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Field Reportmrthrowaway413/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 05:03 PM
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Red Pill Theorymrthrowaway413/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 03:11 AM
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mrthrowaway413/r/askTRP26/10/18 01:18 AM
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mrthrowaway413/r/askTRP07/09/15 04:54 PM
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mrthrowaway413/r/askTRP31/01/17 05:30 AM
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mrthrowaway413/r/askTRP06/09/18 08:46 PM
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mrthrowaway413/r/askTRP03/04/16 07:29 AM
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mrthrowaway413/r/askTRP01/08/15 10:29 PM
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mrthrowaway413/r/askTRP10/11/18 08:44 AM
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mrthrowaway413/r/askTRP09/09/17 06:45 PM
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mrthrowaway413/r/askTRP24/09/18 06:56 PM
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mrthrowaway413/r/askTRP19/06/16 08:41 PM
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The issue with this post is that things like: ​ Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place ​ is believed by some who think "This is so disgusting of women" and treat it like one sex does this. ​ I think the most important thing this subreddit taught me is that deep down we really are just biological. This same law is true for men, smart men at least. ​ We (rationally) also derive no benefit from certain women, and no interaction takes p…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/20 05:22 AM
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I had a single mother. I’m 21 turning 22 in a few months. I read the red pill throughout highschool, now I don’t really come on here much, I learned what I needed etc, not my point. Something that helped me a lot was an all boys highschool. Gave me the fraternity vibe I needed and toughened me up. If you’re lacking a father I think that’s necessary. 0.02$
/r/TheRedPill20/02/20 04:44 AM
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I feel like his point was regardless of her reaction rudely or nicely, have the same calm response and walk away. IMO it felt like the best advice on the list. Don't get mad, don't get emotional, and move on.
/r/seduction24/02/19 04:01 PM
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I feel like his point was regardless of her reaction rudely or nicely, have the same calm response and walk away. IMO it felt like the best advice on the list. Don't get mad, don't get emotional, and move on.
/r/seduction24/02/19 04:01 PM
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With my ex I never really tried to resolve arguments. I just would ghost for a little bit. This made her really fall in love with me and by the end of the relationship I felt like a manipulative asshole and left. I still feel bad for the things I did. Its a hard and tricky situation
/r/TheRedPill15/12/18 10:52 PM
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Holy fucking shit I need to read that
/r/askTRP10/11/18 09:25 AM
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This is useful advice, thank you.
/r/askTRP10/11/18 09:22 AM
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I’ve read that side bar so many times my man, I need wisdom. I don’t need to learn how to get what I want from the sidebar. I can do that and it’s not fulfilling. I want wisdom from someone who has learned to been genuine and enjoyed his life. Someone who has been real as hell and been able to weed out others who aren’t genuine. Someone who has found other people who seek fulfillment. When you’re successful, it becomes a competition. I don’t give a fuck about competition. Lets fucking live and h…
/r/askTRP10/11/18 09:11 AM
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Not a good career, but as a current college student, bartending beings in decent money while developing great social skills.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 03:56 PM
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A while back I made a post at 17 years old thanking you guys for changing me since I started reading at 15. It was one of those humble brags but a sincere thank you because you really did change my life that much. I’m 20 now going on 21 Since then I’ve come a longer way. I just picked up guitar 6 months ago and performed for a sorority last friday and I was nervous as fuck but held frame. I put myself out there and after that I know what genuine confidence is. Its not the fake shit I had always …
/r/askTRP28/10/18 10:04 PM
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Yeah theres that. Also that girl has friends as well. I have some brothers in my house girls avoid because all they do is try to fuck everything.
/r/askTRP26/10/18 05:50 PM
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My issue is that I give off the appearance I don’t. I’m a good pretender, a lot of the guys look up to me when it comes to gaming because I flirt very easily. I just never close. They don’t know that mentally I might actually care what people think of me a little too much. I don’t know how to fix that even though I am aware of it. Edit: I also think I care because these girls are landing internships at big companies. A lot of them will be my network. My brothers, they will be my network. I want …
/r/askTRP26/10/18 01:34 AM
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Usually i sororities at smaller schools like mine they won’t even cheat outright. More of a branch swing. When hes on her social media looking like a baller is when you know she might be satisfied by her choice, for now atleast.
