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5

I was thinking about that. The justice system doesn't just change overnight.
/r/MensRights08/06/22 03:37 PM
3

How long have you known her and how? She might be seeing how you'll react, maybe she just isn't ready during a pandemic or maybe she got a better offer. In any event move on and continue improving yourself.
/r/seduction13/02/21 08:56 AM
2

I tend to agree in principle, but also do not create or encourage the conditions where a man/boy is badly treated.
/r/MensRights08/12/20 07:40 PM
2

Bill was a Burr in white women's saddles. Seriously though, he just pointed out the they are only one level below on the victim hierarchy of dozens.
/r/MensRights12/10/20 06:46 AM
2

Your success story began when you did what you needed to do in breaking up. It's yours to write how it goes.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 06:36 AM
2

Ltr shouldn't even be on the table at this age.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 04:33 AM
11

You're on the right path, which means the relationship is on the wrong path. Start (read: Never stop) looking for options and working on improving yourself.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 02:46 AM
1

Set up the boundary. Always be ready and willing to walk away if and when she crosses it. Keep focusing on yourself. She's just along for the ride.
/r/askMRP03/04/20 01:06 AM
1

Only if she is actually interested in you.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 05:36 AM
2

There is zero chance she didn't know what she was doing and how it would affect you. The ball is in your court, but she seems to be holding all the power here. She has zero respect for you.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 04:23 PM
1

That's good. I'm surprised she's actually forthcoming about all this. Probably to give you comfort. Still, really it doesn't matter what she does. Work on yourself and your goals. Stop stressing about her.
/r/askMRP21/01/20 06:16 PM
1

If he wanted her then or now, he'd have her.
/r/askMRP21/01/20 11:01 AM
1

She basically told you early on that she was alpha widowed and you're her second choice early on, except you didn't realize it at the time. You've been living in her frame ever since. Being Red Pill aware now, it's bothering you. Just work on yourself, become the man you want to be and it won't matter anymore.
/r/askMRP20/01/20 10:25 PM
1

So what you're saying is you think there's going to be a daytime orgy?
/r/askTRP12/12/19 10:16 PM
5

Plenty of other broads in the world for you to have consternation about one "almost unicorn".
/r/askTRP06/12/19 08:01 PM
1

If this is the future, God have mercy on us all.
/r/MGTOW06/12/19 03:52 AM
1

This ☝
/r/askTRP21/10/19 04:51 PM
2

Trickle truth always wins...
/r/askTRP11/10/19 09:28 PM
9

Soft prostitution.
/r/askTRP11/10/19 09:25 PM
3

This ☝ Enquiring minds want to know
/r/askTRP10/10/19 02:56 PM
2

Good job so far. It's only going to get harder though. Stick to your boundaries and always be willing to walk away.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 09:23 PM
2

It's done. You know in your heart it is. Just end it and block her on everything. She's not worth your time and consternation.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 07:56 AM
4

I agree with the basic premise, being proactive rather than overt. The cheating thing is playing with fire, though maybe low to medium level flirting would be more acceptable.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 02:48 PM
1

It happened to me too in a 15 year marriage and some one I stupidly LTRd after. Never thought that either would ever do such a thing. AWALT. Continue or begin your journey on being the best version of yourself.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 04:56 PM
2

Bang on bro!
/r/askTRP23/09/19 07:05 PM
3

Now I understand. Soft next and definitely keep an eye on her. Got luck bro.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 07:05 PM
15

She told you about it and if you just passed it off as cute, no harm, no foul. This will give comfort in telling you if this guy becomes a problem.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 06:56 PM
3

I think your over reacting at the moment. Has she done anything else that you would consider suspicious? Do you feel threatened by this guy? You did the right thing. Just keep an eye on her would be my suggestion for now.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 06:52 PM
1

You let her set the parameters of the relationship even before it's started. You should have tried to escalate already since you've been put casually. I would have thought you had a chance because she keeps seeing you, but she already has a FWB.
/r/seduction11/09/19 06:37 PM
0

