TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

mrsdazed Archive

View 1 posts and 21 comments by mrsdazed on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
12

LTR/MARRIAGEmrsdazed/r/RedPillWomen30/05/17 06:25 PM
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
5

The more I read RPW, the more I understand what do I really look for in a man. It's not exactly an RP guy, but a Captain. I have dated both. Those who are not aware of RP, and those who don't have Captain quality. Most of them are not exactly a bad man. They are nice loving men and all, but the main quality I think they lack of is the leadership skill. So the relationship is not going to the direction that is planned and thought through. I wasn't aware of RP at that time, but I knew that I wante…
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/17 12:42 AM
3

This is something that I am struggling with every day. My father passed away when I was in jr. high school, but as fas as I remember, they lived their marriage the traditional way so this concept is somewhat familiar to me. It was during the time my elder sister went to the uni in different city, (she lived with my aunt and uncle, so somehow she can still have the leader of the house) so I had to be 'in charge' at home while my mom back to work. And I have a younger brother to take care to. That…
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/17 03:45 AM
1

I don't actually see the real connection between make it legal and HAVE to spend thousands of dollars. I think it really depends on the individuals. I agree that commitment is the most important. But I also don't think that people who can (or want) to afford to spend thousand of dollars immediately think that commitment is less important. I am not trying to be SJW and preach about how we should not judge people. What I am trying to say is there are people who are actually put so much effort to b…
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/17 01:04 AM
3

Thank you for pointing this out
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/17 11:50 PM
1

Pre wedding photoshoot. Especially one where you wear a wedding dress with full makeup and all. And it's usually taken at least a month before your actual wedding.
/r/RedPillWives05/06/17 08:57 AM
1

I am in Asia and contrary to what people believe, even in here it's getting out of control. One person I know once told a story how she did not enroll her kid in one school because during the open house she heard one of the teacher said (to a boy who pushed a girl) "Don't do that. Boys should not push or hit girls" and she went "Why did the teacher limits her teaching method to one gender only? Everybody should not push/hit everybody!" It's like people are creating problem that should not even b…
/r/RedPillWives05/06/17 08:45 AM
1

this!
/r/RedPillWives05/06/17 07:42 AM
4

Some ideas: Cooking (or learn to cook). You can have fun and can actually save money by not spending too much on takeaways or eating out Photography. And I don't mean the one with professional camera and all. A lot of tutorial of taking great picture with your cell phone. And there are a lot of free apps/software for editing as well If you like beauty products, you can try to make your own lip balm, scrub and stuff. it's pretty cheap. You only need some oils and beeswax. You can get the recipe a…
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/17 04:03 AM
3

if you are really sure both guys are alpha, you know you don't want to continue this game. Alpha guys do not tolerate being a spare tire.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/17 03:52 AM
3

The important thing that the mother forgot is that, her husband, also chose her as a wife. And I think she should be flattered that someone who chose hardship over easy way also chose her to be someone he wants to spend his life with. At least she knew he's not choosing her because she's an easy way
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/17 03:24 AM
1

I would say just give it a try. Lot of people are not comfortable in online interactions and they are far more pleasant in real life. Which in my experience, those kind of people are the people I actually want to have relationship with.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/17 12:25 AM
1

Thank you for your reply. Yes, I kinda figured that by now. I could think of so many reasons in my head to justify what he did to me, but it would make me be the one who lives in denial. Now that I know that the problem is not (all) on me, then I can weigh in all options and decide what's the best for me. I understand what I wrote below might sound ridiculous or even stupid to a lot of people. But even though I have not reached my ultimate decision, I am keen on staying put. Not because I like b…
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/17 11:53 PM
1

Dear All, Thank you for your input and feedback. I have read them all even though I might not reply them one by one. I will take it into my consideration while deciding what to do next. One thing for sure, I have to start valuing myself better, and in order to do that I have to be better, since I know I was not good enough before. But that you so much for all the replies. And also the PMs.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/17 12:15 AM
1

I agree with the advice to reach to your old friends back. But at the same time, I do think you need a new social circle too. If you are not accustomed or comfortable with Tinder or any dating site, maybe you can try to join an online forum for the same interest/hobby? Sometimes they met offline and you can meet likeminded people. Secondly, yes since you have thought about it, go work on your wardrobe. I didn't understand why your ex wanted you to look schlumpy, but you need to get rid of those …
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/17 09:25 AM
1

oh btw, what do you think about this article? http://www.returnofkings.com/44554/the-major-flaw-in-todays-perception-of-domestic-violence like I said, I am confused. I really think no guy should hit his wife, if he does love him. But what if I really did provoke him?
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/17 02:38 AM
1

This I agree. Very much so. And like I said he was not always like this. He used to treat me with a lot of respect. Then maybe, just maybe, because i realized that I helped him when he needed me most, I started to take him for granted. I provoke him, I talked back and I sometimes lost my respect for him. I am not saying he's right. I just think maybe, if I had been more understanding, more listening and not nag him, he would have been different. And I am not saying this because I degrade myself.…
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/17 02:35 AM
1

The main problem I have actually, sometimes it's very hard to communicate what I meant and he would take what I said differently. For example, when we was to meet the first time, he got an accident when he was buying a ticket to see me. Then he texted me (who was doing something at that time) and all joking and said he fell. So, after asked if he's okay and he said yes, I told him I would call him as soon as I am done doing this thing. When I did, 15 minutes later, he was so mad because apparent…
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/17 11:48 PM
0

This may sound weak, but my religion forbids divorce. And I have the feeling that if like he said I made him do all the bad things because hat I did to him, then I should be able to bring the best in him, too. Silly I know.
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/17 11:41 PM
-1

He wasn't 'red pill' back when he was happy to take your money. He wasn't happy though. I kinda forced him to because I can't see any other way to get him out of the situation. I will find and read the book, thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/17 11:38 PM
1

Yes, I have thought of that more than once. How could someone said he loved me but treated me like that. Then I look on the other side and see that he did the best that he could on being the best man on his part. Granted he thinks that his part in the marriage is only to work and provide. I don't know how Red Pill men truly behaves in their marriage to be honest. I am reading lots of RP blogs and it makes me a bit taken aback. It seems like all the blogs and the podcast are so full of hate to wo…
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/17 11:35 PM
1

Thank you for this. Yes I know that working on my value should be the first on my list. And he did say that I don't really value myself and it's hard to love someone that doesn't love herself first. Yes, I agree that different view can make discussion interesting. I have to admit though that I wasn't (are not) a very pleasant friend to discuss thing. I used to work in a good position where people actually do what I ask them to and now in this marriage where we want to, like you, have more tradit…
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/17 11:24 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter