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Nope, there are plenty of women who will be fine with this arrangement. More so if you are a 10/10. So be a 10/10 to maximize success.
/r/seduction18/12/24 10:06 PM
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Conservative women will not go for it, you won't get a second date. Plan your dates more inexpensively. If you just want a conversation, stop dating and find some friends.
/r/seduction18/12/24 09:55 PM
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After reading a bit, you don't really know what you want and it is confusing the both of you. Remove time from the equation, 3 months 5 dates whatever. If I had 5 dates in one week, would my relationship be more mature than yours? Not really, so stop worrying about it. Why are you resisting being "official"? This is only a real problem if you are dating 2 or more girls. She knows this and will keep her distance. She is telling you that she belongs to you now, it means that she trusts you to care…
/r/seduction18/12/24 07:11 PM
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What is your relationship like? Sexual success? Initial reaction is that she isn't really into you, you are the only one who thinks you are dating, or you are low on her roster. If you are giving her good sex or providing a strong emotional shelter, she should want more and be more demanding of your time.
/r/seduction18/12/24 02:27 PM
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$20 for a tripod and Bluetooth remote. Enables you to take thousands of pictures without any help. You should be able to get a few quality ones by accident out of it that are 10x better than your current profile pics.
/r/seduction18/12/24 01:50 PM
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She will only do these things after she has decided that she belongs to you. It is what happens once she feels safe and can trust you to take care of her emotional wellness. Women feel more than guys, the feelings are no different from your own, it's just turned up to 11. We all do the same thing when we really want to be with someone. Know that some of the affection will always be manipulative or fantasy, she really wants to maintain the illusion that you are her knight here to save her from he…
/r/seduction18/12/24 01:14 PM
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Be more forward after he gives you permission to be slutty. Until then, stay very indirect.
/r/seduction11/12/24 03:14 AM
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Try this simple tip on your next match: don't ask questions. Literally force yourself to not ask a single question. Volunteer information, exaggerate, and make assumptions.
/r/seduction10/12/24 03:47 AM
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Confidence is the key, flirt with everyone. Young girls love simple compliments and attention. Dating should be fun. She is human, just like you. She isn't some unobtainable goddess. Rid yourself of the idea of reputation, it doesn't chase you far. Classic styling and good fit makes you appear more attractive and older. Regular grooming is also important. Avoid refined sugar and frutose. A woman is a better companion than alcohol. Don't let your friends, her friends, or family members get betwee…
/r/seduction02/12/24 04:38 PM
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Seduction is more "I want that guy to stuff my turkey" and less about "I want him to come over and play with me." The guy that you just met who is buying you drinks and dancing with you has made his move. If he thaws your turkey, break from the group and take him aside by the hand for an instant date. Don't ask questions since you don't really care about the answers anyway. Open a window into your life and he will surely do the same. Your goal is a kiss, if chemistry exists then extend an invita…
/r/seduction27/11/24 06:19 PM
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Attraction and emotional safety are still required. If he has a pair of open legs that is available and more attractive, he won't immediately commit to you. Coming on too strong with weak men can scare them off. Low confidence, less masculine, low experienced, and highly religious men will all have some degree of sexual anxiety and fear of intimacy. If he feels "unsafe" as in if he has performance anxiety, feels like you will judge his body, or is embarrassed to be seen with you; he won't commit…
/r/seduction27/11/24 04:06 PM
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Remember that suduction is about sex. In my opinion, it isn't that much different. Men are just simpler and appreciate direct messaging. The rest is pretty much the same. Increase attraction by flirting and touching, make him feel emotionally safe, and then commit. Many women need help with approaching or being approachable. This would be a good subreddit to browse through if you find it. You need to put out the vibe that you are a sexual creature and are available for pursuit. Keep your head up…
/r/seduction26/11/24 06:22 PM
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You can certainly gaslight her into thinking she is attracted to you if you make her feel emotionally safe enough to accept such an idea.
/r/seduction23/11/24 03:29 PM
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I think you are hung up on attraction. Seduction in its basic sense is about sex, not love or attraction. Elevating attraction is a tool to help you get there. Is it possible to convince someone to have sex with you sex with you who isn't attracted to you? Sure, sometimes people just need sex. Have you ever slept with a friend and later regretted it? If not, I bet you know someone who has. Talk to them about how that happened.
/r/seduction23/11/24 02:19 PM
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Assuming she is a real person, she is opening the door for more direct flirting. She wants to be a bad girl, feed her fantasy, daddy. This is the girl you give your nastiest pickup lines to. She will engage in sexy text messages and will come to your house if you promise her she will cum. You can't break character and become a regular guy, even if she breaks first. It can be exhausting if you keep it up for long, so ask her out and dare her to greet you with a kiss.
/r/seduction23/11/24 04:12 AM
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I have done better in my 40s than my 20s. The feeling of "If I knew then what I know now" will always haunt you if you let it. Your experiences define who you are now, the past you was a different person. The best thing you could do would be to pass the knowledge on to someone younger. This forum is a good place to start.
/r/seduction20/11/24 03:42 PM
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If it is mutually beneficial, I wouldn't call you a monster. They are busy and need an escape from their responsibilities, they crave attention, and want to be seen as a woman. They need sex and you are providing a service for them while satisfying your own thrill seeking needs. You are providing a fantasy, they will eventually want something real but until then be their ghost fairy vampire Fabio. If this isn't just a brag post and you are manipulating these women into believing that they have a…
/r/seduction18/11/24 01:22 PM
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Act as if you have options, don't dismiss her entirely but instead push her down your list. She is the 5th best option now, if she is still interested she must make it up to you and plan the next date. Confidence is attractive and so is self respect. Continue to flirt and compliment, increase your attraction level and start to create sexual tension. Casually play with her, touch her, and invade her space. It may take a while, but you have options and are actively dating other people as far as sh…
/r/seduction14/11/24 12:12 AM
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She doesn't owe you anything bro. Not even an explanation is owed. She isn't your subject that you are entitled to punish. This needy attitude isn't going to work to your benefit, it is immature and reveals how desperate you are for attention. As your direct supervisor, she can't ethically date you, so your expectations need some adjustment as well.
/r/seduction13/11/24 07:48 PM
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It's hard for us logical minds. You have to keep her in an emotional mindspace, so minimize questioning her or directly placing any responsibility on her. Questions put her in logical space and makes her think instead of feel. To her, the kiss and what comes after should just happen. Have canned stories about your life that are amusing and allow your personality to shine. Touch her as you talk. Lead her around and get her used to following you. Compliment something she did to get ready for you. …
/r/seduction07/10/24 01:08 PM