/r/askTRP20/10/18 11:05 AM
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As I’ve gotten older, I’ve accepted that fear and excitement just might be the same thing
/r/seduction29/09/18 07:48 PM
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Thanks for everything guys. If i ever need real life advice, this subreddit was the way to go.’ I read TRP as a teenager in high-school and 4 years later as s 20 year old college man, I’m a better man because of you guys. I may not be the best version of myself yet but I know how to get there.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 06:46 AM
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Yeah Outcome Independence is something I realize I need to work on.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 08:08 PM
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I chuckled I will
/r/askTRP24/09/18 07:13 PM
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I’ve read it years ago. Lets make these insults helpful, what should I re-read you fucker
/r/askTRP24/09/18 07:11 PM
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Insult me and give me advice, the insult alone is useless Show me what I did wrong, or what I’m perceiving wrong, then call me a dumbass. Edit: You misunderstood. Calling this One-Itis is laughable. I was in a relationship for 2-years, I ended it because there were other opportunities in college. This isn’t one-itis. I was in an all boys school for highschool then LTR freshman and Sophomore year. I have been out of the game for 2 years and in it for only 6 months now. I am rusty, and that is wha…
/r/askTRP24/09/18 07:05 PM
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I started reading the pill at 16. I got in a relationship at 17 and got out of it at 19. It was two years. I'm now 20. I did a lot for her but me breaking her heart brought out the light switch effect. Lowkey still wish we were on good terms, but I'm in college now and have been distracting myself like crazy. Gym everyday or every other day now and then, talking to everyone, flirting with every cute girl, getting girl's numbers and not talking to them. Talking to my fraternity brothers about gir…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/18 01:42 PM
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Go to college and spend that time well. Dorm if you can, its a different world for 4 years. It is its own secluded giant social circle, and with TRP you can navigate it much better than others your age I assure you. Refer to my post about 2 years ago or so when I thanked the redpill at around 18, I'm 20 now and while I thought I knew a lot then, I know much more now, and in a few years I'll say that again. You can always learn more more, congrats on you for starting early, it is probably one of …
/r/TheRedPill18/09/18 07:57 PM
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I recently hooked up with 1 cheek a few days after this post. Then a week after this post kissed one, the same night I went upstair and got head from some other girl. EVERY single one of these hook ups sucked dick. Stuck their tounges down my throat and I had to tell that bitch to stop. Its gross, these 18 year olds and 19 year olds don't know how to fuck. I learned through a 2 year relationship, apparently not everyone my age has learned. This is what I'm trying to avoid and why I don't want to…
/r/askTRP18/09/18 07:55 PM
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Update: I got a chicks number and made out with her on Saturday. Went upstairs and found some other girl, talked to her, hooked up and she gave me head. It was the worst head. Had to tell her to stop. This is what I expect from party hook ups. They blow.
/r/askTRP18/09/18 07:53 PM
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Founding class 66 60% boners. We’re training them, its gotten better my man.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 09:00 PM
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I'm 20 and a junior in college. ​ My fraternity has been popping off with interest, I met a 17 year freshman girl the other day, she told me she is in a Long Term Relationship. For 6 months. ​ And apparently she told her boyfriend she will stay with him until someone else here makes her happier. ​ That is literally open hypergamy. I laughed in her face.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/18 03:43 PM
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Junior in college here. ​ Economics and Finance major. I'm applying to big banks, you can make a large salary there. You'll learn about investments, my family owns two houses in a shitty town and that grown me interested in alternative investments and real-estate investments. ​ I recommend Economics, you will learn about the most important thing to anyone, money. ​ Also I recommend a fraternity, just find the right one. I now have 100+ brothers, which 80 of are business majors. A couple of them …
/r/askTRP05/09/18 03:32 PM
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I started learning guitar and piano, scuba diving, intramural soccer, and founded a fraternity when I was 18 starting college. Also, people here shit on video games. I play rocket league and we have an Esports team, I won a nice scholarship for it and have more money ahead. I just tell girls I get scholarship money playing a video game and hold frame, and they find it interesting. You need really believe in what you enjoy. Im now 20 and life has never been so good. I cannot recommend getting hob…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/18 11:20 PM
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The issue is coping. You're right on porn. Yes i dug myself into a hole. No idea how this is gonna go. Ive just done a good job for the past 2 years on learning how to handle my emotions. Emotions are one hell of a drug. And right now this is the most I've ever been flooded with dread and I'm at a lost. I already contacted her last night 30 minutes after talking to her saying "We need time. Be safe" and left it at that. Im leaving it at that.
