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| 3 | Is it a bad idea to approach at the gym if I see them all the time? | Fundamentals | mrchipslewis | /r/seduction | 07/08/26 01:50 AM |
| 1 | How to Approach: When you notice them walking on the opposite side of a busy road? | Fundamentals | mrchipslewis | /r/seduction | 14/07/26 01:33 PM |
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| 3 | What are 3 unique lightbulb moments or tips that helped you succeed at cold approach?I think the biggest thing Ive learned is it's ok to follow for a bit or even a while until they end up in a less busy area or less bustling sidewalk. I used to get caught up in my head so much that I was a following creep and then I would say fuck it and turn around and abandon the approach. But after I got over this, literally not a single approach has ended badly because they realize they remember seeing me like a few minutes prior. They really arent thinking about that after you give them the… | /r/seduction | 14/08/26 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea to approach at the gym if I see them all the time?Yes I agree | /r/seduction | 09/08/26 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea to approach at the gym if I see them all the time?Not a bad idea lol | /r/seduction | 07/08/26 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea to approach at the gym if I see them all the time?I meant reveal intention in terms of saying I think theyre cute then ask for number. Then finding out if relationship material through a 1st date etc. Thanks for the insight though that it shouldnt be a big deal | /r/seduction | 07/08/26 02:13 AM |
| 2 | I find you cute - doesn't work anymoreThe reason you should show intent early with a line like that, is because if you're just randomly going up and making small talk most girls are going to be thinking ok what does this guy want, why is he talking to me? And sure it can be a normal conversation first, but then at the end you try to close and she suddenly realizes "oh thats why" and then rejects you because theyre not interested. Which means you could have saved yourself a lot of time if you were more direct. Them getting to know yo… | /r/seduction | 30/07/26 08:06 PM |
| 1 | 50+ approaches done but approach anxiety keeps coming back. why?I'm almost in the exact same boat as you. Ive done just over 50. And every day just thinking about it I feel butterflies or anxiety about what I will be doing later. And then after the 3rd one its basically completely gone. Mind you I havent done extended convos yet only compliments/ejects. I wish it would go away since surely after enough times it would, but... I find what has really helped doing those first ones of the day though is thinking and being aware of how I know the nerves will go awa… | /r/seduction | 29/07/26 04:48 PM |
| 1 | How to Approach: When you notice them walking on the opposite side of a busy road?Depends on the road I guess | /r/seduction | 15/07/26 12:46 PM |
| 1 | How to Approach: When you notice them walking on the opposite side of a busy road?I guess its not like the girl would know either | /r/seduction | 15/07/26 12:34 AM |
| 1 | How to Approach: When you notice them walking on the opposite side of a busy road?Yes lol | /r/seduction | 14/07/26 05:00 PM |
| 2 | How do I keep her attention after opening with a compliment?What counts as replying warmly? Pretty much every girl will say thank you. I guess just in the tone of voice? | /r/seduction | 03/07/26 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Looking for nightlife wingman in TorontoSent you a dm | /r/seduction | 03/07/26 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Wingman in TorontoSent you a dm | /r/seduction | 03/07/26 03:12 AM |
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