 PM
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Proof that women pressured lawmakers? I don't know about pressuring but in some places, they are the lawmakers. In the UK, women were part of the decision that excluded women from being recognised as perpetrators of rape. We did consider whether there was evidence that a woman could force a man to penetrate her against his will but, although we found a little anecdotal evidence, we did not discover sufficient to convince us that this was the equivalent of rape. They stated the above after declar…
/r/MensRights13/07/24 09:03 PM
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You first came with the idea that "female gender was found to be the strongest predictor of separation or divorce in each cohort.", IMO it's more fair to say that reviewing the studies shows that different conditions/diagnoses seem to result with different marriage dissolution outcomes for different genders of affected (patient). I don't think you realised but this was my stance to begin with. I specifically stated 'Studies like this have varying results, some show the opposite like these ones' …
/r/MensRights10/07/24 11:56 PM
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I see alleged nurses on Reddit say that they give women pamphlets regarding men leaving them due to sickness. I have never heard a women mention receiving one IRL, and it seems crazy to tell a patient this just after they find out they have lifelong or terminal illness.
/r/MensRights09/07/24 11:43 AM
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That study forgot to record who initiated the divorce and the reason for it. Studies like this have varying results, some show the opposite like these ones: https://www.researchgate.net/publication/347528735_Physical_health_conditions_and_subsequent_union_separation_a_couple-level_register_study_on_neurological_conditions_heart_and_lung_disease_and_cancer https://journals.lww.com/headtraumarehab/Fulltext/2021/07000/Marital_Stability_Over_10_Years_Following.9.aspx#T4 https://www.researchgate.net/…
/r/MensRights09/07/24 11:37 AM
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AFAIK, there is only one other study that shows that result, which has its own issues. The main one being that it doesn't mention who initiated the divorce or the cause for it. There are also studies which show the opposite, like this one, and some which show no difference.
/r/MensRights09/07/24 11:32 AM
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You're not wrong but I want to add that a lot of this is due to social conditioning in western countries. When growing up, boys are bombarded by the media on how to behave and the vast majority of our teachers are women.
/r/MensRights07/07/24 06:44 PM
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Usually what happens is users from the initial sub create the one for men so that they can police it. It happened with the male equivalent of r/TrollXChromosomes, r/TrollYchromosome. It's got 2 million subscribers, yet the sub has very little participation. The mod for the latter sub is TiTrC, a known misandrist that has defended a female rapist in the past. Oh, I just realised there used to be another sub. What likely happened is the mods got banned by admins so that they can claim the subreddi…
/r/MensRights06/07/24 10:20 PM
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You can do that without marriage though. What's the point in wanting kids if you're not going to be a father to them.
/r/MensRights06/07/24 08:58 PM
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Eh, you risk more than child support with marriage, such as alimony, your home, pension. Interested to know why you should be married to have kids.
/r/MensRights06/07/24 08:07 PM
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In hindsight, I should have wrote that it should be on the adult. Frustratingly, society and the law rarely hold women accountable for any crime, or at the very least they will try to paint her as a victim too (childhood abuse, mental illness, etc.). When they hear about a girl with a male teacher, they imagine violent rape. When they hear about a boy with a female teacher, they just think he wanted it anyway.
/r/MensRights06/07/24 12:50 PM
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I keep seeing feminists say that gay men are and have a history of being misogynists.
/r/MensRights06/07/24 09:48 AM
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On a similar note, there's a growing sentiment on Reddit that gay men have a history of hating women. Feminist insults involve traits women typically find unnattractive in men. Virgin, incel, broke, living in mum's basement, manlet, short man syndrome, small dick energy, gay, etc.
/r/MensRights06/07/24 09:44 AM
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It’s still on the adult to not engage in sexual behaviour with them. That is why there are specific laws to punish the adult regardless of whether they had consent.
/r/MensRights06/07/24 08:38 AM
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Those guys are idiots but it also needs to be looked at from a different perspective. There are attractive male teachers and celebrities that some girls would love to sleep with. Remember how crazy they were for Bieber? There would be plenty of underaged girls wishing it was them but people would be calling for his head regardless. The onus is on the adult to not engage in sexual behaviour with children. It is also why they had to bring laws which take the child’s consent out of the equation.
/r/MensRights06/07/24 08:30 AM
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Just found out that the boy has primary custody of the child. That should mean she will have to pay child support to him. https://www.judiciary.uk/wp-content/uploads/2024/07/Rebecca-Joynes-Sentencing-Remarks-04.07.24.pdf
/r/MensRights05/07/24 06:40 PM
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That’s what I’m seeing too. Maybe some are more reserved when it comes to getting angry against strangers, but when it comes to their partner, kids or other relatives, it’s a whole other story.
/r/MensRights05/07/24 06:31 PM
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Chill out, I meant if he wants to take care of the baby he should be able to. Having to pay child support is the reality, I do not agree with him having to nor did I say that anywhere. Edit: Turns out he does have primary custody of the child. She will be the one paying him child support when she gets out.
/r/MensRights05/07/24 06:17 PM
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UK perspective here. Traditional male gender roles along with hypergamy, essentially ensures you will lose in divorce. Women typically want men who makes at least the same as them or more. She gives birth and will choose whether she wants to work or stay at home. The man is expected to work. This fucks you over in divorce mainly by ensuring that you are not the primary caregiver and that you are the main or sole provider. Since she has primary custody gets to live in the house till the kids beco…
/r/MensRights04/07/24 09:18 PM
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Faking empathy to gain someone's trust. I think there's a term for this but it slips my mind.
/r/MensRights04/07/24 09:04 PM
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It should be internalised misandry if we're using equivalent terms. The problem is, feminists want it to be labelled toxic masculinity. Essentially, so they can say it's your fault or the fault of other men.
/r/MensRights04/07/24 08:57 PM
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Ah okay, that’s fair.
/r/MensRights04/07/24 05:48 PM
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That is correct, but I’m not sure what your point is?
/r/MensRights04/07/24 05:43 PM
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Their language is carefully and intentionally selected this way. They call the male equivalent of misandry or internalised misandry, toxic-masculinity. It's because they do not want to acknowledge that misandry exists.
/r/MensRights04/07/24 04:50 PM
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I don't think it's insane if the boy is up to the task. I'm curious to know who has custody of the baby now. I read in another article that the mum only has visitation access, which is more than she should have.
/r/MensRights04/07/24 04:12 PM
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There is a double standard with regards to British rape laws, but even a male teacher wouldn't be charged with rape in the same scenario. Statutory rape only applies when the victim is 13 or under, otherwise it is only rape (male perp) or section 4 (female perp) if the victim does not consent. If there was consent, it falls under 'sexual activity with a child'. It was hard to find an article with a male teacher (most of them seem to be women) but you can see this guy wasn't charge with rape eith…
/r/MensRights04/07/24 03:07 PM
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It's normal in the UK to spend half a custodial sentence in prison and the remainder on license (probation). You're not wrong about women's prisons being more cushy though. Also, the kid will still be financially responsible if the custodian applies for child maintenance.
/r/MensRights04/07/24 02:29 PM
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I agree with your points about conservatives, or at least the mainstream ones anyway. They still view men as expendable.
/r/MensRights03/07/24 10:29 AM
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Keep in mind mods have to remove comments that violate Reddit’s content policy or else face a ban. The same goes for this subreddit.
/r/MensRights03/07/24 10:25 AM
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I think LWMA is better than this sub but that’s probably because it’s a much smaller subreddit.
/r/MensRights03/07/24 10:24 AM
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I don't know where the idea that doctors are only dismissive of women comes from. Perhaps men learn that doctors are going to be dismissive so they stop trying. Whereas, women continue to persist until they take it seriously. Doctors are people at the end of the day and a lot of them simply don't care about you or aren't very good at their job.
/r/MensRights03/07/24 10:09 AM
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The feminists they mention in the article have selective amnesia. They will continue parroting studies which make men look bad, such as men leave their sick wives, even though it’s been retracted. Something like the above article will simply be ‘forgotten’ within a few hours. Edit: article is from 2017 which proves the point.
/r/MensRights02/07/24 09:01 AM
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The fact that it’s misused is quite dangerous though. Some people automatically think men who are unsuccessful in dating are likely to become misogynists. The vast majority are just regular people.
/r/MensRights01/07/24 10:02 PM
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Shaming is an effective tool that typically works when it comes to controlling men and I think those people realise this.
/r/MensRights01/07/24 10:24 AM
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Reddit draws in misandrists. I think a lot of them migrated from Tumblr around the time they banned porn on there.
/r/MensRights27/06/24 06:55 AM
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The thing is, these organisations are the 'experts' when it comes to domestic or sexual abuse so anything they say is regarded as truth, even if it is a blatant lie. Also, wouldn't this go for men as well? Yes. However, they always view things through the eyes of the woman, whether she's a victim or perpetrator. Woman was abused by a man? Utterly tragic, the man must be punished (I agree). Man was abused by a woman? What caused the woman to do this. As you can see, the male viewpoint is disregar…
/r/MensRights26/06/24 08:26 PM
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Sure. Here is an article written by a feminist about how feminist movements have suppressed male victims of DV. Whilst she admits to it, she sees no problem with this fact. https://core.ac.uk/download/pdf/72839546.pdf Women's aid petition: https://www.womensaid.org.uk/international-womens-day-womens-aid-launches-petition-to-require-local-authorities-to-fund-womens-domestic-abuse-services/ Women's aid on female abusers: Where men are victim-survivors, they are less likely to experience a pattern …
/r/MensRights26/06/24 07:23 PM
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Gynocentrism and perceived agency. When there's a male on female crime, society looks at how the woman was harmed. When there's a female on male crime, society looks at what could have caused the woman to act in such a way. Prior abuse is taken into consideration for female perpetrators unlike male perpetrators. They assign more agency to a young teenage boy than a grown woman. The male voice and point of view simply isn't important.
/r/MensRights26/06/24 07:14 PM
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Top level comments are pretty good to be honest. Usually, this question draws in woman and pick me men who just outright lie about marriage. Edit: Looks like they eventually made it to the post
/r/MensRights24/06/24 09:44 PM
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It’s the same thing with genital mutilation, prison sentences or death penalty, sterilisation, etc.
/r/MensRights20/06/24 06:27 PM
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It's their way of reframing female privilege so that they don't have to address it. They would rather keep their privileges so they blame the whole thing on the 'patriarchy'.
/r/MensRights19/06/24 04:41 PM
6

You must have missed the part where they dismiss that ‘toxic femininity’ is a thing in the first place.
/r/MensRights13/06/24 03:05 PM
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Top comment from the first female centric sub I came across That's internalized misogyny and adherence to patriarchy. Not "toxic femininity" whatever tf that's supposed to be.
/r/MensRights13/06/24 11:59 AM
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Laguage is important. It's not gone unnoticed that gender roles for women are labelled misogyny, not toxic femininity.
/r/MensRights13/06/24 11:45 AM
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The justice system was designed to punish male criminals, not female ones. Women are only affected by extension. Sexual assault probably would not even be illegal if men did not perpetrate it. Look at paternity fraud, it is exclusively perpetrated by women and there are no legal consequences for it. Also, with female criminals, people are much more empathetic and nuanced.
/r/MensRights13/06/24 12:25 AM
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It exists to indoctrinate men, not help them. One of the mods there defended a female rapist and the founder says that misandry does not exist.
/r/MensRights12/06/24 11:46 PM
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They are talking about the subreddit r/leftwingmaleadvocates which is far from misandrist. It's nothing like the mainstream left.
/r/MensRights12/06/24 09:56 PM
4

Yeah, that is true.
/r/MensRights11/06/24 09:26 PM
16

I honestly don’t think political side matters. Women from both sides have a history of using men for their own benefit.
/r/MensRights11/06/24 08:38 PM
24

There are so many relationship double standards. The reason is that there are too many women who simply don’t like being held accountable so they gaslight men instead.
/r/MensRights11/06/24 08:32 PM
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Tell the women saying that they look similar and you will find it is often just false platitudes.
/r/MensRights09/06/24 11:38 PM
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Yet they don’t apply this line of logic to go bags or whatever it’s called.
/r/MensRights09/06/24 04:07 PM
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They knew it wasn't him either which is the most unforgivable part.
/r/MensRights09/06/24 01:25 PM
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The crazy part is how much more lenient the sentencing guidelines are for women raping a child. https://www.sentencingcouncil.org.uk/offences/crown-court/item/rape-of-a-child-under-13/ https://www.sentencingcouncil.org.uk/offences/magistrates-court/item/causing-or-inciting-a-child-under-13-to-engage-in-sexual-activity/ Minimum starting point for males is 8 yrs whilst the minimum starting point for females is 2 years. This woman only got 8 years despite multiple charges. The category of crime it …
/r/MensRights09/06/24 01:21 PM
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The reason it's a complaint is that mental health issues or psychosis are never seen as an excuse for men. You will have people saying to give him the death penalty whereas with a woman they are opposed to throwing her in prison in favour of treatment. Also, it doesn't even have to be that extreme. People armchair diagnose lazy women with depression. There is always an excuse for everything.
/r/MensRights06/06/24 04:39 PM
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You see, the patriarchy ensures men have full agency over their hormones and therefore, are always in perfect working order. As a result, men never suffer from something like psychosis.
/r/MensRights06/06/24 04:35 PM
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They’re clarifying because male victims are categorised under ‘violence against women and children’ (should be girls) as well. It’s a clever way for them to make violence against women seem more prominent whilst obscuring male victims. https://data.parliament.uk/DepositedPapers/Files/DEP2022-0294/Supporting_Male_Victims_March_2022.pdf
/r/MensRights05/06/24 02:39 PM
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Men derive greater health benefits from marriage than women. Perhaps that is because women typically marry wealthy or financially stable men. Therefore, married men are more likely to afford healthcare or better healthcare. Among straight women, 66 percent say they made the decision to end their marriages while only 39 percent of divorced men said the same. That is because marriage is commitment from the man not the woman. The most they could argue is that men benefit from a relationship but fro…
/r/MensRights04/06/24 12:57 PM
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Sorry that happened to you. They claim that there's a patriarchy but this is deflection by influential feminists. They are in positions of power whether that's in politics, law making and policing, social sciences, education, corporations, social media, etc. Not everyone agrees with them but they are the ones with actual power, creating one-sided policies and laws, publishing biased statistics, influencing kids in school, censoring speech online, etc. They get to control the narrative and the na…
/r/MensRights04/06/24 12:24 PM
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Yeah, they invade other movements and place themselves at the forefront. You see them bring up something about themselves when it's not relevant to the topic. They hate places like this because it exposes them for what they are. Thus, they can't make themselves the biggest victims. However, they are fine with menslib due to censorship so they can derail and make the topics about themselves.
/r/MensRights04/06/24 12:01 PM
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One of the most obvious instances is when they advised the police to let off Caroline Flacke even though they caught her red handed bloodying her boyfriend.
/r/MensRights03/06/24 05:40 PM
9

This is a common strategy irl, it’s just not said out loud. Best thing to do if you want to date is not flash your wealth, it pretty much attracts women like this who simply want to use you.
/r/MensRights02/06/24 06:02 PM
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The funny part is that it’s often the same women who say ‘I’m not your mum’ who behave this way. In many more ways than one too. The monetary stuff is obvious but the way their needs come first is how you would treat your child as well. They expect you to be an emotional dumping ground but won’t do the same for you. It’s all extremely gynocentric.
/r/MensRights02/06/24 05:56 PM
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Given that they put 'slightly feminine' in quotes, I think they may have been calling out the study/article. The conclusion of the study is bullshit. Kindness and empathy is a human trait, not a gendered one.
/r/MensRights02/06/24 12:21 PM
1

I think it's behaviour ingrained from a young age. Girls who are disrespectful towards boys are seen as 'cool' or 'badass' by other girls.
/r/MensRights01/06/24 12:17 PM
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It's mainly the years before school when childcare is the most difficult. The dad is home shortly after the children come home from school. Also, if you raise the kids to be self sufficient, which I think you should be, a lot of the housework work is done for you.
/r/MensRights01/06/24 11:57 AM
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They don't count work done by men because they feel entitled to it and take it for granted, e.g. men do all the legwork when it comes to dating or romance. A woman should be treated like a princess and the man is her servant. The servant shouldn't have the gall to ask a princess to do anything for him at all, only if she chooses to do so and the servant should be grateful. Regardless, people will still question why a princess is doing anything for a lowly servant.
/r/MensRights01/06/24 11:35 AM
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It’s kind of funny that the vast majority of women who call themselves romantic have never done anything romantic for their man. The whole princess mentality is only getting worse with TikTok. They complain about Andrew Tate but the female equivalents are rampant and left unchecked. There was a post, maybe on trueoffmychest where the OP gave her husband flowers for the first time and it made him cry. It doesn’t cross their minds that men might also enjoy feeling desired or special to their other…
/r/MensRights01/06/24 10:01 AM
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I think it's too late. I'm not interested in being a wage slave for a woman, even more so considering the courts will punish me for it if we divorce.
/r/MensRights23/05/24 03:41 PM
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Here's the article: Over the past few years, I have discussed the pitfalls of feminism many times over. Recently, Gen Z has taken the spotlight for straying from the millennial girlboss trajectory in favor of a different avenue, including finding and being in their Soft-girl Era. They’re avoiding the grind at all costs. But what about the women who came before them? What is going to happen to the millennial girl bosses? And how did they get there in the first place? First, it is worth noting tha…
/r/MensRights23/05/24 03:36 PM
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Me personally, I care but there's nothing I can do about it now. The thing is, my religious parents had me done at the age of 11 so I know what it was like before and after. Not to mention how frightening the procedure itself was, My parents thought I dumped my head in a bucket of water but I was simply drenched from sweat.
/r/MensRights23/05/24 01:21 PM
3

