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And since it's a discussion about nuance, i'm an introvert, stay inside a lot (wfh), i enjoy parties and festivals in low doses, my hobby is gaming, i smoke, i drink. People are just mixed bags.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:23 PM
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That's usually the few things that RP gets right. Like a broken clock that tells the hour correctly twice a day. It's not RP, my sweet summer child. It's common knowledge for normal people. It's a thing that properly socialised people who are connected to reality already know. And we are baffled of why you present it like a breakthrough or a secret.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:09 AM
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Many are. Or at least they have other issues. Some people here are broken beyond repair. I still debate in my head why tf i am here. In my mind i'm helping by sharing real life stories or knowledge. Real life that some seem like they have no contact with. Even if they go outside, their minds are disconnected from the real world. It's an awful place to be in. I'm a normie as normie as it gets. I am very against RP because i saw a friend of my husband's almost going on that slippery slope. We both…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 06:59 AM
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Not only that's wrong as other builds can make a woman look fat even though she's not. But it's also immutable as height. The original commenter did not take immutable off the table so immutable still stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:47 PM
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Hourglass shape. It's all in bone structure, in angular or soft features. See the kibbe system.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:41 PM
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That's why figuring out what people in general want is stupid and meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:03 PM
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I think they are wrong. I also think they don't understand what "a good man" means.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:39 PM
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Bad boy with a heart of gold = is very kind with people who are nice to him and mean if someone does him wrong Fat, but with muscles under the fat and has a belly. Built somewhat like a hyppo. Some guys are naturally muscular. Don't need gym to achieve that look.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:37 PM
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Real. Why wouldn't it be real?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:13 PM
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Just had a discussion with someone else about what a good man is. A good man is "a man suited for me" or "a good match to me". So a good man to me is charming, funny and charismatic. See how i didn't mention anything about doing something for others? Yeah. Co i don't fuck a guy just because he beings meala to the homeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:03 PM
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Ow, these sweet summer children. No wonder they are so off.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:00 PM
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Wtf? Where did you get that idea from? Sure, some are, some aren't. But gentle giants are a thing and women see them as cute and fuzzy and hugable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 02:59 PM
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You made the mistake of thinking muscular guys are also aggresive
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 02:21 PM
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That's your opinion. I prefer recent data, not obsolite info
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 02:19 PM
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Wait till vibe and creepy are explained to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 02:12 PM
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A reputable source, none the less
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 02:10 PM
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Not to mention how nuance is lost. Hence they had to invent emojos
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 01:59 PM
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I posted stats for 2024. You posted for 2019. I choose to believe relevant, recent data.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 01:58 PM
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It is the end of the line. Why would i waste time with a man who wants to be trained like a dog. I mean, it's not like i can learn anything meaningful
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 01:49 PM
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I have an issue with how much people rely on text messages. My parents rent apartments. They are old, not tech savvy, don't read texts on rent apps. They specifically write in the ad: no text messages. Call for more info. What do people do? They text. Anything to avoid a phone call
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 01:48 PM
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I read, 45% start online (which doesn't necessarily mean dating apps) http://forbes.com/health/dating/dating-statistics/ Please stop spreading disinfirmation
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 01:46 PM
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...i thought they knew this, but then i checked what sub i am on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 01:40 PM
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Same. They tried to pressure me to make a FB account. They quit eventually as i am very against social platforms like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 01:36 PM
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I already answered. Idk why, i am here to ask questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 01:34 PM
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I can understand wanting something and not being able to obtain it. But rage sure won't get anyone closer to their objective.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 01:33 PM
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It's the one i have. Take it or leave it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 01:27 PM
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My relationship is non transactional and not based on a reward system like dog training.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 01:24 PM
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I respect your take
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 01:23 PM
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Transactional as is a reward based system as you'd train a dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 01:13 PM
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Is it love for your wife or is it transactional?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 01:10 PM
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You don't live your wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 01:00 PM
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You don't believe in love at first sight, good vibing, matchmade in heaven?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 12:58 PM
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Treating kindly and doing positive things should not be linked to the reward system. It should be linked to love.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 12:37 PM
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Neah, it's huge turn off for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 12:36 PM
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How does the idea of being rewarded with another human being sit with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 12:35 PM
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No, more than half of the relationships start irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 12:33 PM
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So...men act like trained dogs? Human says "sit", eog sits and then dog receives a snack? What happens if man improved and still no gf? What happens if the man is naturally gifted, needs no improvement and gets a gf without effort, just by being himself?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 12:32 PM
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Is it though? An autistic person coached to act normal is not a normal person.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 12:25 PM
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Fuck knows. Some go for hook ups. What does that have to do with LTR?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 12:23 PM
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Is a woman always a reward? Can she be something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 12:22 PM
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Yes, i think many people have types.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 12:21 PM
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So like a dof in training
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 12:20 PM
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It's settled then. You know better than me what i like and many other women like me prefer.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 12:08 PM
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Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 12:07 PM
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Because i like bellies? I like men on the fat side. Why i like them? Idk it's like liking the color blue and hating green. It's what i find appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 12:07 PM
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Charm, humor, charisma are not sought after? You sure?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 12:05 PM
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So like a trained dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 12:04 PM
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It makes him a good partner, not necessarily a good human being. More like what it's what is sought after
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 12:00 PM
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You don't believe in naturally charming men? In natural social butterflies? In natural humorous people?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 11:56 AM
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Yeah, my preferences might sound weird, but it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 11:52 AM
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Where
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 11:37 AM
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A good man for me: extrovert, charming, charismatic, humorous, a bad boy with a heart of gold, helps friends, has a job, makes his share of chores, has muscles covered in fat + belly, doesn't go to the gym, plays games, no chest hair, no baldness.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 11:37 AM
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So you have no idea wtf you talking about. Thanks for letting me know. Should have done it sooner so i won't lose my time with a man who wants to be trained like a dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 11:33 AM
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Spell it out for me. What do you think it is?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 11:29 AM
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?? Vibes and stature are not the same thing. Creepy skinny dudes vs big gentle giants
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 11:28 AM
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I don't reward because he's a human being, not a dog. I think that is just disrespectful to treat a human like an animal. Amd by this i mean like a dog in training. What i di for him is because i love him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 11:23 AM
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I treat my husband differently from other people because i love him. Not because i train him on a reward based system, like you'd train a dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 11:01 AM
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Very clearly, sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 10:43 AM
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So like a dog. Yeah, no thanks. I don't treat my husband like a dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 10:40 AM
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Answr my question
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 10:31 AM
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So like"good girl, here's a muffin"? Like you train dogs?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 10:20 AM
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As a relationship partner, usually no. They are not sought after. As a human being, they can be good or bad or anything in between.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 09:55 AM
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So like trained dogs? Human says "sit", dog sits and receives a dog snacks?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 09:52 AM
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No, those are socially awkward people. Introvert means you go to a social setting with a full battery and leave drained. Extrovert means you go to a social setting with an empty battery and leave charged.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 09:50 AM
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Each woman has her own preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 09:34 AM
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Introverts can have social skills. Introvert/extrovert is about social batteries.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 09:34 AM
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Part of what makes a good man, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 09:17 AM
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And we're not talking about bullies. I'm talking about social skills which create vibe.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 09:15 AM
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Natural is better than coached or simulated or obtained by surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 09:14 AM
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Why is it a reward? What makes it a reward? You completed a quest and bam! You get a reward?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 09:13 AM
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Those play a bigger or smaller role, but are not enough
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 09:01 AM
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No? Good men are born like this. They don't need to put in any effort as that's who they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 08:50 AM
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Taking a piss also feels nice. Do you consider it rewarding?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 08:30 AM
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I am aware that stupid/naive people exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 08:28 AM
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Nothing gives me the ick more than "traditional", except "religious".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 08:08 AM
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Yeah, i know. I just want to see how f'ed up in the head he is. It's always the funniest to hear it from their own mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 07:46 AM
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What makes a relationship a reward? What is the thought process here?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 07:39 AM
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What do you mean by "get rewarded by women"?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 07:22 AM
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If you're the kind of gentle giant, she saw you as a teddy bear. Which is not a bad position to be in. Your comment actually struck me how wildly different men and women perceive a petdon sometimes. Coz if you look in the mirror you see muscle and maybe strong and dettering and look like you can fight a bear. But the vibes and how you present yourself makes her look at you like a cute toy, huggable, harmless and dare i say like a big child that needs nurturing. At least i experienced this and i …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 06:49 AM
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Because men focus on finding a woman while women focus on finding a compatible man. Compatibility is what keeps the relationship going. It's a smart choice for those who seek LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 06:43 AM
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Wildly different
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 06:05 AM
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C'on, drop the entire recipe, proportions of ingredients
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 05:59 AM
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Then don't get married. Marriage isn't for anyone. One of the reasons i married is that if i die, my husband gets my properties so he doesn't end up homeless (we're not in US).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 05:33 AM
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I've seen this over and over again. All their married life the wife was the only one to cook. At old age, the wife dies. The husband resorts to cooking eggs and eating salami, which isn't a die fit for an elderly person. Then he neglects taking his medication or going to checkups because there's no wife to remind him. So he dies in a few years. Men like this need to stop acting like children and start taking care of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 05:28 AM
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Very serious question, sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 05:15 AM
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Well, i am not a native EN speaker and to me "putting someone in his/her place" implies using force. Some dude said he'd walk away. I don't see how this would make a "putting her in her place". I don't see your reaction as a "putting in her place" and frankly the way you said it is something i associate with educating a child. It is very confusing to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 05:15 AM
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QED
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 09:37 PM
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What is the image supposed to depict?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 09:31 PM
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How would you say it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 09:24 PM
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And what makes this a "put her into place"?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 08:23 PM
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And how will this be communicated or expressed. I'm asking what exactly would you do in any of those scenarios?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:11 PM
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How do you suggest women should be put in their place?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:29 PM
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Yeah, i don't enable dulusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:18 PM
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Is THIS what you understood from my comment? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:55 PM
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Each time people ask wtf is this "accountability", the answers vary. Nobody knows what it is because it's not their idea. It's spoonfed into their brains and they just spit it out. Actually, it is vague on purpose so gurus can relate to more men since each man has his own interpretation. This way, gurus can extract more money. So, i don't give a shit about "accountability".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:50 PM
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Right? I'm starting to think some of the guys here are closeted.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:44 PM
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I absolutely think couples should live together before marriage. But the marriage discussion should appear prior to moving in together.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:18 PM
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Some people have f'ed up lives, but turning to drugs/alcohol is only going to deepen their problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:16 PM
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But also it's bad if there is no marriage in sight. That's how women end up as forever girlfriends. Wife benefits at girlfriend prices...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 01:54 PM
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There's a scale of selfishness as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 12:45 PM
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It's more like those people want a good life for their children. Bringing a child in uncertainty is selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 12:29 PM
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Financial unpredictibility plays a role. I might have money now and have a child now. But will i still have a good paying job in 3 years? In 5 years? 10 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 12:08 PM
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No, but all dwarves are short.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 11:04 AM
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But...dwarfs are short
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 10:27 AM
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Speak clearly then.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 10:20 AM
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Yes. Dwarfism is a partially a genetic condition.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 10:17 AM
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I agree 100%. It's so sad to see young men go down that slippery slope called RP that will consume them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 09:40 AM
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No. At this point i can reasonably start doubting your cognitive capabilities. Have a nice day!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:35 AM
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Sir...your flair is truth seeking. Now reread my original question.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:31 AM
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That's not my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:17 AM
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So my original question again: How does truth seeking reconcile with not reading the linked post in order to answer a question related to that post?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:09 AM
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You read the linked post and you detected jealousy in any of the top comments? Can you point to an example of a comment that has said jealousy?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:02 AM
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What does this have to do with the post linked?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:59 AM
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How does truth seeking reconcile with not reading the thread and commenting for the commenting's sake?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:48 AM
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It was navy. No point in having a wet tshirt competition if it's not a white tshirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 02:25 PM
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Wtf. I somewhat look like my husband. We counted 14 people in one year who asked us if we are siblings.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 01:02 PM
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I remember some post made by a lunatic about clothes and he insisted that women should never expose themselves at the beach or at the pool. Obviously, people pressed for examples of what would be acceptable for women to wear at the beach. And dude linked what was essentially tshirt and shorts lmao 😭😭😭 Men and women laughed at him, PR men didn't even try to take his side, it was that insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 12:52 PM
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Blood vessels
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 07:31 AM
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Dark circles can be genetic, due to lack of sleep, iron deficiency, circulation. Maybe try some caffeine serum or cream.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 06:57 AM
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Idk wtf happened, i also think gen z is too stressed, too tense, too serious. My biggest shocks were 2 women and a man. Women 1: looked 35 tops. And i talk about flexibility, style, the way she spoke. She was 50, her son was older than me Women 2: looked 42 tops. Body, face, flexibility, just very fine wrinkles and no marionette lines. She was 63. And a guy who looked tense, wrinkly, forehead wrinkles, looked 33. He just turned 27.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:18 PM
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I guess it's nor.al and expected for some people to look younger than their age and other to look older than their age. But what i think happens is that there used to be that only 10% of young people look older than their age (number pulled out of my ass) and now 30% of young people look older than their age (number also pulled out of my ass). Also, it doesn't affect just women, but also men. It also depends on your social circle. You can't know the age of people on the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:12 PM
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You're a core millennial. Idk how widespread it is, but i guess there are enough cases to actually make some waves. I think this video explains it quite well: https://youtu.be/oKwVFd-p1GI?si=NujAmzfBfIv8ngXY
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:00 PM
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The happy ending part referred to successful reconciliation (which both partners wanted and worked towards and they say they are happy) or divorce and the betrayed is in a much better place now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:54 PM
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Yes, women also cheat. I know irl cases, although less cases than men. You know, there are bad apples in both baskets. Indeed, not everything online is true, but r/AsOneAfterInfidelity seems to have genuine cases where couples try to reconcile. You can find both men and women who have been cheated on. Heartbreaking stories, some with a happy ending, others just post their struggles. Cheating is evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:48 PM
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Idk wtf happened with late gen z looking older than millenials. They say it's the clothes, the procedures and stress.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:36 PM
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Um...no
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:29 PM
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There's the rub
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:19 PM
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It's not the gotcha you think it is
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:05 PM
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Neah, that's a taste of their own medicine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:03 PM
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I prefer pragmatism. That person has genetic issues and so do i. I don't find it mean. Adoption is always a possibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:00 PM
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That "should have chosen better" is loaded with bitterness
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:58 AM
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Not sensitive, but pragmatic. I also have a condition that would be passed to my children. So i choose not to have children and remove defective genes from the genepool.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:39 AM
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They are mostly right. There are a number of things that i disagree with them, as expected. I don't think the men listen, honestly. At least i tell them that some are unsuccessful because of auyism or other conditions, yet they choose to continue to blame women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:37 AM
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A sensitive soul will see anything as mockery.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:32 AM
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I see women being kind to men who tell stories about being cheated or the ex not letting them see their child. In similar situations, men lash with "should have chosen better". Some ladies here have very strong arguments. Men choose not to listen to those arguments because it doesn't sit right with their ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:31 AM
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I haven't seen women mock the men here. Although i see the men mocking the women. And without these women, it would be an echo chamber. The power is in the argument. The stronger your argument, the more power it has.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:18 AM
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What inequality?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 10:56 AM
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Some? Sure. All? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 06:59 PM
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I can't even imagine that. Still no most likely since i find those images very cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 06:33 PM
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I never looked for anything else. Relationship or nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 06:21 PM
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Eastern European breakfast. Coffee and cigarette
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 02:48 PM
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Nothing would make me make the first move
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 12:41 PM
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Not pilled, but it was a debunk of a study that said single women are more happy. There are single women who are happy, there are single women who are miserable. There are wen in relationships who are happy, there are women in relationships who are miserable. Still, it makes much more sense for women in relationships to be happy because less and less women stay in unhappy relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 12:04 PM
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Nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 11:41 AM
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Different women value different things. And the way those things are perceived is highly subjective. This is why dating is confusing, it's not a one size fits all. I'm going to say i value loyalty. My gypsy neighbor will say money and status among peers as loyalty seems very optional to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:12 AM
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Also, it's half marriages, not half people who marry. We sometimes hear about someone divorcing spouse #3. Statiatic will count 3 dovorces, but it's not 6 people involved, it's 4. And some of the spouses could be previously divorced themselves which in turn affects the number of people divorcing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 06:55 AM
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So, why the vitriol?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 12:29 AM
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Genuine, sir. It's just when people say stupid shit without thinking about the implications they tend to be annoyed when the unsatisfying implications are pointed out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 12:28 AM
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You think i lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 12:21 AM
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80/20 is bullshit. I only liked like 2-3% of guys i've encountered. Kind reminder that what i find good looking might not be considered good looking by the next woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 12:20 AM
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Yes, i am
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 12:18 AM
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The conversation switched to saving civilisation. Children perpetuate civilisation. Single mothers have children. Rest is just rambling or mental gymnastics
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 12:18 AM
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Not to me as i don't like those faces. So, the definition makes no sense and personal preference is not taken into account.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 12:17 AM
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That's a good looking, not a high value. Please don't change goalposts.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 12:07 AM
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I don't get it. The comment i originally replied to was concerned about civilisation. Continuation of the species. Single mothers produce children, hence a new cycle of life begins.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 12:06 AM
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But they save the civilisation. The genes are passed. The human race goes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 11:58 PM
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Let's say they are for someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 11:56 PM
1

