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This is where a man's self-control is important. Men are promiscuous, women are hypergamous, and this is our nature. We, as a society and as individuals, should seek to gain control over these aspects of our nature. It's why marriage, practiced cross-culturally all over the world, is a foundational aspect of a properly-functioning society. We turn our back on monogamy at our peril
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:32 AM
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Wouldn't have to be that specific. It's a core part of the ideology. If women are expected to behave a certain way, it's because of societal oppression against them, especially from men. Women are strong independent individuals, and they should be able to do what they like. ...Oh, and fuck men's feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:24 AM
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In terms of viewing women as "women" I couldn't agree more. I'm sick of this conversation. We're not teams in conflict. As an individual, you're not responsible for your whole gender. It seems ridiculous that that would need explaining, but so many people are so caught up in this idea that it has to be explained. If, however, someone made the observation that certain women seem to be behaving in a particular way, and that those women seem incapable of personal accountability. And if that person …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:10 PM
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If you're on a date, sitting across the table, looking her in the eye, and thinking "Women aren't fair, so I'm not gonna be." you shouldn't be on a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 09:38 AM
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I wish more people understood this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 06:26 AM
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Can I comment just to say "Great question!" ? Still learning the rules here. I do love this question, though
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 11:33 AM
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Everything wrong with feminism in a nutshell The world is a battleground, and you're either on this side or that side. If you're a man, you're responsible for all of men. If you're a woman, you're a victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:40 AM
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Awesome comment. Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 09:44 AM
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Yeh, sometimes the red pill goes down easier
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:11 AM
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Impossible? Well that's not defeatist, at all! How often is "from time to time"? How about those taken girls? Are they all with "Chads"? If not, why? How is it that I'm in a loving relationship, married with kids? As are the majority of people I know. If what you say is true, we couldn't be! We're not "chads" What you say has not been my experience of real life. Just red-pill horseshit that you'd do better not to buy into.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 06:27 AM
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Don't base your view of women and the dating market on YouTube street-interviews. Standards are not as high as many men on here seem to believe. I feel like (and I may be wrong) that the men complaining about "standards" or "the top 10%" are often the same men not going out anywhere or meeting anyone. They've allowed themselves to be convinced by the internet of what the world outside is like.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:25 AM
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Really? I still see it The idea that men are childish idiots is one that we've been lapping up for decades. This isn't just about work/housework. This is about interests, friendships, communication, our entire approach to life is seen as childish and immature. The Simpsons, Family Guy, Scrubs, The Big Bang Theory, all of the most popular TV shows and sitcoms have this in common. The men are childish idiots, and the women are running the show. We've been labelled morons for so long. now, that we'…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 05:01 PM
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What do women have to do with anything in this conversation? I didn't say anything about women. Your problem is you see the world through "men vs women" lenses. This isn't a men vs women issue At no point did I say anything has anything to do with women. Your own worldview put that idea in your head. EDIT: Pointless rant deleted
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 03:16 PM
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The only "women" I referred to are TV show characters. What are you responding to, here?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:38 AM
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It's everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 09:31 AM
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What difference does that make? We're all hearing the message.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 09:28 AM
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I'd agree with that. Honestly, what I had in mind was along the line of talking about your feelings. Someone who can connect with women on an emotional level. Ever listened to women chat? Ever heard a conversation when one woman was 'there for' another when she was feeling emotional? Women expect men to communicate like women, and we just don't. The moment we try, we become instantly friendzone material.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 11:56 AM
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Your emotional availability is more about your character than any conscious decision being made at any point. Having said that, I would lean toward the unavailable end of the spectrum if it were a choice. Women who think they want emotional availability have been raised on Disney toons and rom-coms that told them that's what they should expect. Men aren't supposed to be emotional, and it's not attractive when they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 06:24 AM
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I like these rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:56 AM
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The idea that men are childish idiots is one that we've been lapping up for decades. This isn't just about work/housework. This is about interests, friendships, communication, our entire approach to life is seen as childish and immature. The Simpsons, Family Guy, Scrubs, The Big Bang Theory, all of the most popular TV shows and sitcoms have this in common. The men are childish idiots, and the women are running the show. We've been labelled morons for so long. now, that we've become blind to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:54 AM
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It's usually a response to " men are useless."
