| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 67 | No HVM where I live? | DISCUSSION | mru597 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 10:08 AM |
| 52 | How do you deal with your LVM ex treating his new girlfriend much better than you? | SEEKING ADVICE | mru597 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 02:49 PM |
| 19 | How do I get men to approach me? | SEEKING ADVICE | mru597 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 05:42 PM |
| 13 | Getting over my ex and my pickmeisha past | mru597 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/19 07:31 PM | |
| 1 | Things I think most people here get wrong: | DISCUSSION | mru597 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 10:44 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 72 | A message to male lurkers: So what exactly is it about FDS that triggers you?Yes, but sorry for me just that isn't enough. I know this will sound conceited but I am considered well above average, and yet I have the most unattractive men (with the most unattractive personalities too) being so surprised when I reject them. They feel entitled to a hot woman and act like we shouldn't be attracted to hot men. No sir, I too am a visual creature. And if I can be with an attractive, kind man, why would I settle for less? It's just logic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/21 10:26 PM |
| 39 | Help! My climbing partner accused me of “inappropriately touching her boyfriend” and I’m worried she is not a pick-me, but a victim of emotional abuse. What do I do?Don't ever be alone with him. I think he is attracted to you and is projecting that attraction on you. He could be really dangerous. Also, none of them are high value. She is a 30somethign woman Who is believing a bottom of the barrel man she just met over a longtime friend without proof. She probably resents you. For your own safety, stay away from these people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 01:45 AM |
| 8 | You should have a “hoe phase!”If he is jealous and insecure about your past (something you literally can't change) he is not a HVM. If his views about that matter are very different and he can't get past it, what a HVM should do is recognize that there is no compatibility and break things off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 09:29 PM |
| 63 | Who do you think is a High Value Woman TV female character?Most women who have a lot of casual sex do it in hopes of getting something else: love, validation, attention, etc. Samantha, however, did it because she simply loved having good sex with beautiful men, and she wasn't ashamed of that. She was smart, powerful and a very good friend. I know this isn't a popular opinion on this sub but there are people with whom you can have fun but may not want to date seriously. Personally I have had only a few casual sex experiences as I am very selective about … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 01:30 PM |
| 56 | You Don't Always Have to Hold Yourself to the Same Standards as MenEvery adult should know how to cook. And I think it is better not to date while dealing with a mental illness. Personally I like to hold myself to high standards aswell. It doesn't have to be exactly the same but still. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 06:17 AM |
| 46 | Female friendships and misogynistic propagandaAnd the men I know that have slept with their friend's exes or even girlfriends without ever telling the friend and then continuing the friendship like nothing happened... more than a few. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 09:01 PM |
| 9 | Pick-mes, please stop embarrassing yourselves. I hope she's learned her lesson after thisHonestly, I don't know what you think you did here, shaming a whole country of women and calling them pickmes. Spain might have been a religious country in the past, and it still is for people who are 80+, but I don't know anyone my age who considers themselves religious. Also, you might want to educate yourself on the massively attended protests that take place in Spain every 8 of march in favor of womens rights in the last few years. In Spain, right now, saying you are not a feminist is VERY l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 11:07 PM |
| 23 | What are you ladies opinion on this? Do men deserve a material gift? I think that Valentines day is for us Women and my presence is the present! I don't like the idea of going big... My Lv ex wanted us to be set on a (equal) spending limit for both of us. Never againExactly. A man who doesn't deserve a gift for Valentines Day doesn't deserve to be your boyfriend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 01:50 PM |
| 13 | Don't take the bait if a scrote from your past contacts you. They are only contacting you for nefarious and selfish reasons.What is it with men from the past contacting us latelly? It has happened to me a lot recently. I get it is that they are more desperate since the pandemic started but still. However, I have to say that I was pleased when a guy who broke my heart when I was 16 contacted me last week. Not because he contacted me, but because I realized that I didn't care about him at all, while at that age I cried a lot because of him. It was a cool realization. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 06:59 PM |
| 1 | 3 Quality Traits Most Important to You in A HVMloyal, intelligent, ambitious | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 01:29 PM |
| 2 | What’s your favourite FDS principle?this was so important for me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 10:11 AM |
| 16 | Do men really think that there is some female lawmaker out there who prohibited them from crying?lol my ex always cried crocodile tears whenever I brought up some of the shit he did to me. It is a lie, me cry all the time, and we are extra upset when we see them do it because of this false myth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 07:59 PM |
| 24 | Find out if a family member, friend, or acquaintance is a LVM/NVM by asking them what they got for their wife, partner, significant other, or ex when they gave birth to their child...Is the last one Elon Musk lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 10:17 PM |
| 24 | In the words of Amy Schumer “ I’m a 160 pounds and can catch a D whenever I want” Seriously though- it’s ok to have preferences but men can be so shallowthey consider a woman who wears a size higher than UK 8 (US 4) overweight. Does that seem normal to you? Moreover, I would only consider the third one attractive, the first and second are really average to me. And also, it's not only what they are saying (wich is bad) but also HOW they say it. They call "overweight" women lazy and sex-crazy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 06:34 PM |
| 18 | Men and farting/burping.I know women who like to fart and burp all the time with their men and I find it disgusting. And then if you say you don't like it they say you are not "really comfortable with your partner" or "not in a real relationship". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 09:08 PM |
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