Good thing single mothers pull their weight and maybe go beyond. Civilisation saved!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 11:50 PM
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But the civilisation. Gold up, you're going against your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 11:49 PM
1

Lmao, indeed improved. Quite a lot actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 11:49 PM
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They are too slim to my taste. I like em meaty and fatty. I can tell by the face.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 11:48 PM
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Ofc they do. How else do you think momogamy works?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 11:44 PM
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You leave the impression to be concerned about our civilisation which is related to low birth rates. Single moms did give birth so they assured the continuation of the civilisation. So they should be praised from this pov.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 11:43 PM
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Company sold to Renault. They make cheap cars now that do get you a bang for your buck. Sure, you can tell where parts are cheap, outer metal is thin, but you get decent features. Sandero was quite a hit in Europe and frankly, some new models look quite good.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 11:40 PM
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I said it's a possibility (out of many) to be a man catfining. Which is true considering your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 11:38 PM
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So you praise single mothers, eh? They single handedly save our civilization.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 11:36 PM
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One has a kid, others are too slim, rest wear a suit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 11:35 PM
1

Ah, memories. That's why the front was raised. Imagine doing this with a Golf 4
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 11:33 PM
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No, it means it's a possibility that human beings eat what you listed since there is at least a case of it happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 11:32 PM
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Nobody is devaluing anything when they reject someone. Whoever thinks that needs a serious checkup for anger management, delusion and drawing the wrong conclusions. And since that person is delusional, even more people will avoid them because we tend to avoid delusional people. Not a plesent company.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 11:32 PM
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??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 11:24 PM
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Yes, i drove a Dacia, my first car. The gear shift is the worst possible thing you can imagine. And you need muscle for steering.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 11:24 PM
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Yes, they miss that detail. And then ask for advice, resort to statistics, try to find the key to the riddle, a magic formula. It's not. It's just what various people like or rhyme with and a dose of luck to bump into each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 11:23 PM
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Those are the ones who chase "high value". Lmao, get a grip
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 11:17 PM
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But everyone complains about a restaurant if the food isn't good. What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 11:17 PM
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Nobody dates out of empathy. And i certainly wouldn't like a man to date me out of empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 11:16 PM
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Many men regret not having a goldigger? I'm confused, if there is gold to dig, someone will dig it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 11:13 PM
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I am ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 11:03 PM
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Not to my taste
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 11:03 PM
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Fit and wear a tailored suit. Instant turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 11:03 PM
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That is just not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 11:02 PM
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To not be fit or wear a tailored suit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 11:01 PM
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No, i just don't like fit men or men who wear a tailored suit
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 11:01 PM
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Some do that. Luckily it's a small portion of women and easy to filter.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 10:52 PM
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Funny, charming bad boys with a heart of gold, no gym goers, has a belly, doesn't wear a tailored suit or a watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 10:51 PM
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I sure am,
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 10:49 PM
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Ya rhunk it's easy finding someone who you click with, have similar goals, lifestyle, preferences? Get a grip
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 10:48 PM
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?? Are you ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 10:45 PM
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Dating as a good looking women? Easy af. Finding a suitable partner, hard af
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 10:44 PM
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I need proof of just one to show it happens. Why complicate things?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 10:38 PM
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Sir, you just made a post about how you catfished, lol. What do you mean lack of evidence when your post is the evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 10:33 PM
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I didnt scroll down, only saw one picture. She just needs a better style, but otherwise, she's fine. Indeed those guys are average, just not the average i would remotely consider.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 10:31 PM
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Scrolled down, i see what you mean now, but it just takes a better style. Those matches depend on what she wants. If i put my preference into the mix, none of those would be even remotely into consideration.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 10:27 PM
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D'oh, who tf wants to date someone they don't find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 10:23 PM
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It's a possibility that they are. I mean, look at you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 10:21 PM
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I am very confused by this. Whoever argues a gorgeous woman can't get dates is delulu. None of the matches looks good, imo. We know what shirtless pics are for and we roll our eyes if we are looking for a relationship. Such a weird "experiment", but please don't delete the post. I want to link it each time men complain that their matches ghost them. Maybe it was a man catfishing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 09:47 PM
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Eh, i come from Eastern Europe. People DIYed a lot. Fixed a lot of crap around the house. It was unusual to find someone who can't fix most things (apart from natural gas and heavy electricity work). Now it's no longer the case. They fix some things and women also started to fix some things. This gap used to be, but it's now closing. What i have an issue with is men throwing fixing like they actually fix everything by themselves. Which is untrue because let's face it, often times it requires two…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 09:30 PM
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They like me from the beginning or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 08:52 PM
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I know what i want and i want it yesterday. Worked so far, no "pump and dump" whatever that means.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 08:52 PM
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I'm talking about a very simple communist era car. Those were very easy to take apart. Perhaps things are different in your corner of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 08:50 PM
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Indeed, others would have been fastee
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 08:48 PM
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If the date is not asked for within the first 2 weeks of meeting each other, i am not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 06:35 PM
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I understood that reference simply because i hate that song and i find it obnoxious.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 06:27 PM
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As far as i've seen, batteries are still easy to be changed. But newer cars are definitely more complicated. Haven't looked inside the electric ones yet. It used to be that cars 20-30 years ago you could be completely disassambled in the parking lot with a no 10 and no 13 wrench. And i've witnessed it as a kid. Heck and my dad and grandpa did this in the yard. Yet, on newer cars, dad no longer fixes it himself aside from a battery change, oil change and air filter change. And although our parent…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 06:26 PM
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We used to make fun of and smack them behind their heads when people started talking shit. Now they are allowed to use the internet and there's no smacking.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 06:15 PM
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Not even all women. Somehow i find her vocals annoying. Not a fan of her songs either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 06:11 PM
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Again, men don't change infotainments in front of their apartments. "Fixing cars" - a well known activity pushed by men, doesn't really happen that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 05:57 PM
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Recall is one thing. It could be a recall for airbags. Are men going to change airbags in front of their apartments? What usually breaks in new cars is software. And this is confirmed by multiple dealerships and personal accounts.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 04:03 PM
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For new cars it actually is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 03:18 PM
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Clearly you don't work for VW dealership and don't reinstall software for cars with less than 7k km.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 02:58 PM
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Sure, explain this to me after 6 software reinstalls.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 01:18 PM
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It's not the washing asuxh it's the ironing. And excuse me for not having a dishwasher.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 10:58 AM
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It's lying mostly. We have one friend who worked overtime for a while to set up his business. But now he works normal hours. Where i come from, there are virtually no part time jobs, unless you want to do uber or similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 09:23 AM
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Yep, men don't really do it anymore and it's fine. Some cars are really complicated. Some guys don't like mechanical stuff, etc. But what rubs my gears is the claim that they fix it all while working overtime or insane hours like 80 hrs/week or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 09:12 AM
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I don't give a shit because in my family women did this as well. Including my mother, grandmother, aunt. Ya think people had workers laying around in Eastern Europe after ww2 or during communism? Get a grip.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 09:08 AM
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Our car is still in warranty. It would be stupid to even try to fix it since it would void the warranty.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 09:04 AM
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Nope since he is very slow. Please stop making up excuses. I think i know my parents way better than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 09:00 AM
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Ow i'm sure they overblowed how hard these fixings were. That until more women lived alone and had to fix them themselves. That's when they realised that it's not that big of a deal in many cases. Once you changed a pipe yourself, you can't accept "i fixed a pipe so you clean all the house and do laundry and cook" as an excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 08:59 AM
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She's a teacher. Same as my dad. They built it by themselves, only getting help with the foundation and pillars. There was no actual construction crew.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 08:54 AM
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I find it very funny how they list mechanical work. Sweetheart, with the new cars it's usually software that breaks a car. The electronics fail more often than mechanical parts. Plus, the manufacturers overcomplicate things in cars. On some models you need to remove the gas pedal in order to change the air filter. Plus, those who live in apartments don't really have the space where they can disassemble a car. They act like they take the engine out on a daily basis. And that's when you know they …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 08:52 AM
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*in irl You might wanna meet my mother. She did even more "man" jobs, including brick layering and adding a roof to a house.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 08:46 AM
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Or changing a power socket or fixing a sink. Especially with the amount of tutorials we have on YT. I even troubleshooted the issue with our previous car and "forced" the mechanic to change the part i was very sure it was faulty, despite that he said it couldn't be from there. I was right, car was fixed. Funny how 4 mechanics didn't know what the problem was.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 08:43 AM
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Yes, sweetheart. I do more than half of those things. Especially the heavy things that need to be carried since he had a surgery and is not allowed to lift heavy things. I work in IT, i can troubleshoot my own computer. The car is still in warranty and any fixing is done by the dealership where i call for schedule. I clean the yard when there is grass and we don't have a lawn.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 08:37 AM
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As much as he puts me first. It's a funny thing in our relationship. I put him first sometimes totally neglecting myself in the process. But he also does the same. The amount of times we have to remind each other to slow down, take a break, relax is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 08:32 AM
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Neah. If you're permanently online you might get to this conclusion. Sure, there are bad apples, but there are some fine men out there. This post reads misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 07:54 AM
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Have you ever met my aunt?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 04:06 PM
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Women drink almost as much as men here. Same with smoking.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:03 PM
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Yes. And i can't picture it any other way. That's perhaps why i hate tailored suits for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:58 PM
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In Eastern Europe/Balkans? No. You have slim woman - chubby man type of couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:49 PM
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Doesn't change the fact that creepy women don't get approached. Maybe equally creepy men approach them, idk. But not normal guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:46 PM
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Funny how you shame a woman who offered a hug and although you were nasty, she was friendly and supportive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:33 PM
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Funny how the creepy coworker i mentioned before was dumped by her bf once her behaviour became creepy, nobody approached her and people would ask what's wrong with her. But i can see the delusion if i switch seats with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:28 PM
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You think a creepy woman gets approached?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:04 PM
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Crazy look in the eyes only applies to men due to traditional social conventions? So why was my female colleague creeping everyone out from our floor?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 01:47 PM
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Staring, crazy look in the eyes, approaching a stranger when there's almost nobody around or it's dark outside and prolonging the conversation past asking for directions/time, overall clothes coupled with attitude. This applies to both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 12:21 PM
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It couldn't possibly be that i referred to a favourite RP talking point which is don't date single mothers because the child takes much of her time and she won't have time for you. Link this with OP who claims that children take just a little time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:10 PM
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You sure about that? You think that's what i meant?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 05:11 PM
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r/lostredditors
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 04:52 PM
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It's "giving up some of your time" only when the discussion is about the women. If the discussion is about child support, it's astronomical figures and decades of the man's life. If they cared so much about children, there would be queues at single mothers' doorsteps. And none of them would complain about dingle mothers not having the time for the new partner. After all, it takes only a bit of time to care for a child. This is why i can't take RP men seriously. The discourse changes depending on…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 03:51 PM
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God, i want one. But i refuse to spend that much on a bag.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 07:59 PM
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The poser sounds like a robot trying to learn how to be human. Or like a quest in a game. "Hang out with friends twice a week for 1,5 hrs" Reward: Socialised (title).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 06:35 PM
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Now i can't live without the stupid mute button 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 01:50 PM
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Came to say this. OnePlus is the shit. Never again buying Scamsung
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 01:37 PM
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Lmao, i guess there could be a book out there about this. I was talking about my life, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 11:18 AM
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And when you finally get to fix him, you hit the jackpot. Bad boys with a heart of gold are the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 10:56 AM
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Mine is a tailored suit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 06:52 AM
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My ick is iphone. Or wearing a watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 06:40 AM
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The difference is that OP states small not micro. And i am not willing to discuss off topic with anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 11:33 PM
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OP said small, not micro. Don't move goalposts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 11:21 PM
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Idk how these cases are treated in court. I think it also depends on the country's laws. How i see it regardless, it's 2 drunks having sex. I base this on the fact that they were both equally drunk and neither remembers the whole thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 09:57 PM
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Up your finger and tongue game. Why do we need a post for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 09:21 PM
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How many are on the basis of DV?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 04:00 PM
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"Darling, i understand that you are slightly unhappy that i cheated on you and now my secretary is pregnant, no need to divorce, it's a minor inconvenience".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 03:15 PM
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You know how some guys are more muscular naturally. I mean that's how they're born. Add some belly fat on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 07:39 PM
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As i see it irl, rip indeed. They all struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 04:58 PM
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Hey, thanks. Good luck to you!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 04:55 PM
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So maybe you can explain the sunglasses one, but that is *very" weird and neurotic. It reads autism if you ask me. refusing sunglasses in places where they are permitted
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 04:52 PM
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I met my husband when we were 18. He's everything i mentioned in my original comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 03:23 PM
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19,5 bmi, both men and hetero women liked my butt. I've been very slim all my life. I'm 34 and still fit into clothes from when i was 16. I can circle my wrist with my thimb and pinky and there's still spa e to rotate the wrist. And the pretty part, both men and hetero women called me beautiful. I just think i am pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:52 PM
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Funny, charismatic, extroverted, loyal, great in bed, naturally developed muscles with a belly, no baldness, no chest hair naturally. I'm pretty, slim, great ass, great cook, devoted, supportive, i can do/help with handywork, good with investments and good economics knowledge, good with paperwork, i have (and will inherit) 2 houses, 2 appartments and 3 condos.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 07:13 AM
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To me, it matters. It starts raising eyebrows after 22. It starts to be weird after 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 11:42 PM
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It's also what can not be explained through statistics of studies. I usually say "you can't bring math to petry". It's just feelings. I guess this is "true love" and finding "the one".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:37 AM
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Yes, i understand your point better now. Perhaps this is the ideal for many and this is what they seek. It's also the point where marriage makes sense although i can't explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:22 AM
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Yes. I know one, it's my cousin. And i am very judgy about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:16 AM
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A very interesting point! There would be one more example i'd like to add. Relationships where both give their best, there is no tab and use as fuel the sentiment of appreciation towards the SO + the sentiment of knowing your SO feels the same. And vice versa. Idk the prevalence of this relationship, it's the kind i have. IMO, it's the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:07 AM
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I'm refuting your claim that being focused on working or studying isn't a valid reason to withhold from dating. That is not my claim
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:31 PM
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And i also said: Choices have consequences. The consequence of not prioritizing dating early on is being a late bloomer with little to no experience. That is not a person i (and others like me) would want.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:12 PM
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I have a problem when people are dishonest with themselves and try to pass something as something else. Others literally have to devote all of their focus onto their careers or their education because they're only capable of focusing on one thing at a time. Then this is a case of "i have a single core brain amd can't do more than one thing at a time" it's not a case of "i didn't have time". It's not that they don't want to date, but dating isn't as high of a priority as education and career, in …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 09:54 PM
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I'm not sure i understand
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:38 PM
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Look at the answers. We have 3 major types of answers (mostly). Never be vulnerable. Anyone who's properly socialized knows that in a LTR, your partner is going to be supportive and an emotional prop when times are hard. Be vulnerable from the beginning. That's like it's date 2 and you start crying. There's a time and place for everything. The normal answers: see what type of person she is. How she behaves with others, what she says, what she tells you. Then slowly open up as she opens up as wel…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:17 PM
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The haircut ☠️☠️☠️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:01 PM
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I'm implying that dropping emotional bombs on 2nd date won't get you a 3rd date. There's a time and place for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:56 PM
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There is no other discipline where i come from. It's more information to learn, more difficult and more years than US. Now if the person simply did not want a relationship at all and really wanted to study, cool. It's not a time issue, it's a want issue. Then the answer is "i didn't want a relationship, i wanted to focus on studies". If the person wanted to date, they could either squeeze dating in their schedule or drop something on order to make time. If they didn't, then that's a "i am bad wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:55 PM
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When i say guys here aren't properly socialised, it's an understatement.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:40 PM
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The not being the same as me was in relation to dating only for marriage. You raised the same points as others raised: studies take much time. i got 2 college degrees while being in a relationship. It's possible. If it's not possible maybe that person overstretched with a career/college they don't have the intelligence for.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:01 PM
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Good thing now we have egalitarian relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:12 PM
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Radfem as in radical fem...radical pretty much means extremism.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 12:42 PM
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Lucky guess? About 10-15%
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 12:22 PM
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Radfems are coocoo
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:58 AM
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Ofc you didn't. None of ya'll are. You're all just average good people.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:57 AM
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That's the man the manosphere tries to pass as average. Influencers actively try to convince, and succeed, unwanted men that they are average. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC10732311/
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:45 AM
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Who they want doesn't want them. Because of what i said previously. There aren't many women who want an autistic man child with a pokemon collection who plays Baldur's gate. And that is not an average man. Idk what radfems scream that they want, i don't follow that sort of content. But it's the same for them. Ya got streetlight hair, sheven eyebrows and unshaven armpits and legs, unmadicated bipolar and an alcohol addiction. Not many men want you. And you're not average either. Get a grip
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:22 AM
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They're not compatible. It's a bad idea for them to form a relationship between them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:00 AM
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Up to a certain age, most people are paired up. What's left is a bunch of good dating options who may or may not be compatible sprinkled with bad dating options (addicts, losers, people with disabilities, outcasts). It's the same for women. Some are single because of obesity, mental illnesses, social outcasts. The equivalent of your average RP man is the average radfam woman. Guess what? They don't mix well.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 10:53 AM
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Please stop trying to pass losers, men with disabilities (psychological included) and social outcasts as average men. It's unfair to the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 10:37 AM
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If you also eliminate TikTok...that means you eliminate all sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 10:16 AM
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You missed my point. You can choose whatever. But if you choose not to date that person because of their condition, it's not immoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 11:37 PM
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If this doesn't work, i'm out of ideas. Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 11:35 PM
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Put a piece of paper or tissue and iron?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 11:00 PM
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Dish soap
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 09:48 PM
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I think the majority of men naturally have some charisma. Sure, the % of men with insane levels of charisma is not high. Honestly, i think men score higher for charisma and humor than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 07:08 PM
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Bro, if you stop making out in order to seriously ask me if you can grab my butt, i'm leaving. If you stop in order to fake ask me (tongue in cheek style which requires a dose of charm with a scoop of humor + a funny face) if you can grab my butt, you better also grab a tit as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:55 PM
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My husband uses me as an excuse when he doesn't want to go somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:27 PM
1