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 12:59 AM
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What might the solution be? Any ideas?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 02:08 AM
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Nicely put. I have my issues with this "independence" obsession we have at the moment. Maybe there's just too many cool movie characters that "go it alone" or "don't need anyone to help" Dexter, John Wick, Batman.... The list could go on.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 02:06 AM
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The vast majority of MGTOW is not this. Men have realized that they're just better off single. It has nothing to do with how women react.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 01:54 AM
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Why would I want a female friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 03:09 AM
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I had it done. I'm fine. I do t see the issue
/r/MensRights23/02/24 04:05 PM
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Yeh, not the best place to draw conclusions about "guys"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:37 PM
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You're talking about a very specific, tiny minority of guys here. Might be worth mentioning in the actual post
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 02:37 PM
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You sound like you bought a copy of The Rational Male and took it hook, line, and sinker, without a thought of your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 09:15 AM
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I like it. Able to take care of yourself is a good thing, and it especially works in a relationship. Even better if you can be reliable on top of that. I need my family, and my family needs me. There's something to that, and I think I'm happy to sacrifice my independence for it. My son needs me. He's lucky to have two parents that understand the importance of a father.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 09:11 AM
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Both men and women are actively choosing to either divorce or not marry in the first place, even when kids are involved. This is becoming a cultural norm. Why? If it's all about men, which is implied by your refering to women's active choices but not mens, then why is this the case now, and wasn't so much in the past? What has changed, and why the change now?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 08:57 AM
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Errm... What?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 08:46 AM
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That part of feminism I agree with. Women have those things and have done for decades. https://youtu.be/5e9jUaxGr8U?si=T-nN_MM6NwaWrVXw The first 10 sec of this video is all want to share. I'm sorry that it's followed by the message after. "Like, for what?" This here is the message that came with the feminist movement. See how the audience laughs, even men. Women choosing to be single mums because they're "strong and independent" and men choosing to leave because they're "useless anyway" is the …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 08:35 AM
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This belief is tearing society to bits
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 08:13 AM
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I would agree, but it seems that single parenthood is becoming a cultural norm. The message from both feminism and MGTOW is one of independence born of a mistrust, or even hatred, of the opposite sex. The wave of feminism came with it a wave of fatherless households and children who lack proper cognitive, social development. This is showing drastic to results today.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 08:11 AM
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I don't want to just repeat what has been said in every other comment, though I agree with their message. I would add, though, that it's not because you're unattractive. I can almost guarantee that there are plenty of men around you that are interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 08:44 AM
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By "everything" you mean "initiate divorces" I'm on your side, here, but I was hoping for more examples of shit women do
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 01:01 PM
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I used to be that noone expected women to be bread winners, but then feminism came along.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 12:01 AM
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Would you let them know you're all broken up?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:39 AM
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BBC do porn now?
/r/MensRights02/01/24 10:58 AM
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The sexual revolution has led to a generation of an fatherless households. It's a fucking disaster for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 07:45 AM
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Fair play. Then a guy cuts ties with you for the same reason, and you're fine then...?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 05:49 AM
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One thing I do see when I look into this, and in the comments section here, is "Divorce" This is sad to see. Especially when kids are involved. People these days are so easy to jump to breaking up families when things get tough. It's not good. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4wH2kKQS7ak is worth a watch if you're interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:59 AM
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It's the second half of the statement that doesn't seem to hold true. I just typed "I hate my wife" (which I'll be deleting from my history, ahaha) and I'm not seeing the "You're and asshole/abuser" replies. Also seeing thousands of upvotes. Same both ways, bro
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:53 AM
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I doubt that's what you say to her. Besides, from our other chats, it would seem you haven't needed to yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 11:09 AM
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I wanted it to be a top comment as well as a response to you. So?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 11:06 AM
