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Good job on replying to a year old comment. You must have no life. I have a girlfriend and plenty of amazing sex, but I don't need your approval and you can believe what you want. I'm guessing you have piercings which is why my comment triggered you.
/r/askTRP31/03/22 10:14 PM
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Maybe my numbers are off. But a reversal is also expensive, I believe around $15,000, and there's still no guarantee. I'm also child free and had a vasectomy, but I still advise men on being 100% sure about the decision, because you can't count on getting it reversed. You could also freeze your sperm if there's any hesitation.
/r/askTRP22/06/21 09:14 PM
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Maybe my numbers are off. But a reversal is also expensive, I believe around $15,000, and there's still no guarantee. I'm also child free and had a vasectomy, but I still advise men on being 100% sure about the decision, because you can't count on getting it reversed. You could also freeze your sperm if there's any hesitation.
/r/askTRP22/06/21 09:14 PM
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Not really. After reversal there's only around 30% chance it'll work. That said, I'm all for vasectomies if that's what you want.
/r/askTRP22/06/21 07:21 PM
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Yeah Myron is a joke. He has some good advice but he is insecure as hell, which leads me to believe he is faking being high value. He said one time on the podcast talking about "girls night out" that he wouldn't even want his girl to go to the beach without him. Like wtf...
/r/askTRP19/06/21 05:57 AM
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Just admit it, you haven't read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 01:40 AM
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Damn, reading this made me realize how I fucked up with my current LTR. I vetted her before committing, but could've did a better job. When she asked for commitment, I just told her that I won't ever want marriage or kids, but I should've also mentioned the things you described. The only social media she has is Facebook, and from I could tell it's pretty innocent. Her account is private, so no way of seeing everything she posts but from what I can see publicly, it's mostly all female friends and…
/r/askTRP10/06/21 07:02 PM
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Ignore, and continue as usual. If she comes over and is still serious about the "sex detox" and refuses to have sex then I would hard next. Also, have you explicity stated to her that you guys are FWB? I would remind her what the "B" in FWB means, and if she no longer wants that then she can kick rocks.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 06:26 PM
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Retarded advice right here.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 06:10 PM
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Wrong. It's a comfort test.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 06:06 PM
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What did she say when you told her this?
/r/askTRP10/06/21 06:05 PM
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I heard that Alpha Male Strategies leans to the left politically, which I find surprising.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 10:42 AM
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I check, and don't bother approaching if I see one.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 10:19 AM
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Her having a boyfriend vs. her being married is an entirely different ball game. I always check for a wedding ring and if she has one I don't even bother, unless shes practically trying to jump on my dick.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 10:16 AM
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Id say be more dominant and alpha all the time. A good way would be to tell her to take it off and put something else on. And she better listen. I disagree with this part. Telling her to put on something less revealing is a form of mateguarding. It essentially signals to her that you're insecure about other guys checking out her goods and worried that some dude might start hitting on her. Congrats, you just lost frame and now view her as the prize. I did this back in my blue pilled days, and eve…
/r/askTRP07/06/21 06:54 PM
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Just remember to take a deload week once in awhile. I'm in the same boat as you, totally addicted to going to the gym. I have worked out 9 days in a row and still don't want to take a rest day. I have to force myself to take rest days. Mind you I'm on gear, so YMMV.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 03:37 AM
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You should not have been supporting her in the first place....the relationship is a joint endeavor I would never "support" her. When I think of supporting a woman, I think of paying her electric bill or some shit. Hell no. I simply would pick up the tab more often than her if we go out for dinner/movies/bowling, etc. This will be a very good test. Hopefully she passes but the fact the she was comfortable with you mainly footing the bill for things is not encouraging. Yeah, it will be a good test…
/r/askTRP06/06/21 11:51 PM
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I still disagree. We don't live together and we aren't married, she doesn't need to know details about my job. Telling her most of my money is tied up and I'm saving up wouldn't be a lie either. I can understand telling her the full story if we lived together, shared bills, and/or were married. And due to our work schedules, I only see her every other weekend.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 11:35 PM
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So you're saying you should always go 50/50 for expenses in a LTR? It's not like I was "waving cash around", and I never used money as a means to attract her. I simply wanted to show her that I'm financially stable. But I guess you're right, and I shouldn't care or worry about this too much and should change my mindset.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 11:21 PM
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Doesn't TRP advocate for not bringing up work problems with the woman you're with/dating? You talk about those problems with your guy friends. Women don't want to hear your problems, it's a quick way to kill attraction. Which is why I'll probably just tell her I don't want to spend the money right now, and suggest we do something less expensive. She doesn't need to know every detail, and this isn't lying to her either. My gut instinct tells me she'll be understanding about it, but just wanted to…
/r/askTRP06/06/21 06:34 AM
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Bro, she isn't a gold digger. Go back to the black pill subreddit. I've been with this chick for a year and a half and have been constantly vetting. No signs of being a gold digger. At all. I would know because I've dated one before. She has never asked for money or for me to buy her anything. I am the one that leads the relationship and tells her where/what we're doing for the most part. I usually pay because of reasons I've already mentioned. On our last trip, we went on vacation to south FL. …
/r/askTRP06/06/21 06:21 AM
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This would be the case if she saw me as beta bucks, which I have many indications she does not.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 09:28 PM
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Sound advice. No need to cancel, we haven't even made the plans yet. She just mentioned she wants to take a trip to the mountains and stay in a log cabin. I'll just suggest a much cheaper alternative. I was thinking about spinning some plates, but I don't even want to spend money on going on dates. I'm trying to save every penny, so even a date just to grab a coffee or drink is out of the question.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 09:09 PM
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Do you mean “providing her an experience” by being with you in a general sense? Or do you mean “providing her an experience” as in paying for trips, food, gifts, etc? The former. In my opinion, yes. Tell her things are a little rough. It is a minor set back and tell her what you are doing about it. Keep it short and sweet or in other words, provide your statement and STFU! See how she reacts. I'll probably just be ambiguous and tell her most of money is tied up and I'm trying to save up. Hi Mr. …
/r/askTRP05/06/21 08:58 PM
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This actually sounds like my best option. I can just tell her a lot of my money is tied up and I'm trying to save up. This way I don't have to bother her with my problems with my job. Thanks man.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 08:42 PM
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No, she doesn't see me as beta bucks. She even has told me that she isn't with me for financial support. I know, watch her actions not her words--but she has her own house, her own career, nice car, etc. She is very feminine, submissive, and sucks my dick dry. The way she fucks alone tells me she doesn't see me as a beta male provider. Again, there were plently of times where she pays/grabs the check without me asking. It's just that for the most part I would pay more often. I'm the man in the r…
/r/askTRP05/06/21 08:35 PM
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No one is calling you an asshole, it's just female nature. We're not going to get mad at the bee when a bee stings us, but we will avoid getting stung in the first place. Based on your post history, you're in college correct? Almost all girls in college ride the cock carousel to an extent. You coming out and giving your boyfriend permission to cheat is highly suspect. If my LTR did this I would start to worry, and wonder who she is wanting to fuck or is currently fucking.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 10:21 PM
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This. Also if you look at her post history you'll that she is in college. We all know what goes on at colleges...
/r/askTRP04/06/21 10:10 PM
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Haha you sound like me. My past girlfriend had severe BPD and was suicidal. She wasn't attractive (maybe a 4) but stayed with her because I was blue pilled at the time. I'm now in a LTR with a girl who is more attractive and no major red flags. But I agree, having a LTR is TRP on hard mode. This will also be my last LTR if things don't work out.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 09:44 PM
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She doesn't get bored or show signs of losing attraction from you just coming over for sex? My LTR is also around a 7, but we still do date nights and go places together. I feel if I were to just come over to fuck everytime, she'll be missing some comfort and feel like she is just being used. I guess it also depends on the type of girl, mine is very adventurous and likes doing outdoor shit.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 09:37 PM
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Only way you story would be believable is if she were drunk.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 09:12 PM
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Employers don't check your employment background via IRS. They verify your previous employment by contacting their HR dept.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 09:05 PM
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Actually, I did write "ect." with the period at the end. So bad bot.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 08:53 PM
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Yeah that's what I meant. Although personally I don't see the big deal. It's more of an annoyance than anything because you can't be as spontaneous (she has to go to the bathroom to take out tampon, get a towel to lay on the bed, ect.). Also makes outdoor sex impossible. I know some guys get turned off and refuse to have sex during shark week, but I'm a horny fuck and a little bit of blood down there isn't going to hold me back.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 08:43 PM
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Don't be immature, blood is just another bodily fluid just like all the other juices in her vagina. Put a towel down on the bed, shower immediately afterwards and call it day. There is something animalistic about fucking a girl while she is on her period, and you'll show her you have a IDGAF attitude instead of being a pussy about it and getting squeamish at the first sight of blood.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 06:02 PM
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Crest white strips work and do a decent job. But if you have the money it will be best to get it done professionally.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 05:50 PM
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Agree, those are the worst. A woman with a nose piercing (especially a septum piercing) is an instant boner killer.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 11:14 AM
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You can't raise your IQ, you can only increase your knowledge.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 11:04 AM
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I used to work for Postmates/UberEats, and I made more than a garbage man, with doing way less work.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 11:01 AM
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This. I was working at a shitty job delivering pizzas, but was still able to pull a decently attractive girl (we are still dating, but have since got a better job). She didn't give a damn about my job because my SMV is 1.5-2 points above hers, I have confidence, swagger, good looking, nice body, good game, strong frame, and can fuck her to sleep.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 10:58 AM
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The whole idea that you shouldn't explain yourself to a woman is mainly in the context of when she is trying to pull you into her frame. Examples: Her: "Why aren't the dishes done yet?" What you SHOULDN'T say: "Oh I'm sorry honey, I was busy and must've forgot." What you SHOULD say: "Because you're not in the kitchen." (with a smirk) There are certain circumstances where you will have no choice but to explain something to her. For example, if she asks for directions to your house. Point being, l…
/r/askTRP03/06/21 10:24 AM
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Is your diet and training 100%? You said you've been lifting for 5 years so I would hope so. Are you prepared to be on TRT the rest of your life? Do you not care about fertility? Are you prepared for possible side effects (acne, gyno, hairloss, etc.)? Do you have the financial means to afford it (gear can become expensive). If so, I would say if you want to go for it. Just remember you only have so many cycles you can run in your lifetime before you'll have to stop to prevent health issues. Make…
/r/askTRP02/06/21 06:06 AM
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Let me get this straight...you texted this chick back and forth for 2 years without smashing? Bro, you're her beta orbiter.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 05:51 AM
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Thanks man, will do.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 04:06 AM
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Yes, 12 days in between fucking. Not saying everyone has to or should wait 12 days, I'm just saying in most cases it's best not have sex every single day with the same chick. Otherwise it will become a rountine. This is also why I don't recommended cohabitation with your LTR. After those 12 days, when she finally gets to see me let me tell you...her pussy is wetter than a camel's tongue, and the sex is still amazing. We fuck 5-6 times during that weekend that I see her.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 04:04 AM
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Yes, been hitting the gym almost everyday to keep myself distracted. And then of course she sends me another text tonight (more pics of her in the mountains) while I'm in the middle of my workout. Of course I ignored it and tried to remain focused on my workout. I am lacking a mission however. I will be getting laid off in a few weeks from my job at which point I'll have to find a new job. Not sure what I'm going to do. I'm guessing this might be part of the problem.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 02:51 AM
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Only thing that seems to help is limit the sex. If you fuck the same girl everyday it's going to get boring fairly quickly. For this reason, I don't live with my LTR and we only see each other and have sex every other weekend. That may seem like a lot of time in between but after being with my LTR for a year and half, she is still ready to jump my bones every time I see her, and I still enjoy the sex almost as much as when we first met. The honeymoon phase will end regardless, but you can extend…
/r/askTRP02/06/21 02:03 AM
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You're right, it is opening Pandora's box, which is why I would only want to see her phone if I'm fairly certain she is cheating, only to confirm. I wouldn't want to break up with her over just a hunch, I would only do so if I were to have solid proof. A woman stores her entire life in her phone, so there's bound to be some evidence if she were in fact cheating. This is especially true if she has a passcode to unlock her phone. For example, my LTR has facial recognition to unlock her iPhone, top…
/r/askTRP01/06/21 06:51 PM
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I think it's fine to ask her to see her phone if you suspect her of cheating. Otherwise if things are going good I agree, you should have no reason to go through her phone. It will only make you lose frame and look massively insecure.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 06:10 PM
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Your lower sex drive isn't due to the creatine bro. Could be your diet, lack of sleep, stress, hormones, or a whole host of other factors. But creatine hasn't been shown to lower libido.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 01:15 PM
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No it does not. Where the fuck did you hear that?
/r/askTRP01/06/21 01:05 PM
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Just be upfront and tell her. Tell her you thought about it and a LDR isn't going to work for you. She might pout and beg for you to stay with her, but hold frame and just repeat the fact that you're not looking for a LDR.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 12:51 PM
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I had this happen to me about a year in to my current LTR. She asked me if I could text her more often during the week (we only see each other on the weekends) so she doesn't miss me as much. This is a comfort test. I told her something along the lines of "we'll see", but still continued to not text her "I miss you" or other emotional bs, but instead I would feed her scraps from time to time to give her some comfort. For example: Her: "I miss you." (Instead of telling her you miss her back) You:…
/r/askTRP01/06/21 12:41 PM
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Sounds more like a comfort test.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 12:25 PM
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One of the few perks of being in a LTR is the ability to have consistent sex pretty much whenever (as long as the relationship is going good and she still has burning genuine desire for you). If she goes away for college and it becomes a LDR, you will lose this and essentially you two will become pen pals. If I were you I would break things off. And in the future, don't LTR a chick that you know will be going away to college soon. She can say she'll remain loyal all she wants; don't pay attentio…
/r/askTRP01/06/21 12:15 PM
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Lol I told her something along the lines of me having her tied up and having my way with her. She texted me back saying that she likes the sound of that.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 09:35 PM
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Why not? The fact that we don't see each other every day helps keep the spark in the relationship and things don't get repetitive and old. We've been together for over a year and sex is still amazing and she still has high interest/attraction for me.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 09:27 PM
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Thanks man, I ended up going the sexual route based on your advice.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 08:03 PM
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Good answer, however wouldn't work in my case. She lives an hour away and due to our schedules we only see each other on certain days.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 07:56 PM
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It's a good sign, it means she enjoyed the sex and wants more.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 04:25 AM
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Doesn't sound like he was hitting on your girlfriend (unless there's more to the story), just friendly customer service. The fact that you believe so and came on here to post about it makes it seem like you are jealous and insecure. Regardless, if another dude hits on your girlfriend in front of you, you do nothing. It's not your job to mate guard, it's her job to tell the dude to fuck off. If you really have the balls, tell the guy "I'll tell you what, I'm going to run to restroom, in the meant…
/r/askTRP15/05/21 01:26 AM
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It means read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 06:55 PM
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Ok tough guy.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 04:20 PM
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I'm in a LTR and go raw. Condoms suck and sex is 10 times better raw. I also had a vasectomy so don't have to worry about getting her pregnant. For ONS or plate, I would wrap it.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 03:42 AM
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This makes no sense. If he wasn't attracted to her he would have the opposite problem (taking longer to bust).
/r/askTRP09/05/21 09:59 PM
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Sounds like performance anxiety. As others have said, quit porn and do no fap for a bit. Also meditating should help. At 18, your test levels should be sky high, but you can always get it checked to be sure.
/r/askTRP09/05/21 05:01 PM
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Coming from someone who uses cialis, it won't help with performance anxiety (which sounds like the case here). You can take 30mg of cialis and if you're not in the right headspace your dick is still going to be a soft noodle.
/r/askTRP09/05/21 04:58 PM
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Sounds like the only thing you did wrong was eating her out without getting a blowjob in return. Most likely she sobered up and regretted the encounter, and/or was just hot and horny in that moment. Next time, have a condom on you.
/r/askTRP09/05/21 05:55 AM
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Sounds like you should've approached her. She gave you a clear as day choosing signal bro.
/r/askTRP09/05/21 05:48 AM
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Word. Thanks man.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 10:15 PM
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Did you miss the part where I mentioned she is my LTR of over one year? She doesn't even use Instagram, she has many green flags to indicate she wouldn't cheat, and has been very good to me thus far in the relationship. I also said I'm not doing it to appease her, it's her birthday and wanted to get her something, you know like a decent fucking human being would.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 08:28 PM
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Teachers don't make much money bro. How is she buying you a 2.5 million dollar condo?
/r/askTRP08/05/21 07:20 PM
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Oh I know, and I definitely spend more than a few bucks on her regularly (going on dates and vacation trips). It's just the specific gift of giving her flowers that I'm wondering about. Usually when guys give women flowers it's coming from a place of being apologetic after a fight or trying to impress, so they've gotten kind of a bad rap.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 07:08 PM
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Escorts are for betas and black pilled MGTOW phaggots. Wrong sub.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 04:35 AM
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Why would you want give her your non sexual attention after she cancelled the date? And she should've been the one to offer FaceTime or phone call, not you. You doing so will make you look needy.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 12:55 AM
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Curious, what parts you don't buy into?
/r/askTRP06/05/21 05:05 AM
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I remember reading or hearing somewhere that you only start to lose muscle 2-3 weeks after you stop training. You probably didn't lose that much, and you'll gain it back quickly due to muscle memory.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 04:48 AM
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Most guys have never experienced an orgasm while having a rimjob, but I guarantee they would be singing a different tune if they have.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 05:35 PM
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Odd that you waited a year in your attempt to have your LTR rim you. True. I guess I had just slowly built up the confidence to feel comfortable about revealing that kink. Before I would have her rub my asshole while I'm fucking her with me on top of her, but have just now decided to see if she would go further. 2) She doesn't get any pleasure out of it. This to me is a red flag and is indicating that you aren't the prize in her eyes. Most girls get zero pleasure out of giving blowjobs, having t…
/r/askTRP03/05/21 05:27 PM
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Go back to having your vanilla sex, you fucking prude.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 05:04 PM
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My asshole is probably cleaner than the inside of your mouth.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 05:01 PM
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What is this ,"own her soul", gay vampire larping bullshit? It's an expression. It means that she is so attached and invested in you that she will pretty much do anything to please you. Lookup Alpha Male Strategies on YouTube. He has his girls lick his ass, and uses the same expression. If a girl is willing to lick your ass, you've got her. Rimjobs aren't gross as long as the person is very clean. If you go to eat a girl's ass and it's dirty, then you are fucking some nasty chicks that lack basi…
/r/askTRP03/05/21 04:59 PM
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I'm sorry that you're so insecure in your sexuality that you automatically think it's gay. There's nerve endings down there and the prostate is the male g-spot. Has nothing to do with homosexuality. If it's not for you then whatever, fuck off.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 04:55 AM
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Your comment is the only one that is helpful, so thanks. You bring up good points so I'll just leave it be. I'll just accept the fact that she won't do it, not a huge deal but slightly disappointed.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 04:40 AM
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That's not how it works...at all. And it's not disgusting if the person knows how to clean their ass. If it's not for you then cool, carry on.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 04:26 AM
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It could mean you fucked up recently and lost frame and/or displayed non-congruent behavior, so now she wants to know if you truly are a high value man, or just faking it.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 04:37 PM
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When did AMS say you shouldn't fuck on the second date?
/r/askTRP16/04/21 06:38 PM
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Your first mistake was moving in together with your LTR. Second mistake was letting her get the puppy after you explicitly expressed your disapproval of the idea. You completely fell into her frame, now she knows she can get away with whatever she wants.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 11:28 PM
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A broken clock is still right twice a day...
/r/askTRP15/04/21 09:23 PM
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Your first mistake is going to the gym with your girlfriend.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 03:34 PM
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Stop texting and CALL them. Chat for 10-15 min. (no more than that), build some rapport, and ask her out. Most girls want to feel you out a bit before meeting, make sure you're cool and not a creep, ect. Doesn't mean you have to tell her your life story. Just have friendly, playful banter and small talk.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 01:47 AM
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No, unless your plan was to fuck her in the car. Otherwise the seduction phase should start at her/your place. On the car ride home LMR probably kicked in and she got hesitant. But without knowing the full details this is just a guess. Did she give you any explanation? Usually you can push past LMR. Chill out for a little bit and try again 15-30 min. later.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 01:38 AM
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She's a plate. You shouldn't care if she is seeing other guys.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 01:28 AM
4