Ah, absolutely. That's all what compatibility is
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:09 PM
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Meanwhile that dude probably put in years of work to impress you on a first date Not always. Some are born with it. Like natural +100 charisma. The thing is, guys who don't have it don't understand why they need to improve because the naturally gifted one didn't need to improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:05 PM
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You mean to say that women can't accurately describe what causes them raw sexual arousal, so they use the most approximate concepts? Pretty much. Not only it's hard to put feelings into words, but you also need a scoop of creativity to try to describe them. Plus, idk if languages even have enough words to describe nuances. And i really mean it. I come from a non-EN country and we sometimes resort to EN words to describe something because the EN word has the correct nuance and there's no word in …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 05:58 PM
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It's fine with me and highly rncouraged.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 05:50 PM
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Context, my friend. Context. But yeah, if her tongue is deep down your throat, grab her ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 05:16 PM
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Both of you have very good points
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 04:46 PM
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Nor is it disrespectful or unkind or creepy. It's sexy, exciting, cheeky/cocky and definitely not boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 04:26 PM
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Absolutely! I know at least one who would have been horrified by that. This is why women's preferences vary and there's no magic formula. This is the essence of "be yourself" and "read the room".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 04:16 PM
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I addressed a part of your comment. So it's you who changed the subject. RP men have no accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 04:04 PM
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Not only this, but i don't think languages have enough words to describe all the nuances. It's also a matter of perspective. In this post, there's a lady who said she feels a "glow" at her G spot when she's aroused. I'd rather describe it as feeling the need to fill up a hole. (As you can see, i am not very creative). I'm pretty sure we describe the same feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 04:02 PM
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I remember your post when you freaked out after you grabbed her butt. I told you i'd think "what took you so long?"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 03:53 PM
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Irrelevant for the subject at matter. This was not my point and i already considered it to be true for the sake of the argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 03:33 PM
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I think it depends on the country, but in Eastern Europe/Balkans this is hapoening more often than you'd expect. Even in my case, i'm 19,5 bmi while my husband was 40,5 bmi. He lost a lot of weight due to some health issues, but on his last check up, the doctor said he's still in the obesity range. I disagree and i think he looks just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 03:23 PM
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just be useful enough to her that she wants to mate with you over others The construction workers are very useful to me. Yet i don't want to mate with any of them. You sure this is it? Don't you think it's reductive to say the least?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 01:35 PM
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Too much protein can cause breakage.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 01:30 PM
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What makes me entitled?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 12:06 PM
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Not only it's a huge challenge to understand a feeling and where it's coming from, but frankly, i don't think languages have enough words to encapsulate that many nuances.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 11:47 AM
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I think you nailed it. There needs to be a motivator that makes a woman take that leap of faith. And that motivator is a rather complex process that can't really be rationalised to the T.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 11:06 AM
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I never said to give up completely. I said accept either outcome. Whatever happens, happens. Move on and don't get stuck. Getting stuck is the downfall. People resort to that answer because they don't have a solution. Nobody has a solution. There is no solution. There is no list of do this and do that and you get what you want. There is no secret key to success.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 10:53 AM
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Because those factors that are out of your control make it difficult for the majority of people to want to spend their life with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 10:30 AM
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It would be immoral to bully someone with a condition. It's not immoral to not date someone with a condition. Thia applies to both sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 10:28 AM
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Accentance is liberation. If a relationship is still achieved, it's fine. If not, it's fine as well. It feels a little odd because we do all this effort to integrate and accept everyone into every facet of society regardless of factors they can't control like race, gender, disability etc. Integration, yes. Don't turn down someone with a condition if they can do their job. Don't exclude them from society if they can fit in. That's what integration is. What integration isn't: date them no matter w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 10:00 AM
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most men, autistic or not, are raised, trained, and conditioned to believe that women are their moral superiors Debatable, but i'm going to assume this is true. The moral aspect would be to feel sorry for what that person is going through. Which most women do. So not dating autistic men is not a disapproval of women's morality.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 09:53 AM
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It's not a blame issue. It's an acceptance issue. And acceptance doesn't require blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 09:30 AM
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Lmao, dude, you made the post. I already explained why i choose to be vague about some aspects. See, RP induced behaviour always reaches the surface. And it's a good thing. Women can see it and cut contact with that man. I'll leave you now, I pretty much explained what i wanted to explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 07:47 AM
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After a certain age it becomes weird. And it's not just young people seeing it weird, it's also old(er) people viewing it weird. Example: one of my husband's friends had a gf who was a virgin in her 30s. Hubby mentioned this to his parents and his parents' spouses. All 4 of them (people in their late 50s - early 60s) raised eyebrows and asked why and what's wrong with her. And indeed, something was out of the ordinary with her. I suspect she was aromantic or something. Barely hold hands with him…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 07:44 AM
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Hihihi, there's always a reason whether it can be put in words or not. Here's you trying to put it back on. But, this is one thing i won't disclose for a very very good reason. To prevent you or any other RP man from knowing the hints and how to mask it better. This way, i can save lots of women from a very big headache down the road.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 07:32 AM
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I think I may be responding differently to different people based on their tone. Now here's how i know this is a lie. Ypu became spiky with the feminist egalitarian lady who i know for a fact has very good, compassionate takes and never uses a bad tone. Just like i said: the mask drops. Sounds like a pretty common word that could be used anywhere from school to business to everyday life. No, not really irl in normal day to day life, especially in dating. Not to mention that i do not live in an E…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 07:09 AM
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Is...THAT what you understood?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:04 AM
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I think that what some people think 'RP' is, is actually just the grifters. Grifters are grifters, RP is RP. And feminism is feminism while misandry is misandry. Yet those 2 are confused a lot because of grifters. Hence i don't consider myself a feminist so i don't accidentally get bundled up with misandrists. You, on the other hand, keep the RP label. I have not attempted to put on a face of any kind for any purpose. Ow you did. I saw other comments as well. A polite, immutable, fake masculine …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:02 AM
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It could be a PUA, it could be a genuine charming man. This is why i correlate this with the other gactors at play. Charming + asks what i bring to the table = 👎 Charming + easy going, fun to be around = 🫦 I've seen self declared PR men spit lots of crap around here. Ask your grifters why RP narrative is so different. Also, plenty of RP men are egocentristic so it kinds checks out. Anyone who expects more from women is an RPer now. Okay. Well, thank you for your answer. Have a nice day. Aaand th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:00 PM
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RP men being charming or charismatic?!? They wouldn't be RP in that case. Something like how lucky i am to meet him or things like this. Or telling me how there's a line of girls waiting to date him. Accountability, complaining about how women aren't what they used to be, beta, alpha, sigma, men lead, men created this world
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:40 PM
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First i'd look for possible hints: fit, keeps a cool mask like emotionless or stoic, lack of charisma, charm, humor and wit. Then I'd look for nagging, backhanded compliments, questions like what do i bring to the table. Also, i'd be wary of his language if he uses any manoshpere buzz words.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:20 PM
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I like bad boys with a heart of gold. Charismatic, funny, witty, with street knowledge. Who has sexual experience and is interested in a Lady and Tram kind of dynamic
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:00 PM
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It's not a revenge fantasy. I am one of those women who can't be with a late bloomer. Even had a bf kind of like this so i know I don't like the type. I explained in a different comment, bur i'll say it again. It was a video of Miley Cyrus and ahe said that the moment she had sex, ahe couldn't put the Hannah Montana wig on. I understand her. That being said, i know for a fact that other women would be ok with a late bloomer. Especially if they are late bloomers themselves. But one thing is certa…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 09:40 PM
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Yes. I am one of those women. I saw a video with Miley Cyrus and she said that as soon as she had sex, she couldn't put the Hannah Montana wig on. It didn't feel right. I understand her. I had 2 virgin guys. None gave me an orgasm. Married the first guy who gave me an orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 09:27 PM
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Same thing i heard from other guys. Had a girl with experience for the first time. Very patient, gave many tips on what to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 09:00 PM
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Get a gold digger who agrees to make a child. Pour what's best from you in that child.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 08:21 PM
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Your point is that my narrative is discouraging them to improve. My point is: how can they improve if they don't know what to improve?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 07:07 PM
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Irrelevant to the topic at hand, which is "didn't have time to date, i focused on studies".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 06:08 PM
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How can someone change their circumstance if they don't acknowledge what the issue is?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 06:05 PM
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?? He didn't use shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 03:50 PM
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Surw rhey do. They have a job and many of them have gfs, are getting married, and have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 03:10 PM
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If a career prevents you from having a normal life, it's a bad career or you're not fit for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:50 PM
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I feel like school is easier on the US. I had a colleague who had to transfer to the US for a year. He said the things he learnt in school there were 2 years behind from what we learnt at school. Perhaps high school knowledge here is like college there. Also i think college is 2 years in the US, but we have the Bologna system (3 years) in EU.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:49 PM
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In a few edge cases. Now look at this sub. Ya think that's the case here?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:40 PM
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I understand not everyone is the same as me. But i don't understand the need to lie to yourself about the motive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:39 PM
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Then should have picked an easier career, not stem.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:38 PM
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There's always time if you really want to. I just don't like dishonesty
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:37 PM
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My points derived from a comment. In none of my comments do i address the OP directly, else i would have commented under OP. As you can see i commented under a comment addressing things in that comment. It does matter who they blame. Because afterwards, they discover the shithole that PR is and start talking about accountability of women without being accountable for themselves. if you haven't had romantic or sexual experiences by a certain age, you're either irredeemable, or a less appealing pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:35 PM
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Still doesn't address any of my points
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:25 PM
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It's nuance, not semantics. Again i met my now husband in high school. We both graduated high school, passed a difficult exam, went to college, graduated. After that i entered the second college, worked throughout the 2nd year, planned the wedding in the 3rd year. We both dated to marry hence we are now husband and wife. Also, we met daily. And we are not the only couple in this situation in our circle of friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:24 PM
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I worked (commuted) while in college. Didn't prevent me to see my then bf (now husband) daily. And i mean daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:20 PM
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I mostly agree with the OP. A late bloomer is not my cup of tea. And it's never a bad thing to own your mistakes. Else, you don't learn anything from them. Ya think it's better to blame women, society, the dog, the birds, a political party, chem trails or the moon for the fact that you lack romantic skills?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:18 PM
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My point exactly. It's not healthy to delude yourself. You start believing that crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:15 PM
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You hold hands in the park at 15 and share a bottle of coke. You don't need academics and a stable financial situation for foolish teenage romances. Hormones override values more often than not. If he believes in dating only for marriage, he's not my type. But, again, it's not a case of "i focused on studies". It's a case of "my religion/values prevent me from dating if it's not for marriage". I have an issue just with the lame excuse "i didn't have time, i focused on studies".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:14 PM
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Is it now? How often do you think it happens? Parents died and you take care of your younger siblings - how often?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:09 PM
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More often than not, it's just an excuse. There really aren't many male teenagers raging with hormones due to age who aren't interested in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:07 PM
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No need to save face over the internet. Be honest. "I couldn't figure out, i had really bad teeth before braces, i had a huge nose before rhynoplasty, i had social anxiety". It's fine. You know what was going on and you're not deluding yourself with "i focused on studies" but actually really wanted to date. Else, you start believing this crap and delude yourself even more + risk sounding dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:04 PM
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Then say "i didn't feel like it". My issue is with using "i focused on my studies" as an excuse. As if studies prevented you to date, but you wanted to date deep in your heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 01:57 PM
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Is Informatics (IT) part of stem?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 01:10 PM
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I am concerned you'll go on a killing spree one day and hurt innocent people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 12:51 PM
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Whether or not most stem guys didn't have gfs in high school is debatable, but i'll take what you say as truth. My point is they didn't have a gf not because they focused on studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 12:50 PM
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It was an advice. Take it or leave it, it's up to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 12:40 PM
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Ow it did happen to you. But i don't think you are normal. You have severe psychological issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 12:36 PM
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Where is the incentive to be decent or be better ? One's self desire to be a good human being. As for you, get help. And a fist full of medicine.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 12:23 PM
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No, you haven't. LOL is not addressing anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 12:20 PM
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You understand that all the women i talked about who got a degree AND had a social and romantic life are partnered with *men" who also got a degree AND had a social and romantic life?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 12:20 PM
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That is disgusting and asshole behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 12:10 PM
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Are you going to address any of my points?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 12:05 PM
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I am norml, average. It's perfectly reasonable to be able to graduate high school and also date. To graduate college and also date. Multiple people around me did it as one. Even getting a phd while working and having a small child.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:46 AM
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Congrats! Idk either. We also have married friends who met in high school. They also graduated high school, college, master's degree, one of the girls was a valedictorian, also enrolled in Erasmus with job prospects to work for the embassy in another country. Another girl even has a phd. I am baffled by this "focus on studies". If it needs THAT much work for a college degree that others are able to obtain without sacrificing their social life, romantic life, etc, then maybe you shot too far and …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:29 AM
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TL;DR
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:24 AM
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I never understood the entire "i focused on my studies" narrative. I met my husband in high school. We both graduated high school, went to Informatics faculty, graduated. After that i enrolled to a second college, economy. Worked all throughout 2nd year. Then for the 3rd year i didn't work, but planned the wedding. I graduated highschool, passed a difficult exam, got 2 college degrees, worked and planned a wedding all while meeting my then bf/fiancee (now husband) every day by the age of 25. Idk…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:12 AM
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0,1% tazarotene currently. Used 0,1% adapalene (Differin) and 0,1% tretinoin in the past. If you want to start, check r/tretinoin
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:42 AM
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I find it fun. I'll never turn down Monopoly, Catan, Cards Against Humanity or Poker. Depending on the mood, maybe even a game of Chess.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 09:50 AM
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In his head? A billion times.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 09:45 AM
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The power of lasers and tretinoin 😌. Magic, i'm telling you. Takes off 5 -7 years off your face.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 08:02 AM
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Omg i am obsessed with that song
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 07:40 AM
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Omg, i love Catan. Still, my all time favourite is Monopoly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 07:14 AM
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Chapeau
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 10:20 PM
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If she likes you, she'll wonder wtf took you so long. If she likes you, but she's the withdrawn type, it could be too much. Personally, i'd wander wtf took you so long.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 10:07 PM
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Both are favoured. Sometimes one, sometimes the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:32 PM
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I don't think they are aware that the screamers and those women aren't in the same social circle. Sometimes not even in the same country or time zone. The likelihood of them meeting and her to ask for empathy are close to 0.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 07:03 PM
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That's not luck or rare. It's literally what i see around me as well. They meet, they fall in love, they build a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:48 PM
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Yet, those are the motivators that snowball most relationships. You want to make things work because you love your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:37 PM
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This! The way feelings are neglected is astonishing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:25 PM
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Post a light hearted rant on daily thread. Let's see.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:58 PM
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The tone. Because men wait too much, bottle it up and when they rant, they explode.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:50 PM
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The problem is the attitude towards the problem. Rant with humor, not jaded. Don't put everyone in the same basket. There are bad apples, golden apples and everything in between. Understand that you might have a problem: a face only a mother can love (Charles of Habsbourg type), or mental illness or physical deformities. That's tough to be in that position, ngl. It's a big chance you might not find anyone. Then, talk to friends. My husband has 2 friends who struggle to find someone. They talk op…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:44 PM
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Perceptive. Good description. Indeed. You have massive men, but are gentle giants. Short, skinny women who are terrifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:07 PM
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Guys are not a hivemind. And PPD is not representative for all things in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 02:35 PM
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Good addition: eyes and microexpressions. That's how we got the resting bitch face. Too bad, some people call this "mindreading" instead of what it is: "reading the room". I've met a few as well. Most memorable is an ex coworker. She was very creepy. Tiny, skinny girl, just skin and bones, but would freak out everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 02:32 PM
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It's mostly in the eyes for me. Even when someone links a picture, it's always the eyes. Some people see it, some don't, some see it only sometimes. This is also part of the reason why some guys don't have any luck. A disturbed mind is seen through the eyes. It's how you see "personality" in pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 02:12 PM
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en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sylvia_Seegrist We avoid creepy people for a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 02:06 PM
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Yes, it has a generic component to it. Pic 5 is creepy, ngl. Yet, many pics from that era are creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:59 PM
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Kinda true. I think i might need to reflect about this more. Good food for thought. Pic 3: I do setup rules. About me, my life, my expectations. Also, i have rules that i go by when choosing to keep in touch with someone. You gossip, we can't be friends. But i guess this ia valid for multiple people. It's not something out of the ordinary. Pic 5: Also, i was raised very modestly. I'm not dreaming about mansions. We have money, but you wouldn't guess from the outside. I'm also an introvert and to…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:35 PM
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3 or 5
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:18 PM
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Yes, talking about wtf i want when i want. You do the same. You reply to me because you want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 12:16 PM
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You doubt that social interaction is healthy? Ow my, makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 12:12 PM
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And healthy ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 12:07 PM
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I'm confused because i know cases where both parties know about the past. They are getting married in a few months.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 11:54 AM
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I comment about wtf i want when df i want.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 11:50 AM
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It's funny coz one of my husband's friends is getting married with his ex-gf's ex-bff. They know all the crap from the past about each other. Including meeting ex-bfs and ex-gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 11:24 AM
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E expect some people to find me boring and others to find me interesting. It's normal that not all people get along with each other
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 11:15 AM
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Never had any of those. Just sandpaper sex and i would dump the guys afterwards. My husband is the only man who ever made me orgasm. Actually, the only person since i also do not masturbate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 11:04 AM
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I am very confused by this. My husband knows my entire sexual past. Am I missing something?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 10:54 AM
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Married woman here. In high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 10:48 AM
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Sloped shoulders?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:20 AM
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From the second article OP posted.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:35 AM
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I'd be very tall and very skinny. Kinda rich and perhaps bald. I don't think i'd drawn in women because i would need more witty comebacks and charm. Plus the kind of men (women in this experiment) would see me as a nerd lacking street knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 10:41 PM
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Indeed, but some qualities are non-negotiable. As it should be. Those should not be sacrificed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 05:56 PM
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What sacrifices?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:33 PM
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Yet, they want 18 year old female teenagers to find 30+ male adults attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:39 PM
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I know there are. They don't know that there are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:21 PM
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Please stop spreading disinformation. Retinol, especially tretinoin, is studied, safe and efficient.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:13 PM
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You have men who never even held a woman's hand. Their sexual experience is none or close to none. They want someone with a similar experience as them and to live their adolescence through their partner. Also, Ephebophilia. Also, there are more chances a teenage girl is more naive and easier to groom. Or has less money and can be bought.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:08 PM
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Ofc, people look at her because she has a nice soul, not because she looks put together https://youtube.com/shorts/gUXPSKpXS4I?si=snyf4XeecQVRPw8e
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 02:00 PM
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Everyone is mesmerized by someone who looks put together. Even a dressed up goat will draw admiration.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 01:32 PM
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Damn women and their (checks notes): face creams, bras and actually knowing how to dress to look put together. Let's say everything is done for men's attention 🙄. Why aren't you using cosmetics? Why aren't you also dressing in a flattering manner? What's stopping you from being put together?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 01:23 PM
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Could be. Yeah, that one is a big drawback. Frankly, the chances for him to find someone are very, very, very slim.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 11:26 PM
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I read some of the comments on his post and people are right. Hair does a big disservice, clothes are really eww imo. But the posture! He needs to fix it asap. Yet, what really made me say "oh, hell no" was the look in his eyes. Disturbed, a bit crazy, lost, somewhat creepy. Idk if this is part of looks (it can be considered psychical/personality as well), but yeah. Add "no crazy eyes" on my list.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 11:20 PM
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I thought i wasn't very picky when it came to looks. Scratch that. But, frankly, looks are one of his least problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 10:51 PM
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Ro
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 08:39 AM
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I live on the opposite side. Near a big ass NATO base. But i do have faith in NATO, i know the border is under surveillance.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 08:07 AM
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We're in the same boat
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 07:57 AM
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Is it a NATO country?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 07:50 AM
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Porn addict talking about morals.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 05:30 PM
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Because data is often times misinterpreted, some studies are biased and frankly, statistics can't always paint the reality accurately. Reality is multi dimensional, a study is unidimensional. It simply can't capture the complexity of a situation/relationship. And i always say: love is poetry. If you want to bring math to poetry, you set yourself to fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:02 PM
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I think in writing, they just throw one word to encapsulate multiple concepts because people tend to want a shorrer message. Let's be real, it's not fun to type, especially on a phone. Plus, people don't read huge blocks of text.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 01:35 PM
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It means mostly having similar tastes, preferences, and activities. If one likes clubbing, they will want to go with their partner, but the partner hates clubs. This is an incompatibility. One likes asian food, the other likes mexican food. Ordering and cooking food becomes a challenge. Another incompatibility. One likes comedies, while the other likes horror movies. How are they going to watch a movie or go to the cinema. Again, incompatibility. Both need to be on the same page. Else, they won'…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 01:08 PM
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I would do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:14 AM
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I'd say around 60%.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 06:20 PM
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Yes. Also, "i've seen many women" is code name for "i watch rage bait videos in a compulsive manner and i need podcasters to form an opinion and put it in my head".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 06:08 PM
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This guy worded it better than me. All credit to him. https://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/Jx8KaAJn6E
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 05:57 PM
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The infight for power will be insane i assume.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 03:06 PM
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I wonder how things would be after Putin's death.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 02:46 PM
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Each and every one is entitled to trust whoever they want. If they want to talk to a tree, so be it. It will be a problem if they expect the tree to answer 😶
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 02:42 PM
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Seems like she's an actress, influencer, CEO, podcaster who went on dates to find love, but also noticed a decrease in food spending. She seems obsessed with money as her company is called Your Rich BFF. Also, she's worth 3+ million $. This is not your average girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 01:22 PM
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Post the link for the article.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 01:10 PM
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Again, it's nuance and ulterior motive. Sometimes people rush to call someone a pick me, but overall, there are more cases when the pick me label is deserved than misattributed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 12:56 PM
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I explained here: https://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/aSI7FGSsyB Hint: it's nuance and ulterior motive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 12:48 PM
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Nuance and ulterior motive is what makes a woman a pick me or not. And yes, Chernobyl is a masterpiece. That quote about lies is true and it shook me since i came from an excommunist country neighboring Ukraine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 12:31 PM
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Pick me is used in many cases. All cases where a woman acts better than anyone, snobbish, obnoxious just to shit on other women. Nuance needs to be taken into account. It's the difference between that small sweet girl who likes anime and that hulkish, jaded woman who just says she likes anime (but actually doesn't), unlike those pesky women who are inferior to her because they like Chernobyl series.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 12:04 PM
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Pick mes promote sleeping with married men and shitting on the wives. This is pretty much thinking they are better. I hold men to the same standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 11:55 AM
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Pick mes promote sleeping with married men and shitting on the wives. Do you think this behaviour should not be called out?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 11:52 AM
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Yes. We make them accountable for thinking they are above everyone. I thought accountability is needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 11:43 AM
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I think this is what many women here mean when it's talked about money. Minimum wage in college or immediately after when you grab any job that lets you gather experience in your domain? It's fine. But still being stuck in that position 10 years later...it looks bad. I think it's similar to hotels when you go on vacation. In your youth, you'd sleep anywhere, even share a bathroom with 10 other people. With time, you want a better accommodation. Not a 5* hotel, but maybe 2-3*.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 07:06 AM
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It depends on age. Let me give you my example: In high school i dated the whole range: guys who come from mkney. A lot of money. And guys who's family was dirt poor. At that age it didn't matter. My now husband, then bf had a similar situation as me. Then 2008 hit and his family lost everything. We were in college by then and the financial situation still didn't matter. I knew my family had another apartment where we could stay, we just needed jobs. Now i'm close to 35. If I were looking for som…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 06:49 AM
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That responsive desire is so accurate. I didn't know it had a name. And indeed, it checks out in my case. I need to be charmed in order to start having that desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 06:23 AM
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When i say some guys view women as aliens...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 06:45 PM
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Already married
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 04:28 PM
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But haven't you heard that around here allllll men have huuuuge incomes and are breadwinners and rich and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:22 PM
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I don't give a shit about any of those. I want charisma and humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:58 PM
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Or go even further and say they can pay a housekeeper and a prostitute. So they don't need a woman at all. Then proceed to chase women and complain that they get ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:54 PM
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Pretty much
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:28 PM
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Woman here. The insults vary: hypergamy, slut, whore, hoe, land whale, gold digger, lizard brain, mud shark, bitch,
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:08 PM
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Guess it depends a lot on location, but idk any tattoo places that work late at night (presumably the late hour at which one would leave a bar or a club).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 12:30 PM
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Id's say personal charm, charisma and humor
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 05:35 PM
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Just mentioned mythology and left it there
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 05:24 PM
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Rather ask if a woman ever loved em, even platonically
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 04:50 PM
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Question for rp men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 04:42 PM
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Yesterday we had a guy base his ideas on mythology. Disney sounds better.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 04:36 PM
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Omg, this. I'm strong for my size as well. I can't overpower my husband if i use both hands and he keeps a hand behind his back. If i bump into him, it feels like hitting a rock while he feels like a fly hit him. Sometimes i even lose balance, once i almost fell.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 03:17 PM
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So a few women out of a huge line. It's great to hear that just a small % of women do this. It would be a huge problem if this was happening often and was done by many. As you described, it just means that there are only a few outliners. Second point i'd like to make is that perhaps you never went to a highschool where the default smoking place for students is the girl's restroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 01:50 PM
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Then link the article if you have better information. The article posted in OP doesn't say anything about any bail amount.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 01:19 PM
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Articlr doesn't state any bail amount. Pulling information out of your ass is damaging. Just like false rape accusations are damagining.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 01:09 PM
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It's an elusive term that is parrited around, everyone has their own definition and none thought about it themselves, but the guys in the podcasts mention it, so it must mean something. Just like accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:32 PM
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In the 30's it's kind of too much. Maybe it happens to a handful of people. In their 20's, sure. It happens to many. I got police questioning me and my then bf (now husband) what classes did we skip. We were 24.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:42 PM
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That's what you get when you are pushed to get married fast, young, without proper vetting, not take feelings/love/tingles into account and divorce is frowned upon.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 06:09 PM
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Whoever even thinks about being a SAHP, especially without being married, should first read this post as well as the numerous updates from this lady (click on her profile to see the updates): https://www.np.reddit.com/r/AITAH/s/6ejpHYdUdH
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:48 PM
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I love Volvo
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:51 PM
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Can't wait to have a dishwasher. I have a semi functional kitchen that is better than the previous one, but still kind of bad. Our new house is being built and i'll have a somewhat normal kitchen. Smaller than what i wished for, but hopefully functional.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 10:28 AM
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Ya know, i've been with my husband for 16 years. We never had the exclusive/monogamous discussion. If I went out with another man in a romantic setup, would you consider it ok because although married, we never had the monogamous discussion and suddenly I feel polyamorous? Coz sure as hell that would be considered cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 07:12 AM
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Didn't work when i said what I want (and perhaps other women want the same thing, not all of course). I was accused of wanting a dance monkey or comedian. What i think you neglect to take into consideration is the rage of a man who doesn't have any or part of the qualities i list.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 07:06 AM
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This is quite good advice. And i'm glad women started doing this in order to protect themselves from men with red flags. Grups like Are We Dating The Same Man might have saved a few women the headache of dating bad men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 06:53 AM
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Many people have twisted minds. It's just in.cels out themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 11:19 PM
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Ow that's awful, i'm sorry. Idk what's up with this guy, he does have a twisted mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 11:13 PM
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Not even. A few were really pretty, but others were really meh. One in particular has Hermione Granger hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 11:01 PM
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Guys's good looking and social skills are as high as they get. Idk how the hell he picks them. Or how he finds them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 10:58 PM
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I've been in a 16 year relationship. We fought a lot in the first 4 years, not proud of all this. We cursed, yelled, everything under the sun short of physical violence. That many women at the height of their emotions can say the most awful things to a man and take advantage of his vulnerabilities, and wont think much about it and go with their day like nothing happened. But not this. I never took advantage of the things i knew about him. Also never picked on things from the past. But none of us…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 10:56 PM
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Very similar to what one of my husband's friends stories. Only mention is that the guy i'm talking about mostly had somewhat obnoxious and quite frankly hard to like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 10:46 PM
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Same reason a face mask put on at home is not the same as a mask at the spa/derm. Atmosphere, people, cocktails, music mixed by a professional, being with other people in the group. It's an experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 10:38 PM
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Spill the tea. I am actually curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 10:34 PM
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But once they research, it shatters the sand castle. How will they moan and whine that they are oppreased/victoms/not respected/whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 05:14 PM
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Not only Unacceptable behaviour (in public or not), but that's not going to make someone want a relationship with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 12:22 PM
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I never rejected someone in an embarrassing way. However, i had one case where the guy started screaming at me in the middle of a very crowded street. Also, he wouldn't let go of my hand. I really hated this encounter not only because i don't enjoy being screamed at or pulled by the hand, but i also hate scenes in public. So embarresing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 12:03 PM
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Yeah, life's tough for most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 11:21 PM
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Yes, there is empathy. I often mention my husband's 2 unlucky friends. I feel for them. Good jobs, house, car, but no gf. I know the reason behind their lack of success, but there's not much i can do to help them. I feel for them, though and i hope they will find someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 11:12 PM
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No, hence I used the AutoMod. Because my intention was to raise a different question, not directly answer. After all, men are very intelligent, they can figure out a silly woman's response.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 10:36 PM
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Maybe 10% of women do the casual sex, ons, etc. And like what? 0,5% of these women go for celebs. Why focus on 0,05% of women? First of all, I commented under AutoMod for off topic. Because although i did provide an (indirect) answer to your question, i also raised another question.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 10:30 PM
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I am so confused by this. Are they out of ideas for fearmongering? First of all, the whole idea of casual sex is so inflated. Maybe 10% of women do the casual sex, ons, etc. And like what? 0,5% of these women go for celebs. Why focus on 0,05% of women? Like, that's negligible amount of women. I really don't get this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 09:58 PM
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Kind of, i think you're close. But when you do succeed in fixing him. Oh, boy! Best man ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 04:04 PM
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Doesn't negate the fact that he can come with witty comebacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 09:46 AM
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We'll use big fonts
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 11:21 PM
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It's ok, we can type.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 11:16 PM
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This is so sad. I hope people will come to their senses and ditch this practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 10:51 PM
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I think the only reason they still exist is old customs. I hope the practice will stop in the near future
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 10:26 PM
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It does feel like they think only really hot women deserve a good treatment and then whine that average women also want the same treatment. "She's less hot, she should be happy with scraps". Thank god, i think ess and less average women would put up with this bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:58 PM
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Unfortunately, yes. Arranged maggiages exist 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:54 PM
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Poor manlet or not, but he has his way with words. That usually increases attractiveness. A lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:44 PM
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Wish i saw that warning before entering the sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:33 PM
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Not russian, but close enough. Because everyone fixed their own shit in the previous generations so skills were passed to the children. Usually the father fixed things, but almost always kept a child around to keep the light, bring this and that. Invitably, kids learn how to fix things. Idk how the trend is in Russia, but my guess is that usually the male child was summoned to help fix things. Just how the female child was summoned to help cook. The best thing is that i see the trend of fathers …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:18 PM
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I'd argue that a neighbor can fix some shit for a bottle of vodka.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:10 PM
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A misandrist? No pros. Why would you date a misandrist?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 01:23 PM
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Then why even bother asking if you already have a strong biased opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 01:09 PM
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Sir, that's a misandrist. You asked about a feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 12:42 PM
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Heels were invented for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:48 AM
2

