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| 63 | pickme glamorizing doing it all. there's no prize for doing it all🤡The post doesn't seem to be glamorizing anything, if anything I read it as a vent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Left my fiancée today. Here is the letter I left him.I think you already made your decision. But is good you take your time to give and be with yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 04:20 AM |
| 7 | What would you do if your partner doesn’t like thirst traps when you send them?Sounds like a whore-madona complex to me ,if it is is a definite red flag. Do you notice if he gets uncomfortable when you or women in his family express they're sexuality? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/22 09:54 PM |
| 48 | Women leaving the dating appsIt's really time consuming, you get matched with ton of men who are not willing to put effort on a healthy conversation, are living to try to get you to hook up or feel entitled to your time, eventually all your convos start to look the same. So you have to endure like 30 of this interactions to finally find a date, that you're not even sure if you'll have good chemistry. Men are more likely to be rude and insult you if you dare to set a boundary or not give them what they want. They feel protec… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 07:28 AM |
| 25 | What Do You Ladies Think Of The Following Films? | My boyfriend dislikes all of them, but I do find it a bit of a cOiNcIdEnCe that all of them ~happen to have~ female leadsYeah, this is well articulated. I just want to add as the debate of forced diversity, I think there's such thing as forced feminist films in which Hollywood execs try to appeal female public without really reflecting on women struggles or how women would like to be represented, the just go #girlbosspower and make very poor work at it. I didn't really like starwars new movies, nor the Ghostbusters movies, Loved Cruella and can't comment on the others. But I wouldn't judge someone for disliking ma… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 12:39 AM |
| 52 | Holy shit this is genius 😂😂😂🤣🤣😂I mean is a good laugh, but nah sis. If the flowers didn't come on his own volition, I wouldn't want artificially provoked affection that's gonna end because I stopped playing highschool games. So for me is a nah, sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 11:51 PM |
| 8 | Men who give you a number/large number of children they want before discussing commitment just want to use your body.So much this, my exhusband wanted to have 5 kids. When I explained him that families that have more than 3 children, usually had a SAHM in order to be able to provide adequate care for everyone in the family, he straight up told me he had never had thought about it. I explained all the logistics having 5 kids would imply and he agreed it was too much work. I should have took that as a red flag and save myself the pain. But didn't. So yeah vetting strategy knowledge and empathy about child bearin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 12:04 AM |
| 17 | Discussing future financesAbsolutely, you can not keep any unconformity while discussing finances. It is absolutely reasonable to not apport any type of money to a mortgage that doesn't have your name on. And also paying for the utilities is not a acceptable 50/50 deal. He gets to put down payments on his mortgage which is going to give him equity. While all the utilities will give you nothing. So even if you are trying to aim for 50/50 order to be a fair trade, which fds is against, it would only be fair to split the ut… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 11:29 PM |
| 3 | I have received many angry dms from men because of this sub in the last 24 hrs wtf? Anyone have privacy tips, this is getting grossI wonder if they also go on red pillers to ask them to stop hating on women and threatening with suicide | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 04:25 AM |
| 113 | A guy brought up porn half a minute after matchingLol, they're vetting as well as simultaneously trying to get into everyone's pants. The thought made me laugh, thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 08:59 PM |
| 38 | Why do men think their sudden, unplanned, SpOnTaNeOuS trips are a positive?I think if they're fresh out of college it sounds like they were looking for adventures before going into job market. Which to is kind of understandable. Recent grads don't have much money, and back packing and hitching is the only way they can travel. But an adult with an established career sounds like mild life crisis going. Someone unhappy looking, feed up with routine who just want to throw away responsibilities. It is a red flag because that's not reliable, it'll be a guy looking for a mani… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 05:37 AM |
| 167 | RIP Lauren. 💔 Shame on the Bridgeport PD for not taking this seriously. PLEASE be safe with dates you met through OLD, ladies.My heart goes to Lauren's family, can't imagine the pain and frustration they've felt. I just deleted my apps. It's just not worth it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 03:10 AM |