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Sometimes, it's me that wants to read a book. That's life, man. If you've never experienced a moment when only one of you are in the mood, then it'd seem you haven't been married very long, and probably don't have kids yet. That time will come, and when it does, be sure to tell her that she has to because it's mandatory. See how far you get
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 11:05 AM
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Moments of less intimacy in an LTR are perfectly normal. If you, as a man, can see them as an opportunity rather than a front to your ego, you can maintain a healthy relationship. Practice NoFap, hit the gym, focus on work, then see if your wife is interested. ...or do non of those things, and just tell her she has to fuck because it's mandatory. See how well that works out, HaHa
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 10:59 AM
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Completely disagree. Moments of less intimacy in an LTR are perfectly normal. If you, as a man, can see them as an opportunity rather than a front to his ego, he can maintain a healthy relationship. Practice NoFap, hit the gym, focus on work, then see if your wife is interested. ...or do non of those things, and just tell her she has to fuck because it's mandatory. See how well that works out, HaHa
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 10:58 AM
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So "No, honey. You're not allowed to just chill and read your book. I'm in the mood, so if you're not, we need to talk" I feel for your misses, man. Your dick is hard, so it's "either fuck me or you're in for a long boring-ass talk about the relationship."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 10:48 AM
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And the day your wife isn't in the mood, then what?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 10:40 AM
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Also happily married with a healthy sex life. Could never imagine it being "mandatory" for my wife to have sex with me. That would be degusting! The thought makes me sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 10:39 AM
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We keep ourselves sex-obsessed. My sex drive and my control over it is not my wife's responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 10:34 AM
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Call it what you like. It's dark as fuck. You'll never find yourself in a loving relationship with these kinds of views. It's toxic as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 10:30 AM
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You want a relationship to work, then this kind of thinking needs to be left behind. It's a horrible way to view your partner and will lead to some dark shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 10:28 AM
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This is some blackpill shit, right here. Mods, hurry up and take it down.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 10:25 AM
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I'm curious about what you think of my answer there
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 07:39 AM
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Why not? I understand why she needs to cut ties. It's ok
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:57 PM
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When did I say it that?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:53 PM
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C
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 09:32 AM
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That's hilarious! hahahah
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 09:22 AM
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I did read the post, but I had my answer after the the first five words of the title... I don't see how taking things like this personally is gonna help any man. Even if you do take it personally, what are you gonna do, go online and complain about it...? Honestly, your teens and 20s are a time of major development. At those ages, you should be developing the necessary skills to be attractive, and, of course, that's gonna mean setbacks, rejection, pain and regret. These are necessary parts of be…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 09:19 AM
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Some really good points being made throughout this comments section. I'm noticing, however, that many people approach to this is very logical and reasoned. The problem with this is that there's nothing logical or reasoned to finding someone attractive. I'd bet that it's based more on an intuition or a vibe that guys give off when they have or don't have experience. I find it very difficult to imagine that a woman makes a conscious decision like "Really? You've never had sex? Well that's my mind …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:03 AM
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Hhha. Love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:51 AM
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I'm sure you'd answer it. I'm done here. I've made my point, and don't want to repeat myself. Bye
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:54 AM
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Do you have anything other than bait questions?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:49 AM
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Such a simplistic view. "It's men Vs women, and either feminists took over and control everything or men have power bla bla bla." I'm not talking about a group of feminists that make conscious decisions about what goes into a show. It's a narrative that has been embodied culturally. If you can't understand what that means, then we're done. I'm not goin back and forth with you on this
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:04 AM
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Unfortunately, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:14 AM
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"The narrative has subtly snuck its way into our conscious." Think about what that means
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:13 AM
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It's Game. The worst form of game, disingenuously performed be men who claim to be against game, but, in reality, are just bitter because they have none, so they try to get into girls pants with nice-guy game. Nothing more pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 07:25 AM