Learn to enjoy your own company. Women shouldn't be the focus of your happiness.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 01:23 AM
3

No offense dude, but judging by your profile pic, she isn't a HB7-8. Women date across or up on the social economic scale, and you look like a 5 or 6. You make decent money, but with having that alone you're just going to attract women looking for a beta male provider. Keep working out and lose some body fat (it will lean out your face) and you'll be set.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 01:14 AM
6

A man's SMV is mainly looks, money, status. Are you asking us to rate you?
/r/askTRP15/04/21 01:02 AM
5

You're only 23, you shouldn't be in a LTR. Spin plates and focus on your business.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 03:09 PM
4

Not sure why you got downvoted, but you're right.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 03:08 PM
5

If a girl rejects me at the gym, and I see her there at my next workout, I wouldn't care. I would just do my thing and not give a fuck.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 02:23 PM
1

You got it backwards. She has to respect you outside of the bedroom first. You're doing (or not doing) something to where she feels she doesn't have to respect you, and this leads to shitty sexy. She doesn't look up to you, and probably doesn't perceive you as a high value male.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 02:15 PM
2

I agree. These guys that are saying not to game women that are working at a job that requires them to be friendly are leaving a lot of pussy on the table. Like bro, what job that involves interaction with others doesn't require someone to be friendly to others?
/r/askTRP14/04/21 03:08 AM
0

What's so hard to believe about that? It could be her part time job while she is in college. Not all 9s are models or strippers bro.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 01:57 AM
1

Nice? Yes. But going out of her way to have a conversation with a customer? No. I used to be a cashier in my younger days; you basically have to smile, greet the customer, ring them up, and wish them a good day. That's all. You do this and the managers will love you. No managers were around so it's not like she was trying to earn extra brownie points for being extra friendly to me. But again, she could've just started the conversation just to be nice and because she wanted to, and not to be flir…
/r/askTRP14/04/21 01:15 AM
0

This is perfect, should've thought of it myself.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 12:38 AM
1

She doesn't respect you, so improving your fucking skills won't fix your broken relationship.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 12:29 AM
-1

I think this mainly applies to women that are paid extra to be nice to you (strippers, bartenders, waitresses, ect. aka "hired guns".). And even then, if you can distinguish between whether she is just being friendly because it's her job or whether she is genuinely attracted to, I see no reason not to game them. In this case, she isn't allowed to receive tips, and isn't paid extra to have conversations with customers. Either she was just being friendly because that's who she is (high possibility…
/r/askTRP13/04/21 11:46 PM
3

This is a good response, just make sure it's done playfully otherwise you might get a drink thrown in your face haha.
/r/askTRP13/04/21 03:26 PM
5

For this type of shit test, I feel agree & amplify or pressure flip works best. Her: "You're going bald." You: "Have you always been so infatuated by bald guys?" Or Her: "You're going bald." You: "Hell yeah, can't wait to look like a sexier version of Mr. Clean." Or Him: "You're going bald dude!" You: "Hell yeah, can't wait to look like a more badass version of Mr. Clean." I'm also balding, and the thing I've learned is you just have to own it.
/r/askTRP13/04/21 03:23 PM
6

Call them out on it, "hey man, when do you plan on shutting the fuck up?" Not sure this would be a good response. Kind of shows their comments bother you and is getting under your skin.
/r/askTRP13/04/21 03:05 PM
2

Yup. And OP is probably catching oneitis for her.
/r/askTRP13/04/21 02:18 PM
1

You're wrong. It is in fact agreeing & amplifying. Better response: "Only to the ones I like."
/r/askTRP13/04/21 01:58 PM
1

Ok gotcha. I'll agree with that.
/r/askTRP13/04/21 01:58 AM
1

If a woman is looking for commitment, and she eventually asks for it, yes that means you're doing things right. It means she sees you as a high value male and her best option (at the moment), and wants to lock you down. Now it's up to you if you want to give her that commitment. If a women isn't looking for commitment, then her not bringing up "the talk" isn't a bad sign because obviously she isn't looking for a relationship. She just wants good dick.
/r/askTRP13/04/21 01:49 AM
2

So every guy in a LTR is fucked? Nah. If you vetted the girl, set boundaries, hold frame, continue to game her, stay on your purpose, ect. then you're not fucked.
/r/askTRP13/04/21 01:43 AM
1

One of the best decisions I've made.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 11:30 PM
7

I disagree. It puts you in her frame. You shouldn't give a fuck. If she's going to cheat you can't stop her. It's not like she'll come clean and admit she's going to be getting throat fucked by another guy.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 07:22 PM
5

In her mind, perhaps. However, to him it gives him a sense of (false) hope. She could be dangling the carrot to keep him around as an orbiter. I personally wouldn't expect my girlfriend to be telling guys maybe she'll hang out with them "some other time". Anything other than a firm no or "no thanks, I have a boyfriend" gets a raised eyebrow from me. Doesn't mean I would react or mate guard, but I would start paying closer attention to her behavior.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 07:12 PM
55

Yeah she could've just been trying to let him down easy, so I wouldn't think too much into it. Overall you did good. But next time she gets a phone call in front of you, I wouldn't even ask who it is. It could be perceived as you being insecure and worried that a guy is hitting her up.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 04:42 PM
112

I agree with you, however she only halfway did her job. She told him "Maybe some other time" when really she should've told him "No, I have a boyfriend". Regardless, I still think the correct response is to it leave alone.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 03:59 PM
4

I attract a lot of single moms as well for some reason. I see no problem with seeing them on short term/causal basis, just pump and dump.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 12:54 PM
8

Plate? Yes. LTR? No.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 12:47 PM
2

ADG Profumo. Trust me, women love it. And yes, you should wear cologne daily. Just don't over spray and choke people out. Wear lighter fragrances to work, and heavier fragrances when going out clubbing, bars, ect.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 08:29 AM
0

She doesn't have strong enough attraction for you. I think you did act a little butthurt, next time just withdraw attention.
/r/askTRP11/04/21 06:41 PM
2

Continue gaming and improving your SMV. Apply dread when needed. Otherwise enjoy a sexless relationship or for her to monkey branch.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 08:50 AM
1

Go back to the FDS sub.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 08:20 AM
3

Keyword being could. Just saying, in general they could be lying. If they truly aren't single then find a girl who isn't, or one that is willing to cheat on their boyfriend.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 12:21 AM
1

Not everything is a shit test lol I'm sure she was just curious to see how you're doing. Don't overthink shit.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 04:14 PM
7

Them telling you they have a boyfriend could be a shit test. A lot of women say they do when they really don't.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 04:01 PM
5

You just need to work on raising your SMV bro.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 03:57 PM
2

You should've vetted better and not LTR a party girl. Going out partying 3 times a week is a huge red flag. I would demote her to plate. Tell her "I don't expect my girlfriend to be constantly going out partying. If you still want to see me, we can date on a casual basis. But we will no longer be in a committed relationship."
/r/askTRP02/04/21 03:30 PM
3

This isn't dread...
/r/askTRP01/04/21 06:07 PM
3

this checking phone is a beta and insecure trait but not with your girlfriends.. Isn't checking her phone an insecure trait, even if you're in a LTR? I would never ask my girlfriend if I can check her phone. That's weak.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 06:02 PM
1

So basically I should just not give a fuck if she gets a massage by a male and have an abundance mindset. Got it. Thanks.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 03:10 PM
1

Do you mean you don't care in the sense that you don't care if she gets a massage by a male or you don't care if she leaves because you mention your disapproval of it?
/r/askTRP01/04/21 02:52 PM
1

Might be the angle you're fucking her at. I know if I fuck my girl at a certain angle or position, it hurts her a little bit. I think my dick ends up hitting her uterus. So try different positions, and see what works. And make sure she is dripping wet before you shove your cock in her.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 05:29 AM
1

Been dating her for over a year, recently promoted to LTR. Oneitis might be creeping in, but trying to keep it at bay. You make some good points, so thanks for the advice.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 05:15 AM
1

They use the excuse "I want a male masseuse because they give a more firm massage" blah blah. Again, not worried about anything happening. Just don't like the idea of a random guy rubbing on my girlfriend. And me getting a massage from a female wouldn't really fix my issue. On one hand, I can rationalize in my head why I think it's wrong, and on the other hand, I'm worried I'm coming off as a controlling/insecure bitch.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 05:02 AM
13

Be prepared to fuck a lot of uglies.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 04:49 AM
1

Well, that I don't have to worry about. She already sees a female gynecologist. However, in past relationships (when I was still blue pilled) I would tell my girlfriends that had male gynecologists that I didn't approve and told them to see a female one. Always ended up in a fight and them thinking I'm controlling. I guess it all boils down to having solid frame.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 04:46 AM
1

Gotcha, thanks man.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 04:23 AM
1

Tell her "I don't want any man putting his hands on you", done And this won't be perceived as mateguarding? Others here who have commented are saying I'm being insecure. Not sure what to believe lol
/r/askTRP01/04/21 04:07 AM
1

Yeah, and they massage the glutes, so basically the dude's grabbing just inches away from her pussy. Just doesn't sit right with me.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 03:47 AM
1

How did she know you wouldn't had like her getting a massage from a guy though? Was it something you discussed in the past? For me, she told me one time she got a massage (before meeting me) and was a little surprised when he (the male masseuse) massaged her butt. You would think the place she went to would've asked what she was comfortable with but whatever. Point being, she told me today she might go this weekend to the spa for a girls day, and get a massage. Which is what got my hamster spinn…
/r/askTRP01/04/21 03:43 AM
2

She is not yours, it is just your turn. This has been one of the hardest aspects of TRP for me to internalize it seems. Having an abundance mentality is hard right now being in a LTR. I've been trying to talk (not fuck) to other girls lately to help in that regard.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 03:17 AM
1

So another guy massaging your naked girlfriend wouldn't bother you? How do I get over this insecurity? For reference, we go to nude beaches together and couldn't care less about that. Basically they can look, but can't touch kind of thing.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 02:52 AM
0

Yes.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 02:24 AM
2

It sounds like she isn't LTR material.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 10:15 PM
6

/thread
/r/askTRP31/03/21 04:30 AM
4

Okay, but what's the question? This sub is called asktrp for a reason.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 04:05 AM
8

If you're really good in bed, she'll know you fuck...a lot. Let your actions do the talking.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 02:09 AM
2

All good points. Thanks, appreciate the advice.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 01:41 AM
1

Yeah I guess I misunderstood. I thought Rollo was advocating for testing or using similar tests on woman you're dating, to see their level of trust for you. The answer is yes to your questions, guess I was just overthinking shit. Thanks man.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 01:39 AM
2

