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Honestly? It's been my experience the guy on the "street". Or more accurately the guy in one of their social groups. Random guy on the street, yeah is gonna have some difficulty. I've dated quit a bit over this last year. All the woman I've dated have their phones blowing up with tinder guys much hotter than me. They like to show them to me as some sort of shit test or self validation or who knows why. They also love to talk shit about the tinder guys.
/r/seduction20/12/19 05:13 PM
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While that may be true, the very abundance and ease of access makes the majority of women treat all that attention as meaningless. A snack full of empty calories. They know all those dudes blowing them up are also blowing up 100 other women. They aren't actually special at all and they know it. They will 100% treat and value a guy that they met in person different than the ones online. In the end the best place to meet women is the same as its ever been, at social gatherings, meetups, and events…
/r/seduction20/12/19 05:56 AM
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Same. It's crazy how much you'll change yourself for someone you want to see happy. The thing is it doesn't actually make them happy. Just makes them pissed at you for changing. It's kind of nature's cruel joke.
/r/seduction16/12/19 08:46 PM
3

Been there. Can confirm.
/r/seduction16/12/19 08:45 PM
21

Keeping up on social media is part of the job. Grows her brand, followers, etc.. which all feeds into making her more money.
/r/seduction01/11/19 01:39 PM
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You didn't fuck up at all. You did exactly the right thing. She's being a twat. Ignore her more, she'll be humping your leg before too long. And if not, who needs her confusing ass anyway. It's good to have boundaries. Some meaningless sex is not nearly as important as being true to yourself.
/r/seduction25/09/19 11:57 AM
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6 years of marriage down the drain. 6 years she fought with me to open up to her and to lean on her...... I finally caved and did. Same story, sex dried up almost instantly and the rest of the relationship followed. 6 years was over in about 6 months. Funny thing is it created a loop. I felt a little depressed (not even all that bad relatively) and opened up about it to her expecting support. Instead she treated me worse and pulled away, which made me feel worse, which I would stupidly tell her,…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/19 11:13 AM
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Damn. Wtf for? Having multiple positive loving non-posessive relationships?
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/19 01:24 PM
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I had to look that up. And holy fuck, guilty as charged. 🤷‍♂️ It was kind of upsetting how closely accurate it was lmao. I wasn't always like this. But now that I am I really love it
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/19 11:57 PM
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Yeah I don't feel like this is what "most men crave" despite the narrative of "men only want sex". I'm recently poly and I quite prefer the deeper bonds I've formed with my 2 gfs. Not to mention the sex is miles better with them than the one night stands or even casual fuck buddies I've had. I'm looking to add a 3rd but that's about it. Just wouldn't have the time for more than that. I'd much rather spend more time with them and start to love them deeper, than spend time with a rotating harem of…
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/19 05:51 PM
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I would never use Freud as a good example since most of the shit he came up with has since been repeatedly proven to be bonkers.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/19 06:18 PM
2

Maybe you and hubby should just add some spice into your life. It's not for everyone but maybe read "darling discovered"
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/19 01:57 PM
0

Damn never thought of it this way. Great perspective.
/r/seduction30/08/19 04:25 PM
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Eh I didn't take it like that at all, but I guess it all depends on where your starting line is.
/r/seduction30/08/19 03:39 AM
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You need to be going for the fuck on the first date.
/r/seduction29/08/19 09:44 PM
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Mmm I dunno. Everything is a balance. Push-pull. You have to give some validation and investment eventually. If you're just fucking ice cold all the time you're going to lose a lot of women in the medium to long run when they give up. The problem is most men give way too much validation and usually right off the bat completely for free. Women want to have to earn that shit. When they work for it, it actually feels rewarding and attractive. When it's just piled freely at their feet it doesn't mea…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/19 04:47 AM
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In my experience, girls rarely chase on the first meeting unless they are significantly lower SMV. They may have a chasing action here and there, (like coming back to be near you), but you are the man and are expected to be the primary pursuer even if the girl is extremely into you. You don't get actively chased until a few dates in when they have a vested interest in you.