| 93 | He lied to this woman (and pretty much everyone else) for TWO YEARS and, of course, she's the problem.I was wondering that, I thought maybe it was a cultural thing in America reading so many post fixated on an specific number. In my country the average height is way smaller than 6" and of course women like taller men, but what they mean is taller than themselves. And I don't have a single friend that has a specific hight number. Personally I don't give a damn about height I've dated shorter guys, but I do mind lying and manipulating, how many guys would loose their sh*t if they realized a girl w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 02:00 AM |
| 118 | The absolute bare minimum, and an automatic dealbreaker. NEVER, no matter the circumstance. Do not ever let a man think that it is justifiable to try to physically intimidate you. There exists not a single excuse for violent behaviour. It will always escalate.To me men with anger issues are so unnatractive, the look like overgrown children that are throwing tantrums. Like I get it you're mad, I'd probably be to, but do your really have to start huffing and puffing, screaming, or punching things beacuse you didn't have it your way? Bye boy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 02:25 PM |
| 2 | Men Double TextingI had to cancel a first date beacuse I got covid like symptoms and started self-isolation. So I sent the apology and canceled a couple of days before our planned date. I checked his conversation 2 days later beacuse I had been having high fevers and wasn't active on social media. Dude had been having a complete conversation with himself. About how sad it was this all for him, how much he had been looking forward spending time with me, on how he thought I would look beautiful, on how mucho he wan… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 09:03 PM |
| 8 | behaviors that connote power, control, dominance: what to avoidI had an ex who liked having the last word on EVERYTHING. If I said Friday he would insist on Saturday, if I said 5 he would say 6, I wanted this restaurant he wanted another, I would say I can't eat anymore he would ask me to take one last bite. So every single little stupid decision would become a power play between the two of us. At first I thought we were just getting to know each other and we just had different likes and conflicting schedules but when I noticed the pattern I just started to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 02:58 AM |
| 32 | FDS when you're down on your looksI would like to add, remember LVM are insecure creatures, so their strategy is to undermine your self esteem, so you lower your standards an accept less than the minimum requirements. So if a LVM negged or straight up disrespected you it reflects more about themselves than from your desirability. So don't let LVM win! Keep your standards up! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 12:58 PM |
| 79 | Saw this on r/confessions... This is why I don't do FWBBuuhuuu! "I'm morbidly obese but the fat on my pickme harem is making miserable!"how delusional can one be? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 03:52 AM |
| 39 | How do you deal with HVM that know they have options?This so much!! If you enter a relationship with a hvm putting him on pedestal, you're on the wrong mindset. FDS encourages to become a HVW yourself, so no matter how great your partner is you feel confident on yourself, do not diminish yourself lookwise or in any other aspect, if you are insecure level up. You have to realize that you also have options! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 07:59 PM |
| 69 | Men don’t always marry the woman they love the most: a n insight from an OLD convoI think most time they play the factor nostalgia on you hoping they're gotta get laid. I once got an inbox on facebook from a ex about 5 years after the break up. He was going to get married in 2 or 3 months but he said he still couldn't get over me. He starting comparing his fiancee and me, making it seem winning his stupid comparisons. I'm not gonna lie, I almost fell for it I agreed to see him and we talked in person 2 times, we even kissed. But I absolutely refused to hook up with him unless… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 02:22 AM |
| 2 | Anyone feel very ashamed of their emotions?Yeah I agree with Naus, although some women with more conservative women might adhere to the ideology that boys don't cry. Most of my girlfriends myself inclouded find sensitive men attractive. Most important is for any person to have emotional intelligence. Be able to express and cope with negative emotions and bounce back when you have problems. You don't need to feel ashamed for having emotions everyone has them, but your are responsible on how you express and process them. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/10/21 07:56 PM |
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