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| 3 | is walking away the powerful thing to do or salty thing to do?I wanna let her know I don’t play these games, today during class she sent a text saying she didn’t see my message and that she’s gonna go rock climbing tomorrow which is what I asked her to do originally | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 06:25 PM |
| 2 | GF is Bi. How and where do I find a third?I would say hire the third. Bringing someone to the relationship may trigger insecurities, jealousy, and other nasty feelings. By hiring some other woman to do the job you minimize these possible bad outcomes. | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 05:37 PM |
| 1 | What are some hobbies you do that makes you interesting?I do Yoga, Thai Boxing, and Weight Lifting. I don't do these things necessarily to make me more interesting but I do think it is one of the consequences. | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 05:29 PM |
| 2 | Women are more superficial than men. Key learning: if a girl ghosts, it's probably because she didn't physically find you attractiveYou kissed her but then she ghosted you. Same thing probably happened to us all here at some point (definitely happened to me). The worst thing you can do is to be asking yourself why, don't try to understand her mind and bring your reflection back to yourself. Do YOU want to date some woman that after kissing you ended up no talking to you again? Do YOU want to keep trying to negotiate some attraction just for a few scraps of her attention? The worst thing you can do is to be asking yourself wh… | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 05:23 PM |
| 15 | Went on a date, kissed, ghosted. Wtf?Women just have too many options nowadays they don't even bother. It is what it is. Dating for the majority of men requires Zen monk levels of resiliency. Just move on to the next one. | /r/seduction | 21/10/22 03:51 PM |
| 1 | she asked "do you date often" how to reply?Your reply: Yes, my boyfriend takes me out all the time. | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Playlist for sex ?!Thievery Corporation. Can't go wrong. | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 05:21 PM |
| 1 | How do some guys make girls obsessed with them?Just the illusion works already, it doesn't have to be real. Just to be clear, I don't use this as a strategy because I think it's kinda immature, but when it happens naturally, it works like a charm. | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 05:06 PM |
| – | How do some guys make girls obsessed with them?Social proof and jealousy, usually. Women want what other women are having but, they themselves, can't have it. | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 03:53 PM |
| 3 | Women over 40 in the gymI've just hit 40 and I'm my attraction switched so much more to MILFs side of the balance than to the younger women's side. Don't know why, but I would suggest OP to just follow your desires. | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 07:30 PM |
| 4 | I think I finally understand relationships with women.The thing that changed it all for me was when I stopped trying to figure out what women wanted and started trying to figure out what I really wanted. She needs an asshole to keep her emotions fluctuating 24/7? Sorry, I don't want that. She needs a submissive guy ready to follow her orders? Sorry, I'm not that type. She needs a player that flirts with every single woman in front of her so she can feel insecure and validated at the same time? That's not what I'm looking for. In the end, it is all … | /r/seduction | 26/03/22 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Advice on how to respond to being ghosted?My ex ghosted me before breaking up the relationship. She went from literally messaging me 2 or 3 times a day to zero contact. Since we had a two years relationship, I waited 10 days before sending her a "is there something you'd like to talk about" message. Then she called and broke up. Move on. She already did. | /r/seduction | 18/03/22 04:30 PM |
| 1 | I hate the fact that if you're even off your game for one second, its enough to completely kill a girl's attraction to youSure. It's all about context. But regarding OP's context, it definitely holds true and effective. | /r/seduction | 05/02/22 01:56 PM |
| 2 | I hate the fact that if you're even off your game for one second, its enough to completely kill a girl's attraction to youIt's normal. I am as well. This doesn't mean that if the girl I'm seeing today, leaves tomorrow, I would not keep carrying my life the same way as usual, plus, I would already have a lot of stuff to do with the free time that comes with being single. | /r/seduction | 05/02/22 01:32 PM |
| 22 | I hate the fact that if you're even off your game for one second, its enough to completely kill a girl's attraction to youTrue. But a really attractive trait that any man could develop is to not care about it. When you don't give a shit if she stays or she goes, that's when the magic happens... I know it's difficult to get into this state of mind, but something I always do when I'm dealing with a woman is to keep in mind the benefits of her moving on and not talking to me anymore. This is gold. | /r/seduction | 05/02/22 01:25 PM |
| 3 | I’m 23 years old and have wasted my life….I'm 40. You have no idea how young you are. You have no idea how much potential you have. You have no idea of the many opportunities that will show up for you in the future. Everybody goes through this kind of shit but now is the time to act and stop wasting your time. | /r/seduction | 29/01/22 07:44 PM |
| 13 | [deleted by user]You should spend some time on r/sex and see how women relate to their own sexuality and their expectations of men's behavior. Feminism is bullshit, women are already allowed to do anything they want and pursue any lifestyle they feel so, which is correct. Modern feminism is a power play, not a social rights movement. It forces women to adopt certain beliefs that benefit specific political groups. | /r/seduction | 09/12/21 08:06 PM |
| 2 | I met this girl which in my opinion is way out of my leagueEvery bad experience in life is a learning experience. You only move on if you're rejected. If you ask her out and she says she is not interested, than you move on... but also you should keep your options open, you don't have a relationship with her, so no need to get exclusive or too attached. Best of luck! | /r/seduction | 23/11/21 10:41 PM |
| 2 | I hate myself for being effeminateI grew up with a severe case of social phobia which intensified whenever I was around women. It was very hard for me growing up having to deal with social situations but eventually I was able to overcome it. First thing I'd like to say to you is to not despise yourself for limitations you may have right now. OK, maybe you didn't have much awareness while growing up and wasn't able to do any better than you did but you're quite young and you have a lot of time to work on yourself. So start acting… | /r/seduction | 19/11/21 12:39 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Can't Hurt Me, by David Goggins. | /r/seduction | 15/09/21 11:23 PM |
| 2 | Is it a bad idea to assure the girl I asked out that it's ok to say no instead of ghosting?That sucks but honestly, this is something that will happen from time to time when dealing with women. Best thing you can do is to not care too much about it and always have something else you can do to invest your time when such things happen. Never tell them its ok to say no or anything else. How she behaves is not of your concern. You just jave to be sure on what you are willing to tolerate or not and act according. | /r/seduction | 30/08/21 10:47 AM |
| 2 | What are key songs in your sex playlist?Thievery Corporation | /r/seduction | 25/08/21 10:39 AM |
| – | Woman’s perspective: how can men have an abundance mentality when online dating puts so much abundance and power in a woman’s hands?Abundance for men comes into undestanding that women are not the most important thing in your life. If you don’t get a date the right moment you want one, thats ok, you still have plenty of interesting options to invest your time and attention. | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 11:34 PM |
| 7 | Very awkward dateNow you found out she is garbage. Move on. | /r/seduction | 17/07/21 04:34 PM |
| 13 | The True Secret to Seduction is LoveFor me, the real secret is all about detachment. Honestly, relating to women is a life lesson on the dynamics of desire and how much importance we place on things that won't last. Whenever you cling to something, whenever you try to grasp it, whenever you feel the need for any kind of conclusion or definitive situation, whenever you take anything more seriously than it should, it is the exact moment you start to lose it. This principle can be applied to anything in life, but women, are the ones … | /r/seduction | 11/06/20 06:47 PM |
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