/r/seduction24/08/19 03:20 PM
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Try 2 relationships at once? Yeah I already am. It's honestly just twice the insecurity lol. It's somewhat comforting to know I have a "backup". But yeah I'm definitely lack my sauve confidence I gain from being single.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 05:29 PM
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Try to strike up conversation with her every day. After a few interactions ask her if she'd like to grab a coffee some time. It really is that simple.
/r/seduction22/08/19 02:56 AM
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I feel you on this. It's only really happened to me one time. Pulled a random stunner off Tinder who just wanted to fuck. We met at a bar, had one drink to make sure she was real, then went to my place. I had huge problems bc I couldn't see her as human. Just this perfect goddess. Normally I have no problems if I can get to know them a bit and see that they're just normal awkward girls like all the rest. But, yeah going straight into sex I just had no sexual desire for her even though her body w…
/r/seduction21/08/19 05:51 PM
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It's not just women that do this. I had a pretty huge revelation and vastly improved social experiences and just more general happiness when I started to let go of trying to be logical all the time and instead focus solely on how things feel and working to make them feel the way I want them to. You can be the most unfeeling logic "robot" on the planet, but you're still human, and odds are you're still making like half your decisions based on emotion despite how logical you think you're being.
/r/seduction20/08/19 09:45 PM
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Yeah the ego boost for sure. I mean she has other aspects of her personality that I like or I wouldn't be seeing her. I'm also dating two other girls that are more attractive, one significantly so. It's been an internal struggle to keep up my frame and confidence with the really hot one, who also happens to be a dancer and so has plenty of male attention. After I started dating this girl though my confidence has soared and I feel like the other two have picked up on it as well. I get more texts,…
/r/seduction13/08/19 05:49 PM
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Yeah if its just yall on an otherwise empty train, that's a clear signal. Just look up and smile. If they smile back just introduce yourself and make small talk.
/r/seduction13/08/19 12:17 PM
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This guy has a legit mental disorder, or maybe some kind of weird fetish. He constantly does this.
/r/seduction13/08/19 01:06 AM
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Ofc I would. Most of them are probably killers..which is fucked up.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/19 05:49 PM
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Oh yeah in that case, it's just a product of their environment. The alphas of that area are deadbeats. And they don't know anything outside of their tiny world. It's the same with tiny towns. The alphas are redneck cowboys who sit around talking about their high school days. A well put together "city boy" doesn't do well there. Etc.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/19 04:17 PM
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Lots of people talk about doing it on here if you just lurk in the comments. But I always feel weird/bad about interrupting someone's workout. Even as a guy, I mean if the girl was attractive I'd be happy if she interrupted my workout, but if I didn't like her I'd just be annoyed. Maybe if you can get an IOI and be sure it's wanted. Like some eye contact and a smile out of her. But I've yet to have that happen in the gym.
/r/seduction10/08/19 02:37 PM
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Oof been there. I'm pretty witty. I make a lot of Double entendres and most people find me pretty funny. But if you have severely limited vocabulary/intelligence then they just fall flat. I usually skip these girls. Even for sex. The limited intelligence is just such a turn off.
/r/seduction10/08/19 01:35 PM
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Ya basic son. Aka boring. It's not about being a fuckup. It's that you are so "perfect" that you're just boring. They don't think you can cut loose. (you're obviously not actually basic, you got your shit together more than 90+% of men. but you're plastic wrapped, too perfect like a Ken doll)
/r/TheRedPill10/08/19 01:06 PM
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Eh I don't know how true that is anymore. Plenty of women see him as a crazy and short loser these days.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/19 06:13 AM
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Yeah that's true I guess. It just puzzles me how we can fuck and then she can leave volunteering that she wants to meet again. I never ask or bring it up in person as I don't usually like to ask until the day after or later. But they seem genuinely into me when they leave.
/r/seduction10/08/19 04:47 AM
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Yeah I did that with one. Had it all set up. By the next weekend ghosted. But your line is better than what I use. I usually ask them to meet on a specific date usually Wed. Then if they cant I ask again for the following weekend which I guess can come off as needy? or like I have nothing else to do.