Not in my case
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 05:55 PM
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A (translated) saying: you eat a sack of salt with someone before you get to know them. People show themselves with time and by being in a life situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 03:53 PM
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30+
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 03:51 PM
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I often say that the truth, but i think it extends to reality as well, is not flat, but more like a cube. It has more faces depending on the angle you look at and multiple (sometimes antithetical) things can be valid at once. Usually i provide the example of birth. Birth is a wonderful, unique thing for everyone (as in each person's birth is unique, you don't get to be rebirthed). Also, it's a bloody mess that most people find repulsive and gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:47 PM
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There is no correct answer when choosing. It's a preference, not a quiz test. Also, i already addressed why this is not dodging the question, but an honest answer. You're just stonewalling because of the crab mentality. This will not get you anywhere. Bye
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:33 PM
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Well, if OPs themselves say those scenarios are based on real life, who am i to say they don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:29 PM
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Why do you think it's wrong to try to help someone in desperate need of help. I think the crab mentality is what keeps some men from succeeding. Whatever insight i (or other women) provide might not be helpful for OP necessarily, but another lost soul might find it useful. It's a kind thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:25 PM
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Those questions are not that hypothetical. Even the OPs say in comments that the scenarios are based on people they know or situations they know.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:19 PM
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On the contrary. I think it adds a lot. We have lots of men here who aren't properly socialised, outcasts, can't read the room, lack life experience. Providing insights, personal accounts, preferences is what builds a lil bit of life experience which they desperately need. Else, you get false ideas like the hivemind.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:18 PM
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Then i starve. Not the first time i chose to starve (literally) because the food options are bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:09 PM
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Then i starve. Or find something else. Or make my own food. Or order. Or whatever. This is the insight i was talking about. It's like you don't want these guys, who are in desperate need of help, to be helped. And providing an honest answer about what i would do in such a scenario might help them. You have a crab mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:06 PM
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Random words would be "sky" if you're asked if you want chicken or fish. Saying "Neither, i want pork" is not random.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 11:52 AM
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It's not dodging the question. Dodging the question would be not answering the question. Or saying random words. Saying neither of the options is answering the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 11:43 AM
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I think that not only i answer the question (the answer being neither of the options), but i also iterate a better option than the 2 presented. Thus, i provide a more complex answer with more insight.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 11:07 AM
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I don't see why this is a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 10:55 AM
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Idk what is IOI
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:35 AM
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A and B are perhaps bad choices. If there's a possibility for a different better option or no choice at all, C makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:34 AM
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That's just female nature. Hypergamy. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:26 AM
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Although i agree from a citizen pov, from a city planner pov i disagree. City planning is for optimizing the space, optimizing traffic and other rules like building height, even colors, overall aesthetics. It's a similar situation with highways. Those are not built for ordinary people to go on vacation. Those are built for businesses and logistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:22 AM
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Yet, it infuriates them when they are sent outside to touch grass smh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:06 AM
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Does anyone else have the feeling that some men on this sub are like aliens who arrived on Earth a few hours ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:01 AM
2