/r/askTRP09/09/17 07:05 PM
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I'm looking for something more useful, thanks.
/r/askTRP01/09/17 10:00 PM
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I actually do both. My personal account I show off. As the Public Relations Officer of my Fraternity, part of my responsibilities is the fraternity's account, I run it like a business, which I show off as well. Social Media is about showing off what you got.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 02:43 AM
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Swallowed the pill few years ago, I will always keep Social Media. Just gotta know how to use it effictively, espicially if you're like me and in college.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 12:42 AM
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I made a post on Social Media some years back. The majority of posts on Social Media are meant to make others feel exactly how you feel, jealous. Be aware of that and it really isn't that bad. Abuse and exploit that and you got another weapon in your arsenal
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 12:41 AM
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Sure go for it.
/r/askTRP28/07/17 03:00 PM
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I actually could use the answer to this because I actually have a girlfriend lol. And i notice this too but then I realize "Won't she think im a total douche bag and get more validation from telling her friend of what a total douche bag i am than she would from fucking me" so escalating seems to risky for me.
/r/askTRP28/07/17 02:15 PM
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I connect with you on the feeling ashamed of not working. I'm a sophomore in college in the states and I'm lucky my college scholarship pays for most of it. However I live in the ghetto and my mother is a single mother who works but she has given me all her strength. She insists that I do not need to work and that my grades are important but I feel like a fucking loser studying and having fun and blowing my moms money and the little shit i made from my minimum wage job i hold right now. Especial…
/r/askTRP28/07/17 02:12 PM
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Hey bro, first of all, you'll probably end up texting her again. You JUST swallowed the pill, if you don't then you're a quick learner. Just learn from the mistakes you make now, it'll help in college I discovered the pill in high school about 4 years ago, I'm a sophomore in college now. I read about it for months and talked about it for hours with some friends, then I realized it intimidates people. People don't like it. Don't talk about it, don't tell people, don't explain yourself. Just do it…
/r/askTRP28/07/17 12:15 PM
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But they are correlated in many situations. Manipulation is not dependent on lying but it is benefited by lying in times.
/r/askTRP30/04/17 09:55 PM
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She wouldn't want to fuck other guys, but that would be her go to argument if it came to that point. She sees no difference, even though she wouldn't do it, i need to pass that test to come to an agreement.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 01:23 PM
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Thats an interesting story. It does help. If i were to bring this up, she would say "How would you feel if I was fucking other guys?" Did your girl ever raise that shit test? Also when you did cheat, did the girls know about your current girlfriend. Did you hide them for each other? Were you worried if you dropped a plate she would reach out to your gf?
/r/askTRP31/01/17 08:14 AM
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Thanks man for the reply I absolutely get everything you're saying. I've thought about this as well. I'm glad to see someone else can have the same mindset
/r/askTRP31/01/17 07:13 AM
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Glad to hear. Do you know what decision he made? I'm assuming he did not cheat.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 06:58 AM
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Your second question is one I have pondered. If I cheat, it may show in my security. I know friends who have cheated on their girlfriends and their girlfriend never cheated on them, but afterwards they get scared their girlfriend is doing the same. I'm worried this may happen to me and is another reason I have not followed through yet.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 06:57 AM
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Break up with her. It's already over in your head. Honestly, if it was I would have. I would say the idea of in my head is Just cheat. I'm just here to see what other TRP members think of this. Either looking for justification or criticism, which I can get from here. Thanks for your input man
/r/askTRP31/01/17 06:18 AM
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It's not exactly a bad thing. Ignoring them places you of higher "importance". The meditation thing is important. When you meditate, you are taught to look around the room but not to really focus on one particular thing. Just a soft look. Doing that while walking kinda lets you relax and own everything.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 05:58 AM
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I really like what you said there. "No one is ever satisfied, that's life. Everyone is simply going through the motions and doing their best." I'll think over this. Thanks man.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 05:50 AM
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I've come to realize I'm not a person that gets happy easily. I always want more. This is a relationship I wanted. I got it. Now I want out. I'm gonna go single. Get it. Then I'm gonna want a relationship. I can't be satisfied. I know this, and this is why I feel like I should build on the relationship. It's like Augustine's Confessions philosophy.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 05:45 AM
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I'll take you up for $0.01 per paragraph.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 09:34 PM
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I never said those words to her. Kinda felt they were implied. But at this point that boundary is clear and she's abiding by it, which is why I wanna test the waters but that seems to be a bad move by the looks of the replies.
