mryodaman Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	A girl just invited me for a beer but I am an alcoholic... Don't tell her, just say you don't drink. Building anything (even a one night stand) off of deception is bad. Not to say you can't redirect (suggesting another activity) but also if you go to the bar please for your sake keep true to your sobriety.	/r/seduction	22/06/16 01:34 AM
1	[FR] Reaching NY Resolution Goals, One Step at a Time (Long) You're scaring me with that last paragraph man. Hell, if you think about it some more it should probably scare you tol. Don't put her on a pedestal above you. She is just as human as you are, hopes, dreams, talents, and faults included. I'd advocate the gym: it'll help you gain confidence, plus you're an ex athlete, once you get back into it you'll remember how awesome the endorphins are. In addition don't focus super hard on her, this partially plays into the gym bit. Make sure you have your ow…	/r/seduction	27/01/16 04:29 PM
12	How to Take a Girl From Polite Chat to Super Horny in Less than 1 Hour Do it in person, spread it out. Honestly no one routine is gonna do it. Now we can make the rule 1 and 2 assumption joke about OP. Or a thousand other predicitons, but delivery is key, and being attractive let's you get away with more. IMO: what should be taken away: Disqualifying other men, mention the creeps and the weirdos, the ones without confidence and charm. Cold reading: The strong woman bit, no lie, I've hit on and fucked girls with terrible self esteem, its often painfully easy, and yo…	/r/seduction	28/10/15 07:11 PM
1	[FR] The Tenniswoman, The Cutie and The Easy Lay Hindsight	/r/seduction	27/10/15 06:14 PM
3	How do I ask out my first crush in high school? (x-post /r/Advice) You can't possibly prepare until things are 100%. There are certainties in life, there are things that you can make certain. But expecting to have 100% certainty of success going into asking this girl out is foolish. Barring her declaring her lifelong devotion to you, that's never going to happen. Sometimes you get told by a friend "Hey Betsy thinks you're cute" Sure that may be a "sure thing" but those instances are few and far between. The act of talking to her, going out with her, letting her…	/r/seduction	26/10/15 02:04 AM
2	[FR] The Tenniswoman, The Cutie and The Easy Lay In full 20/20? Standoffs are tough, he should've gone in. Commented on the atmosphere after chatting for a while, and then suggested a change. Just my .02	/r/seduction	25/10/15 11:10 PM
2	How do I ask out my first crush in high school? (x-post /r/Advice) See but you aren't getting it. "Out of your league" is you contriving a shitty excuse to justify failure or justify you not doing it. Get that mentality out of your head. Dating and talking to women is just like any other part of life, if you go in expecting failure, you're already two steps behind. Fashion: sure its personal choice. Also complete certainty is again you being a coward. Risk to reward friend, if everything came easy, no one would want it. goddamn kid reading your reply I can see …	/r/seduction	25/10/15 09:59 PM
4	How do I ask out my first crush in high school? (x-post /r/Advice) No lie kid, I read the first bit, noticed the length, and skipped down here to give you an opinion. Barring some serious shit I missed by not reading, I'm fairly certain this advice is gonna work. Firstly, if she's one in a million, there's almost 40 copies of her in California alone. I know you've got a crush, but this crush is killing you in more ways than one: You're putting her above you, don't do that, you're awesome. Everyone's awesome, people aren't intrinsically better than others. Viewi…	/r/seduction	25/10/15 05:08 PM
2	What to do with needy girls? Boyfriend? Perfect! If she won't leave you alone but you're out with her, just concert her into your wingman. No really. Do it. Note: will be considerably more difficult if she doesn't have a BF. Plus if she doesn't want to do it, then you know that she wants you, and well you said she wasn't attractive but make your own decisions from there.	/r/seduction	25/10/15 04:51 PM
4	[FR] The Tenniswoman, The Cutie and The Easy Lay Frame control. Old term but still relevant. The structure of the interaction, of you're leading, making decisions, and she's coming along, you're in control of the frame. And vice versa. Note: its easy to assume confidence and frame control are intertwined, and they are, to a degree. Ideally in pickup you want to be the leader this we all know. But frame control isn't all about being in control. On occasion letting her take partial control can be good, it shows you're caring about (at least some…	/r/seduction	25/10/15 04:48 PM
3	Asked out crush on a date, she said yes. How should I set up the actual date? How does o'clock on sound? (Yeah that works) Great! Lets meet at _____	/r/seduction	25/10/15 03:33 AM
1	Ever had a girl tell you she hates you in a playful voice after sex? IMO venting aloud about the situation, I'm thinking you're making the right assumption about investment levels. I've had a few girls 'joking' say I've ruined sex with other guys for them, outright I hate you? Never.	/r/seduction	25/10/15 03:32 AM