So I'm thinking too deep into it. Got it. I just thought Rollo's idea was a pretty good way to test a woman.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 01:31 AM
2

Low calorie dense foods. Fruits and vegetables and lean sources of protein.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 01:27 AM
1

Lol should've known I wouldn't get serious answers to my question. I'm not concerned about the two times she drove, I'm just asking your guy's opinion on gauging a women's trust level by performing this test. Or is Rollo wrong here?
/r/askTRP31/03/21 01:23 AM
1

Why would you want to break Iron Rule of Tomassi #7?
/r/askTRP31/03/21 12:11 AM
1

Never LTR a girl that was sexually abused in the past. Hard next this one and get other bitches.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 11:45 PM
1

Bruh.....
/r/askTRP30/03/21 11:36 PM
5

No need to be completely upfront. Telling her you still live with your parents is going to lower your value to her, especially if you're older (didn't catch your age). Just tell her you have roommates (which isn't entirely a lie) and that your place isn't an option at the moment. To answer your original question, your only option really is her place. I'm in the same boat as you, and basically until I get my own place, I only date women that have their own place (yes, it does limit your options).…
/r/askTRP30/03/21 11:28 PM
2

I would only get violent if they were to physically try to hurt her or myself. Guys catcalling my girlfriend would just get the "too bad she's with me, but thanks for the compliment" look or just ignored. Be non reactive and hold frame.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 11:08 PM
2

He didn't react correctly. He completely lost frame when he got upset from the guys catcalling his girl and slightly engaged in mateguarding all at the same time.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 11:03 PM
2

I mean it's not that deep. Women want a man with options. Her knowing that she can replaced by another girl at the drop of the dime shows that you're high value.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 10:52 PM
-1

I agree with this. Also I don't have Snapchat or any social media, so if she offers this instead of her actual number I just next them. Don't have time to play their games.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 09:14 PM
13

Didn't realize you're a woman. My mistake.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 09:13 PM
6

Lol who said I can't or don't deadlift? I said it's not necessary to develop a good back. It's still a very good exercise that I recommend. But to say it's required is retarded. As for my post, failing ONE shit test in a LTR isn't the end of the world, which is what I learned. It's when you make a habit of failing shit tests is when it's a problem. My girl is still sucking my dick dry and hasn't changed behavior, at all. In hindsight, I was overthinking shit and shouldn't had even made the post.…
/r/askTRP29/03/21 09:10 PM
3

Are you refering to my previous post? Pretty sad that you check someone's post history. However this has nothing to do with exercise selection.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 08:08 PM
12

I always hear they don’t like being approached in the gym They say this, but their actions say otherwise. If she is interested, she'll gladly take time from her workout to talk to you. Just don't approach her when she is in the middle of her set, keep it short, and shoot for an insta-date (grab a smoothie afterwards).
/r/askTRP29/03/21 08:00 PM
3

Although a great exercise, the deadlift isn't required to develop a good back.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 07:53 PM
2

This.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 12:46 AM
1

They're usually fucked up in the head if they like that hardcore shit. Best for plate status only.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 12:45 AM
2

When I used to smoke weed a lot of times it would kill my libido. Stop getting stoned and jerk off less.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 10:26 PM
1

True, she was the one that approached first. But to clarify, after I helped her with the bench I went back to finish my set, then I re-engaged (teased her about how little weight she was lifting). But as you and others have mentioned, I will approach her again if I see her. Thanks.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 03:53 PM
2

She practically did throw herself at me. She is the one that approached me, and used the lame excuse that she needed help adjusting the bench. Women very very rarely offer their name and phone number, that's the guy's job. If I would've denied her advances it would of took a huge hit to her ego, which is why women wait for the man to make that move. They fear rejection. Sure, attention whores exist at the gym that are just looking for validation. But I could tell this wasn't the case. I just fai…
/r/askTRP25/03/21 10:35 PM
1

If I see her again, will do. Thanks.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 07:43 PM
2

I second this. If you're in a LTR you can go raw...sex is wayyyyy better. But if you're fucking a chick you just met at the bar, wrap it regardless.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 03:19 PM
1

You're only 24, so you should be spinning plates and focusing on your career. Wait until your 30s to get into a LTR (if this is what you want).
/r/askTRP25/03/21 03:08 PM
2

Obvious shit test and you failed. Your correct response should've been "Yeah, I'd do him." or simply ignore. But the fact that she admitted to mentioning him only to cause jealousy is a huge red flag. She sounds toxic, and I would reconsider your relationship. Possibly demote her to plate status.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 02:56 PM
2

"I'll let you know" is womanese for not interested, or very low interest. Once she said that you should've just responded "alright" and soft nexted, and wait for her to reach out. Instead you came across as pushy and butthurt.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 02:20 PM
1

Bro, at 16 you shouldn't be worrying about entering a LTR. Forget her and get your shit together. Focus on school and your career.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 01:30 AM
-2

Men and women can't just be "friends". Acquaintances? Yes. Co-workers? Yes. But her going for coffee with a guy friend one on one is a huge red flag, especially if it's on a regular basis. I'm not saying she is fucking the guy, but you have to ask yourself why is she hanging out with guys rather than her girlfriends? Remember, AWALT.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 12:37 AM
-1

Many female friends are fine, as long as they're not a bad influence on her. But if your LTR has a lot of male friends, she is either banging them on the side, keeping them on the back burner just in case, or using them for validation (orbiters). I'm confident in myself and my worth, but if I were to find out my LTR is seeing a male "friend" one on one (not work related, but just to "hang out"), I'm exiting the relationship.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 12:17 AM
2

A LTR having many male "friends" is a red flag in itself.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 11:24 PM
2

You're right bro, I did overthink this one too much. I'm trying to work on this. Sometimes my old blue pilled ways surface. Gotta learn to give less fucks.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 10:48 PM
1

Yeah, this would've been a much better response. I was just curious to what she had to say, but instead I should've just not given a fuck. Lesson learned.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 02:31 PM
2

That's what I figured, and since then her behavior hasn't changed at all. Thanks man.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 12:10 AM
1

Care to elaborate? I don't remember reading about what a qualifier is in the sidebar. To me (and looks like others here agree) this appears to be a shit test.
/r/askTRP23/03/21 11:17 PM
1

I think the shit test was her saying at first she didn't find him attractive, to see if she could get a reaction from him. If he were to act butthurt he would've failed. He passed by deflecting and not caring.
/r/askTRP23/03/21 11:03 PM
1

You shouldn't be living with your LTR...
/r/askTRP23/03/21 10:53 PM
4

It means she has low interest. "Looks like your situation is up in the air. Another time, perhaps." Then soft next.
/r/askTRP23/03/21 10:49 PM
1

Her avoiding eye contact with you is a good indicator she wasn't interested. So asking for her number after this fact is just shooting yourself in the foot. Just ignore her and move on.
/r/askTRP23/03/21 06:45 AM
1

Vet her well beforehand, don't move in together, and don't get married.
/r/askTRP23/03/21 06:37 AM
0

"Yes. Now make sure you're wearing something nice for me when I get back."
/r/askTRP23/03/21 06:30 AM
3

Women love differently than men. They will only love you for how you make them feel and what you can provide.
/r/askTRP23/03/21 06:09 AM
2

Being honest and telling women that you're seeing other women is TRP way, not sure where you heard otherwise. The "text only for logistics" is for beginners to prevent them from sounding autistic. Most guys have zero text game. I've found that a few texts during the week is fine.
/r/askTRP23/03/21 05:56 AM
2

This may work with a ONS. But if you want to plate her and keep her around, you better fuck her to sleep.
/r/askTRP17/03/21 11:43 PM
1

Good idea. Thanks.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 02:44 AM
1

She might've just been looking for a ONS. Might've met a hotter guy. Might've had a death in family. Who knows, it could be one of a million different reasons. I wouldn't dwell on it too much. Soft next and get other bitches.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 11:59 PM
2

Leave your house. Women are everywhere.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 11:43 PM
1

If it's a one time trip, I think it's fine. As long as she doesn't start going on "trips" all the time or starts going to clubs/bars every weekend...That's when you should be worried. And it looks like she has a lot of green flags, is deep in your frame, and the fact that she practically asked for your permission to go are all good signs. As long as her sister/cousin/friends are super slutty, I'd tell her to have a good time and then plan a trip with your boys.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 11:40 PM
1

Haha good one, I might have to steal it.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 01:58 AM
9

The fact that she talks to a guy "friend" every day is a big enough red flag. I would start looking for an exit.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 01:50 AM
1

Haven't read the book you're refering to, but some examples I use to disqualify a girl: "Too bad you're brunette, otherwise you'd so be my type." "You like <insert whatever>? I don't think the two of us will get along very well." "You seem like you're too much of a good girl for me." All said playfully with a grin.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 09:19 PM
2

Yeah I think I've come to the conclusion it ain't going to happen with this chick. Thanks man.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 03:25 PM
2

Her texting other guys could be a red flag, unless it is strictly work/school related. If you don't know the entire context or what the texts entail, I'd say for now it's at least a yellow flag. Pay attention to her behaviour, and prepare an exit strategy just in case.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 02:49 PM
1

I'm dealing with a similar issue. My LTR has hinted she can't wait for clubs to open back up so she can go "dancing". At the time I didn't say anything and I ignored it (in fear of sounding insecure if I said something, thought maybe it was a shit test), but in hindsight I think I should had set the boundaries right then and there. I'm not sure if I should bring it up again out of the blue and tell her "I don't expect my girlfriend to go to the clubs" or wait and see if she actually goes. Either…
/r/askTRP14/03/21 02:35 PM
1

Personally for my LTR, she can have guy "acquaintances", for example if she goes to an event with her girlfriends and hangouts in a group which also has guys, I don't mind. But if she has a guy "friend" that she hangs out with one on one, that is unacceptable for me.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 02:19 PM
1

You don't need to gain excess fat to gain muscle. Dirty bulking is retarded. All he has to do is eat clean and eat in a slight surplus. You want to minimize fat gain during a bulk. Following your advice he'll just end up looking like the Stay Puft Marshmallow Man.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 02:16 AM
2

Yeah, way too many guys eat too much during a "bulk". They'll think they gained 10 lbs of muscle when in reality they gained 9 lbs of fat/water weight and only 1 lb of muscle. You only need a surplus of a couple hundred calories to add muscle, like you said. If you're a newbie to lifting you could probably even gain muscle at maintenance or a slight deficit.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 02:12 AM
2

Unless you built some attraction during the interaction, then no.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 12:12 AM
-1

No man, again, I'm simply trying not to do something foolish to mess up a good LTR. I'm pretty sure every guy in a LTR wants to do his best to preserve it, it's not about being afraid to lose her. Being afraid to lose her is when you start doing beta shit (mateguarding, checking her phone, asking who she was with, ect). I think you're failing to understand the difference. Part of the red pill is understanding female nature so your relationships don't crash and burn like they did 17 times back in…
/r/askTRP13/03/21 09:52 PM
1

It's a LTR bro, so telling me to spin plates makes no sense. I'm not afraid to lose her but at the same time don't want to sabotage a good LTR just because I want a threesome. I mean it's not a deal breaker, but thought it would be nice. Also first time I've felt like I've had a girl so attached to me and deep in my frame that I could possibly pull it off.
/r/askTRP13/03/21 09:12 PM
1

Actually I don't think she would get upset, she would probably just tell me it's not for her and she isn't interested. She normally does everything I ask from her, but I feel like a threesome might be where she draws the line. I think she just wants me all to herself and would get jealous.
/r/askTRP13/03/21 07:52 PM
1

True, just seems like it'll be 10x harder to get her to go along with it if she strictly only likes dick. How do you think I should proceed or bring it up? She has a cute friend that she has known for 10 years. Was thinking about telling my girl to invite her over, have a few drinks, and let things "just happen". But she might not like the idea in fear of ruining her friendship with her if things get awkward. So not sure.
/r/askTRP13/03/21 07:42 PM
2

For the love of god, no. Dread needs to appear natural and organic. You're trying too hard. And she will sense this. Instead of telling her how other girls hit on you, she needs to see it. For example, you two go out for dinner and she notices a woman checking you out. Or when she runs to the restroom casually talk to another woman at the bar. Be careful with this one though, it has to be done correctly with you maintaining frame.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 11:27 PM
1

And then get fat. Lean bulk is the way.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 11:16 PM
3

You'd be surprised at how many women are bi-sexual, or at least bi-curious. Most won't admit it. I don't really see an issue as long as she is in your frame and treats you right. Hell, I wouldn't mind if my girl was a little bi-curious, perfect opportunity for a threesome.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 11:09 PM
1

What's wrong with using the lock and key analogy?
/r/askTRP12/03/21 04:05 PM
3

I guarantee they're all single, post-wall, and have 7 cats.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 03:58 PM
1

She's probably getting throat fucked by Chad Thundercock as we speak.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 04:25 AM
1

Haven't seen your previous post, but did you vet this girl prior to entering into a LTR...at all???
/r/askTRP11/03/21 09:32 PM
6

Yeah, if there isn't sex after the third date/meet up, I next them. She might be one of those FDS chicks that follows the "make him wait 3 months" rule lol. Fuck that.
/r/askTRP05/03/21 02:06 AM
1

Of course. Just tell her the truth, that you're not feeling well but would still want to meet up another day for sure. Be sure to add the last part so she knows you're not trying to flake.
/r/askTRP05/03/21 02:02 AM
1

Never apologize to a woman or explain yourself. DARE, never DEER.
/r/askTRP05/03/21 01:54 AM
4

Sounds like she doesn't have as high of interest as you believe. I would soft next. If she reaches out again, no more dates. Invite her over to your place so she knows what's up. If she declines, hard next.
/r/askTRP05/03/21 01:45 AM
2

Deflect, Agree & Amplify, Repeat, Exit.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 09:21 AM
1

Read the book "No More Mr. Nice Guy".
/r/askTRP01/03/21 11:27 PM
2

If she is just a plate, you shouldn't care who else she is fucking. Just wrap it and enjoy your turn.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 11:22 PM
1

He's partially right though. If you go to the club with the sole purpose of seeking pussy, girls will smell that shit and desperation a mile away. I think the best mindset to have is to go out and just aim to have a good time. If you happen to come across and meet a hot chick, it's a bonus.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 12:58 PM
1

Sounds good man. Thanks!
/r/askTRP01/03/21 06:56 AM
1

We are both late 30s. I know I'm gonna get shit on for dating an older chick but I don't care. She has no other red flags (no tats, no piercings, no drama, very submissive, feminine, ect.) She isn't a party girl per say, doesn't drink a lot (she only ever has 2 drinks max) and I think she would only want to go to the club to support her friend. Again, she hasn't gone yet (that I know of), I'm just preparing for the day IF she comes and tells me she went (which I feel she would because she is ver…
/r/askTRP28/02/21 09:41 PM
2

Sounds like a shit test. Best to ignore.
/r/askTRP28/02/21 08:15 PM
1

Isn't this essentially what you're doing when you tell her you don't approve of her going clubbing? Basically you're saying "I'm not confident in myself that I'm the best option you can get, so I don't want you going to the club and possibly being hit on or picked up by other dudes (the beta tribe)." It just seems like it would make you appear insecure and low value.
/r/askTRP28/02/21 07:48 PM
2

I think this is the answer. If she decides to go clubbing without me, I'll demote her to plate status. Thanks man.
/r/askTRP28/02/21 06:43 PM
3

