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| 1 | Finally approached and would like advise on how I could improve myselfJust keep going man, it's the numbers game. | /r/seduction | 17/05/19 11:12 AM |
| 1 | Finally approached and would like advise on how I could improve myselfThere's many possibilities, maybe she talked to her girlfriends about it and they got her to change her mind? | /r/seduction | 17/05/19 10:42 AM |
| 6 | Finally approached and would like advise on how I could improve myselfOk, I don't think you did anything wrong there and she just wasn't interested, unfortunately. Kudos to you for approaching though, everyone starts from somewhere. | /r/seduction | 17/05/19 10:15 AM |
| 1 | How do I become an attractive person without having good physical characteristics?Physical matters to a small extent, I'm not saying that people shouldn't have a good diet and exercise but I'm saying that physical features isn't as big as people make it out to be. It's really more about confidence, I didn't believe it till I saw it happen. I can swear there's guys who's like a 5/6 pickup women more successfully than a 8/9 because they are so confident in themselves. | /r/seduction | 12/05/19 04:19 PM |
| 1 | I made a horribly awkward approach to a stranger. I think everything was bad about it and I am pretty sure I creeped her out hard.I think you might have come off just lil too strong there. Don't sweat it though, it happens to the best of us and thinking about it will change nothing. Remember, we don't lose, we either win or learn from it. | /r/seduction | 12/05/19 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Could I of done anything elseYou answered your own question there but the truth can tend to hurt so we deny it. She's not ready for a relationship and what you bring to the table, I suggest that you don't lose contact with her as things can develop overtime. | /r/seduction | 12/05/19 04:13 PM |
| 1 | How many relationships/swings have you guys been in?Don't compare yourself to others because variables for each person varies. Compare yourself to the old you instead, results should motivate you to do more. | /r/seduction | 12/05/19 04:11 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Yeah, I learned this the hard way. I thought my "kind of just want to stay home and watch movies" mood would change once I was in the club but as much as I tried to change that, I didn't. My night that time wasn't pleasant at all. | /r/seduction | 12/05/19 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Closing after a night outI'm pretty new to this nightlife scene so take this with a grain of salt, but I always ask if she wants to get a drink and then proceed to make an excuse to talk to her outside the venue, pretend like I actually want to get to know her more and then just ask if she wants to get out of the venue completely. | /r/seduction | 12/05/19 04:08 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I feel like it's more mood than action though. If I go out and I'm in a bad mood then that leads to 0 actions being taken, if I went out in a good mood then I would most likely approach more and such. | /r/seduction | 12/05/19 04:04 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Strength, I go out alone all the time and the mindset I have is that if I go out alone and I'm enjoying myself then that means I could care less about what people think. When someone reaches that level of no fucks given, that's a dangerous person right there. I still do get anxious from time to time but I just hype myself up before I go out. | /r/seduction | 12/05/19 04:03 PM |
| 6 | Pick up begins even before you leave your room for the night outHappened to me last night too, I cannot emphasize how much mindset matters. Before I left I didn't have the right mind set like I usually do and I did not approach or anything of sort, only when I was in bed then I realized how many chances I missed at that bar. | /r/seduction | 12/05/19 03:59 PM |
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