They should do a study on the provider or beneficiary gap
/r/MensRights23/05/24 01:07 PM
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It is systemic, to the point that is so normalised that people don't even see it for what it is.
/r/MensRights23/05/24 01:06 PM
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They should trial it out in some deserted island and broadcast it on TV.
/r/MensRights23/05/24 01:01 PM
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I think a lot of parents, especially dads, pamper their daughters too much and that’s where the princess mentality comes from. They want their husbands to take over from their dads. They’re the female equivalent of what women call ‘man child’.
/r/MensRights18/05/24 09:24 PM
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Re-submitted as I messed up the link last time. I think these women threw in the paedophile allegations to try and avoid prison. They are currently on remand and will be sentenced in July. Absolutely terrible for the old man.
/r/MensRights17/05/24 02:54 PM
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Whoops I’ll re-submit
/r/MensRights17/05/24 02:52 PM
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I think these women threw in the paedophile allegations to try and avoid prison. They are currently on remand and will be sentenced in July. Absolutely terrible for the old man.
/r/MensRights17/05/24 02:10 PM
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I wouldn't say male stupidity. Victims often defend their abusers, I think it's called 'trauma bonding'. Besides, the system should act in his best interests (and the public) regardless of what he wants.
/r/MensRights13/05/24 09:00 PM
7

That is such a dead subreddit considering there are 800K users
/r/EverydayMisandry12/05/24 12:25 PM
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That's true but I think it's false equivalency to begin with. We don't base sentences of male abusers on the male abusers that came before them. Attempted murder is attempted murder, what's between that perps legs should make no difference.
/r/MensRights12/05/24 12:16 PM
6

I knew there was another sub but couldn't remember the name. Shout out to u/PeonSupreme who kept it updated for so long.
/r/MensRights12/05/24 12:01 PM
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Probably the closest we'll get is r/FemaleSexPredatorNews Keep in mind that it's just the incidents that make it to the paper
/r/MensRights12/05/24 11:05 AM
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I think it's just being reported more now. Unfortunately, they want to keep the stats hidden so there's no way of knowing the real story.
/r/MensRights12/05/24 10:09 AM
3

I believe they call it Stockholm syndrome. This is one of those cases where the authorities shouldn’t take the partners position into consideration as she’s clearly a danger to him.
/r/MensRights12/05/24 09:14 AM
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Having spoken with people that bring this up when it comes to female perpetrated crimes, they use ’rarity’ as a justification for lenient sentencing for women.
/r/MensRights12/05/24 09:12 AM
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Typically, female nudity is limited to breasts, ass and the pubic area. You will rarely see female genitalia on screen.
/r/MensRights11/05/24 11:52 PM
4

So you do believe she should face jail time?
/r/MensRights11/05/24 06:37 PM
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Not the same guy but that is typically what happens even when the genders are switched. They are groomed and think it's okay until someone points out that it isn't. Statutory rape exists as a crime so that they can convict the adult regardless of what the child/teen thinks. You think we're pedo's or somthing?
/r/MensRights11/05/24 06:33 PM
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I see, you have no problems with a pedo having custody of a child and think the only consequence she should face is losing her job.
/r/MensRights11/05/24 06:27 PM
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Maybe you think that but I don’t think normal people do. I can see that. You are comparing an act of crime (murder) to an innocent act (on the boy's part). Do you believe a woman like should face no jail time and have custody of a child?
/r/MensRights11/05/24 06:00 PM
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He is 16 now. 18 months ago he was 14-15. Are you saying teachers who have sex with underage teens should not be in prison?
/r/MensRights11/05/24 05:36 PM
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The 'drizzle drizzle' meme has been highlighting how asinine a lot of things women demand of men is, simply by men saying the same thing that women say to men. Instead of realising how unreasonable they were being, it just pisses a lot of them off.
/r/MensRights11/05/24 05:30 PM
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Imagine men saying unattractive, straight women shouldn't have a sex drive and that they're so below my league that they shouldn't be able to look at me.
/r/MensRights11/05/24 05:04 PM
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That is in regards to the US. However, it still applies in the UK since there is no exemption to child maintenance, even if it's a consequence of statutory rape (I know it won't be legally considered rape in the UK).
/r/MensRights11/05/24 03:54 PM
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It's normally 16 but if the adult is in a position of power, then it's 18. Also, he was in a 'relationship' with her for 18 months so he was 14-15 when it began.
/r/MensRights11/05/24 03:48 PM
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You realise some underage girls are okay having sex with their male teachers as well, right? Have you heard of grooming? There is a reason as to why statutory rape laws were introduced. It doesn't matter if the kid is okay with it, the adult shouldn't be having sex with them regardless.
/r/MensRights11/05/24 03:42 PM
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Yes, in the UK it falls under 'sexual activity without consent' which carries more lenient sentencing than rape (other than the maximum possible sentence). The minimum is a community order and even if a custodial order is given, it may be suspended. Meanwhile, the minimum for rape is 4 years custodial with no possibility of a suspended sentence. Basically, prison is mandatory for males who are convicted, whilst it's a maybe if you're female.
/r/MensRights11/05/24 09:34 AM
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I agree. The problem is that the justice system was designed for men. Women are only affected as an aftereffect which is why they receive more lenient sentencing and countries like the UK say women should only be jailed for 'serious crimes'. Paternity fraud is something only women can commit so I don't see it becoming criminalised any time soon.
/r/MensRights11/05/24 09:20 AM
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One thing about the show is that there are so many people who feel sorry for Martha because 'she's a real person with mental illness'. This goes for both the character and the person she's based on.
/r/MensRights10/05/24 11:27 AM
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It would be great start if UK law would acknowledge female on male rape as rape.
/r/MensRights10/05/24 11:19 AM
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You might eventually but not for the right reasons. You'll be categorised as 'husband material'. The submissive provider some women will settle down with after they don't get what they want from men who they actually find sexually attractive. Once she feels secure or has what she wants, you'll find yourself in a dead bedroom.
/r/MensRights09/05/24 10:35 AM
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Just one of their many double standards when it comes to gender roles. Feminists say gender roles are bad but then have separated masculinity into 'healthy' or 'toxic'. The former being a way of keeping the 'good' parts of traditional masculinity and the latter used to throw away the rest.
/r/MensRights09/05/24 10:27 AM
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Yeah, I think that’s related to the above. My parents used to have me visit my GP for minor things and it would be a waste of time. So I don’t really go in unless somethings not going away or if it’s serious.
/r/MensRights07/05/24 01:32 PM
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I only work so that I have money to pay for things, not because I enjoy working. Also, what’s there to look forward to? It’s not like the olden days where you could buy a house on single income.
/r/MensRights07/05/24 12:27 PM
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It's because men tend not to visit doctors due to toxic masculinity. The funny part about this one is that they say doctors don’t take women’s health concerns seriously as if it’s a gender exclusive issue. The difference is women will persist and men will give up once they find that doctors are frequently dismissive. They never look at why men make certain decisions, they just blame everything on men having fragile ego’s. It’s like how men don’t feel safe about opening up due to how they were tr…
/r/MensRights07/05/24 12:15 PM
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But why do u go out of your way to criticise men who believe in 50-50 ? These are essentially white knights. They seek validation from women as their worth is based around it. The type of women they attract see them as an ATM, nothing superior about that.
/r/MensRights06/05/24 09:22 AM
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Shaming is a tactic that is particularly effective when it comes to controlling men. It definitely is not selfish to put yourself first. Especially to those who have shown they won't reciprocate.
/r/MensRights05/05/24 09:32 PM
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It's funny how annoyed they get when men refuse to play into the traditional male gender role.
/r/MensRights05/05/24 01:23 PM
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Not married but in a 6 year relationship. If it goes sour, I ain't dating again.
/r/MensRights05/05/24 01:20 PM
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Sorry that your own mother did that to you. She is a digusting human. I think it comes down to how sexuality is seen between genders. Male sexuality is demonised, it is seen as creepy and dangerous for women. However, female sexuality is glorified, it's seen as innocent and empowering for women. Male on female rape became illegal as people see the act as vile and disgusting. Female on male rape only became illegal because of the above being illegal, not because people found it to be heinous. Whi…
/r/MensRights05/05/24 12:54 PM
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I think they hate the feeling of rejection, knowing there are men out there that don’t find gynocentric relationships and laws, worth it.
/r/MensRights03/05/24 11:17 PM
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That should be a thing. An advice subreddit where you don’t reveal your gender. Of course, this won’t work for certain scenarios like ‘my pregnant partner…’ and such.
/r/MensRights03/05/24 07:22 PM
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Yeah, I’ve heard dad’s actually say things like that somewhat often.
/r/MensRights03/05/24 07:19 PM
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I think this is what happens when you raise women with the idea that it is the man’s job to make them feel special without any reciprocation, whilst teaching men how to be ‘worthy’. Women don’t like being told what to do but don’t have any issues telling men it’s their job to do so and so. Romance, emotional support and financial support seem to be one directional in a lot of relationships.
/r/MensRights03/05/24 06:03 PM
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Also relationships are gynocentric so all the advice tends to be telling men cater to the woman in the relationship. Happy wife, happy life, right? It’s always the man that has to take her out on dates and learn her ‘love language’ but never the other way round.
/r/MensRights03/05/24 05:53 PM
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That's typical Reddit relationship advice for you. Woman complains about a problem - His fault Man complains about same problem - His fault Problem could be anything, dead bedroom, lazy partner, abuse, ect. They will justify the problem when a woman is causing it.
/r/MensRights03/05/24 11:08 AM
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The bear also has a clean record when it comes to false accusations.
/r/MensRights03/05/24 10:57 AM
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They don’t really use the term toxic femininity since they typically refer to it as internalised misogyny. They like the term toxic masculinity because it implies men are to blame for their own issues. When women show bigotry towards men, they simply blame the patriarchy for instilling those ‘toxic masculine’ beliefs in them rather than acknowledging them as misandrists.
/r/MensRights02/05/24 10:43 PM
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The damaging part is that they do the DARVO thing when you call them out on it and that it's so normalised that people don't even register it.
/r/MensRights02/05/24 08:43 PM
3

It’s comedic at this point
/r/MensRights02/05/24 04:50 PM
1

Ah ok, I see your point now.
/r/MensRights02/05/24 02:14 PM
2

A lot of them relate with the female lead and see it as a revenge movie. It's the same with Midsommar.
/r/MensRights02/05/24 11:11 AM
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Not that you have to like the movie or anything but they weren't meant to have chemistry. Rosamund's character is a narcissistic psychopath who fakes her warmth towards Ben. Ben seems to have realised this after some time and loses his feelings for her. Supposedly, he's a psychopath in the book as well but that doesn't seem to be the case in the movie.
/r/MensRights02/05/24 11:05 AM
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The idea that women's health concerns are dismissed by doctors is likely true but it isn't a gendered problem. The difference is that women are more persistent and vocal about it whilst men stop visiting their doctors after finding it to be a waste of time. I knew a doctor who would try to avoid dealing with patients over the phone by calling them and hanging up after the first ring. You then have to book another telephone appointment 3-4 weeks after because they say you missed their call and wo…
/r/MensRights01/05/24 11:18 PM
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No, they’re saying people expect men to sacrifice themselves for others.
/r/MensRights30/04/24 02:52 PM
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He won't be finding female teens where he's going. Prison rape is a problem US prison systems should be solving but they don't seem to care.
/r/MensRights28/04/24 09:37 AM
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He can still go on to sexually assault people. Keeping him in prison would be a better idea to prevent that.
/r/MensRights28/04/24 09:23 AM
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Precisely. Men have duty and responsibility, women don't owe anything to men. It's very lopsided.
/r/MensRights27/04/24 11:31 AM
4

The funny part is seeing tradcon ‘MRA’s’ complaining about the consequences of traditionalism. Like feminists, they want to have their cake and eat it.
/r/MensRights27/04/24 01:14 AM
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Sometimes you can blow their cover by phrasing or presenting a situation slightly differently. Is marriage used to trap men? No, definitely not. Why can’t I continue this relationship without marriage? To stop you from dumping her with kids and running off.
/r/MensRights25/04/24 12:02 PM
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That’s how marriage works for some women. They settle down with a guy who is willing to provide for them. However, they may not be sexually attracted to those men. They categorise those guys as ‘husband material’ that are to be used as backups when they fail to land sought after men. These women are just being very blunt about it.
/r/MensRights25/04/24 11:49 AM
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She might be preparing for a divorce by getting him to earn more than her or by becoming a stay at home mum. In my opinion, that’s just something they say to make him appear to be the bad guy.
/r/MensRights24/04/24 04:58 AM
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Whilst blaming men for the dress up stuff, despite being adamant that they don't do it for men.
/r/MensRights23/04/24 02:29 PM
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Is that ‘studies blame video games’? 😂 Men having fun on their own is a bad thing I guess. Have to make sure they’re miserable without women.
/r/MensRights23/04/24 01:23 PM
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Once you sign that marriage certificate, she has all the leverage on you. Women know how to put themselves in an advantageous position when it comes to divorce, like having kids to secure the house and quitting work a few years before filing for divorce. Not saying that all women will do this but some of them are very calculating, will plan this shit out with their female friends and the government enables all this. If your country or state has cohabitation laws then she doesn't even need to mar…
/r/MensRights23/04/24 11:50 AM
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Men and women are both raised to see relationships from a gynocentric angle. A woman is looking to see what a man offers her, whilst the man should simply be grateful to be in a woman's precense. Afterall, she doesn't owe him anything, right? What makes men disposable is that they don't have the abundance of options like women. Some men will stay in a bad relationship due to fear of ending up alone. Both left and right wingers promote the idea that it is still man's duty is to provide romance, s…
/r/MensRights23/04/24 11:12 AM
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They can be so manipulative. I've notice girls will say I'm in the wrong for using the same tone of voice that they do when they're annoyed at me. If you point it out, they just deny treating you in the same manner.
/r/MensRights23/04/24 10:42 AM
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Women use words like misogynist, insecure and controlling to invalidate your boundaries and walk all over them. Regardless, if a woman (or man) expresses something about 'experimenting' in a relationship, end it there. They are not relationship material. I think what really happens is that they keep you on hold as a back up whilst they try to secure someone 'better'.
/r/MensRights23/04/24 10:35 AM
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Women like that are a lot more fun to be around. The one's who feel the need to be the 'most beautiful woman on earth' are too much of a headache. It feels like you need to constantly feed into their narcissism.
/r/MensRights21/04/24 11:50 AM
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Tbf, your example is a lot more understandable. If a woman said to her shorter boyfriend that she finds taller men sexier, that would likely be the end of the relationship. It's random women or friends who get offended at men for having preferences that are the issue.
/r/MensRights21/04/24 11:32 AM
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No one likes feeling rejected. The difference is that it’s mostly men putting themselves on the line to get rejected so they come to terms with the fact that they’re not attractive to every women out there. This isn’t true for a lot of women. Some of them genuinely believe that every man is attracted to them unless they're gay. Combine this with the idea that all women are beautiful so men shouldn’t really have preferences. When men state their preferences, it hurts the feelings of women who don…
/r/MensRights21/04/24 09:53 AM
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Yeah, the Johnny Depp trial made it clear how far MSM will twist things to push the narrative they want. You can tell who watch the trial and who got their info from MSM.
/r/MensRights21/04/24 09:27 AM
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She is owed money, romance, emotional support, blah blah. He is owed nothing. Just be grateful for anything she gives you.
/r/MensRights19/04/24 09:33 PM
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It's a way for them to cherry pick traditional male gender roles by labelling the bits they don't like as toxic. A man being head of the household is something they don't want so that's toxic masculinity. However, they encourage men to provide for his girlfriend or wife because women benefit from it so that's healthy masculinity.
/r/MensRights19/04/24 10:48 AM
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For real. If you look up DSM criteria for NPD, many of them would fit the bill. A grandiose sense of self-importance A preoccupation with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love A belief that he or she is special and unique and can only be understood by, or should associate with, other special or high-status people or institutions A need for excessive admiration A sense of entitlement Interpersonally exploitive behavior A lack of empathy Envy of others or a belie…
/r/MensRights19/04/24 10:29 AM
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Which is why paternity fraud isn’t a crime. It would have been a crime long ago if men could trick women into raising children that aren’t theirs.
/r/MensRights19/04/24 10:12 AM
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They genuinely want a worker drone to hand them everything on a platter.
/r/MensRights18/04/24 06:02 PM
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No problem. Personally, I’m a bit annoyed I wasted time in uni in terms of career, but I can’t change the past. I do enjoy the field though which is one thing.
/r/MensRights18/04/24 05:58 PM
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Eh, degrees aren't really what they used be. Other than a select few like medicine, a lot of them are useless now. I have a masters in chemistry but I decided to start my own business. Most of my uni friends are make the same amount or sometimes less than people working jobs that don't require a degree. For example, one is a teacher on £31K and the other is a research assistant on 33K. However, I know a traffic warden in London making £32k and they became a supervisor last year so now they're on…
/r/MensRights18/04/24 11:09 AM
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It's usually the other way around. They're raising young girls to seek traditional men and be stay at home wives but at the same time expect the man to share or do most of the household chores so they can be lazy.
/r/MensRights18/04/24 10:58 AM
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Exactly. The left being anti-male does not mean that the right are any different. Both sides seek to exploit men. The only difference is that the left pushes this traditional stuff as 'positive masculinity'.
/r/MensRights18/04/24 10:46 AM
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This is one of the few areas where the UK got it right. If official DNA testing proves you are not the father, they can't make you pay child maintenance. The other one is that there are no cohabitation laws.
/r/MensRights18/04/24 10:38 AM
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Disposable worker drones
/r/MensRights17/04/24 11:24 AM
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They don’t see men as humans
/r/MensRights16/04/24 09:36 PM
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That’s basically how it’s always sounded to me when they use incel or virgin as an insult. Like it’s so good you should be putting up with shitty treatment lol.
/r/MensRights16/04/24 09:30 PM
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It’s okay, I’m not the best at explaining things. When you have people calling you an incel because you care about men’s issues, it implies that men’s issues would a non-issue if you just had sex. The men having sex aren’t complaining, only the virgins are. This obviously isn’t reality. It was simply a joke response to a typical insult, not a suggestion. I would never suggest a man (or woman) have unwanted sex.
/r/MensRights16/04/24 09:27 PM
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Imagine men saying women only complain about their issues because they can’t get laid. They would be seen as manipulative narcissists. I’ve had sex with women but that doesn’t I’m going turn a blind eye to discrimination against men.
/r/MensRights16/04/24 09:12 PM
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They wish those men were incels, I’m sure it pisses them off that they aren’t.
/r/MensRights16/04/24 09:06 PM
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I guess they’ve got justify their hatred towards men they find undesirable so what better way than to claim they are misogynists lol.
/r/MensRights16/04/24 09:00 PM
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The tone of this subreddit? You must have it confused for mainstream subreddits. Men often get called an incel for talking about men’s issues. There seems to be an assumption that men only complain about misandry because they’re unsuccessful when it comes to dating women or getting laid. So yes, as untamed-italian said, I was being sarcastic.
/r/MensRights16/04/24 08:53 PM
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You see, sex cures 'misogyny'. If guys were just getting pussy they would ignore misandry.
/r/MensRights16/04/24 05:01 PM
3

