mrsamdick Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	So, I have a problem with my game and I seriously doubt you guys can help. But here goes... Filter = Self control	/r/seduction	31/03/15 08:08 PM
2	So, I have a problem with my game and I seriously doubt you guys can help. But here goes... If you have such little self control then you're not an alpha. Sorry.	/r/seduction	31/03/15 07:54 PM
1	So, I have a problem with my game and I seriously doubt you guys can help. But here goes... My problem is that I guess I am too eccentric for most people. I really dont give a fuck about what I say or who I say it to and I am just weird all around. Seems like you know exactly what the issue is. Be more mindful of what you say and do and how it will affect others.	/r/seduction	31/03/15 07:47 PM
66	Few things to remember, in order to improve this sub Dude you gotta help me! I talked to this girl who's friends with some people I know. When we were talking she smiled a few times and really seemed to like me. When she was leaving she gave me a hug and said it was nice to meet me. I sent her a fb message today. It's been ten minutes so far, should I message her again? For reference, my first message was "hey, what's up, remember me? lol". Was that creepy? Should I not have put "lol"? I asked about this on /r/askwomen but they just got mad at me.…	/r/seduction	23/03/15 05:24 PM
4	Would a gym date be weird? I've never done this myself, but it's been done. If you're both confident at the gym then it shouldn't be any more awkward than a normal date.	/r/seduction	02/03/15 09:23 PM
7	Why don't women ever approach me? FALSE. NEON COLOURS.	/r/seduction	02/03/15 09:08 PM
3	Why don't women ever approach me? You need to wear bright neon colours. They probably all want to approach you but they don't see you until it's too late. It has to do with the way the female eye ball is designed. Wear orange pants, a pink shirt and a yellow hat, and stand there shouting "TALK TO ME WOMEN, TALK TO ME WOMEN" and you'll be knee deep in females in no time sir.	/r/seduction	02/03/15 09:07 PM
2	When is she fair game? If this guy is really your friend then that's up to him.	/r/seduction	29/01/15 02:27 PM
14	What to do with beta friends? Don't try to control the people in your life. Just be yourself and live by example. If what you're doing is so special they'll realize it eventually. Or they won't, in which case it's their loss. Either way, it's not something to waste your energy on.	/r/seduction	18/01/15 04:41 PM
3	My advice, as short and simple as I can put it. Very well said. I would add that for those having trouble not letting their emotions control them to look into cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT). It's very helpful and much easier to get started with than medication or more involved therapies. Even if you consider yourself "mentally healthy" I would recommend reading up on the concepts, it can be very helpful in breaking patterns that may affect your inner game. Here's a link with some great information: http://www.anxietybc.com/what-cbt	/r/seduction	15/01/15 06:44 PM
1	Should I Have Sex With Her Just to Get Laid? Nothing wrong with that, but if you don't feel the same way you have to be completely honest about that. It's bad to lead her on, but if she knows you just want a one time bang and goes for it anyways then that's up to her. But it's an awkward conversation: "I don't really like you, wanna take my dick?"	/r/seduction	14/01/15 09:30 PM
1	Should I Have Sex With Her Just to Get Laid? She felt a love connection? As in she told you she loves you?	/r/seduction	14/01/15 09:21 PM
-1	[R] First date conversation topics. The best things to talk about will be your own experiences. Try to talk about funny or interesting things that have happened to you over your life, nothing too negative if you can help it. This will encourage a natural flowing conversation with lots of laughs.	/r/seduction	08/01/15 05:32 PM
0	The lessons I learned trying to help my female friend pickup a quality man It's shallow to have standards? Do you have standards?	/r/seduction	08/01/15 04:45 PM
1	The lessons I learned trying to help my female friend pickup a quality man Only if you're so desperate to fuck a women who's attracted to tall men that you become suicidal. Otherwise, just find a girl who likes guys your height.	/r/seduction	08/01/15 04:45 PM
1	The lessons I learned trying to help my female friend pickup a quality man ...and short bald women are just rolling in cock.	/r/seduction	08/01/15 04:42 PM
1	The lessons I learned trying to help my female friend pickup a quality man Within the modern man exists a need; I agree with this premise. The sub exists to fulfill that need. Perhaps this sub could be that, and maybe it is sometimes for some people. So for me to say the sub should be blown up and replaced by two lines is hyperbole really. However, this sub is flooded by obsessive behaviours and ignorance begetting ignorance. Most people come here looking for shortcuts; for simple little lines or tricks they can use at a party or a club. Then they post field reports an…	/r/seduction	08/01/15 04:39 PM
31	The lessons I learned trying to help my female friend pickup a quality man Wish I could upvote many times over. I was just having a discussion about this with an FWB of mine and we landed on a lot of the same stuff that you mention. She summed up her thoughts by basically saying "being constantly on defense is not easy or fun" because of what you mention: the lack of quality and the lack of balls. Your two points are all anyone needs: Go do something with your life and have some balls. This whole sub could be wiped out and replaced with those two points. EDIT: If you t…	/r/seduction	07/01/15 07:40 PM
1	It's hard to be a player— It's easy to be a slut. Glad you took out the nonsense about the intenet causing divorce. Even you could tell that was bullshit. lol I don't think gender has as much to do with this as you're making it out to. Regardless of whether you're a man or a woman, if you want to attract people who are at or above your standards you have to work for it, period.	/r/seduction	23/12/14 05:57 PM
1	Without sounding like a pussy.. Yes I have heard of asexuals. They're a tiny percentage of the human population. Therefore, it is not inaccurate to say that "people like sex", because people do like sex. Did I say "every single person in the world likes sex the exact same amount"? No, I said "people like sex". I could also say "people drive cars". I know that not everyone drives a car, some people drove but will never drive again, some people haven't driven before but may drive at some point, some people will go their whole li…	/r/seduction	18/12/14 02:31 PM