Nice way to put themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:11 AM
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Both
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:03 AM
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And IF we turn into humans without feelings and thoughts, they'll complain that we're soulless bitches who need to be told what to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:01 AM
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If the boxes that matter are ticked and there's chemistry, yes. Even if it's chemistry, i'm not going to date a violent criminal for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:40 AM
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Wouldn't even date him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:34 AM
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Or a Willy Warmer
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 09:15 PM
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CBD oil
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:05 PM
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What i find awesome about men is how they act when they are faced with good homemade food. Hovering the plate, happiness in every bite / spoon, the satisfaction after they finish.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:44 PM
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Someone needs to post a statistic about the spike in google searches for bear statistics. Bears, so hot right now!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:26 PM
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And many men call themselves breadwinners when they make 5% more than the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:28 AM
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Neah, he's one of the good ones and doesn't need to be reminded of what he needs to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:04 AM
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Yes, there's like a bare minimum that each woman has a bar set for, but it's not money per se that triggers tingles.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:37 AM
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And here comes charm and humor. And those can trigger the tingles and all that comes with it. Yet, some men here insist that it's money and status.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:07 AM
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I had a look at r/AsOneAfterInfidelity It's a sub for couples where one of them cheated, but they are trying to reconcile. They are the most invested to find out the "why" and did the most work to find the "why". I've seen it boils down to having mental issues, usually BPD, being a sex addict, egoism and not thinking about your spouse at all and simply because they could. Also, it appears that there's nothing that the betrayed spouse could do to prevent cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:02 AM
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The content they consume makes them neurotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:48 AM
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I think i already answered
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 07:53 PM
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Not accepting cheating doesn't mean owning
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:47 PM
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Nu-uh. I don't own anybody and nobody owns me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:41 PM
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Add problem solving skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:43 PM
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No chest hair. Like naturally no hair on the chest
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:39 PM
5

There's boundaries and there's "let".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:36 PM
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What do you mean by "let"? Do you own her to "let" her do things?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:29 PM
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Because if she's going to a gas station at night most probably she's going alone, not to mention it could be in a sketchy place. While the trip to Mexico is with a group and they are going to public, populated places. Idk why this is even a question. I thought men are the logical gender, they could have figured this out by themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:03 PM
1

Boy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:42 AM
0

What? Vetting based on compatibility? I think that's the best strategy for a long beautiful marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 11:41 PM
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More like, whatever those people have, i don't want it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 11:28 PM
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Haven't i said she's stupid?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 11:14 PM
1

Idk what kind of kids you have there, but things in Eastern Europe / Balkan area are quite different.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:14 PM
2

The same
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:02 PM
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If ass grabbing counted, you'd get to 100%. I had this happen to be both as a teenager and adult. And it was done even by literally 11-12 year boys. Kids!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:01 PM
2

30 (bad) - 70 (good)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 07:57 PM
1

Sometimes we share a second cocktail, but that is for special occasions. My husband had a surgery and he has to watch the alcohol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 07:57 PM
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So once upon a time a few girls got tipsy on a school trip. 2 of them decided to confess to their crushes. 1st was a fat rock fan girl, she just went straight to the basically opposite type of guy than her, told him he likes him. He let her down gently, she came back, drank a bottle of vodka then threw up on the drapes then proceeded to cry all night. 2nd was model material, beautiful face and body, but very stupid. She called her crush, which was a friend of her older brother and the guy let he…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 07:55 PM
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Never been a man hater. I know there are bad individuals out there, but there are also so many good guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 07:35 PM
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No. I dated the whole range from dork to bad boy, from shorter than me to tall, from bald to long thick hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 07:32 PM
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Yeah, thanks. Not the case. A cocktail split between 2 people just to be tipsy, dance and have fun is a long way from AA
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 07:20 PM
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Don't really care. If they want to play sugar daddy and those women want to play sugar baby, hey, everyone gets what they want. I don't think it affects western women at all. It's not like women flock to date them, so nothing is lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 07:19 PM
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Not every, but most.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:49 PM
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Married my bad boy. He wants me to be smart, opinionated and ambitious. He also wants me to have high regard for myself, never be a doormat and wants me to be happy. He pulls his weight at home and i can always count on him. Yes, these exist as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 05:16 PM
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I was confused at first, but then the puzzle made sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:35 PM
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Idk, i think nothing beats intimacy, having someone you can count on in your low points, pillow talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:13 PM
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Ow, i see you are a man of culture. Good, good
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:01 PM
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https://www.psychologicalscience.org/news/made-with-love-actually-tastes-better-study.html
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:55 PM
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🙄 this is just bad faith
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:54 PM
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The way to a man's heart is through his stomach. Seen this validated way too many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:48 PM
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Never said girl had eyes for him for years
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:47 PM
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In general, we agree. I think where we don't agree is how many men are able to talk to women and how many aren't. I'm not invalidating your observations. Different people, different circles. In mine it was pretty much the other way around. Most of the guys could simply go, flirt, use charm and voilà. Still, you gave me some food for thought. It could be that most older folks (30+) had these skills better developed vs. the younger crowd (20-30). Perhaps the truth lies somewhere between us, depend…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:46 PM
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Idk why you brought rich or lying in this discussion. It's very hard to follow you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:40 PM
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Ofc, because i'm not making a 6 page essay. Long story short: girl had eyes for this friend. Husband sent friend to talk to her, told her what to say. Husband knew the girl and knew how she would like to be approached. Friend ignored advice and did nothing. Friend single
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:38 PM
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What i wrote besides that, is it true? About food, sex, eyc
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:36 PM
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In fact, I have set my standards sky high because I’m low key hoping no man meets them and I never have to get married Unless you're in some sort of f'ed up country, this came out very nasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:35 PM
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🙄 it's not how it played out
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:31 PM
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What wasn't accurate from what i said?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:26 PM
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Strong character men do go for strong character women or who have the potential to develop a strong character. It's weak men who go for weak women. Like, have you ever seen a power couple irl?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:21 PM
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I gave an example of someone who didn't let someone else help them and that obviously didn't work out. I'm transmitting knowledge that sometines it's ok to let someone help you, especially the ones who care about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:19 PM
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Damned if you help, damned if you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:09 PM
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No, because you debate in bad faith and pretend you don't know what i am talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:06 PM
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Yes, many. And what do they have in common? Most of them struggle romantically despite being tall, rather handsome, having money, house, job, car, nice and friendly. Simply put, they seem to have everything going for them, except romance. And if you can't put 2 and 2 together about what's wrong with that person, it's the skill of talking to a woman. And this includes charisma and humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:05 PM
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First of all, i didn't talk about physical power, so half your comment is off topic. It's about mental power and the potential of having mental power. That's where confidence and self esteem has its roots.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:01 PM
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What does this have to do with my comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:58 PM
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Lmao, you just outed men. When i say those podcasts brainwash men... They show bad looking men and pass them as average and then show good looking women and pass them as average.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:53 PM
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O was dead serious. Look up some subs and maybe you get some books recommended. Idk any, i would have listed them, but yeah, it's my idea of a starting point
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:52 PM
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Yeah, i know. Those are unstoppable. And you can tell things are working between them. They're partners in crime lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:32 PM
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I already did. No matter how much men here say they are attracted to average women, in fact, they're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:18 PM
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What i find is that weak men want a weak woman. Strong men look for strong women or potentially strong women. And then they will do some mental work with her so she won't be a doormat.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:15 PM
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You might want to reread this thread
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:09 PM
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Well, they don't actually like average women. Example: https://www.np.reddit.com/r/AcneScars/s/IfX54pY3Jr
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:05 PM
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Sir, this is a debate sub, not an advice sub. Perhaps it involves psychology knowledge, practice, spontaneity, being able to read the room, being able to read people, and creativity.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:03 PM
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I bet on "huh" here and "shut up" in the dms
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 12:49 PM
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As i've said. They look for shortcuts
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 12:47 PM
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Have i said otherwise? You said you can't find women without makeup. I just left 2 subs where there are pics without makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 12:46 PM
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Idk what other women think, but i know it's not that. I know a guy, he can sweet talk a business deal like no other. But when it comes to women...flat line. What i have a problem with is men dismissing charisma like it's not a big deal. Nu-uh, it is a great deal. Sometimes a deal breaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 12:44 PM
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Sir, prostitutes approaching potential customers don't count.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 11:45 AM
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Word! Some are even so delusional that they think there's a special formula or incantation or master key to unlock access to a good woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 11:33 AM
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I'm not framing it as just talking to people. Lots of men can talk to people but sort of block out when it comes to talking to a romantic interest. Talent also has to be cultivated. Like ooera singers don't magically hit perfect notes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 11:02 AM
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It's a different skill. You don't flirt with family members.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:52 AM
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We can afford. We both have great paying jobs, plus we live quite modest lives otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:46 AM
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Huh? We have a great relationship. Those are just for fun, vibe, problem solving and good sleep. We found most of our great ideas and solutions while drunk and high.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:41 AM
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It's also why i think they will divorce down the line. Sex is the only thing that meeps them in that relationship. Otherwise, they don't have much in common.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:32 AM
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Now, you're talking. Sure, if you're into that subtype, gym is the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:22 AM
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But what does it have to do with alcohol and getting high. Married people do this as well. Low n count do this as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:13 AM
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Not what i meant. If lifting is the key, why are there passport bros, berodivergent men who never had a date, etc. Ow yeah, coz it takes more than looks
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:04 AM
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Thank god not all women are like that. I don't like spoiled brats. Also, you kind of rat out that guys only want really hot women. I thought the consensus was that they are looking for average women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:01 AM
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I genuinely believe lifting is way down the line and charisma is way up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:58 AM
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So what happens between a few and a dozen?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:55 AM
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Exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:53 AM
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Let's say that you're right, that the shoulder to hip ratio is the key. If it's this easy, why do we have PPD in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:53 AM
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I haven't what? See? Coz i've seen lots of crap in my 34 years of existence
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:49 AM
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I don't think we can reach common ground as our ideas are very opposing. Still, mind that it's very likely that we live in different socities.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:48 AM
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Boy, u sure are looking for a needle in a haystack
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:44 AM
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One of them is a sex addict and his fiance is a nymphomaniac.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:43 AM
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Boy, those podcasts sure brainwash people. It's the damn charisma and humor that makes a man attractive. It's part of the reason OLD doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:42 AM
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I'd say it's charisma
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:36 AM
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I find him highly charismatic because he is highly charismatic. Taught charisma to his chaddy friend as well. Be yourself is not a bad advice also. If you try to be someone else, you come out as fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:35 AM
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Is it this or is it that is what pushes our buttons? Note that the same lines don't work for all men. If it doesn't feel natural, it comes out very fake. Hence the clown and weirdo comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:32 AM
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I do that every night with my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:31 AM
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I give advice on what works on wifey material, not some hoe you fuck on a saturday night.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:20 AM
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Yes, something like this. A lpo giving advice on the topic he's pro and knows what 100% works in that particular case.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:18 AM
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Eh, some people simply don't want to be helped.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:16 AM
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Ow what is it? Discipline? 🙄🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:14 AM
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I take all cases into consideration when I state my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:09 AM
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I agree that it depends a lot on what each person's shortcomings are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:07 AM
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She looks drunk and high.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:05 AM
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I see guys getting out of gyms. That muscle mass is very unappealing and looks fake. I'm trying to explain how things look from the other side, that's how you create bridges.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:03 AM
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I agree with this, but... My highly charismatic husband has a very uncharismatic friend. They've been friends since high school. Now, my husband tried to knock some sense into him. Tell him to go to a girl, say this, do that. Those were girls from school that they both knew so my husband knew how to push their buttons. It wasn't a blind shot. His friend did nothing. "Neah, i won't go talk to her." He would even pretend not to like her even though it was obvious he had the hots for her. how do yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:59 AM
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You know how plastic surgeries make the perfect proportikna face, but in the end the person seems ugly because it's like too perfect and that comes out as fake and fake seem ugly. That's what happens with muscles as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:52 AM
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I will not argue with health benefits. But those gymbros don't ingest various powders for health benefits do they. Tennis and swimming has health benefits and yet, the hym is "just lift, bro".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:50 AM
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I love me a man with a belly
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:45 AM
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I'm trying to reach the younger audience. Maybe there is still time for them to do something.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:45 AM
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Having a shape, yes, if you are overly obese. Past a point, being fit has diminishing returns. If you lifted like crazy and after 3 years you still get no dates, it is possible that fitness was not the issue to begin with. But you wasted 3 years focusing only on lifting and not working on your charm.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:43 AM
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but why dont those men also improve in social skills? because it takes balls And shall i add, more work that doesn't have cheatcodes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:35 AM
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Why none of our married friends ever went to the gym? How do you reconcile with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:33 AM
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Nothing makes a person rage more than telling them they don't have what the other sex finds attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:32 AM
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Suit yourself if this is the hill you're ready to die on
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:29 AM
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There's a point where appearance can't save you and make all the pull without some charm. No, you're not going to be like those natural charming people. But half charming is sometimes enough to vibe with someone
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:27 AM
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I think it is to a degree. You're not going to reach god tier, that is pretty much born with high charisma, but practice makes perfect, observing charismatic people helps, but that needs to be adapted to your personality else it comes out as fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:24 AM
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Why not work on both at the same time? Why waste time?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:21 AM
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Yeah, there's not much hope for those.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:19 AM
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Shallow or not, i'm not in the market for a neurodivergent guy. It raises an eyebrow because average people start having relationships and sex during highschool. At 22 for example, most even graduate college. If you hear about a child not walking by the age of 3, would you think it's something wrong with that child? If a child is not talking by the age of 6, would you think it's something wrong with that child? So it appears there is in fact a timeline of development, of life stages and experien…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:17 AM
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I'm confused now. The cuddle, the feeding is just for one guy - the one she loves. How did you get to 3 guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:10 AM
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I'd argue that past a certain point, being fit is affected by diminishing returns and charisma will weigh a lot more. But then i prefer a man with some belly but very charismatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:09 AM
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Wish i knew. I'm trying to explain and provide examples and give elaborate explanations to men who ask in good faith. Maybe, maybe, something reaches the destination. Sometimes there's a dead end for them that is very difficult to overcome. And there are multiple factors. What i think weighs the most is that after a certain age, whoever is partnered is out of the pool. And the men and women that are left are simply not compatible with each other. Those women are not what these men want (justifia…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:06 AM
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I'm sure you can provide an example
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 07:53 AM
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Where did you get these ideas from?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 07:51 AM
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I find it sad that sooo many men downplay charisma and humor. If they would work on that instead of JuSt LiFt BrO, they would be much better off.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 07:51 AM
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I'm an atheist so anything religious doesn't appeal to me. I guess there could be a bunch of women, a small % who want that, but i'm yet to see it in my circle.of friends. However, you made a generalising post about a small % of women. You still didn't answer my questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 07:48 AM
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I'd reply the same. I have my own thoughts, ideas and i give credit where it's due.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 07:41 AM
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"Lead" like on a leash or what? Lead me where? Lead me how? Lead me why? Lead me when?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 07:39 AM
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Lol, she'll do all of that and some men still wouldn't propose.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:59 AM
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I'll say it depends on the age. At some point it starts to raise an eyebrow (around 20-22), then both eyebrows (25-27), i think it becomes weird past 30. I apply the same standard for women. The reasons why a man is still a virgin don't quite interest me. There's a good chance i'll find them as turnoffs and wouldn't date that guy anyway, without even knowing he's a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:57 AM
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Yes, i've seen it many times. Short women tend to prefer tallish men. I think we all look for partners with qualities we admire. And on itself, it's rather a good thing, you have reasons to genuinely admire your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:38 AM
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Ow, we understand men. Feed them, sex them, listen to them when they have something on their heart, let them know how much they mean to you, spend time with them, hug them, cuddle them. The tiny little problem is we're not doing all that for any man, just for the one who gives us "tingles". So you either turn on a woman's engine or you continue beating the meat.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:18 AM
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This is not the topic of this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:09 PM
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Well, post the question. Maybe the context below for clarifications. As you worded it, it was confusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 02:58 PM
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Ma'am, you might be in the wrong post.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 02:51 PM
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I interpreted that as the last image, the one with makeup compared to stage makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 02:16 PM
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I don't take any selfies. I hate posing in pictures. My wedding day was a nightmare from this perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 02:15 PM
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Do you have feelings for me?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 02:03 PM
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She didn't refer to the first 7, though. Also, what she pointed is true. Last lady has makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 01:53 PM
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r/tretinoin r/acnescars
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 01:44 PM
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Sir, that is still makeup. OP asked for no makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 01:31 PM
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It was just a question for men to post images of women without makeup. Some men posted images with obvious makeup. Women commented that there is makeup in those images. Some men responded correctly and posted images without makeup. You made a comment that women don't reply to the comment that mostly included images without makeup. I told you that is because that comment was according to what OP asked. It was on topic. You: but but but ??? I still fail to understand what is confusing for you and …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 01:28 PM
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You can always correct someone when they are in the wrong. Those men could still believe they look at a no makeup picture. Also, what can we discuss about when OP just asked for no makeup pictures and the men actually followed a request and didn't mistake red lipstick for matural lips.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 01:18 PM
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It's actually about not responding to the question. OP specifically asked for pictures without makeup. Posting pictures with makeup, but trying to pass them as "no makeup" is not what was requested.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 01:09 PM
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Sir, there's makeup in the "no makeup" photos.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 12:56 PM
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Because they are actually without makeup. What other commenters did was point out that there is makeup in the images that men tried to pass as no makeup. Except the last one. That has makeup on
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 12:47 PM
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And doesn't have any surgeries or fillers
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 12:43 PM
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And then they call them average. And then say men are attracted to average women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 12:41 PM
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Now watch some explanation stumbling about well, acktually, a lil bit of makeup for correction is not makeup, it's natural, but enhanced 😃 All this while clean girl makeup and skincare as makeup has been the go to trend in the past years.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 12:00 PM
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I would bet on this as well. For example the inability to understand creepy behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 09:47 AM
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This is so weird. Why would you want war and land grabs? I think we should all have basic respect/decency. Other than that, you can admire whatever qualities you consider important. Doesn't change the fact that everyone else can have an opinion about your choices in what you admire.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 08:09 AM
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This doesn't make any sense. There are women who don't use makeup, who use drugstire makeup, who use high end makeup. Same for cosmetics or hair products. First of all, i am a big advocate of sharing the bill. Second, how can a man know if the woman uses products and how much they cost. Third, she would use a small fraction of each product as you don't slather on an entire tube of mascara in one go. Also, a woman usually can use products, but can decide not to use any at the date. Does it still …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 06:41 AM
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Had a neighbor, her husband insisted she stays at home and won't let her apply for a job. He was violent, alcoholic and would deny her to buy anything for herself including necessities like tampons. Imagine begging your husband to give you money to buy tampons and for him to say no. I was 7-8 years old when i heard the story. One of the most motivating things in my life to always have a job and be financially independent.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:17 PM
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Sure, but men can stop being violent if they want. Why not go for the root cause?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:12 PM
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Yes, trained in martial arts. The overwhelming majority of women are not trained in martial arts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:03 PM
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Indeed, it's so weird. Perhaps it stems from insecurity, need of control or some trauma. Some sort of anxiety to not lose someone you put your hands on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:57 PM
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Yes, it's uncommon
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:55 PM
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I was expecting a logical explanation. Disappointed
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:54 PM
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?? I spent my childhood with a violent father which my mother never divorced out of fear he would kill her. I don't think you understand how easily a man can overpower a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:54 PM
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I mean, you can. But i never watched such shows and I wouldn't know the plot
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:49 PM
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??
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:47 PM
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Idk the case, but for each woman who overpowered a man, i'm pretty sure i can find 10.000 who were overpowered by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:47 PM
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Ow god, i don't want to see or hear about GoT.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:45 PM
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I've only heard about one of those shows, the vampire one, and I know it's for teenage girls. Let's not include kids in this discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:44 PM
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It's a high chance it was me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:35 PM
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Love IS butterflied in the stomach
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:32 PM
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Usually women are attracted to only one man and then they get tunnel vision and don't even consider other men. And what each woman finds attractive is a personal preference. For example, i always had a soft spot for beautiful eyes and a certain look in their eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:30 PM
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This is exactly what we mean. And it's not as hard as you make it sound.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:07 PM
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I don't think you're far off
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:01 PM
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You know how guys say they don't like when women go under surgery and use makeup and fillers because it makes them look quite the same in the end? You see this with celebs mostly. It's like they all have the same perfect (proportions)face. And basically before surgeries those women looked better despite some flaws. Those flaws made them beautiful. Added charm, uniqueness, naturality. It's the same for also. Some flaws add charm. Makes the face memorable, unique.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 09:58 PM
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First of all, I wouldn't go to a club with just my husband. We would go as a group and this includes some of his friends, including my cousin. Now you see, my husband and some of his friends grew up in a tough neighborhood. So idk how to put this lightly, but if someone would try anything funny with me, the press and the ER would also be involved. And it wouldn't be the first time either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:40 PM
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Not my taste
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 12:52 PM
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Dude is ugly before and after
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 12:37 PM
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One Only time he got two chances was my first time. I thought it was crap coz the first time is always crap. But the second time was also crap. I also married the only guy who gave me an orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 12:34 PM
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Or did. Just read a post about a dude who was upset because his gf outed him that he doesn't wash his hands after using the bathroom. So she said he took too little time at the restroom, he must have not washed hia hands. Indeed, he admitted he didn't wash his hands. Eye rolling in such a situation is not disrespect. Waah your hands after using the restroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:59 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 08:35 AM
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It's overated. You will appeal to some niche, though. If that's what you want. I think they are sent to the gym because many people are past overweight and in the obesity territory. In this case, please go to the gym for your own sake. Also it seems like a somewhat achievable fix with easy instructions. Lift and ingest some powder. Doesn't matter that the dude's problem is that he is extremely shy. Lift and the shyness goes away 😃 Personally, i don't like these very muscular looks. It looks unna…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 07:58 AM
5

