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| 3 | Being a "good guy" will not get you laid. As a man you need to have an edge because"morality" means nothingYou didn’t answer my question. Life isn’t all about getting laid. It’s also not all about recognition either. Establishing a moral compass and doing your best to follow it is something to be commended for. Living a virtuous life isn’t sexy, it might not provide tangible benefits but you do it because it might just change someone’s life. That ugly person you pass on the street, give them a smile, they might just be walking home planning to commit suicide. Our society puts an emphasis on sex and b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/20 03:51 PM |
| 3 | Why do men only accept that "Men are pigs/shit" when they have a daughter?People are hypocritical and base their opinions on their current state of affairs. Lonely incel, “men aren’t so bad they get a bad rap.” New father, “all men are predators.” This isn’t unique to men or this situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/20 02:28 PM |
| 0 | Being a "good guy" will not get you laid. As a man you need to have an edge because"morality" means nothingExplain to me how morality means nothing? Putting dating and getting laid in front of morals is short sighted and selfish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/20 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Are there really "leagues", and if so, why should you still not try and go for it?Is this actually a question lol of course there are leagues. For both men and women things like attractiveness, wealth, social standing, your socioeconomic background etc determine what league you are in to varying degrees. For women attractiveness is the predominant factor in determining your league. For men it’s a lot more varied and you really have to be good at it all to succeed. Why should people stick to their leagues? If people want to try and shoot out of their league all the more power … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/20 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Why do women complain about getting sexually objectified by men, when in 2020 it's women who sexually objectify themselves?They want their cake and they want to eat it too. They want attention and they also want to be victims. Just understand that this is how it goes and don’t let it bother you. There’s nothing you can do about it so no point in worrying about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/20 10:14 PM |
| 2 | Young adults complaining about the current dating scene (or anyone complaining about any dating scene) have only two actual solutions: (1) offer more, or (2) demand lessAgreed. Spinning plates and having women on rotation is going to be desirable for all men. This is the height of success according to trp and I’m not going to argue that there is any better situation than this. It is incredibly challenging and time consuming to achieve this though which is why a good supplement is to just live your life and have no expectations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/20 09:50 PM |
| 5 | If an unattractive (not fat) woman approached you or signaled interest, what would you think and how would you react?If a women makes the first move like for instance approaches me at a bar it doesn’t necessarily mean I will want to have sex with her or date her. If I don’t find her attractive I probably will not want to date her or sleep with her. When a women approaches though no matter her level of attractiveness you know what it does? It makes me respect her. Women are told or think that they shouldn’t make the first move. Is it to avoid potentially dangerous situations or because they don’t want to look l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/20 09:36 PM |
| 1 | TRP is the crazy idea that average men have the right to amorally pursue their self interest to the fullest extent of the law, in the same way that women and powerful men already do...the latter are just better at deluding themselves into thinking their selfish actions are moralAnd that’s totally fine. Again, I have no problem with embracing that attitude. My issue with trp is more so a philosophical one I think. I think it puts too much emphasis on getting laid. And that’s sort of the point of it so in terms of strategy and becoming more successful with women I thinks it’s fool proof. However, I would rather live my life based on logic than succumbing to my inherent natural desires. I’m obviously biased but I feel I’m fairly attractive, a decent person, have my life t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/20 03:28 PM |
| 5 | Young adults complaining about the current dating scene (or anyone complaining about any dating scene) have only two actual solutions: (1) offer more, or (2) demand lessDemand less, great advice. How many people do you think are actually happy? People that are alone want to be in relationships. Even people that have sworn off the other sex or are “happy to be alone” long for companionship and intimacy. Most people in relationships don’t like the person they’re with that much. People in new relationships are happy for now but it probably won’t last much longer. Very few long lasting happy relationships exist. Demand less, have no expectations that way you can ne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/20 02:22 AM |
| 3 | TRP is the crazy idea that average men have the right to amorally pursue their self interest to the fullest extent of the law, in the same way that women and powerful men already do...the latter are just better at deluding themselves into thinking their selfish actions are moralUmm I think I understand your point. Forget the be myself part then. If women are only attracted to a certain type that correlates with embracing the trp strategy then I’m just not interested. I don’t believe this either. I think majority of women fall into this category but not all of them do. There are some unicorns out there. Will I ever find one? idk but I’m not interested in the female hive mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/20 01:57 AM |
| 9 | TRP is the crazy idea that average men have the right to amorally pursue their self interest to the fullest extent of the law, in the same way that women and powerful men already do...the latter are just better at deluding themselves into thinking their selfish actions are moralI have no problem with TRP whatsoever. A lot of the stuff isn’t even all that amoral (improving yourself). However some of the stuff I have a hard time with. I have no problem if other men want to lie and deceive to get laid but I’m not going to. If I can’t attract women by being open and honest (being myself) then they aren’t fucking worth it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/20 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Your personal perception on the decrease, or increase, in intimacy among the younger generation A.K.A. How often do you think people are getting laid?My guess would be that people are having less sex now than prior generations. There’s less face to face interaction with people period. Women have their pick of who they want through old and a large portion of the male population is shut out. Society will continue to have less and less sex moving forward. The population of sexless males currently is sky high and it’s just going to continue to climb. I can’t imagine Covid is helping either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/20 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Why is higher N count more common on average to below average women?I don’t know if your observation is correct. I find it hard to trust any n count as people tend to lie. Having said that assuming what you are saying is actually correct: Maybe the really attractive ones don’t have to prove anything to themselves. The less attractive women are insecure about there attractiveness so they rack up a high count to prove to themself that they are attractive and desirable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/20 10:40 PM |
