mremmafrost Archive

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2	Hey Seddit. Can I have some specifics on kino? It's just little things here and there to start. Brushing up against her when you walk through a doorway, poking her to get her attention instead of just saying something, standing up against her/leaning against her if you're just chatting in a crowded club or something. It's always natural, never forced. Then hopefully later on you can start putting your arm around her when you're talking in a group or out drinking, etc.	/r/seduction	11/10/11 07:36 AM
3	IAMA Mark Manson of Practical Pick Up Q&A! Hm, sorry to push further, and I really get all that "you don't need to tell people you're rich if you are" stuff, but I feel like there's a fine line between connecting with a girl and DHV'ing. For example, if I see a girl reading a math textbook, I'll go up to her and ask her what she's studying or what course she's in. "Can you watch my laptop for a bit? I need to grab something from my car." come back "Hey that looks interesting... what course are you taking?" -- somewhere in there I feel th…	/r/seduction	29/06/11 05:08 AM
1	IAMA Mark Manson of Practical Pick Up Q&A! I wouldn't mind hearing a few thoughts on that. How should you demonstrate that you're awesome and memorable and generally worthy of a girl's attention and a suitable potential bf? Isn't the whole dressing fashionably, looking nice just another extension of DHV'ing?	/r/seduction	29/06/11 04:01 AM
1	IAMA Mark Manson of Practical Pick Up Q&A! Thanks for your earlier reply. One more question: Can you give a pointer on how to qualify oneself? Lately I think my DHV'ing has gone a little too far (aka stepping into bragging territory). I've been self-conscious about it and I think it's been affecting my game. Case in point -- I'm going to graduate school now, and no matter how I try to toss this fact into a story I can't help but think it's bragging. (It doesn't help that friends have told me I've been a little too braggadocious as well.)…	/r/seduction	29/06/11 03:29 AM
4	IAMA Mark Manson of Practical Pick Up Q&A! Day game question: I see a lot of girls at this coffee house I frequent. The thing is, most of the time they're studying or obviously kind of busy (chatting with a friend, on their laptop). I can strike up a conversation pretty easily, but I don't want to be too pushy or wear out my welcome (if they really are busy studying for an exam). A lot of customers at this coffee place are regulars, so chances of me bumping into the girl again are fairly high (especially if it's a girl I've seen there on…	/r/seduction	29/06/11 03:01 AM
6	New to this, but I think I might have a shot at a hired gun. Advice? Go with your gut instincts, don't try to be somebody you aren't. I'm sure there's been times when you're hanging out with girls and you start kino'ing them unconsciously (before you knew what kino was). Just be aware of that being an end goal and see where the night takes you. Don't stop talking, tell stories, joke around, have a few drinks, start putting your arm around her, etc.	/r/seduction	27/06/11 08:42 AM
1	DJ Fuji here to answer your questions! Hm, the thing is, most of the girls I end up getting IOI's from are fairly good acquaintances/friends. Classmates, friends-of-friends, girls I've known for a long time (as friends) but for some reason or another we're starting to hang out alone more, talk on the phone, and joke around in more sexual ways. So screwing up here would be kind of bad -- if I went into get a kiss and got turned back, I'd develop a bad reputation amongst my friend circle, or at the very least make things awkward when w…	/r/seduction	27/06/11 06:44 AM
2	Drawing the line between entertaining and being a comedian. Tell stories.	/r/seduction	27/06/11 06:19 AM
1	DJ Fuji here to answer your questions! Hey Fuji... I doubt you're still looking here but if you are I'd like to shoot you a belated question: I feel like my game is within line... I don't have problems opening, making friends, getting girls' numbers, etc. But the problem is when it comes time to close the deal. It's not like I haven't closed before, but I clam up and feel like I "respect" others too much to the point where I don't want to force anything on them... which forces them to force themselves upon me (it's happened). I don't…	/r/seduction	23/06/11 11:03 AM
6	So who here has actually read "The Game"? Same here. Strauss is a good writer and I really enjoyed the book.	/r/seduction	07/06/11 07:21 AM
3	IAMA PUA who works for Neil Strauss. You bounce into a couple girls at a bar, have a fun chat, tell some stories, do some kino with one, but after about 10-15 minutes, the conversation seems to be going nowhere, and they've made some suggestions that they're not interested. What do you do? (This happened to me last week; I just left to talk to another group of girls, who weren't as interesting but were more receptive.)	/r/seduction	07/06/11 07:19 AM
1	I don't know how to begin Lower your standards. I honestly disagree with people here claiming HB10, HB9's -- these girls are not what PUA's pick up. I've seen the pics from The Game and other workshops -- they honestly pick up on 5-7's, lookswise. Yes, Neil Strauss's ex-girlfriend, Lisa Leveridge, was a 9-10, but for the most part, chicks at frat parties, clubs, Hollywood bars -- 5-7's. Make a move on them, know that you're better than them and they deserve you, not the other way around, and you'll get laid.	/r/seduction	01/06/11 10:37 AM
3	I don't know how to begin Move on. Don't think about her, don't worry about her. Remember how you used to be before you got with her (you don't go very much into that in your post). Remember how you got her (was it being in the same classes, the same study groups, the same clubs?), and try to re-frame yourself back into that vibe. It's a lot more familiar than leaping into a PUA mind, and you won't be as frustrated and bitter as you sound now. Few things: You don't sound like you're over her. That's okay, it took me a co…	/r/seduction	31/05/11 08:09 AM