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Not to be presumptuous but have you considered that you might have vaginismus? There’s no reason to seek to treat it if you don’t want, nor am I implying the gross scrote argument that your vagina is “broken”, but discomfort with penetration can be linked to vaginismus
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 08:05 AM
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The majority of sources both classical and contemporary, across the majority of sects and schools of thought agree she was 6 at marriage and 9 at consummation. There are hadith about her playing with dolls and the Prophet playing with her. The Prophet even had his own daughters married at age 9 to adult men. Not saying we should judge the past by modern standards, but these are the generally-accepted facts of the matter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 10:57 AM
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What about 4:34?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 09:01 AM
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Not all men do the abusing, raping, assaulting, gaslighting, cheating, and other forms of overt misogyny that we are talk about on this sub, but ALL men benefit from the patriarchy that these violent, misogynistic acts uphold and ALL men are complacent unless actively fighting back against patriarchy and misogyny Edit: grammar
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 08:28 AM
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Great, but it’s very obvious she hasn’t read the Handbook, and it’s sub rules to do so. She was being extremely defensive to any advice that was very basic Handbook material, for example not paying for the expenses of men we aren’t married to and avoiding men who use misogynistic language. The tone some members used was from senior, high level flair members who are likely sick of seeing people post without having read the Handbook. We’re not on this subreddit trying to coddle women on basic red …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 01:33 PM
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All of what you said is fine, but her original comment and those following all negate what is said in the FDS Handbook, and it’s sub rules to read the Handbook in full before posting. If she posts this then fine, but red flag and LVM behaviour is going to be called out when it is seen. We aren’t doing this to chastise her or judge her, we’re pointing out these red flags for what they are so that she herself or other women here know to avoid this behaviour as it isn’t in line with FDS principles.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 01:10 PM
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Another commenter found evidence in her post history of her boyfriend calling women dogs so no, I don’t think there’s any setting this one straight
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 10:00 AM
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While I agree with denouncing sexually performative surgeries like labiaplasties and excessive boob jobs, I disagree with denouncing general beauty culture. I take pride in grooming myself, in experimenting with my looks and working to improve my appearance, the same way that I work out to improve my body, because it’s an investment into my personal well-being. I agree that we shouldn’t be taken for just our looks, nor should our looks to be important to society in general. But I’m also not abou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 09:36 AM
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“Please stop putting in advice I’m not asking for” Have you forgotten what sub you’re in?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 09:02 AM
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I agree, I definitely felt that her saying “I wouldn’t be worried because I trust him” was less of a trust thing and more her telling herself she HAS to trust him because it’s her who HAS to make the relationship work
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 02:37 PM
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I barely know anything about them and already have a sus vibe just from the way she talks about him on some of the WoI talks. But I’m happy to be told otherwise
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 01:47 PM
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For fun? Knowing she has C-PTSD? He’s using her trauma as a toy. Hope she leaves him, gets the care and support she needs and he chokes on his food.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 11:20 AM
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How they react to it is the crucial part. If this is part of your reality, then it may come up in times like this. He may be upset or hurt that you didn’t tell him (especially a bit deeper into the relationship), but if that’s it and you explain to him the reasons why you didn’t tell him and he understands and doesn’t bring it up inappropriately, then just move on and continue vetting. If you explain and he takes it as a MASSIVE distrust still, or he starts bringing it up in ways that make you u…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 10:21 AM
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Agreed, as a bisexual woman I’d want to weed out immediately whether a man saw this as solely one small factor of my personhood, or the main focal point. If a man for a second thinks I’m some SeXy HoT FrEaKy UnIcOrN and suggests polyamory or threesomes then he’s snipped because his intentions are not where mine are, i.e a committed monogamous relationship. The opinion seems to be split on this post between thinking it’s a good vetting tool and thinking it’s a no-go zone. I also tend to prefer bi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 10:16 AM
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The veganism here isn’t empathy for animals, it’s another case of male “I’m holier than thou” or “look at how intelligent and advanced I am” syndrome, which appears in all and any sub culture or form of activism and is just a big ego jerk off party for men who lack defining personality traits and want to feel ~different~. Take veganism away from these men and what are they? Plain old misogynists
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 11:00 PM
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Agreed the cake and the man belong in the bin
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 02:00 PM
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Saw this and thought it was so fucking gross. I would refuse to eat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 01:51 PM