Exactly. Tradcons will say ‘a man’s duty is to be provide for and protect women’. Feminists will say ‘positive masculinity is men stepping up to protect women from other men’. It’s the same shit at the end of the day, just packaged differently. Feminist may give some lip service about stuff like eliminating the draft, but when push comes to shove they still expect men to go and die for their country.
/r/MensRights12/04/24 09:26 PM
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Not surprised. As far as I know, the idea that women do it in self-defence is unfounded nonsense peddled by women's organisations. Women's Aid in the UK say this shit all the time, here's one example: When women are the perpetrator there is substantial evidence to support the case that it is after being a victim-survivor in the relationship themselves and have sustained prolonged domestic abuse (Women’s Aid, 2018). I bet if they asked male abusers, they will say the same shit to make themselves …
/r/MensRights12/04/24 11:20 AM
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Yeah, also single men are ridiculed. The go to insults for men are attributes that women on average don’t find attractive, including virgin and incel.
/r/MensRights12/04/24 09:36 AM
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I just stumbled on to that post. The idea that doctors and nurses give women pamphlets on their husbands leaving them is laughable.
/r/MensRights11/04/24 11:44 PM
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There are multiple flaws with those studies as has been stated by others. A glaring one is that there is no data on who initiated divorce or why they initiated divorce.
/r/MensRights11/04/24 09:42 PM
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We live in a gynocentric society. Most women value men for being traditional, whether they're modern or traditional themselves. A 'good man' is one who provides for and protects women, whereas a man who wants anything from a woman is labelled misgynistic. A man can't really have too many demands as women will just leave for the plethora of options they have. The same is not true for most men so their options are to give in to women or stay single. Most men seem to pick the former.
/r/MensRights11/04/24 09:39 PM
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It's an insight into their line of thinking which explains a lot as to why they are desperate to hold on to their privilege. They actually do this a lot, stuff like 'men only bring up their issues to diminish women's issues', feminists play whataboutism all the time to dismiss men.
/r/MensRights11/04/24 01:13 PM
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It depends on what you mean by diminishing women’s rights. I think supporting equality will naturally mean some privileges will be taken away such as equal sentencing, 50/50 custody by default, recognising that women can be abusive too, etc. If you mean diverting attention from women’s issues I don’t think that will happen. Seeing women or feminists being more sympathetic to men’s issues would actually make me much more willing to reciprocate. Right now, due to rampant feminist solipsism, I only…
/r/MensRights11/04/24 01:01 PM
12

Isn’t she receiving child support from baby daddy? If anything she should have more expenses than your friend. Seems like she wants to save her money by having a man pay for everything or most of it.
/r/MensRights10/04/24 04:48 PM
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They're all fantasizing about this but never think about the consequences of a female pedo getting pregnant and being liable for child support when you start working.
/r/MensRights10/04/24 02:23 PM
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Well, why are you so opposed to changing something you don't believe matters? Feminists view things through the their concept of the patriarchy. They are adamant on using the term 'toxic masculinity' so that they can avoid acknowledging that misandry exists and is a problem. This also allows them to take away accountability from women for holding sexist attitudes towards men by blaming men (patriarchy) for women's views on masculinity lol.
/r/MensRights09/04/24 02:49 AM
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The main problem I have is the reasoning for inconsistent terminology. The equivalent term for women is misogyny or internalised misogyny. Feminists strongly push the term 'toxic masculinity' because they believe men's issues stem from misogyny and therefore, misandry does not exist. Through a feminist lens, men bottle their feelings because they're afraid of appearing feminine. However, since society still strongly enforces male gender roles, the actual reason is that men learn people react neg…
/r/MensRights09/04/24 02:41 AM
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They will say boys enjoy it but assume that violent rape occurs when it's a male teacher with female child. They don't seem to realise that we charge with 'statutory' rape when a child is involved, to take the child's consent out of the equation because a lot of them do consent. It's still wrong for the adult to take advantage of them.
/r/MensRights07/04/24 10:21 AM
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She is an abusive narcissist. She wants to be desirable to him even though she does not desire him. It's not clear without more details but she probably settled for reasons other than attraction.
/r/MensRights07/04/24 10:09 AM
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she killed his son because he couldn't live without her Yeah, they play it off as some noble, heroic act instead of recognising that these narcissists see their kids as an extension of themselves. They have extreme difficulties with putting themselves in anyone else's shoes but their own kind.
/r/MensRights05/04/24 09:35 PM
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Something similar happened in the UK when a mum jumped in front off a train taking her children with her. It’s some form of collective solipsism.
/r/MensRights05/04/24 01:13 PM
2

Essentially, men should be raised to recognise the gynocentric nature of relationships so as to not be taken advantage of. The way we’re expected to prioritise and tiptoe around her feelings whilst our own get neglected. How your money becomes our money but hers is her own. How marriage tends to act as a safety net for women due to hypergamy. How they use hormones and feelings as an excuse for abuse. If she’s not adding to your life and you’re happier being single, don’t give into societal press…
/r/MensRights05/04/24 04:58 AM
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People seem to prioritise a woman’s needs and feelings over children, especially boys but girls as well. They’ve gone from ‘women and children’ to ‘women and girls’. You have women committing murder suicide yet people have more sympathy for the mother than the children she murdered.
/r/MensRights05/04/24 04:44 AM
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Also it’s more acceptable for her to not want marry due to divorce risks or only with a prenup. I’ve notice that people are more likely to advise a woman those things as well.
/r/MensRights27/03/24 02:29 PM
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That is because they present every issue through the lens of the patriarchy. Men are responsible for the world we live in so everything bad is the fault of men. They blame male suicide on men not opening up. They blame men not opening up on men being afraid of appearing weak. They think men view weakness as a feminine trait. Therefore, men's issues must stem from misogyny. This is victim blaming. They are completely ignoring how society reacts when men do open up. The vast majority of suicidal m…
/r/MensRights22/03/24 12:47 PM
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Being a workhorse who barely gets to see his children and as a result, is more likely to lose his children to the mother (primary caretaker) followed by losing his own home if she divorces him... No that does not seem worth it to me.
/r/MensRights21/03/24 03:14 PM
10

My plan is to invest, save up and retire early or work part-time, then just do things that I enjoy doing in my free time.
/r/MensRights20/03/24 10:22 AM
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I have seen some women say they were rejected because men don't like it when women approach them. It's like they don't understand that not every man is going to find them attractive.
/r/MensRights20/03/24 10:14 AM
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The things those type of women expect from men are too much effort for them to reciprocate.
/r/MensRights20/03/24 10:07 AM
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I think it’s in men’s best interest to not marry at all.
/r/MensRights18/03/24 05:22 PM
2

Oh yeah, I forgot about property.
/r/MensRights18/03/24 05:20 PM
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I don’t see how that is relevant. Marrying a traditional woman will put you at risk.
/r/MensRights18/03/24 05:17 PM
4

That is normal in the UK. You spend around half a custodial sentence in prison and the remainder on license (probation).
/r/MensRights18/03/24 10:15 AM
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Exactly, and it puts her in a good position if she wants to divorce. Firstly, there is alimony. Secondly, since she is the primary caretaker, custody will be in her favour. Thirdly, since she is the primary custodian you will have to pay child support.
/r/MensRights18/03/24 09:50 AM
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This is still the case even after the early stages of dating and has been occurring for decades. Your needs are either secondary or irrelevant which is why ‘happy wife, happy life’ is a thing. Also the idea that men who don’t want to give in to their terms are ‘broke’, doesn’t make sense. They would rather believe you’re too broke to date them than acknowledge rejection.
/r/MensRights18/03/24 09:44 AM
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It's a huge problem I see in a lot of men which of course is brilliant for those who are looking to exploit them.
/r/MensRights16/03/24 01:11 PM
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I see it as attempt to manipulate men by telling them how to act and behave. Some women define it in a way for them to exploit men whilst putting in the least amount of effort themeselves. For some, a 'good man' is a workhorse who pays for everything and doesn't open up too much because that requires too much effort from them. I don't believe that they actually find these traits sexually atttractive even though that is what they're looking for in their partner. I'm of the opinion that men indivi…
/r/MensRights16/03/24 01:05 PM
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In response to this article, I've seen feminists say that men are too ashamed to report being abused to the authorities and that it is a good example of why we need to fight toxic masculinity. What they conveniently ignore is that she, like many female abusers, threatened to falsely report him to the authorities to keep him enslaved. It's like they don't want to bring attention to that fact.
/r/MensRights16/03/24 12:24 PM
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Also, for them privilege is somehow benevolent sexism lol.
/r/MensRights11/03/24 05:01 PM
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Its definition is flexible but essentially it’s pushed to say that sexism against men is caused by misogyny. Feminists deny that men’s issues are caused by misandry. As an example, feminists say that men commit suicide due to not opening up. Men view weakness as feminine and that they are afraid of being seen as feminine. Therefore, it’s due to their own misogyny or as they now say, toxic masculinity. This completely ignores how society reacts to men opening up and the fact that men actually DO …
/r/MensRights11/03/24 06:38 AM
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It's something I've learnt from double standards on Reddit subs like relationship advice. I've seen them defend violent women because of how they must have been feeling. A man's feelings would be completely irrelevant.
/r/MensRights10/03/24 01:16 AM
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“Psychopaths are after money, power and control,” That explains a lot lol
/r/MensRights10/03/24 12:55 AM
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Yeah, women have feelings but men have ego. That's how they dismiss men's thoughts, opinions and insecurities.
/r/MensRights10/03/24 12:48 AM
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I'd like to know where people have vast amounts of empathy for male perpetrators and how they're dressing female privilege as benevolent sexism.
/r/MensRights08/03/24 07:43 PM
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Yeah, also don’t let it get to you when they call you ‘broke’ lol. It’s their coping mechanism for rejection, like when they call you gay for turning them down. They’re so full of themselves that they would rather believe you can’t pay their bills than acknowledge you don’t want to.
/r/MensRights08/03/24 07:11 AM
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These type of women want to be provided for, validated for their insecurities, emotional support from you, and be taken out on dates and romanced. However, because they see you as a resource to extract their needs from, they will not do these things for you.The entire relationship is centered around their feelings and needs so they put in the least amount of effort towards you as possible. If you start expecting reciprocation, she will leave you for another guy she can use. She doesn't love you,…
/r/MensRights07/03/24 10:47 AM
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I haven’t kept up with this case but didn’t her own daughter say that her mother was the one who’s been abusing her step father and not the other way around?
/r/MensRights02/03/24 05:31 PM
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That's why they categorise masculinity into either toxic or healthy. They want to keep the bits that benefit them and throw away the rest. They say it's misogyny to expect anything from women but don't see it as misandry when they demand things from men. Men should not allow others to define masculinity for them, especially women.
/r/MensRights29/02/24 03:32 PM
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Most hetero relationships are extremely gynocentric. A lot of women expect romance, money, emotional support but aren't willing to reciprocate. On top of all this, they claim to be doing all the 'emotional labor' even though they're the ones using men as therapists. The stay at home girlfriends or wives are supposedly doing 'unpaid' work even though lodging, food and clothing are a form of payment (they're usually getting more than that). Some also tend to expect marriage but will only marry up …
/r/MensRights28/02/24 10:48 AM
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I have never liked the idea of providing for someone and will never put myself in that position. That doesn't mean I have a problem with buying her gifts or treating her from time to time. This extends to providing non-financial things as well. If they expect emotional support, romance and stuff without reciprocating, that’s a no from me too. It’s true that this will cut down heavily on my dating pool but I couldn’t give two shits. It’s really not my loss. Life is better single than being in a o…
/r/MensRights28/02/24 10:11 AM
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Johnny Depp trial was an excellent example of Heard mentality.
/r/MensRights28/02/24 12:35 AM
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Their image of victimhood is power in western society. Feminists try their hardest to maintain that image because they don't want to lose their 'oppression' privilege. This is also a trait of borderline personality disorder. For society as whole, there is still a strong lack of empathy for men whereas women are seen human beings with feelings. So when women do bad things people try to understand their mindframe, whereas with men the reason is irrelevant.
/r/MensRights28/02/24 12:19 AM
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1) https://core.ac.uk/download/pdf/72839546.pdf Can simply read abstract if you're not bothered to read the whole thing. 2) Women's aid petition: https://www.womensaid.org.uk/international-womens-day-womens-aid-launches-petition-to-require-local-authorities-to-fund-womens-domestic-abuse-services/ Women's aid on female abusers: Where men are victim-survivors, they are less likely to experience a pattern of abuse, it is more likely to be a one-off incident. Some men and boys report that when they …
/r/MensRights27/02/24 11:01 PM
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You can get them to admit this by asking them why they won’t use misandry or internalised misandry. They will say that men’s issues are a result of misogyny. Fathers don’t get custody? It’s because women are assumed to be better caregivers. They are suggesting that women benefitting from misandry is somehow sexism against them. The only fix to our problems is trickle down equality.
/r/MensRights27/02/24 10:28 AM
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No child deserves to grow up in a household like that. I’ve heard of others who grew up in a similar household environment and they have all sorts of body image issues.
/r/MensRights27/02/24 10:19 AM
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There's a community of people who haven't fallen for her innocent victim image r/GRBskeptic
/r/MensRights26/02/24 08:49 AM
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Feminism is a magnet for people like that. Further basic evidence for the dark-ego-vehicle principle: Higher pathological narcissism is associated with greater involvement in feminist activism.
/r/MensRights25/02/24 05:17 PM
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You beat me to it. We live in a world where women are surrounded by yes men so feminists use that to their advantage. They publish 'facts' so they can benefit from their image of victimhood. Women are more frequently the victims of abuse so women's organisations should receive sole funding from the government. Women collectively don't earn as much as men so we need to put women into CEO and upper management positions when companies become successful. Only women have mental health issues, hormone…
/r/MensRights25/02/24 12:25 PM
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This is absurd. The bleep test is at level 5.4 which is pathetic. Even girls still at school are capable of passing this test.
/r/MensRights25/02/24 11:58 AM
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Young men are more likely than older men to think that feminism has done more harm than good, according to a new survey, suggesting a backward step in attitudes to gender equality. Young men aren't wrong. It should read 'suggesting a backward step in attitudes to gender equality.'. The boys, meanwhile, with the demands of masculinity thrust upon them, rarely consider themselves powerful or privileged. Yes, because most people, including feminists, still want to take advantage of men through trad…
/r/MensRights24/02/24 05:20 PM
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Good on you bro. I'm liking your ability to see through the shaming tactics from people who are trying to get you to conform to their ways. Life is so much better when you're not trying to please others.
/r/MensRights24/02/24 02:54 AM
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I think they mean it when it comes to the average guy that they see beneath their level. It's a different story for very attractive men who have options.
/r/MensRights24/02/24 12:13 AM
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Blame men for beauty standards but at the same time 'we don't dress up or wear make up for men'.
/r/MensRights23/02/24 05:29 PM
1