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She spent hours getting ready for you, complimenting something that she did is usually a good choice. "I love the color on your lips, I can't stop thinking about how it will look on me." "Your nails look so pretty, I can't wait to see your toes." "I love how the color of your dress brings out your eyes, my eyes can't look away." "I love your hair, I want to run my fingers through it."
/r/seduction07/10/24 12:32 PM
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You need to find a level of care that eases your anxiety without making you look like a sociopath. Force yourself to only worry about things that you can directly control. Start with global things and work it down. Quit worrying about the weather, politics, wars in faraway lands, economic markets, etc. Once you master that, you can work on mastering not caring about the way people perceive you. Work on controlling you, your actions, and your reactions. These matter to the people that you actuall…
/r/seduction03/10/24 03:35 PM
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Is slow game a thing? Most games are centered around getting to sex as fast as possible. At 32, your potential mates don't have the time to waste on boring guys, bad boyfriends, or tiny weiners. They feel the clock ticking and want to get seduced and get laid.
/r/seduction03/10/24 02:35 AM
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Make sure she is real first. Pictures all over the world with gorgeous scenery when you live in Nebraska is a clear sign. A profile with few words or none is another. Every picture is a pro picture, another sign. If you are 40 and she is 20 and beautiful, yeah, right. So, open with a comment on one of her pictures. If she is leaning on a tractor with her ass hanging out. comment on the color of the tractor and how it brings out the blush of her "cheeks". Flirt, if she responds with something gen…
/r/seduction01/10/24 08:51 PM
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Use texting as a tool to get a date. No deep questions or platonic small talk. No "how's your day" or "hi". You have to continue to be interesting, don't bore her. Don't be afraid to call her if she is online and stationary, your voice is sexy to her. Flirt, be a man seeking a woman. Tease, make her feel something with every message. Tell her about your life and how much fun you are having, pictures talk without words. After 2-3 positive messages, ask for a date. Discuss details, one at a time. …
/r/seduction30/09/24 01:26 PM
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More details, please. If you are in high school or both virgins, it isn't too late. If she is a grown ass woman with a job and a life, she wants to get seduced and get laid.
/r/seduction27/09/24 11:43 AM
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I would just recommend not to double date on the same day. Rotate as needed, but expect success (possible sleepovers). I would encourage honesty but not confessions. If a girl wants to go exclusive, don't agree and decieve. Allow gaps in your texting so it isn't unusual if you skip communication for a night. At the same time, never confess that you are seeing others. Get tested between partners, expect them to also have a roster.
/r/seduction25/09/24 03:02 PM
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Don't ask her to come closer, she isn't under your spell. Everytime you ask for something, you are asking for a commitment. Phone number, date, kiss, etc... This forces her to think about what she is doing instead of just riding along and having fun. Keep her in the emotional mindspace. The setup should ready her for the ride, you lead her by the hand to the camping spot. Fold out the blanket together, (bring a small blanket) and sit/lay beside her like she is already yours. It is confident and …
/r/seduction20/09/24 06:50 PM
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This sub is full of boring people who want to go on great dates. You should only accept dates with someone you are attracted to and know what you want before accepting it. A date is different from a friendly dinner, sex must be on the table (but never guaranteed). Go into the date as a woman seeking a man. Focus on making an emotional connection and avoid platonic topics. Lots of eye contact, and smile. Talk with your hands and touch him on his shoulder or forearm. Allow him to lead you by the h…
/r/seduction19/09/24 03:24 AM
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Increase the flirting, be less gentlemanly. Lead her by the hand, get her comfortable following you. Go for the kiss early in the date. This will naturally increase flirting and eye contact by putting her mind on sex. Invite her to your place soon after. If she says no, continue the date as if it didn't happen and invite her again later. Good luck.
/r/seduction17/09/24 05:12 PM
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You really need to physically exclate, something you can not do over the phone. So focus on setting up a date and do not initiate further contact until said date. If she calls, keep it short and on topic (about the date). Flirtatious and logistical text messages are allowed as long as they are purposeful in exclating the situation closer to what you both want. For example, text her that you can't wait to taste her lips again. Next time you see her, go for the kiss immediately. That sets the tone…
/r/seduction16/09/24 08:01 PM
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Why would you agree to this arrangement? Shut it down and restart it properly. Ask her on a real first date. Hug her as you great, lead her by the hand to a fun public activity where you are on your feet. Tease her and flirt, show intent and interest like you actually want to sleep with her. Touch her hand, wrist, shoulder, back, knee, etc. It is easier if you are on your feet, think dancing/arcade/skeeball/bowling/mini golf. Go for the kiss after she starts touching you back, mid-date or earlie…
/r/seduction14/09/24 01:54 AM
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Exclusivity and loyalty terms are personalized agreements between 2 people. You are talking about temptation or her inclination to manipulate others.
/r/seduction09/09/24 09:10 PM
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The problem is that it is hard to tell if she wants a second date. Great chemistry to the point of great sex may not be enough if she doesn't feel the same. Text when you want, and leave off with the same vibe. Flirt hard with your best pickup lines. Good luck.
/r/seduction08/09/24 01:27 AM
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This is great advice, learn to flirt with everyone. Have a fun story about your life and find a reason to tell it to everyone. Have some candid go-to responses to common questions. Smile and eye contact. Limit asking questions and talk about what you want to talk about. Learn to pick up on signs that she is interested in you.
/r/seduction07/09/24 12:42 AM
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Depends completely on your goals. If you want 2 dates a week but have limited free time to find dates, then you want to keep all options open. If you want 1 date a month and have lots of time, then you can narrow your approach.
/r/seduction01/09/24 03:36 PM
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Being busy is good. It is hard to be busy and needy at the same time, and your free time is more valuable to you. Treat texting the same, don't be overly available or text without purpose. Give time to the people that matter the most to you. For potential mates, work on setting the date, whether it is your first or forth date. Don't fall in love with a phone, insist on face to face meetings. Relax the rules once you are exclusive and seeing each other on a regular basis.
/r/seduction31/08/24 06:36 PM
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Have fun! Don't take it seriously, and don't ask serious questions. Your job is to get her attention and get a date. Once you get the date set, chill out. Avoid double texting (with hours between texts). Have some quick retorts memorized. Have some stories. Watch some youtubes and learn a few tricks and apply your own strategies. Textgod is a good start, he may be a douch, but he has some good points.
/r/seduction31/08/24 02:22 AM
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Know what she wants and tease her with it. If she only needs attention, be exceptional nice to her. If she is horny, give her mind bending sex. If she needs comfort, etc. Turn the want into an addiction with you as her only source. Then, withdraw. Make yourself less accessible and the need will grow. I suppose it would work in a PUA situation as well if you can figure out what she wants quickly. It's easier if you just assume she wants what you want. Tease her like you would like to be teased. F…