Don't listen to what they say, watch what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 11:30 PM
2

Son
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:41 PM
1

A pregant lady pig
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 01:22 PM
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Lol, and there would also be a grill, or more like a Gryll. I'll see myself out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:15 AM
2

Yes, it's a reason to be concerned
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:01 AM
15

Since you said "bring", this means i can choose. So i'll bring a man that i choose and a pig that i choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:54 AM
1

Settle for: shy, introverted, no charm, no charisma, no humor, rude, doesn't pull his weight in a ltr (chores, affection, job), doesn't know and doesn't care how to give me orgasms, isn't fun, never wants to go out, stonewalls when we have a discussion, acts like a boss around me, violent, doesn't take my opinion/advice into consideration, manipulative Settle down: the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:52 AM
1

Settling for or settling down?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:42 AM
3

That is so deranged
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 11:10 PM
1

And a skin lamp
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 10:59 PM
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From the news: https://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/americas/a-third-of-male-university-students-say-they-would-rape-a-woman-if-there-no-were-no-consequences-9978052.html
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 03:48 PM
2

Playing dead works fost most animals except wolves and i forgot the other one
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 03:08 PM
0

I'm quite certain why all the buzz, though
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:23 PM
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Here's an article about this: https://www.forbes.com/sites/alicegwalton/2016/03/29/uncertainty-about-the-future-is-more-stressful-than-knowing-that-the-future-is-going-to-suck/?sh=6f63a485646a
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:23 PM
1

1/3 of men would commit rape if there were no consequences. He can kill me, blame the bear and there would be no consequences. While playing dead is quite effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:22 PM
1

Maybe, maybe not. Shall i remind you what i said about uncertainty?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:19 PM
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Maybe it is maybe not. Now we are circlejacking back to what i said in the first place: sometimes uncertainty is worse than certainty. At least with the bear i can play dead. With the man, i am raped and dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 01:59 PM
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A woman doesn't have a fighting chance, not even against a healthy teen male. He was a stranger until we met...at an adult's house, an adult that my parents trust, an adult that already vetted him and knew his family and plus there were other people around. Can you tell the difference between "already vetted guy and other people around including an adult" vs. "strange man in the woods and nobody else around"? Coz if you can't tell the difference, there's no point in continuing this discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 01:52 PM
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It's about the place and context where we met. An adult who my parents trust already vetted him before and there were other people around. See how that compares to "strange man in the woods and nobody else around"?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 01:24 PM
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It is the result of mismatched couples. When one is submissive by nature and the other is a violent tyrant by nature, that is a mismatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 12:10 PM
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My mother would have divorced my father if he wouldn't have threatened to kill her if she leaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 12:03 PM
5

Trusting the environment where we met and the people who introduced us.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 11:48 AM
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Ofc. So many mismatched couples remained from the times when women had to marry someone as soon as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 11:42 AM
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I blame autism and functional illiteracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 11:27 AM
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Ofc and ot depends a lot on the type of people that you keep around you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 11:27 AM
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Familiarity and building trust. Uncertainty is sometimes worse than certainty. The man you live with, who you've known for years and you were there for each other in better and worse is not a random stranger as the man in the story. Idk how you can't figure this out. I thought men are the logical gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 10:22 AM
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Ofc bachelorette parties are the wild ones. They're so wild that The Hangover movie is inspired by / refers to / exagerrates a bachelorette party as they couldn't find the inpiration from bachelor parties. The boys are too tame. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 09:18 AM
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No, but i think there are easter eggs. Just watch the show, it's great.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 06:56 AM
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Ow yes, you have a very good point. We wouldn't be compatible at all. None of us would be happy in that relationship. We can still be friends ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 06:46 AM
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Watch it! I started playing the game because the show was sooo good.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 06:12 AM
1

Ah, we all had a sip of "not water" thinking it's water
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 05:19 AM
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My parents and grandparents gave me wine with sparkling water at 4. Welcome to Eastern Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 11:44 PM
1

What makes you say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 11:18 PM
1

What made you think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 10:11 PM
0

