mrpdedicatedaccount Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
10	Observations After Wife Found Out About My Affair		mrpdedicatedaccount	/r/askMRP	26/04/17 05:01 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Observations After Wife Found Out About My Affair All good advice - thanks. I wasn't ready for Dread Level 10+, nor was it necessary for my relationship as my wife had been responding positively to my other changes. Lesson learned.	/r/askMRP	28/04/17 06:02 PM
1	Observations After Wife Found Out About My Affair I think that's a fair assessment. I've kept secrets my entire life and it's affected my relationships, including with my wife. It goes back to the quote from NMMNG in Observation No. 2: "IF I can hide my flaws and become what I think others want me to be THEN I will be loved, get my needs met, and have a problem-free life." Although difficult, I decided I would be honest and not hold back. That way, I wouldn't be burdened by a secret, and she would have the information needed to decide whether s…	/r/askMRP	28/04/17 05:50 PM
1	Observations After Wife Found Out About My Affair The text she saw was unmistakable evidence that I had been having an affair, which had just ended. Things like "Before I met you I didn't think I would ever be able to love again" and "I'll still be thinking about you 20 years from now." Naturally that text led to questions about how long it had been going on, how far I had gone with her, etc. I thought I had explained all of this in this comment: Started with trickle truth but eventually told her everything over the course of two days. It was o…	/r/askMRP	28/04/17 05:18 PM
2	Observations After Wife Found Out About My Affair My confession about oral was in direct response to the my wife's question whether the other woman had sucked my cock. IMO denying that question would have been demonstrating a weak frame. I did not confess to rub her face in it or because I wanted her to see me as a stud. I confessed because I want to live congruently and own my shit. I fucked up. I owned it. I'm moving forward and bettering myself. To me, that demonstrates a much stronger frame than lying and keeping secrets like a scared littl…	/r/askMRP	28/04/17 05:07 PM
2	Observations After Wife Found Out About My Affair She was already plenty hurt. I told her everything because I want to stop keeping secrets from her. I am a lawyer so I haven't felt a strong need to consult other counsel -- yet. And I'm ready to move on if she decides she wants to end it, which I communicated to her last night. She asked what I would do if she decides to divorce, and I told her I'd land on my feet and would transition much easier than she would. She agreed.	/r/askMRP	27/04/17 08:26 PM
2	Observations After Wife Found Out About My Affair Much appreciated.	/r/askMRP	27/04/17 03:57 PM
1	Observations After Wife Found Out About My Affair There is so much truth here. My wife and I were both raised by weak fathers and domineering mothers. Even though I'm more naturally dominant and she's more naturally submissive, "happy wife, happy life" was drilled into both of us from an early age. It didn't make either of us happy.	/r/askMRP	27/04/17 03:09 PM
2	Observations After Wife Found Out About My Affair Started with trickle truth but eventually told her everything over the course of two days. It was obvious from the text that I was involved with someone else. In an effort to avoid my niceguy tendency to keep secrets, I decided to disclose everything and deal with the fallout of my choices.	/r/askMRP	26/04/17 09:23 PM
5	Observations After Wife Found Out About My Affair Except I am getting oral at home. Oral, anal, bondage, very few hard nos, pretty much whatever I want (the last few months anyway. Before that ... not so much). Which is why I think the affair was about seeking validation more than it was about sex.	/r/askMRP	26/04/17 08:53 PM
2	Observations After Wife Found Out About My Affair True ... although it was completely different to read about someone else's experience vs. mine. If anything, it reinforced to me that MRP works. Whenever I read stories about other wives who stayed, I thought to myself "my wife snowflake would never do that, she'd leave me if she found out about my affair." It was a good lesson to learn. [Edited for formatting]	/r/askMRP	26/04/17 08:09 PM
1	Observations After Wife Found Out About My Affair I got sloppy and didn't delete a text. She had been suspicious, but not about an affair (or so she claims anyway). She thought I was hiding porn.	/r/askMRP	26/04/17 08:04 PM
2	Observations After Wife Found Out About My Affair I gotta admit it surprised me. I fully expected her to bolt ... I know I would have if the situation was reversed.	/r/askMRP	26/04/17 06:48 PM
2	Observations After Wife Found Out About My Affair It was a big line for me to cross, as my n-count is 1.	/r/askMRP	26/04/17 06:38 PM
7	AM I RAMBO??? REALLY??? I'm also Mormon. 39 years old, married 15 years with 4 kids. I'm a bit further down the Red Pill road than you are, as I swallowed the Pill last August. You didn't mention your age or how long you've been married, but given that you have a 12 year old daughter I'm guessing you're similar to my situation. I agree 100% with /u/redmountainpill that being Mormon you have a hard(er) road ahead, for the reasons he stated, but it is not an impossible task. For various reasons, Mormons produce great mal…	/r/askMRP	05/04/17 03:14 PM
2	AM I RAMBO??? REALLY??? I got a vasectomy last April after using the same method of birth control as you for 10 years. I had complications -- specifically, I found out the hard way that I have lidocaine intolerance. I felt EVERYTHING. Was it worth it? Absofuckinglutely.	/r/askMRP	05/04/17 02:33 PM