Definite shit test and you're already failing.
/r/seduction11/09/19 04:34 AM
4

Taking back my ex wife after she cheated and wanted to leave and telling her that our relationship could be better than it ever was...
/r/askTRP11/09/19 04:16 AM
1

You answered your own question. She's saving herself for someone who gives her the tingles, but dangling just enough to keep you interested.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 03:49 PM
2

You're living proof why men and women can't truly be friends let alone best friends. My advice would be to keep on your grind and keep her as a plate. You're still gaming others, right?
/r/askTRP04/09/19 05:25 PM
2

Why is a broad your best friend?
/r/askTRP04/09/19 04:22 PM
2

Wiser's slow clap
/r/askTRP03/09/19 09:07 PM
1

Auto repair, carpentry, instrument +2
/r/askTRP29/08/19 07:04 PM
1

You've already lost on several levels. Stop concentrating your thoughts on both of them and continue on your mission. That includes soft nexting her. If either of them steps out of line again, address it right then and there. Thing is, you can't regain the frame you never established
/r/askTRP22/08/19 09:50 PM
3

Here's the rub. No matter how much relationship equity you think you're building up, in the end it will turn into nothing to her if anything changes in the relationship. None of her issues are yours, unless you make them. If she can't handle it, then show her the door.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 09:10 PM
8

Sooooo this ☝
/r/askTRP21/08/19 11:57 PM
1

The Death of the West - Pat Buchanan
/r/askTRP20/08/19 05:04 PM
2

This ☝ . Happens too many to newbies and wanna bes
/r/askTRP18/08/19 07:02 PM
1

Flip the situation and how would he feel if the shoe was on the other foot. How old are these people? My guess is neither of them are ready.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 12:16 AM
1

Yes all women are capable. Depends on their personal morals.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 07:00 PM
1

Fighting is usually quick and mostly stupid. You never know what can happen or if it will escalate. I was in one last year. His face and my hand were like pulp. After the adrenaline and alcohol wore off, I had bruised/cracked ribs that lasted over a month.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 05:06 PM
2

Omg one broad posts her experience and this sub explodes. 🙄
/r/seduction14/08/19 04:35 PM
1

Anecdotal but, definitely all I have been with prefer to be dominated in bed. Whether that's being taken, held down, tied up, choked, pounded or whatever their preferred domination may be.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 12:32 AM
3

I think there's one study that more frequent ejaculation reduces the risk of prostate cancer and he's conflating this with lack of masturbation increases risk.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 09:57 PM
2

I would say sometimes. Most men don't think of cheating and there is usually some reason attributed to the woman why they resort to it.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 04:06 PM
2

Dan Bilzerian. The epitome of IDGAF.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 09:04 PM
1

This 👆
/r/askTRP07/08/19 03:11 PM
5

Definite hard next. Don't even say a word.
/r/askTRP03/08/19 05:38 AM
1

You lost frame and lost her respect over time. You did the right thing. Your only move was to hard next and you did it. Never be afraid to walk away.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 06:50 PM
1

Innuendo, teasing and playfulness.
/r/seduction30/07/19 04:31 PM
1

Hasn't been abused, good relationship with father, not a frequent drinker/bar star, takes care of herself, cooks, cleans, doesn't need to be the center of attention, lack of male best friends/orbiters
/r/askTRP29/07/19 09:21 PM
3

What broad doesn't have some kind of emotional baggage.
/r/askTRP26/07/19 07:22 PM
1

That depends on you and how you approach the situation and how she deals with it. It already bothers you. For me it would as well, but I have a high value of myself, so if this guy didn't slowly fade away, I probably wouldn't LTR her. If you provide more value than him, it should just happen naturally. Vetting is a long process.
/r/askTRP26/07/19 05:01 PM
2

You've found a unicorn lol. Seriously though, neither of you never once got too close or beyond friends for even a moment? Or even thought of it?
/r/askTRP26/07/19 04:32 PM
3

Of course it's a red flag. The real question is, can you deal with it? The answer is no.
/r/askTRP26/07/19 04:11 PM
3

I agree, but it's rare. And friendships like these tend to cause hang-ups in significant others.
/r/askTRP26/07/19 04:03 PM
5