/r/seduction10/08/19 04:14 AM
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Don't let this guy project his issues onto you. At anything in life that you want to get better at you track. Fitness, better be tracking, your weight, your reps, your times. Eating well, gotta track those macros, school > grades, job > money, etc etc. But for increasing social skills you shouldn't track at all and just hope it's getting better? That's dumb. I think what you did here is really impressive. It also made me realize just how little effort I've put into this. I have a much higher suc…
/r/seduction06/08/19 06:43 AM
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Finding this not to be true. I've got 3 right now. But only 1 I really have feels for. It's fucking struggle to hold myself back from her. Not over-text, over-invest in her. Keep her chasing me. Meanwhile the other 2 fawn over me. Honestly I felt less needy when I had none. Now that attachment is kicking in for the one I go to bed at night missing her and feeling lonely. Didn't really feel that way before.
/r/seduction01/08/19 02:45 PM
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Wow this is a great analogy. You see the same thing with out of shape people blaming it on their genetics and metabolism. For every possible skill set there's always going to be people who want to blame "fate" because it's easier. With dating it's just an abnormally high amount of people for some reason.
/r/seduction27/07/19 06:54 PM
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Excellent post. What's great is it show's how "looks" can make it easier but they can be worked around as long as you handle yourself correctly. IE if you where tall you wouldn't have gotten shit tested on your height, but it was easy enough to just blow off and move past because your frame was in the right place.
/r/seduction25/07/19 12:46 PM
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Don't use "cute". Use "attractive". (I've found women to almost be confused by "cute") And honestly it's the best way to do it because it immediately shows your intention. Yeah its an uphill battle. The whole thing is always going to be an uphill battle. You're approaching a stranger when they're not ready for it. It's only creepy if you make it creepy. Pull her into your frame. After that just ask them what they're getting up to today and then build off that.
/r/seduction24/07/19 07:46 PM
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It's not creepy if you go in making your intentions clear from the get go. Not doing that is the the creepy part.
/r/seduction24/07/19 07:15 PM
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Both (Although it's hardly "be yourself" and more like change who you are or choose to suffer, your choice). It's also the most concrete book on female dating/relationship psychology I've ever read. It's not complex or obtuse. Just plainly spoken and accurate. And then the last part of the book is basically step by step guides and exercises to fix whatever part of "game" you're suffering at. IMO this book should be like the Holy Bible of seduction. It's simple, to the point, and cuts out all the…
/r/seduction22/07/19 12:31 AM
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Read Models by Mark Manson
/r/seduction21/07/19 11:38 PM
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Probably upvoted because its not full of bullshit. It's just your actual truth of what happened to you.
/r/seduction19/07/19 09:11 PM
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Don't worry about being creepy. The only difference between creepy and sexy is whether the girl wants the attention or not. And the only way to find that out is do it.
/r/seduction19/07/19 08:30 PM
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Wait till she's no longer an employee. Then do it for christ's sake! Lol
/r/seduction19/07/19 04:39 PM
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I would also like to hit that.. The only reason to put up with that bullshit honestly. Then she'll later cry about how she can never meat a nice man.
/r/seduction17/07/19 07:42 PM
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6'3" here. Can confirm. The fact that I can pick you up and toss you around so easily is a real turn on.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/19 12:55 AM
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Instead of a date just invite her to hang out at your place and then make a move on her. To me it sounds almost like you went backwards. She already wanted you, had showed it heavily, and instead you drug her back to square one. Dating at a wholesome place like two people who don't even know each other. It was probably jarring and annoying for her. A turn off that showed your lack of confidence. I've never seen anything flip a woman's "switch" from liking to not liking me faster than not being s…
/r/seduction15/07/19 04:41 PM
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Confidence and indifference. Male initial attraction: Primarily physical based. Is she hot? Cut and dry. So simple it's dumb. Female initial attraction: Primarily ego based. Way more complicated bc everyone's ego is vastly different and supported by different things. Women want trophies or what the community calls high social value men bc it strokes their own ego. I landed this great guy, I must also be awesome to have snagged him. There's a whole pile of things that can factor into social value…
/r/seduction14/07/19 08:40 AM
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Mouth herpes is extremely common. If you've ever had a "cold sore" in your life you already had it and you didn't pick it up from these girls. Most people contract it when they're kids.