To clarify, I have no issue with her hanging out with her girlfriends (going out to eat, doing other activities, ect.). It's the going to the club part that bothers me. Women go to the club to seek validation from men and/or see what other options they have. When you say you "go out", do you mean to clubs?
/r/askTRP28/02/21 06:41 PM
1

Sending them a song seems a little blue pilled IMO (especially since the majority of songs are blue pilled themselves). Usually, like you mentioned, I'd just send them a pic of something I'm doing (something high value) or something funny. Also just something simple and short such as "Have a productive day".
/r/askTRP28/02/21 02:55 PM
4

Yup. Always DARE, never DEER. I'm still working on this myself. Men are rational and logical. Women are irrational and emotional. So trying to explain yourself and rationalize with a woman will never work.
/r/askTRP27/02/21 02:43 PM
3

Thanks man, this helped a lot.
/r/askTRP21/02/21 05:54 PM
1

Really? No way I can string her along further?
/r/askTRP21/02/21 02:47 PM
1

Really? No way I can string her along further?
/r/askTRP21/02/21 02:47 PM
1

I mean the "relationship" was great until this point. Had no issues with her at all. I say FWB in the sense that there was never any commitment. And she was more than a plate because we would do shit together.
/r/askTRP21/02/21 02:43 PM
0

No, we never verbalized what type of relationship we have, and she never brought up "the talk" until now. We would hangout, go places on the weekend, have sex (obviously) and I would go home and repeat this every other weekend. Thanks for the advice.
/r/askTRP21/02/21 02:37 PM
1

FWBs and plates usually always have an expiration date. They eventually want more (LTR) like in my case and when they realize you don't, things start to fall apart like it did for me. All you can do is string them along as long as you can and just enjoy your turn. Only reason I didn't leave her place after her denying me sex was because it was late and didn't feel like driving home lol.
/r/askTRP21/02/21 02:01 PM
1

Yeah I realize that. No other plates at the moment. I've been working on self improvement and getting my shit together, so not trying to focus too much on women. If things end with her I'll probably go monk mode for a bit.
/r/askTRP21/02/21 01:47 PM
0

FWB is a girl you fuck but also enjoy doing other activities with (dinner, movies, hiking, beach, ect.). Basically she gets all the benefits of being a girlfriend but without the commitment.
/r/askTRP21/02/21 01:32 PM
1

For reference (if it matters), the surprise I had for her was that I got us a bondage kit to spice things up in the bedroom. In hindsight I now realize I should've never told her I had a surprise (and usually I never do). I still think she overreacted for something so stupid...
/r/askTRP21/02/21 01:20 PM
2

For reference (if it matters), the surprise I had for her was that I got us a bondage kit to spice things up in the bedroom. In hindsight I now realize I shouldve never told her I had a surprise (and ususlly I never do). I still think she overreacted for something so stupid...
/r/askTRP21/02/21 01:19 PM
1

Got it. Thanks!
/r/askTRP02/02/21 02:32 AM
3

Yes, she is definitely in my frame and sees me as the prize...but still feel telling her I love her might not be wise. I'm also not looking for a LTR (I think she is though), I'm just enjoying my turn.
/r/askTRP02/02/21 02:30 AM
2

To clarify, we're talking small favors here. For example, she would ask me to open a bottle of wine or a jar, and I'd make sure she says please (to ensure she respects me). And I don't do whatever she asks as long as she says please, obviously I'm not going to do something if I don't want to. And "making a lifestyle change"? Lol We're talking texting her 3-4 times during those 2 weeks apart versus 2 times or so. Texting is very low effort, and no one is that busy where an extra text or two is li…
/r/askTRP02/02/21 02:24 AM
2

ADG Profumo. Trust me.
/r/askTRP25/01/21 07:37 PM
-1

eat lots of bacon Good advice if you want to dig yourself an early grave.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 07:08 PM
1

First off, get off the SSRI's. They're toxic and do more harm than good.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 07:05 PM
2

"And he doesn't let you have guy friends?"
/r/askTRP19/12/20 03:40 AM
4

Her reward is your time and attention.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 01:06 AM
3

From what I've seen, 99% of guys can't pull it off.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 06:43 PM
1

Yeah I know, I just meant her giving pushback at the very last minute after getting settled in the hotel room and end up not wanting to have sex. It may have been redundant to say "LMR last minute" but whatever.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 06:39 PM
1

Bruh Airbnb for a whole house is the same price as 1 hotel room. Depends a lot on where you live and how nice of a hotel you get. From what I've seen, in most places AirBnB are a little more money. He doesn't have a lot of bills either. I say living with parents is fantastic so long as you aren't dwelling in the basement playing video games all day. Living with your parents is fine if you're young and going to school, like he is. So I agree. But ideally you should want to have your own place as …
/r/askTRP19/10/20 06:34 PM
16

Investing that much money on a girl you haven't even met is retarded. Even getting a hotel is kind of stupid, she can have LMR last minute when you get back to the room and boom...you just wasted all the money. He is still living with his parents so obviously he doesn't have money to burn. He needs to get his shit together and then worry about fucking chicks.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 03:38 PM
75

If febreeze or candles don't do the trick, then you must be fucking some nasty bitches.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 03:17 AM
3

I usually tell them to meet me somewhere for drinks (I give specific time, but leave out the location for now unless she asks). If she says she has no transportation there (i.e. doesn't have a car) only then I'll offer to pick her up. If she does have transportation and agrees to meet up, then the day of the date I'll confirm we're still on by sending her the location of the place. If she doesn't respond then you know you've got a flake.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 03:13 AM
12

Asking her if she would like to meet up somewhere or if you should pick her up was the wrong move. You're the man, she follows your lead. Now I'm not saying this is the reason she flaked, but it might be a part of the equation. Without more context, I can only assume she had low interest.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 02:27 AM
1

I never open the car door for women, especially not for them to get out of the car or if she demands it. It's a shit test, and if she does ask me to I usually say "Why, is something wrong with your arms?" with a smirk. Going into a restaurant I will usually open the door, but I do so as well for other people.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 02:04 AM
1

Bruh, Christina Hendricks is not a 9. https://images.app.goo.gl/dsNaYCBzs9yDK4MFA
/r/askTRP27/08/20 10:28 PM
1

Not worried about not sealing the deal, I've already been fucking her for over 6 months. Just want to make sure I hold frame if she protests the idea. She always follows my lead and does what I ask, but most people have some hesitation about going to a nude beach for the first time.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 05:49 PM
1

Yeah I took the advice given here and updated my plan. Read my other comments.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 03:39 PM
1

That's not what I meant, maybe my post wasn't clear enough. As I mentioned, the beach has both a nude area and non nude area. If she had said no to going to the nude area when we got there obviously I wouldn't force her, we would just simply go to the non nude area. But as others here suggested, instead I'll tell her ahead of time we're going to "a beach", and then when I pick her up I'll mention we're going to nude beach. I'll phrase in a way where I'm not asking her, but at the same time makin…
/r/askTRP27/08/20 02:58 PM
1

I'll probably do this. Thanks man.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 06:14 AM
4

True that. Never had sex on the beach so this could be a good opportunity. Sexual acts are frowned upon on nude beaches (at least where I'm at), but I'm sure I can find a secluded spot and cover or in the water like you said. Plus the risk of getting caught will make it that more exciting.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 04:58 AM
1

My train of thought for telling her when we get there as opposed to before we leave the house is it will be more spontaneous. But I'll definitely consider your points, thanks!
/r/askTRP27/08/20 03:35 AM
1

Your English sucks.
/r/askTRP24/08/20 03:24 PM
11

Hard next the bitch immediately.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 01:54 AM
5

There's probably a reason why no guy has wanted to marry her...
/r/askTRP18/08/20 02:20 AM
-5

"I can't help it, girls just keep throwing themselves at me."
/r/askTRP14/08/20 04:22 PM
16

You won't be able to get laid even in a monkey whore house with a bag full of bananas with all that texting.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 11:13 PM
1

I'm refering to his shirtless pic in his kitchen. It isn't flattering, his waist looks really wide and flabby despite have a somewhat 6 pack. And why would someone be shirtless in their kitchen? Seems too try hard. His shirtless pic by the beach is fine though, and all he needs.
/r/askTRP12/08/20 08:12 PM
-2

Leave out the shirtless pic.
/r/askTRP12/08/20 07:59 PM
1

She needed plausible deniability.
/r/askTRP10/08/20 06:11 PM
41

The sad thing is, I did this shit in my blue pilled days.
/r/askTRP07/08/20 04:48 PM
51

I met my plate 2 times already and made out, but havent fucked She's not your plate then, you noob. Read the damn sidebar.
/r/askTRP06/08/20 11:48 PM
1

I think the bigger issue is that you're getting married in the first place.
/r/askTRP06/08/20 11:21 PM
6

Bag of Skittles.
/r/askTRP06/08/20 05:13 PM
1

When did I say I'm taking Finasteride exactly?
/r/askTRP04/08/20 11:38 PM
3

I've been in this sub for a lot longer than 2 days. And that has nothing to do with my argument.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 11:36 PM
1

Did you even watch the video? He explains that if you're cool with shaving your head, go for it (which I agree with). But using the justification that the Rock, Bruce Willis, and Jason Stathom are bald and still do good is retarded. They have a shit ton of fame, status, and money. Funny how 99% of the dudes making the "The Rock, Bruce Willis, and Jason Stathom are bald" comments are bald themselves.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 09:46 PM
2

There's literally a video for morons like you. https://youtu.be/bVBX9yGsJF4
/r/askTRP04/08/20 08:57 PM
3

Do you really think the top 5% of men are wasting their time on Tinder? They're already drowning in so much pussy that they don't need dating apps.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 12:36 AM
3

"There's always room for one more."
/r/askTRP02/08/20 12:30 AM
1

This sub is getting more autistic by the day...
/r/askTRP02/08/20 12:24 AM
-1

This is basic shit, which tells me you haven't even read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 12:22 AM
5

I'm currently dicking down a chick in her early 40s. Many TRPers would be appalled by this, but she looks younger, cute, petite, no tats/body piercings, and is super submissive/feminine. She eats well and exercises regularly. She's cool to hang with, follows my lead and does pretty much whatever I ask. I'm just enjoying my turn, I'll never LTR her, obviously.
/r/askTRP01/08/20 07:19 PM
2

Depends. It can be done if you have strong frame.
/r/askTRP01/08/20 01:33 AM
4

"did you say the same things to the girls outside" "Only the ones I'm attracted to."
/r/askTRP01/08/20 01:28 AM
4

"You should be worried when I don't want to have sex with you."
/r/askTRP31/07/20 06:23 PM
1

For starters, like others have said don't ask her if she has a boyfriend. If she tells you she has a boyfriend after asking for her number, simply pressure flip: "Oh, and he doesn't let you have guy friends?"
/r/askTRP28/07/20 08:35 PM
2

Umm yeah it is.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 05:50 PM
7

Yep, I noticed this the other day. No surprise though, Google is run my leftist SJWs.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 11:21 PM
1

And almost all the girls in the video are below a 5 lol
/r/askTRP22/07/20 03:30 PM
10

Text mainly only for logistics and read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 12:27 AM
1

I got a notification that she started typing but she did not reply. About a half hour later I said "what, is it some big secret" and again she left me on read. Cringe. She never was really interested in you and she lost even more interest after you double texted her a half hour later. Desperate and needy. Move on and read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 07:48 PM
19

You're leaving some pussy on the table. Just because there isn't sex on the first date doesn't mean you should automatically next them. Even girls that have high interest might not want to fuck until the second or third date. She might not be in the right headspace, might be on her period, ect. I have the 3 date rule. If by the third date we haven't fucked, no more dates. Either she is coming over to my place (to which she will know she'll be gargling my cock all night) or she gets a hard next.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 07:34 PM
8

You're overthinking this shit bro.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 06:46 PM
15

Blowjob with a condom? Hell naw. If she has a problem with that then I'll find a girl who doesn't.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 03:39 AM
3

Why are you facetiming a chick you haven't even fucked for 2-3 hours a day? Holy shit dude, next this girl, read the sidebar, and get on your purpose. And 100% guarantee she is getting dicked down by those other dudes.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 11:33 PM
0

"I can't get a grasp of you.. it seems like you don't want anything serious and just want to hookup" Comfort test, not a shit test. That being said, you still did a decent job of being ambiguous--maybe with an added kiss on the forehead after saying it would've helped. Just feed them scraps, and just dangle the carrot in front of them...
/r/askTRP20/07/20 11:27 PM
1

You bet...you learned that last night after I pounded your ass with my fat cock.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 08:29 AM
7

Fuck that cunt (not literally), get a new doctor ASAP. Test levels at 274 for a 20 y/o male is no where near normal. Holy shit I cant believe idiots like her have a degree and license to practice medicine. That being said, are there any factors that can give you these results? How is your diet? Do you lift? Drink alcohol? Get enough sleep? If you can't correct it through lifestyle changes, you'll need to go on TRT.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 04:01 AM
6

Lol yeah, OP overthinking hard af.
/r/askTRP19/07/20 09:43 PM
8

All girls are narcissistic to a degree. The hotter/more narcissistic she is, the more negs you use. If you approach a 6 (not sure why you would) and keep slamming her with constant negs, then it will backfire.
/r/askTRP19/07/20 09:39 PM
3

Speak for yourself...
/r/askTRP19/07/20 09:35 PM
1

If you're a famous celebrity the girls well come to you.
/r/askTRP19/07/20 06:09 PM
1

It's when you pull the girl on a date right then and there. For example, if you met her while in a mall, invite her to grab a coffee with you at the coffee shop inside the mall.
/r/askTRP19/07/20 06:05 PM
7

If you're a bartender, hitting on your customers is unprofessional and asking for trouble. But to answer your question, the Mystery Method is also a good book.
/r/askTRP19/07/20 05:10 PM
0

How does lifting improve hygiene?
/r/askTRP19/07/20 04:49 PM
12

Wait...why do you even want her to have "the talk" with you? Continue with business as usual and enjoy your turn.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 11:46 PM
2

Emojis are for chicks.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 11:12 PM
1

Tell her to get the guy to buy her a drink with a smirk, walk away and talk to other hot girls in the room.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 07:29 PM
1

You don't "fight them off".
/r/askTRP18/07/20 07:24 PM
7

Obviously I have no intention of keeping in touch with her for this long, it will have gone cold by then. Not necessarily. You'd be surprised...some girls you soft next and 2-3 weeks later they'll hit you up. That being said, sounds like this chick has low interest. Sure she might actually have to study for exams, but you're telling me she doesn't have any time at all for even a 30 min date? Sorry, but no one is that busy, not even the god damn president of the United States. Either that or all …
/r/askTRP18/07/20 07:14 PM
1

I'm pretty much in the same boat as you. Until I get my own place, I see 2 options: sex in car/somewhere else that is public yet discreet OR her place.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 08:52 PM
28

You spent an entire week with her and you wonder why she sent you that text? Too much investment on your end. You should only see your plates once a week, maybe twice the most.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 08:39 PM
1

The beginning of the end. You fucked up by entering cohabitation with her, expect the sex to get less and less. Hate to say it, but your relationship is fucked and isn't going to last.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 08:32 PM
6

No excuse.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 08:27 PM
3

You should always be on your purpose, and women should only compliment your life, not be the focus. Continue what you're doing, and don't see her more than once a week. Spin other plates and read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP15/07/20 08:29 PM
4

For the love of god, do not LTR this chick. Yes, a girl with a lot of guy friends is a red flag, and most likely she is getting piped down by some of them. She should be plate status only. String her along and give her the hope of a LTR, until she breaks.
/r/askTRP15/07/20 06:32 PM
3

eager to meet you again Sounds needy and desperate.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 09:10 PM
16