Gynocentricism predates feminism, I doubt people have ever taken female on male abuse seriously. Feminists have undoubtedly made it worse by covering up and excusing female on male domestic violence.
/r/MensRights23/02/24 02:38 PM
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By normalising men being afraid of their wives, it gives women control over men in their relationship. Doesn't have to be physical abuse, mental abuse will wear a person down to the point they do almost anything to avoid stress. Happy wife, happy life afterall. Your needs come second or are completely irrelevant. Mainstream media keeps this cycle going.
/r/MensRights22/02/24 09:12 PM
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They will never highlight and bring attention to female privilege in this 'patriarchal' world we live in. It's why there's a earnings gap to begin with. Some women look for a provider so she will work fewer hours, low paying jobs or not at all. They never look at paternity leave to close the earnings gap either. They just see it as a competition where women should be entitled to more leave because she gave birth. They don't consider the bigger picture. The man has to continue fulfilling his part…
/r/MensRights22/02/24 05:00 PM
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Muslims.. Also get it, again it's in the book and we don't doubt the book. Though, sorry but you really kinda just copied that from the Jews. Don't know how happy you should be with that. But hey, I didn't write the book, either. You're just following orders, I get it. IIRC it's not actually in the quran and other authentic muslim scriptures (hadith) don't state it as compulsory. You're right that it's just a tradition they copied from the Jews. Regardless, I don't think it should be legal to pe…
/r/MensRights22/02/24 03:56 PM
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Why would I get married, especially to someone who doesn't work? Great if you don't mind alimony and want to put the house you bought at risk, but no thanks.
/r/MensRights22/02/24 02:41 PM
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They are gynocentric so they play into the hands of feminists
/r/MensRights22/02/24 02:23 PM
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Yup. They say they care about men but when you look deeper, all they care about is traditionalism but mainly when it comes to men because they're still gynocentric lol. I don't think early feminism would have worked without them. They push marriage on men even though it's unfavourable for men (especially in trad relationships). They enable women to use men for monetary gain. They will tell you to put your life on the line for politicians and the rich. They tell men that their purpose in life is …
/r/MensRights22/02/24 02:17 PM
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A similarity between feminists and non-feminists does not demonstrate a positive view of men. Plenty of men and non-feminist women hold negative attitudes towards men. In one of the studies, they even admit that feminists are significantly more likely to see men as a threat to women which is an example of their misandry. A few examples of questions they asked: This is their idea of hostility towards men. “Men act like babies when they are sick.” They then use a true statement as evidence of bene…
/r/MensRights21/02/24 11:19 PM
5

Why would you pick a vasectomy over something much less invasive?
/r/MensRights21/02/24 08:59 PM
2

Wait till the kids start going to school. They aren't even home during typical working hours.
/r/MensRights21/02/24 07:20 PM
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Sounds like Reddit and society in general. There's this need to explain abuse when it's coming from a woman and to get help for your abuser.
/r/MensRights21/02/24 07:14 PM
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I have heard that before as well. I think this is the article they are referring to. https://www.psypost.org/large-psychology-study-debunks-stereotype-of-feminists-as-man-haters/ The actual stidy: https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/03616843231202708 This self-reported methodology is so ripe for bias as participants will choose the 'correct' answer. In six studies, we examined the accuracy and underpinnings of the damaging stereotype that feminists harbor negative attitudes toward men. In S…
/r/MensRights21/02/24 11:51 AM
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So by ‘pick up men’ what they actually mean is to send subtle hints and hope he asks her out lol.
/r/MensRights21/02/24 10:50 AM
3

Various groups still want and enforce traditional male gender roles because they benefit from it.
/r/MensRights20/02/24 10:20 PM
1

I think this is due to the gynocentric state of our society whether through feminism or traditionalism. A woman's opinion holds more weight when it comes to matters of morality. Men buy into them way too easily. This means women are less likely to be held accountable for their actions because they get to decide what is right and wrong. They're not going to hold themselves to the same standard that they do with men. I don't know if you're familiar with Rose McGowan and the MeToo movement but she …
/r/MensRights20/02/24 04:30 PM
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In terms of romantic partners, I think these type of women don't really care about you. They care about what you can provide for them, with the least amount of effort from their side. When I say provide, it's not strictly finances although that could be part of it. Providing also includes romance, emotional support, helping them overcome insecurities, etc. In your case, being emotionally supportive towards your partner takes effort. Decent looking women have options, some simply leave because th…
/r/MensRights20/02/24 03:47 PM
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It’s how feminists describe the ‘patriarchy’ but it’s all reversed. They’ve have control over the narrative and continue to downplay female on male abuse. They benefit from this in multiple ways. When a man abuses a woman, there is no grey area. She may be an ‘imperfect victim’. When a woman abuses a man, suddenly they want nuance. There’s no such thing as an imperfect male victim, he needs to be squeaky clean which means no messaging your friends about your abuser (Depp). Additionally, there is…
/r/MensRights19/02/24 09:15 PM
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Concluding, recorder Taylor said: “If it had not been for the fact that you have two children to look after, you would be going to prison because people who glass people in public houses and cause these sort of injuries to their face deserve to go to prison.”** Women, if you want to glass someone in the face, make sure you have children prior to doing so. Men, if you have kids you're still fucked either way.
/r/MensRights19/02/24 08:16 PM
3

My very first teacher was nice like that. It was my first day of school but I hadn’t gone to nursery (kindergarten) due to moving around. She held me in her lap for like the first hour lol.
/r/MensRights19/02/24 03:40 PM
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they told me men don't become heartless; they just become good at hiding their emotions, because time taught them no one cares This was true for me. I think I was 6 when a teacher told me that boys don't cry. It was probably their way of getting me to shut up and stop crying. Being young and impressionable, it stayed in my mind for years. Maybe I lucked out but my close male friends are supportive. There's a good mix of guys at my workplace, some are competitive (in a friendly way) whilst others…
/r/MensRights19/02/24 10:39 AM
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Although I don't label myself since no mainstream political side cares for men, I feel exactly the same way. Why is the male gender role so strict when female gender roles are merely suggestions or misogynistic? Why should I provide for someone who is capable of working? What do I gain from slaving away when I don't need someone to do my housework? In a hypergamous world, why should I marry when that puts me at risk of losing my house and paying alimony? Why should I lay my life down for the pro…
/r/MensRights19/02/24 10:08 AM
2

There seems to be a trend of using traits that women generally find undesirable in men, as an insult. Incel or virgin, insecure, basement dweller who lives with his mum, manlet, small dick, broke, gay, ect. These are just another way of saying you have no value to women, with incel being the worst since it means you are rejected by women as a whole.
/r/MensRights19/02/24 09:47 AM
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Eh, I didn't see your post as hating women. Men are allowed to come here and vent or get things off their chest. There isn't anything wrong in not wanting to be in a relationship whether you're a man or woman.
/r/MensRights19/02/24 09:23 AM
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Let's just allow cheaters to date/marry each other and leave the rest of us alone I'd have much less trust issues if this was a thing lol
/r/MensRights18/02/24 09:08 PM
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I agree that they're both equally terrible, as long as there is no paternity fraud.
/r/MensRights18/02/24 08:52 PM
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It's the same story in the UK and there have been several petitions to change it but the government always rejects it. The law makers involved in the sexual offence act, mainly women, stated that rape is worst type of sexual assault but also excluded women from being legally capable of committing it. ‘We did consider whether there was evidence that a woman could force a man to penetrate her against his will but, although we found a little anecdotal evidence, we did not discover sufficient to con…
/r/MensRights18/02/24 06:06 PM
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Guy turns down his wife once in a blue moon and she has a fit. But apparently this isn’t coercion and we need to be understanding since women are taught that men will fuck anything with a hole.
/r/MensRights18/02/24 05:32 PM
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For me, the relationship would be over as I cannot trust that she actually cares about me as a person. Being emotionally supportive towards your partner should be, as women like to say, the bare minimum. I know this makes me incompatible with a lot of or perhaps most women. Being married makes this more complicated though. Sorry that she's done this to you.
/r/MensRights18/02/24 04:42 PM
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I've noticed that some women can't get their head around the idea that not all men are attracted to them. If they get rejected for asking a guy out, they chalk it down to men not liking straightforward women or him being gay rather than acknowledge that the guy probably isn't attracted to them. Their ego is hurt so they make up reasons to hate on men that reject them.
/r/MensRights18/02/24 04:31 PM
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And when they put in any effort at all, they get same or majority custody. Joint custody does not mean equal custody which brings me to point out that there is no breakdown of joint custody in your article. It could be 50/50, it could also be 80/20 or simply visitation rights. There is no data on why those men have not sought custody through court. The biggest problem glaring at me is that mothers are given custody by default and the fathers have to have the money to fight for it in court. It's …
/r/MensRights18/02/24 04:01 PM
67

Redditor's keep telling me that women are independent and that I will benefit from dual income. IRL a lot of women are hypergamous and view finances as 'our money' and 'her money'.
/r/MensRights17/02/24 11:50 AM
1

Seems they're eager to fail the bechdel test
/r/MensRights17/02/24 11:08 AM
74

Do these studies include divorced men? If so, it would make sense that women are happier single. Men often lose or have less access to their kids (weekends), as well as pay child support and alimony. Also imagine slaving away for years to buy your home and then losing it to someone who cheated on you or is abusive towards you. This would be even worse if you were looking to retire but can no longer do so. I would feel like I wasted my life, which is why I will never get married.
/r/MensRights16/02/24 05:59 PM
28

It's frustrating. They say men shouldn't be ashamed of being virgins but then will insult men who have opinions they don't like with 'virgin', 'incel', 'basement dweller', 'lives with his mum', etc. They say we shouldn't bodyshame but then associate being an asshole with specific male body traits like 'Napoleon complex', 'short man syndrome', 'small dick energy', etc. Women's insecurities are about their feelings but men's insecurities are reduced to their egos.
/r/MensRights16/02/24 11:30 AM
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Because they have and continue to do things that harm men and boys. Refusal to acknowledge that misandry is real and instead they push the idea of toxic masculinity (men's issues happen due to misogyny). Feminists insist that men don't open up because they're afraid of being seen as weak or feminine. This ignores the actual cause which is how people respond when men do open up. In regards to DV, they've fudged statistics in order to acquire and maintain funding for women's organisations. https:/…
/r/MensRights14/02/24 06:48 PM
1

lol I don't date that type
/r/MensRights12/02/24 06:58 PM
4

Women are usually only takers when it comes to romance.
/r/MensRights12/02/24 11:53 AM
4

are any men feeling like they don’t want to take on that role as the “provider” anymore? I've always felt that way. It makes me feel like I'm being used instead of wanted. Being described as 'husband material' is one of the biggest red flags. It means you're not that attractive physically (to her) but they see you as a wallet they can settle down with. Not so attractive means you're less likely to run off with other women. Then you end up in a dead bedroom when she can no longer feign attraction…
/r/MensRights11/02/24 06:59 PM
6

Yeah it's nuts. They don't even need PPD when they kill their older children. It's blamed on the 'system' failing her.
/r/MensRights11/02/24 05:47 PM
6

And then they hide behind 'misogyny' when you point it out.
/r/MensRights11/02/24 05:15 PM
25

Women have control of the dialogue. They decide what is morally correct and incorrect so they paint themselves as the righteous and the men who don't behave the way they want are the bad ones. There was a post last week about a woman who threw a clock at her boyfriends head and suddenly violence is okay as long as there's 'extreme trauma' and you're pushed to far. I know those same women won't defend a guy in the same position. A lot of women simply don't care as long as they aren't the ones bei…
/r/MensRights11/02/24 02:54 PM
14

Not in most countries outside of America and definitely not in the UK which this post is about.
/r/MensRights11/02/24 01:07 PM
36

There are talks to allow women to dump their babies at hospitals so soon they will have no responsibility at all.
/r/MensRights11/02/24 12:09 PM
19

Women‘s Only Night club picture Haha, no free drinks I'm guessing.
/r/MensRights10/02/24 02:38 PM
104

So this is their way of fighting what they describe as 'incels'? wtf. Most virgin men are just normal people. Mainstream and social media has over exaggerated and pushed this incel fear mongering way too far.
/r/MensRights10/02/24 02:23 PM
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And the ones who never wanted this let other women ruin it for them by not speaking against it. Not that I feel sorry for them. After all, most women are passive when it comes to courtship.
/r/MensRights10/02/24 02:18 PM
17

Those women can't handle rejection
/r/MensRights10/02/24 02:14 PM
20

Do you have any examples of posts on hand? I've seen some comments that are misogystic but they get removed as it's against subreddit rules.
/r/MensRights09/02/24 12:46 PM
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It's all projection of their own behaviour. I've heard women engage in locker room talk in public, in the office, pretty much anywhere. We need to raise a generation of men that aren't brainwashed by feminist propaganda and not allow them to walk all over men.
/r/MensRights09/02/24 12:29 PM
29

Poor guy, he seemed so confused and terrified. Didn't even realise she stabbed him in the thigh straigh away. I'm glad she is facing life even though she tried to excuse herself for being under influence.
/r/MensRights09/02/24 12:23 PM
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It's why feminists are against male spaces. They think men will talk about women the way these women talk about men.
/r/MensRights09/02/24 12:15 PM
1

It's to protect their ego lol
/r/MensRights08/02/24 09:25 PM
4

That’s an excellent point which further demonstrates that they are choosing to be abusive. They know behaving that way with others will not go down well.
/r/MensRights06/02/24 09:42 PM
10

Also, The Office for National Statistics specifically stopped collecting data on female perpetrated rape in 2016. The category of 'Causing sexual activity without consent' is not used in the collection and presentation of sexual offences captured by the CSEW in the latest survey years; years ending March 2018 to 2020. The categories used for the latest release are 'assault by penetration', 'rape' and 'sexual assault'. Note that ‘assault by penetration’ isn’t being made to penetrate. https://www.…
/r/MensRights06/02/24 06:45 PM
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He is 22 now which means in 2016 he was in he teens. She was 26 last year so she's a nonce as well.
/r/MensRights06/02/24 11:11 AM
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They're labelling extreme versions of PMS as premenstrual dysphoric disorder. Often on Reddit, people excuse abusive women with PMDD. There's a subreddit for partners of women with PMDD where the latter sometimes come in and feel offended at men saying it how it is. Too many always see themselves as victims. Yes, their hormones are playing up but they are CHOOSING to be abusive, their limbs do not act of their own accord. Hormones only explain her mood, not her choices.
/r/MensRights06/02/24 10:58 AM
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Basically they’re saying to hire women if you’re in the drug business
/r/MensRights05/02/24 06:28 PM
28

British slang for customer although it's generally used in pubs and gambling shops.
/r/MensRights04/02/24 12:47 PM
73

Yes, it’s the same reason for when men open up to them. They’re more open about it in regards to bisexual men though.
/r/MensRights02/02/24 01:29 PM
5

There are expectations for men in relationships whilst for women there are only suggestions. Of course women will take advantage of traditional male gender roles, they have little to no spending on their parter, no stressing about romantic effort, not expected to be an emotional tampon, the list goes on. Housework they would have to do if they were single anyway.
/r/MensRights31/01/24 01:35 PM
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The go to feminist script is pretty much the exact same as the narcissists prayer. That didn't happen. And if it did, it wasn't that bad. And if it was, that's not a big deal. And if it is, that's not my fault. And if it was, I didn't mean it. And if I did, you deserved it.
/r/MensRights28/01/24 02:21 PM
5

Can you imagine if the Jewish mutilated girls as well? Hitler would be hailed as a hero and antisemitism would not even be a word in our dictionary.
/r/MensRights28/01/24 03:45 AM
9

That is why they've separated masculinity into two categories, toxic or positive. The benefits to this is that they can enjoy the parts of traditional masculinity (positive) that they like whilst claiming the other stuff is misogynistic. The worst part is that they aren't traditional themselves so they want best of both worlds. 'I like a man who provides for me and does half the housework'. And in result, they use gay as an insult. What's ironic is that some of these women will shout "gay ally" …
/r/MensRights27/01/24 03:39 PM
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I don't trust them to be honest. I reckon they will still expect 50/50 when it comes to housework and mainly just want leech off of someone else. Personally, I'm not into the traditional lifestyle since it puts me in a bad position when it comes to divorce.
/r/MensRights26/01/24 04:29 PM
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The system is designed to lock men into relationships or else face punishment. Men being the one's who only get to bond with their kids outside of work hours puts them in a bad position when it comes to child custody. Really fucked up.
/r/MensRights26/01/24 04:20 PM
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Thinking they’re entitled to a man’s money or for him to pay all the bills. Especially so for non-traditional women. In the same way, being free from gender roles but still expecting men to fulfill their’s. Romance without reciprocating effort and thinking all they have to give you is sex. Marriage and proposals. Feeling like men owe them a relationship. Especially girls who do porn on Onlyfans, single mums, etc. Thinking men should risk their lives to help random women and should cater to women…
/r/MensRights26/01/24 09:35 AM
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I can’t even imagine the emotional labor she goes through when trying to decide what pizza topping to select.
/r/MensRights26/01/24 07:14 AM
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I was thinking the same thing when I wrote that comment 😂 They would call it financial abuse.
/r/MensRights26/01/24 07:10 AM
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She's taking on the emotional burden of putting laundry in the washing machine, deciding what to cook, thinking of what to do with the miniscule amount of free time she gets, etc.
/r/MensRights25/01/24 02:35 PM
33