/r/seduction14/07/19 07:10 AM
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1s and 0s system Every girl is either a 1 you would have sex with her or a 0 you wouldn't have sex with her. There are no leagues.
/r/seduction14/07/19 07:06 AM
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She's honest. A rare trait. Make a friend of her. Maybe you can date some of her friends.
/r/seduction12/07/19 06:13 PM
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So many people have this stupid view and I don't know why. You're not a special snowflake..you can get in shape just like everyone else. Follow a lifting plan. Lift heavy. Quality not quantity counts here. Track your lifts to ensure you're adding weight every week. Then follow a meal plan. Track your macros to ensure you're eating the correct amount for whatever you're trying to do.
/r/seduction12/07/19 07:02 AM
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50-60% of your physical attractiveness. Which is only one factor among several that makes a man attractive.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/19 09:22 PM
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Read Models by Mark Manson and No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert A. Glover
/r/seduction01/07/19 04:54 AM
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Just tell her you want to take her back to your place to cook for her. Women fucking love being cooked for. When you get to your place just start making out right inside the door and pull her to the bedroom. You can cook her some shit afterwards or in the morning if you want to, or just not at all.
/r/seduction30/06/19 02:28 AM
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Congrats you stood up and proved you're an asshole. Not only are you being inconsiderate of your fellow human beings you're apparently breaking the gym's own rules. Yeah she should not have behaved the way she did. But you don't come off much better I'm afraid. Just two jerks. Hard to root for ya bud. Oh, and you sound like you have a massive chip. You sound like the guy who says "I'm not racist but.... racist slurs"
/r/TheRedPill20/06/19 03:56 AM
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Everything is in our mind though.... Lol That's kind of the point of the mind. The world as we know it only exists in our mind.
/r/seduction17/06/19 04:06 AM
1

You just sound like a desperate liar. No woman would believe you because no guy who had that would actually say it. You want her to feel like you don't need her? Say nothing at all to her. Silence speaks volumes. If she likes you enough she'll text and chase you. If she doesn't, move on.
/r/seduction15/06/19 02:51 AM
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I'd say depends on the woman. I'm not saying it doesn't happen. And I'm not saying OLD and online personas in general haven't made it far worse than it once was. I'm just saying I don't think the 80/20 statistic we see from OLD is the same as what we would see if we could somehow measure who's actually dating who in real life. I would wager its more like a 60/40 balance. And I'd also wager it was originally pretty close to 50/50 but OLD spilling over into IRL has skewed it. Now there is no real …
/r/TheRedPill12/06/19 09:03 PM
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If that's the only thing you can come up with then you are already seeing the world through colored glasses. There's a million unknown factors when dealing with a stranger's decision making that you can't possibly know about. Automatically assuming it must have been looks is ridiculous under any circumstance. What you thought was "perfect game" could have been completely awful for her because of any number of things you don't know about her.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/19 08:47 PM
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I think you're way over exaggerating how much looks play a part offline. I'm not going to deny they grant a free advantage. But they are hardly to the extreme extent of the examples you provided. I think most men over estimate how important looks are to women, because well looks are so important to most men. Men often have the problem of projecting how they view the world onto women. (Which is the whole point of TRP, to realize that women think and prioritize differently than men. Vastly more so…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/19 08:25 PM
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"mentally smart" isn't just about survival though. I'm not talking about the provider type here that women settle down with in their 30s. When I say "mentally smart" I'm talking about the proper attitude that attracts women. Knowing and behaving like you are a rare prize that they have to earn, a confident leader, a jokester that makes her comfortable, etc. It's more like: She's attracted to Guy A.. physically attractive She's attracted to Guy B.. attitude attractive 9/10 given the two options (…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/19 08:07 PM
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The only other person here stating this and we're both getting down-voted. Ironic considering TRP is constantly talking about how looks only play a small part in a female's choice of mates. TRP: Women don't care about looks. Also TRP: Women won't date 80% of men because of their looks. Lol well which is it? Yeah OLD is fucked up and unfair because it reduces the selection process to the purely physical. That's all this study proves, which we all already knew. In the real world mate selection is …
/r/TheRedPill12/06/19 06:48 PM
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The problem with these studies, and I don't see much talk of it in here, is that it's solely based on physical attractiveness. If that was the only factor in attraction it would be a nightmare for the species. And that's why OLD is awful. It essentially creates a space where that is the case. As it's popularity has risen the dating space has turned into a nightmare, as what was once a multifaceted decision for women (and men to a lesser extent) has been whittled down into a single attribute: phy…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/19 06:22 PM
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"So this girl came over to my place and had sex with me. I'm not sure if she likes me?" That's you, that's what you sound like. Ask her out before she gives up hope and moves on, you dummy.