Soft next, game other women.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 04:41 AM
2

Canada is a SJW cesspool.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 04:33 AM
1

Nah, she knows I've had a vasectomy.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 04:11 AM
2

It's red pill 101. Asking about her past relationships conveys the message that you yourself might be looking for a relationship and give off boyfriend vibes. You want to stick to FORD (family/friends, occupation, recreation, dreams/goals) and avoid RAPE (religion, abortion, politics, economics) along with talking about her past relationships.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 04:10 AM
2

Wtf? You never want to bring up past relationships on a date.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 03:14 AM
4

Whiskey is my poison, but I've found most girls are into wine, rum, tequila, or vodka.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 03:07 AM
2

Not worried, just curious. And yeah it is a huge red flag, which is why I would never LTR her (I don't do LTRs anymore anyway).
/r/askTRP14/07/20 02:53 AM
1

Odds are OP is over shooting, she's probably a solid 7.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 08:42 PM
0

She is an 8 in my books.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 08:39 PM
1

And in the meantime you're giving this girl your non sexual attention? No thanks.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 04:57 PM
1

I'm in the U.S., a lot of girls here have tattoos. If they only have a couple, I would still plate them. But they're not LTR material (I don't do LTRs anyway).
/r/askTRP13/07/20 04:32 PM
0

Why would you be friends with a chick if you aren't gonna fuck her? You'll essentially become another one of her orbiters. If you want friends chill with your guy friends.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 04:21 AM
1

Most music in general is blue pill rhetoric.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 04:11 AM
1

Your sanity.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 04:09 AM
46

When a girl asks to meet same day/night, always decline even if you aren't busy. She'll think you have nothing going on, and that you're able to meet her on a whims notice. It shows low value. It was a shit test and you failed, hence why she didn't text you back when you said you were down. Don't worry dude, I've made the same mistake in the past. You live and learn. Soft next, maybe hit her up in a week.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 04:05 AM
1

Clit piercing is probably the biggest red flag. Then probably nipple piercings. Ear piercings are fine, but if she has a lot of other body piercings it's a red flag. Along with tattoos.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 03:50 AM
3

Tattoos absolutely are a red flag. If she only has one or two, she might not be too damaged. But a girl covered in tats is a huge red flag. You'll learn the hard way, if you believe otherwise.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 03:47 AM
3

You sound like a blue pilled phaggot.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 03:44 AM
2

Clit piercing = big time hoe And girls with gauges is an instant turn off
/r/askTRP13/07/20 03:42 AM
1

My thoughts exactly.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 10:55 PM
5

"You treat me like trash." "Yeah, and it looks like I need to take the trash out." Then throw her over your shoulder, take her to the bedroom and fuck her to sleep. "All you want is sex from me." You should be worried when I don't want sex from you. Boom.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 07:34 PM
5

It was 15 minutes before we were supposed to meet up and she didn't text me that she wasn't going to be able to make it. You really think something came up literally last minute for her? C'mon dude...
/r/askTRP10/07/20 07:56 AM
2

I don't really care for this chick, I can take it or leave it. I'm just using this as an example, and wondering if a girl (any girl in general) flakes without telling you, if that warrants a hard next. I also like to take my experiences and analyze what went wrong, so I can improve in the future.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 06:20 AM
6

You might be right. I'm thinking about responding "No hard feelings, I made other plans." tomorrow afternoon. Not going to try to setup another date, because I don't want to over pursue and chase. At this point, unless she tries to set something up, I'm done.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 06:13 AM
3

Yeah I feel she is (or was) definitely into me. Not sure why she flaked on second date. Might've been a massive shit test.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 06:04 AM
8

Not sure why she would see me as a beta that she can use for attention. I never reach out to her unless it is for setting up a date, and she would always call me a playboy or a player. On our first date she even called me a "cocky ass", so I was doing something right. But if she thinks I'm going to fall into her orbit, she's got another thing coming.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 05:07 AM
2

She was getting throat fucked by Chad Thundercock those nights.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 12:54 AM
12

Make Fat Shaming Great Again
/r/askTRP09/07/20 07:22 PM
2

Are you serious?
/r/askTRP09/07/20 04:38 AM
3

Sounds like you didn't vet her well enough before promoting her to gf status.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 01:06 AM
2

Singles moms are automatically disqualified from being LTR material. She is plate worthy only.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 06:28 PM
1

I actually enjoy eating pussy, so it's for my enjoyment not hers. I don't care if she cums or not from it. I would also never go down on a girl simply because she tells me to. That being said, I don't go down on plates or ONS. However I do go down on my FWB. Clean pussy, and pretty confident she isn't fucking other dudes (before the AWALT police attack me, I said pretty confident, I realize there is always the possibility. But I have my reasons).
/r/askTRP08/07/20 06:20 PM
1

Do you watch porn?
/r/askTRP08/07/20 01:36 AM
5

Never ask. Tell them. If they don't want to please you then their attraction/interest level for you isn't high enough. If she says "I don't do that." then tell her "Then you're not my type.". Next. Plenty of other women out there that will suck your dick.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 11:14 PM
1

Nothing wrong with meeting at the beach for a first date. It's even cheaper than drinks, because you shouldn't have to spend a penny.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 09:35 PM
1

Lesson learned, I know in the future not to.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 06:37 PM
2

I live in a somewhat small town, so yeah I have to watch my reputation. Gonna pass on reaching out in a week or two. It'll only give her more ammo.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 06:31 PM
1

Yeah that's what I was thinking. How the fuck can you not afford a drink or two? She has red flags, so I was just looking to smash and dash.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 06:27 PM
7

I'm 34 on TRT. Blasted steroids in the past and had to abruptly come off, and had to wait 3-4 months before going on TRT (long story). Let me tell you, those 3-4 months were hell. My total testosterone level was at 180. I had no energy, no libido, and was depressed. Now that my levels are back up to the 900s, it's night and day difference. Energy, mood, and libido is back. I'm back to lifting, confidence is up, and yes dating life has improved. I'm more motivated to approach girls, talk to other…
/r/askTRP07/07/20 03:39 AM
1

That's the thing, going out for drinks is a cheap date. Can she really not afford to buy a drink or two? She must be some broke ass bitch or she is lying through her teeth...
/r/askTRP07/07/20 03:03 AM
2

That's what I was thinking bro. This chick showed decent interest in the beginning (even texted me 2 hours after I got her number that she hopes I got home safe, nice meeting me) but it has been a little difficult setting a date. Either I lowered her interest, I'm not her first option, or timing is off for her. I soft nexted her, so unless she reaches out to me I'm moving on.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 02:54 AM
3

no need to beat around the bush.... just directly ask the girl out. if she rejects just keep it moving I wasn't beating around the bush. The TRP consensus is that when you ask a girl out, you mention that you're going to be doing something fun (drinks, shooting pool, beach, ect.) and tell her she should join. If she says no, you're still going to have fun even if she doesn't want to tag along. lol..bro, that's what men do (within reason) when you invite a girl to get drinks Exactly, which is why…
/r/askTRP07/07/20 02:38 AM
2

Because I thought (maybe stupidly) that she was worried about buying drinks she couldn't afford at the time, and on first dates I buy the drinks anyway (which is why I keep it to drinks or coffee only, to keep investment low). You would think if she saw me as beta bux she would've agreed to me picking up her tab. So in a way I kind of shit tested her.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 12:52 AM
10

True. I'm still going to soft next her until she reaches out to me, and approach other girls.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 12:39 AM
10

Met her Friday night (so 2 days ago) at a bar. She approached me and asked for my number, without me asking for it. I've heard to strike when the iron is hot which is why I was eager (apparently too eager) to get her on a date.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 12:00 AM
1

Thanks for your response. You're right, I fucked up when I said "I'm also free Wednesday night". I should have waited to see if she was going to offer an alternative day to meet up. Seems there's a fine line between being persistent and coming off as needy. Everyone was saying to strike when the iron is hot and get her on a date, guess I took it too far. I'm going to go ahead and soft next her and save what dignity I have. I have 2 other bitches so fuck her.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 11:55 PM
27

I'm going to leave her on read and soft next this bitch. Don't have time for this shit.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 11:49 PM
3

Just don't be seen in public with them.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 02:17 PM
3

My game is better sober or if I'm only slightly buzzed. I was at a bar the other night and a girl approached me. I was 4 drinks in (unusual for me, I try not to drink much) and I feel my game could've been better. Still got her number though.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 05:53 AM
0

No, but your comment will come off as creepy and autistic. Look at how many downvotes you got bro.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 02:27 AM
1

She must have at least moderate interest in me, why would she give me her number without me even asking for it? And hinting that I better hit her up for a date? Texting me 2 hours after meeting that she hopes I made it home safe? Also, you would think if she wasn't into me she would've said "yeah maybe Wednesday will work" instead of "well if not tomorrow definitely then". I also responded later "alright sounds good" and she texted me back "sweet 😊". I have 2 other chicks I'm dating so not too w…
/r/askTRP06/07/20 02:20 AM
1

You're the man, thus you take the lead. You: "Gonna go out and grab drinks on Wednesday night. Wanna join?" Her: "Sure!" You: "Meet me at XYZ at 7pm"
/r/askTRP05/07/20 07:26 PM
2

Are you retarded?
/r/askTRP05/07/20 07:11 PM
1

Go for coffee or drinks. 1 hour, maybe 2 hours if things are going well. Try to sit next to her, not across from her. Escalate. Go for the kiss at the end of the night. If she shows high interest and seems receptive, ask her back to your place to watch a movie, show her your art collection, have a drink, ect. (plausible deniability). If she agrees, she is down for sex. Escalate further and fuck her to sleep. If she doesn't, simply tell her have a goodnight and part ways. If by date 3 she still d…
/r/askTRP05/07/20 07:04 PM
1

Decided to hit her up today. Check out my comment I added for details.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 01:09 AM
2

Update: Decided to hit her up today. Me: Gonna go out and grab drinks tomorrow night. Wanna join? Her: If I'm not dead tomorrow (early convo she told me she went fishing today and had a big day) Me: Well if the grim reaper decides to not knock on your door, let me know tomorrow Her: I'm just really burnt (from sun) and so tired Me: I'm also free Wednesday night Her: Well if not tomorrow then definitely then Sounds a little sketchy but I guess we'll see...
/r/askTRP05/07/20 01:06 AM
1

Noted, thanks.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 12:51 AM
1

Calling too soon can also give the impression you're desperate and that you're too available. Also I wanted to setup the date for Wednesday or Thursday...or is that too far out? I like to leave only 2 or 3 days max between calling/setting up date and the actual day of the date.
/r/askTRP04/07/20 08:31 PM
1

Yeah, my social skills aren't perfect, it's just weird because I've never had a girl tell me this. I think my game was off that night, and went too hard on the strong eye contact. If I get her on a date, I now know how to adjust. If not, oh well, lesson learned.
/r/askTRP04/07/20 06:52 PM
2

Yeah I'm guessing the strong eye contact and silence weirded her out a little. I've heard that you shouldn't break the silence by talking unnecessarily, because it shows lack of confidence. I think in the future I'll just keep the strong eye contact to when she is talking. Still fine tuning my social skills, and my game was a little off that night.
/r/askTRP04/07/20 06:43 PM
2

Its the man's job to do the approach. That being said, I have been approached a few times by woman. But it is very rare and you have to be very good looking and high SMV. Stop being a pussy and just go approach.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 10:38 PM
3

Read the fucking sidebar.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 10:21 PM
1

Me: You already know what kind of fun, wit yo fine ass 😉 Cringe. Never explicitly tell a girl you're looking to fuck. Use your actions (kino + escalate) instead.
/r/askTRP30/06/20 07:22 PM
1

I didn't have a condom on me, had just got off work. Definitely not trying to save her, just looking to bang. But I hear ya, I will have to next her if she is too crazy.
/r/askTRP30/06/20 06:35 PM
1

Yeah I have a car, but I didn't have a condom on me (just got off work). And I meant adding her as a plate. I already have another girl I'm fucking, guess you could say she is FWB.
/r/askTRP30/06/20 06:30 PM
2

You gotta find a segue into getting her phone number, and there has to be a reason you're asking for it. So don't just say "Can I get your number?". For example, when she mentions how much she enjoys going to the beach, tell her "we should go to the beach sometime, we can hang out and maybe grab a drink afterwards. Let me grab your number." Or go for an insta-date, and at the end of the date grab her number.
/r/askTRP30/06/20 11:20 AM
1

I think you're confusing FWB with a plate. A FWB is a girl you're fucking along with enjoying spending time with outside of sex. A plate = sex only.
/r/askTRP29/06/20 08:03 PM
8

Read the damn sidebar.
/r/askTRP29/06/20 07:58 PM
2

Sounds like you didn't vet her well enough before entering into a LTR with her. Demote to plate status.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 10:00 PM
9

Lol you're not 4-5% body fat dude.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 08:24 PM
5

Yeah, I would only set dates 2 days in advance. Do you think if Brad Pitt asked her out for drinks she would say she can't because she has to get her nails done? She's not interested.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 02:32 PM
1

Get a vasectomy.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 08:17 PM
1

I had a vasectomy at 32, one of the best decisions I made. Wish I did it sooner.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 08:16 PM
4

It's very very rare.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 08:14 PM
1

Unloading sperm into a woman's vagina isn't makes someone a man...
/r/askTRP24/06/20 08:14 PM
1

Save dirty talk for sex. Text only for logistics.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 07:20 AM
1

The joke went over your head, just like the situation you described on the bus you autistic dumbass.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 06:12 AM
1

Exactly, I wouldn't eat a girl out if it was a ONS. Guess I should've been more specific in my original comment.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 06:07 PM
4

So you fuck chicks that don't shower? I personally don't do LTRs, but if it's a girl I've been dating and fucking for awhile, and pretty confident she isn't fucking other dudes I'll go down on her. Of course she has to return the favor, and I only do it because i enjoy it.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 12:50 AM
1

One word: Pre-selection
/r/askTRP22/06/20 03:35 AM
10

Some TRPers say eating pussy is beta and submissive...I disagree. As long as you're doing it because you yourself enjoy it and want to do it, I see no issue. Only time I'd advise against it is if she is asking for it (or demanding you to) or if she isn't returning the favoring by sucking your dick dry.
/r/askTRP21/06/20 11:10 PM
5

How does this have so many upvotes? This is bad advice. Flicking dudes off and wanting to fight them shows you're insecure and the jealous type. You have to remain icy and non reactive.
/r/askTRP21/06/20 09:45 PM
1

Women love to make their ex'es jealous it seems. One time I was fucking a chick and in the middle of sex she started recording us on her phone (the sound, no video). She told me she wanted to send it her ex...
/r/askTRP21/06/20 09:38 PM
1

Concert for a first date? Are you crazy? Way too much investment. First date should be coffee or drinks.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 01:59 AM
2

Need better details and context, but if you guys were just bantering it was probably just a shit test. If she called you weak in a serious manner, then I could see it as disrespect. If it were a shit test, A&A or pressure flip would work. "Yeah, I'm so weak I still have to use the pink 10lb dumbbells at the gym." Or "You sure didn't call me weak last night when I was pounding your pussy."
/r/askTRP19/06/20 01:04 AM
1

Stop asking for nudes.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 08:08 PM
1

i texted her “was thinking of ya (it’s hard not to, duh;)) how’s your day been?” Cringe. Why would you text her this beta shit? she said “oh ya i’m sure it’s hard not to 😉” Translation: She is the prize, not you. You're in her frame. You've already lost. Next.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 06:40 PM
5