This is so on point. Thank you!
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/19 09:51 PM
2

Just continue on with your life, meeting and chatting up other broads and then try to set something up again. If it doesn't pan out, move on. Nothing lost.
/r/seduction23/07/19 05:00 PM
1

This sounds like something that occurs in a small town lol. Expand the pool!
/r/TheRedPill22/07/19 08:00 PM
3

I personally would have tried one more time to get in her pants, but at the same time maintained distance and did my own thing.
/r/seduction22/07/19 07:32 PM
5

Don't be an emotional tampon. Listen, escalate and make your move. If it works, good. If not, move on.
/r/seduction15/07/19 01:59 AM
0

Ask her about it plain and simple, but prepare yourself for the answer. Go over what you want to happen depending on her reaction. But be prepared to hard next.
/r/askTRP09/07/19 04:55 PM
3

Don't bother fretting about her.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 09:24 PM
2

For me not ejaculating when having sex is a non-starter. I'm not sure what the benefit of that is. For me it would put a mental block on the whole act of having sex in the first place.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 09:19 PM
5

I don't think no fap ruined you. No jac did.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 07:19 PM
7

You did the right thing. Sometimes you have to just take the loss and learn from it. She's not worth it. And you know your friend's true colours now.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 03:58 PM
2

Yes some women play dumb with orbiters and some just are dumb. It's a red flag and she should naturally cut them off. The thing is, even though they might cut them off, they can easily let them back in again.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 03:54 PM
1

Women can hamster anything imaginable. An orbiter is constantly ready and willing. Might not be the best choice at the time, but he's there.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 05:50 PM
3

Never try to solve her problems. Well almost never. Just ask if she's taken them.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 04:22 PM
1

In a civil case this broad would easily be found guilty. You'll drive yourself nuts thinking about this. I know it hurts, but you have to continue work on yourself and start to soft next her. Whatever the outcome, you'll be better prepared.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 04:23 PM
3

This ☝🏻
/r/askTRP10/06/19 08:43 PM
3

So on point. What is there to lose, but your misery in that comfort zone of yours.
/r/seduction13/05/19 09:00 PM
6

You can answer your own question. HUGE ASS red flag in my opinion. Why would she be even ya hanging out with these guys anyway? And the story about dude taking advantage of her several times is laughable.
/r/askTRP12/05/19 02:37 PM
3

I'd love to see this guy's POV. At any rate he shot himself in the foot with this broad.
/r/seduction10/05/19 11:50 PM
1

First of all if you blow it, it's not the end of the world. Just learn from it. Watch the movie with her, get close, start to touch her. Incidentally at first. Maybe start with her hand or arm and go from there. At some point look into her eyes and then her lips and then go in for the kiss.
/r/seduction08/05/19 06:54 AM
1

Try to get her more comfortable with doing it more AB when she does really get into it. Other than that you'll have to apply more dread if she continues to balk and start to plan an exit.
/r/askTRP07/05/19 09:33 PM
3

She's 18 and has been around the block many times. You not so much. Way in over your head, bro. Pull the parachute now!
/r/askTRP04/05/19 02:45 PM
1

IMO you were faking it but didn't make it. Red pill is not a step by step manual, but a set of principles that you have to internalize first. Then apply as needed. You also have to have self awareness and know when to adjust.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 03:42 PM
3

This 👆🏻 You're on the right path. With time it will pass.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 04:38 PM
2

You didn't properly vet her or thought she was so good that you could overlook this huge red flag. I've done it myself and regretted it badly. Demote to plate.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 03:06 PM
1

Tell her no this is wrong. Then try screw her brains out. You'll know your answer then.
/r/seduction28/04/19 03:05 PM
1

On point. Too many simps out there.
/r/seduction14/04/19 10:18 PM
1

Kick. Her. Out.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 09:17 PM
5

Had it done 11 years ago at 35. Was married and 3 kids. Did it because it's "easier for the guy"; was simping at the time. Wife at the time cheated the next year. After the fallout I often regretted it because my blue pill mentality told me that I would never be able to offer another woman a child. Turns out it was the best decision of my life. It does make women wet when you can nut fully in them without fear of pregnancy.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 04:04 PM
1