/r/seduction12/06/19 01:55 AM
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You'll have sex the next date. There's a ton of resistance to putting out on the first date that has nothing to do with you. Yeah it's possible to overcome with a lot of effort. But she is into you, it's going to go down if you get her to your place or hers.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/19 09:16 PM
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sounds good. good luck
/r/seduction07/06/19 09:08 PM
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what you already told her you couldn't go? then yeah at 7 i guess so.
/r/seduction07/06/19 08:28 PM
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Next time you see her in person. Just say something like "hey where you ok that night?" And then follow up with the telling her to set the next date.
/r/seduction07/06/19 08:21 PM
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Just fucking believe her when she says she's not feeling well. If you where just trying to hang with a good friend you would believe them right? And if she doesn't go out with you tonight, just yeah play it off until next time you see her even if its weeks from now. Then just ask her if she was ok that night, the same way you would be concerned for a friend, then tell her the next date is on her and she should let you know when and where. And then you're basically free not to worry yourself abou…
/r/seduction07/06/19 08:01 PM
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No worries. Yeah I mean seems like you're getting just a bit too worried about this one bc of the awesome "bonuses" that might be involved. So you're getting extra concerned, trying to play everything "just right". But that's just the attitude that will wreck your chances. Treat her like anyone else and I bet she'll come running to you in the end. Always be the prize.
/r/seduction07/06/19 07:37 PM
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I mean maybe could work, creates a sense of losing out for her, which can trigger her to go after you. But I don't like to play games or make up white lies. Makes me feel dirty. I just go at it not acting desperate (she's one of any number of women you could realistically be going out with tonight after all, or any other fun thing you could be doing alone or with some friends) and let her chase you or not. Also could backfire, she makes plans with someone else between now and 7 because she legit…
/r/seduction07/06/19 07:00 PM
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If she doesn't say anything by like 4:30 ask her how she's feeling and then let it sit until she says something back. If she never does wait until you see her at work. Then just be like "hey what happened?" She'll be like blah, blah, blah, then you just play it off and be like "well next date is on you. Let me know when and where" Then you're free to just ignore her and she can chase you down if she really wants it. Which is honestly the better position to be in. You can forget about her and foc…
/r/seduction07/06/19 06:39 PM
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As in wait until she responds at 4
/r/seduction07/06/19 06:35 PM
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No. I'd just let it sit.
/r/seduction07/06/19 05:07 PM
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Well as I said they could be the second type. Completely happy and in love, with no plans to ever leave their partner, but should he ever leave her, cheat on her, or even just die, she's setting up a "stable of men" so to speak to fall back on. She might have you know a handful of guys that she's flirted with and ask questions to vet them should something completely out of her control ever end her current relationship. It's the old "better to prepare and not need it, than to need it and not be p…
/r/seduction05/06/19 11:23 PM
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Plenty of women won't leave a relationship until/if they can be resonably certain of securing a better man. Others simply like to "set up" back up options should their current relationship ever fail. These aren't "cheater" types. But they are obviously out looking for and flirting with potential future mates.
/r/seduction05/06/19 10:17 PM
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No do not say "I guess not". That's pathetic. Go around assuming everyone is into you unless they directly state otherwise. Even if you don't feel that way, at least think logically about how you would act and respond if you assumed they wanted to get with you. You'll find dating exponentially easier. If she doesn't respond at all to your time question, well that's your answer. But until that point assume she's already said yes.