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The less extreme is still very relevant. Watch any sit-com from the last 30 years, and you'll see this narrative as a general theme... Women are strong, independent, and have their head screwed on. Men are useless, childish, and if they do have a woman in their lives, they're lucky to. Simpsons, Family Guy, Scrubs, Big Bang Theory,.... the list goes on. He's always so lucky that she's willing to tolerate him. This narrative has snuck its way into our conscious so subtly that we haven't noticed i…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 07:18 AM
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Since feminism, the general message has been this... "Women! You're strong and independent! You don't need a man! If you're dependent on a man, you're a failure to womenkind! You can do everything, even parenting, on your own" "Men! We don't need you anymore! You're nothing but useless children! You should be so lucky as to have a Woman in your life! You don't deserve us! A mother is all a child needs! Fathers aren't important! Just leave!"......"Oh, and pay child support"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 07:11 AM
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I'm concerned that too many men allow the opinions of women to determine their own self-worth. Any philosophy that can encourage a man to see his own value and promote self esteem without a bitter resentment for women or the world aground him is a good thing. I went through a MGTOW phase that allowed me to start having conversations with women without that weak-ass "I think she likes me" voice in my head making me nervous. The ability to talk to the most beautiful woman with no interest in anyth…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:11 AM
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The same level of loyalty you can expect from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:38 AM
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There's a push/pull dynamic that women seem to be intuitively aware of, but all too often, men know nothing about. I don't think "Don't show any interest" is the right approach, but you can show a certain level of self control, and even self interest. The problem arises when a girl shows a lad a few signs of interest, and suddenly he's confessing his undying love and need to be with her always. This shows in behaviours like turning up to her house unexpected, texting her all day, always touching…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:27 AM
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My phone is going back in my pocket now. Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 10:46 AM
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Didn't say "blame". Look, I know where this is goin, and I'm not gonna debate you on it. Too many men are wasting their lives indoors on a steady diet of gaming, porn, and red pill content, and getting angry at the world outside. If this is even slightly accurate about you, then I want you to know that there's a life out there to be lived, with or without a woman, and you should go and live it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 12:54 PM
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At what point did I say "Never show any emotion to anyone, ever." You should ask what I mean by "pussy" before making assumptions about my intent.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 10:17 AM
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I don't know if I'm talking to a man or woman here, but my advise for a man would be... Go and meet a group of guys and let it all out. Complain. Cry. See how close you get to them. In fact, next time you're on a date, let all your feelings out. See how far you get. There is a direct correlation, and that correlation is Stop Being a Pussy!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:57 AM
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Ah, then I misread. I thought you meant you agree that you can't CMM, haha
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:50 AM
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Why can't you change my mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:33 AM
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Ok, so I know that talking about experience isn't science, and it's a fallacy, and all that, but ask yourself... Is it the case that most dads you know are top-tier men who are out there getting many women pregnant? Even disappear dads? You should be careful with this idea that most women are choosing top men. I'm not gonna say you're wrong, but you should be careful with what you do with that information. If what you're doing is spending your days at home watching MGTOW content and getting bitt…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:08 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:06 AM
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Of course it's like that for so many people. There aren't so many online groups of women crying because non of the men out there like them. I like your point about personal responsibility. You're defiantly right... It's just not a solution. What can be done to promote personal responsibility in the masses? Why are so many people lacking this responsibility? What can be, and should be, changed? That's what this is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:57 PM
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That's hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:48 PM
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That's exactly what I'm telling you. If you don't have your shit together, your relationships aren't likely to be a "loving connection" Work on yourself first. Once you have self respect, you're ready to respect someone that respects you. It took me god knows how many toxic relationships, bitter depression, and MGTOW, before I learned that. I'm now happily married with a beautiful baby boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:44 PM
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Don't be direct! Nothing kills is more that being direct!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:15 PM
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You tell a shit joke, no-one laughs but her, and she laughs more than necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:14 PM
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I can't consider myself a HVM, but I can tell you this... My choice not to cheat on my wife has nothing to do with lacking options. I take my role as a husband and a father seriously. I am monogamous because I truly believe that it is the right way to be. In difficult times, especially times that call for self-control, I am driven by a sense of responsibility and the knowledge that what my son needs is two parents that are in a working, stable relationship. I practice NoFap. This is my answer to…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:11 PM