‘Someone’s not getting laid tonight’
/r/MensRights25/01/24 08:48 AM
3

Women gaslight men, men believe their lies and start peddling it themselves. For example, women on relationships subreddits claim that laziness in women is a sign of depression or they blame men for dead bedrooms regardless of which partner is denying sex. They label men who call them out incels because they’ve been called out on their hypocrisy and there’s no real argument to be made. It’s like calling someone a nazi to invalidate their opinion.
/r/MensRights24/01/24 08:44 AM
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I’m talking about providing emotional support such as frequently listening to your partner vent and validating them.
/r/MensRights24/01/24 06:56 AM
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We are used as free therapists as well.
/r/MensRights22/01/24 04:46 PM
1

They are all about 'women don't wear makeup to impress men, it's for ourselves'. Until they want to blame it on men (patriarchy) or they want guys to pay for dates, then it's 'we pay for makeup and dresses to like nice for men'.
/r/MensRights21/01/24 01:05 PM
23

Nah, life isn't worth some material things.
/r/MensRights21/01/24 12:58 PM
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Feminists and traditional conservatives both enforce male gender roles and dislike men who do not conform. The whole incel malarkey hasn't helped. The dangerous part is where feminists cannot seem to distinguish between misogynist and involuntary celibate men, whilst using Elliot Rogers as a prime example. When you choose to be single you have to have the approved reasons for it such as needing to work on yourself. Tell them that you prefer your freedom, to have more money for yourself, not to b…
/r/MensRights18/01/24 12:44 PM
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It's like we dated the same person. I sometimes doubt my own memories now after being gaslit for who knows how long.
/r/MensRights18/01/24 03:04 AM
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I think it perpetual cycle because society excuses women all the time. People armchair diagnose them with mental health issues to garner sympathy for them and excuse their actions. If she’s lazy then she must be depressed, if she abusive she must have childhood trauma, etc. On a personal note, some women are extremely manipulative when it comes to holding them accountable. Some of ex’s would berate me if I did something wrong but if I talked to them the same way, they’d call me abusive.
/r/MensRights17/01/24 06:42 PM
5

And he needs to do half of the chores as home as well
/r/MensRights16/01/24 08:39 PM
12

It’s funny that people bang on about dual income but most women I’ve met, even when they’re earning, will want the man to pay the bills or at least most of it.
/r/MensRights16/01/24 06:56 PM
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And then they will write articles complaining that women aren't able to find men who are both educated and earning the same amount or more than them.
/r/MensRights15/01/24 10:37 AM
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Same here. It was the thought of getting accused and that the pay is pretty crap when you consider that you will be doing a lot of work outside of working hours, sometimes the weekends.
/r/MensRights15/01/24 10:32 AM
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Yes, because it's not so easy to walk away after finding out you've been raising someone else's child for the last decade. Society will also call you a piece of shit for leaving. It's shitty for both the kids and the man, the woman is the only piece of shit in that scenario. If 'best interest of the child' was true then mandatory paternity testing would be a thing. The truth is, they just don't give a shit about men and simply see them as providers.
/r/MensRights13/01/24 10:37 AM
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The worst part is gaslighting men into believing that women wouldn't nag if men weren't slobs. They've even started calling it 'emotional labor'.
/r/MensRights13/01/24 10:23 AM
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Thanks, not surprised to see feminists obfuscate the truth.
/r/MensRights13/01/24 10:04 AM
8

As demonstrated by their response to Johnny Depp. After feminists and DV groups claimed that 'mutual abuse' was not a thing for years, they couldn't help but show their hypocrisy. Feminists always end up telling on themselves.
/r/MensRights12/01/24 08:24 PM
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They're gynocentric. When men want women to do traditional things, women say she's not his mum. However, when women seek a provider to replace their fathers then they have no issue with it.
/r/MensRights12/01/24 08:19 PM
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Perhaps because women have a much lower conviction rate to begin with so the ones who end up convicted are the worst of the bunch? Most just seem to avoid prison entirely so that statement is very misleading. It's annoying how feminist organisations claim female abusers and murderers were prior victims or were just defending themselves. Imagine being murdered and then have people claim you were an abusive piece of shit.
/r/MensRights12/01/24 06:19 PM
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All I know is that being emotionally supportive towards your partner doesn’t seem to count as mental load.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 04:16 PM
3

‘Men, how can I subtlety hint to a guy that I am interested in him without saying it?’
/r/MensRights11/01/24 04:10 PM
8

This is how I feel about it as well. If her having sex with you is seen as some sort of gift or reward, then I don’t think she’s actually physically attracted to you.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 03:58 PM
8

I think they’re mostly just virtue signalling.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 08:46 AM
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Oh I am very anti tradcon as well and I am sure they played a big role. I am mainly referring to how feminists actively suppressed male victims of abuse in order to secure funding for women’s organisations. This article was written by a feminist. https://core.ac.uk/download/pdf/72839546.pdf
/r/MensRights11/01/24 07:51 AM
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It's funny how 'weaponised incompetence' never applies to anything which is considered the man's job.
/r/MensRights10/01/24 09:33 PM
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They are significantly less likely than females to seek mental health treatment or assistance for intimate partner violence. Assistance for IPV? There little to no shelters out there for men. Feminists have ensured that organisations for men receive no funding because it's a zero sum game to them. There are studies which have found that the vast majority of suicidal men do seek help. Therapy isn't going to magically fix whatever's wrong in their lives. These feminists keep victim blaming by sayi…
/r/MensRights10/01/24 09:27 PM
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The one I tend to hear is ‘you guys only bring this stuff up to minimise women’s issues, not because you care about men’. The funny thing is that this is exactly what feminists do when it comes to men’s issues.
/r/MensRights10/01/24 12:41 PM
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I think this is true as well. Some women prioritise income and status over attraction. Of course, they would prefer both but will settle for a guy they’re not that attracted to if at all, then end up in a dead bedroom followed by divorce.
/r/MensRights10/01/24 11:45 AM
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They want the best of both worlds. Toxic masculinity = The parts of male gender roles feminists don't like Healthy Masculinity = The parts of male gender roles that benefit women r/IncelExit, a reddit forum that offers incels a platform to seek non-judgmental advice and support in leaving inceldom There is so much hostility, gaslighting and lack of empathy from inceltears users on incelexit. It's so pathetic they even mentioned a subreddit as an example for healthcare workers, in a social 'scien…
/r/MensRights08/01/24 03:21 PM
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Taking menslib as an example, they want to maintain control by not allowing men to freely discuss their issues. This is done through censoring comments and gaslighting. The mods are so scared that they even set the sub to private when they're away. Furthermore, they are completely aware of how toxic women's spaces can be but don't want men talking about women the same way.
/r/MensRights08/01/24 03:05 AM
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Yeah, those type of people frequently brigade /r/malementalhealth to blame men for venting about dating issues. Even the top post on that sub is complaining about misogyny lol.
/r/MensRights07/01/24 07:51 PM
6

Maybe if there was an extinction level event. The number of people who were on the Titanic wouldn’t even make an impact on our population. Besides, I don’t think it’s cool to draft/rape women into birthing children in order to repopulate the planet.
/r/MensRights06/01/24 06:01 PM
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Most women I've talked to believe they mature way faster than men, now I'm going to see them attempt to say both these are true at the same time 😂
/r/MensRights06/01/24 11:32 AM
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I've always thought the same thing as well. Amber Heard and her apologists just cemented it for me even more. You can't even discuss BPD abuse in most online spaces without them going on about 'stigma' and how they're actually the victims. It's no different to how feminists take misandry but flip it around and say 'oh, it's actually misogyny'. Someone here a while back once posted that 'feminism is a political expression of BPD'.
/r/MensRights06/01/24 11:23 AM
12

Goes to show that both mainstream political parties are gynocentric.
/r/MensRights04/01/24 11:50 PM
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Given it’s the UK, it will still be classified as violence against women and girls.
/r/MensRights03/01/24 12:10 PM
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I think weaponised incompetence hasn’t been mentioned. It’s okay for women to be incompetent when it comes to tasks that they think should be done by men but magically they have no problem doing those things when a man isn’t around. Also women who call men insecure to shame them into getting what they want. Girlfriend ain’t cool with you having a female best friend, but if you call her out for having a male best friend then you’re insecure.
/r/MensRights03/01/24 12:04 PM
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It's the same for any female specific disorder. BPD, PMDD, PPD, etc. There was a recent post on pmddpartners where women were upset that men were venting about being abused by their wives.
/r/MensRights02/01/24 08:16 PM
21

People assume men are assholes and women are wonderful. When a woman does something wrong they begin looking for causes.
/r/MensRights30/12/23 08:27 PM
10

It's clearly too dangerous to allow men to talk amongst themselves with no feminists there to censor and control the conversation.
/r/MensRights30/12/23 02:57 PM
2

Yep, why don’t they defend NPD in the same way? I’m sure it being historically seen as a male specific disorder has nothing to do with it (sarcasm). It is thought to be caused by childhood trauma. Borderlines are self-certified ‘empaths’ as well. One pattern with BPD is the victimhood mentality so it kinda makes sense.
/r/MensRights29/12/23 03:33 PM
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It’s because no one holds them accountable. Saying misogynistic stuff will get you censored or banned but misandry is acceptable on most platforms.
/r/MensRights29/12/23 03:21 PM
2

I don’t think I’ve seen them before either
/r/MensRights29/12/23 03:14 PM
2

I come back to see that they are here like clockwork
/r/MensRights29/12/23 11:04 AM
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BPD has been viewed by clinicians as a female-specific disorder Which is probably the reason for the backlash when calling out abusers with BPD. The conversation becomes about 'stigma' and how they're really the victims. You never see this happen with other cluster B disorders.
/r/MensRights28/12/23 03:17 PM
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Don't like them. My goal in life isn't to be a provider for another adult. I'm not going to endanger myself to protect random strangers. I'm not going to fight in a war because some rich, powerful people want me to whilst they watch safely from the distance.
/r/MensRights22/12/23 06:11 PM
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The CDC says the most common type of sexual assault men face is being raped (made to penetrate) with the vast majority of perpetrators being women. The reason why there is a huge discrepancy in UK statistics is simply because the ONS does not collect data on it. The British equivalent crime is called 'causing a person to engage in sexual activity without consent' (section 4). If you look at the glossary section on ONS's data, they don't include section 4 in their surveys. Lets take their 2022 cr…
/r/MensRights20/12/23 01:42 PM
3

It's annoying that they pass themselves off as mra's, even on this sub. They enable feminists on certain issues.
/r/MensRights20/12/23 12:47 PM
1

Thanks, I’m doing well now.
/r/MensRights15/12/23 02:47 PM
3

The video hit me pretty hard as I can relate to it very well.
/r/MensRights15/12/23 01:28 PM
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They don't even consider the possibility of men taking the pill for their own piece of mind. To them, it's more a matter of how men can serve women by alleviating the side effects of female contraceptives. I also don't think they don't like men having control over this. Perhaps they are projecting when they 'forget' to take their pill on to men, I don't know. Women's opinions on male contraceptives should be irrelevant.
/r/MensRights15/12/23 12:55 PM
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The feminist obsession with the term toxic masculinity is simply to reframe misandry as misogyny and blame men for their own issues. It's not just the connotation of the term but the deeper meaning of it as well. The deeper meaning being that misandry doesn't exist. Women being shamed for not conforming to their gender roles has been historically labelled misogyny or internalised misogyny. So you'd expect something like men being shamed for showing certain emotions to be misandry or internalised…
/r/MensRights15/12/23 12:39 PM
5

yes letting.. some feminists would lose their shit seeing that word Lol glad it's not just me who's noticed this, wasn't completely sure whether I was losing my mind. They're fine when women say 'let my husband...' naturally.
/r/MensRights15/12/23 12:11 AM
3

My opinion wouldn’t change even if that were the case tbh
/r/MensRights14/12/23 09:02 PM
23

People say we're past gender roles but they don't respond well when you say you don't want to provide for women, both in real life and on social media. A lot of guys will say you just need to accept the provider role because women can easily find a guy who is willing to enable that lifestyle for them. Bruh, I'm not interested in those type of women or that lifestyle, I'd rather stay single. I work and do the household chores, I don't need anyone to help me with the latter.
/r/MensRights14/12/23 12:03 PM
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The fact that money is the first thing their minds went to says a lot. I have no desire to be a provider for a grown adult.
/r/MensRights13/12/23 04:16 PM
6

This situation challenges conventional views on reproductive consent and control. No doubt
/r/MensRights12/12/23 07:09 AM
38

I think they project their nature on other men whilst claiming to be one of the good guys.
/r/MensRights10/12/23 07:05 PM
79

Some women are waiting at the finish line
/r/MensRights10/12/23 01:40 PM
93

Most police officers are and have been men. Just add women to the wall instead of getting rid of the whole thing.
/r/MensRights10/12/23 12:26 PM
9

Yeah. In the UK you'll find that the people behind VAWG and Sexual Offences act 2003, were mostly women and feminist organisations. Yet people think the latter was written by conservative men.
/r/MensRights10/12/23 09:58 AM
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Women who don't subscribe to this gynocentric model are rare which is why I'm staying single if my current relationship doesn't work out. It's funny how the blame for relationship issues always falls on the man. Wife complains about dead bedroom? His fault, leave him. Husband complains about dead bedroom? His fault, he's not taking her out on dates, not doing chores, etc. You're expected to do all the legwork (women aren't the romantic gender) to keep her interested in you. A lot of non-traditio…
/r/MensRights09/12/23 11:16 AM
15

I have heard women brag to each other about the number of men that hit on them and also mention it to guys they're interested in as a way to demonstrate that she is in high demand.
/r/MensRights09/12/23 10:53 AM
2

Lmao I've heard feminists say the same almost exact script.
/r/MensRights07/12/23 06:10 PM
12

Most are 25-40, one's in his 50's who went through a divorce.
/r/MensRights07/12/23 04:11 PM
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It's very hypocritical of them to liberate female gender roles but then to cherry pick male gender roles and push them as 'healthy' or 'positive' masculinity. It's not surprising given that they're probably the biggest hypocrites in existence. I met a bunch of new guys at work recently and it was actually nice to hear that they've woken up to this bullshit.
/r/MensRights07/12/23 12:03 PM
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Whilst not the majority, there's still a sizable amount of tradcons on this sub masquerading as men's rights activists. Which is why I prefer /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates
/r/MensRights07/12/23 11:51 AM
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It's only hell on earth if they have certain disabilities or disorders. If they're normal kids, then it's only the first 3-4 years where you have to look after them 24/7. After that they're at school for around 7 hours every weekday and if you raise them to be self-sufficient it's even easier.
/r/MensRights06/12/23 10:45 AM
11

Spot on. Feminists can say they've liberated men from traditional gender roles all they want but it's simply not true. They just threw out the parts they didn't like by calling labelling it toxic masculinity whilst pushing the parts they like under the guise of positive or healthy masculinity. When men notice double standards they try to reason their way around it. 'The person who invites should pay for the date.' 'You should pay because she put effort and money dressing up and wearing makeup fo…
/r/MensRights06/12/23 10:20 AM
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It's all a system of women controlling men and covering up the fact that they're doing it. Women control things by defining what morality is. Even when men are in ostensible positions of authority, they're making their decisions based on what's moral or on gaining stuff so they can give it to women and impress them. By determining what is moral and what is desirable, women are pulling the strings of their male puppets. And, of course, disguising the whole thing, making it only appear that men ar…
/r/MensRights06/12/23 10:08 AM
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It is amazing how doing “the right thing” always just so happens to mean “whatever the woman wants/needs/demands/benefits from.” Relationship subreddits or boards in a nutshell lol
/r/MensRights05/12/23 08:55 PM
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I agree with you. Tradcons and feminists both push gender roles on men, the latter just packages it more ‘nicely’. Tradcon: x is a man’s duty Feminist: x is healthy masculinity The enemy of my enemy isn’t my friend in this instance.
/r/MensRights05/12/23 02:30 PM
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Good to have study confirm this. Strange but expected how women can be so open about it and not face any backlash.
/r/MensRights03/12/23 05:33 PM
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They keep telling men to 'improve' into a man women would want but the thing is a lot of women simply prefer guys who are in demand. They're projecting when they say 'I rejected this bloke last night', in her head, it demonstrates that she's desirable and therefore, you will want her more.
/r/MensRights03/12/23 09:47 AM
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I’ve notice this as well, I think some women don’t like the idea that not every guy wants to fuck them. Women aren’t entitled to sex.
/r/MensRights03/12/23 09:17 AM
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Great, considering the time it takes to prosecute someone, these women will get themselves pregnant to avoid prison. Surprised they aren't bothered about male criminals paying child maintenance. It's really just an excuse to keep women out of prison.
/r/MensRights29/11/23 06:34 PM
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Didn't even have to look hard, this was one of the top posts on the UK subreddit. https://news.sky.com/story/boy-13-sentenced-to-two-years-in-custody-for-causing-death-of-a-grandmother-hit-by-own-car-in-sheffield-13018818
/r/MensRights29/11/23 06:00 PM
11