/r/askTRP19/06/16 10:45 PM
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Note taken. Thank you
/r/askTRP19/06/16 09:05 PM
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I only have occasional flashes as well. And my girl dropped all her ex's. She's a cheerleader so most of her friends are girls. The only issue is that cheerleaders meet all the alphas from sports, but I go to a school that is much more impressive in sports and I swim so I compete with them rather easily. I'm glad to hear I'm not the only one. Currently she's on the pill and I've made her verify that she's taking them with me so I don't wrap. I've seen an STD test. I do pull out though.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/16 12:17 PM
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Shit. Well I'll work on it. We're both young. 18, still learning. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/16 12:00 AM
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I have. Her boyfriends are little bitches. Dude told her he loves her first 5 months in. He was too scared to talk to her parents or her friends. He kept to himself and was a pothead. Beta all the way. She upgraded with me. I found him and I'm bigger.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 04:06 PM
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Also: Can this new-post-locked, theory-commenty-thingy be permanent? This shit is exactly what this sub needs; all information needed is already here. A solid majority of the problems people have here could be figured out with some reading and critical thinking. So stop adapting?
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 01:13 PM
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I know that you need to not give a shit about a girls N count but my girlfriend has had sex with 3 people before me and that fucking gets to me. I don't mate guard or anything, but sometimes when we're fucking I just think about the guys that have fucked her before. Things like she's giving me head and swallows how I like it, but then I think about the guy before she's probably done the same to. Or having sex and her cumming then thinking about previous times she's had before. Like it's fucking …
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 12:33 PM
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I like this idea because everyone else likes this idea.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 12:17 PM
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You're gonna suck ass at it at first but then you get better. You need to get out to get the experience. Good post. When I first swallowed the pill I had to recite Red Pill game theories in my head when I was in need of them. I had to look back like I was remembering what I studied for a test. Now it almost comes naturally. Responses feel normal and it's just how I act. If I offend anyone with a response I don't even have to apologize, my peers will agree that I don't mean harm, it's just how I …
/r/TheRedPill21/04/16 07:12 PM
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Noted. I'll keep an eye out.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/16 12:38 PM
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On Facebook, it depends on your region. I know by me no one uses it anymore. Also it won't get you laid, but it's similar to a resume girls look at if they are for some reason interested into you. If it looks good then it makes them feel good.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/16 10:30 AM
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Is that a genuine question or a rhetorical question?
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 06:01 PM
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How do you feel when you get a follow? Happy right? Which is exactly how others feel. Feeling awkward is losing frame. Do it with confidence.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 04:14 PM
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That's your opinion and I respect that more than the other comments who just turn it down. It's atleast a lot more objective than subject like the other comments. I personally believe it's the environment you grow up in. I'm growing up in an environment where it means a lot. Others may not depending on age and social environment. This results in vastly different opinions.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 01:52 PM
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I mean you can if you're Chad. Girls eat that up. But if you aren't then you're only hurting yourself.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 01:48 PM
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Don't take selfies. Those are asking for attention. Take group pictures with friends. Take pictures doing something you like or being somewhere interesting. Selfies are not the way to go unless it's with friends together. I have 920 followers but that's only because my school is connected to other schools and it is common practice to follow each other. You could always resort to following random people, especially of lower SMV. Then unfollow anyone who doesn't follow back.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 12:06 PM
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Be a real man and just do you Translation: Don't use a tool that can be beneficial because I've personally never seen benefit in it. Make it harder on yourself. It's like using your hands to put in a nail instead of a hammer
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 10:58 AM
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Used wrongly it can harm your SMV. It can make you look like an attention seeker. If you have none, it doesn't really affect it. I was wrong to say it would put a threshold if you are in your 30's You probably have more leeway because you are older. Social media is a tool that can be beneficial, but often ignored. It is not necessary.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 10:37 AM