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That's a nice answer. In the UK, we've seen a huge decline in people going to pubs. So much so, that they've been shutting down everywhere. We've also seen a rise in people drinking at home, where it's warm, cheap, and has all the entertainment we need... The internet! We're losing something extremely valuable in our culture, and it's being replaced by loneliness. It's also effecting men more than women for many reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 02:24 PM
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I would like to add to that. If you take a look at any popular sitcom, kids movie, or TV show in general, you'll see a common theme... Men are childish idiots, and women have their heads on their shoulders. The Simpsons, Family Guy, Scrubs, The Big Bang Theory, Friends, Frozen.... The list goes on We've been receiving this message for so long, now, that we believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 01:16 PM
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I think you have an excellent point. Nobody is questioning the value of a mother (or if you are, you need help) The value of fathers, and men in general, is something that has been under fire for decades now. Men need to realise their value so that they can take their responsibilities more seriously. The "crisis of masculinity" is more complex than just empowered women. I think we've been receiving the message "men are useless" for so long that many of us believe it. As for blaming women, that's…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 12:59 PM
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Good question. On the face of it, the obvious answer is the parents, especially fathers. That does lead too some follow-up questions, though.. What has gone wrong? Why are parents, especially fathers, failing in this area? What can be done about it? What kind of men are we hoping parents will raise? None of these questions have short, simple answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 12:44 PM
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I would agree, but I think we have a different idea of what "better" means.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 12:37 PM
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Things are getting worse than they used to be, though. Less men dating, men losing their virginity later, children being raised in fatherless households more and more, more divorces, more mental heath issues, more suicide.... Something has changed, and we need to know what and why.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 12:35 PM
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That's actually a pretty good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 12:27 PM
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This isn't about force. It's about development. Men are often lonely because they find it too difficult to go and meet people, and, in todays world, far too easy to stay at home and live in front of a screen. We're failing young men by not raising them right or helping them develop.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:51 AM
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Jordan Peterson's culturally enforced monogamy You mean marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:39 AM
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Stop using media to push the fem-centric narrative would be start. We could then stop with this "masculinity is bad" BS, and let men grow to be men again. We're raising pussies. That's what needs to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:36 AM
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Forcing women to fuck men is not what is being discussed here. More than ever, young men are being raised in a way that doesn't help them develop necessary qualities to be attractive men. Our views on masculinity have led to a generation of men who are, for lack of a better word, Pussies. Lack social skills, lack a sense of humour, lack responsibility... For decades, now, man have been told that they are useless children who would be so lucky as to have a woman in their lives. Just take a look a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:33 AM
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A man's consent to sex is less valuable than a woman's. Some truths we just have to accept. It is based on our evolution, as it is in nearly all other species. The effects on our psychology is where it gets really complicated. I don't necessarily disagree with you, but I do believe that there are psychological consequences of telling men that they should cry and get emotional in scenarios like the one I gave. I really believe the way it is is the way it should be, even if it doesn't seem "fair."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 03:00 PM
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Like I said, there's a lot to unpack, it makes responding quite difficult. Let's narrow things down. By "double standards," I'm talking specifically about behavoural standards that we, as a society, have for each other. Life-threatening operations and economic factors like the wage gap don't really fall into this. Sexual assault is a great example. To avoid complications, let's stick to the minor stuff for now. (It'll get dark and messy if we don't) Take, for example, an uninvited bum-grab. Not …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:18 AM
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That's a nice little piece, but you've answered the wrong question. I'm talking about double standards here. Why would men be designed with a proclivity toward promiscuity? Why would women be hypergamous? Why would being faithful in a monogamous relationship be a challenge and require a degree of self-control?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:50 AM
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What does CYM mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 03:33 AM
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Sexual promiscuity would also fit there as a behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 03:08 AM
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Society, at large, has certain standards for people behaviour. This isn't so much about an individual's standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 03:06 AM
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I'm not talking about stereotypes, I'm talking about double standards for behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 03:03 AM
