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I wish I had seen this months ago. I felt very insecure with my ex and he made me feel like it was my fault when in reality it was because of something he did. He betrayed my trust and then whenever I brought it up he would get defensive and invalidate my feelings. Well to hell with him. I have never felt better in my life. He was the one bringing me down not me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 01:43 PM
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LOL, love it. he is offended you called him out on his bullshit and put up a boundary. yikessss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 05:20 PM
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It actually makes me wanna throw up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 03:27 PM
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Me too girl. This really struck a chord in me because my ex used to watch hentai. Trash!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 01:11 PM
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What the fuck ... this is so disgusting. I truly dislike men who watch anime or are into hentai. They are all nasty pos. Fucking dump him wtf is she doing. Someone needs to get her to her damn senses. Jesus. She deserves a guy who isn't depraved enough to use a fucking ANIME FILTER during their most intimate acts. She deserves someone who treats her like a damn queen. Jfc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 01:10 PM
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Girl I understand you. I also told my LDR bf that I dont want him to watch porn anymore and we argued for TWO HOURS. I literally cried for two hours straight bc this selfish pos was basically coming up with shitty arguments and acting condescending towards me and even made me feel self conscious about my body basically saying how he needs to watch porn. I even called him out for being addicted to it and he got sooo angry. He did eventually agree to stop watching it but tbh I don't know how true …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 10:33 AM
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ew ..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 04:54 PM
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the reason why he is treating the new girl better is because now he knows how to manipulate better. he knows what to do to woo her. trust me hes gonna be doing the same exact shit you had to go through. men don't change that easily especially the ones who think they've done nothing wrong. I don't know your situation but I can safely say the woman is in for potential emotional abuse or any mistreatment you endured and its going to be even harder for her to realize it bc of everything he is doing …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 04:53 PM
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yo....what the fuck. report this fucking weirdo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 12:16 PM
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yesss gimme dem screenshots.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 12:14 PM
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serves him right for suggesting and agreeing to a threesome
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 11:54 AM
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THIS 100%. Also what I thought.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 08:00 AM
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damn this guy is bitter as hell. her husband wants to do something sweet and special for her and he acts this?? jealousy is a disease i hope he gets better soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 07:55 AM
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Holy shit that is crazy. This guy seems unstable and reminds me of my ex. I'm so glad you got out of this unharmed. I relate 100%. I did feel relaxed and comfortable at times but most of the time I was very anxious. I was anxious to speak up or voice my opinions because he would always try to one-up me and tell me what I think is wrong. At one point I remember him asking me what I thought about something and I said 'I dont know' bc I didn't want to be pestered over it. I could never sleep around…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 08:03 PM
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Girl what? I think in my personal life, I've noticed the intelligent and educated women are far less likely to get taken advantage of than the ones who are not on the same IQ lvl Are you saying that women who have lower IQ get taken advantage of more? It seems as if you're claiming that assault victims have lower IQ which is wrong. If anything the predators are the ones with lower IQs. I understand that you don't want FDS to become a sexual assault support group, but if your friend had come to y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 08:10 AM
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It doesn't matter how old she is or what she studies. Assault can happen at any age to any person regardless of their educational background. Sexual assault victims aren't "naive". You can't prevent what you cannot predict.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 04:42 PM
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You can act HV in gaming, like my ex but still be a narcissistic pos. Don't think that these guys might be amazing people outside of that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 08:58 AM
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Wow. You just opened to my eyes. This makes so much sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 07:36 AM
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Lmfao basically my ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 06:24 PM
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Wow so glad she dumped his ass. Kween shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 05:55 PM
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Same as you except that I liked guys with anxious attachment style and I was the one w the avoidant style. It was weird and confusing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 09:35 PM
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Its like playing the russian roulette. You never know what you're getting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 03:09 PM
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Same gurl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 01:40 PM
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God you just wrote EVERYTHING that goes on in my mind. FUCK LIBERAL FEMINISM. Fuck everyone who refuses to change their views or speak up about whats right. FUCK these men and the women who promote this toxic culture that leaves women raped, abused and DEAD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:36 PM
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lol ikr. I see that shit every day and block anyone who posts pics like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 07:30 PM
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PREACH!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 11:26 AM
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Holy fuck reading this comment made me realize that my ex was exactly like that. he is one of those insufferable low EQ types who drive people away because they think every discussion is a high school debate club argument. He did this for EVERYTHING AND ANYTHING. Even when I told him its hurting my feelings he would have a debate about it. This is a huge red flag. He doesn't agree that this scene was pornographic and he needs to "know the plot". Wtf does the plot have to do with a scene where ch…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 11:25 AM
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Dump him sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 11:20 AM
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Hahaha. They'll stop traumatizing real women. Sounds great.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 08:05 AM
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LMAO is this guy for real? Do yall see the difference between men and women and how they think about each other? This guy would happily trade a real life human being with feelings and emotions for a machine because she will obey him and do whatever he wants. This guy is CLEARLY an abuser. Meanwhile us women on FDS want to level up and date a HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 07:15 AM