When you get more ass than a toilet seat, you'll know your SMV is high.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 06:29 PM
1

Who said anything about stressing over it? Sure, a girl being late to a date and you saying "no worries" doesn't mean you can't get laid. But it's not the most optimal thing to say or do. She'll respect you a lot more if she sees that you value your time (like a true high value man does) instead of rolling over for her and saying it's okay that she is half an hour late. Shit, I know some men wouldn't even wait around for the hoe, because his time is precious and he has an abundance mentality. Wa…
/r/askTRP11/06/20 07:32 PM
4

However, she’s a virgin Lol sure she is.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 01:51 AM
-4

Wrong. The most valuable thing to a man is his time. Unless there was a legit emergency or serious traffic, her being late (especially a half hour) shows disrespect. She needs to be called out otherwise she will continue the disrespect. Also, her being late and you saying "no worries" like a beta chump only shows that you're not truly a high value male. I'm not saying to go nuclear and act butt hurt, but you can mention it to her and tell her to buy the first round of drinks with a smirk.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 01:46 AM
7

"Looks like first round of drinks is on you."
/r/askTRP11/06/20 01:39 AM
1

You have oneitis for a chick you haven't even fucked yet???
/r/askTRP11/06/20 01:34 AM
1

You're overthinking, not everything is a shit test. Sounds like she was just joking around.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 01:18 AM
2

Sounds like you dodged a bullet.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 08:34 PM
1

Do you actually think before typing? I was saying stop complicating things when it isn't necessary; my comment never implied that I don't understand complicated things. Seems you have a massive ego issue, because you can't even admit when you're wrong.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 01:45 AM
1

There's literally a section in the sidebar - Part 3: Shit Tests AND Comfort Tests, on page 115. Read it. They are separate. Stop making shit confusing and complicated. And I'm in my mid-30's, so I'm far from underage.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 10:55 PM
1

No. A shit test and comfort test both require different responses. They're different. Not going to waste my time explaining, hit the sidebar.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 08:13 PM
1

No, it's obviously a comfort test.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 05:22 PM
1

Plate status only.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 08:15 PM
13

getting banged like a screen door in a hurricane. Lol this made me piss myself laughing.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 08:02 PM
2

Sounds like your game needs work. Telling a girl she's cute right off the bat isn't a good idea. Some guys can pull it off, but you're better off using a different approach.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 07:59 PM
1

Yes. Here is the link to the free PDF. https://kupdf.net/download/sex-god-method-2nd-edition_5c1ec90de2b6f5ee6229be0b_pdf
/r/askTRP06/06/20 07:45 PM
1

Is this while wearing condoms? If so, be sure to use the ultra thin kind (Skyn is a good one), to increase sensitivity. Also read Sex God Method about Immersion. You might have too much on your mind during sex and/or not be there mentally, resulting in you not being able to "let go".
/r/askTRP06/06/20 06:52 PM
2

Yeah now that I think about it, it sounds like a comfort test. Still afraid to text her "Yes you do", don't want to have her think that I'm lucky to have her, like some desperate beta.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 08:50 PM
1

How does she have more self control than me? It was her idea. She got on top of me and started rubbing her pussy on my dick, egging me on to stick it in.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 01:08 AM
1

I'm not going to go through life never having sex without a condom. With girls I first meet, yes I wear one. But if I'm only fucking one chick (like in this scenario) and I'm pretty confident she is exclusive, I'll go in raw. With everything in life there are risks vs. rewards.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 01:04 AM
1

Nah, I use standard size condoms and my dick size is on the little above average size. Condom fits fine. Might be the particular brand I would use, who knows. Usually only slips when I get rough and fuck her hard.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 12:56 AM
2

"What do you got going for you other than your looks?"
/r/askTRP03/06/20 09:00 PM
1

If it was a first date, I'd tell her that we should reschedule for another night. If it's a girl I've been seeing for months, I'd be fine and would playful tease her about it. For example, if we were meeting up for drinks I'd say "Looks like the first round is on you."
/r/askTRP02/06/20 09:28 PM
5

Why do you care about her past? Dick her down good and enjoy the ride while it lasts. She's not yours, it's just your turn.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 07:30 AM
1

Don't shit where you eat. Don't try to pick up girls at your job.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 02:33 AM
4

Just today I was trying to talk to this chick that I work with That was your first mistake.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 02:30 AM
7

Step 1. Get off Facebook Step 2. Don't talk about TRP Step 3. Repeat steps 1-2
/r/askTRP28/05/20 12:45 AM
3

It's not a stupid rule, theres reasoning to it. On a side note, username checks out.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 12:34 AM
6

Okay, you'll find out the hard way that it never works.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 12:33 AM
1

Usually go back to the living room, watch a movie, have a drink, ect.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 06:08 PM
10

"Another time, perhaps." Her best friend is going to cock block you. Not worth the time and effort.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 05:22 PM
1

She wasn't a virgin bro, stop fooling yourself.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 06:26 PM
2

You're chasing her, instead of her pursuing you. You've lost this one bro.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 01:24 AM
1

Her atrraction level for you isn't high enough in her eyes. If a girl not giving you a blowjob is a dealbreaker for you, withdraw attention, soft next and apply some dread. She needs to know that if she won't suck your dick, someone else will.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 11:05 PM
8

Always wrap it. Better yet, get a vasectomy if you don't ever plan to have kids. 99% chance she is full of shit. Block her and move on.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 05:27 AM
15

You think she would be saying "it hurts" if she was getting pounded by Brad Pitt? Either you suck in bed or her attraction level for you is low.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 05:05 AM
10

If you notice, he said the --majority-- of men.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 04:48 AM
1

All women knows how the game works, they're the ones that invented it.
/r/askTRP23/05/20 07:50 PM
1

I disagree. In my experience, it's the older women that are the ones that always hit on me. I think it's because they are so desperate at the point, and/or because of the age gap they feel their flirting can be perceived as "innocent".
/r/askTRP20/05/20 11:51 PM
1

Marriage and having kids is bullshit. The End.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 02:06 AM
2

Oneitis alert.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 02:05 AM
4

So you're too much of a pussy to see her in fear of a virus that has been massively overblown? If you're not dicking her down, some other guy is.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 01:57 AM
1

Religion is bullshit, and is just a means to control people. Those that are religious are still plugged into the matrix.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 12:25 AM
3

How good looking are you? Unless you're an 8 or higher in the looks department, Tinder and other dating apps are useless. Not to mention most women just use it for validation, and posts their best pics at just the right angle--so a girl that appears to be a 9 is actually a 6 in person.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 12:18 AM
1

The fact that she asked "You?" shows she might be down. Only one way to find out...
/r/askTRP15/05/20 12:10 AM
1

"Come over to my place at [time] and find out."
/r/askTRP15/05/20 12:07 AM
1

Currently fucking a woman in her early 40s (I'm in my mid 30s). I know many guys will think I'm crazy, but I'm never going to LTR her--I know she is post wall and damaged goods. However the sex is good. She is more on the petite side and despite her age she still looks pretty good. Pussy still looks nice and is still pretty tight. Doesn't play games and shit tests are rare. She is also very feminine and submissive, so no complaints here really.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 10:18 PM
2

Mentioning to her that you miss her and asking her if she is upset with you is beta behavior. You lost this one. Move on and read the sidebar again.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 07:26 PM
2

You've been giving her a lot of validation (facetiming) and you think you're "too red pilled"? Lol funny kid.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 09:41 PM
1

Personally, I draw the line at LTRs. After being red pilled and being through multiple bad relationships I simply refuse. Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?
/r/askTRP12/05/20 06:35 PM
2

So basically you're her beta orbiter. There's your answer to why she didn't respond to you.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 11:01 PM
3

I only wear it on dates. Acqua di Gio profumo is currently my favorite.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 10:33 PM
3

Not enough context. Is this a girl you just met? And if this is a first date, a walk in the park is too boring. For first dates, go out for drinks instead.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 12:14 AM
2

Wait, you've known this girl for a couple years and haven't fucked? Sounds like you've been her beta orbiter, and regrets almost fucking you.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 11:01 PM
6

This is what not to do
/r/askTRP10/05/20 01:33 AM
1

Yeah, I'm already pretty dominant in and out of the bedroom, but I guess I just need to take it up a notch.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 06:42 PM
1

You're giving her too much of your non sexual attention (video chatting). If there's no chance of meeting up then next.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 12:21 AM
2

Sounds like she has low interest. Soft next.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 10:08 PM
6

“what are we doing this weekend” Why are you asking her this? Women don't like to make decisions or plans, that is your job. Be a man and lead her. "Meet me at [place] at 6pm. Wear something nice so we match."
/r/askTRP08/05/20 07:54 PM
1

You are doing what she wants to not loose her No, I'm not doing anything to avoid losing her...not sure where you got that from. The only thing I said I'm doing is changing my diet for myself, and better tasting cum is only a secondary benefit like I said. Now if I had told HER that I'm going to clean up my diet to get it to taste better after she said she doesnt like the taste of it, THEN you would have a point. Let's just forget about the taste aspect, I just wanted to know the best way to go …
/r/askTRP07/05/20 09:16 PM
1

Not really. I will admit that I get pleasure from her enjoying herself when I'm going down on her, but the main reason I do it is because I enjoy it and it turns me on. Eating grade A pussy such as hers makes me rock hard. Same goes for me cleaning up my diet. Main motivating factor is for me--to improve my energy levels, mood, and for better gains in the gym. Better tasting cum is just a secondary benefit for her. Don't really care if you believe me or not.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 06:32 PM
1

Ok bruh, tell me what about my post makes you think I'm being submissive. I'd love to hear your reasoning almighty one.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 04:37 AM
3

You must be new here. Go back to your SJW blue pilled sub reddits.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 02:28 AM
1

Pickup lines are gay and too try hard.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 01:56 AM
12

Feed her scraps.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 12:39 AM
1

Only for your first cycle. So yeah, on your first cycle you can not train and still gain some muscle. Keyword 'some', because you would gain much more if you were to train properly. But after your first cycle gains will slow down A LOT and eventually stop unless you train.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 08:06 PM
2

Do you even know how steroids work? They're not a magical pill that stacks on muscle overnight. You still have to train hard and have a decent diet. There are plenty of guys on gear that look like shit. Steroids simply help you recover faster and promote muscle growth more quickly, but you still have to lift.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 07:51 PM
2

Only take them if you're okay with being on TRT for the rest of your life. Ignore the phaggots in the comments saying that they're extremely dangerous and they'll kill you. I will say though, you should look up the side effects before making the decision of doing gear. If baldness runs in your family, beware that roids may accelerate your hair loss. If you are prone to acne, beware that you may become a zit monster. You just have to weigh the pros and cons for yourself and decide if it's worth i…
/r/askTRP05/05/20 07:37 PM
8

You're clearly uneducated on this subject. If you take steroids, you still have to workout. You can't take gear and sit on your ass eating potato chips and get jacked.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 07:13 PM
6

Quit the fear mongering you pussy. Yes, steroids can be dangerous if you don't know what you're doing and you abuse the shit out of them using high doses for long periods. But if you do the research, understand the side effects and know how to combat them, and run moderate doses you'll be fine.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 07:08 PM
1

Sounds like classic LMR, and you giving up too quickly. I've literally had a girl tell me during our second date "I'm going to make you wait" and later that night I fucked her to sleep. You have to push past the LMR. She isn't going to want to come off as slutty, so she'll do the trick and pony show of making it seem like she's not 'that type of girl'. When she refuses sex just play it cool and ignore her, go back to watching tv, make a drink, ect. Re-escalate later and she'll most likely be dow…
/r/askTRP04/05/20 11:55 PM
4

Have you not read the fucking sidebar? This is basic TRP shit.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 10:23 PM
2

You never want to do big favors for women you just started seeing so you did good. I personally would just avoid using emojis though.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 09:38 PM
1

"Come over to my place and find out."
/r/askTRP28/04/20 10:08 PM
4

You smoked pot nearly everyday for 7 years and you wonder why your brain is fucked? There's your answer dude. Studies have shown that smoking weed a lot before the age of 25 can cause mental health issues.
/r/askTRP28/04/20 05:54 PM
2

Why aren't you wearing a condom?
/r/askTRP26/04/20 08:46 PM
6

No, I think you are. You shouldn't be texting girls unless you're setting up to meet her in the very near future.
/r/askTRP26/04/20 08:38 PM
6

Why the fuck would you get married?
/r/askTRP26/04/20 08:32 PM
-2

You spelled fat wrong. Keto diet is bullshit and not sustainable. Yeah, you'll lose weight, but you will with any diet. High carb low fat is best for weight loss long term.
/r/askTRP26/04/20 08:26 PM
13

/thread
/r/askTRP26/04/20 08:22 PM
43

Hard next.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 05:36 PM
1

You're giving her way too much validation (texting every day) so of course she is losing interest and attraction. Stop giving her your non sexual attention. There's a reason why the rule of thumb is to text only for logistics. If meeting up with her isn't an option right now because of the quarantine, you can try pinging her a few times during the week and maybe once things are back ro normal she'll still be willing to meet up.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 09:31 PM
1

Yeah, I view LTRs as pretty beta. I personally see no reason why a man would enter a LTR. Even if you're able to be the highest value male to her so she suppresses her hypergamy and doesn't cheat on you, you're still stuck with one pussy for life. No thanks. Not to mention living together, which we all know how that ends up.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 09:13 PM
1

And how exactly you did this?
/r/askTRP23/04/20 08:54 PM
1

You might be gay bro.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 01:54 AM
1

Probably means steroids lol
/r/askTRP23/04/20 01:51 AM
1

How many women's bathrooms do you go into to reach this conclusion?
/r/askTRP23/04/20 01:47 AM
1

I personally trim (not shave) areas that need it.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 01:43 AM
6

You can't change the size of your dick so who cares. Proceed as normal. You don't have to have a monster cock to be good in bed.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 01:32 AM
1

How is buying a drink at a bar for a girl beta? It's a tried and tested strategy that people have used for years. This alone tells me you're still a blue pill phaggot. Read the damn sidebar.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 12:31 AM
1

Just because he got her number doesn't mean he got a date or fucked her. She probably decided to give her number away because she saw him as a potential beta orbiter or a simp to get free meals from. Coming across a random girl at the store and buying her items at checkout is beta af, I'm not sure in what "context" it would be deemed otherwise. It's essentially the equivalent to buying drinks for girls at the club/bar. "Hi, I'm so desperate and needy, and I'm not good enough to get with you for …
/r/askTRP22/04/20 09:06 PM
1

No, that is the point. The original argument was that jerking off lowers your testosterone. I simply disagree. If you want to say it may have other negative effects I might agree.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 07:32 PM
1

And this isn't the right time nor the right tactic. Buying shit for a girl that you just met in line at the store screams desperate and try hard. Have fun being beta bucks.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 07:26 PM
1

I'll agree that having sex or fapping before a workout isn't a good idea. But it's not because your testosterone levels have dropped significantly; your body releases other hormones (such as prolactin) and other chemicals after you cum, which is why you have less drive and feel more relaxed afterwards. During sex or masturbating, your test levels spike but after orgasm they return back to normal/baseline levels. Even if your levels drop, it's going to be such a small amount to where you won't ev…
/r/askTRP22/04/20 07:20 PM
5

Yeah but "tricking your mind into thinking that you are fucking a real girl" isn't going to lower your testosterone levels.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 12:19 AM
1

