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Oh God I say something similar a lot. "I have that in [different color], but we can't show up wearing the same thing. It makes us both look bad." I've said it so many times now that i think it's starting to sound rehearsed, so I may take it out of the rotation for a while. But it often gets a good laugh.
/r/seduction12/10/14 06:25 PM
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Oh, I'm sure it does. But that's a quality that many people say he has which can be quite useful.
/r/seduction12/10/14 10:33 AM
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Worst seddit post I've seen in a quite a while. The focus needs to be on interacting with women in reality, not on getting an "edge" in some meaningless virtual world.
/r/seduction12/10/14 02:04 AM
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You have a good point. If someone's first step is implicitly criticized by removing it, it would be quite discouraging. I guess I wish the balance between people who have done this for a few years and new people were a bit different, but what you can do. :)
/r/seduction12/10/14 01:15 AM
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Just a thought...I wouldn't mind if you removed these "field reports" that are on the order of, "After 6 months, I finally made eye contact with the girl I see every day on the bus!" There is a lot of that junk on here, unfortunately. I used to think exactly like those guys, no question. I was as bad as any of them, maybe worse. But it doesn't belong in this forum.
/r/seduction12/10/14 12:54 AM
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One of the best guides to getting laid I've seen, honestly. And the funny thing is, unlike what people often say about pickup, there is nothing tricky or underhanded or dishonest about it. In fact, it's about becoming a better listener and engaging better with other people. Even other men. I often force myself to really listen to male friends when they talk, and engage with what they're saying, rather than waiting for my turn to speak as people so often do. It's actually quite difficult! But it'…
/r/seduction12/10/14 12:04 AM
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What is "nice" about making some woman wait forever before you make a move on her? She's a big girl...if she wants to reject you, I'm sure she can figure out how to do that. Until then, move ahead.
/r/seduction11/10/14 11:56 PM
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In asking for their advice on approaching women, you're tacitly asking for their approval. "Am I good enough?" That turns them off. What's more, it's a very awkward thing to talk about with someone a girl has just met, I'm sure. I would completely excise that topic from your conversation.
/r/seduction11/10/14 11:55 PM
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I wonder the same thing, despite having been into pickup for about 4.5 years. I don't like the super loud clubs. I notice both me and friends of mine have better luck at places that are not so loud. Even friends of mine who love those loud places actually get laid a lot more at the quieter spots.
/r/seduction11/10/14 03:52 PM
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Obvious question: Are you going to gay bars? If so, maybe stop doing that.
/r/seduction11/10/14 07:13 AM
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I often start by standing side by side, arms touching, or by touching a girl's arm with mine to get her attention. There is absolutely no way anyone is getting arrested for that. In time, if she's not pulling away from those touches, you might touch her arm with your hand, and then in time maybe play with her hair. I'm not talking about much time...this could happen in 5-15 minutes. Makeout is a common next step. The touches can start out extremely small where no sane person would mind, and cert…
/r/seduction11/10/14 03:11 AM
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"anyone,just anyone,save me from this stupid and destructive state." No one can. You have to do it.
/r/seduction11/10/14 02:22 AM
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How about meeting some girls inside? If they're outside and it's still early, they're probably heading inside sooner or later. But once they're inside, they may stay a while.
/r/seduction11/10/14 02:19 AM
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I found in doing pickup that I was also better at making male friends. The listening skills you learn, and the general more outgoing attitude it encourages, really help in all relationships with anyone who's human. Not just people with breasts. Plus, other guys usually love the guy who can go into a group of girls, meet them all, and then throw a few of them to other guys.
/r/seduction10/10/14 04:53 AM
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One thing I developed is, if I'm leading her somewhere (outside, to the bar for a drink, whatever), I walk a bit ahead of her. Then, I extend my hand behind me, expecting her to take it. They almost always will. It also shows that you have no doubt that she'll do it, which they seem to like. It's the opposite of neediness.
/r/seduction10/10/14 04:43 AM
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Yeah I would've liked to have found a girl earlier, to be sure. In fact, I saw those 2 at the same place much earlier, but couldn't think of anything to say at the time. Should've just come up with some BS and got it started then.
/r/seduction09/10/14 01:39 PM
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Maybe talk about pickup less, since it sounds like they have no interest in it. You don't have much to gain in talking about pickup with people who know nothing about it, anyhow. Other than that, if they can't support you in doing something positive for yourself, I question how good of friends they are. In time, if they are consistently negative or try to stand in your way, you may need to distance yourself from them. See how it goes, though. When I got into it, only one friend of mine was inter…
/r/seduction09/10/14 03:39 AM
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Very nice and very simple. I think I will try this on Friday.
/r/seduction08/10/14 04:24 PM
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It's so true that while you do need some opener, something to say, what it is makes very little difference so long as it isn't extremely offensive or something. No, I'm sure she has no idea what I said first either. I felt like the very small way in which kino began stopped her from feeling scared or creeped out. Then, I could escalate it very rapidly. Yeah for whatever reason, this chick was just ready. Had some other guy who knew about pickup been there first, he probably would've gotten her. …
/r/seduction08/10/14 04:18 PM
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Glad to hear it! I hope to learn from it as well. It was probably one of the smoother executions I've had in a while.
/r/seduction08/10/14 04:15 PM
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In my book, she was a 10. Tall, tanned, small waist and flat stomach, nice behind, very large chest. Everyone has different standards though. Hmm...closest celeb I could think of would be maybe a taller Kim Kardashian.
/r/seduction08/10/14 04:14 PM
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Yep, what you describe about the friend coming over was exactly what I did, just the telephone equivalent. I definitely thanked my buddy for talking to her the next day. :)
/r/seduction08/10/14 04:03 PM
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Thanks man, that was one of my favorite parts. I was pretty worried, like "F&ck, I forget her name, what if it comes up?" Then that solution just came to me somehow.
/r/seduction08/10/14 04:03 PM
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Yeah it sounds like a military maneuver haha.
/r/seduction08/10/14 04:02 PM
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Yes, like in that video. Or even a little closer. You're talking over the shoulder, yes. I didn't start out that way, but in a couple of minutes. What I like about that is it's very nonthreatening. No one is going to scream and call 911 because you stood next to them. But it gets you going down the path you want to be on, and also lets her get off the path if she isn't into it.
/r/seduction08/10/14 04:02 PM
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1) I'm 28, she's 25. We're both white, but our families come from different parts of Europe. (Way back...we're both Americans.) 2) NYC area 3) More of a divey place. I don't go to very expensive places. Waste of money, in my opinion. Plenty of pretty girls at the normal places.
/r/seduction08/10/14 04:00 PM
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