As mentioned, it's gamma bias. On the flip side, when a woman does something positive, it's a win for women. When a woman does something bad, they say it's rare and minimise it.
/r/MensRights28/11/23 06:01 PM
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It's common for men to be the emotionally supportive 'rock' in relationships so I disagree that it's selfish to want it reciprocated. I agree that it's good to have spaces for ment to vent since it's uncommon for men to find a partner who is emotionally supportive.
/r/MensRights28/11/23 05:56 PM
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Most women still want men to be traditional, regardless of whether or not they are themselves. It's pretty shitty that men are expected to emotionally support their partners and not have it reciprocated. Perhaps it's transactional, I don't give a shit but I've stopped putting effort into people if I know they won't do the same.
/r/MensRights24/11/23 10:43 PM
12

Chuck in cluster B disorders as well. Mention being abused by a bpd ex and you'll get attacked by a group of borderlines saying you're making people with BPD look bad. Remind you of another group of people?
/r/MensRights24/11/23 09:59 AM
3

I think society cares more about the average woman than children.
/r/MensRights24/11/23 09:25 AM
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All they care about is ensuring that nobody thinks it’s women perpetrating it, they couldn’t care less about male victims.
/r/MensRights23/11/23 11:52 PM
21

Modern day religion/cult.
/r/MensRights22/11/23 08:46 PM
31

So the excuse that it's to ensure there isn't a huge disparity between both parents homes/lifestyle is now thrown out the window. It would be the other way round if that were true.
/r/MensRights22/11/23 07:12 PM
13

I’ve noticed even when asking a non-gendered questions like ‘what are some tips for a successful relationship?’, the vast majority of responses are what the man should be doing for her. People just assume that women are naturally perfect until rigorously proven otherwise or that they don’t need to bring anything to the table.
/r/MensRights22/11/23 06:54 PM
5

I'd like to point out that plenty of women are openly homophobic when it comes to bisexual men.
/r/MensRights20/11/23 06:42 PM
2

Feminists call it internalised misogyny but if they want to keep labeling misandry as toxic masculinity, they should do the same and start using toxic femininity. They won't though because they're aware it sounds like a victim blaming term to the average person.
/r/MensRights20/11/23 06:39 PM
4

They call toxic behaviour by women 'toxic masculinity' as well lol. Makes sense I guess since it's interchangeable with misogyny or internalised misogyny.
/r/MensRights19/11/23 11:23 AM
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A big reason is because they think it’s toxic masculinity which is another way of saying men’s issues root from misogyny. The term is heavily favoured by feminists because they like to deny that misandry exists. To them men have to register for the draft because society thinks women aren’t capable, therefore, they claim it’s due to toxic masculinity or misogyny. It’s all a load of mental gymnastics. Feminists will claim that rape laws were written by men (that doesn’t make it okay anyway), howev…
/r/MensRights19/11/23 11:07 AM
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Exactly, they are misandrists. The worst part is that their arguments are easily refutable but people are extremely gullible to feminist claims and excuses. A group having issues does not negate another groups issues but for whatever reason this doesn’t apply to feminists. Normally when you stoop down to your enemies level, people will say you’re just as bad but for some reason this again does not apply to feminists.
/r/MensRights18/11/23 11:37 AM
10

They always act like women are passive participants living their lives with no agency.
/r/MensRights18/11/23 10:49 AM
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Listen to what they say about men when they talk about whataboutism, they tell on themselves. They say men play whataboutism not because they care about men, but to minimise women’s issues and sweep them under the rug. That is exactly what feminists do. They will hi-jack and shutdown a discussion on men’s issues by claiming women’s issues are more important and this is something that happens irl not just social media.
/r/MensRights18/11/23 10:37 AM
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Comments at the bottom are why I will always maintain that tradcons aren’t our friends
/r/MensRights18/11/23 04:22 AM
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If the media are not going to label it rape because of legal definitions, they should still call it sexual assault. Also, they should teach these women to not rape.
/r/MensRights18/11/23 03:40 AM
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It’s funny how men’s activists are labelled incels simply because in their heads, a man who’s getting laid wouldn’t care about misandry. Talk about narcissism. That is the intended use behind toxic masculinity. Label things they don’t like as toxic masculinity, then hide behind the academic definition when you call it out. The female equivalent term is internalised misogyny, but they are opposed to any use of the term misandry because they don’t want to acknowledge it exists. By using toxic masc…
/r/MensRights18/11/23 03:28 AM
5

Besides getting the house in a divorce, it must be so much easier when you can find a provider and save all your money for yourself.
/r/MensRights17/11/23 08:45 PM
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Relationship advice is gynocentric. The goal is to train men into being meek with little standards as possible, whilst woman have free reign and never be in the wrong. Some women see men beneath them and think they are doing men a favour by being with a guy. Which is why they find it offensive when men have standards. People who shame men by calling them insecure or controlling should be ignored.
/r/MensRights16/11/23 12:12 PM
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'The enemy of your enemy is not necessarily your friend'. This applies to conservatives as well. Being anti-feminist doesn't necessarily mean they support men or men's rights.
/r/MensRights16/11/23 12:18 AM
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Nope, I've not spoken to that aunt since.
/r/MensRights10/11/23 03:42 PM
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I get on well with kids which is why I really hate this. I was once playing with my 4-5 year old cousins, giving them piggy back rides, they were brushing my hair and stuff. The next time I was at their house they were keeping their distance. Apparently, they were told by their mum to stay away from me. It actually hurt.
/r/MensRights10/11/23 02:40 PM
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Also, not guilty does not prove innocence, which is what makes a false accusation even worse since there's no way to clear your name in the court of public opinion.
/r/MensRights10/11/23 02:35 PM
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It's a zero-sum game so that they can maximise funding for their organisations and line their pockets. They minimise male victims so they can brush them under a rug and to paint abuse as a women's issue. If they were honest about statistics, men's organisations would receive funding (at least in the UK, it's a legal requirement of the local authorities) and they see that money, as money that could have gone to them. https://core.ac.uk/download/pdf/72839546.pdf The domestic violence movement hist…
/r/MensRights10/11/23 02:26 PM
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It's nuts. There was a post about a man being annoyed that his wife won't do a certain chore. The response was 'well are there any chores you don't do that she does?'. You'd never hear this response upvoted to the top if it's the other way round. When a woman is in the wrong, they look for any reason to excuse it or will invent one in their heads. Also, it's 'fake' 'incel fan-fiction'. When it's a man, then no question asked, he's an asshole. It's the same in any relationship based sub, women do…
/r/MensRights10/11/23 02:09 PM
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Some good news, UK gyms are cracking down on people filming themselves or others in the gym. It's been banned at my gym since I started around 2 years ago.
/r/MensRights10/11/23 02:01 PM
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'1.3 million women and 695,000 men experienced domestic abuse in the last year.' It's crazy that people will see this as an excuse to brush abused men under the rug. If it was flipped around they will find another reason.
/r/MensRights10/11/23 01:56 PM
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People will understand what their body feels more than themselves and with masturbation they’re not worried about someone else’s pleasure, just their own. This applies to both genders. Which is why some people will still masturbate even when they can have sex.
/r/MensRights10/11/23 12:41 PM
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It’s projection. They do it so they think men must do it as well. I think the reason they don’t want men doing it is because women’s bodies have value and is something that men have to earn (through romance or money). Therefore, most people will find it disgusting when a man talks about a woman in that way but are fine when women do the same to men. It’s also why some people won’t care when a man is the victim of creep shots, revenge porn or rape by a woman.
/r/MensRights10/11/23 12:32 PM
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Same where I live too, when a woman describes a man as cute (not necessarily to him) it means she finds him attractive.
/r/MensRights10/11/23 12:16 PM
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When you put it that way, I have another good example. Women defending each other over coercing a man into sex. The defence is basically growing up thinking men always want sex and will fuck anything. A man rejecting sex is therefore a blow to their ego.
/r/MensRights10/11/23 12:13 PM
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That’s how I saw the emoji as well, don’t worry about being downvoted.
/r/MensRights10/11/23 12:06 PM
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It makes sense that women would have more orgasms by themselves since they can have multiple. Do you have a link to the study that found this?
/r/MensRights09/11/23 08:04 PM
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And no accountability
/r/MensRights09/11/23 06:52 PM
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It’s a play on ‘women don’t put in effort to look nice for men’.
/r/MensRights09/11/23 06:34 PM
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Male birds do it for themselves mate
/r/MensRights09/11/23 04:46 PM
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'A Feminist Revolution in Birding.' 🤣
/r/MensRights09/11/23 03:51 PM
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A lot of women don't even know how to get themselves off so how do they expect someone else to figure it out. Couple that with poor communication which makes matters worse.
/r/MensRights09/11/23 03:15 PM
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They're looking to settle down and the 'good' guy is someone who is both obedient and has money to pay for her shit. Afterall, happy wife, happy life right? Some guys are slowly waking up to the 'his money is our money, her money is hers' mentality that a lot of girls seem to have. Hypergamy also plays a role too, it's much harder for women to find a man who is earning more than them. To flip what they often say to lonely men, men don't owe women anything.
/r/MensRights09/11/23 12:52 PM
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I thought it would be obvious as well lol
/r/MensRights09/11/23 12:29 PM
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It must be if it doesn't confirm my feelings
/r/MensRights08/11/23 06:24 PM
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Glad it's not just me who noticed. Haha, thanks.
/r/MensRights08/11/23 06:17 PM
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Same, I would rather be spending time with my kids, but also no parent is looking after them when they start school between 9am-4pm anyway. They think that a man working more hours should do 50% of the housework. I bet they'd be happy to split expenses based on income though, but if they aren't paying bills at all, there's no way I'd agree to doing 50% of the housework.
/r/MensRights08/11/23 02:18 PM
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Lol when it comes to emotional labour, men are typically used as a free therapist.
/r/MensRights08/11/23 02:05 PM
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So a housewife should get to have free clothing, free food, her bills paid for, a house to live in and be paid for doing domestic labour? Those things are a form of payment. House-husband's are already thought to be leeches, imagine the vitriol if they wanted to be paid for doing chores or if they didn't do them at all. Do they just think single men automatically have their food cooked, shopping and laundry done once they come home from work?
/r/MensRights08/11/23 02:02 PM
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Agreed. Traditional conservatives are as much of a problem as feminists, they just present it differently. Also, due to chivalry, they aren't so strict on female gender roles. Tradcon: It is a man's duty is to protect women. Feminist: Positive masculinity is standing up for women (despite saying they are against traditional gender roles).
/r/MensRights08/11/23 01:34 PM
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These men bringing up their manstatistics just to demonise feminism and women.
/r/MensRights08/11/23 01:24 PM
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They're all about 'equality' until it comes to male gender roles and they want men to protect random women, no thanks.
/r/MensRights08/11/23 01:20 PM
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I'm fine if it's my girlfriend but I don't really want to hear the details about random women's periods. I've never met a woman irl who wants to talk about her periods to male friends (at least not specifics). Feminists are looking for crumbs to paint women as victims, 'we can't talk about periods', 'omg you said f***e', lol.
/r/MensRights08/11/23 12:57 PM
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An attractive millionaire is on their level, other men are plebeians who are beneath them.
/r/MensRights08/11/23 12:40 PM
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Prof Anna Tarrant says professionals rarely ask men if they're dads Yeah, I wasn't the dad but I once took my nephew to see a doctor with his mum. Forget saying hi, they didn't even make eye contact with me once, like I was invisible. Props to these people for supporting dads.
/r/MensRights08/11/23 12:29 PM
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Oncoming female pedestrians often do this as well, at least where I live. Some will walk in front of you after they cross the road, expecting you to move out the way. Anyone else notice this? Also, I will hold a door open for anyone not just women so it's nothing to do with chivalry.
/r/MensRights08/11/23 12:16 PM
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They must have mistaken me for universal credit (welfare).
/r/MensRights08/11/23 12:03 PM
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Yeah, you will only here that prison should be about rehabilitation when it’s a woman being sentenced to prison. With male prisoners they don’t deserve tax being spent on rehabilitation.
/r/MensRights07/11/23 08:56 PM
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Exactly, some people get confused between someone being mentally unwell and insanity.
/r/MensRights07/11/23 08:51 PM
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The toxic masculinty idea suppresses and shames all of this progress through the insistence on the need for male compliance, gynocentrism (men's live to serve women), as well as shaming male assertiveness, competetiveness and ambition. Essentially, by framing male gender roles they benefit from as healthy or positive masculinity.
/r/MensRights07/11/23 01:15 PM
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The annoying thing about Caroline Flaks case is that CPS advised the police to let her off with a warning despite the evidence. They would never advise a mere caution if there was strong evidence to charge a bloke for DV, it's against their guidelines. Thankfully, met police appealed against this and had her charged instead.
/r/MensRights06/11/23 05:44 PM
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Of course, CPS would tell the police to let her off with a warning.
/r/MensRights06/11/23 02:29 PM
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Agreed. The media plays a big part in that with all the hero stuff, plus the US DoD and movie studios work together to push their propaganda.
/r/MensRights06/11/23 01:49 PM
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CPS would probably use the admissions as evidence and charge him regardless of what the spouse wants. That should have been the case here.
/r/MensRights06/11/23 01:33 PM
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'I remember losing control and my limbs lashing out' 'I remember feeling I was out of my body, watching myself and telling myself to stop, but I couldn't. I would hit him hard; hitting to hurt.' This sounds very passive, she got angry and attacked him, her body didn't do it of it's own accord. She can be stressed out or whatever, but at the end of the day she chose to abuse him. 'I told my family and friends what had been happening. That they didn't criticise or judge was a huge help. Soon after…
/r/MensRights06/11/23 01:31 PM
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Cooper expressed her fear that some young people are giving up on the activity altogether. “They don’t have sex and don’t want to get married,” she said. Men don't owe women sex, relationship or marriage. The problem is that men today are “always washing up. Not that there’s anything wrong with washing up, it’s lovely, washing up, but you know what I mean? They have to try to be more caring, not masculine. It stops them being so attractive.” lol “When I was young I was sacked from 22 jobs. I use…
/r/MensRights06/11/23 01:15 PM
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Nah, my girlfriend did on our first date as well. Said she was going to the loo but actually paid for our dinner. I only found out when I asked for the bill lol. I wouldn't say it's common though.
/r/MensRights06/11/23 01:01 PM
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Some will use you as a therapist as well. Men should start charging for that lol.
/r/MensRights06/11/23 12:59 PM
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100% cop out to maintain the status quo. Another one is that she spent money on her outfit and makeup for the date but at the same time women will tell you that they never do those things for men. I guess a benefit of the patriarchy is that we men receive free clothes in the post.
/r/MensRights06/11/23 12:57 PM
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This is the way. They act like it's your loss for not paying but it's not lmao.
/r/MensRights06/11/23 12:52 PM
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This is why I'm opposed to male gender roles, including expectations to be the provider. I couldn't imagine slaving away whilst having someone else be in control of my money, it's financial abuse. You'll have feminists tell you that only the opposite happens, the man being the provider means he wants to control her.
/r/MensRights06/11/23 12:49 PM
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It’s very annoying that their automatic response is ‘what do you want women to do, allow men to forcibly fuck them?’, who the fuck asked for that? The point is stop calling them incels and stop demonising them. But yeah you’re comment is on point, when women want something it’s ‘men need to do better’. Some women see men as beneath them, like choosing beggars, which is why they don’t like it when men have standards, don’t do romance (only receive it), say they don’t dress for men, pay for dates,…
/r/MensRights06/11/23 11:18 AM
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Not into women who want to use me for money whilst she spends her money on herself so that’s perfect, her line isn’t savage as she thinks it is. She can find another dad to pay for her stuff.
/r/MensRights06/11/23 01:39 AM
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This is Women's Aid's petition against gender neutral funding. Local authorities are required to fund organisations based on statistics, according to the government response to Women's Aid's petition. The Domestic Abuse Act 2021 (https://www.legislation.gov.uk/nia/2021/2/contents) requires local authorities to assess, and commission appropriate support for domestic abuse victims and their children in safe accommodation to meet their needs. This includes funding specific domestic abuse services t…
/r/MensRights05/11/23 10:45 PM
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Her dream must have become a reality when she had a son. Now she has full control to control and gaslight a male and be applauded for it.
/r/MensRights05/11/23 11:45 AM
9