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This makes me feel sick. Describing her boobs? Will put my needs before hers?? So do you want a codependent person?? Fuckin objectifying trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 08:43 PM
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I'm laughing so hard but this is such a good idea. Imma do this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 12:26 AM
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this is sending me omfg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 12:20 AM
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This made me tear up bc I really feel it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 08:48 PM
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Oh my GOOOOOD. HES DISGUSTED AT HER FOR GETTING RAPED. WHAT THE FUCK.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 08:46 PM
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"Uh, but he doesn't ever act on it. Did you miss that part?" Wow I am so shocked!! He never acts on it?? What a saint!! Goals!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 08:32 AM
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What a pos
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 08:27 AM
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Hahaha I like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 07:54 AM
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God I hope she leaves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 07:32 PM
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Gurl...I use to read gay male erotica bc it made me feel safe and turned on. Whereas straight erotica made me barf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 07:28 PM
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PREACH!!! I did this shit so much in my last relationship. And I aways told him how it feels bad to have to ask you. Well NO FKIN MORE!!! WOOH!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 06:00 PM
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GIRL YES, YOU GET ME!! I am totally gonna do this. I also really hate spending my sexual energy on random real guys or my ex. I just don't feel good afterwards. I think this is gonna help me a ton. I def also need a story, something that gives me some sort of connection to this imaginary person I want to masturbate to. Thank u!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 05:57 PM
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This is so sad and messed up. I've seen this happen too many times. I've had men invalidate my experience regarding unwanted sexual advances. I hope she leaves him, she deserves so much more than his misogynistic ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 05:54 PM
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I think abt this multiple times a day, its so iconic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 05:41 PM
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This guy a whole ass sociopath.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 05:39 PM
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Ooh I hadn't thought about that. Ill def think about HVM characters I like!! I would love to date the real life version of them lmao. agree, its unhealthy af to do this. Its just another bad habit I need to break tho. Thanks!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 05:22 PM
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Im def gonna do that when I want to start thinking about him. That'll turn me off towards him for sure. Nice!! Im not interested in anyone at all and don't want to be rn tbh. I just wanna enjoy myself without thinking of any dudes lmao. Im bisexual too so that makes it easier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 04:48 PM
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Tbh thats a good idea. I used to read erotica when I was younger but eventually stopped. I might give it a shot. A lot of it is REALLY bad but I know there is good erotica out there, you just gotta find the right stuff. Thanks!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 04:45 PM
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This makes me soooooo mad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 04:22 PM
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He says she is mentally ill. What the fuck. I hope she leaves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 04:21 PM
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Women are picky bc they don't want to date trash boo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 01:54 PM
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Every time I had a bad feeling about someone it turned out to be true. When I first started talking to my now ex I sometimes felt that something was off. I used to have a lot of anxiety around him. I even remember thinking "Something is off with this guy but I don't know what" even though he acted super sweet and caring, he was generous, bought me gifts, offered to pay for things such as plane tickets etc. (we were LDR) I shoved that aside and ignored it. A year later I discovered he was a cover…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 01:51 PM
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I've never had sex. But I have dated a few guys and I regret all of them. All the dates and every guy I made out with was trash. When I look back at it, I didn't feel comfortable with any of them. Well except for my last partner. I had a comfortable sexual experience with him and felt safe at the time. Only ONE guy made me feel good. Can you imagine?! What I'm saying is that none of these experiences helped me in my life and I certainly did not enjoy most of them. Looking back at it, what I real…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 06:47 PM
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Lol throw the whole man out. Hypocrite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 08:20 PM
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Hahahah ikr
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 09:40 PM
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Very true. Love this post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 09:40 PM
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Omg I'm laughing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 08:47 PM
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I almost threw up reading those. This is horrible. I hope none of these people ever have kids or wives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 08:44 PM
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This is so fucking dumb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 08:36 PM
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Who is this queen. I had the exact same mindset of the 'bare minimum' girl bc I haven't experienced that with anyone else. (Except for my best friend). So naturally I leaned towards anyone who was nice, listened and comforted me. Well turns out even nasty people can do that. Raise your standards girls!!! These things are a given. Now if someone does those things its not impressive at all. You need more than that to be considered a special person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 08:33 PM
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Preach gurl. Most men are unimpressive anyways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 08:28 PM
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Ikr I was wondering abt that too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 08:11 PM
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Wow thats really amazing. How did you achieve that? I feel like if I do get into a relationship again I will either be the distant one or the clingy one or just have a constant push-pull dynamic. It really is exhausting and I'm just realizing how bad it was bc my thoughts were constantly preoccupied with him and we both texted each other ALL DAY. It got tiring af. Tell me about your experience more in depth girl!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 02:45 PM
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I hope she leaves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 08:50 AM
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My ex was experienced in League of legends and a really good player. He was still a LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 08:45 AM