| 10 | How Many Of You Would Ban Casual Sex if You Could?I think the idea of casual sex is appealing to most men and is in line with our nature. The problem is it’s so difficult for most men to have casual sex on a regular basis. Not only do you have to be really attractive, you have to be social and have a lot of friends, and you also have to put yourself out there a lot and even still these men will face a lot of rejection. Most men do not have a combination of good looks, a big social circle, and the ability and willingness to chase casual sex enou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/20 10:27 AM |
| 2 | OLD would be a lot easier for young men, if older men would stay in their lane....I think the real problem with online dating is that women mainly just use it for validation. Generally, women get their rocks off from attention. Men join online dating to hopefully meet and get with women. Women use online dating to feed their egos which to them is infinitely better than having sex with a man. You might as well try and it probably depends where you live but 9.5 out of 10 guys will probably have virtually no success. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/20 10:14 PM |
| 2 | If being "nice" isn't getting you what you think it should ..like, just stop being nice (to the fullest lawful extent). If "x" isn't getting you what you think it should, just stop doing "x".Cool I agree. I think you said it perfectly when you brought up being authentic. Sort of like be you, be true to yourself. If you get laid on top of it it’s just icing on the cake. You have to be able to live with yourself and like who you are and what you represent. Nice talking/debating with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/20 09:00 PM |
| 2 | If being "nice" isn't getting you what you think it should ..like, just stop being nice (to the fullest lawful extent). If "x" isn't getting you what you think it should, just stop doing "x".So you’re saying being nice or not being nice has no impact? I agree if people think that’s what’s holding them back they’ll soon realize that being a terrible person won’t get them laid either. I think I’m following you now and I somewhat agree. Men always want to say oh if I was taller or better looking or a bad boy I’d be successful. To me this is a cop out. I’m unsuccessful with women and I really don’t know why but it is what it is I’ve accepted it. Thing is I’m going to continue to be myse… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/20 06:30 PM |
| 1 | If being "nice" isn't getting you what you think it should ..like, just stop being nice (to the fullest lawful extent). If "x" isn't getting you what you think it should, just stop doing "x".Do your thing, I’d rather be alone and labeled a loser than lose my values. Never said being nice will get you laid. If I have to be a bad person to attract women I’ll stay single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/20 05:54 PM |
| 1 | If being "nice" isn't getting you what you think it should ..like, just stop being nice (to the fullest lawful extent). If "x" isn't getting you what you think it should, just stop doing "x".Forrealz playa let me stop being a decent person so I can get pussy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/20 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Romantic Love is a Male PrivilegeI mean I think that’s true. I think women mostly feel meh about men. But back in the day most of them needed to pair up because they didn’t have the economic options available to men. It’s more than just that though, with technology women have so many more options now then ever before. Women are naturally looking to find the best mate. What incentive do they have to choose someone when everyday there’s 50 more new potentially better options a swipe away? It’s a depressing situation but you just … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/20 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Does getting a graduation gift for a coworker who rejected me over a year ago make me beta?How about a simple congratulations greeting card with a nice note? If she doesn’t want to date you after that her loss. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/20 11:08 PM |
| 3 | Romantic Love is a Male PrivilegeI agree, as women make up a larger share of the workforce they need men less and less. Women’s sex drive is so much less than men. Most women nowadays support themselves and they’re just not that motivated when it comes to men. That’s why so many young men can’t get laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/20 10:50 PM |
| 3 | If a woman's value decreases with age and n count, how is hypergamy possible.My comment is obviously a generalization. Clearly some men really care about n count. They’re are enough that don’t though that women can continue to date up. Also I’m talking about society as a whole you’re bringing up prostitutes and pornstars, those are extreme examples and a small portion of the population. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/20 10:21 AM |
| 2 | If a woman's value decreases with age and n count, how is hypergamy possible.I understand that but that women can go on old and have plenty of options to choose from who have no idea. That’s more the point I was trying to make. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/20 10:11 AM |
| 106 | If a woman's value decreases with age and n count, how is hypergamy possible.They don’t wait until they are over the hill to move on to something better. No one really knows or gives a shit about n count if a woman is attractive enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/20 01:35 AM |
| 3 | It’s not that hard to be attractiveIt’s not that hard to be attractive, I agree. “As long as you are well groomed,with a decent body and pleasant facial features, most women would be happy to give you a chance.” Not even close lol. Being attractive will get you into consideration. That’s the first hurdle, you have to clear that. That’s only about half the battle though, maybe less. Women have so many options that just being good looking is not going to cut it. So while being attractive isn’t all that difficult it really doesn’t m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/20 11:10 PM |
| 108 | The "post wall cc rider" still has a better life than the sexless betaWomen have it easier/better when it comes to dating...no shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/20 03:07 AM |
| 2 | Average men's apparent value is also bound to their relationship statusI agree with almost everything you said. #1 a mans value in society is determined by his ability to attract women. Women, men, your parents, your co-workers, your friends, strangers on the street judge you by this first and foremost. Its similar to how women are judged by looks but not apples to apples because society backs up ugly/overweight women and tells them that they are okay the way they are. This doesn’t happen to men who can’t get women. They will always be the butt of every joke. I’m n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/20 11:38 PM |
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