/r/seduction29/08/24 12:54 PM
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Dude, go where the women are. 3, 30, or 300km away. Events are great, concerts, fairs, sporting events. Do things that you enjoy, and meet women who enjoy the same thing.
/r/seduction23/08/24 07:19 PM
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It is inefficient compared to other methods. In my age group, Google says that only 17% of women are single. So if I approach everyone I am attracted to, greater than 4/5 will be in a LTR. The others may not want to date or not want to date me. I don't have the time or patience for this, nor the emotional energy to soak up all the rejections. I shopped online for love like I do everything else. Women here are ready to date, you just have to convince them to date you.
/r/seduction22/08/24 04:53 PM
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Depends on the emotional toll the flake inflicted. Did you show up, wait for her, and then have to hang out by yourself? Or did she give you a day or better notice? If given proper notice, I would accept a new time that is convenient to me.
/r/seduction20/08/24 12:22 PM
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It's not that they hate dating broke men. By comparison, your competition with more money can provide more luxuries and better care for them in the future. Everyone has minimal economic standards that must be met. Also, it isn't about the money. Attractive and charismatic people with ambition will be able to convince people to give them money. He can also convince your girlfriend to sleep with him.
/r/seduction19/08/24 11:44 AM
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Wednesday at the latest, earlier the better. She doesn't want to be the last-minute choice. Ask when she is at an emotional high with you, 3-4 positive messages in a row.
/r/seduction13/08/24 04:41 PM
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Nice job, statisticly about 1 new girl a week once you remove the 3 months of dating. That is great as long as it stays fun for you. What is your goal, may I ask? Many here just want to increase their body count while others are looking for a way out of the dating pool. Few are gaining this level of experience.
/r/seduction11/08/24 08:40 PM
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In my opinion, the date count significance is relative to your goal. If you just want to get laid, first date sex matters. This is a rare event even when she has an itch that needs scratching. If you want to be seen as a special boy or whatever, you must be looking for a long-term relationship. I would concentrate on getting in more dates close together than on getting laid. If you develop great chemistry, it will happen soon. Don't over commit without a sexual connection. Get in the first 3 dat…
/r/seduction09/08/24 01:17 PM
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Movie dates are good 4-5th dates, they are friendly dates where you get more comfortable with each other. First dates need to be man to woman, lots of flirting and touching. On your feet and teasing. Uncomfortable fun, working on attraction.
/r/seduction29/07/24 02:20 PM
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This guy is clueless. You need to show direct intent with this one. He thinks you are playing and out of his league or the opposite and isn't interested. If you see this person again, tell him you think he is hot and pass him your number. With any exclating tactics, it is important that you show intent. It's hard for me to imagine the difficulty from the female perspective. It should be easy to show that you are easy. Talk with your hands, and have them fall on his. Flirt and open yourself up, r…
/r/seduction24/07/24 12:11 AM
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They are princesses. They want to be pampered and may be a bit prudish. They may also be inexperienced in dating. She could just be content with her current life situation. The adult version of this is women who say they won't have sex on the first date. Figure out what she really needs and she will break these rules with the right person. You have to give her permission, she doesn't want to feel slutty so don't make her feel slutty. Make her feel safe to be herself. Show her a great time, use e…
/r/seduction20/07/24 10:29 AM
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It was a miscommunication. You guys weren't on the same page and still aren't. You want a casual hookup, and she wants an LTR. Don't be a dick, tell her that you aren't ready to commit to a long-term relationship right now, but you love the way she tastes and want to see her again. Refrain from addressing sex directly, stay indirect with her. Let the bait stay in the water, try not to shake it. She will consult her girlfriends, an oracle, the moon, the stars, her black book, her tinder matches, …
/r/seduction18/07/24 04:03 PM
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Put some work in and study a bit. Make a list of one-liners and study it. Like a job interview, some of the same questions always come up on a first date. Be sure you are ready for them, but make sure you are not the one asking them. He/She is allowed to be boring, but you are not. Have some stories ready to tell, amusing stories about your life that can be told from memory at length. Avoid asking questions, exchange stories instead. Position yourself close if seated and exclate physically, talk…
/r/seduction13/07/24 02:59 PM
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Most girls your age are virgins, too. What do you want from a relationship, and what do you have to offer? If all you want is sex and all you have is a dick, then you better adopt a fuckboi personality and fake confidence. Then fish for girls that want the same. You are insecure. Work on you. What else can you offer? What makes you a good friend? Do people like to hang out with you? What do you do for fun? What can she get from joining your social circle?
/r/seduction02/07/24 08:46 PM
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You are among the dozen that she is talking to. She is dating a handful and sleeping with a few. Bottom line, she got a roster, and so should you. Do you want to elevate your status and move up on the roster? Stop chasing, especially if she is putting you on the backlog or seeking validation, remember that she owes you nothing. Let her come to you, you are a bad ass and a turbo lover, she needs to impress you. You stand apart from the crowd, you are the crown jewel. You are not boring, she has a…
/r/seduction29/06/24 09:24 PM
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The simplest answer is to be honest in your profile, have fun with texting, and do a lot of flirting. There are many free online resources and YouTube videos available. Do a little studying and learn the craft. There are literally step by step ways to move from match to date that work a high percentage of time. Check out "Text god" ,for example, and go from there. No 1 resource has all the answers, so study many. Know the 4 types of messages and how to reply to each (Silence, Platonic, Positive,…
/r/seduction29/06/24 12:32 PM
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Assume she wants what you want. Think hard about what you want first. If you want to have sex with her right now, assume she wants to have sex with you right now. Next, you need to focus on giving her permission. She doesn't want you to think she is slutty and that she will sleep with just any dick that asks her out. She might be sitting in a puddle of her own fluids, but you still have to earn it. You have to be unique, fun, and the most interesting guy in the room. You must focus on attraction…
/r/seduction28/06/24 10:25 PM
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If you are young and present yourself as a high confidence fuckboi, you will be fine. High-school kids can get girls without the ability to earn, you can probably do fine until your late 20s.
/r/seduction28/06/24 02:10 PM
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Sounds like you aren't attracted to someone trying to seduce you. Maybe you like to be the one doing the seducing, the hound chasing the fox. If your body is shutting down, you are either not attracted or it is anxiety. Maybe performance anxiety from some impossible standard you hold yourself to. Indulging in well produced porn will create these impossible standards in your mind and change what you are attracted to. I would advise you to shut porn down now. If you do slip up, look at real people…
/r/seduction18/06/24 11:26 AM