4	What can compete with college in terms of having a high concentration of attractive women? Youth Hostel? That's a special kind of skeevy	/r/seduction	27/08/15 10:35 PM
3	In Need of Advice ASAP [M 17] Aight all the non specific feel good shit is gonna help. But you want some sorta guide. I'm drunk so here's a quick one. FORD Friends Occupation Recreation Dreams Basic convo topics, now obviously don't just work through them like a job interview, listen to her responses, for keywords, things that you can relate a story about yourself to. You don't wanna just shit out question after question. Instead relate back, tell a funny or interesting story, sprinkle in questions on occasion. Escalation, h…	/r/seduction	29/07/15 06:59 AM
2	The Big Seddit Sex Playlist Channel Orange if you've got the nuts to ravish a woman while a suave black man serenades you	/r/seduction	17/04/15 05:30 PM
25	I spend 30 minutes a day reading this pdf on DBT (dialectical behavioral therapy). It's made me more confident, less of an asshole, and given me the ability to relate to women and see myself as an equal, and not as some chump. This reads like a pamphlet out of a mental ward.	/r/seduction	16/03/15 06:23 PM
3	[FR] Went to a friend's birthday party, actually put what I learned to the test, and came back with pretty great results. Keep it up man, not much to criticize here. Maybe learn more French hahaha.	/r/seduction	10/03/15 12:08 AM
2	Day Game 101: A New Way to Open So the "New Way" is to do the same direct approach, but look for IOI's first. Fucking awful article,	/r/seduction	03/03/15 04:19 PM
2	I think I look good on paper, but not in person. How can I change that? Sight I'm drunk on a toilet, but here's my 0.02, first if you look much like your first post you ever made, I hope your game is A+. Harsh but true, be confident, you say you have a good job, imagine you are in the workplace, exert the same confidence and expertise you have when talking to women, fake it till you make it had basis in fact. Try malefashion advice, you have money use it to dress well and keep up at the gym! With confidence and above average good looks you will get places with women…	/r/seduction	21/02/15 04:44 AM
0	Okay, weird situation, I need an opener. Also read the goddamn sidebar, no questions about specific girls/guys	/r/seduction	22/01/15 06:15 PM
2	Okay, weird situation, I need an opener. Call her for a date. Im no fan of texting unlesss its because I gave my number to a gal and she texts me	/r/seduction	22/01/15 06:15 PM
2	Small Talk vs. Big Questions: How to Build a Deep Connection With Anyone Literally the NYT article redone on your site for clickbait. No added content, disgusting	/r/seduction	17/01/15 02:56 AM
1	How To Approach This Girl? As an now uni student who was really good at gettin puss in high school. Its more social game than directness, gotta pass social comfort barriers. Girls gossip, high school girls gossip. No chicks gonna admit to accepting a straight up date with a dude after school unless his proof is higher than moonshine	/r/seduction	08/01/15 04:55 AM
1	Is it even worth it to try texting this girl again?(Xpost from r/askseddit) read the rules, no specific woman questions. its partially a numbers game just put yourself out there	/r/seduction	23/11/14 06:34 PM
1	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/25/13 /r/highseddit	/r/seduction	28/10/13 03:57 AM
2	High schooler here, do I even bother? Alright bud, you are coming off as your average stereotypical "Im too good for girls" cunt, and I need you to reframe yourself if you want any success now, and in the future. Oh so you know that you could pick them up eh? Which is why in your next paragraph you explain five failures, yet you cop it off to you not caring enough? Now if you are some sort of walking god I could understand, but since you have provided no back-up aside from your most-likely twisted perspective, I'm going to give you …	/r/seduction	15/10/13 01:38 PM
2	Can I recover from this? Timeline of events included. Dude, you're sweating the small shit. Messing up the number isn't a biggie and doesn't have any real consequence (unless I missed something big). In terms of what to do next, she mentioned having class tomorrow morning, so text her like you said teasing about missing out on the party b/c of studying (tell the hot girls they're smart, smart girls their hot bit) and arrange to meet up some other time?	/r/seduction	04/10/13 02:15 PM
1	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 7/12/13 (please upvote - zero karma) I've met a girl, got her number, and texted her to arrange an actual date. She agreed, but is giving me one word answers the entire way through. Should I just go for it, or flat out ask her if shes actually down for it?	/r/seduction	12/07/13 08:08 PM
9	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 12/3/2012 Really? thats odd, last time I checked the title of this post was "Seddit simple questions thread" seems like this might be the place to ask questions? no?	/r/seduction	04/12/12 04:37 AM
12	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 12/3/2012 This is the place where you either A) provide an answer B) link to a place that provides an answer NOT where you tell someone too go look it up	/r/seduction	04/12/12 04:19 AM