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| 5 | Why do I only ever attract women who I’m not attracted to / aren’t my type?I got the same problem. I’m like a 5, but am only attracted to 8s and up. I attract many 5s and down. That’s life. | /r/seduction | 28/09/22 12:54 PM |
| 11 | Don't women get bored of the same questions.Yes, the quotes are what not to say. | /r/seduction | 24/09/22 04:52 PM |
| 58 | Don't women get bored of the same questions.Exactly. Make good natured statements that she would respond to and then carry the conversation based on the things she says so that it interests her to keep conversing with you. “What kind of food do you like?” “Italian, I love Italian! We have so much in common!” The above dialogue would be painful for all involved. | /r/seduction | 24/09/22 11:32 AM |
| 7 | Understanding how sexual arousal differs between men and women will help you.Great write up | /r/seduction | 22/09/22 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Not sure how to shoot my shot at this girl in my gymTrue but if it is someone I know I will see all the time, first making acquaintance and saving the real game for the next time is a slicker move. Never come off too eager. If it is a person I know I probably would never see again, then yea you have to go for it. But where he sees her all the time, and he wants to avoid risking coming off creepy then it doesn’t hurt at all to take one step at a time. But if she is throwing him a ton of hard signals then of course I would go for it on the spot. | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 05:43 PM |
| 9 | Not sure how to shoot my shot at this girl in my gymWait until you are on a tread mill next to each other. Eye contact, smile, say hello. “I feel like I see you in here all the time, I’m Leather Boysenberry, what’s your name?” “Oh nice to meet you, we probably have the same schedule etc etc etc. I was [insert some fun active thing you like to do] this morning so I didn’t think I would make it here today [haha laughter]” Nothing creepy about any of that. All you should be doing in this first interaction is frame yourself as casual, fun and sociall… | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 04:06 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]She’s not pleased by it. It just makes her want him more | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 11:15 PM |
| 13 | Why do girls say they " don't usually do this "Listen to Baby It’s Cold Outside. Girls have been that way forever. | /r/seduction | 03/09/22 10:26 AM |
| 3 | Her friend is way more my typeJust because you can, doesn’t mean you should. | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 09:13 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]It’s our nature as men to impulsively want it all right away, like the savages that we are. If allowed, we tend to over indulge in everything. But when it comes to wanting a woman and not being able to have her, and having to keep trying to win her sexual favor and then succeeding, that is a much more memorable conquest and much better feeling physically and psychologically when compared with some easy ho whose name you forget who came home with you at 3 a.m. for a quick blow bang and then pass … | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 01:53 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Not so much. I find instant gratification leaves me feeling less fulfilled. | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 05:58 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I personally think it’s more fun and makes me respect more when a girl blue balls me a little first. | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 05:54 PM |
| 67 | [deleted by user]I think a girl coming home and wanting to take things slow shows a lot of character. She is worth pursuing and considering for a longer term thing if you really click. I am more attracted to girls like that. | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 04:58 PM |
| 2 | Why is being awkward and nervous seen as creepy by women?I have watched pretty much everything on charisma matrix and charisma on command. Good stuff. I recommend to anyone. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 07:43 PM |
| -4 | Why is being awkward and nervous seen as creepy by women?Haha so in other words, you don’t get it. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 05:20 PM |
| -2 | Why is being awkward and nervous seen as creepy by women?Are you sure you have their respect. You may have many friends but are you the alpha of your friend groups? Are your friends alphas? Trust me if I am taking you at your word that girls think you are creepy, it means you lack charisma. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Why is being awkward and nervous seen as creepy by women?Male friends doesn’t mean you have charisma. It means you have things in common. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 05:03 PM |
| 3 | Why is being awkward and nervous seen as creepy by women?Why not just work on being charismatic? There are a few really good channels on YouTube on charisma. Watch them and practice. Even on guys. Charisma will help you in all phases of your life. No one should ever interpret you as creepy. Work on that. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 04:49 PM |