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At a difficult age, if you are attracted to her, you should make it clear. Compliment her directly on something that she has done to herself and change the conversation to a more flirty man to woman conversation. She needs to know that you want to have sex with her, but you have to say it indirectly. Repeat the message, but it is always indirect. She will either flirt back or pull away. If you come on too strong but weren't rejected outright, regroup and try again later. If she flirts back, excl…
/r/seduction17/06/24 07:26 PM
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My lady gets super horny on hers as well. Sex helps the cramping and gets things moving along, too.
/r/seduction09/06/24 06:59 PM
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Good sex is one of the only things that increases attraction, trust, and commitment. Keep flirting and increasing sexual tension while working on trust. Make her feel safe emotionally and physically, and show some vernability. Commitment must be asked for, but don't ask for exclusivity until the 3rd sexual encounter. At this point, you both should know if you are sexually capable in the interim. We feel secure when we are in a commitmented relationship, so know that attraction and commitment hav…
/r/seduction09/06/24 04:51 PM
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Work on your date setup. Set aside 4 hours, but break it up where you both have an out if it isn't working. Keep it casual, tell her to wear comfy shoes and a ponytail. The first half of the date needs to be on your feet where you can move around. Something where you can touch, tease, and play. 3pm on a Sunday at an adult put-put course worked for me, but find something more your style. Greet her with a hug and lead her along by the hand. Play like kids, and try to get a kiss before moving to th…
/r/seduction09/06/24 12:40 PM
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Your tailor will know how to fit you in most cases. For pants length, wear an Oxford shoe and cut pants to show a hint of ankle. Fit it in your hips and crotch, adjust the backrise, but not to the point you strangle your balls. Shirts are fit at the neck and shoulders, and sleeve length should just cover your watch. Length should be fit where it stays tucked in but doesn't bunch up in your pants.
/r/seduction08/06/24 03:45 PM
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I like real men real style, but he likes to promote expensive items and an overdressed look. I also like alpha m. His style is more street casual. There are a few others I like that fit in between. All prioritize fit first and classic styling.
/r/seduction08/06/24 01:58 PM
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Style trends will vary by area, but you can't go wrong with classic styles with solid colors and great fitting cloths. There are some good youtube channels to follow to get a little insight on dressing like a man. The simple way is to look at what you wore when you were a teenager and never wear that again in public. Wear better fabrics like linen in summer and wool in winter, wear clean leather shoes, and smell good.
/r/seduction08/06/24 11:35 AM
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I agree that learning to "flirt with anyone" is a life skill that transfers into business and politics. You can certainly do well if you can pull it off without people smelling your bullshit. Industrial and medical sales are top earning jobs where you do little more than build relationships by earning trust and then use those skills to close properly, paralleling the game.
/r/seduction07/06/24 01:03 PM
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Trust. I trust her to take her pills regularly and log her ovulation schedule. She trusts me to spill outside her body during ovulation. If a pregnancy still occurs, I expect us to tackle the challenge with grace. This method has a much higher success rate than condoms, condoms are only 87% effective per planned parenthood and put most of the responsibility on the male partner to use them properly.
/r/seduction07/06/24 12:51 PM
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I don't feel like I am missing anything. I like sex and want it regularly, like food. I also like not having to worry about STD, condoms, ex-boyfriends, or pregnancy scares. The most charming players have sex 1-2 times a week with high effort and varible quality orgasms. I have sex 4-6 times a week with low effort and high-quality orgasms. I feel like a winner, with my boring 1 woman life.
/r/seduction06/06/24 04:22 PM
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As soon as she decides she wants to have sex with you. It isn't always easy to spot and could range from seconds to days. You want to ask when your attraction level is high and her monkey brain is in charge. It is too early if she is being coy and too late if she is rationalizing. Look for physical signs of happy nervousness, prolonged eye contact, sweating, and her desire to validate herself to impress you. If she is validating herself, she wants the conversation to continue.
/r/seduction04/06/24 12:23 PM
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He has a winning strategy, be his wing, and learn as much as you can. The mystery is attractive, and I bet he is eye fucking the girls that come up to him. Body language is a big deal. You are fortunate to have a friend that you can wing with, approach groups, and slay it. Loose the victim card, it is unattractive and won't gain you any sympathy here.
/r/seduction26/05/24 03:15 PM
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Girls are used to getting their way when it comes to sex. Rejection is 10x harder for them, so I don't think friendzone is an option. Tell her you are not emotionally available for a relationship with her or that you have found someone new. Don't tell her you aren't attracted to her, that will make her think there is a problem with her. The only chance to keep her as a friend is some version of "it's me and not you"
/r/seduction16/05/24 08:56 PM
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It is a hard time to date. No one knows what they want, and few know who they are outside of their parents' influence. But flaking online is pretty high at all ages. She may have only been seeking validation or a fantasy. Ultimately, you didn't do enough to ask for the date yet. Focus on attraction and build sexual tension. You are dealing with virgins and inexperienced girls, so this can be very difficult or super easy depending on her appetite. At your age, the fuckboi personality is more succ…
/r/seduction09/05/24 06:20 PM
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Not exactly, be what she is attracted to. Hopefully, that is the real you or an alternative more masculine alpha version of you. If she agreed to a date with you, she has already considered sleeping with you. You need to show desire indirectly. Tell her that she is gorgeous and you like her outfit or style. Pick specific things to compliment. Tease her, exaggerate, and turn phrases into innuendos.
/r/seduction09/05/24 05:39 PM
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It isn't a date unless sex is on the table. Assume that she wants what you want. Minimize questions and direct the conversation to what you want to talk about. Tell stories, open up and be vulnerable, and make her feel something emotionally. Make her feel safe to do the same, and use these opportunities to touch her. Flirt and tease, indirectly putting her mind on sex.
/r/seduction08/05/24 07:30 PM
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Pictures matter, 90% of your matches come from pictures. Pro is a good option. You want lots of shots. Grab a tripod and clicker for 20$ or grab a friend (female preferably). Take 500 pictures all over town. Pick a pro-like headshot, 2 full body shots, and 3 fun action shots. Put another 20 on Instagram and link the account to your dating profile. Spend time on your profile, but make it look like you didn't. 1-3 sentences that show your personality, tell what you want from a relationship, show w…
/r/seduction03/05/24 05:49 PM
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If it ended with a peck, give her a tight hug. If you ended with tongue, kiss her on the lips + hug. If you ended with sex, give her tongue + lips + hug. You need to start where you left off (emotionally). I base back physically from where you ended last will give you room to run.
/r/seduction03/05/24 02:09 PM
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You are not #1 on her list. If you still want her, try to stay on the list while dating other people. Sex doesn't equal exclusivity. Never assume exclusivity. It must be asked for. Funny story, I remember my second date with my fiancee vividly. We ended up at her place and had the best sex of our lives. In the morning, she got a $100 flower bouquet from the guy she slept with the week before. She admired it for a minute and was a little embarrassed, but I played it cool and didn't make her feel …
/r/seduction03/05/24 01:17 PM
1