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Girl this makes almost too much sense. Big dick energy is that assured confidence that doesn’t need to prove itself, because it knows itself. It’s electric. Small dick energy is making as much of a show as possible to compensate for what’s lacking
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 11:26 PM
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I don’t think the victim shaming is very appropriate here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 09:43 AM
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This is a Queen for the Queens lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 09:01 AM
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It’s not saying it’s her fault but rather displaying to her her sons misogyny that could’ve come from any amount of sources such as fathers influence, society or porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 06:10 PM
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There are other accounts of him in interviews where she was still wearing a compression mask, not long after the fire in which it was again commented on of how good a partner he is for standing by her, and he said “I see everything she’s going through and the physio and stuff and it’s easy for me to be there every morning to give her breakfast, saying what he does for her is nothing compared to the battles she is facing in recovery. He was still kissing her and holding her hands when all of the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 10:50 PM
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Would you mind telling us more? This sounds beautiful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 07:32 AM
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A large portion of women actually enjoy male x male porn, for varying reasons (though I can only imagine the lack of female degradation etc plays a massive part) - not making excuses here but wanted to clarify
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 06:38 PM
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Agreed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 01:35 PM
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There was a post a few weeks back of a screenshot of a man’s reddit post complaining that a woman turned him down because he organised a date to hang out in a field
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 10:13 AM
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A lot of people would agree that lack of political involvement, especially in an era where so many elections involve right wing parties that don’t believe in women’s rights (to abortion or otherwise), is low value behaviour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 02:53 PM
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Old and white male = a life time of privilege and riches = being able to pay hush money and not be held accountable for your crimes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 08:53 AM
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She’s a very talented business woman, she created a brand for herself and was a pivotal figure in many fashion trends of the early 2000’s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 01:35 PM
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The majority of this food will keep, can be eaten over a long period of time. He did also get her healthy options, like the lemons and the probiotics
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 01:12 PM
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He cannot dress himself, probably cannot cook, and definitely has an apprenticeship at his dads garage cause he doesn’t even have two brain cells to rub together
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 07:24 AM
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100% this man verbally abuses women (I mean he verbally abused me and he doesn’t even know me), belittles women, hates women, and doesn’t care about consent. Not a doubt in my mind he waits until women are drunk before he rapes them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 07:20 AM
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Cause they’ve got nothing else to do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 06:44 PM
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the worst insult imaginable 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 06:26 PM
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Ikr???? Let me just show that I view you as sub-human straight up. Worst one I got was a guy telling me I “look like I enjoy a good face-fuck” - which, at best, makes absolutely no sense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 05:57 PM
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Note: this was just an image of my face, and I, of course, reported his ugly ass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 05:21 PM
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Get your shit and fucking leave. Block him on everything, do not allow contact with him and do not be alone with him. Seriously. 2 months and he’s acting like this is a SCARY trajectory, and the fact he’s making sexual demands of you is even worse. I would not be surprised if he became emotionally abusive, demeaning or even violent soon. Get out of there!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 02:20 PM
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This is a good idea but I’m pretty certain the fish rots from the head. Just look at how the recent sub-purge went
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 06:53 PM
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Know this is totally FDS unrelated but craved the sisterhood here. Anxiety is absolutely dragging me through a bush by the hair today. Been crying for the past half an hour over a small physical injury. Can’t wait to be through this and stepping into my Queendom
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 03:23 PM
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“naturey”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 09:20 AM
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Betting any money she wrote this post then left her phone open, on the counter for her boyfriend to see
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 01:00 PM
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This^ especially in the early days of unlearning pick me behaviour / your first times putting yourself first like this / breaking off long term relationships. It’s probably NOT going to feel good in the moment, and that’s ok!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 07:14 PM
