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| 1 | “You’ll have plenty of time for girls later” NO YOU DO NOTScary. Guess it's true that the good ones go? | /r/seduction | 03/07/26 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Gym baddies…how toHonestly, not rocket science. If she is checking you out, you can literally say "Hi." Go over and introduce yourself, etc. I have asked for a spot, asked to work in on a machine, and straight up walked up and introduced myself at the gym before. Asking for a spot landed me a date after we had some conversation. Personally, I found it a lot easier to "approach" women at the gym when I was at a smaller gym without much of an audience. But I'm only striking up a conversation with women who notice m… | /r/seduction | 03/07/26 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Dating, hooking up is significantly harder for me in my 30s than my 20sLet's face it. Apps are a crutch. Are you actually seducing anyone on dating apps? No. Girls (especially the younger generation, I'd imagine) are longing for someone to sweep them off their fight. Especially if you're an older man, then I'd imagine they would appreciate the feel of a non-digital experience. Keep that in mind when you see a younger woman who looks lonely in person giving you indicators of interest (eye contact, proximity, etc.). It's not rocket science. Look for invitations and g… | /r/seduction | 14/06/26 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Dating, hooking up is significantly harder for me in my 30s than my 20sI should try that. University Spanish classes or elsewhere? | /r/seduction | 14/06/26 02:06 PM |
| 1 | To The Guys Who Don’t Kiss Or Flirt On Dates….Let's clear something up. If a girl is on a date with you and it's going well, and she isolates with you, then you can try to give her a kiss. Doesn't mean you need to slobber all over her and go crazy. A lot of guys are dating girls who are using dating apps these days. These are girls looking for "Long-term relationships" and/or "Life partners." The guys dating them aren't necessarily. These are the girls who are dating multiple guys, trying on suitors like shoes. They are the ones who will sh… | /r/seduction | 24/10/25 11:38 AM |
| 31 | I feel so hopeless and jealous of all the hot wild sex and relationships happening the worldAre you in shape? Are you working toward being in shape? Gotta get after it. | /r/seduction | 02/01/25 09:42 PM |
| 1 | The Real Reason You Shouldn't use Dating Apps: The Region Beta ParadoxFunny. I remember seeing one of your posts a couple years ago and relating to it. I think it was on the seduction forum and I got blocked for agreeing with your points haha. Gay. Anyway, I saw the title here and was thinking, "well, hold on a minute, I am getting laid off the apps." But then immediately saw that we have a similar situation. Yeah, I'm not smashing dimes from the dating apps. It's pretty much just as you described. Women who are good enough. None that I would really feel the need … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/24 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Any recent changes on Tinder for men?Banged a cougar from Hinge the other night. We're talking afterward. She tells me she can't use Tinder because she gets too many people who like her profile. She paid to look at her likes and couldn't manage them. She had 12k likes after traveling a few places. Or so she says... Hinge, on the other hand, is more manageable, since she gets only around 50 likes per day. | /r/seduction | 14/11/24 02:44 AM |
| 1 | When did women gain so much leverage?The women you see who look like they have so much "leverage" on dating apps in particular are probably miserable. They want Prince Charming and we want some quick pussy. No one wins. The dating apps ensure that. For instance, I've never actually wanted to meet someone whom I would date seriously on a dating app. I remember when they came out and they were cringy and secretive. Almost shameful. Now that I'm in my early 30's and grinding pretty hard with a seemingly diminishing social circle, it s… | /r/seduction | 14/10/24 09:35 PM |
| 2 | Moving was the worst thing I have done that affected my game/sucess with womenMaybe girls in Chicago are less into the clean-cut southern city look and prefer guys in streetwear. Thinking in terms of music, I bet Austin girls really love country music, and I think girls in Chicago are more oriented toward hip hop. | /r/seduction | 11/10/24 02:47 PM |
| 2 | Why don't I get horny around other people?Arousal should come from mutual engagement. For instance, you should expect to be aroused when you're hugging/kissing a girl you find attractive. Or maybe even really tense eye contact and proximity. If you're getting aroused a lot by yourself at home, on your phone, on the computer, maybe you need to cut back on the masturbation. You're conditioning yourself. Ask yourself, is the juice worth the squeeze? Are you in control? | /r/seduction | 23/08/24 01:34 PM |
| 1 | I met her in the gym, to ended up being blocked. Your thoughts on why?Dude, what did you want to lock this hoe down? She sounds like a loser. Yeah, she's hot. Good, you fucked her. But she sounds like a piece of garbage. Any girl with no girlfriends is fucked in the head. She has no social proof. It means she's been ostracized. This stands out among the other red flags you highlighted. Go fuck ten other women and get on with your life. As mentioned elsewhere, this was a win... | /r/seduction | 20/07/24 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone approach at the gym?This guy gets it. I'm thinking about moving on from asking for number to IG. Honestly, I'd like to expand my network. And getting phone numbers is just so direct. What are your thoughts on the pros and cons of getting IG vs phone numbers? Why do you suggest IG? Do you find that the conversion from IG to dates is as solid as that with phone numbers? | /r/seduction | 29/06/24 07:10 PM |
| 8 | Does anyone approach at the gym?This. Don't think of it in terms of "approaching." Really it's a cringey concept. Just meet them. See where things go over time. | /r/seduction | 29/06/24 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Where Can Men Hit On Women?This is a good look. Dude below complaining about being friends with women doesn't like women and doesn't have anything to offer them. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/24 01:29 PM |
| 3 | Hooked up with this girl first time I met her, vibes were immaculate, now she doesn’t respondTrue. | /r/seduction | 29/05/24 12:22 AM |
| 4 | Hooked up with this girl first time I met her, vibes were immaculate, now she doesn’t respondAbundance mentality. Act like you have it. Every girl has abundance. Y'all fucked. And you're stressing? If anything, she's interested to see how obsessed you are. How needy you are. Like what more do you want from her? I was recently in a similar situation. Then I realized that I was slipping. And stopped reaching out. Now I just hit up that bitch like once a week to see if she wants to fuck. You're not the only dude blowing up her phone. Act like you know. Pull back. And "go fuck ten other gir… | /r/seduction | 29/05/24 12:21 AM |
| 5 | Asking Women Out Has to Make SenseI think it just comes down to finding girls who are attracted to you. Mark Manson talks about three tiers: not interested, neutral, and interested. You're screening to find out who's who. Declaring "romantic interest" sounds ridiculous. I can do that with eye contact, body language, and asking them out. Cold approach is a difficult tactic, because not all girls are looking to meet random men. (Most of them have options already.) The same girl who might be super attracted to me after getting to k… | /r/seduction | 24/02/24 03:27 PM |
| 1 | I’m 26 she’s 46….want to pursue her but I’m stumped.Doesn't get more obvious than talking about using condoms in the car alone together. I feel your pain. It's a shitty situation since you work together. Just ask her old ass to grab a drink. You'll have your answer. | /r/seduction | 24/02/24 03:16 PM |
| 2 | Did my first true cold approach and oofGood shit. Keep us posted. | /r/seduction | 01/02/24 03:14 PM |
| 3 | 9-10s are for recreational use onlysmall town 7 with a fat ass ... beautifully put (make it an 8 for me tho) | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/23 01:10 PM |
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