It happens in every large club and on every night. Boy meets girl. Flirts with her, establishing strong attraction. Tells stories to establish comfort. Asks for a dance, this is a commitment. He then restarts the cycle, raising the stakes each time by asking her to make further commitments. Like moving venues to his place. Like removing articles of clothing. etc.
/r/seduction02/05/24 03:37 PM
1

Instadates do happen, and it is very possible to do these things with a stranger you just met. It isn't a date unless sex is on the table, you got to put it on the table. Attraction is important. You do this by flirting, indirectly sending a message to her that you want to sleep with her. Don't pull her pigtails, and don't pedestal her; these are the extremes of push/pull. Yes, you absolutely let her talk. You guide the conversation with your stories, so she talks about what you want to talk abo…
/r/seduction02/05/24 01:58 PM
1

It's old-school advice for a dinner date, it sets the meeting up as a date with sex on the table, not a friendly interview. It removes the obstacle of a table, you can break the touch barrier early and often. It makes it possible to make the move for a kiss while still being seated. At the same time, I would encourage that your first date be something where you are standing and walking instead of sitting. Something competitive where you can tease, touch, and banter.
/r/seduction02/05/24 01:03 PM
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You both want the same thing, my dude. You have to show intent and sexual desire for her and lead the conversation. This should push her nerves out and bring in sexual thoughts, you want sex on her mind. Once she is on board, it is much easier to elevate your banter to playful flirting. Compliment and tease, push/pull is pretty basic. Don't ask many questions, but instead tell funny stories about your life. Actively listen, don't interrupt her and don't solve her problems (unless her problems in…
/r/seduction01/05/24 10:33 PM
1

Did you have sex at your place and hers? Don't ask for exclusivity until the 3rd sexual encounter. If you haven't had sex, work on attraction and physicallity on your next date. If the chemistry is good, move the date to private quarters and make a move. Know that she is probably talking to other guys right now, and you are not #1. If you want to move up the list, you need to make her feel "needy" toward you.
/r/seduction01/05/24 07:34 PM
1

Most women are attracted to the fuckboi personality, more so in the 18-24 group. Highly independent women in all age groups are also included here. She may fuck him once or twice as a hookup at moms house. If he is 18, he can ignore any advice given that is catered for 25 and up.
/r/seduction01/05/24 11:26 AM
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She needs to be comfortable with it, you need to be conformable with it, and your parents need to be conformable with it. If her living situation is the same, she will be more understanding. How old are you? If you are both over 25, she will be looking for a man, not a boy. Living on your own is a big step in becoming a man. Living independently signals that you can afford to live on your own and can take care of yourself. She will picture herself living with you and will subconsciously wonder i…
/r/seduction30/04/24 12:46 PM
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Be a man about it. Don't ghost people. Break it off in person or on the phone. If there is no sexual chemistry, there is no reason to string her along unless you just want to practice conversation. Take the next date, but be a man and make a move or 3. Hug her when you meet, lead her by the hand, and go for a kiss in the opening credits. Movies are bad dates due to no conversation, but a car movie can give you the privacy to be more physical. She is thinking this too, but will not make the first…
/r/seduction29/04/24 03:06 PM
1

She just wasn't attracted to you, my dude. There was no sexual chemistry. Focus on attraction and learn how to flirt. Touch her early and often, make her feel sexually desired. You didn't try anything, so she felt like she was wasting her time with you. If you see her again, take her into a big hug and be very enthusiastic. Tease her and touch her. If you don't kiss her before you part, she is gone for good. You need to present yourself as a prize and work internally on your confidence. Upgrade …
/r/seduction29/04/24 01:12 PM
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It is more of an attitude or mindset. Use a healthy bit of push-pull and teasing while you flirt. Exhibit big dick energy. You have an amazing life, and you are allowing her a chance to talk to you. You come from plenty, you don't need her. You don't have to validate yourself, there's no need to boast about your many grand achievements. You are not there to cut her down or judge her either. You are there to have a good time. If this isn't your natural state, you will run out of energy toward the…
/r/seduction29/04/24 12:02 PM
1

Most of his stuff is on his YouTube alt accounts
/r/seduction26/04/24 08:10 PM
3

Before school is up for sure. Try and get him alone and talk to him about graduation. If he is shy, he may not know what hits him and will be on the defensive. Flirt and be playful, tell him you would like to see him at Jimmys weekend house party Saturday night. Or better, ask him out directly. If he rejects you, be super nice and leave the door open for him to come back. You just hit him with a lot in a short timeframe.
/r/seduction26/04/24 07:51 PM
2

Dating apps could be a class taught in school. There are some winning formulas out there. 90% of your matches come from having the right pictures in the right order. The rest is in how you construct your profile. After, you need to have good texting skills. Most guys have crap texting skills, so you are allowed a few mistakes. Focus on attraction, develop comfort, and ask for commitment.
/r/seduction26/04/24 04:44 PM
0

You say girls have near infinite opinions, well you do too. There are more single women in the world than single men. You're a badass, and you are worth talking to. This lack of confidence is hurting you, you may need to work more inwardly. Stop making excuses, your body count for 26 is better than average, so you have some skills that just need a little sharpening.
/r/seduction26/04/24 04:33 PM
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Don't waste too much time on one connection. Set up 2-3 dates a week and expect her to be doing the same. Texting needs to be very flirtatious to keep her attention. once she is comfortable, set up a date. Set weekend dates up on a Monday, she wants to be your first choice and not a backup option. Don't ask many questions, offer glimpses into your life where she can see herself living out her fantasies. At your age her friends are getting married and having kids, she wants a man, not a boy. Dres…
/r/seduction26/04/24 04:20 PM
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Weilding sex like a weapon is her superpower. You both know this now. You don't want to totally disarm her if you like it, but at the same time, you want her to channel it for good. Time for a conversation, tell her you don't like being manipulated by sex, it makes sex feel dirty (emotionally) to you.
/r/seduction26/04/24 04:09 PM
1

It can be hard out there, don't get discouraged. Get back to basics, and make notes on how and when you asked for the date. Girls get asked on lots of dates, so make a weekend date on a Monday. Only ask at the peak of a good conversation, like a half dozen positive messages in a row if you are texting. Don't spend too much time on one connection, setup 2-3 dates a week. Flirt more, ask few questions, break the touch barrier early, etc. Share glimpses into your life, show her that you are the guy…
/r/seduction26/04/24 03:09 PM
1

