mrsobservation Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
9	Im done mommy-ing my husband - is he enough!! ^ read the surrendered wife and maybe also fascinating womanhood. Men have to basically be forced into leadership and both these books give you ways to do this in a non conflict way.	/r/RedPillWives	27/09/25 06:21 PM
4	Tired of being cheated on I’m so sorry this is happening to you. Easier said than done, but try not to let this affect you too much. Direct your energy toward taking care of yourself and your studies. Don’t feel bad you’re an older student in medical school, you’re in medical school that is something to be so so so proud of at any age!!	/r/RedPillWomen	20/09/25 12:35 PM
7	Tired of being cheated on I’m not trying to invalidate you, but are you sure he cheated? Paranoia from trauma sometimes can sometimes cause us to distort reality.	/r/RedPillWomen	20/09/25 02:43 AM
2	He wants me to work and homeschool Ah ok I see what you mean! That’s fair	/r/RedPillWomen	05/09/25 05:18 PM
4	He wants me to work and homeschool It’s doable but not ideal. OP will most likely burn herself out and that’ll affect her femininity and overall joy in life. The woman’s security, mood and how overwhelmed she feels, affects the household greatly.	/r/RedPillWomen	05/09/25 03:30 PM
–	He wants me to work and homeschool It’s not enough though. Have him read “Being There” by Erika Komisar. You are right, you need to be there 100% for the first 3 years of their lives. Especially if you are more of a trad red pill couple. ETA: the fact this is getting downvoted in a red pill sub is wild.	/r/RedPillWomen	05/09/25 03:25 PM
5	He wants me to work and homeschool It’s doable but very hard. I’d like to know more details. So what exactly did his mom do when it came to “working from home” and homeschool? There are also homeschool options like online school, that might make this more doable.	/r/RedPillWomen	05/09/25 03:23 PM
4	What is considered long hair to you? You can technically feel feminine with any length of hair and I would say it’s more about hair type. Women with curly hair can look highly feminine with a bob, for example. I would say if your hair extends below your bust, then it’s long. Collar bone to bust is medium length. That’s just my opinion.	/r/RedPillWomen	25/07/25 02:59 PM
4	I can’t keep up with his libido I think we agree on a lot more than it seems, we’re just coming at it from different angles. You’re addressing the question more from a practical, scheduling-focused perspective, which definitely has value. I’m trying to help the original poster see a bigger core issue: the biological and structural realities that make modern career/financial life really tough on women and their femininity. And just to be clear, I don’t mean “surface level” in a dismissive way. I just think if we only focus on s…	/r/RedPillWomen	24/07/25 03:09 PM
5	I can’t keep up with his libido Thanks for the clarification. I totally respect the work the mods do here. I get that it is meant to be a toolbox, not a lifestyle guide. That said, I think when enough people consistently apply the same tools and principles, it naturally shapes how they live and make decisions, which by definition is a lifestyle (“the way in which a person or group lives”). I’m happy to avoid the word “lifestyle” if it’s discouraged here, but I do still feel my original comment reflects core red pill ideas from…	/r/RedPillWomen	24/07/25 02:28 PM
6	I can’t keep up with his libido Yes, I agree that in a loving marriage, sex should never feel like a chore. My original comment might’ve come across as transactional, but it was based on one of the foundational red pill tenets: the biological and psychological differences between men and women. At its core, red pill content originated as an acknowledgment of gender truths. And one of those truths is that women are biologically more sensitive to stress, which significantly impacts their ability to fully experience sexual desire…	/r/RedPillWomen	24/07/25 02:21 PM
4	I can’t keep up with his libido How can a woman nurture a man and their connection when she doesn’t have the energy to do so, because he doesn’t provide an environment for her to be in her feminine? This woman is burnt out with all she has to do. I realize that my original comment sounded transactional, but it was said with the assumption that we all understood basic red pill principles in this sub (which I have been schooled on having changed).	/r/RedPillWomen	24/07/25 01:55 PM
3	I can’t keep up with his libido I don’t hate it, even if we disagree on this topic. I just take a hard stance that women exploited for their femininity and expected to live in a completely relaxed and nurturing state, is impossible when working in modern workplace full time . If this makes me in agreement with the men and in opposition to this sub, then ok… but it’s my hard stance and I think a lot of people here are trying to cope and “have their cake and eat it too”, when one of the underlying first premises of the red pill …	/r/RedPillWomen	24/07/25 01:43 PM
4	I can’t keep up with his libido This sub is leaning more away from red pill I’ve noticed. I’ve been consuming red pill content, and living this lifestyle, since 2016.	/r/RedPillWomen	24/07/25 04:01 AM
12	I can’t keep up with his libido I don’t agree with some other commenters. Women who have to work full time can’t be expected to have sex more than the average, which is twice a week. Frequent sex is a privilege for a man who provides for a woman to be more in her feminine, and a big part of that is financial provision. Women are different than men, they can’t turn themselves off of work mode as easily.	/r/RedPillWomen	22/07/25 12:49 PM
11	Men’s inherent value in a relationship? Yeah there’s a SAHD on Tik Tok who basically made videos of himself cleaning and such, super popular. Now he makes a full time income, and you can tell that was his goal. Mentally healthy men have a drive to provide, like you said.	/r/RedPillWomen	21/06/25 01:26 PM
21	Men’s inherent value in a relationship? He doesn’t want to be a SAHP, he wants to not work. Big difference. We are taught my culture that SAHPs “do nothing”, but once kids come into the picture, it is actually a very demanding job that has no breaks. If you don’t want to break up, at the very least I think you should pull back a bit in the relationship and examine what you want. It takes a very specific type of woman to be okay with working and the man being a SAHD. Most women can’t do it without resentment. Men need to work to some e…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/06/25 01:21 PM
7	i’m 20F I want to find a husband young, 30s is not the new 20s. I got married early 20s and I’m in my 30s now. You can find traditional men pretty much anywhere but the key is to be honest in the dating process about what you want out of life and making sure your values and priorities align. As women we often let red flags go on for too long. Men will tell you what they want.	/r/RedPillWomen	13/06/25 07:11 PM
5	Not wanting to take his last name, but not for reasons you would think. You can do a two last name situation, or change your middle name to your former last name and just choose to use your full name, socially etc. That’s what I did, for example: Jessica April Jones, now Jessica Jones Williams.	/r/RedPillWomen	11/06/25 06:53 PM
1	I feel thriving as a homemaker, but is it best for me to return to work? Part time work or remote work is the best for your dynamic. Don’t go back to a normal job unless you have a very flexible employer.	/r/RedPillWomen	20/05/25 09:48 PM
6	This is a bit taboo This is the right answer. OP, I’m sorry but you won’t be able to “keep up” with what he is demanding long term because it sounds forced. He’s also not your husband, which is a bit red flag.	/r/RedPillWomen	23/04/25 09:29 PM
1	Bf wants 'a bj' This is my opinion. Giving a bj is a selfless and very primal thing to do. Doing this regularly is a good way to nurture your marriage. However, I don’t think this is the same case for a boyfriend, unless he was your fiancé and there was a serious commitment there.	/r/RedPillWomen	19/03/25 01:38 AM
1	Did anyone else go into Nesting Mode when their frontal lobe developed? I’m not trying to get political but the cost of living is going to get worse if Canada continues to elect liberal. Especially since mark carney is associated and involved with the century initiative which is purposely responsible for lobbying politicians in favor of mass immigration. Immigration is not bad, but this mass immigration is bad since we don’t have the housing or ressources currently. They are trying to stimulate the economy this way, but it’s not working and it’s a bandaid. Moreover,…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/03/25 07:35 PM