And that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 09:43 PM
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I don't think everyone knows what it means. I see bad boy equated to jerk and that's not true imo. Bad boy = not scared to slightly cross lines because he's sure about his charm, very confident, had a rough life, maybe even been in a few fights, isn't a doormat, has keen intelligence (street knowledge) Lady = doesn't fall for any kind of charm, low n count and only in relationships, well mannered, maybe a bit high society, can present her to parents and they love her, drinks with moderation, int…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 05:56 PM
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Let a gal dream she can change the world, god damn it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 05:50 PM
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We both say we got lucky to meet so soon. The thing is, i said that's just my personal opinion on what i like. I think it's a good thing if men here see various views women have. You'd imagine not all women want what i want and will not agree with my preference. It has worked out for some of our friends. Different dynamic ofc, one that suited their personalities and wishes. It's funny how we had 2 colleagues at work. Separately, they were both unsufferable. After some years, they got together an…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 05:35 PM
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Why is it self-interrested? Why is it wrong to want to be happy with a person you want to make happy who wants the same things as you want? And it's not a system i propose. It's what i wanted, what i got and what worked for me. It's what he wanted, what he got and worked for him. He's a bad boy who wanted a lady. I'm all into Lady and Tramp dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 05:17 PM
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You gave me some food of thought. You see, when we went on our first date, he had no tshirt on, but a hoodie with a partially unzipped zipper. Now, that plushy skin of his, plus the cleaverage got me very much interested and attracted, ngl. Yet, when we actually met, he simply closed the control access that i dialed to ask me to wait for him to finish his cigarette as he figured we were going to the same apartment. Now that's a line that was crossed, sounds rude, but he played it so cool, it was…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 04:08 PM
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That's because you're normal. Get out of here while you can. After a while, it becomes addictive and comes back for laughs. Or to study mental illnesses
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:33 PM
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That looks so deformed
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:27 PM
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r/Waiting_To_Wed
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:20 PM
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(Personal, subjective opinion) Easy: the prospect of being alone doesn't sound that bad. When i wait for him to initiate i vet for charm, charisma, humor, extroversion. How else am i gonna see if he (mods and many others are gonna love me for this /s) has the balls to ask me out. Shyness is very unattractive. Same with fidgeting, being too soft, too sensitive, too sheltered. I like it a little rough, not too much, but maybe just enough. I like the build up, slowly at first and then faster and fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:10 PM
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This! And i also need to add proposing for marriage. I've seen women do this, it's also a bad strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:44 PM
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I'm an introvert so idk if it would be a big deal. I'd still have friends, i can go years without sex, so that wouldn't be a problem. The majority of men are partnered. The ones who can't find not one date in a year don't have what women find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:26 PM
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I see your point, but i looked for charm, charisma, humor, extroversion. These qualities you see from the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:15 PM
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Lmao, i'm quite happy and fulfilled. And he's not tied, he could have left if he was unhappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:12 PM
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Yes, there's room in my heart for only one man. Idk why you view this in a weird way. It's part of the foundation of fidelity. Is fidelity bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:05 PM
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Lmao, the jealousy is through the screen. Yeah, I started to get bored of your rant.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:01 PM
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Perfect man, i know 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:58 PM
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I wanted my The One and got my The One. Sure, some lose faith in true love, but not all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:55 PM
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Why are you thinking he's a doormat? An 18 year old party boy with a bad boy persona isn't really your stereotypical doormat, isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:48 PM
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Lmao. He knows me more than i know myself. He's a very good psychologist and person reader.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:47 PM
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Always. I think it's almost malice. It's functional illiteracy at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:47 PM
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Thank you! Finally someone gets it. Idk why some here just turn the issues on all sides just because they lack the qualities to make a move.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:37 PM
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Tripping over himself? With what, giving a kiss? Lmao. Seesh, if that's suuuch a big thing to do, makes sense why some men here moan and scream
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:35 PM
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Good thing you found your tune
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:34 PM
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After 16 years of relationship and 10 years of marriage i think i know my husband. I already stated what i selected for. Charm, charisma, humor, extroversion, him initiating. These are the things important to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:34 PM
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It's normal not to fit with many people on an intimate level. Why do you think it's called The One and not The Many.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:32 PM
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Dick is cheap. Men with an actual spune are rare, worth the wait. If all he's doing is waiting for me to initiate, i'm better off waiting for the right guy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:22 PM
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Don't like, don't dance
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:21 PM
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No, not really. Ya think he'd still be here if we weren't happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:07 PM
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So many assumptions. Have you ever heard of puzzle pieces?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:06 PM
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They go hand in hand
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:18 PM
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Then we are on the same page
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:18 PM
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I work on myself everyday as well. Never felt not enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:17 PM
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Quote the 100%. Ya think he has no part in keeping the flame?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 11:36 AM
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I had guys to pick from, i also chose to be single for a while. Do the work if it's required. Had fat friends who lost weight. They did the work. Complaining you have to work on yourself will not make the process faster.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 11:32 AM
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Quote where i said it's 100% his job to keep the flame alive. It's 50% his job as that's part of what pulling his weight means. But if he lacks those characteristics, how is he going to pull his weight?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 11:29 AM
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Have i said i am the world's greatest prize? I want what makes me happy. If i'm what makes hin happy, you get that perfect sync tango that lasts forever. Why would I take a man that doesn't make me happy? Do what with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 11:17 AM
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Hope you find The One. It's so good when you meet the right person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 11:16 AM
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🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 11:10 AM
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Courting ia not marriage. I talked about his side because OP is a male. If a woman posts, i'll talk about the female side.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 11:10 AM
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Your opinion and i don't share it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 10:50 AM
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No, thanks. Not interested in that dynamic. Ofc you have to pick the one that suits you. If that's her vibe as well, go for it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 10:44 AM
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I described the tango in a comment. You must have missed it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 10:43 AM
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Not the game i am interested in
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 10:42 AM
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What happens when you marry the alpha? He becomes beta kr what? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 10:29 AM
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Yes, that's what i call playing. Those are the rules i play by.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 10:14 AM
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🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 10:07 AM
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Ow, the men hold the entire economy rhetoric. That's just a pathetic way of thinking. Society will be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 09:57 AM
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Then don't participate. That's the game. You either play or you're a spectator. I see you have some sort of hang on this power thing. It is possible that you perceive things in this weird way, but i think it clouds your mind and makes you overthink.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 09:56 AM
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Now you're just justifying potential violent behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 09:28 AM
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If no woman ever cracks the open for you, you got your answer. You don't have that je ne sais quoi. A woman never worries about whether she has what it takes to kiss the man she likes. Nope, at least i never worried about that. I never initiated the first kiss and i was never in the market to do so. Not the type of dynamic i like. Not what i want. Not interested if he can't initiate. As i said, it's a great way to filter out guys i am not compatible with.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 09:09 AM
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Truth is a cube. Multiple things can be true at once depending on the angle you look from.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 09:06 AM
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When you bring maths to poetry, you're killing the vibe.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:56 AM
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What you fail to understand is that when it comes to initial approach, a woman usually cracks the door open and invites you to a tango. Now you can enter the door or stay outside. If you enter the door, you begin a dance of reprocitation. If you step on her toes, you're out of sync, she'll invite you out the door. I won't address the "what i bring to the table" inquiry. There's a balance in our relationship that took us years to achieve. We're quite a team actually. But to address your burning c…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:47 AM
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It's a circlejack at best because no matter what they want, scream or rant, if someone doesn't want to be with you or doesn't need to be with you, that person will not be with you. Crossing this line gets you in the fellon territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:15 AM
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Idk why you think i make no effort. I'm in a 16 year relationship. Ya think it just happened with no effort?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:09 AM
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Other than self reflection on the issue of standards, there's not much else to do. Can't tell a heart who to love.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:08 AM
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Because it's not something i want. Most i did was crack the door open. Best filter to out the men i described above.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:01 AM
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You are absolutely right. And it's a good thing there's now the opportunity to be with someone you truly love. Marriages out of necessity or because of society's pressure are doomed to fail or be unhappy. And this will reflect on their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:00 AM
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In my case it's a preference. If he can't approach (especially if the woman shows that the door is at least cracked open), it's not the man i want. I read it as: not confident enough, not enough socialised, potentially introverted, doesn't know what to say, how to say it, how to flirt, how to read signs, too shy and misses opportunities when they show up. All these make him a bad match for me. How is he going to keep the flame going during the relationship, i like to be charmed and flirted with …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 07:49 AM
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Special occasions should go by good manners standards, but these are rare, special occasions. In day to day life, i'm more than happy with flexibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 07:31 AM
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Word
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 07:26 AM
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Sir, you're a rare gem with deep understanding of interpersonal dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 06:58 AM
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I think it's rather easy. Feed them, sex them, hug them, listen to them, let them know how special they are, spend time with them. The only thing is, you're not going to do this for a man you don't love, aren't compatible with and doesn't pull his weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 06:40 AM
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Ow that's just bad. I think that angle is very unflattering for her
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 11:49 PM
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Yes, i did. Sorry, EN is not my fiest language
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 11:30 PM
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I don't even need to be in the woods to encounter a bear. I live in the European country with the biggest bear population. You go to a resort in the mountains and a bear is eating the trash. Last time it was a lady bear and her cubs. They even learnt to cross the road like humans: https://youtube.com/shorts/gwdKAx6gi60?si=8sGXAyG92AIIuMiQ They are on the damn streets: https://youtube.com/shorts/C0He3hdT0Xg?si=Ci-AUXoEBdzsMgoH
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 11:27 PM
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Extroversion, charm, charisma, humor
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 11:21 PM
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Don't look dumb. Don't look like you can be bullied. Charm, charisma, humor. Find a style that suits you. Get a good haircut.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 11:20 PM
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Fragile...and there's me basically raised by a babuska.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 11:18 PM
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Idk what should stay, but letting women pass first through the should go. If you're near the door, just go. You're slowing everyone down waiting for me to pass and potentially blocking the door. Just use the damn door.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 11:08 PM
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That's where compatibility and how you communicate comes into play. Casually describing the drama is fine i guess. Maybe even have a good laugh about it. Making it a big thing if the implications are not severe is whining.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 11:05 PM
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That trauma dump is not a definitive line for every woman. I think women have a hard time being with a man they perceive mentally weaker than them. And some women had a rough life, but somehow managed to stay on their feet (more or less) and find some stability (more or less). When a man who cries because his sandwich was stolen in 6ty grade and 3 colleagues made fun of his bowl haircut, it's hard for her not to laugh and see him as weak when she grew up with alcoholic parents, but that strength…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:53 PM
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Personality: charm, charisma, humor. A man they like to be around. A man who is there for them, to listen, to laugh, to spend time together.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:48 PM
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I think most men follow these influencers and for those who follow, it just shows their type.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:44 PM
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I'm not gonna judge them that they have a type. I myself have a type. What i want is for them to be honest about it as many of them follow completely different women compared to their gfs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:42 PM
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My statement may not be true in your case, but it's true in awful many other cases
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:28 PM
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Have i said otherwise? It' not like all men have the same type. Hence the different influencers. Some prefer the bikini girl, others the anime girl, others the nerdy chick, other the big titty goth girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:23 PM
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I don't have any social media either. Keeps me sane, perhaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:21 PM
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Nooo, ofc they don't. Those bikini influencers with millions of followers are followed only by women and bots.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:16 PM
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Reply to me when you found a case in the french court against 23andme. Bye!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 09:37 PM
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It's the same way people protest the stupid beauty scale and say they are a 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 09:36 PM
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They think reading a statistic paints an entire real life situation. Must be very desperate to look for maths in poetry.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 09:35 PM
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Men have a type. It's whatever type of woman they follow on insta just for her looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 09:31 PM
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No, it's just from any logical point of view 23andme is not a paternity test. A mediocre lawyer can easily handle such a case. However, in this thread you kept finding (pathetic) excuses. I know woe is me is a handy hoping mechanism, but it's not always the answer. So, i'll take this that there are no court cases against fathers who used 23andme as i'm pretty sure french people used those kits for their extended families.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 09:30 PM
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The only way to make your point is to find a case in a French court where the father was accused and found guilty of breaking this law by submitting a 23andme sample.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 09:13 PM
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23andme is not a paternity test. It is able to show paternity, but it is not a paternity test per se. C'on, summon that logic, will ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 09:03 PM
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Show me the gun. The article posted above doesn't even mention consequences, just what types of tests are accepted.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 09:01 PM
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Show me the gun. The article posted above doesn't even mention consequences, just what types of tests are accepted.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 09:01 PM
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Says nothing about it being a crime. Even if it was, submitting samples to 23andme doesn't fall under this law. Neither going to your nextdoor neighbor to make the test there. C'on boys, try harder. You're the logical gender aftetall.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:48 PM
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And they wonder why we pick the bear as comments show they mostly thought about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:42 PM
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The most atheist person i know is the eldest daughter of a priest who has 8 children.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:33 PM
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I've observed both sides as a standbyer. Most people find someone eventually. For some it takes longer, others hit it off pretty quickly. But the reality is, some will end up unpartnered. There will always be (more or less justifiable) grievances from both parties. It's always been that way. So PR will perhaps morph in something different as soon as most followers will realise it's deceiving. Radfems will continue perhaps. I feel like they've been pretty constant.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:25 PM
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I got out of a series of relationships, especially one that was on again, off again and it's a bad idea to fight fire with fire. So i took a break. No sex for 2 years, had a few dates with a guy after the first year, but we weren't on the same page. Then i met my husband. And i know of similar stories from friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:06 PM
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It's never expected to stay in an unfulfilling relationship. Go, leave, find the one for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:17 PM
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Ewww Also, idk why people assume that comment was about me and my husband. I explicitly said it's in cases of sexual incompatibility where the handjob is requested. But again, many men here aren't in relationships, so how can they understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:53 PM
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Please point to where i generalised or where i'm in the wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:22 PM
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Neah, we are sexually compatible. I described what happens where there isn't a sexual compatibility, that's where the need of a handjob comes in.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:16 PM
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That was a boob. I type so bad i wonder how i don't captcha codes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:16 PM
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I'm married. Not interested in others. He's taken as well, so don't even try.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:15 PM
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It's not a 2 min handjob. It's tens of minutes of work and then he wants enthusiasm and for you to undress and wants to touch a book or grab your ass and it's going on and on, doing something you didn't want to in the first place. If you're happy with a 2 min wank while i can scroll on my phone and not pay any attention, i have no problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:06 PM
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Ow, god. Those posts make me laugh, it's so amazing. And you can tell they are so worked up like they took it so personal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 02:46 PM
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It's the ability to manage your emotions and understand the emotions of the people around you. Clearly, OP is having a tantrum over the opinions of people on the internet. The internet, man. That low.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 02:17 PM
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Reread what you wrote as slowly as you require. Look up a few terms if you need additional information about what they mean. So, anyway, i started learning how to do polygel nails and i enjoy the process so much. It's only my second set and now i used cat eye nail polish, but i struggle with those magnets, i can't really make them gather all the glitter to reveal the design. Also, i think i need some black nail polish under the cat eye polish because the cat eye is more jelly and i want better c…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 02:12 PM
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This is what lack of emotional intelligence does to people. Sad, sad little creatures.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 02:04 PM
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A predictable thing, i would say. https://www.np.reddit.com/r/technology/s/1imp0PiTkE
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 11:18 AM
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We are now discussing ifs and buts about an issue that has nothing to do with this post. I refuse to take part in countless rethoric
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:54 AM
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Sexual harassment surpasses 15-20%, it's more like 80%. Some people assimilate harassment to assault. While different things, there is a blurry line between them. So yes, it is a society problem
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:42 AM
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It's bad that it happens. It's not a society issue, though. If it happened to 25%, 30 or more, then you can start to talk about society issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:28 AM
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Yes, it's an issue for those individual men. If the 2% of children are unknowingly raised by other men than their fathers, that's a very small % to be able to call it a society problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 09:44 AM
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Depends on the n-count
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 09:42 AM
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It's not a cultural or societal issue. It's just an issue for individual men who don't even fuck to brgin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 09:39 AM
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Creep isn't necessarily tied with being a criminal. It's tied to making others uncomfortable, uneasy, disturbed. One way to test severe creepyness is to check if children avoid you or stare at you. I found my male surgeon (married with children) a little creepy, but it was too late to refuse the surgery. I found my female coworker very creepy, a less than 100 pound woman. So creepyness doesn't come from being a virgin, but being a virgin can come from being creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 09:07 AM
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Sure, buddy, sure. Whatever makes you sleep at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:23 AM
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What does this have to do with the subject at hand? You're derailing, logical boy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:02 AM
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And once you find out it's not yours the non conventional way, you go to court and do the official one. I thought men are the logical gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:48 AM
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You didn't really address my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:10 AM
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Get 23and me tests. Plan a family trip in a different country (hello EU and easy travel) and get a test from there or order online.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:09 AM
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You sound like a self fulfilling prophecy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 11:47 PM
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Go to a derm. Lots of procedures nowadays, this is quite easy to fix.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:02 PM
1