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You make some excellent points here - Thank you There's a lot to unpack, though, so I'll take my time getting back to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:56 AM
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Are you serious? Have you ever met anyone? Young men often boast, and even lie, about how many girls they've been with, while 'slut' is often the go-to insult for a women, whether it's true or not. This isn't about your opinions of types of men. Who mentioned fantasies about beating women? MAJOR misunderstanding there. And I think "Red Flag" is an understatement! "Two sides of the same coin" I can defiantly agree with - Well said. However, it's not sexist to point out that there are double stand…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:55 AM
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How does that apply to double standards between the sexes?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:46 AM
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I would agree that what I'm saying isn't science. I could have worded it better. To compare it to design, however.... You'd then have to ask why would a designer make such choices?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:40 AM
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The environment in which we evolved Females play a selective role in any species: Female humans are extremely complex when it comes to mating choices (compliment). That means being an attractive human male requires a complex balance of attractive qualities. All of those qualities are signifiers that you can take care of yourself and your family, should you have one. Kindness and compassion are among those qualities, by the way, so don't believe the misconception that being a d*ck is somehow "Gam…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:21 AM
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I don't see your point. Mine is simply that you shouldn't expect or need people to care about you or love you unconditionally. Nothing about race, at all
/r/MensRights10/06/20 07:22 AM
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Exactly. As men, we should want to be relied upon, not cared about or loved unconditionally. That shit's worthless
/r/MensRights10/06/20 06:12 AM
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Well just accept it. It's not a bad thing
/r/MensRights10/06/20 06:06 AM
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There's no reason it should be any other way. Don't expect people's compassion, earn their respect
/r/MensRights10/06/20 06:03 AM
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Automod what?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 12:53 PM
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Wow, that looks just like the probability of a feminist saying something meaningful
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 06:08 AM
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Would you agree that currently, Islamic culture is more of a problem, where sexism, racism, and homophobia are concerned?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 12:17 PM
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Can yiu clarify that for me?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 10:06 AM
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That's because we're not allowed criticize Islam. The bigotry label gets in the way of so many conversations
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 09:52 AM
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Haha, why are you still going? I don't care. Fuck off
/r/MensRights09/02/20 06:56 AM
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I'm not claiming anything. You're just an argumentative cunt
/r/MensRights09/02/20 06:38 AM
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Ok, then. It's easy. She should get a fuckin job
/r/MensRights09/02/20 06:17 AM
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It's not that they're hard jobs, but they have to be done, again and again. To keep a well-run houshold, you can't let these things slip. It's not about difficulty, it's about responsibility, and hard work. Serving in a fast food restaurant isn't difficult, but those guys work hard
/r/MensRights09/02/20 05:42 AM
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In a world where, women can earn money, I'd see no problem with a man being homemaker. It's an important role in a well run family
/r/MensRights09/02/20 05:24 AM
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A couple of things round the house? There's more to it than that
/r/MensRights09/02/20 05:21 AM
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You don't seem to understand the comment
/r/MensRights09/02/20 03:35 AM
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Haha. Dude, I'm fuckin with ya. All good, man
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 08:27 AM
1

Well stop responding, then
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 08:03 AM
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Why do I have poor comprehension skills? Who said anything about marketable? And I'm bilingual
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 07:49 AM
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I can comprehend it. I won't correct your shit english, nor will I piss off
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 07:37 AM
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Who told you i'm monolingual?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 06:37 AM
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r/engrish
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 12:54 AM
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I'm out. No more. Please!
/r/MensRights10/01/20 05:58 PM
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I thought I'd seen it all. Turns out I know nothing about the world I live in, and now I have go into hiding for the rest of my life
/r/MensRights10/01/20 12:21 PM
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Wtf! What did I just click on?! That's fucked up!
/r/MensRights10/01/20 11:57 AM
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Not an expert, but i think it's having your shit together and not being desperate that'll make you more attractive. You may find that giving up on women, so to speak, and focusing on your life, your health, your finances, responsibilities, all that stuff, will improve your overall attractiveness. Don't listen to all this "only rich, famous men" bs
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 10:38 AM
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It's possible that low value men are the hostile ones. Not liking women being indifferent
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 06:26 AM