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LTR's bring validation as well. Red pill men get involved in LTR's for validation as a benefit as well. Just don't let it be your main and only source of motivation.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 10:34 AM
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If you're plates know you're not exclusive, it just shows other girls want you. But take a snap story with confidence. You can easily make the situation really awkward and lose frame when doing this because people get uncomfortable with a camera around.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 10:32 AM
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Oh thank goodness bigdickedtyrone let me slide! I was so worried
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 10:31 AM
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When you meet people, when exchanging contact info ask if they have an IG. Just keep it mutual and not a big deal.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 10:31 AM
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It CAN get you laid. But it's not necessary. I see I made an error in saying it can put a threshold in your SMV. I will probably edit that now looking back on it. I see social media as potential being wasted if ignored. It's helpful but not necessary
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 10:27 AM
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Anything interesting. Something you did with friends, something interesting, vacation photos, something you do as a hobby ect.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 10:25 AM
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My girlfriend posts photos but it's generally family pictures, pictures, before formal events dress pictures, ect. If it were 20 selfies I would probably not even consider her LTR material
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 10:24 AM
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To these girls that never met you and have to base it off of social media. Yes. They mean a lot. A lot more than any text you can write them. If it's in person. Frame matters way more and you are correct.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 06:36 AM
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I've been considering it but I've been putting it off. With your comment I'll be making one tonight, thanks for the encouragement.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 02:12 AM
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Texting is subjective in my opinion. If you're doing pick up in the context you described, you're 100% correct that you cannot create attraction through texts. But there's another side to that. It depends on your age group. I'm 18 (Edit: whoops my bday was a few days ago) and unfortunately texting is absofuckinglutely everything. Group chats are everywhere. I'm in more than I can count. With Snapchat, who snaps who is important. It all now adds to your smv. Stupid shit like Instagram can raise o…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/16 03:07 PM
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Ah shit I thought it was a PM, didn't realize I still replied through comments. I'm on mobile.
/r/askTRP04/04/16 06:42 AM
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Sarcasm. I'm always a cocky little fuck with my girlfriend, to the point of absurdity. I had a little sarcasm in person and it's funny. She's told me herself she reads our conversations in my sarcastic voice. I don't hesitate to call her a bitch or a hoe because she reads it in sarcasm. Which, essentially, it is. But the fact that I have the ability to call her that makes her feel a bit inferior. There's really no good texting read. It's something you catch on to Learn how to be very sarcastic i…
/r/askTRP04/04/16 01:07 AM
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How would you get it. I wouldn't like go to a weed dealer to get.
/r/askTRP03/04/16 09:13 PM
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Texting to be logistics only simply does not work for our age. Texting is happening 24/7 all the time with anyone who's friends with anyone. I could understand if I'm older but at our age it doesn't work. I text my girlfriend 24/7 but I always change things up. Yesterday was a day after a great sleepover, she was great to me the entire time so I flattered her with compliments and made it clear that it's because we had a good time. Today I'm being more sexual and aggressive with more cocky playfu…
/r/askTRP03/04/16 09:04 PM
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I do that with this girl I "dated" in 8th grade. I could give two shits about the girl but it puts a dumb little number near her name and my girl freaks out over it. It's perfect.
/r/askTRP03/04/16 09:01 PM
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Lol Thanks for the reassurance. In seriousness I'm sure I'll get over it. It'll just take a while. It's the damage control I want to control.
/r/askTRP03/04/16 07:12 PM
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Considering it at this point. But I don't think I could get my hands on some.
/r/askTRP03/04/16 07:11 PM
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I'm 17. Had sex previously with two girls. Was buzzed during it and it was pump and dump, so I didn't really care much and I'm not gonna lie I have feelings for my current girlfriend, so I think that's making me overthink things, I gotta get more stoic.
/r/askTRP03/04/16 07:10 PM
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Damn it. Are you sure? I tried it for like 2 weeks and my girl gave me head and I busted in about a minute. I get hard too, I just lose it right before putting it in. From what I'm getting I should just try it again, which I will, I'm just worried it won't help.
/r/askTRP03/04/16 04:14 PM
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Nofap makes me bust in 20 seconds. I can't do that. I've been lifting too. I'm quitting smoking herb to see if that changes anything, not a healthy habit too. Funny enough her talking to about made me feel better about it, regardless of how beta that sounds.