You kiss many frogs until you find the prince.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 07:25 PM
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There's a saying in my country: You take (put) a 💩 in your mouth and then refuse to let it go. This is how this topic is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:41 PM
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Like... Sneaking behind his back to kiss him. Making his favourite meals (in his case, loves DOES go through his stomach), i show him various products online that i know he would like, he's always happy to browse afterwards and see which one he likes best.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:06 PM
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Some of them go full in. I like to think i can still keep my logic running. I think there's a situation where the more effort one party puts in the relationship, the more the other one puts as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:53 PM
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I don't give a shit about others. I fell in love with him and knew i will marry him one week after we met. Side note: my family had extra money so we bought cheap apartments, basically making us ricker as those properties more than doubled in price. He never really got the money back. Doesn't even matter at this point. I was able to provide a house for us and my parents gifted us a brand new car. He is my dream man. I found The One, there's nothing better for me out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:48 PM
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Ask
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:36 PM
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I don't give a shit about status and i am already married to a man who lost everything in the crisis of 2008.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:31 PM
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Some of them yes. That's something i appreciate and find it a very valuable and attractive knowledge. Plus, i really like the Lady and Tramp dynamic. I married my bad boy and i am very happy and fulfilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 07:03 AM
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There is no other man more attractive than my husband. He sparkles, the others are dull.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:52 AM
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Same here, but with chores. The more he does, the more i do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 11:04 PM
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Excuse me, but hot gf - shrek bf is (was) kind of a norm in Eastern Europe / Slav countries / the Balkans. Or men in more Western countries are worse than Shrek? (This is a half joke, half truth)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 10:50 PM
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That's good that you have standards. That was not the discussion though
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 09:29 PM
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Obviously they do, else they would go for disabled women. Or the nastyest obese single mother OF failure who has an alcohol and drug addiction and she would take them out of desperation. They do in fact have at least one standard. To receive what they crave the. It's usually the feeling of knowing that you are loved (however each individual drfines it). Other times it's to have a child, other times to receive validation from society, to feel complete, and other reasons perhaps, that i can not th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:26 PM
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Really now, there's even an entire post: https://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1birpfu/men_of_this_sub_do_you_believe_that_most_men_have/ Remember one thing: i talked about men who lie that they have no standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:44 PM
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It's either functional illiteracy (and i have a hunch that somehow it is a factor for these unsuccessful men) or plain bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:41 PM
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Count yourself, i did the search for you. https://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/search/?q=I+have+no+standards&type=comment&cId=1a9c64da-4c76-4fa6-864b-493536890c34&iId=a07aee25-c1cb-49fc-bf36-f539d2e2a808
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:46 PM
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What I say: "men (who) lie about not having standards" What you understand: "yOu MeAn MeN sHoUlD nOt HaVe StAnDaRdS" Now you see why nobody takes you seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:03 PM
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Yeah, i live in Eastern Europe. I might know a few things.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:15 PM
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It's rare for a woman in a relationship to have friends who are also in a relationship? How does that work? Once she gets a bf she ditches her friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:15 PM
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Why do you automatically assume their friends are single? Why can't some friends be single and some in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:48 PM
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It's a petrol station run by mafia masquerading as a country.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:46 PM
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Ow dear god, let me guess, Russia is a world power. If we bring delusion to this thread, at least let's go all in.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:51 PM
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No, he's advocating for men to take accountability for the lie that they don't have standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:48 PM
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Because they are (mostly) men who don't dance, can't dance, don't have who to dance with, don't really have a conventionally fun group of friends, never went to a club with their girlfriend or other couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:47 PM
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A synonym for wit is keen intelligence. Intellicence has different forms. An intelligent person understands this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:31 PM
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I like humor that comes from wit, not mindless ramblings. At this point i think you are purposely obtuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:30 PM
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You haven't read the second definition, have you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 11:55 AM
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Sir, if the only humor you know is shit talking, your life must be very sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 11:45 AM
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Ofc. But men here look for mathematics in poetry. And since keen intelligence (wit) can not be quantified, they refuse to understand (or don't have the mental capacity) that wit is attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 11:44 AM
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That is not the definition of wit. wit noun the capacity for inventive thought and quick understanding; keen intelligence. a natural aptitude for using words and ideas in a quick and inventive way to create humour. No wonder men here confuse bad boys with jerks. They can't even get the definition of wit straight, not to mention using wit to understand the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 11:40 AM
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EN is not my first language. This is why i refer to it as intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 11:04 AM
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It's a different type of intelligence. Non convensional and non academic. And i value it more than academic intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 11:00 AM
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Some people consider the world flat. Should we discuss what some nutheads think or what the majority of people think? I know the level of wittyness I want when i see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 10:53 AM
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As a smoker in highschool, the restrooms were the most used places to smoke. I usually used the girls' restroom and there were a few boys who would join. I think the highest mark of "you're not weird as a guy" is being accepted in the girls' bathroom in highschool when smoking.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 10:50 AM
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This is because unwitty men equate intelligence just with academics. The famous xx% of MIT students are virgins. Yes, honey, you are highly intelligent when it comes to academics, your diploma is not making me want to bang you. Wittyness (idk if english has a word like street intelligence), however...that's a whole different story. Also emotional intelligence not to cry at age 30 that some kid made snarky remarks about you some 18 years ago. It's ok, it was a long time ago, let it go and move on…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 10:38 AM
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All this reads as "I'm a sex addict, so all men are like me, there is no other way".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:55 AM
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The question should be more smart and more witty. Plenty of people have quite an impressive education (MIT, phds), but aren't witty and have no street or life knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:18 AM
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I can't upvote this twice. Lack of communication and stonewalling ends a relationship and kills the romance. I can't stress this enough. Communication is important all throughout the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:39 PM
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I was being honest. I'm aleawys honest
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:08 PM
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Neah, i picked the dress that suits me. But i know you'll try to twist the truth so it fits your narative
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:42 PM
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We are definitely not in poverty. We both work in IT and i have a more than generous family inheritance. I just think it's stupid to pay lots of money on a dress that i wore just one night. I wanted my man that night, not a fairytale party.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:43 PM
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Meaning?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:34 PM
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If those guys didn't help you with advice, those aren't your friends. My husband has 2 friends who struggle although they are really good people, who care about others, kind, get their shit together and their lives figured. Their problrms: boring subjects (especially one of them will give you a 4 hour php tutorial), lack of confidence, fidgeting when talking to women, neither knows how to flirt, neither is charming, neither is funny, neither is charismatic, one of them has these robotic movement…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 12:25 PM
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My whole honeymoon + my wedding dress were less than $1000.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:23 AM
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Ya know how rp men parrot that "noooo, if you find a good woman, you respect her and even if she becomes older, you remember her as young and you respect that etc etc". Yeah...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 11:38 PM
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I never lied as there was not much to say. I married the first guy who gave me an orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 11:35 PM
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I see it everywhere. It's a mismatch i am familiar with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 07:07 PM
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Not in my case. Not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:59 PM
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I take no offense in that. I, however, am all about this mismatched look. It feels very natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:41 PM
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It's a fucking nightmare and i love it. With all the balkan influence my country has. I'm talking about this in terms of men's clothing: https://9gag.com/gag/aBdAB1P?utm_source=copy_link&utm_medium=post_share
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 05:27 PM
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I understand. I'm just saying i've witnessed the opposite. Just because she's attracted doesn't mean she'll treat you nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 05:18 PM
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No. Not if she perceives you weaker than her. Not if she has her own issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:57 PM
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I'm confused by some words, i'm not a native speaker. I'm in Eastern Europe
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:48 PM
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I mean, sure, i guess it does happen in some remote cases. Plenty of nuts out there. But most people do learn from their mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:48 PM
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So this couple was together for some years, he loved her dearly, gave her the best possible treatment, attention, everything. Alcohol and her mental instability got the worst out of her and they split. She was the one to contact him to be fuck buddies after the split. Conclusion: just because she's attracted to you, doesn't mean she'll give you the best treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:44 PM
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In this comment, how did you reach that conclusion. https://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/ZNYbv3EbMJ
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:32 PM
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We do have something in common apparently. Red pill takes some well known truths, mixes them with crap (pseudoscience and badly interpreted studies, rage and rage bait)and then spoon feeds the mixture to the audience. I'm sorry your friends got hurt. Wish them the best
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:31 PM
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It's a very weird way to construct it like that, that's why i said vitriol. I was pushing for an answer, which idk if i truly have so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:27 PM
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Some comments up in this thread came out aggressive. Sorry if i misjudged
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:24 PM
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It's an analogy and it went over your head. The other guy got it right
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:24 PM
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Nice without a spine is useless. A woman pretty much won't take a guy who has less mental power than her. She's shy, he can be shy, but less shy than her. So you and your friends might struggle, but i think what i said is part of your unsuccess
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:22 PM
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Here: https://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/AkdLlElu0C
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:19 PM
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He's not answering. That's what the $10 was for.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:18 PM
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It's the shape rather than the material. And the whole idea of a suit. And the shoes that are required for a suit. Can't stand chinos as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:17 PM
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Still doesn't explain HOW and WHAT FOR
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:02 PM
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Always rushing. It's not good
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:00 PM
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Well then, it's settled. Why the vitriol?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:59 PM
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Then why does he feel personally attacked if a woman drops bad habits (is accountable)?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:58 PM
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I would give you 20 if he can explain coherently why it bothers him a woman learnt her lesson (one would say she was accountable for her actions) and doesn't go for losers anymore. Because the way he sounded so far is like a speed driver who suddenly had a speed limit bumpers on his favorite road.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:57 PM
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And the relationship ends if she ever goes back to old habits. You know you can leave a relationship, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:39 PM
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Incoming either no answer or a word salad. $10 says it's word salad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:38 PM
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Man, please reread her last paragraph. Honestly, just read it and don't reply now, but think about it, sit on the idea one night and just process it. Post or ask for clarifications, if needed. This message comes from a friendly point, a person who has some life experience and can recognize a valuable piece of advice. Take care!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:30 PM
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So rigid and reminds me of my father.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:43 PM
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Body language is crazy important to me. The mimic, the posture, flirty gestures and looks. Clothes are also important, for example i don't like men in a suit. Get a hoodie, some snickers and a cool tshirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:13 PM
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Yes sweetheart, even married women have abortions. Ya think abortions are only done by unwed women. LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:09 PM
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Yeah, you won't find a definition because they just repeat what the podcast says, but the podcasters don't explain it. So men repeating this like a parrot have various definitions based on their misfortunes. It's just a word salad full of biases, delusion and rage.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:59 PM
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Don't bother listening to that crap. Also, you won't find honest answers here. RP guys here will pretend those RP influencers are grifters while quoting them in other comments. If you call them out to correct other RP men who listen to grifters that those ideas are not RP, they chicken out while also talking about women's accountability (whatever that means coz no man has explained it coherently here). They will invoke not being able to control what other people say, but expect feminists to cont…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 09:31 AM
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Why would i refuse free advice from a person with more experience that i know is better than me in that regard? I don't get what your endpoint is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 08:41 AM
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I would follow their advice. I know they are great cooks. The thing is, their tone wouldn't be mean, but more like a parent giving a kind advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 08:05 AM
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Check the kibbe system. Explains women's body types and where they are more likely to put weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 07:56 AM
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I have 2 sets of inlaws as my husband's parents are divorced and both remarried. I love both MILs. Both are great cooks and I gathered recipes from both of them. It's a perk having 2 MILs in my case.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 07:45 AM
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Bingo!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 07:11 AM
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Personally, it wouldn't impact me at all. You would see protests, men having vasectomies, women having tubes tied and less marriages. Women would start getting illegal abortions, some of them would die.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:13 AM
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Society always puts pressure, but it's less and less taken into account. When did we move the goalpost to leaders?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:07 AM
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So what is this elusive accountability? Let's hear the third definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:05 AM
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Society has less and less pressure. Love dictates more. And by default, love wants monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 12:48 AM
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They replied with different definitions, basically proving my point that they don't know what it is, they just repeat it like parrots.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 12:47 AM
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It still is the default. And it' not because the desire of a stable society. Nobody thinks "i'll enter this relationship for society's benefit". It's because when you love someone, you're not willing to share that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 12:20 AM
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Monogamy is still the default.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 12:12 AM
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I'm 2
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 12:08 AM
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Ow i understand this. My husband's friends treat me like a cool dude with long hair and they talk freely around me. But the reverse is also true. Endless seething about women will not change women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 12:03 AM
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Never date a man who spins plates. Got it!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 11:52 PM
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Is functional illiteracy preventing you from understanding?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 11:39 PM
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Stonewalling and refusing to acknowledge what i said. Men 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 11:18 PM
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You are stonewalling on purpose. I said no rp man knows what "accountability" refers to because they just hear it in podcasts and repeat it like a parrot. You said your definition. Someone said a different definition. If you 2 actually knew what it is, you would give the same answer. Herd mentality, parrotting something out of a video.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 11:11 PM
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But why are your answers so different? It just proves you don't know what it means, but repeat it like sheeple. Herd mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 10:33 PM
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And they talk about the herd mentality of women. Pfahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 09:55 PM
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Friendzone is just a rejection. Everyone encountered some form of rejection (stretched word) in their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:44 PM
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Some dude answered something very different. LMAO, nice way to out yourselves you don't actually know
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:42 PM
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That's misandrist and bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:24 PM
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I stepped in when someone was trying to steal from a young girl's pocket. I got death threats by the pickpocketer. There were over 50 people in the bus station. Only one woman defended me from the death threats.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:59 PM
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You're welcome 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:44 PM
1

Answering in comments, you just have to read them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:40 PM
1

I think this is especially true to see if you're weird / creepy. If kids avoid you, you get your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:39 PM
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Shitshow and potentially helping someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:37 PM
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Nobody answered this because the podcasts don't explain it, just mention it. So guys can't explain it because it hasn't been explained to them. It's some vague word salad, highly interpretable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:32 PM
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However, it is reasonable to call 911 and report the aggression.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:26 PM
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They are not there, how can she include them? Lmao, leave it as it is, you're stonewalling, i got better crap to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:46 PM
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And they are the ones talking about accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:43 PM
1

Dude, you made the observation that fathers are absent from pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:40 PM
1

They have autonomy to post one of the tens of photos from the activity. Doesn't change the fact that the father missed the activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:36 PM
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Sure, buddy, sure. The Women Council decided to not include fathers who are totally at the scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:26 PM
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Usually those pictures are taken during some kind of activity. And due to the fathers being absent (although the parents are married) from those activities, they can't be included in the picture. Funny how you outed men for not pulling their weight in raising their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:17 PM
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I think that there are bad apples in both baskets.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 10:12 AM
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Hey, i felt that. Get that onion off my plate!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:50 AM
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My father is a retired teacher who always wore a shirt and tie (literraly helping on a construction site in a shirt), no tattoos, seems a high moral man from the outside. He beat my mother multiple times, including while pregnant with me and then sugested to her to abort me. You have no idea wtf you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:41 AM
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They took it themselves i guess. How can someone control another person's actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 09:32 PM
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Where are the groups of teens gathering at the entrance of a block of flats, chatting and eating sunflower seeds?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 09:00 PM
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Imo both mysoginists and misandrists are on the same level of evil. Different sides of the same coin
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:33 PM
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Now that is a very spirited answer! Chapeau
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:12 PM
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Depends. Useless for something specific that they are supposed to do (as in their job) yes, i even told them to their face. They no longer work there, i wonder why. My father considers his father useless as a father figure. Rightfully so, actually. But my grandoa was very much needed at hus job.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:07 PM
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No, i just have a theory that functional illiteracy is somehow tied to dating struggling. So, how's your dating life?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:53 PM
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Calling any gender (as a whole) useless is wrong on way too many levels. Calling individuals useless (like my father calls his father for objective reasons) is a case by case situation and sometimes it's well deserved.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:51 PM
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And is this the conclusion you reached?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:49 PM
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I agree and i blame radfems for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:48 PM
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I agree that at least i don't need a man (want is a whole different story), but i don't agree that men are useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:45 PM
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Have you read beyond the title?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:39 PM
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I do have a problem with radfems because they bring nothing but shame to the idea of feminism. Somehow they took over the word feminism, made a joke out of it and now real feminism suffers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:28 PM
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Post the video if you can find it. I've seen a lot taken out of context on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:25 PM
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The article doesn't support the claim you made.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:23 PM
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To yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 10:04 AM
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Yes. Doesn't this sub love the word "accountability"?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 09:33 AM
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No, you put it black and white and only thought about legal actions. Throughout our interaction i mentioned scales of severity, complexity of humans and human interaction and other possible motives.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 09:15 AM
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You needed clarifications about something you didn't understand and i provided them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 09:07 AM
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Not that i can think of. But i might be an outliner as i have a very strong sense of justice and what's right.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 09:02 AM
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Partly true, but not in all cases. Else why would my father hide beating my mother from me? Ow yes, he doesn't want me to judge him. Humans and human interaction is much more complex. Marital rape was legal until some years ago in my country. No legal consequences from raping your spose. Why don't those who raped their spose want others to find out if there were no legal consequences? Because they were judged by society. "I regret being caught"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 08:52 AM
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I see you skipped understanding the part where i say about various degtess and severities. Where i come from, this is called being functional analphabetism (could be illiteracy in EN).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 08:29 AM
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No, not really. I am not ashamed of anything i think and if some thought arises, i think about what would be right. It's called improving yourself, something many people don't understand on this sub. The world needs more honesty and we need to start with ourselves. Because the hardest thing is to be honest to yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 08:27 AM
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He's ashamed if someone finds out. Else, why hide? Please reread my comments. You can be ashamed of what you did or ashamed of being criticized. It's like "i regret doing this" vs. "i regret being caught". On a different note, do you struggle with dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 07:49 AM
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Isn't OP also avoiding consequences by blocking notifications? Coz there are consequences.if someone sees that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 07:41 AM
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What makes me lose respect about people is doing something that they are ashamed of or are ashamed of if someone finds out, but still doing it. I see it in all situations and all gravity levels: from cheating to a test to domestic violence, rape, murder, pedophilia.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 07:32 AM
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Why people in a bubble forum about a mental illness doesn't think straight? You see the same thing on the short men sub. Body dismorphya is a thing. Also, it grinds my gears when people start a post with "i saw a post/video/whatever" and then don't link it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:59 AM
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I mean sure, you can make all sorts of assumptions, that's on you. But having a preference is not a discrimination. People of any race are not discriminated against when it comes to relationships. Same for fat, short, bald, ugly, poor, you name it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:27 AM
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Relationships are inherently discriminatory. Jobs are based on skills and knowledge and race has neither. Perhaps acting is one exception due to staying true to the original story (either a book or a video game or real life events).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:08 AM
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Racial preferences are not racism. What a word salad you made there...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:40 AM
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Thus is clean girl esthetic: https://www.google.com/search?q=haily+biber&sca_esv=268bc2f0954a79d8&sca_upv=1&udm=2&biw=360&bih=618&ei=hAEqZoelBPL5i-gPs6ycsAU&oq=haily+&gs_lp=EhNtb2JpbGUtZ3dzLXdpei1zZXJwIgZoYWlseSAqAggAMgUQABiABDIEEAAYHjIEEAAYHjIEEAAYHjIEEAAYHkisJ1DoDViCIXABeACQAQGYAXWgAbISqgEEMjIuNLgBAcgBAPgBAZgCB6AC2wWoAgDCAgcQABiABBgTwgIEEAAYA8ICCBAAGIAEGLEDwgIKEAAYgAQYQxiKBcICDRAAGIAEGLEDGEMYigWYAwKIBgGSBwMzLjSgB581&sclient=mobile-gws-wiz-serp Again, your perception is biased by what is attrac…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:12 AM
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This is so funny because my language is very colorful when it comes to cursing. You can cuss for 20 minutes straight without repeating yourself. You can make things up on the spot about someone's dead relatives, crosses, gods, blood and onions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 06:58 AM
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