Have been sexually abused
/r/askTRP28/03/19 05:57 AM
2

Don't tell her she looks good. Be playful with her. Be enthusiastic when talking to her and dump the boring subjects. Look into her eyes when she's speaking and smirk. Start to initiate touch: Give her a high five, touch her elbow. See how she responds and escalate if she's into it.
/r/seduction28/03/19 05:41 AM
2

The juice isn't worth the squeeze on this broad. You'll look back on this and say WTF was I doing? I hope...
/r/askTRP27/03/19 09:43 PM
1

This should be required reading for men of all ages.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/19 09:11 PM
5

Oneitis strikes again. Once you get over that you can begin your training again.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 05:04 PM
2

Usually you just hint and talk about your past experiences and how you refuse to be in a relationship with said behaviours.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 09:11 PM
2

It's tough when to know to pull the parachute, but if she crossed your boundaries there is no going back. You're only looking out for yourself with the ex. Nothing wrong there
/r/askTRP26/03/19 09:07 PM
2

Explain what lines she crossed. At any rate the longer you know you don't want to be with her but are will only increase her anger and resentment. Be as cordial and emotionless as you can and make sure you keep track of your stuff.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 07:20 PM
1

Bad idea to get her a makeup gift. You should only buy gifts to surprise and when you're in a position of strength.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 03:39 PM
1

Always focus on yourself and your goals. She's just along for the ride. Never be afraid to walk away.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 03:24 PM
3

Honestly, let the music move you, have fun and dgaf. The women will be drawn to your party.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 03:26 PM
1

You took the words right out of my mouth
/r/askTRP15/03/19 04:27 AM
5

Nope don't do it. She already has red flags. Why mess up a good thing, unless it isn't as good as you're saying. Sounds like your bored.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 07:01 PM
2

I read only a week. I reread your post. Bring it up, but it seems she's already admitting to you she wants to be on her own and that's not good.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 05:58 PM
0

Keep doing what your doing, give her support and space. Also focus on your own interests and your needs. If she's not giving you what you need, look elsewhere for it.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 04:48 PM
1

Very tenuous situation. She already has no qualms about dating behind your back, so when (not if) you go on your trip, she will justify doing it again and maybe even worse. Dread will likely not work on her. Really only 4 months? Hopefully you're not living with her lol. I'd say demote her now and move on.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 03:56 PM
7

This
/r/askTRP13/03/19 03:17 PM
1

She wants to hang out. Set a date, see how she'll respond. If she's really interested she'll accept or other an alternative.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 05:17 AM
3

You broke frame hard. Come from a place of abundance and not neediness. If you have to demote her to plate, ot has to be done. Good luck!
/r/askTRP12/03/19 04:20 PM
5

You drew your line and held your frame and she just took it underground. I've been there before. There is serious damage in the relationship. She's lying through her chicklets about the she's mad at him BS. Hard next or at least plan a sooner than later exit strategy.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 05:57 AM
1

It won't allay any of the insecurities that seem to be ingrained in you. Your "testing" will never end.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 10:07 PM
1

Of course it's not worth it. You're in place where you will still always be wondering no matter what the result is. That's not a way to live let alone be in a relationship.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 09:51 PM
19

If she's your LTR, you obviously didn't vet her properly. There's no way to right this ship. Soft next. Set out expectations and boundaries early next time.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 06:25 AM
1

Much too early for the Sleeping beauty text lol. Don't text anymore and have a backup plan just in case she flakes. My guess is she'll text you today or tomorrow sometime. Otherwise there are other fishes just waiting to be hooked.
/r/seduction01/03/19 07:56 PM
3

Do both. Continue to build your circle whilst doing your own thing within your present group. The chaff will fall by the wayside by natural progression.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 06:11 PM
2

The end is nigh. Plan you exit strategy now. Whatever effort you put in will be for naught.
/r/askTRP27/02/19 04:20 PM
2

Darius M and Coach Greg Adams
/r/askTRP26/02/19 05:26 AM
3

Yes. It will pass. Keep on talking with other girls.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 10:17 PM
2