/r/askTRP03/04/16 03:39 PM
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I'm 17. Don't use it for meaningful texts. Use it for hot, funny, thrilling things girls like. Short and simple and fun, they love it. On that note, if you hit up the same girl often. Build a streak with her. I do this with my girlfriend all the time. Girls use the streak as validation. So what you do is build a 7-8 day streak. Then you break it, go cold turkey for a day. Even put a story to make her hamster wonder why you have the time to put a story and can't snap her. The next day snap like n…
/r/askTRP03/04/16 07:33 AM
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First, thanks so much for your input. I appreciate it. Also she's not a virgin. We tried on her couch one day but the rest was in her car which is roomy in the back and she brought a pillow and I brought a blanket, not as bad as you may think but obviously still a car nonetheless. But you said something interesting. We're always rushing whenever we do it. I definitely need more time. I think if I turn it into a game it will work just fine. I'm just trying to think of how to go about bring this u…
/r/askTRP15/03/16 10:42 AM
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She's my age.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 10:39 AM
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I finger her and I can get 2 fingers in. She's plenty turned on because usually she tells me she wants me. Thanks for the viagra bit. Only thing is that it is prescription. There's no other option that isn't right? I would probably find a dealer or something considering I'm 17
/r/askTRP14/03/16 03:08 AM
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My apologies. That came off as pretentious. I told you that info because I don't believe it's my tester testosterone levels and also to explain why I'm getting into an LTR as a 17 year old. I shouldn't have bothered explaining. I'm legitimately considering a quick viagra pill. How stupid is that consideration?
/r/askTRP14/03/16 12:35 AM
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Yeah I just turned 18 and 5'11 now pushing 165 ish. Reason why I said small LTR. I don't plan on this lasting that long past this summer. She's my prom date.
/r/askTRP13/03/16 11:07 PM
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Swim season just ended. I can swim 2000 yards without stopping. That's not my problem. It's just my confidence during a problematic situation
/r/askTRP13/03/16 11:01 PM
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I lift Monday through Friday and have gained about 17 pounds bulking the past 3 months. I'm doing this. It's my frame as you said I believe.
/r/askTRP13/03/16 11:00 PM
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I've stopped for this reason. It helps but not by much.
/r/askTRP13/03/16 06:31 PM
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I've been following 5x5 and I'm 5'11 and 150 lbs rn. Unfortunately swim season cut me down a few pounds when I wanted to be bulking. My body fat is ~13%. When should I look to cut? Should I bulk for months? I'm lanky but quite lean enough you can see muscle.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/16 02:25 PM
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House is not free. Too cold to hike. Her and I are an hour away and we're meeting at a halfway point. I'm trying to brainstorm
/r/askTRP30/01/16 03:01 AM
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You did a good job. Once you build more rapport and have more sexual tension you should start flat out talking about sexual things. A girl recently I've been texting started with us and I talking about a sleepover that won't have a lot of sleeping. And now it's led to her straight up describing things she wants to do. As in person, you can escalate in text game. Don't, however, give away all the fun too. However many don't agree with using text for game. Depends how comfortable you feel with it …
/r/askTRP30/01/16 02:35 AM
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I should have been clearer. You show some beta traits, like being love and warming, periodically and take it away when necessary.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 03:23 AM
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Yeah his response was very beta. In an LTR, you're supposed to act beta, but in the right way. This was not the right way. AWALT for sure, but it's clear this woman is not marrying material. Mistakes were obviously made beforehand, probably many
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 07:23 PM
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Again, you don't just fucking trick yourself into finding something interesting. There are literally thousands of things you can be interested in. Go find one you like. How old are you?
/r/askTRP24/12/15 11:40 PM
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This. A good looking guy has plenty of options. At least that's what she's thinking anyways.
/r/askTRP24/12/15 11:36 PM
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How to be pretend to be interesting/have interests? It starts by having interests. Better yourself before you plan your life that far ahead.