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It’s always extremely telling when they care about the tiny percentage of male rapes more than the pervasive, continuous and staggeringly high rates of rape of women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 07:51 AM
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Have you read the handbook honey? I understand the human need for intimacy and connection, but from the sounds of other comments here you’re unhappy with your general situation at the minute. The need for intimacy and connection definitely becomes amplified in these moments of life because of the need for comfort, as well as societal conditioning for women that a man/boyfriend/relationship will fix everything (ive been there too). In reality, it’s more likely that a man coming into your life at …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 03:02 PM
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A man who talks like this about women was never in date in the first place. Perpetually expired man wants to run his mouth about women’s ageing and bodily changes. Disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 02:11 PM
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Seconding this. Dream about having my own pantry filled with nice coffee and wine and my own snacks. We can do this!!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 12:54 PM
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Thanks so much for these! I don’t doubt one bit that it’s addictive - I had the initial idea after noticing how relaxing it was to sew when I fixed some clothes. If you do ever start selling these drop the link!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 06:22 PM
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Wanted to start embroidery! Do you have any advice for beginners or resources? You could 100% sell these
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 06:01 PM
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Read: my boyfriend raped me because I am black.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 07:09 AM
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Women only villages please 🙌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 04:22 PM
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and to think they could avoid all this with male contraception but there still isn’t one because it makes them feel bad and the side effects are owwie 🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 05:20 PM
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would 100% be getting that check, but if i was raising the child alone, that’s my child, not his. he can’t claim he’s the father of a child he never sees, doesn’t provide for, and doesn’t respect the mother of
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 05:16 PM
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I’d love to receive 20 pounds of sweets lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 08:04 AM
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Girl........ slide her the FDS handbook quick!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 07:56 AM
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Being a single mom sounds better than this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 07:55 AM
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This is what we love to see, and what men are so afraid of! A happy, confident woman enjoying HER life for herself, looking after herself, and going after her dreams
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 05:39 PM
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True but he’s making his entire identity about being a chef whilst simultaneously being angry af on a dating profile about being taken as only a chef. If he doesn’t want to talk about being a chef maybe he shouldn’t make that literally all he’s got going on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 01:10 PM
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So true, they all try reeeaaallllyyyy hard to play up machismo to compensate too. Grunting when they do the slightest thing, bragging about strength and fitness, being really attached to having a beard, rejecting anything even remotely feminine, etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 07:28 AM
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maybe you should just ☺️ talk to him ☺️ you should be flattered that he’s ☺️ so turned on by you ☺️ just cut him some slack ☺️ men have needs too ☺️ he’s probably just ☺️ letting out his stress from work ☺️ no need for concern ☺️ have you considered giving him a blowjob? ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 08:08 AM
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Honestly I’m a white woman and at this point I fail to find white men attractive. They’re usually the worst dressed, the least interesting, have the worst skin/hygiene and are the most misogynistic. In the U.K. you either have football lads or indie bros, which are equally as bad but the indie bros think they’re a class above because they have a philosophy degree, sexualise women who wear Doc Martins, and will say they’re “sensitive” as a means to emotionally manipulate you. Truly the pits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 08:50 AM
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Read her post history and she seems to be either a troll or an INCREDIBLY unhappy mother who takes her self-hate out on other women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 04:30 PM
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“I say I’m a freak but what I mean is I want YOU to push your boundaries to areas you may not enjoy for my enjoyment, not the other way around”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 01:17 PM
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Thisssssssssssssss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 07:10 AM
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Was looking for this comment lmao!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 06:51 AM
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This is happening to my grandmother right now. She’s been ill for a while and has just been diagnosed with dementia. My grandfather (mother’s step-dad, 10 years her junior) has become unhinged, manipulative, verbally abusive, and has pushed the rest of the family away. A man will be married to you for half your life and turn sour so quickly once you become an inconvenience to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 06:46 AM
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Disgusting. Really sorry you had to go through this. Just goes to show you can know and trust a man for so long and he will still view you as a sex object
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 09:39 AM
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