Okay tough guy.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 11:56 PM
1

Him paying for her shit? Are you retarded?
/r/askTRP21/04/20 11:41 PM
1

Him paying for her stuff was NOT a thing he did right. You must be that guy that buys women drinks at the bar.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 11:39 PM
1

Hard next.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 09:49 PM
2

This is such BS that I see a lot of TRP guys throw around. Jerking off doesn't lower your testosterone levels. Show me ONE study. If this were true, then having sex also lowers testosterone, because essentially it results in the same outcome (semen release). And I sure as hell don't see anyone in here advocating against fucking. No fap is retarded, and those that claim they feel different are all placebo. Stop spreading pseudo science nonsense.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 09:38 PM
2

Not sure where you're at, but here in the U.S. the FDA won't let your test levels go past 1400 before they make you lower the dosage.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 09:27 PM
6

I'm 34 and on trt, after blasting and cruising gear for over 3 years. Might do another mild "blast" in the future, but right now I'm just cruising on 200mg per week (doctor prescribed). Test levels are around 1100, which is where I want to be. Bottom line, you need to get your levels checked. I personally would avoid regular doctors, and instead go to a trt clinic (usually also called anti aging clinics). If your levels are low but not super low, you might just need to make some lifestyle change…
/r/askTRP21/04/20 09:23 PM
1

You have no idea what you're putting in your body doing gear from UGLs. Getting it prescribed is much safer and wiser.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 09:11 PM
1

Yeah, now that you mention it I need to up my dirty talk game.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 05:46 PM
1

Sounds good, thanks man.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 01:47 AM
3

I actually did do that, hoping she'd realize I'm about to cum. I just wasn't so forceful to the point that she couldn't freely move her head off me.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 01:04 AM
5

Bro, pressuring a girl into sex shows you are low value and needy. She should be jumping your bones without you even mentioning it.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 12:58 AM
1

Never ask for nudes. That's beta shit.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 10:43 PM
2

"There's always room for one more." But you said she isn't attractive plus she is your co-worker, so I'd only say that to chicks I want to smash. Tell her you're gay if you want her to stop pestering you. Who cares.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 10:10 PM
7

34
/r/askTRP14/04/20 10:47 PM
28

And this is one reason I don't do LTRs...
/r/askTRP14/04/20 10:45 PM
1

That's what your guy friends are for.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 09:01 PM
2

If she isn't down to fuck then you move on, unless you want to be her dancing monkey beta orbiter.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 08:31 PM
1

You realize there is a pandemic going on right now right? Why the hell are you going to parties?
/r/askTRP14/04/20 07:54 PM
1

Not in a LTR but I have a girl I'm still seeing (and fucking) during quarantine. In between meetups I let her do 80% of the pursing. She's usually the one that will reach out to me first, asking how I'm doing, tellling me she misses me, ect. I almost never text her first. Texting her isn't going to raise attraction, but texting too much can lower it.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 07:09 PM
5

This is basic TRP shit dude. You're obviously still blue pilled if you're asking this. Read the damn sidebar.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 06:48 PM
3

Or she fakes it when you're about to bust. Women don't orgasm on command.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 06:42 PM
3

Her being on bad terms and doesn't talk to her parents. Her saying "I love you" way too soon. Her being emotionally unstable, throwing tantrums, and suicidal (later discovered she had BPD). Her being a single mom. Her having a ton of tattoos.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 03:09 AM
2

Yeah you still cum, it just doesn't contain any sperm so you shoot blanks.
/r/askTRP12/04/20 06:52 PM
2

*Hard next.
/r/askTRP12/04/20 06:33 PM
6

You fucked up by admitting you're seeing other girls. It should be implied non verbally that you're seeing other girls (to show preselection and demonstrate high value), but never explicitly stated. It's also none of her business. If she does ask if I'm seeing other women I usually A&A and say "Yeah, the ladies can't get enough of me down at the nursing home on bingo night." Even though she went no contact, there is a possibility she'll come back. And when she does, make sure she sucks your dick…
/r/askTRP12/04/20 01:22 AM
4

This.
/r/askTRP12/04/20 12:56 AM
1

Damn, I wish my doc would've given me the option to make it non reversible and cut out the section; they just did the standard procedure for me. I've heard horror stories of guys getting a vasectomy and years later getting a chick pregnant because their shit reconnected. I know it's extremely rare, but still...
/r/askTRP11/04/20 10:47 PM
1

Missing out on what? I still fuck chicks on the slimmer side, as long as they're not anorexic looking.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 10:34 PM
1

Yeah I've kept my mouth shut since then and don't plan on bringing it up again.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 10:31 PM
1

I had one and it was one of the best decisions I've made. I know for a fact I don't want kids and condoms alone aren't that reliable. Like others have mentioned, don't tell the hoe.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 07:39 PM
1

Fuck, then I fucked up then. I was banging my plate last week and the condom slipped, I told her not to worry because I had a vasectomy. I wouldn't had mentioned it otherwise. She is still showing high interest so I doubt it's a deal breaker.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 07:31 PM
0

I don't mind fucking girls that are cute in the face but not in the waist. I actually prefer it to girls who are too skinny and look like they just escaped a concentration camp. As long as they're not too chubby.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 06:31 PM
1

Mid 30s, and I'm more wise than you if you think having a kid is a good idea. What is the most valuable thing to a man? His time. Kids require an immense amount of your time and attention, distracting you from your purpose. Please explain to me one benefit of having a kid, because I can only think of cons.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 11:40 PM
1

I can never understand why TRP men would want children...
/r/askTRP10/04/20 07:13 PM
1

It's your first time getting your dick wet, relax. The first time is always not the greatest. You simply had some performance anxiety, it has happened to us all. With more experience you'll do better. I'm willing to bet the next you fuck her things will go smoother because you'll be more comfortable.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 06:37 PM
1

You never bring it up. If she decides to bring it up and wants to have 'the talk' ("So what are we?" "Where is this going?" etc.) simply be vague. I personally tell them I'm having a good time with what we got going on and enjoy their company, and who knows what the future holds. Or some bullshit like that.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 06:30 PM
1

Enjoy that incel life.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 07:43 PM
1

Stop going down on her if she refuses to return the favor.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 11:31 PM
1

I get called 'cute' all the time, but I look young for my age and have more of a 'pretty boy' face (think Ryan Reynolds). So just because she calls you cute instead of hot doesn't mean she isn't interested. One of my plates has called me cute, her exact words were "yeah when I first saw you I thought you were really cute." I've been laying the pipe on her for 2 months now, she has super high interest and is obviously attracted to me. I don't care if she calls me daffy duck, I'm still dicking her…
/r/askTRP06/04/20 11:18 PM
1

This.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 10:21 PM
2

Why are you giving your non sexual attention to a girl you haven't fucked yet?
/r/askTRP06/04/20 05:56 PM
4

"I know."
/r/askTRP01/04/20 12:03 AM
3

My last LTR had BPD. The breakup is ultimately what led me to TRP, so it was a blessing in disguise. But holy shit was it a living hell being in a relationship with her (2 years total). If the smallest thing went wrong, she would have a full blown meltdown and throw a tantrum. She was suicidial, had past childhood trauma, and abandonment issues. After our first date, she told me she loves me and immediately wanted me to be her boyfriend. I know I know, I was an idiot and missed all these red fla…
/r/askTRP01/04/20 12:00 AM
3

You do realize a pandemic is going on right? And you're wondering why home gym equipment is sold out?
/r/askTRP31/03/20 09:31 AM
6

"Come over to my place and find out."
/r/askTRP31/03/20 09:17 AM
1

What does your lipid panel look like?
/r/askTRP30/03/20 12:01 AM
1

We are texting every day Why are you texting a FWB every damn day? Text for logistics only, maybe text a couple times a week in between meet ups only if she shows high interest. fwb "guess u was busy with all your girls friends" me "Not even lol" Never text "lol". That's weak beta shit. Cut it out. Also, you fucked up by defending yourself and denying that you were with other girls--and put the brakes on her spinning hamster. You should of ignored her or simply said you were busy. As of now, I w…
/r/askTRP29/03/20 11:57 PM
3

I have just one girl I'm currently seeing and fucking. If things don't work out with her I'm going full monk mode until this shit is over.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 10:11 PM
1

It's probably a shit test. If you say yes you're going to appear too available, and that you're really not a high value male and don't have shit going on. Respond with "Can't do tomorrow, we'll have to try another day perhaps." and let her hit you back.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 09:45 PM
2

Because it makes you seem too available.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 09:38 PM
1

Approach more women and work on your game.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 08:52 PM
4

Why don't you want to work hard? You should be working hard and on your grind not for her, but for yourself.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 10:40 PM
5

Hard next, and pray she doesn't #metoo you.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 09:45 PM
1

No, I didn't offer--she asked me. And I've already been going to her place and fucking her for some time now. Plausible deniability is no longer needed. The date was already set up and then she asked for the favor, so I'll be staying at her place regardless.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 06:45 PM
1

The "haha" at the end of my sentence was simply meant to indicate I was joking. It obviously went over your head and you took my comment seriously, which is why I explained that my comment was a joke--and wasn't planning on engaging in transactional sex. Chill bro.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 07:03 AM
1

I see your point, but won't it give out a boyfriend type vibe? I've heard that you shouldn't do big favors for girls you just started dating. She's a plate, not a LTR. I go to her house to chill with her and to fuck her to sleep, not to be her dancing monkey doing jobs for her. Now if it were a small favor, sure. I'd tell her only if she says the magic word, she'll then say "pretty please", then I'll proceed to do the favor and still hold frame. But by her telling me if I assemble her furniture …
/r/askTRP27/03/20 06:51 AM
1

Good point. And I was only joking about making her give me a blowjob if I were to help her with the furniture.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 05:57 AM
2

Have yet to get a blowjob from her, maybe I can bargain with that haha
/r/askTRP26/03/20 09:47 PM
1

Yes, I fuck plenty. I personally would never kiss a girl on the cheeks unless during foreplay and making out--For example, I start kissing the side of her neck, work my way up to her face, kiss her cheeks, and then go for the lips (all while grabbing the back of her head and hair). But a random quick kiss on the cheeks is boyfriend type shit and just comes off as too friendly. But if it works for you then keep at it bro.
/r/askTRP26/03/20 06:59 PM
1

then plant a kiss on their cheeks. Good advice if she is your grandma or is a girl you don't want to fuck.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 08:33 PM
1

Sounds like she has BPD. Run.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 08:19 PM
4

Wtf did I just read...
/r/askTRP25/03/20 05:25 PM
1

Fucked her 6 times total so far. Every time I see her we have sex 3 times (2 times at night plus morning sex).
/r/askTRP24/03/20 04:08 PM
2

What would be a good response if she pulls back/refuses?
/r/askTRP24/03/20 02:58 AM
-1

I've heard some TRP guys say eating pussy is submissive. As much as I like it, I've been avoiding it.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 01:55 AM
3

Word.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 01:48 AM
1

I was thinking the same. Some girls in my past would tell me they're not into "that" so I would just assume that's the case. Now, after being red pilled I know that's bullshit and any girl will suck an alpha off if there is enough attraction and sees him as high enough value. I'm guessing I just have a little more work to do...
/r/askTRP24/03/20 01:47 AM
3

Good tips, number 3 is especially helpful. Thanks!
/r/askTRP24/03/20 01:32 AM
1

Because contrary to what most believe, carbs are good for you. High carb gives you energy and keeps you lean. Fat makes you fat (surprise, surprise) so you want most of calories coming from carbs. Ignore the keto idiots.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 08:31 PM
1

Is she a co-worker or a customer? If she is a co-worker, don't shit where you eat. If she is a customer, you'll most likely never see her again so who cares? If she is a regular customer and you do happen to see her again, talk to her again and get her number.
/r/askTRP21/03/20 12:18 AM
2

My ex would have a full blown meltdown if she ran out of weed. It may not be physically addictive, but it can be mentally addictive. I would say smoking once in awhile may not affect you too much, but it certainly isn't going to help anything. Too many people use it as crutch to deal with stress and unwind, when instead they should be focused on eliminating the source of the stress instead of lighting up a joint.
/r/askTRP20/03/20 10:55 PM
1

Soft next.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 11:54 PM
5

You didn't build attraction/comfort and failed to escalate, which is why she rejected your kiss. Her saying she "likes to takes things slow" is BS, even if she has a "rule" about not kissing on the first/second date, remember: She'll break rules for alphas and make rules for betas. Next.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 11:46 PM
6

Seeing a girl 2-4 times per week is too much, unless she is a LTR. And no matter how good you think your text game is (it's probably not as good as you think), texting her daily isn't a good idea.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 11:35 PM
2

I never tell them directly I like them. Even the other day a girl I've been seeing said "I like kissing you" <pause> "do you like kissing me?" I waited a few seconds, then said "what do you think?" and simply started kissing her again. Never directly validate her.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 07:58 PM
2

Tell her you would bring her flowers and a bowl of soup.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 07:35 PM
1

Meditation
/r/askTRP18/03/20 07:31 PM
2

She seems flakey from what you mention, so she could be lying or she could be telling the truth and is unavailable due to the corona virus. Either way, soft next. I have an upcoming third date this weekend with a chick I already smashed, but if she decides to cancel to "play it safe" I'll simply soft next as well. Plenty of other chicks willing to have sex regardless of this stupid virus.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 02:35 AM
1

It will probably vary depending on where you live. My health insurance covered most of it, out of pocket I think I had to pay $200 or so.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 05:59 PM
2

This is a perfect time to skip the bars/drinks and jump straight to inviting the chick over to your place. I plan to meetup this weekend with a girl I recently met (this will be third date, already fucked) and I plan to tell her that because most restaurants and bars are closed that we'll do drinks/cook/order take out or something...then fuck her to sleep.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 05:44 PM
1

If she truly had high interest she would've set up an alternative time/day. Soft next and hit her up in a week or so.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 07:58 PM
1

Next her, then send her my way so I can fuck her and have her lick my asshole.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 05:50 PM
11

Nah, the top experts say that warm weather won't stop or slow down the virus. That is a myth.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 04:57 PM
51

I was at a bar last night and got hit on by a single mom in her 40s. I'm younger, better looking, and have much higher smv than her yet she still thought she had a chance. Finally had to tell her I'm out of her league, to which she stormed off and got upset (it was pretty funny actually). They may know that they have lower smv, but they'll still try due to their entitlement and narcissism.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 04:45 PM
1

You fucked up by telling her you have feelings for her. Game over.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 11:07 PM
3

Demonstration of Higher Value
/r/askTRP15/03/20 09:54 PM
3

Asking her "are you still down for tonight?" shows you're insecure and lack confidence. Stop doing that.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 06:45 PM
1

Get jacked and shave it down to the skin. Can't tell because your face is covered, but I'm sure you'll look good with a beard.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 06:23 PM
9

Because no more anxiety of getting a bitch pregnant.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 03:51 AM
4

The pain is tolerable, sounds like a bunch of pussies in that sub. Yes your balls are a little sore after the "surgery", but I was back to work the next day and back to fucking a week later.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 03:49 AM
2

Not too bad. They put me under so I didn't feel a thing. Post surgery I was sore for a few days, but I went back to work the next day. One of the best decisions I made. Highly recommend if you don't want kids.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 10:46 PM
2

The fact that you guys fight and she is asking this are huge red flags. This relationship is doomed, leave her now. Otherwise, have fun with that divorce.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 10:41 PM
8

Bro you sound like a whiny bitch. Calm your tits.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 10:03 PM
1