More options and work on yourself and get hobbies!
/r/seduction25/02/19 06:36 PM
15

You can't change your height, but you can certainly change your mindset. You have disqualified yourself at the outset. Work on improving your health and fitness. Maybe change your style. Own what you are. You can learn a lot there as well. Good luck.
/r/seduction25/02/19 06:34 PM
3

In a word, yes. I'm an older guy still learning and here to learn and impart wisdom.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 06:11 PM
1

Partly confidence and competition. You know she's going to be hit on by every one and his dog and you'll probably be jumping through hoops. It's a psyche out.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 05:11 PM
1

Cuck-A-Doodle-Doooooo. Sorry bro, it's over like disco
/r/askTRP21/02/19 07:36 PM
1

Don't lose heart bro. But you will never get anywhere with women or in life if you supplicate. Focus on yourself, build yourself up until you are the prize. She is definitely not the prize.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 06:33 AM
1

Let this be a lesson to all men. Don't ever try to be Captain Save a Ho. Never works.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 06:01 AM
1

Then prepare to have her cling on you like flies to shit lol
/r/askTRP21/02/19 02:21 AM
1

Mostly the common law property rights stuff, but beyond that you won't be able to do whatever the hell you want when you want to a certain extent. Plus you have to put up with her family and friends.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 01:05 AM
2

Cohabiting in itself will cede some of your autonomy to a woman and depending on the laws of your state/country you could lose a lot of what is yours. Vet properly, but I advise against it.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 11:49 PM
1

Huzzah, brother!
/r/askTRP20/02/19 11:31 PM
1

Regret the things you did not the things you didn't do. Having said that your conscience is your own. There are plenty of broads out there that you won't have to knowingly put yourself in drama.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 10:44 PM
1

There is nothing wrong with trying this out and crossing off your bucket list. This will probably go nowhere anyway. A) she has already exhibited poor decision making with the baby daddy. B) get ready for some weird ass dynamics with him. As far as her kid goes, she should always be putting her kid first. If she's not, then forget about and if she is, can you really be second place?
/r/askTRP20/02/19 09:48 PM
1

This. But it seems like it wasn't a garden variety lie.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 08:26 PM
4

There's always a chance this is nothing. Women play into the but he has no one else, lost puppy dog BS. Here's the rub though, this is either a deal breaker or it isn't. She has downgraded herself in your eyes by even entertaining this. If this becomes the beginning of a pattern, then you'll know what to do. Otherwise, keep working on yourself.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 05:04 PM
3

Put your 150 mm in someone else.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 04:22 PM
1

Better saying that than too old to fuck 🤣
/r/askTRP15/02/19 06:53 PM
-4

Try Tinder
/r/seduction08/02/19 09:06 PM
2

The problem is you're still faking it and not really making it. Take 3 steps back and return to improving yourself. This will just be a funny story you tell someone down the line.
/r/seduction08/02/19 08:57 PM
3

Dude. Drop both and work on getting back to yourself.
/r/seduction08/02/19 08:51 PM
3

Keep doing what you're doing and let her focus on starting the relationship.
/r/seduction08/02/19 08:45 PM
1

For me it was getting married young, having kids and being blue pilled to think that you have to do everything in your power to make a marriage work and that she felt the same.
/r/askTRP08/02/19 08:23 PM
2

She has broken imo a fundamental rule. Never hang out with the ex. Like everyone has been saying, she should have blocked/ghosted this guy long ago. And there never would have been a problem. Ask her if you presented her with the same situation, how would she react? Trust has been lost and it will likely never be the same no matter what. Move on to someone who is more trustworthy.
/r/askTRP08/02/19 08:17 PM
1

Maybe to knock you down a peg or three.
/r/askTRP07/02/19 09:38 PM
3

Honestly, much. I take it you won't really be out of pocket for the extra, but this chick has to at least qualify herself to you first. Maybe tease it this time.
/r/seduction07/02/19 08:47 PM
1

If it's while you're banging her, good on ya. If it's while declaring her love for you, it's showing her deference to you. If it's in normal conversation, you're like her kid.
/r/askTRP07/02/19 04:54 PM
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