We all have our own goals, and this is great advice if you want to stay single or are looking for a deadbed marriage.
/r/seduction26/04/24 02:12 PM
2

I slept with my first and second wives on the second date. For me, the magic number is 2 for a successful LTR. Sexual connection is important to me, it may not be for you. The best advice is to have sex when you want to, not when he wants to. There is some risk of getting hurt when you attach emotional weight to sex. Good sex increases all the relationship bars (attraction, comfort, commitment), while bad sex will lower them. The best way to avoid getting hurt is to assume he is dating other peo…
/r/seduction26/04/24 01:37 PM
1

I have no doubt you could find someone who wants to take things slow. Be very up front about it before the first date. At your age group, many girls that you will encounter are seeing their friends get married and have kids and are ready for the same. Most will be wanting a man, not a boy.
/r/seduction26/04/24 12:25 PM
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Flirt more. Don't ask deep personal questions or any questions if you can help it. Tease her and make her laugh, keep her attention emotionally. Put out the vibe that you are a man seeking a woman. She needs to know you have a dick but you aren't a dick. Give her glimpses of your life, and provide content for her to comment on that makes her feel good. Only ask for commitments (she has to take a risk). Small at first, like her full name, her phone number, and finally, a date. Timing is important…
/r/seduction25/04/24 07:54 PM
1

There is no exclating. Just make friends. If you find a asexual female, then you may be a good match. But at 24, women who want to date want to be desired sexually.
/r/seduction25/04/24 02:46 AM
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I know of a quiet place with an open vista that offers the most romantic view of the stars. I will be there this Saturday night awaiting my star-crossed lover. Shall we write our names among the stars? Or change the tone to something funny, but the conversation is over. It is time to ask for a leap of faith, a commitment.
/r/seduction24/04/24 07:20 PM
1

Get some new cloths with the new you, don't wear what you wore 30lbs ago. Classic styles, not street wear. Look at your kids or neighborhood teenagers, if they wear it, you don't wear it. Fit is king, match belt to shoes, get a professional haircut, grow a beard, increase hygiene, and smell good. Spend some money on you for a change. Get a $10 tripod, a $2 bluetooth clicker, and your phone and take 500 pictures in your new clothes all over town. You need a solid headshot, chest up. A few full bo…
/r/seduction24/04/24 03:07 PM
1

You have anxiety and dwell on past negative experiences, I have been there too. Create a journal and organize your thoughts in a positive way. 10 things I am good at, 10 compliments that I like to receive, 10 traits that I find attractive, 10 things that i can offer to a partner, whatever helps you get to know you. If you like you, then someone else will, too. Figure out what you want and work for it. You have to decide to take positive action and create a plan with measurable goals, short and l…
/r/seduction19/04/24 09:15 PM
25

Nothing stopping you from having period sex. Some women get horny on their periods. Other than that, check her astrological sign against the moon phase. Ask her sister, mother, roommate, or best friend about their moon blood and assume they are in sync. Check her cravings for chocolate and salt. Tease her to see if she cries. Ask her if she has a headache, bloating, or cramps. Or ignore all of this and treat her like a person instead of a fleshlight.
/r/seduction17/04/24 03:27 PM
2

Hate to say it, but you need to continue to focus inwardly. Anxiety will destroy confidence. You will need to find some determination to figure out how to shake it or fake it. If it was easy, it wouldn't be worth doing. Take the harder path, you can do hard things. Also, ask yourself, what do you have to offer? If it is just a dick, it isn't enough. You will be courting grown women. They want a grown man, not a boy. Picture all your crushes and the ladies you are attracted to. What do they like?…
/r/seduction17/04/24 01:13 AM
1

I exited an unhappy marriage and hit the reset button on my life. I set new goals and evaluated my worth. It turns out I am worth a lot more than I thought I was, I just needed a new perspective. The inner work is important. Be honest with yourself, and don't put it off. I am an engineer, and I used a systematic approach to the problem as we do. I grieved my old life, shortened my belt, and studied like I was in college. Changed my style, dressed better, smelled better, increased hygiene, and in…
/r/seduction16/04/24 05:40 PM
1

It was uncomfortable, but I had a lot of luck and achieved my goals in a short time frame. I got my girl, the new family that I wanted, and the big promotion. I did this in 6 months after I hit my all-time low. I am now stalling and am falling back into my old ways. Reading and answering questions help me , but my time is primarily focused on keeping my existing relationships healthy. I still have more to learn...
/r/seduction16/04/24 11:30 AM
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Confidence is the only cheat code. Women are people, just like you. They want what you want but have been socially conditioned to hold a shield. They are more emotionally driven and can feel 10x stronger than you. Make her feel something positive with every word and action. Show intent and flirt. Exclate indirectly, but leave no doubt that you have a dick.
/r/seduction16/04/24 02:43 AM
1

It isn't a bad response, but considering the distance, you won't be doing coffee dates. She knows that weekend sleepovers are on the table, and there will be pressure on her to make the encounter worthwhile. If you both just want a sexual hookup, then have the balls to set the expectation. Ultimately, it is just a shit test that you have to pass. Your choices are to misinterpret sexually and segway into the discussion above or ignore completely.
/r/seduction15/04/24 05:57 PM
1