2	Without sounding like a pussy.. innaccurate So people don't like sex? Or women aren't people?	/r/seduction	17/12/14 07:24 PM
4	Getting out of the FR after ignoring her If you've been honest about what you want and she doesn't want it then it's a done deal, move on.	/r/seduction	16/12/14 08:20 PM
2	where did I go wrong? [FR-ish] Doesn't sound like you did anything wrong. Most things in life will be out of your control, but it sounds like you're doing well with the small number of things that you can control. Keep at it :)	/r/seduction	16/12/14 08:18 PM
4	Getting out of the FR after ignoring her Why are you wasting any time or energy on this girl? Have you tried just telling her that you like her? That should come BEFORE you act like her friend, and then cut off contact. You need to be a little less of a sociopath and treat this girl like a human being.	/r/seduction	16/12/14 07:49 PM
8	Without sounding like a pussy.. People like sex. Women are people. If that's too complicated for you then you can't be helped, sorry.	/r/seduction	16/12/14 07:41 PM
3	A bit of an awkward question... Would it be okay to check a girl out (say from head to toe), and then when your eyes meet you hold eye contact. Um no, talk to her.	/r/seduction	27/11/14 06:19 PM
3	Seducing High Self-Esteem Girls Most women have low self esteem. I very strongly disagree. We must run in different circles, but I just do not see this. Women allow their lack of self-esteem and insecurities drive their interactions. Well lots of people have insecurities that affect their social interactions, it's not really anything specific to women, or even specific to women with low self-esteem. For example, Barbara Streisand has stage-freight, but it would be hard to argue that she has low self-esteem. Its not that men ta…	/r/seduction	10/11/14 10:01 PM
3	Is the friendzone not real? Yea pretty much. It's the invention of butt-hurt adolescents who want to blame women for all their problems instead of getting off their asses and actually doing something about it.	/r/seduction	10/11/14 09:11 PM
41	Seducing High Self-Esteem Girls Is this what the world of "game" has become? You're so used to targeting girls who hate themselves that you have nothing to say to a girl with some self-esteem? Holy shit, this sub makes me feel like a ranting raving old man some times!	/r/seduction	10/11/14 07:12 PM
1	It's ridiculous how much of a difference having hair makes Next time you see a man with Down Syndrome and a full head of hair, think of your little bitchfest here and be greatful for what you have.	/r/seduction	20/10/14 08:15 PM
4	Wanting It So stop reading stories, go out there and try some shit, and then write your own stories.	/r/seduction	17/10/14 01:04 AM
10	Wanting It You like your hand better than real sex with an actual woman? You wanna be hangin with your bros when you're 80 or with your grandkids? To each his own I guess.	/r/seduction	17/10/14 01:00 AM
4	How Do I Respond to This Girl Making Fun of Me? Either make fun of her shirts, or wear different shirts, or stop caring.	/r/seduction	24/09/14 08:47 PM
1	Not sure if many of you are familiar with this show but it is incredibly entertaining and you can actually learn alot about seduction by watching it. It is out of Canada so hopefully there are some guys on here who have yet to see it! Was a big fan of Keys when it came out, but now that I look back as an adult I have to laugh at myself. This show will give you very little practical advice. It's a good laugh though.	/r/seduction	26/08/14 08:09 PM
1	Skipped two grades. Girls get turned off. No woman will ever be turned off by your intelligence, unless you're arrogant about it. Generally, women like older men, stick to women your age or younger and you'll do fine. One you're all more mature you'll be able to get older women.	/r/seduction	22/08/14 07:23 PM
1	Can You Reverse Being "Too Keen" : / I have been honest with my feelings and told her I want to be with her and apologised for everything in the past. That's really all you can do, it's up to her now. If she doesn't know what she wants then just move on.	/r/seduction	29/07/14 05:44 PM
2	Quick question friends, A waitress who served you a week ago? She may not remember you.	/r/seduction	17/07/14 08:21 PM
39	PSA: Be aware of your property in bar closes. "Hold on one sec babe, just gonna lock up some valuables then I'm gonna rock your world! Look away while I punch in this code please..." Gets em wet every time :p	/r/seduction	15/07/14 06:25 PM
6	[FR] Application of Seddit Techniques has other benefits Thanks for this, I feel like a lot of guys (including some close friends) miss the point entirely and it bums me out. It's not about running "games" or "techniques" to fool women into sleeping with you once or twice. It's about allowing yourself to genuinely interact with people, and getting others to interact genuinely with you. Once you're able to do that the doors just start opening: one nighters, relationships, career stuff, anything.	/r/seduction	26/06/14 07:05 PM
3	Was it something I said? I think she wanted to have you over to her house to hang and meet her room mates, very casual. Instead you invited her over to your place to drink, possibly just the two of you, not casual at all. Just chalk it up as a learning experience.	/r/seduction	26/06/14 05:02 AM
1	How to deepen my voice? What the fuck. How do you know his voice type??? Well I said "maybe" and phrased it as a suggestion, so no need for hostility. You don't get to hit lower notes by warming up out of your range. I wasn't suggesting he warms up out of his range. If you were to actually read my comment, you would see that my suggestion was he find some ways to relax his vocal chords. Not a fully formed idea, but your tone is unwarranted.	/r/seduction	24/06/14 03:28 PM
33	How to deepen my voice? I had a singing teacher who explained that more relaxed vocal chords will produce a deeper tone of voice, which is why you have a deeper voice in the morning after a long sleep. Maybe if you look online for singer warmups, specifically bass and baritone singers, you might find some techniques for relaxing your chords to help you hit those low tones with more power.	/r/seduction	23/06/14 09:02 PM