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I don't think so. I've seen not so good-looking men have confidence enough to attract women. I've seen above-average guys be weird and creepy. I honestly think looks are less important for men
/r/MensRights24/10/19 02:06 PM
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Being an attractive man is more difficult. Even if you are good looking, social skills play a much bigger role in what makes a man attractive. The same can be said for the less physically attractive women. I've found myself attracted to a girl's personality a number of times Hot girls have got it easy, though. There's no arguing with that
/r/MensRights24/10/19 12:44 PM
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Well shut the fuck up then. You dont give a fuck. MGTOW don't give a fuck. Why yiu even here?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 03:05 PM
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I think most of us are pretty quiet about it though. I personally don't give two fucks And, if you're a woman, you don't either, of course
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 07:35 AM
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I hate the black-and-whitenes of both sides. I've been called white knight, incel, BP, RP, the lot. All women are this, all men are that. You're MGTOW so you must be a fat incel loser, living in his mum's basement. There's no room for diversity here
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 05:33 AM
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Why do MGTOW have to be the horrible, unattractive, incels you make them out to be? Are all feminists purple haired, crazy bitches, screaming at people in the street? If yiu met me in person, we'd probably get on. I'm not the fat fuck, covered in cheeto dust, you think I should be. I have a good job, and a healthy social life. You'd never know. It's just a personal decision some of us make for ourselves. I don't know why you hate it so much
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 04:13 AM
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No one's expecting women to give a shit. They're incapable of it, anyway. I imagine most MGTOW men don't give a shit either.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 03:56 AM
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Sometimes, I see this shit, and I want to downvote. Then I remember how this works, haha
/r/MGTOW25/09/19 05:20 PM
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Minding your own business is definitely a mans game
/r/MGTOW25/09/19 05:45 AM
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Yeh, computer game addiction is bad, but she spends all day on fb. Can't even go out for a meal without her takin pics of me fuckin dinner
/r/MGTOW23/09/19 04:58 AM
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Looks are only a small part of what makes men attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 05:33 AM
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Of course, you agree, haha
/r/MGTOW15/07/19 02:31 PM
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You ask me what my life is about. I was a dirty, messy, lazy, stoner who couldn't event brush his teeth in the morning, let alone tidy his room. Now, thanks to starting small, like you say, I'm not like that anymore. I got my shit together, one step at a time. I hope that helps you be less offended
/r/MGTOW15/07/19 10:14 AM
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You've misunderstood my message, man. I'm agreeing with you. You keep make small changes, and they have a big impact. They did in my life. I'm not making fun of anybody
/r/MGTOW15/07/19 08:53 AM
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I've been doing this for years, and I'm so different, now, that I wouldn't recognize myself if I went back. Though, I still have day's when I feel like I'm at square 1. Some days, just tidy my room is enough.
/r/MGTOW15/07/19 06:49 AM
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He's kinda got a point, haha. Sorry guys
/r/MGTOW15/07/19 06:40 AM
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I love being called stuff like incel and sexist. All I hear is "I've got fuck all to add to this conversation. I just want to be a part of something" Most of the time, it makes no fucking sense. There are differences between men and women? Sexist! Women should take responsibility for their decisions? Incel! Of course, recognizing the nature of womens selective choices must mean you can't get laid. I mean, how can you be having sex AND also believe women are, by nature, hypergamous???
/r/MGTOW15/07/19 06:20 AM
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I thought of mgtow like this once. These days, I see a load of incels moaning because thay have to be worh something
/r/MGTOW31/05/19 04:00 AM
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I imagine her dildo's pretty relieved
/r/MGTOW25/05/19 11:42 AM
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Speak for yourself. Any girl of mine can get to work or fuck off
/r/MGTOW17/05/19 01:51 AM
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Haha, yeh. Saving myself from being like you. You sound like you can't think for yourself. White night, blue pill, watched a few Sandman vids, have ya? Haha
/r/MGTOW05/05/19 03:59 AM
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Lol away, I don't give a fuck, haha. I'm not bitter about my life. Blame the world for your problems, if you like. I'm just gonna live mine
/r/MGTOW04/05/19 08:40 AM
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Yeh, I don't know shit. I was only raised by a single mother, myself. Obviously, my mum = scum, though, what do I know?
/r/MGTOW03/05/19 02:07 PM
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This, of course, is right, but not a reason to GYOW. It's a good reason to make sure you can provide
/r/MGTOW01/05/19 09:40 AM
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Of course it always depends. A woman might fuck around, end up pregnant, then wake up and take some responsibility. It's a case by case thing. I just don't like this "single mothers are shit" thing I see so much in MGTOW stuff
/r/MGTOW27/04/19 07:44 AM
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Single mums do there best, ya cunt. It's dads that fuck off, and mums that stop them seeing their kids that suck
/r/MGTOW27/04/19 02:11 AM
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You know you should hide the names, right?
/r/MGTOW26/04/19 08:18 AM
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Advice on how to train this would be appreciated, thanks
/r/MGTOW29/03/19 10:52 AM
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Ha! Museum
/r/MGTOW09/11/17 01:59 AM
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