What is your goal, and what are you willing to do to achieve it? Charisma is like any other skill. Some people are naturally talented, and everyone else has to study and practice. Dedicate time to this endeavor, youtube has some great content, read books, etc... Take notes and practice. Work inwardly first, develop inner confidence. Look up topics on "inner game". Work on your style, stop dressing like a high school student. Increase your hygiene skills and exercise regularly. Try online dating …
/r/seduction15/04/24 02:56 PM
1

That doesn't mean you can't learn from him. Tom Cruize is a crazy cult leader, but I still enjoy his movies.
/r/seduction12/04/24 03:39 PM
2

match her tone and length. flirt and stay playful. pass shit tests and don't ask follow-up questions. challenge and tease, show intent and exclate indirectly, give her snippets from your life instead of questions, play games, always work toward getting her out, have fun.
/r/seduction12/04/24 03:24 AM
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I like Todd V for inner game and confidence building. His best stuff is posted on his alt accounts and not his main channels (Sergio Sorokin). Dan Bacon, Charisma on Comand, School of Attraction, TextGod, Marni, Courtney Ryan, etc. Lots of style channels hit the same inner confidence tips by using cloths to boast confidence, like real men real style and alpha.m
/r/seduction11/04/24 02:26 PM
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Hit some youtubes up, don't pay for anything. Start with "inner game" , this is all about you and developing confidence in yourself. You have a high ego but low confidence. You also have some anxiety, but fairly normal anxiety.
/r/seduction11/04/24 02:02 AM
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Don't try to imitate a bad boy. Be you, but a more confident version of you. She is a person just like you, not a mystical creature. She wants what you want. She has a life, you should have one too. She doesn't need a protector or provider. Don't be desperate, clingy, or needy. Show intent and flirt. Her feelings are 10x stronger than yours, a single negative feeling or red flag can kill all emotional attraction. Don't ask deep questions, stay light and fun. Contribute glimpses of your life inst…
/r/seduction10/04/24 07:51 PM
1

Talk with your hands, too. I learned this from a girl, hands go everywhere and sometimes land on you.
/r/seduction08/04/24 10:31 PM
1

Show intent, compliment her, and tell her that you find her attractive. Flirt and try to breach the touch barrier. Once you get her comfortable with you and there is a sign that she is attracted to you, ask her out. Repeat at the date and raise the stakes every date therforth.
/r/seduction08/04/24 07:13 PM
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If you dress like a child, she will treat you like a child. Wear cloths that fit. Wear cloths that are clean. Classic styles are always in style. Avoid logos and screen printed shirts. Grow a beard. Expose your chest. Hygiene is important, hair, nails, beard, etc.. Smell good, sandalwood is a basic/cheap scent. If your competition wears jeans, wear fitted slacks. If you competition wears sneakers, wear leather. If your competition wears a graphic tee, wear solid color henley unbuttoned. Always 1…
/r/seduction08/04/24 05:58 PM
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Are the girls that you are attracted to, like boys who are similar to you? If not, become what they are attracted to. Having good hygiene, smelling good, and dressing 1 level better than the competition goes a long way. Does the girl that you are attracted to want what you want? If you have similar goals, it is easier to come up with similar solutions. What can you offer to her that is unique to you? If all you have is a dick, it isn't enough. Once you got these things figured out, focus on flir…
/r/seduction08/04/24 05:02 PM
1

What does "getting girls" mean to you? Are the girls that you are attracted to, like boys who are similar to you? If not, become what they are attracted to. Having good hygiene, smelling good, and dressing 1 level better than the competition goes a long way. Does the girl that you are attracted to want what you want? If you have similar goals, it is easier to come up with similar solutions. What can you offer to her that is unique to you? If all you have is a dick, it isn't enough. Once you got …
/r/seduction08/04/24 03:39 PM
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Talk more with your hands. This is a trick I learned from a girl I was dating, she talked with her hands and would casually set them down on my hand, shoulder, or leg, at the end of a thought prompting me to talk. She expertly seduced me, and I stole the technique. Lots of brief touching like this makes it easy to move into a kiss and then more flirtive play afterward. Where to touch is also important. There are erogenous zones all over her that seem innocent. For instance, on her back where her…
/r/seduction05/04/24 12:59 PM
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Prepare well for the date, dress 1 level better than the meeting place and smell good. Start the date with physical contact, hug when you meet. The dates themselves need to encourage banter and brief touching. Do things where you are both up on your feet or even competing. Pub crawls, put put, bowling, dancing, etc. Lead her by the hand. When seated, sit close, touch knees, hands, wrists. Have a few talking points pre-planned, several fun stories that you can go to in a pinch. Avoid talking abou…
/r/seduction26/03/24 04:02 PM
1

I was like this in school, I wanted a sexual relationship but didn't have the confidence or willpower to pursue one. I also had good support groups around me, so I didn't feel lonely. Moving away from my support groups changed things. Going out alone is much different, not at all fun unless you force yourself to socialize. I had to make it my hobby, 2 hours a day studying social interactions and another 2 hours practicing. Dating apps are great because you can practice on your phone at home and …
/r/seduction22/03/24 06:12 PM
2

what is moving forward for you? lots of people on this group like to move sideways, never forward.
/r/seduction07/03/24 03:17 AM
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"Text God" free content and YouTube videos are pretty great tutorials for beginners trying to turn matches into dates. Ironically, the paid content isn't as good as the free stuff. Regardless, it offers little advice after the first date, so developing these skills and applying them to your own personality is key. But there is enough content available there to fake it until you make it. Just know that if you present yourself as a Sex God on text, you better be ready to perform on the first date.
/r/seduction26/01/24 02:40 PM
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