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I have no idea. I used to call my ex "bro" or "dude". Is this a bad thing? Should I not do that in the future or let it be done to me?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 08:23 AM
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I'm fearful avoidant. So that means I've always attracted clingy guys who made me feel suffocated. My last ex turned out to be a narcissist. He had anxious attachment so I guess it makes sense? I noticed that whenever I didn't give him attention or love he would level up his love bombing. Whereas if he didn't give me love I'd either ask for affection or not be affectionate at all. Hmmm. He was also terrified of abandonment and if there was any percieved threat of that he would either go crazy/ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 08:16 AM
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Why he speaking in french.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 08:08 AM
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Literally my ex. God I have learned so much in these past few months.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 06:21 PM
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Daaamn that scrote mad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 06:17 PM
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Wow!! Thats amazing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 06:13 PM
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This is so damn sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 09:07 PM
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Dude what the hell. This is SO OBVIOUSLY ABUSE. He even gaslighted her and raised HIS voice and HE tried to fucking drown her and this guy had the audacity to tell her "It doesnt seem like abuse to me". I am so fucking tired of men telling US how OUR EXPERIENCES SEEM LIKE TO THEM. You were not there. And this SCREAMS abuse. These guys are just. I have no words. God I hope this woman leaves her bf. If a man dismisses your feelings once he will never stop doing it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 03:44 PM
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Damn this is insane. They are delusional and so entitled. These are things I would say to anyone I wanted to be friends with wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 03:15 PM
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After I broke up w my narc ex, at the age of 21.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 09:54 PM
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Hey girl, I went through something similar myself. Meeting someone online, them breaking my heart then coming back yrs later and enter a LDR, love bombing, not feeling like a priority, and emotional abuse. He was a covert narc. I believe in you. You're strong. You can get to the other side and it will be SO much better. This person not being in your life anymore is a blessing. Now you can return to yourself. Time really does heal all wounds. We will be okay. 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 10:31 PM
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"I'm a victim, feel bad for me :(." Why does this sound like it was written by my ex lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 10:22 PM
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This is so funny
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 09:46 PM
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The men who do that have narcissistic personality disorder. They want to be seen as victims because THEY see themselves as such. They can't take any responsibility because doing so means they were wrong. And if they are wrong and criticized it means that their false sense of self is truly fake and that terrifies them. They feel entitled and they WILL lie about you being the abusive one. They can't stand being called out and will try to do everything in their power to gain control in the situatio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 10:59 AM
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My ex could never!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 10:42 AM
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I'm sorry I did that???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 07:40 PM
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Girl I'm in the same boat. Completely ignored my instincts and had a relationship with a narcissist. I'm only now coming to terms with who he really was. People can be so evil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 09:02 AM
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Definitely not. Vet vet vet!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 06:17 PM
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Bruh my ex showed up to our airbnb (we were LDR) with a bag full of clothes not EVEN FOLDED just shoved in. He didn't even iron any of them and when I questioned him if hes gonna iron anything he laughed and said no. YIKESSSSS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 05:15 PM
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YES KWEEN!! Wish I had seen this earlier and dumped my LVM ex. But hey better late than never!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 05:09 PM
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I dated a guy that was nowhere near my league but I didn't mind bc I found him cute and was willing to overlook that. I loved his "personality" and he was caring, generous and sweet and hardworking. At least for the first 5 months. He turned out to be an emotionally abusive person who is the basic LVM scrote. I tried so hard to cOMmUniCate w him. NEVER give guys who are not on your league chances, they will suck your energy dry and abuse you. They KNOW they don't deserve you. They'll try to make…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 05:07 PM
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Literally my ex lmao. You're sooo abusive for telling ppl how I abused you. I'm actually the victim here. Lemme not take accountability for any of my actions and lie about what you did to get sympathy points from my friends : ///
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 04:42 PM
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What am I seeing. Wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 09:45 PM
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Goals af
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 09:34 PM
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Hahaha. What a good example.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 12:10 PM
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"Now that I know you're a woman, your opinion does not matter" Thank god he didn't take her on ANY dates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 10:35 AM
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Literally stopped reading after the first sentence. A bunch of racist sexist bullshit. Rot in hell scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 10:30 AM
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This is so gross. I feel sad for this woman and I feel for her. This happened to me with my ex. We were just getting started to get sexually intimate (first time ever for me) and I've always had issues w getting sexual with men bc of the trauma my dad inflicted on me (emotional/verbal abuse). I remember telling him to stop bc I was feeling really vulnerable. He made me feel so fucking guilty, telling me how bad I made him feel. I resent him so much for this. This happened twice during our relati…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 10:16 AM
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He has sexually harrassed so many women. I'm so glad she called him out on his disgusting ass behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 09:29 AM
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Hahaha. Ahh yes the LMV showing himself. My ex called me a radical feminist and sexist because of FDS. The trash taking itself out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 09:25 AM
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God these comments r ridiculous they're making me laugh. 'We don't know without his input'. What the fuck don't you know? Hes SELFISH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 07:06 PM
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Yes kween!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 04:10 PM
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