In general, prolonged vibration also damages your nerves as well, the clitoris isn't exempt.
/r/MensRights05/11/23 12:46 AM
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On this subreddit they get downvoted but they're frequent top commenters on r/malementalhealth
/r/MensRights04/11/23 01:48 PM
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Feminists and women should practice what they preach then because you can't bring up these topics without a bunch of them derailing it and not just on Reddit (fgm is worse, women attempt suicide more, etc.).
/r/MensRights04/11/23 12:42 PM
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Yet they won't apply this logic to children being more vulnerable than women. People won't explicitly say it but some have more empathy for women than children (especially boys). Even if their statistics are true (it's not) that female on male rape is rare, that doesn't justify the perpetrator receiving no punishment and no support for the victim.
/r/MensRights04/11/23 12:36 PM
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Gregory even went as far as to draft lists of items that he needed to purchase for the newborn as well as money for child maintenance. Why does he need to make those purchases if she’s a working nurse? She should be sectioned at minimum but of course she only gets a suspended sentence and now has a child with a another man. I feel bad for the guy and the child.
/r/MensRights04/11/23 12:18 PM
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Yeah, it’s insane. There’s literally posts on Reddit of mum’s committing murder-suicide and people treating her like a victim. If they can get sympathy after killing their children, they can get away with anything.
/r/MensRights04/11/23 10:45 AM
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It's sad, they are raising meek and subservient men by guilt tripping them because it gives them power.
/r/MensRights03/11/23 03:31 PM
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I agree. According to posts on this sub, men in South Korea are united and call out feminist hypocrisy. So I question when people think it's in men's nature to throw each other under the bus in order to placate women. It's learned behaviour and brainwashing.
/r/MensRights03/11/23 02:40 PM
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100%
/r/MensRights03/11/23 02:18 PM
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The stats are hidden on purpose. Besides, in the UK rape and statutory rape (Rape of a child under 13) only applies to male perps. It would have to be compared against 'Causing or inciting a child under 13 to engage in sexual activity' or 'Sexual activity with a child', which I'm sure they will conveniently omit if they do carry out a study. Even the media refuses to call it rape or at least sexual assault which doesn't help.
/r/MensRights03/11/23 01:59 PM
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The old female hypoagency vs male hyperagency. It's like all the stuff they come up with is just complete bullshit as it goes out the window when a woman is guilty.
/r/MensRights03/11/23 01:21 PM
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Male sexuality is seen as dirty which is why male rapists are vilified, whereas women's sexuality is celebrated which is why people are indifferent to female rapists and paedo's. British lawmakers practically said it themselves when they updated sexual offences back in 2003, paraphrasing: 'a female forcing a male to have sex with them isn't equivalent to rape.' Usually, the only way a female sex offender gets a heavy sentence or public ridicule is if she aids a man in rape.
/r/MensRights03/11/23 01:17 PM
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I'm sure it's also compounded by the majority of teachers being female.
/r/MensRights03/11/23 12:53 PM
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I'm surprised Charlotte hasn't changed her surname to Proudwoman. She's a misandrist who supports abusive women. She was pushing 'believe women' in regards to Amber Heard, except the women who didn't believe Amber Heard lol. She also claimed Caroline Flack was a victim of her abused boyfriend. It's not surprising that people would call an all-round “cunt”, “wanker”, “narcissist”, by those words. they don't take misogyny, sexism, and bullying against women seriously at the bar.” Like you're not a…
/r/MensRights03/11/23 12:30 PM
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being a feminist not into man hate is difficult to express That just tells me it's toxic. You can't go against the grain otherwise you're not one of them. Also a core concept of feminism is the belief of patriarchy, which is a way of blaming every social issue on men.
/r/MensRights03/11/23 12:01 PM
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That's a good point lol. The fact that washing machines do the washing for us makes the comparison to death even more asinine.
/r/MensRights03/11/23 10:49 AM
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"I'll take getting paid the same as men, but I don't want to work the same number of hours or in physically intensive / dangerous jobs.." There's ongoing lawsuits against supermarkets in the UK because a group of women who sit at tills believe they should be paid the same as people doing heavy lifting and operating machinery at distribution centres.
/r/MensRights03/11/23 02:41 AM
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I don't have a problem with men choosing to get vasectomies, I have an issue with giving them misinformation. For the record, I don't follow 'redpill leaders' or push testosterone supplements. Advice from feminist and tradcon men is often questionable.
/r/MensRights03/11/23 02:23 AM
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Yeah, she essentially bought up 'who was doing the laundry?' as a response to more men dying during covid.
/r/MensRights02/11/23 07:50 PM
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That's Ava Santina for you. This her playing whataboutism on a discussion about male suicide. Feminists never practice what they preach and always derail when it comes to men's issues.
/r/MensRights02/11/23 06:08 PM
7

That's a good analogy lol
/r/MensRights02/11/23 06:02 PM
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Do not buy into these ideas of “toxic masculinity” and the “healthy masculinity” pushed on us by feminists. I've been saying this for a while. Feminists just want to have their cake and eat it. They've liberated women from gender roles, women can choose to live a traditional lifestyle if they wish. However, they want to selectively 'liberate' men from specific parts of gender roles but otherwise want to keep the status quo, such as using men for their resources, expecting men to 'step up' and ri…
/r/MensRights02/11/23 04:58 PM
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Relationship advice is typically always gynocentric. They will say shit like ‘it’s healthy for couples to compromise’ but they only give this advice to men. Feminists pushing vasectomy and telling men it’s easily reversible gives me the vibe that they care more for male sterilisation than for male birth control. The last trial I read about male birth control found that a number of men did not produce any sperm for 4 years after not taking birth control and one was permanently rendered infertile.
/r/MensRights02/11/23 11:36 AM
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'The vast majority of us are just women who need a space to express and explore our sexuality and talk about issues abusive nature that are taboo in public.' And they gaslight you with 'misandry only hurts feelings'. As expected, Facebook won't shut it down. Edit: Didn't realise it's an old article and the group has been shutdown.
/r/MensRights01/11/23 01:20 PM
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I don't think alimony should be a thing as a woman who 'needs' it chose to be unemployed or only worked part-time.
/r/MensRights01/11/23 11:57 AM
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We generally raise men to not stand up for themselves and put women on a pedestal so our society is very gynocentric. I think as a result, men's opinions on what's right and wrong doesn't really matter (unless women agree with it) whereas women opinions do. Women have decided in the past that a man getting raped by a woman is not equivalent to a woman getting raped by a man, and now that's pretty much entrenched in UK law and most of America (not that knowledgable on US laws, I just know that Ma…
/r/MensRights31/10/23 01:38 PM
6