/r/seduction05/06/19 09:23 PM
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Nope assume she agreed unless she directly texts back to the contrary. If you already agreed to hang out and then someone asked you if you still wanted to hang out wouldn't that be weird and a bit desperate sounding? Just say "what time should I come get you tonight?"
/r/seduction05/06/19 09:16 PM
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I don't think so. As I said I stopped for 2 months just to see what would happen (nothing noticeable changed for me other than being super horny). It was easy to do. Didn't really bother me much. Food on the other hand, that's a daily struggle lol. Sugar is a hell of a drug. Even when I've been in great shape, which I'm currently not, I constantly craved garbage. Just to give an example that I know what that "addicted" feeling is like.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/19 02:05 AM
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It's not consistent. I guess I would say average once a day maybe less. If I get busy or have long days I won't do it. But then like some days, if I'm off with nothing to do up to like 4-5.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/19 10:31 PM
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So does social media and a million other things. There's tons of ways to get dopamine spikes. As for ED caused by porn, well yeah that would fall under "psychological". For some people gambling is an addiction, for others it has no effect on them at all. In the same way, for many people, porn probably has little to no affect on their life. For the ones it does affect, they should do what they can to fix it.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/19 09:48 PM
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Yeah, a lot of men seem to have this for some reason. I've never understood it. I've seen all these posts about skipping porn, which I've done nofap before for 2 months but noticed no difference for me other than just being hornier lol. And maybe having more energy, but I'm not sure if that was just placebo or even related to other things. So I'm pretty sure it's all psychological.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/19 02:35 PM
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Do you have a list of each challenge?
/r/seduction04/06/19 12:44 PM
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You want her bc she's playing games. You need to be direct and tell her to cut the shit and shape up. Blatantly and with complete "mean" honesty. If she does good. If not, ghost her ass.
/r/seduction29/05/19 10:20 PM
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Something about her has you hooked. Could be the eyes like you say. Could be attitude. Could even be smell. Pheromones are a big and completely unseen attractor.
/r/seduction26/05/19 08:58 PM
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It's first, in that its the first thing people see and judge about you. Then face, then clothes/tats/accessories. I'm talking order, not priority. The first thing people see when they look at you is your general silhouette.
/r/seduction26/05/19 07:47 PM
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It did in my experience. Not so much after actually talking to them. That's pretty much the same. Just the initial interaction becomes easier when you are fit. All people, men and women, are more ready and sometimes even eager to give you a moment of their time when you look good. Lets put it this way. If every interaction with someone starts at 0 and ramps up to 10 (where they are hooked on you), being fit is like starting the conversation with 1-5 free points (depending on the person) instead …
/r/seduction26/05/19 05:50 PM
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Isn't the only factor or even the main factor, but it is the "first factor" when you see someone, even for women. In my fit days I'd have girls open me all the time. That stopped happening after I put on weight.
/r/seduction26/05/19 05:11 PM
1

Just text her again and ask her on to a one-on-one encounter. Move her to at least one other location during the date, then to your or her place.
/r/seduction23/05/19 08:09 PM
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Tell her to back the f off. Also tell your gf, that her friend is no friend at all. Like how is this even a question? Most "moral" issues in life can be answered by simply asking yourself how would you want to be treated if you where in the other persons shoes. In this case, your gf's
/r/seduction21/05/19 06:17 PM
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Thanks random stranger! I've been out of the game for a long time. I had forgotten this simple rule that is so damn powerful. Take it a step further and just go ahead and assume every woman is into you until you get a definitive response otherwise. Confidence is super sexy, and it becomes so much easier to have when you just assume the attraction. You are the catch until proven otherwise.
/r/seduction16/05/19 01:29 PM
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Just go to her place lol. Or if that's not an option a cheap motel. If a girl likes you and wants to get it on she cares about as much as you do about the location.