It'll matter when he gets married, then she divorces him a year later and has the courts fuck him in the ass. And It's 2020, people are known to live to 80 or 90+ years old. He still has some years on him, I doubt he is on his deathbed. And I don't care how many 65+ blue pilled friends you have...
/r/askTRP14/03/20 09:13 PM
1

LTRs are less beta, but it still means you caught oneitis for a chick. It then becomes impossible to have an abundance mindset, which is one of the most important alpha/RP traits.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 08:30 PM
1

Why does age matter? The system still fucks men over, regardless of age. A red pill man at the age of 70 isn't going to get oneitis for a chick and then get married. He's still gonna have options if he is truly alpha, and still be fucking bitches to sleep. He certainly isn't going to enter a contract with the government that forces a man to pay alimony if there is a divorce. It's funny how many downvotes I got, truly shows how many wanna-be red pill betas are lurking this sub.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 08:25 PM
1

As much as I hate condoms, I still strap up to prevent STDs. I would otherwise fuck them bitches raw because I had a vasectomy, so I don't have to worry about getting them pregnant. I use Skyn condoms, best feeling ones I've found.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 11:51 PM
0

Old age doesn't always translate to wise. His dad is still blue pilled af...
/r/askTRP13/03/20 11:26 PM
-8

RP men don't get married. Why would you enter into a contract that fucks men over? Marriage is for beta pussies. And you phaggots that think otherwise are just holding onto your old blue pilled ways.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 11:22 PM
3

Step 1: Get off dating apps
/r/askTRP13/03/20 06:03 PM
1

That's not how the drug works but okay.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 10:23 PM
1

If you weren't aroused the first time, what makes you think you'll be able to get it up a second time? One shot of alcohol is nothing, I seriously doubt that had anything to do with it. It all boils down to whether you're sexually attracted to her. If you are, then go for it.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 10:21 PM
0

"Hi, wanna fuck?"
/r/askTRP12/03/20 08:40 PM
0

Her always initiating sex isn't good. It puts her in the masculine frame. Once in awhile is fine, but not every damn time. Remember, women like to be led. Lead her into the bedroom and fuck the shit out of her.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 12:48 AM
1

You need more sidebar.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 12:40 AM
1

I have a similar problem if I'm with a new girl. If she has a lot of LMR and we have to stop and go, my dick isn't 100% when it comes time to fuck. I'll be able to get it up, but halfway through sex it'll go soft. Basically I feel like the prolonged foreplay affects my performance (the "use it or lose it" saying comes to mind). Doesn't happen with every girl, and even if it does when we have sex again in the future I have no issue and fuck her like a pornstar. I even take cialis beforehand, so I…
/r/askTRP12/03/20 12:36 AM
1

Get off Tinder and she won't think you're a boy.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 12:07 AM
7

It's simple...She'll rather stay in a relationship with a violent/aggressive alpha than a boring/pussy beta.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 12:05 AM
2

I love it. Even though I'm on trt and my test levels are high, I still take 10-15 mg 2 hours before sex. I have no problems getting it up, but I still take it because it gives you that extra fullness and a rock hard dick, also makes me last longer. So basically I can fuck harder, fuck longer, and be ready to go again almost right after I bust a nut.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 11:57 PM
1

No he is right, you should take it at least 1-3 hours before sex. Taking it 30 minutes before sex and you run the risk of it not fully being in your system and might not have the full effects. Viagra on the other hand is more fast acting, but for Cialis I would take it around 2 hours before you plan to fuck, just to be safe.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 11:50 PM
2

Wrong. The half life of the drug remains the same regardless of the dosage. Increasing the dosage simply increases the effects, including side effects (if you get them).
/r/askTRP11/03/20 11:44 PM
4

Why didn't you kick the people out of your room? Next time don't be a pussy and pull the trigger.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 04:58 PM
7

She's a college girl, she has options. She's probably getting throat fucked by another guy as I type this. If you're at a party, you need to close that night. Otherwise you're just going to be that guy she made out with when she was half drunk and forget about you.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 04:06 AM
0

Beta answer
/r/askTRP09/03/20 02:47 AM
3

Yours sounds more like a shit test than LMR. Speaking of, had a girl last night with strong LMR. We were watching a movie, started making out like crazy and she then said we need to slow down. I said you're right. Pushed her away and ignored her, kept watching tv. Shortly later I re-engaged, escalated, and pulled her to the bedroom. Made out again and she said clothes have to stay on. I then pushed her away again told her I'm going to go finish my drink. Went back to the living room and went bac…
/r/askTRP09/03/20 02:38 AM
2

Never confirm day of the date. It shows lack of confidence (that you're not sure she'll show up, that you have had girls flake on you in past, ect.). A better option is to text her 30-45 min before the date that you might be 5 min late. Usually (not always) if they are going to flake they'll text back that it turns out they can't make it or something.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 02:14 AM
2

Meet up with her again and if still no sex then next her. And for god's sake always have a condom on you.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 11:05 PM
1

Don't shit where you eat 101
/r/askTRP04/03/20 08:52 PM
0

Have fun losing your masculine frame.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 08:08 PM
1

Or the idiots that say after you masturbate your testosterone levels drop lol No fap is b.s., it only helps if you're so addicted to porn that it affects your day to day life.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 07:42 PM
1

Hmm, that might just work. Thanks
/r/askTRP04/03/20 06:34 AM
1

Not sure how this would help. We both have our own car, so I'm not wasting money on an Uber. And I prefer not to have my date drive me around.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 04:01 AM
2

Not yet, I am constantly talking and approaching girls, but no plates yet--just starting off so it's hard for me to have the abundance mindset like others here. I think you're right though, if my game is good everything will work out.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 03:08 AM
2

The beta orbiters are just obstacles, and everytime you open a set you have to disarm the obstacle(s) by negging the girl. If the guys don't get the impression you're hitting on her, they'll have no reason to white knight and cock block you.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 04:30 AM
10

Never propose to a woman. Problem solved.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 04:20 AM
1

Sounds like you didn't escalate/kino enough. You should've easily been able to make out with her. I can get a kiss close within 15 minutes of meeting a girl at a club, it's easy if your game is on point.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 11:31 PM
2

Who tf cares, why are you overthinking shit...
/r/askTRP02/03/20 11:07 PM
1

Text only for logistics. You fucked up by asking her to send pics and became her text buddy. Also you asked if she likes the pic, which shows your insecurity.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 11:21 PM
1

After getting her number you should've just texted her "Is this the slightly cute girl I met at the gym? Random but cool meeting you. - (your name)" and then go radio silent until you ask her out. No commenting or liking her Instagram shit, don't give her any validation. That's a beta move. She's probably just an attention whore or lost interest in you.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 10:35 PM
2

If it's a 2 set (2 girls) I'll ask the girl that isn't my target (the obstacle) if they're best friends. Before they even get a chance to respond I'll say "Because you two make the same facial expressions". Still ignoring the target, I'll start to stack on negs and DHVs. After 3 IOIs from the target then I'll make my move. The important thing is to disarm the obstacle(s) if she is in a group (which is almost always the case). I made the mistake of not doing this last night. While on the dance fl…
/r/askTRP01/03/20 10:21 PM
5

Cute = attractive face Very fine or hot = attractive face + nice body
/r/askTRP01/03/20 09:37 PM
11

This is such BS, and the amount of people that upvoted you scares me. Testosterone levels do not drop after masturbating, that is a myth and woo science. Post the peer reviewed studies that says otherwise or stop spreading misinformation.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 09:30 PM
12

I wouldn't call a girl whining about the patriarchy or gender roles a "moderate". And who cares about what nonsense they spew, shove your dick in their mouth and call it day.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 04:46 AM
1

I was going to, but saw she was buying pershiables. In hindsight though, I probably should've tried to plan the date right then and there.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 11:33 PM
3

Because porn desensitizes you.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 03:31 AM
6

Cialis is better IMO. Has a longer half life also.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 03:27 AM
2

This.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 10:36 PM
1

Just invite yourself to her place. Try to bring up her place in conversation beforehand, i.e. asking what it looks like, how big is her place, location, ect. and then later casually ask her to show you her place and give you a tour. Once there escalate and fuck.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 07:56 PM
5

Because if he dumps her now there's a good chance she'll file a rape charge.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 06:24 PM
1

Gluten isn't a problem unless you have a legit allergy or intolerance. This gluten free marketing is just b.s.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 11:12 PM
1

"If you keep looking at me like that, I'm going to have to kiss you." Based on her reaction either go for it or she's not ready (yet) and you have more work to do.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 11:21 PM
2

Horrible advice. Never tell a girl you love her.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 11:16 PM
6

Online dating is a waste of time IMO. Go out and approach. Either do daygame or go out at night, or a combination of both.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 04:12 AM
0

Banging girls shouldn't be your main goal or desire in life. /thread
/r/askTRP20/02/20 02:44 AM
6

Fuck snapchat, get her actual number next time.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 02:42 AM
1

Don't be her texting buddy, text for logistics only.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 02:38 AM
3

You did the right thing. For me, first time flaking = soft next, second time flaking = hard next. There could be a million different reasons why she was hot and cold. Just recently a girl gave me her number without me even asking for it, ready to jump my bones. I text her to meet up and she ghosts me. I've learned to just move on and keep approaching.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 02:33 AM
3

She might just be looking for a free meal. Her saying she is low on money could be a red flag, trying to convey that she doesn't want to pay her way. Do something cheap for a first date, like coffee or drinks only.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 11:37 PM
2

My train of thought is if she is really interested in me she will make the time. I told her I can do Friday or Saturday. Didn't want to say Thursday because I feel that is too soon (and needy). She also just moved into town and doesnt know a lot of people, doubt she is busy both those nights. If she does say she can't do either night should I just respond with "okay we'll schedule sometime next week"? I heard you should never ask her what day she is free or what day works for her.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 09:27 PM
2

Yeah she finally responded with "how is your day going?" I like to set up date sooner than later, so I went ahead and asked her out for this coming weekend.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 08:18 PM
2

This wasn't the case. She approached me and left the bar before me. And by the way she did finally respond. Setting up date now.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 08:15 PM
0

Been vegan for 6 years, never felt better. Perfect blood tests, full of energy and high sex drive.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 06:51 PM
3

Her pulling away from the kiss is your answer.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 06:41 PM
2

Using pull out method alone is a pregnancy waiting to happen. Get a vasectomy if you for sure never want kids.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 09:01 PM
2

Yeah she was a bartender at another bar. She wasn't working so I thought her IOIs might've been genuine. And you're probably right, shouldn't had tried to escalate after the rejection haha
/r/askTRP18/02/20 04:15 AM
9

10s don't exist in my eyes. No woman is perfect.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 03:31 AM
2

I opened with "You look familiar, do I know you from somewhere?". Perhaps not the best, but that's the first thing that came to mind. I teased her about her coffee, and tried to keep the conversation fun and playful. Didn't compliment her at all. I would pause and see if she would start up the conversation again, which she did. Her asking if I'm single or have a girlfriend I felt was a big hint she liked me. Maybe I should had lied and made it seem like I'm maybe seeing someone? I told her I was…
/r/askTRP18/02/20 03:28 AM
8

I wasn't about to just sit there and wait for her to approach me. That has never worked for me in the past, which is why as soon as I saw her I approached. But I will agree that I probably didn't build up enough attraction beforehand, and my game could've been better.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 03:10 AM
1

There were no other cute girls at the bar. The place was actually pretty dead, maybe 4 other people there. She was only drinking a coffee that she brought in from the outside, which I teased her about. She could've been trying to see if her boyfriend would get jealous like you said, who knows. Regardless, the experience gave me more confidence to approach more women in the future.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 01:04 AM
1

He was literally 5 feet away from us. We were both at the bar, and I was sitting right next to her. After I started talking to her he eventually jumped in and started talking to me. I asked him to grab me another drink and I went back to talking to her.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 12:56 AM
9

Yup, that's my plan.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 12:51 AM
2

The bartender wasn't even that good looking, which was another reason I thought it was a shit test initially.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 09:57 PM
2

You get over it by going out and meeting other girls. Have abundance mentality and never get oneitis.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 08:23 PM
2

Yeah, also I think one thing I failed to do was neg her and knock her off her pedestal.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 08:07 PM
1

Like I said she showed IOIs, otherwise yeah I wouldn't bother.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 07:08 PM
1

Nah, I'm still going for it. Not afraid of rejection, worst case scenario I don't get get her number. Her loss and I'll simply move on.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 07:03 PM
-5

Women in their 30's have alrready hit the wall, why would you want to date them?
/r/askTRP16/02/20 06:58 PM
1

You just contradicted yourself. you're being obsessive by hopping on a forum just take our advice on this forum So which is it? And need I remind you the purpose of this subreddit? There's an "ask" in front of "trp" for a reason. You can still call it being obsessive if you want, that's your opinion. But the fact remains I wasn't obsessing over her when I was around her, which is my original point. Also the "I have a boyfriend" doesn't just pertain to this girl. I plan on approaching other women…
/r/askTRP16/02/20 06:39 PM
1

I didn't have time to escalate when we first met, which is the only reason I didn't. I'm not trying to plan my "fantasy pickup", I'm just trying to be prepared in case she tries to shit test me.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 04:23 PM
1

Nah, I wasn't obsessing over her at all. She was acting a little nervous beforehand, when she was taking my order and before I even stroked up a conversation.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 06:46 AM
92

Ask open ended questions and let her do 80% of the talking.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 06:37 AM
7

Yeah, I think I like this one the best from the list in the archive.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 06:35 AM
-8

She doesn't receive tips from me. I pickup food from the sports bar via third party deliver service (I do UberEats). So I'm lead to believe her smiles are genuine and she also acts a little nervous around me. I just have a hunch that she finds me attractive. Thanks for the link.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 06:05 AM
1

I tried searching the sidebar and have been reading this sub for a bit, although I could've missed it.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 05:50 AM
2

Yeah that's a good dosage. In my experience 10mg min and 30mg max. I only go up to 30mg if I really want to make sure I'm gonna fuck like a rockstar that night.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 04:42 AM
3

Wait 4-6 days then text her telling her to meet you at a certain time and place, for drinks or whatever.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 06:36 PM
6

One time a girl sent me a pic of her pussy, without me asking or anything. I just responded "Damn". And if a girl sends me a regular pic I'll just respond with "too much clothing for my taste" or something like that. I try to avoid giving her a compliment or validation.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 06:30 PM
2

Since when do RP men date "cougars"? Ghost her and find yourself a hot young girl in her 20s.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 12:06 PM
1

Thanks. Your insight has been helpful.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 11:33 AM
1

I fucked her brains out on the first date. I for sure wasn't planning on giving her a gift, was just wondering if I should had texted her or something. I ended up ignoring her all day though.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 04:47 AM
2

Wrong sub. And cialis isn't a test booster, it only helps maintain an erection. If you're on cialis (at least 10mg 1-2 hours before sex) and still can't get it up, you have some other issue, either hormonal or mental. Do you still get morning wood? If so, then its probably a mental issue. But your estrogen is sky high, so I'm willing to bet it's hormonal. Get your estrodial to around 20-30 and make sure your testosterone levels are normal.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 12:28 AM
2

Re-read my post, we're not in a LTR, just casual dating. And I wasn't thinking about giving her a gift, was just wondering if I should even acknowledge the stupid holiday and send a text. From the advice here so far I think I'll not text her. If later she is disappointed I didn't text her oh well, I'll say I was busy.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 11:58 PM
1

Yes, 3 times
/r/askTRP14/02/20 11:50 PM
1

So pass the shit test by being non reactive.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 10:03 PM
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