It's essentially the modern day Nazi card.
/r/MensRights30/10/23 01:57 PM
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abusing men and stripping them of all their money and dignity is very prevalent and profitable That's why you'll never hear 'teach your daughter's to not abuse' or 'respect men' and instead you get 'happy wife happy life' which just means ignore your wants and needs in favour of hers or face the consequences. We don't teach boys to recognise abuse happening against them. Stripping men of their money is institutionally enforced by most governments in the form of alimony.
/r/MensRights29/10/23 08:50 PM
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Sorry mate, that's really frustrating to hear. Family court systems are fucked, makes no sense why they'd allow hearsay evidence and not allow you to defend yourself.
/r/MensRights29/10/23 08:34 PM
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Put it together very quickly but glad you like it
/r/MensRights29/10/23 05:40 PM
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That's what pisses me off the most, you have Women's Aid say shit like this: Where men are victim-survivors, they are less likely to experience a pattern of abuse, it is more likely to be a one-off incident. Some men and boys report that when they have been a victim-survivor of abuse it does not have the same impact and cause the same sense of fear. A large proportion of male victim-survivors have been in same sex relationships so that the perpetrator is male (adding to the gendered nature of VA…
/r/MensRights29/10/23 05:05 PM
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Refuge is the charity that was founded by Erin Pizzey but got taken over by misandrists when she tried speaking up for male victims of abuse. Such a shame.
/r/MensRights29/10/23 04:21 PM
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Yeah, I remember when CPS advised met police to give Caroline Flacke a slap on the wrist for domestic violence.
/r/MensRights28/10/23 05:16 PM
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Yes and the reason they love using it is so they can cherry pick traditional male gender roles. A man being head of the house is toxic masculinity but a man funding a woman's life financially supporting his wife or girlfriend is positive masculinity.
/r/MensRights28/10/23 04:37 PM
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Sources: https://www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/2003/42/part/1/crossheading/rape https://www.sentencingcouncil.org.uk/offences/crown-court/item/rape/ https://www.sentencingcouncil.org.uk/offences/magistrates-court/item/causing-a-person-to-engage-in-sexual-activity-without-consent/ https://lawbore.net/articles/setting-the-boundaries.pdf
/r/MensRights28/10/23 04:24 PM
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Reminds me of this photo. The photograph depicts United States Air Force Lieutenant Colonel Robert L. Stirm being reunited with his family, after spending more than five years in captivity as a prisoner of war in North Vietnam. On October 27, 1967, Stirm was shot down over Hanoi while leading a flight of F-105s on a bombing mission, and was not released until March 14, 1973. The centerpiece of the photograph is Stirm's 15-year-old daughter Lorrie, who is excitedly greeting her father with outstr…
/r/MensRights28/10/23 02:30 PM
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My theory is that suffragettes were headed by upper class rich women who were also aided by chivalry. Traditional conservatives work in the favour of feminists as they push male gender roles but due to chivalry, they allow women to choose. For example, men are conscripted but women have the choice.
/r/MensRights28/10/23 02:17 PM
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On Reddit, male spaces usually will have at least one woman so that they can keep the community in check. A woman once tried to join Aba n Preach’s YouTube channel so that it would have a ‘female voice’ but they said no to her lol. Basically there are a group of women out there who seem to live vicariously through other women and perceive any criticism to be a personal attack, so they always go on the defence. This is uncommon in men.
/r/MensRights28/10/23 12:09 PM
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Some won’t approach because they see themselves as the prize and find it degrading. Plenty of men will ask them out so some don’t see a need to. Some don’t have the guts or are afraid of rejection. Feminists aren’t looking for equality when it comes to traditional male gender roles that benefit them. If a man wants a traditional woman then he is said to be a man child looking for a mother not a partner. Yet feminists will happily allow men to court them and provide for them but don’t want to be …
/r/MensRights28/10/23 12:22 AM
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'In the U.S., she says, unmarried adults who decide to live together do it for a much shorter duration than in Europe.' Makes sense since the purpose of marriage is to lock the breadwinner (usually the man) into a relationship as he's pretty much financially blackmailed into staying. 'Research shows that in parts of the country where men's earnings have fallen, so too have marriage rates.' Yeah, hypergamy is nothing new. 'Their book suggests that many women don't marry the father of their child …
/r/MensRights27/10/23 03:44 PM
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All of their reasons basically amount to being rejected by women: incel, virgin, etc. I think it's quite narcissistic. Like they think their pussy is so good that men can't possibly care about any discrimination or hatred they face. It must be bizarre to them that some men can't be manipulated with sex.
/r/MensRights27/10/23 10:46 AM
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Also, 'he rejected me because men don't like women who initiate', lol. No, the guy most likely rejected you because he didn't find you attractive but that's not the answer you want to hear.
/r/MensRights27/10/23 10:39 AM
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I can understand it when the victim can be easily identified by naming the perpetrator, such as when they're related or something. But yeah, I don't see any reason to not name her here.
/r/MensRights27/10/23 10:36 AM
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"oh honey that was an evaluation and you failed" It’s funny some of them believe they’re still some sort of catch and want you to feel like you messed up even though you’ve already written her off lol.
/r/MensRights25/10/23 10:38 AM
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This will lead to female criminals having babies that they don't necessarily want just to avoid prison. It's bad already that only women who commit 'serious' crimes are imprisoned in the UK. If this comes into effect, people like Lucy Letby could just get themselves pregnant and not see prison.
/r/MensRights24/10/23 12:46 PM
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I believe the predecessor to that sub was deuxmoi but they had to change it due a popular Instagram account by the same name. The Amber Heard supporters flocked from FDS to that sub when the trial was going on.
/r/MensRights22/10/23 07:51 PM
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It’s because they don’t see men who make less money than them as worthy, plus women are more aware of how alimony works.
/r/MensRights22/10/23 07:36 PM
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It shouldn't be but often the response aren't great: She no longer finds you masculine and isn't attracted to you 'She's not your therapist' even though she's always used you for emotional support She tells others about stuff you shared in confidence She flips it around and becomes upset so you always end up consoling her
/r/MensRights21/10/23 08:01 PM
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Due to male gender expectations, men are disliked for being vulnerable. Cry in front of certain women or tell them you're bisexual and they no longer see you as a man. Ignore these bigots.
/r/MensRights21/10/23 07:48 PM
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Form a masculinist movement and blame every problem on the matriarchy? That would be no better than feminism imo.
/r/MensRights18/10/23 12:39 PM
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Because to them femininity is pure and good and masculinity is evil. It's like a religion where only good and bad exists. Feminism is the word of god and it can never be wrong. Men (the patriarchy) are the villains and every problem is caused by them, no ifs or buts. If you don't believe them or simply call yourself an egalitarian then you're a misogynist or incel. Kind of like how disbelievers are called infidels in some religions. Notice they use misogyny or internalised misogyny when it comes…
/r/MensRights18/10/23 12:24 PM
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Applies to so many areas like domestic violence, financial abuse, sexual assault and rape, consent. A lot of guys don't even realise that that their partner has wronged them or taken advantage of them. Yet we only hear 'teach your son's not to rape'.
/r/MensRights18/10/23 11:50 AM
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Western Muslim women are the epitome of ‘his money is my money, my money is mine’. The religion pretty much encourages it. Men are supposed to provide for their wives but women can choose to do anything they want with their money. Obviously there’s downsides to being a woman in Islam as well, but like feminists, Muslim women cherrypick parts of scripture that benefits them.
/r/MensRights16/10/23 09:14 PM
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I also hate how they flip flop between the original definition and the feminist definition, and because of this, normal, lonely men are presumed to be 'misogynist' incels who are potential serial killers.
/r/MensRights15/10/23 01:00 PM
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Great find, it's good to have data corroborated. To explain why women possibly under report perpetrating sexual coercion more than men do, Schuster etal., (2016a, 2016b) states “This finding may be related to traditional gender stereotypes which assume that men are always willing to have sex. Hence, if a woman wants to have sexual contact with a male stranger, he may be less willing to express refusal and/or she may be less likely to accept his refusal as genuine.” In other words, it is possibl…
/r/MensRights15/10/23 02:20 AM
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In short, they're both gynocentric and misandric. Tradcons due to chivalry, military draft, etc., and feminists because they push gender roles for men but as you said, women can do whatever they want. I see tradcons on this sub sometimes encouraging men to marry traditional women even though they know of the financial risks of marrying someone who doesn't work. You might enjoy /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates if you aren't on there already.
/r/MensRights14/10/23 04:04 PM
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That's when they use terms like 'positive masculinity' to push specific gender roles for men.
/r/MensRights13/10/23 07:24 PM
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“It’s not just as simple as saying, ‘Because men pay it, women should pay it too.’ ” It is that simple, but it looks like you're after privileges and not equality. Also, props to William Orr.
/r/MensRights13/10/23 06:21 PM
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Evidence also suggests that mothers are more likely than fathers to be held responsible for child neglect. Classic feminists trying to imply men do it more but aren’t held accountable for it. Yet they won’t apply this line of thinking when it’s the other way round. Evidence overwhelmingly indicates that the majority of child sexual abuse is perpetrated by males
/r/MensRights12/10/23 06:39 PM
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Similarly, most of our teachers are female as well so the problem extends beyond the home.
/r/MensRights12/10/23 08:15 AM
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They like to show off to their girlfriends that they've snared a high-value man. I've noticed this as well. I think it's why some women despise shy virgin men.
/r/MensRights12/10/23 07:56 AM
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Forget acting emotionally, they get away with and receive empathy for murder due to hormones.
/r/MensRights12/10/23 07:47 AM
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Never followed her but she might be another grifter who claims to be an MRA.
/r/MensRights11/10/23 09:09 PM
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Shame she only got a community order, she should have known better as a police officer. Not surprised to learn she is an Indian woman.
/r/MensRights11/10/23 05:36 PM
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She also demands sex from me immediately after beating me even when I’m not in the mood and it makes me feel like an object. She often forces me when I don’t comply as well. There's rape here as well. This is what happens when you only teach girls that abuse happens to them and only teach boys to not do those things.
/r/MensRights11/10/23 03:30 PM
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You got that right lol, major ones like Women's Aid are pretty upfront about defending abusive women and claiming DV is gendered. It's in their best interest to do so as well since our taxes fill their pockets. Where men are victim-survivors, they are less likely to experience a pattern of abuse, it is more likely to be a one-off incident. Some men and boys report that when they have been a victim-survivor of abuse it does not have the same impact and cause the same sense of fear. A large propor…
/r/MensRights11/10/23 03:21 PM
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You're confusing it with American/Canadian cohabiting laws, this isn't a thing in the UK. In regards to your money, she won't be entitled to any. Though if you have children together, she would be entitled to child maintenance if she is the primary custodian. In regards to property, she would have to prove beneficial interest with evidence but that's not really easy. For example: You sign an agreement to give her a share of your property. (why would you do this lol) She contributes towards the m…
/r/MensRights09/10/23 09:28 PM
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As far as I know, there are only two studies which made the claim that men leave sick wives more often. The 2009 one by Cancer did not collect data on who initiated the divorce or why. The other 2015 study got called out by another group of researchers lol. Shortly after the paper was published some colleagues from Bowling Green State, I-Fen Lin and Susan Brown, emailed me and my co-author about our estimate of divorce. They were trying to replicate the paper and couldn’t understand why their es…
/r/MensRights09/10/23 05:27 PM
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The only thing that matters is that they aren't legally binding so judges can throw them out. The only time they might be accepted is if both parties have similar income and assets, so it's not a risk worth taking.
/r/MensRights09/10/23 04:58 PM
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As the breadwinner, you'd be dumb to get married in the UK, even pre-marital assets can be deemed matrimonial if there's a divorce. Prenups aren't enforceable either.
/r/MensRights09/10/23 03:56 PM
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Thank you
/r/MensRights08/10/23 07:57 PM
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She's a paedophile as well
/r/MensRights08/10/23 05:56 PM
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It's in the source linked in OP's comment: 'A man forcing another man to penetrate him with his penis' 68% of men and 78% of women believe the law should be changed to consider this as rape. 'A woman forcing a man to penetrate her with his penis' 66% of men and 69% of women believe the law should be changed to consider this as rape. This is the smallest gap on the chart. From the people who don't consider female on male rape, to be rape: 48% stated 'it requires a penis' 13% stated 'Cannot force …
/r/MensRights08/10/23 04:20 PM
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Article is not available in my region but going on the title alone, men are constantly hearing that women don't want men approaching them so why would they.
/r/MensRights08/10/23 04:00 PM
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Even if we assume the law is on our side, the court of public opinion is on her side lol.
/r/MensRights08/10/23 01:06 PM
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So if I understand well I have to bend to the tastes of women around me, to say whatever they do is awesome AND SAY IT to VALIDATE THEM, but in exchange I should accept they never validate me and criticize me for my choices. This is why I won't coddle women about their insecurities or sugar coat things. I won't be horrible about it, but I'll always be honest if someone asks me for an opinion. The constant validation they receive is why a lot of western women are so sensitive about these things. …
/r/MensRights08/10/23 12:12 PM
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Great post as always. Reasons to change the law: The office for National Statistics state that around 99% of rapists are men, the remaining are trans women and women convicted of rape through joint enterprise. The CDC says that the vast majority of male rape perpetrators are women. Yes it's American stats, but I don't see why it would be massively different in the UK. Accurate statistics would show that there is a need for male services and shelters. The minimum sentence for women is a community…
/r/MensRights07/10/23 05:33 PM
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You're misunderstanding me, I don't see it as a valid form of contribution. If she is having sex with me in exchange for money or shelter, I'd assume she isn't really into me.
/r/MensRights07/10/23 05:06 PM
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Can't read due to pay wall, but a person who doesn't contribute financially or significantly less should be contributing in some way (not sex) in exchange for not paying any bills and having a roof over their head. Men don't receive money into their accounts every month just by existing. It takes effort and giving up most of our free time.
/r/MensRights07/10/23 02:21 PM
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Female pedo. The UK sub is playing whataboutism by comparing sentencing to conviction rates or with rape sentences in Scotland which are different to England and Wales.
/r/MensRights04/10/23 02:17 PM
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The worst thing about this is that they're quick to call you out for whataboutism and tell you to make your own post but they come and do the same shit they're complaining about. Their goal is to minimise and dismiss men's issues.
/r/MensRights03/10/23 09:40 PM
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Typically, dating is gynocentric. Advice subreddits excuse women from almost anything. They will call men insecure to shame them into getting what they want. Meanwhile, post something as an innocent guy being wronged or abused by a woman and they will comb through your history to dig up dirt. If they have no luck, they claim the post is 'creative writing by incels'.
/r/MensRights02/10/23 04:55 PM
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This sub is pretty much the only safe space for men with a sizeable community. There was /r/malementalhealth but it always gets brigaded by feminists who come in to victim blame.
/r/MensRights02/10/23 03:59 PM
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I think it’s more to do with the intense vibrations as it’s known to damage nerve cells, than the size.
/r/MensRights02/10/23 03:18 PM
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The court heard Williams continued to maintain her innocence and that two psychiatrists had been unable to diagnose her with a disorder. But one, Dr Lucy Bacon, said she had experienced complex post-traumatic stress disorder as a result of childhood trauma. They always have to play some sympathy angle, a lot of fucked up criminals are said to have gone through childhood trauma. In the UK you typically only serve half your sentence in prison so she won't be in for 8 years. The sentence is way too…
/r/MensRights02/10/23 11:51 AM
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Something tells me her looks and age might have had something to do with it
/r/MensRights02/10/23 11:36 AM
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That's probably the best way to ask for relationship advice on Reddit, just pretend to be a woman in a lesbian relationship lol.
/r/MensRights02/10/23 11:32 AM
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I know a lot of guys like that, but I've never understood it. I'm a petrolhead so I buy a car because I enjoy how it drives, how it sounds, how it looks, not to attract women. I go gym for my own confidence, I like how I look in front of the mirror. I work hard because I hope to retire early, not to pull women. I'm in a relationship, but the women who are attracted to me because of my finances or car, are not the type of women I would want to be in a relationship with. I'd rather die an old herm…
/r/MensRights02/10/23 12:43 AM
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If men are responsible for their own orgasms then women are responsible for theirs. Like you said, it's her responsibility to discover what gets her off and also to communicate that to her partner. The list is endless. A lot of women call themselves romantic but most of them just like receiving it. A lot of women find putting in that sort of effort towards a man, undignified. You have to be the emotional 'rock' in the relationship but good luck if you expect reciprocation in regards to emotional…
/r/MensRights02/10/23 12:28 AM
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Never date a single mum
/r/MensRights01/10/23 09:34 PM
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Milne is concerned that the 1938 Infanticide Act, a homicide offence which provides such women with a partial defence for the murder or manslaughter of a biological child aged under a year, is being swept aside. For the last 50 years, no woman has been imprisoned following a conviction of infanticide, with many receiving psychiatric support. Suddenly baby killers aren't so bad when it's a woman killing them. Men who kill aren't right in the head either but it's still no excuse.
/r/MensRights01/10/23 09:00 PM
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Women who have a fetish for mutilated penis's are pretty fucked up. They're not worth your time bro.
/r/MensRights01/10/23 06:00 PM
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Pretty obvious now looking back at it lol
/r/MensRights01/10/23 05:56 PM
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Pretty typical for tradcons and feminists alike
/r/MensRights01/10/23 04:44 PM
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This is very important. We don't teach boys about recognising sexual, physical, mental, financial abuse when it's happening to them, we only teach them to not perpetrate it. I hear a lot of men describe being abused and they're fucked up about it, but they act like it's normal (happy wife, happy life) or they're confused on what to do.
/r/MensRights01/10/23 03:09 PM
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A CPS spokesman said the service does support male victims of domestic violence. He added: ‘There is no bias or lack of concern on the part of the CPS when dealing with cases involving male victims.’ Pretty much any male victim of female perpetrated abuse will deny that. CPS base their decision to prosecute on 'public interest'. They record male victims of abuse as 'Violence Against Women and Girls'.
/r/MensRights01/10/23 02:56 PM
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By conservative do you mean traditional? If so, then she’s going to want to get married and stay at home, not a good position to put yourself in as a man with current divorce laws.
/r/MensRights01/10/23 11:41 AM
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Dating married men? r/theotherwoman I don’t think that would account for that huge number though, perhaps some are lying.
/r/MensRights01/10/23 11:39 AM
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High heels as well I think were worn by men
/r/MensRights01/10/23 11:06 AM
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I don’t think it’s most of them but there are still many women who have the ‘your money is our money, my money is mine’ mentality in my area lol. I actively avoid them though, not lie to make myself more attractive to them. I agree with your comment overall though. Plus that guys should care about the financial stability of the women they’re dating.
/r/MensRights01/10/23 11:03 AM
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No need to lie, they have no business knowing your actual wealth early on anyway. Avoid the ones that do as they're just after your money.
/r/MensRights01/10/23 12:26 AM
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Ah the Konami code for getting men to approach you
/r/MensRights30/09/23 09:26 PM
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That’s true. It could be a mental thing, but I was just making a suggestion, there’s likely more reasons.
/r/MensRights30/09/23 09:22 PM
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Thanks for the link, I've pinned it to read later.
/r/MensRights30/09/23 07:34 PM
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Possibly because other women consider virgin men to be low status so they don't want to be seen with him. Status is a big thing for some women.
/r/MensRights30/09/23 07:33 PM
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After Depp v Heard, my theory is that a shit tonne of them have cluster B disorder. Side note: Isn't it strange that unlike NPD abusers, BPD abusers with a victim complex receive validation and sympathy. The former is associated with men and the latter with women.
/r/MensRights30/09/23 03:21 PM
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No more holding open doors. I don't do the others but I do this one regardless of gender, not because they're women. Overall, I think this needs to happen though. Feminists have fought against gender roles for women but still promote male gender roles when it comes to finances and their safety. They can fuck off.
/r/MensRights30/09/23 01:53 PM
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/r/malementalhealth in a nutshell after all the feminists found it
/r/MensRights30/09/23 01:44 PM
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Yeah, they don't even consider the notion of women doing the approaching, they just whine about men no longer approaching and how terrible it is.
/r/MensRights30/09/23 01:41 PM
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It is not men's fault that majority of women dont care about a man's bodycount. Some women do if your body count is zero
/r/MensRights30/09/23 01:37 PM
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'Men rarely catcall me any more. I hate that our culture makes me miss it' Jessica Valenti I see more and more posts from women on askmen about men not approaching them anymore. A recent one said something like 45% of men no longer approach women at all and they were saying how it's terrible lol.
/r/MensRights29/09/23 04:01 PM
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I've noticed that some women shame men when they don't meet those men's preferences. If you want children but she doesn't then that means you are incompatible. They don't like knowing that so they take offense to that.
/r/MensRights29/09/23 02:04 PM
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The study, "Gender Disparity in the Rate of Partner Abandonment in Patients with Serious Medical Illness," was published in the Nov. 15 issue of the journal Cancer. https://acsjournals.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1002/cncr.24577 That's the study they're referring to then. It doesn't mention who initiated the divorce or the cause for it. It also says that patients were followed until death or study termination. It would be interesting to know how many of those patients died as they would …
/r/MensRights28/09/23 11:20 PM
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I once said the earth was flat and was downvoted which proved I was right. I'm publishing a scientific paper on it soon.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 10:30 PM
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‘Mutual abuse’, ‘he probably abused her first’, etc.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 05:38 PM
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In conclusion, men's feelings don't matter.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 04:12 PM
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Besides the terminology, I agree with the points that you've bought up and have experienced them. Toxic masculinity has become a motte and bailey term which is why men often get annoyed about it. Same way incel used to simply mean involuntary celibate. If you went onto r/foreveralone and began labeling them incels, that wouldn't go down well either. Having behaviour ingrained into you by others should just be called internalised misandry.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 12:48 PM
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Good to hear, this will hopefully spread to the rest of the UK. Also hoping that rape laws will change to be gender neutral.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 12:35 PM
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Precisely. Women are now working but some still have the 'your money is our money, my money is my money' attitude. Why do you get to save your money whilst only spending mine?
/r/MensRights28/09/23 12:30 PM
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I'm aware but my comment was in context to OP's comment on leaving her. I'm just saying don't get married.
/r/MensRights27/09/23 10:00 PM
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Whilst I do agree with some of what you're saying, I want to point out that if you're going to provide for her and marry her or live in a country with cohabitation laws, you'll get screwed over when you go to leave her.
/r/MensRights27/09/23 09:17 PM
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For real, they want to make it explicit about how happy they are but complain when it's mutual (guys who are happy single).
/r/MensRights27/09/23 12:01 PM
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This is true. When punishments start affecting women they suddenly want them reduced or abolished. Also look at how paternity fraud isn’t even a crime.
/r/MensRights26/09/23 10:11 PM
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Was there ever a gender bent insult for this? Such as “fragile female ego”? No, because women's insecurities are met with sympathy and we're told to tread carefully. When your gf is putting on weight people will suggest going to the gym together. If she smells, they will suggest showering together. If you don't like her new haircut, you should still her it looks great. If they get pissy when you reject them, it's because they were taught men will fuck anything. On the flip side they hate insecur…
/r/MensRights26/09/23 04:45 PM
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Haha, feminists are traditional conservatives in certain regards, they just reframe stuff to make it seem like they aren't. They present women as eternal victims, their problems are worse so men's issues need to take a back seat and we should focus on women first. This is just chivalry. They reinforce traditional gender roles by lobbying against shared custody, use pro life arguments when it comes to men's reproductive rights ('men should avoid sex if they don’t want to have unwanted children'),…
/r/MensRights26/09/23 10:43 AM
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I think the important thing is where you live. In my country, they aren't enforceable but a judge might consider it, only if you're both earning similar amounts though. I wouldn't rely on those odds. The rest is true though.
/r/MensRights26/09/23 10:12 AM
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percentage of women I actually find viable for a long time partner is so incredibly miniscule that it hurts This is the same thing I've found as well. There's a saying that goes something like 'men are dying of thirst in a desert, women are drowning in a swamp'. I'd argue that it's harder for the man to find water but then to make sure that water is safe to drink. Some guys are so thirsty that they will have little to no standards. Most of us guys have to learn through experience as we don't get…
/r/MensRights26/09/23 10:03 AM
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I worked and did all that myself when I was single
/r/MensRights25/09/23 09:04 PM
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The question was posted by two different people but that's fair criticism.
/r/MensRights25/09/23 07:34 PM
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I like how it's written as 'financial support' because it sounds better at first glance lol.
/r/MensRights25/09/23 04:44 PM
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I agree, though I'm not one of those guys who wants a traditional relationship. Knowing how divorce laws work and marrying into a traditional relationship, it's difficult for me to feel sympathy if you end up on the hook for alimony.
/r/MensRights25/09/23 04:42 PM
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I'd go past almost and say it's not worth it at all. People talk about tax breaks, but you lose way more if the marriage doesn't work out. Another point is making medical decisions for your partner if they're unable to. I don't know how it works in the US but me and my gf have each other listed as next of kin on our medical records so that's a none issue as well, also they don't check your marriage certificate either lol.
/r/MensRights25/09/23 04:08 PM
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It's not even limited to that genre. Most male song lyrics involve a guy simping or whiteknighting. Trying to put together a playlist with songs not about love or sex is pretty limiting sadly.
/r/MensRights25/09/23 10:46 AM
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Not surprised. The media makes it sound as though there are huge numbers of ‘incels’ out there but the last time I checked the biggest incel forum has a mere 20k users. There are more users on FDS, fourthwavewomen and that’s individually.
/r/MensRights23/09/23 05:21 PM
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Negative behaviour in women is minimised and played off as rare whereas the same thing in men is exaggerated and said to be rampant. If it can't be passed of as rare then they say it's worse for women e.g. genital mutilation.
/r/MensRights23/09/23 03:08 PM
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They really need to update rape laws in most countries to include female perpetrators. That way, statistics will show that there is a need for men's shelters and services. Women's organisations have a history of minimising female on male abuse in order secure funding for themselves.
/r/MensRights22/09/23 03:02 PM
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You'll get the narcissists patting themselves on their backs saying 'behind every successful man is a woman'.
/r/MensRights22/09/23 02:02 PM
1

To be honest, I see traditional conservative men doing the same when it comes to coddling women.
/r/MensRights21/09/23 12:16 PM
2

They will justify misandry one way or another so I find it's best to ignore them
/r/MensRights21/09/23 11:49 AM
1

You learn a lot from feminist projection. They always complain about men hijacking women's issues to belittle them yet they're constantly doing it to men. Gives you an idea on why they do it, to minimise men's issues.
/r/MensRights20/09/23 09:31 PM
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People say men think about sex every 7 seconds but in all honesty, I'm constantly thinking about the Roman empire.
/r/MensRights20/09/23 09:24 PM
3

If you've ever checked out r/bpdlovedones, it makes sense. I would describe bpd abusers as narcissists with a victim complex.
/r/MensRights20/09/23 09:10 PM
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Yes it does. I remember Women's Aid saying that female abusers were previously abused by their victims. They didn't even say some, implying all of them are victims. It's the same shit feminists used to downplay Heard's abuse against Depp.
/r/MensRights20/09/23 09:07 PM
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The ones running women's DV organisations fill their pockets with the resulting government funding. It's in their best interests to maintain all kinds of abuse as a gendered problem.
/r/MensRights20/09/23 08:32 PM
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That's because it's historically been referred to as internalised misogyny. Feminists refuse to use the male equivalent because they believe all societal issues result from misogyny.
/r/MensRights20/09/23 07:57 PM
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Toxic masculinity is a victim blaming term. When women say something misogynistic, feminists have always called it internalised misogyny. Naturally, you'd think they would use the equivalent term (internalised misandry) when the same phenomenon occurs in men. This is of course intentional. Toxic masculinity and internalised misandry are sometimes used to refer to the same thing, but there is a major difference. Lets take men believing that their job is to provide for their wives or girlfriends. …
/r/MensRights20/09/23 07:41 PM
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