/r/seduction15/05/19 04:32 AM
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You too man. I guess I was projecting. When I first started reading here, not but like 2 weeks ago, I was really angry about it all, having my Disney blue pill fantasy shattered. And there are plenty of commenters and even articles that are also angry. So trying not to fall into that trap myself. Life in general is pretty shitty and unfair for most people if you think about the setup. But like you can sit around being angry or depressed about it. Or you can accept reality and work to improve you…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/19 10:48 PM
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The only thing I would say is don't fall into the trap of hating women. A lot of the rhetoric on TRP is spot on. But much of it has subtle or blatant woman hatred behind it. I've been watching rsd Tyler on youtube and I love it because he's basically spitting all the same info, but from a place of love. Yeah AWALT, but that doesn't have to be a bad thing. That's just reality. Women are different than men and that's ok. It's painful because we often wish they where like us, but its ok that they a…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/19 08:10 PM
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Not only will they not "step in", it's worse than that. People in your life who claim they have your back will fucking abandon you when shit goes down hill for you. Let me tell you the story that got me to TRP. Wife convinces me to quit my job and follow my dream of becoming an indie game dev. I want to save up a lot of money before hand so I have a nice 1-2 year savings cushion. She pushes me hard to just do it now, "life's short, I hate my job, I need to learn to trust and to lean on someone",…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/19 04:48 PM
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They probably don't think you are good bf material. You're too vain, or too stupid, or you ramble on annoyingly, or insert x. Think of all the hot women you would sleep with but you wouldn't want a relationship with, or hell even want to be around for more than 10 minutes lol If you can get ahold of any of your past hookups maybe just ask why they wheren't interested in a relationship. Their answers might be bullshit, but if any actually talk about your personality those are probably the truth.
/r/askTRP08/05/19 09:39 PM
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Oof..that first list hurt me. Some stuff on there about my soon to be ex-wife. Three of the items listed are exactly things we fought about constantly and/or reasons we are ending.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/19 05:43 PM
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Lmao..that's awesome.
/r/seduction30/04/19 09:40 PM
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I mean if the teacher hands you a test and you refuse to take it, you're still going to fail with a 0.
/r/seduction29/04/19 02:10 AM
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Well then use the abundance mentality? If all you really want is a lay then any old decent girl will do of which there is plenty. You wouldn't care what cigarette you pulled from the pack would you? If this one is no good just grab the next or the next. Maybe you aren't qaulifying so hard, but at the very least you're being outcome independent. Who cares if this one says no. The next girl is just as good.
/r/seduction28/04/19 05:50 PM
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Only from other women. Guys love it.
/r/seduction28/04/19 03:04 PM
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Yeah send it to me. I'll be honest. Let you know if you're really fucked in my opinion or if it's just all in your head. Also, ok even let's say you're somehow the most hideous individual alive. Plenty of attractive women go after men they aren't attracted to just for their money or because they like their personality. Looks truly are not the be all end all. They just help.
/r/seduction24/04/19 04:52 PM
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Jesus man post a picture? (Or pm me one?) I want to see if you really are fucked or if you just have an overly negative viewpoint of yourself. My fat friend was like Jabba the Hut fat and disgusting and he still did it. Like you'd have to be disfigured to beat him. I mean maybe you are in that low of a range, but I doubt it. And shit even disfigured people can land good looking wives, so I don't even feel like that's an excuse. Just means you may have to work harder at it.
/r/seduction24/04/19 04:15 PM
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I mean those where just examples. Like I also gave the example or the clean shaven sharp dressed business guy. Some women prefer that look. And then there's tons of other looks you can go for. Try to find what you like and own it. I mean like a ton of things with women if you ask them straight up you're not going to get the "real" answer. If you ask they're going to assess just your physical body, height, and face. And since they rate 80% of men below average on surveys it won't even be accurate…
/r/seduction24/04/19 01:47 PM
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Women aren't like men. How attractive you are visually to them has a lot more to do with physical frame (good posture/lifting/being in shape) and style (clothing/tats/general accessories you add to your body/hair grooming) than it does for men. Some girls like a tatted bearded rugged man, others want a crisp business suited city guy, and all the stuff in between. Get in shape. Put some thought into a cohesive style that you're comfortable in, but also makes you stand out from the generic t-shirt…
/r/seduction24/04/19 11:54 AM
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