/r/askTRP24/12/15 11:31 PM
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Go read it. Come back, and ask again. When you're more knowledgeable about TRP, it'll be a much better discussion. Until then, this "debate" feels almost meaningless.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 09:29 PM
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Alright. So we got two posts contradicting each other. People seem to run on the idea that one of these posts is the right one and the other is the wrong one. When advice is given to you, there's no need to take all the information and feel like you must apply it to your life. My point being: There's a middle ground between chasing money and chasing women. Putting a reasonable amount of effort into both is the way to go. Its up to you to decide how much is reasonable. But then again this comment…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 02:29 PM
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Wow, that's such a simple change in mindset, and yet it seems like it could drastically change they way I feel about shit tests. I'll be sure to try this.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 01:49 PM
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Good post, we need more shit for the younger generation. We're all new and still learning. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 11:29 AM
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OP let's take a moment here to think about something. My childhood was pretty difficult with my family. Your childhood was pretty difficult with yours. You pushed through it, and look where you are. The more difficult of a life you have, the more rewarding it is to push through and be successful. Having less when you're younger gives you appreciation for having more when you're older. I realized this in my life, and I'm curious if you feel the same. You're doing great, and you'll grow up to be s…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 04:22 AM
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"You mean today?" I can't wait for the day I can handle shit tests this easily. Seems like you handled it very well. If she does hit you up again to hang out, which seems likely, what will be your response?
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 04:16 AM
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If you were Redpill before this, you wouldn't feel the need to tell anyone, you don't have to.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 12:54 AM
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Thanks, but it wasn't very serious. I talked about it in my thanks post a few days ago. It's gotta start somewhere
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 12:30 AM
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I don't know of books for frame. But just reading stories here and figuring out how people held frame in then and how they broke it helps. There are also good posts here and on rseduction
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 10:35 PM
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/u/TRPThrowRug2 named excellent books having to do with women. However being able to handle people in general is a very important skill. Therefore I must recommended "How to Win Friends and Influence People". It's a great foundation. As for reading anything else, I personally find frame one of the most important things you can learn about. Us being young, it's easy to see examples of what not to do. You probably have friends who Crack under pressure easily. Learning how to control that is an imm…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 09:34 PM
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This is probably extremely relevant to a lot of new members, because most join due to the end of a nasty relationship. I know, personally, that I joined the red pill to somehow make my ex want me again. It took a while for me to realize swallowing the pill means realizing just how humiliating it is for that to be my main source of motivation. Once you travel down the path of TRP long enough, you'll have no want to go back to any ex. Hopefully at least Great read, cheers.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 08:56 PM
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Even then you're treading on thin ice IMO.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 08:52 PM
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Facebook is cancer. Had a friend of my mom's yesterday boast on facebook that a little kid tried to steal something out of his front pocket, so he bent the kid's fingers back and he left crying. Is that really something to share on Facebook? Dude is happy he hurt a little kid. Lesson? Everything on facebook is garbage. There's plenty of white Knights on there, it's irritating.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 02:30 PM
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It was a great turn out. Didn't expect it!
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 10:54 PM
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Tinder is really subjective, I've come to realize. I'm young, and the girl I saw over the weekend is my age and we met on tinder. It's a lot harder to get young naïve girls to come and meet me off of tinder, they assume that its dangerous and are really nervous about the whole ordeal. That being said I hope as I get older I hope to learn to handle it better. Doesn't sound you did that bad of a job. I mean sure, you didn't fuck, but the opportunity is still there. Did you enjoy yourself? If the a…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 09:57 PM
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I'm a swimmer, and I enjoy soccer so I'm going to join club soccer. I hope it helps me find a good crowd in college.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 08:52 PM
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I am not bad at math. Just I am not the biggest fan of pure math. Economics has a lot of critical thinking behind it, which is why I chose that route over straight forward engineering.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 04:59 PM
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It's $21,000 a year they're giving me. Tuition is $22,500. Therefore I'm only paying $1,500
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 11:18 AM
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NJ, not really up to date with the laws regarding it.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 06:02 AM
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Reality hits hard I guess. I don't think I am in the position to give out advice, but change something. Even if it's tiny, just change something for the better in your life.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 05:51 AM
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I feel like our minds think a like, because this was my plan. Do everything I can but don't over do things. Really enjoy college because I was told that high school would fly by and I didn't believe that. I'm now going to college and I'm aware with how true that is.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 05:50 AM
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The scary part about this is that when you do it, she'll respond with kind words saying it's fine. It will truly feel fine. But you'll realize where your mistake was when she doesn't want to fuck. At that point it's too late.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 05:33 AM
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Check the sidebar, it's there. I can't link because of the subreddit rules
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 11:38 PM
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I am more of a critical thinker than a scientist. I would not do well in the medical field, however I appreciate the advice.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 11:37 PM
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The funny part is that I considered going Poli Sci into Law. I realized how useless I would find Poli Sci to be, and saw economics to be a much better option. I also met with an economics professor and had a conversation with him. I enjoyed the way he approached problems and how economics had a whole deal of critical thinking behind it. It drew my interest, because I always enjoyed philosophy and I feel like the two subjects have a great deal in common.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 11:32 PM
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Frats Sadly, school I'm going to is a Catholic University. Fraternities don't exist there :( but I'll find something damn close haha. I will definitely send an update in the future! Thanks for the kind words
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 11:25 PM
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Ah, I always assumed each girl has the same risks of false rape charges. Looking at it this way, the environment definitely changes their mindset. If the situation comes, because I get the feeling it will, how can I safeguard myself from false rape charges?