| 2 | Why is being awkward and nervous seen as creepy by women?Women want men who are winners and who can gain the respect of other men. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 04:35 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]Build muscle. Put on some tattoos too. The kind of girls you wish you could fuck like muscles and tattoos. | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 01:18 AM |
| 13 | [deleted by user]Responses here are missing the mark. OP thinks of himself has being not so good looking, and wants to know if he has any hope. The answer is definitely. Attractive as is more complicated than the look of your face. I’m a pretty ugly looking guy. Always have been. Like legitimately no one would ever say that I have a handsome face. I objectively don’t. But I’m still the shit. I’m confident in myself, I’ve made it my life’s work to be fun to be around, I’m generous to my friends and I’m a loud boi… | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 06:30 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Then attraction is debatable or negotiable. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 06:22 PM |
| 0 | Most women don't realize how hard average guys have itAt the same time we men don’t realize how tough women have it in other arenas. It’s almost as if each side needs the other for something. | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 09:57 AM |
| 48 | Girls dance with me then ignore meThe girl is out to party with her friends first and foremost. If you have the chance to meet her and dance for a few minutes, cut it off after exchanging names and tell her you’ll look for them later. Gotta play the long game. | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 09:33 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]She may be checking to see how needy you are. | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 10:43 AM |
| 7 | Where do I meet women if I’m not into clubbing or dating apps?You gotta go to a nice place, a quiet place like a library, there's good women there and 'erm, church, they're good girls. | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 01:40 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I’m sorry you’ve had to experience that. | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 10:48 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]You miss all the shots you don’t take. | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Girl I'm seeing told me shes been with tons of dudes with huge cocks.When chicks see my cock they always laugh, so take that Barry wood | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 10:18 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Apply to colleges in other states. Start a new life. Never return. | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 09:11 AM |
| 25 | [deleted by user]White girls are the hardest to get and the least worth the effort. | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 11:15 PM |
| 1 | She just confessed her feelings for meThis acquaintance of yours: does he matter to you in any way? | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 10:46 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Be breezy, cordial and mature. She is just an acquaintance now. Do not look at her unless you are speaking with her, which should be kept to an absolute minimum. The objective is not to “win her back”. It is to avoid the perception that you are a heartbroken simp who got dissed because that will ruin you within that group. | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 09:37 PM |
| 2 | Drop something to start a conversationIt worked for Al Bundy, it can work for you https://youtu.be/Fx9QwLvGrWs | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 03:20 AM |
| 13 | To all males (and women too). Does the butt/glutes matter?I think you should massage your buddy’s ass and see how you feel | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 09:27 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Maybe you’re no fun. Edit this sounded harsher than I wanted. But wake up dude. Girls, just like guys, want to be around fun and funny people who will take charge of being the good time. Do that shit homey. It’s not that hard. The only time a good looking guy can’t score is when he’s boring. Be fucking loud and funny. You know what’s hard? Looking like me and scoring a lot. But i did. And i not only was bad looking I was shy and awkward too! Double threat! But I grew up and stopped caring about … | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 08:49 PM |
| 10 | Eye-fucking older married manIf he’s Mormon then you might be in luck. | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 02:37 AM |
| 2 | What do you talk about after sex?I go right to politics | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 10:38 AM |
| 4 | I’m Done Being a PussyI just didn’t like your phrasing in your original post (“bag”). It sounds degrading. Not that I care, except for the way those kinds of attitudes could get in your own way. In my opinion even if you want an abundance of lovers in your life, seduction is not about objectification or disrespect. It is about showing a girl a side of yourself that makes her want to sleep with you. Enjoy the process! | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 03:29 AM |
