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| 50 | There was a man masturbating and watching porn at a coffee shop I like to go to, have they no pride or dignity?Once I was on the train going to work, and this guy was looking at porn during his entire ride. This was at like 5:30 in the morning and he was mostly likely going to work. I was so disgusted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 03:51 PM |
| 68 | Love everything about this, people are finally waking up to itSame! I was paying the bills, running the household, his life, and my own while working a job making double what he made. And he would throw a fit whenever I asked him to take out the trash so we didn’t get bugs. Or fold the laundry. Or to clean up the dirty socks on the floor, etc. Now that we are broken up, it feels like I am on vacation. I am so relaxed all the time now. This peace and independence is really too precious to lose. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 02:58 PM |
| 144 | The ad I got on a video about domestic violence. On International Women’s Day!Men are so lazy. This is the one thing that is supposed to be yours. The great declaration of your love and commitment to your girlfriend. And you don’t even want to do that anymore? What is even the point of you then? Women are opting out because men have gotten so lazy and useless. They don’t give us romance or provide for us. They don’t make us feel special. They just use us as mothers, maids, and sex toys. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 02:47 PM |
| 168 | Thoughts as I'm packing my things while he sleeps, drunk after going to bed at 7am (a normal night for him)“You are someone better, and you’re right here” is such a true and powerful line. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/22 03:15 PM |
| 31 | Thoughts as I'm packing my things while he sleeps, drunk after going to bed at 7am (a normal night for him)This sounds a lot like my LVX. I kept convincing myself that he could change and to give him time. I gave him 5 years and nothing changed. It’s the FDS mantra: if he wanted to he would. I want to let you know that I have been where you have been before. I left and started my life over. What I didn’t expect is how much peace and happiness leaving has brought me. The unknown is scary and hard but you deserve a better life and partner. You deserve a bright future. You deserve to be happy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/22 03:10 PM |
| 32 | FDS: From minimizing dating disappointment to averting life-derailing disaster - Or the power of sticking the hell up for yourself.I would also love to hear your story of how you left and rebuilt into something better. I am a few months post leaving, and would love to hear from someone who was once where I am at about what life is like in the after. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 12:12 AM |
| 11 | Lvm disrespect pickmes because they feel emasculatedSociety has taught men that nothing is ever their fault, and if something is wrong it’s a woman’s fault (rule 1 of misogyny). So of course when men hate themselves they blame a woman for making them realize how inadequate they are. They cannot accept that they are not a functional human being and so they find ways to blame you, and if you accept the blame they punish you. And society has gaslit women into believing that they are actually the ones at fault! Remember ladies, if he hates himself yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 02:13 PM |
| 6 | She "taught her husband a lesson" by not doing his laundry or grocery shopping after he refused to put away a handful of clothes from the dryer, because he's a guy and "not good at communicating". Someone pointed out basically he has no empathy and only reacts if there's consequences for him.This is so much wasted time and energy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 02:01 PM |
| 35 | How'd You Find FDS?I was crying because my boyfriend didn’t propose on our 5 year anniversary. I found a sub about women waiting for their boyfriends to propose and someone used the term forever girlfriend. I googled that and found FDS. Proceeded to read a lot more and things started to click and make sense. I eventually left my LVX and this sub has really helped me make sense of what happened and why ex acted the way he did. And how to protect myself in the future. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 01:21 PM |
| 61 | Are most high value women “doomed”?Thank you. I really needed to hear this right now. This is why I love FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 05:09 PM |
| 31 | Comments tell her to "commUNIcate", OF is Not BAdMen really are garbage human beings. Video games and porn are his priorities instead of being an adult and paying his bills and child support. Men really only do what they want to do and clearly hedonistic pleasures are way more important than his literal child and being a contributing member of a household. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 05:05 PM |
| 11 | Valentine’s Day Has Always Been the Saddest Year of the Time For MeI am glad that moving forward you are making the day special for yourself. This will be my first Valentine’s Day after breaking up with my LVX. I always made reservations for us at a nice restaurant and wrote him a thoughtful and meaningful card. He would pay and that’s it. I wouldn’t even get flowers. Last year there was an ice storm and he had us walk 8 miles in it to grab take out from a fancy restaurant. 🙃 This year I bought myself jewelry and am going to pamper myself. I am never going to b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 05:58 PM |
| 9 | Ladies, how long did it take for the man's mask to slip, during dating?This is such a good explanation of the problem with gamers. My LVX wasn’t into video games but he was into a nerdy card game and displayed all of these traits. And so did most of his friends who were also into the game. Their brains have been wired since childhood on this reward cycle and they see no way to get out of it. Instead they double down on the instant gratification with other harmful addictions such as porn or drugs. They are man children only seeking the next rush instead of trying to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/22 08:13 PM |
| 15 | Ladies, how long did it take for the man's mask to slip, during dating?The mask first slipped when we moved in together. And fully came off once he bought my engagement ring. He doubled down on bad behavior. Thankfully I walked away before he put the ring on my finger. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/22 08:08 PM |
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