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 11:22 PM
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Thanks for the advice. It helps a lot when making my decision ultimately. business, management, or accounting minor Are they any pros and cons to either? Or they fill the same criteria?
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 11:19 PM
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Once they get it and feel content and happy I've reached this for such a small achievement when I hit 144lbs, I got sick for a week but thought wow look at this progress. I stopped for about two weeks but felt slobby. Went back and kept going and now I realized how much of a speed bump this could be. I never thought of it this way though, and I'm happy you explained it. Just keep climbing. Thanks man.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 11:15 PM
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I appreciate this. The most important decision I have to make is my major and I am hoping looking at it from different perspectives will help me make the decision that's right for me. Thank you
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 11:11 PM
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To be honest it is very subjective and context is very important. I don't feel like I can just give you advice to make everything better. I feel like I should tell you to realize what's wrong with your life, what do you hate? Are you small? Are you big? What do you like? Do you have a good time with your friends? Figure that part out and get it straight. From there you can discover what you need to change. For me I needed more social interaction and needed to get I'm the gym badly. I got a job a…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 11:07 PM
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He left when I was 8. He beat my mother and cheated on her on the daily. I have 5 half brothers I don't even know. He's shown up drunk many times by my house and was just released from prison for selling cocaine. I had the feeling that this was actually gonna come up because I used the word deadbeat, funny enough. However I promise you my mother has been nothing but good to me and my view on my father is purely from me. I'm very content with the current situation and happy with how it is now. I …
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 09:28 PM
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There was a trainer named James at the gym I went to. He found out I had no money to afford one and taught me proper form. So I guess I had one and I'm happy I did. Thanks and will do!
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 09:23 PM
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Thanks man I appreciate it!
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 06:25 PM
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But more importantly, will you write that post? Haha I am very interested, you write very well.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 06:23 PM
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That makes an incredible amount of sense. So it's a risk vs reward kind of deal. I'll weigh the pros and cons as I go on in college then. I could always decide not to do it, and if I don't then I have plenty of options with Economics. Thanks for the advice. The Little read you just gave me was really interesting. You should definitely make a post on it, I would love to read it! Thanks again
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 06:00 PM
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What do you think about the Economics degree? I'm currently asking around for advice on that end of the spectrum, but I've never asked a red piller, so nows a great time. Do you think I have better options? I'm a person who enjoys critically thinking.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 05:57 PM
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Thanks haha! date outside college Why is that? I was excited to have my own dorm and place, making it much easier. At the very least I would date outside of people in my classes, instead of completely out of college, is this a bad idea as well?
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 05:48 PM
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Thanks man! I'm currently in the process of rethinking that. My initial plan was Economics into Law School. But with the amount of people coming out of Law School and not finding jobs is incredibly high. I think I can do a lot with an Economics degree, considering I enjoy to critical think and Math isn't my worst subject. The Law part I will decide after spending some time thinking about it. Edit: Actually, I would heavily appreciate any criticism on my decision. I need help on that part.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 05:44 PM
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Ah. I'm a newbie. And there's lots of me. Heh
/r/askTRP08/09/15 02:37 AM
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I'll give it a look. Could you expand on how me not going down her worked? It very clearly got her motivated for a moment but I didn't know that's what started it.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 01:39 AM
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What is that? I'm out of the loop
/r/askTRP08/09/15 01:36 AM
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One time summer job
/r/askTRP22/08/15 12:05 AM
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I lost a hot girl at my job because of it. My age dropped me down the ladder a ton. Especially since I was one of the youngest people there. You live and you learn I guess. Thanks for the input.
/r/askTRP21/08/15 07:23 PM
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Just to prevent one itis was why.
/r/askTRP01/08/15 11:40 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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