| 4 | I’m Done Being a PussyGood luck with bagging lots of pussy I guess. You might reach a greater outcome if you changed your way of thinking a little bit. | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Blocked on WhatsApp and Unfollowed on InstagramMaybe she saw your Reddit username | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 02:19 PM |
| 6 | Is it easy to get laid if I’m skinny and short ?5’9 is def not short. 110 lbs is very light. You need to gain some weight. See a doctor about this, something could be prescribed. | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 09:25 AM |
| 1 | How to avoid feeling that you're being creepyI think the trick is to make your sexual interest clear yet subtle, and then move on from that objective swiftly into more comfortable subjects. By doing this you set her expectation that you are friendly and not creepy, and interested in her romantically. For us normies, we have to avoid being friend zoned without crossing over into creep zone. I’m no expert but those are my opinions for discussion purposes since you posted a question. | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 10:50 AM |
| 2 | Anyone at a point in their 20s where they don’t care about women and only care about getting money.Make a ton of money, see a bunch of luxury escorts. It will be more efficient and you get to be with a wide variety of women who are 10/10. It’s one option. It sets you up in two ways. I helps you intensely focus on building wealth without the time wasting stress and nagging of a gf, and it allows you to sleep with dozens of women while you can, so you never look back with any sexual regrets. If you aren’t feeling the dating scene, then exit for something different. | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 11:39 AM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]Have you ever seen Roxanne? | /r/seduction | 21/02/22 03:08 PM |
| 12 | Sent a 🔥 (hot) react to a girls selfie on her Instagram story. She liked it and sent a 🥰 in return. Should I continue messaging her?I say, quit while you’re ahead. | /r/seduction | 02/12/21 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Welcome to a new world of seductionLearning to play pickle ball and washing more dishes is never going to turn you into a sex symbol to a woman. | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 01:56 AM |
| 10 | Welcome to a new world of seductionThis reads like one of those 1950s good housewife pamphlets. https://littlethings.com/lifestyle/1950s-good-housewife-guide | /r/seduction | 04/08/21 11:10 AM |
| 2 | If you’re online dating and the questions you ask are never met by questions in response, it's time to end the conversation.As the initiator, and more importantly as the man, you should know how to carry a conversation. It’s your job. The examples above are examples of boring interviews which these girls are subjected to all day every day from random guys. If 1000 people came up to you and said hey how’s it going? What are you doing? Do you like that show? How enthusiastic would you be to engage with that after the 900th time? Originality and the ability to carry the early stage of a conversation is what pays off. Sa… | /r/seduction | 31/12/20 12:04 PM |
| 1 | Where is easier to get laid for a brown guy Montreal, Warsaw or Hamburg?If you are into brown women, it’s equally easy. | /r/seduction | 29/12/20 12:07 AM |
| 50 | Shouldn't you just look for signs of attraction instead of trying to spit game?Some people do not regularly experience that with the girls they want and have to work more skillfully than those who can just show up and get good results. | /r/seduction | 26/12/20 12:57 PM |
| 8 | International brown guy in the US ~ dating experienceSounds like you are measuring your status by your ability to bag white women. What i wouldnt give for a hot indian woman. Go for them. Youd probably clean up. Then look for some asians and latinas and black women. Are white women worth all this anguish?? | /r/seduction | 18/12/20 12:27 AM |
| 2 | Is making out with people for the first time always so awkward?If you are making out with someone you haven’t had a meaningful conversation with, then you’re probably both a little drunk anyway so you can get a way with a lot of faux pas on either side without ruining it. I would imagine you are most attracted to guys who are “appropriately forward” about their sexual intent with you. When I am on a date I make no secret about my intentions. That removes a lot of the awkwardness when it comes down to it. Ideally you have a fun conversation about likes and d… | /r/seduction | 05/12/20 01:48 PM |
| 3 | Have you ever seen a girl who is very attractive and you get all anxious and standoffish towards her? Even though you would love to get with her?The IT guy from the office was Pakistani. I can confirm he had a fat ass. | /r/seduction | 01/11/20 02:59 PM |
| 1 | What is the best way to pickup a girl at a bar/club and take her home? (pre covid)Do you have trouble making new friends in general? | /r/seduction | 01/11/20 12:37 PM |
| 2 | Direct the flow of conversation when you have set an objective [FR]At least you made it to the locking eyes part. I still can’t get that far. | /r/seduction | 17/10/20 07:24 PM |
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